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Take Care Of Yourself
Yesterday I learned a salutary lesson about taking care of yourself. Here I share it in the hope that it's a reminder for you to do the same.
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Who is The Sandscratcher?
My mission is simple: To share stories and life lessons, offer advice & encouragement, plus share my love of music & TV....oh yeah, and anything else I find of interest!
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You won't find my thoughts on politics, religion and such, as I've always believed them personal.
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  • @christinehoytaylor3026
    @christinehoytaylor3026 31 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

    Two things..did they take your blood pressure, as you’re no longer on meds? It’d be interesting to see how you’re doing. The more medication they gave you, the worse your condition has become. The meds may well have caused a clot, if you have one. Presumably before your check up and change of meds for blood pressure, you didn’t have any problems with your legs swelling. Think about that if it’s the case. Also, if it was so vital to stabilise your blood pressure..a) why were your original tablets not controlling it and b).. are any meds controlling it now if it’s so vital? I’m constantly shocked by the massively high number of older people ( my age 70) who are told they need blood pressure tablets..but when I ask if their blood pressure has ever gone to normal whilst taking them..none of them know. Secondly..look into carnivore or keto diet. Read the comments section and note the number of elderly people coming off all meds. It’s astounding. I eat carnivore with no more than 40 carbs per day and am on no meds at all. Maybe start off with listening to someone like Dr Ken Berry. Worth a try. Side note. My partner has had bowel and lung cancer ( separate primaries) for 2.5 years. Both slow growing. Decided no op or any treatment ( due to severe essential tremor) but fasts for 18 hours a day. In December he was told to the astonishment of his oncologist and the whole team, that his lung cancer has shrunk by half and bowel cancer is slightly smaller. We saw the scans for ourselves. Wonderful moment. We did research before deciding on this eating course and we became convinced by the science that cancer is a metabolic disease. If it’s not fed glucose, it can’t thrive. They are astonished and finally asked what and when he ate and fasted etc. Let food be thy healer. Wishing you good health and a good outcome to your present health issues.

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 13 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for your comment. My BP was checked it it's still bit high. It was a change of.meds that started this. I've already stated.this to the doctor. Funnily enough I've been intrigued by carnivore. My neice swears by it. The comment has been enlightening. Thank you Christine.

  • @paulyflyer8154
    @paulyflyer8154 34 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

    First rule of keeping healthy is not to take medication. It's all about diet.

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 11 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

      I've found that since I had my kidney removed 8 years ago, I've been more susceptible to other ailments. I'm sick of taking medication though. Thanks for your comment.

  • @PeterTebby
    @PeterTebby ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I recommend eating the Japanese food Natto, it will dissolve any clots and will lower blood pressure.

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 10 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

      I've not heard of that. I'll have a look into it Peter. Thank you for your comment.

  • @jameschavez6400
    @jameschavez6400 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    didn’t they put you on a pill to increase urin so you have less fluid in your system and could make you keep your ankle elevated above heart level so you don’t keep pooling blood to your lower extremities?❤️

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I'm expecting that tomorrow when I see the doctor. I've spent the last two days since in the scan in that position.thanks for your comment James.

  • @simplydad2015
    @simplydad2015 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Hope you are well. For me personally I would say avoid modern medicine like the plague. Never over eat Always stay active Dont eat processed food Build muscle Dont drink Walk regularly Get outside I have had zero health problems my entire life following these principles. At 44 I have never once been to a Doctor in 30 years I am not even registered anymore I have seen the devastating effects of the healthcare industry. One drug leads to another to another to another. All to treat problems caused by a diet and lifestyle we are not supposed to live

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 2 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I do some of the above, but not all. I have become more susceptible to different things since i had kidney cancer and lost a kidney in my 50s. Thanks for your comment. It's much appreciated.

  • @richardh8082
    @richardh8082 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    As a man in my 60s I really value your company and insights

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you Richard. Your support is much appreciated.

  • @brookemcgillivray180
    @brookemcgillivray180 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks for the good advice. I hope they resolve your health issue!

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks, Brooke. Hopefully, that'll start tomorrow when I see the doctor. Happy New Year to you.

  • @jasons2755
    @jasons2755 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Sorry to hear about this, James, and hope you are on the mend. Thank you for sharing - it encourages me to look after myself!

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Hi Jason, Thanks for commenting. I'm getting there. Back with the doctor tomorrow, so hopefully moving forward. I'm glad the video struck a chord with you.

  • @tonybreen.RetroTV
    @tonybreen.RetroTV 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Great video, Iam 58, on no medication luckily but you're absolutely right. we are only here for such a short time, dont leave things if you think something is not right.

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for your comment Tony. I'm back with the Doctor tomorrow but for now, I'm sat with my feet up hoping it will help with the swelling.

  • @stephenvowles8979
    @stephenvowles8979 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I wish you well James, I hope you feel better soon, 👍

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 11 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks Steve. Happy NewYear.

  • @phillipgriffiths9624
    @phillipgriffiths9624 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Best way to health is to cut out the carbs, eat high fat foods and eat once a day. Also, be sure to take a vitamin D supplement. The third biggest killer is prescription meds.

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      We're working on our diet. We also take vitamin D every day. Thanks for your comment.

  • @KnowtoChannel
    @KnowtoChannel 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Hello, How are you? I am a regular viewer of your TH-cam channel. I came here to say that- Your content is always engaging and incredibly well-presented!" Good luck to you.

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you. That's very kind of you to say so and much appreciated

  • @tiahill832
    @tiahill832 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Sure hope they find out what is causing it all. Prayers 🙏🙏❤

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you Tia, I'm sure they will.

  • @tadool5352
    @tadool5352 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I’m glad you’re getting things checked and sorted James, wishing you all the best my friend. Feel better soon we need you.🙂👍❤️

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you Tammy. Your support is much appreciated

  • @Arrozconchopsticks
    @Arrozconchopsticks 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    If possible id rather gave a Blu-ray/4k disc, but uf bot available I'll happily get the DVD. They don't look/sound bad on my setup for certain releases. They are also cheap.

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      That's how I find them as well. Thanks for commenting.

  • @AngelaDavis-yz3xf
    @AngelaDavis-yz3xf วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sorry to hear James, praying it all gets sorted and you'll be back to your old self 🙏 Thanks for the reminder to have our yearly physicals 🤗

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks Angela, I'm sure it will get sorted, hopefully soon. Much appreciated.

  • @PamHaynes-oo3ck
    @PamHaynes-oo3ck วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi James, I am praying for you. Nothing is impossible for our God. Keep us posted we care about you.

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you, Pam. Much appreciated. Will do.

  • @eBoard3R
    @eBoard3R วันที่ผ่านมา

    🥲😪 *Scary, and frustratin*

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT วันที่ผ่านมา

      You're right about scary...if it carries on much longer it'll be frustrating. Thanks for commenting.

  • @vinyldale
    @vinyldale วันที่ผ่านมา

    I know you said about seeing a doctor, I get your message but you say you saw the doctor who said you had high blood pressure then came back with a reaction to the medication? It doesn't really reassure anyone to see the doctor lol however I wish you speedy recovery James

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT วันที่ผ่านมา

      My problem, Dale, is that having only one kidney, I am more susceptible to problems. They'll get it right, it'll just take a bit of time. I've probably made the situation worse as my wife told.me I should have gone back earlier, and she's usually right. Happy New Year to you!

    • @vinyldale
      @vinyldale วันที่ผ่านมา

      @JamesMurphyYT ah, that makes a lot of sense now, my partner too has one kidney, let's hope they sort it for soon enough, happy new year to you

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@vinyldale Thanks Dale

  • @KevinCrossArt
    @KevinCrossArt วันที่ผ่านมา

    James, I’m glad you’re getting everything taken care of! I’m wishing you the absolute best, and a long life!!!

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks Kevin. I'm sure they'll get it sorted over the next week or so. Much appreciated!

  • @ambreewilliams6585
    @ambreewilliams6585 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Oh James...I'm so sorry to hear this...did your Dr give you any diuretics to get the fluid buildup down? My Ex has heart issues and his legs and mid-section swell up with fluid from time to time. His Dr prescribed him strong diuretics and potassium pills to balance sodium in his system. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 for you and Ms Debz

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT วันที่ผ่านมา

      Not yet, but I'm back there to see the Doctor on Thursday, so I'm sure they'll get it back on an even keel. Thanks Ambree. Hope you're well. Happy New Year to ya!

  • @jonathanbrewer7072
    @jonathanbrewer7072 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks for sharing, James.

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT วันที่ผ่านมา

      You're welcome Jonathan

  • @prefeitobear9209
    @prefeitobear9209 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Praying for a quick discovery and recovery.

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you Christano. Much appreciated.

  • @khill6510
    @khill6510 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Prayers for a complete resolution to this issue James. 🙏

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you Kaye. Much appreciated.

  • @CoffeeWalksandWhatever
    @CoffeeWalksandWhatever วันที่ผ่านมา

    So sorry to hear this James! Hope they get things figured out quickly. We wondered what you’ve been up too. 😕 From what you said, it seems to me it was the medication prescribed by your doctor that caused the swelling in the first place. We just recently got a new doctor since we moved and had some bloodwork as well. We’ll be talking soon about some changes we’re making for better health. ~ Deb

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks Deb. I think this is to do with the medication that had been prescribed. I think I didn't suited me.

  • @PaulGibbons13
    @PaulGibbons13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi James hope everything is all ok take care of yourself.

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@PaulGibbons13 it will be once the professional get their act together! Thanks for asking Paul

  • @janetroberts7073
    @janetroberts7073 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So sorry to hear this Glad you are on it and hope things improve soon. Thanks for the nudge-i am one of those who avoids Dr visits

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT วันที่ผ่านมา

      I seem to spend half my time around doctors since I had kidney cancer. That's gone fortunately, but I seem to get loads more niggles since. Thanks for commenting Janet.

  • @fac51nh
    @fac51nh วันที่ผ่านมา

    I hope everything is fine

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you. Hopefully we'll get it sorted over the next week.

  • @TheNewRetiredMe
    @TheNewRetiredMe วันที่ผ่านมา

    What a scary story! I'm glad you are taking care of yourself. We need you around!!

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks Tim. I've got to keep legs raised as much as I can to stop the fluid moving up my body for the moment, until the next stage is sorted. Thanks for commenting.

  • @tippedjungle
    @tippedjungle 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Buying dvds and paying to stream... jesus! Ive been torrenting for 15 years.. saved thousands!

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I quite like having the physical media...and I'm a bit dim about torrenting. Thanks for watching.

    • @tippedjungle
      @tippedjungle 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @JamesMurphyYT but your just keeping these actor a55holes rich. Don't give your money to hollywood!

  • @mrlee924
    @mrlee924 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I was watching 'overboard' Kurt & Goldie movie on ITVX. They cut scenes out 🤦🏻‍♂️. I couldn't believe it, what a joke!

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The film was too good to cut anything out. It disrupts the whole story. Thanks for your comment.

  • @exploringplaceshistoryantiques
    @exploringplaceshistoryantiques 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Words of wisdom that relate to all of us! I listened to a short Audio book last night by author James Allen from Leicester, England called As a Man Thinketh written in 1903. If you search the history of his parents and his story it is amazing what he overcame! I will say it again but the book you suggested recently “What to Say When You Talk to Yourself” has tied right into this video! James keep up the great content and keep on encouraging your followers! It is a breath of fresh air!

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you for your comment. I have the book As A Man Thinketh in my collection. I think I bought it in a collection some years ago. Our thinking is what decides where we'll end up negatively or positively. Thank you for your support. It's much appreciated. Happy New Year to you.

  • @missjoshemmett
    @missjoshemmett 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I've had to a couple of times but I am terribly bad at speaking in front of a large group. Memorials are the worst. (Ok, a few years ago, I got a signal from a funeral director and got up and went to the minister, who had never met Jake, and told him in front of everyone that there are other funerals waiting and he had been going on for ages about nothing to do with anything. He was just talking to hear himself talk. Before we were all thrown out for going overtime perhaps people who knew him should talk. Actually, everyone but one (it was his personal minister) thanked me later. I then pushed him, politely, aside and told a quick 'Jake and me' story and asked his other son to come up. I still get queasy thinking about it.) If I have to talk, I pick one subject and give a fast talk and hope people smile or even laugh, even at memorials. As a person who knows a little about everything and a lot about nothing, I am great in small groups. I'm not an imposter looking to try and belong. You can look up whatever I add online. I don't fake it trying to belong. And I ignore people who tell me that if I like 'whatever,' there are great books on the subject that they have studied. I left studying back in school. I like to contribute something and listen to everyone else. That is how I get along. Just talk about your experiences, as you have been, that you feel will relate to people watching and let them say, "Oh. I get that! And his way seems a bit better/wrong/on-the-nose. That is how we let people know we are there, but don't try to better them. I have never felt you are an imposter and making up stuff. I do hope your sons watch these again years from now and think how smart and clever you were but never a multi-millionaire! Happy New Year.

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hi Josh - thanks for your comment. I've spoken in front of big audiences before and funnily enough, I didn't find it daunting. That's probablly because we had to do 'debating' at school and I got used to it early. I'm a great believer in continuing education and have been a reader for years as I like reading non-fiction and expanding my knowledge base. It doesn't stop me feeling like an Imposter at times. I'm very much a jack of all trades and a master of none. I have a wide range of skills, butI've never been an expert at any of them. One thing I've never done with my channel is make things up as it wouldn't come across as true. I tell my life stories whether good or bad in the hope that they help someone and if that's the case, I'm happy. Even now though, I still have memonts of self-doubt when I need to get out of my comfort zone to move on.

  • @janetroberts7073
    @janetroberts7073 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wisdom is not in a degree but in life experiences. Thanks for sharing this encouragement .good start to the New year. May yours bring you all you desire.

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks, Janet. That's kind of you to say so. I'm glad the video was of value to you.

  • @Anon-vx7kr
    @Anon-vx7kr 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Oh James. You and I must be within a couple of months of the same age. You have definitely been paying attention along the way. I appreciate your thoughts and perspective. I value what you've learned. It seems to me that I keep forgetting things I've learned. We've got to keep reminding ourselves and each other of these bits of wisdom.

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm July 1960. As I've gotten older, I feel as though it's a duty to share the experiences with my sons and others so that they don't have the mistakes I have during my life. Thanks for your support. I'm very grateful.

  • @tadool5352
    @tadool5352 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Happy New Year James, this was another great subject.🎉

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks Tammy. Happy New Year to you too. I'm glad the video had value for you.

  • @prefeitobear9209
    @prefeitobear9209 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Good topic. I sometimes have the feeling that I can't find anything better than what I am already doing, which sometimes causes anxiety😅 like it will be a downhill from now on.

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks Christiano. I'm glad you found the video of value. There's always something better, sometimes you just have to look off the beaten track.

  • @AngelaDavis-yz3xf
    @AngelaDavis-yz3xf 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Happy New Year James 🎉

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you Angela. The same to you too.

  • @eBoard3R
    @eBoard3R 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    *Amazin advice and perspective!!* We can put so much pressure on ourself to be perfect, the perfect we think people see, fearin lettin them down, or disappointin them. 🤙🏽⚡️🤟🏽⚡️👌🏽 Havin an "Express rather than Impress" mentality has helped me for years but the stuff in this video is just as important, if not, more important 👏🏽👏🏽

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you. I'm glad you found the video of value. Thanks for your comments. Much appreciated.

  • @PamHaynes-oo3ck
    @PamHaynes-oo3ck 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi James, I love your channel because you are who we see. You are helping so many. 🥳🤗

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you Pam. I'm glad you find value in the videos.

  • @PaulGibbons13
    @PaulGibbons13 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi great video hope you had a great Christmas and a Happy New Year to you 😀

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks Paul. I've had a busy Christmas/New Year, but a good one. Glad you got something from the video

  • @CoffeeWalksandWhatever
    @CoffeeWalksandWhatever 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Happy new year James! ☕️🇨🇦☕️

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      And to you both!

  • @MrsCoffeeWalks
    @MrsCoffeeWalks 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I just have to say James, you seem so comfortable talking to the camera. I’m sure picturing your sons helps, but I’m impressed. I have no problem just chatting when it’s me and OJ, but on my own, my mind goes blank! 😃 Something I need to work on this year! I guess I need that confidence that what I have to say has value.

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks Deb. It's much appreciated, especially having lost 20 subscribers over the Christmas period. I'm always working on improving the quality but sometimes it's hard to see that it's working. But that's part of the journey.

    • @MrsCoffeeWalks
      @MrsCoffeeWalks 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ sorry to hear that James. We finally gained some! For months it’s been a trickle, but our year end video has brought a lot of new subs.

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @MrsCoffeeWalks that's great to hear!

  • @jonathanbrewer7072
    @jonathanbrewer7072 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you, James.

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You're welcome Jonathan!

  • @khill6510
    @khill6510 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    In many cultures, the elders are respected and revered for just the reasons you expressed. They've lived and learned and have valuable things to say (unless life has made them bitter.) On the other hand, kids have wonderful insight if we take the time to understand what they are trying to say. They are not hung up on whether they are qualified, they just say it. It's really quite wonderful.

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for the comment Kaye. It's true that younger generations see things in different ways. My problem growing up was that I never took the time to understand what was being said, so I always felt I knew it all. It took me ages to learn that. Listening is a skill that we all need to learn better. Happy New Year to you.

  • @Foebane72
    @Foebane72 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Is this guy for real? He's paying for all of these streaming services AT THE SAME TIME! Just pay for ONE at a time and just take turns with them, limit your favourite movies and TV shows for that one service you're on at the time! It's very simple, really.

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Sadly, I was for real. That's why I called it a day. unfortunately I've never been perfect and I've learned lessons the hard way. Thanks for watching.

  • @Foebane72
    @Foebane72 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sorry, mate, you've got TERRIBLE taste in movies and TV shows!

    • @JamesMurphyYT
      @JamesMurphyYT 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's a good job we've all got different tastes or we'd all be the same - Thanks for watching and commenting. Happy New Year