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Why wasnt this vid viral at the time

I love sweet tea!!!!❤

thanks for giving me permission i forget to give myself!!

For the first time this year I'm not going to celebrate Christmas with my toxic family. And I dont have any friends so it'll be just me

why (calling every little thing men do) toxic masculinity hurts men there ftfy

I spent Thanksgiving alone and it was the best. For once after a decade of dreading the holidays due to homophobic family, i was actually at peace. I played Street Fighter 6, drew with colored pencils in front of the Christmas tree, and ate tacos.

Emotionally abused me I hate me they treat me like I'm bad they always yell at me and they favor my siblings

Just letting you know that your videos are still helping people 🤍

There are a lot of people who are alone at Christmas, whether by intention or not. Some have such toxic families that spending a holiday there is like mental torture - an angry mother, toxic siblings, rivalry that never ended; maybe you were the butt of all your family jokes or the scapegoat or blacksheep; or your family has died, moved on, etc. Either way you can still decorate, get festive foods (bake shortbread cookies, get eggnog and hot chocolates) make a great meal, watch Christmas movies while you eat and drink and remember what the Holiday is About; the Birth of Christ.

I have been in a situationship for 2.5 years🙃

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Yes

As a girl i think situationship is beneficial for only man....not woman cz woman are Emotionally get attached!!

I'm here hit me up

I told my father to off himself. Then my half-sister who lied to me about being sexually abused in order to get out of his house had the audacity to tell me to off myself for what I did. Like, girly, who do you think you are? Someone that holds any weight in my life?

Yes, I would love to start over, but I also feel like I would end up with the same result 😂😂😂

I appreciate this. I am really depressed this year because I’m alone for the holidays.

Thank you for this. I’m 37 years old, and this will be my first thanksgiving alone by choice. ❤ I’m excited and nervous at the same time. Will come back here and let everyone know how it went 😊

Every year alone, no friends, or family (all passed). They (TV, News, Media, etc) hype it up so much, I really think it's to make single, lonely people feel worse. So for the two weeks before Thanksgiving and Christmas I don't even watch the news. Too depressing. Showing family gatherings, happy couples, etc. But thinking back..were my "Family gatherings really a "Happy time" for me. No..not really..not at all. It seemed they always wanted to one up me. I was the black sheep. I never felt I really belonged. I remember I couldn't wait to get back to my cats and being alone. I remember how hostile they were. I was "different" from them. They had children and were married or in relationships. I wasn't. Most of the time I remember calling old friends as I had moved from the State. But it was never the same. They say you really can't go "Home again ". Then there is the nightmare traveling on the roads and planes..bad weather, turbulence, cancelations, lost luggage..etc. I always said "Never again". I really don't think it's worth all the hype and stress. But I still feel alone around the Holidays sitting down to a wonderful TV dinner. I used to volunteer at soup kitchens, but no longer have a car. It's just lonely, empty and depressing. I often wonder how "Happy" these people who go away for the Holidays really are..

I’m not okay being alone I cry most of the day on and off. Very Depressing.

better title: I'm A Misandrist

Glad to see others saying this and hope everyone here enjoys the holidays however they choose. As someone who already feels introverted and having to stress about holidays and expectations with divorced parents, im really intrigued to try this out and see how it goes!

This. This right here. I love this explanation of the difference between kindness and niceness! And good on you for sticking up for yourself! 😁

I had a kid accuse me of being someone who trust nobody because I wear a black poncho or I just look edgy am assuming Wtf-

F them,sounds like my birthdays! I’m so much older though.

Tell me about it lol

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Recently in Australia there was an article by a feminist who said that a man who ran a marathon for a homeless charity was 'toxic masculinity'. So I'd probably dispute the fact that it doesn't refer to 'masculinity' itself.

Misandry will destroy everything. Feminism is the lynchpin to our society crumbling. When a women brags about sleeping with 800 men we have a problem.

I feel like a lot less men would be criminals if men weren't taught to suppress their emotions

Looking back at who I was one year and something ago is a difference. I've been through two jobs and one Erasmus mobility in Poland. I was emotionaly hurt, I've confronted toxic people, my moral was down a lot of times. Do I came out from it much stronger? - Yes Even though in Poland I've met the same psychological challenges like I am used to in Romania, I was glad to meet there people that were supporting and they've helped me to get more self-confidence in what I am doing, even though I will not get validation most of the times. In Poland I felt more fulfillment in my life despite the all challenges and hard moments. There I've felt more validated, I've had a more active social life and having more funcitional relationships with the people. Then I've realized that in Romania people are mostly seeking validation from the others and they will do everything to get it. Only showing how well they are doing and ignoring other things. When I've returned back to Romania, I've began to refuse more to do something or people. I feel that I've began to don't care to much about what others are saying or doing. I am looking more cold than before, but I'm trying to heal myself and I need some shielding. And I've began to think that I wasn't born in a society that I can belong to. I don't really have a social life or a stable group of friends and my dating life is non-existent. I am used to be single and alone anyway, so I am not desperate anymore and I also can refuse an invitation, even though I was ignored and uninvited to somewhere before by others.

Seems like womansplaining

You are litterally the only, and I mean ONLY person on TH-cam or anywhere in public society that actually has an intelligent brain. You are just like me in how we know the stereotypical ways for men to act is super outdated, that society REALLY needs to change their views on this craziness, start assuming people are people Regardless of our born sex. Plus trans people exist too. I’m fed up with the world and their lousy ideas on this stuff too. It’s 2024. It doesn’t matter how many people you screwed or been in relationships with.

Same goes for those who hate reparations for Foundational Black Americans and the Descendants of Freedmen... Especially when they teach groom condition involve men women and children to do so also as a status quo collective.

What people do to get attention….

The only thing that's hurting me are your eyes

I wish I could be alone for the holidays. Now that I’m married with kids, I feel so trapped in the never ending obligations to visit family and cater to everyone. I miss being single and wish I could be alone at least one holiday.

Not washing your ass is crazy 🤣

I haven’t seen the video but I need to vent. I feel as if my family is making me do things that they see as “masculine” even though I hate it. I hate suppressing my emotions.

During the beginning of the video I thought this was going to be mostly satire but it got realll serious quick 😂 thanks for the knowledge lol

I can feel you so much ❤the same happened with me… I am working hard to cure that trauma

These people can masquerade as a lot of things, and honestly, they would laugh at you while you’re being tortured. I say this about bullying during college and in adulthood. Mark my words, the rising conservative fascist movement in the United States will use social shame to enforce standards of ‘correct behavior’. It’s also common for these people to use Christianity as a means for justifying their behavior.

It's not true that bullying is never the Victim's fault. As a child of Russian immigrants, I was bullied for my heritage from grade 3 through grade 11, when Covid lockdowns began. If anything being Russian in the US taught me is that no matter what, it's always my responsability. Be it getting group work done or not getting harrassed at school. And if something bad happens it's my fault. That no one gives a shit that I was a month short of 14 when Trump was elected. It's still my fault. It does not matter that I am 12, it's okay to ask creepy questions about my virginity. And the person who told me the Nazis should have killed my family definitely didn't care that I was16 and that my grandparents were born in 1941. Besides, they said it to a filthy Russian orc, not a Jew. It's not as offensive and I am just sensitive. And when the war in Ukraine began, my governmdnt professor was right to say that people like me should be in concentration camps. It didn't matter that I was an architecture first year student who turned 19 less than 3 months earlier. And over the last few years, I came to realize that I deserved to be mistreated at school and by my professor. Because being Russian is an unforgivable sin. That I deserved to be punished for.

Painting nails is Ga,, (And you can be Ga,,) but every thing else I agree with ;) (most of the points you took up is jokes; jokes can be dark sometimes)

Like they are human?....I mean what else are they? Like it or not humans have the potential to be good and bad thats our essence. Many of those serial killer were shaped also by their past, and if feeling bad for a child being abused to the point that having such a twisted view on love or sex, being abandoned...or having to drink liters of alcohol to stop having disturbing fanatsies then the idk..and if someone tells me well that doesnt excuse, of course it doesnt each of those killers had to be punished for their gruesome shit yes, Im totally for that. And about Dahmer I do think the profit shouldve have used for the victims sake, like for a memorial, or at least given to their families...yet still the show did show many things that were interesting in their own way..like parents struggling in their marriage to the point of their child being neglected, how different people dealt with guilt, how homosexuality was a taboo, how fucking racist the society has been and most of all how the police didnt do their damn fucking job or harrassing the victim families!...Those who glorify Dahmer as some Freddy Krueger are delusional sadly.

A serious line has to be taken when a child is bullied. Schools say they are against bullying...but do nothing. What needs to happen is for the parents of the bully to be sued. Monetary punishment will most likely end the bullying.

I feel like we could have helped men with their issues a lot sooner if it didn't take feminists seeing them in a different light. I feel like feminists only care about men's problems when it impacts them. Even you, I think, which is why you had to point out that incel culture is dangerous. Dangerous to who? Women? Or the incels who want to kill themselves? A ton of feminists don't seem to care about men's loneliness or health struggles. Many would even admit that without shame. It's pretty sad.

I used to get bullied for 2 1/2 years and now, it’s not joke. It truly affects individuals, bullying isn’t a trend it’s not a fucking joke. I struggled everyday, it affects me greatly. I don’t understand why she thinks it’s okay.

As someone who was bullied all my school years, I literally can't normally function in society. In university I can't belong in group, I can't normally talk, can't have friends, because my nervousness look intimidating and because of bullying I become seriosly introverted, and can't trust people.

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