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your ego is your best friend, actually

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  • āđ€āļœāļĒāđāļžāļĢāđˆāđ€āļĄāļ·āđˆāļ­ 17 āļŠ.āļ„. 2024
  • dear friends, here is a video about your ego! I hope this helps as having this realization and taking this approach helped me much more than trying to 'overcome' or 'transcend' my very natural ego.
    thank you for listening, as always 💖

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  • @JohnSmith-ui9yu
    @JohnSmith-ui9yu āļŦāļĨāļēāļĒāđ€āļ”āļ·āļ­āļ™āļāđˆāļ­āļ™ +6

    One thing I learned from Simon Sinek, is as long as you don't step on other people's feet/don't prevent other people from chasing after their goals then it's okay to be "selfish". I have been referring to it lately as advocating for yourself. Because really, who else is going to stand with you if not yourself? The shaming of being selfish is really damaging. Good video! Idk if I agree with the definition of ego but I get the idea and yeah, we should befriend these parts of ourselves!

  • @mudchat4486
    @mudchat4486 āļŦāļĨāļēāļĒāđ€āļ”āļ·āļ­āļ™āļāđˆāļ­āļ™

    Great subject!! Being Self-FULL instead of self-less - helps us help others even MORE -> from authenticity. Our ego is SO important and it changes over time, even can die and be reborn! Love your story - Glad i found your channel. Many people will relate. Being self-less almost killed me. Now I advocate for CGJ & just education about the WHOLE of the self. Know Thyself. LOVE thyself fully & miracles happen for others just as much as the 'you'. xx

  • @ryleycarroll7184
    @ryleycarroll7184 āļŦāļĨāļēāļĒāđ€āļ”āļ·āļ­āļ™āļāđˆāļ­āļ™ +1

    very good video, a strong angle.

  • @julezthealien2467
    @julezthealien2467 āļŦāļĨāļēāļĒāđ€āļ”āļ·āļ­āļ™āļāđˆāļ­āļ™

    Ive learned to really truly love and appreciate my ego in a way i never knew possible. The level of compassion ive cultivated for myself has been what has allowed to embrace all my shadows, invite them all to the tea party. I have witnessed a few aspects of my ego either totally dissolve or integrate. But I am grateful for the friendship i have made with my own being. How i treat myself is the standard for how i am treated by others. I have lost many friends due to this. But i wouldnt have it any other way. I take things less personally, also less reactive and able to view things with a lot more openness, curiosity and neutrality. Befriending your shadows is a big part of the work of befriending the ego. I know that there is a lot of teachings and information in the spiritual world about annihilating the ego. How terriyfing the language! When you build trust and care towards your ego, there is more of a willingness to let go. But trying to force anything in my experience will not get you very far. Like you said, it will show up in other ways.

  • @burhanreshi9555
    @burhanreshi9555 āļŦāļĨāļēāļĒāđ€āļ”āļ·āļ­āļ™āļāđˆāļ­āļ™ +3

    Wow. Out of nowhere TH-cam suggests me this video and what a gem!! You gained a subscriber.
    Can’t wait to watch this channel grow huge in no time.

    • @SahelSarai
      @SahelSarai  āļŦāļĨāļēāļĒāđ€āļ”āļ·āļ­āļ™āļāđˆāļ­āļ™ +1

      @@burhanreshi9555 wow thank you so much for your kind words!!! I really appreciate it and I’m glad you enjoyed the video!

  • @burhanreshi9555
    @burhanreshi9555 āļŦāļĨāļēāļĒāđ€āļ”āļ·āļ­āļ™āļāđˆāļ­āļ™ +1

    I really hope this video reaches more people. 🙌ðŸŧ

  • @claytonclaymagic
    @claytonclaymagic āļŦāļĨāļēāļĒāđ€āļ”āļ·āļ­āļ™āļāđˆāļ­āļ™ +1

    oh snap a video a day, what a treat indeed, loved the vid

  • @ethanberger3413
    @ethanberger3413 āļŦāļĨāļēāļĒāđ€āļ”āļ·āļ­āļ™āļāđˆāļ­āļ™ +1

    You gained ur 960th subscriber! Great vidâĪ

  • @gandankthegreen9369
    @gandankthegreen9369 āļŦāļĨāļēāļĒāđ€āļ”āļ·āļ­āļ™āļāđˆāļ­āļ™

    When I think I’m closer to being done with shadow work my mental health reminds me that’s just not the case. Sometimes all this shadow work and stuff just seems useless. I can let go and accept as much as I want but I’m still not wanting to be in this plane of existence anymore

    • @SahelSarai
      @SahelSarai  āļŦāļĨāļēāļĒāđ€āļ”āļ·āļ­āļ™āļāđˆāļ­āļ™ +1

      @@gandankthegreen9369 Hello there! I’m so sorry you’re feeling this way. Would you like to expand on this and allow myself and others to empathize and maybe even share some sentiments that may help?

    • @gandankthegreen9369
      @gandankthegreen9369 āļŦāļĨāļēāļĒāđ€āļ”āļ·āļ­āļ™āļāđˆāļ­āļ™

      @@SahelSarai I actually would, but my anxiety level is high about it 😅😞

    • @SahelSarai
      @SahelSarai  āļŦāļĨāļēāļĒāđ€āļ”āļ·āļ­āļ™āļāđˆāļ­āļ™ +1

      @@gandankthegreen9369 that’s all good my friend! Feel free to pm me if you need to. Having friends and connections is honestly so important when dealing with mental health, it’s the only surefire way I’ve found to really get yourself upwards and onwards. Our society idealizes hyper independence but we need each other. I’m sending you all my love and hoping for things to start looking up for you, truly

  • @manu85345
    @manu85345 āļŦāļĨāļēāļĒāđ€āļ”āļ·āļ­āļ™āļāđˆāļ­āļ™

    You really need to watch Revolver of Guy Ritchie

  • @evevevevo
    @evevevevo āļŦāļĨāļēāļĒāđ€āļ”āļ·āļ­āļ™āļāđˆāļ­āļ™

    Any tips on how to do shadow work? I am always analysing myself and I’m pretty sure I have a firm grip of the “darker” parts of my personalityâ€Ķ but I don’t really know how to take the awareness a step further. People talk about re-parenting and inner child work but sometimes I really struggle to get in touch with the emotions associated with particular “wounds” - any journalling tips? Or is it just simply awareness do you think?

    • @SahelSarai
      @SahelSarai  āļŦāļĨāļēāļĒāđ€āļ”āļ·āļ­āļ™āļāđˆāļ­āļ™ +1

      @@evevevevo oh my gosh! Thank you so much for this video idea. It’s wonderful and I will do it within the week

    • @evevevevo
      @evevevevo āļŦāļĨāļēāļĒāđ€āļ”āļ·āļ­āļ™āļāđˆāļ­āļ™

      @@SahelSarai yay!!! I was hoping you’d say that. Look forward to it and all your other videos âœĻ

  • @noodlesbowl8384
    @noodlesbowl8384 āļŦāļĨāļēāļĒāđ€āļ”āļ·āļ­āļ™āļāđˆāļ­āļ™ +1

    great topic, nicely done, honed video
    ihave a few questions
    -how does the season system work why would be different than the other hemisphere
    -if someone is tangled/stuck with childhood trauma/experiences then how can he identify as good
    like why are you good maybe u have been shamed of being evil therfore ur true nature is pure evil suppressed with shame of being socially an outcast

    • @SahelSarai
      @SahelSarai  āļŦāļĨāļēāļĒāđ€āļ”āļ·āļ­āļ™āļāđˆāļ­āļ™

      @@noodlesbowl8384 hello!!!!
      1. Earths tilted on an axis so the hemisphere tilted towards the sun gets summer!!
      2. Identifying as good just means disowning the “unpleasant” and judging it in other peopleâ€Ķ in reality there really is no good or bad, the true nature of reality can hold duality so identifying with either good or bad isn’t the truth of the self... at least that’s what I’ve learned so far. Does that make sense?

    • @ryleycarroll7184
      @ryleycarroll7184 āļŦāļĨāļēāļĒāđ€āļ”āļ·āļ­āļ™āļāđˆāļ­āļ™

      @@SahelSarai "the true nature of reality can hold duality" sounds like Eminem

    • @SahelSarai
      @SahelSarai  āļŦāļĨāļēāļĒāđ€āļ”āļ·āļ­āļ™āļāđˆāļ­āļ™

      @@ryleycarroll7184 hahahaha ðŸĪĢ should I abandon my TH-cam career to be the next slim shady?