I won't lie I sometimes struggle with this problem to, I'm not sure of your familiar with this movie, but I wish I could be like Neo in that one scene where he's stopping bullets from Agent Smith, In The Matrix, I honestly think that scene can be a good representation of accepting yourself, and recovering from people pleasing.
The people feeling guilty should be the ones using the emotional blackmail to make you feel guilty.
I won't lie I sometimes struggle with this problem to, I'm not sure of your familiar with this movie, but I wish I could be like Neo in that one scene where he's stopping bullets from Agent Smith, In The Matrix, I honestly think that scene can be a good representation of accepting yourself, and recovering from people pleasing.
It is so freaking hard. I turned a no into a yes recently. 🤣
The struggle is REAL 😭