Transform Your Love Life With This Simple Shift with Matthew Hussey
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What's keeping you from the love you crave? The painful answer may be closer than you think - it's the way you treat yourself.
Despite coaching millions to find love, Matthew Hussey once battled an unrelenting inner critic that lacerated his self-worth at every turn. Even simple moments like his wife entering the bedroom would trigger fight-or-flight panic until he learned to be in control of his own happiness.
From his early days as a dating coach to his evolution into a more genuine and relatable figure, Matthew opens up about the challenges of maintaining an image and the freedom that comes with embracing your true self. He discusses the three levels of confidence and how accepting yourself at the deepest level allows your unique essence to shine through.
Matthew also delves into the complexities of dating, offering insights on setting standards, communicating effectively, and becoming a leader in your love life. He emphasizes the power of modeling the behavior you want to see in others and the importance of surrounding yourself with people who provide honest and compassionate feedback.
If you've ever struggled with self-acceptance, navigating the dating world, or finding the courage to be unapologetically yourself, this episode will inspire you to embrace your authentic self and create the love life you truly desire.
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In This Episode:
00:00 Intro
02:41 How Matthew helped Jen find real love
06:19 What people think self-love is
12:27 Redefining self-love: What it really means
13:55 Why should you love yourself?
19:30 Becoming your own caretaker
28:45 Setting standards in relationships
32:40 Breaking bad relationship patterns
42:37 How vulnerability and self-love help model new behaviors
48:45 Asking the scary questions without fear of abandonment
54:13 Mirroring vs modeling: how to create your own dating culture
59:43 The three levels of confidence and how to embody them all
About My Guest:
Matthew Hussey is a renowned dating expert, New York Times bestselling author, and speaker who has transformed millions of lives with his authentic, insightful, and practical advice on finding lasting love. Through his online programs, TH-cam channel, podcast, and now his groundbreaking book "Love Life," Matthew provides a proven approach that not only enables people to attract an amazing partner, but to feel confident, worthy, and in control of their happiness along the way.
IG: / thematthewhussey
Website: matthewhussey.com/llc/
Love Life book: matthewhussey.com/llbook-launch/
Where to find me:
IG: / jen_gottlieb
TikTok: / jen_gottlieb
Facebook: / jenleahgottlieb
Website: jengottlieb.com/
My business: www.superconnectormedia.com/ - แนวปฏิบัติและการใช้ชีวิต
Thank you for having me on Jen! Loved this conversation!
The BEST! Thank you for joining me!!
I hope everyone can read this book before they start dating again. It’s so incredible hard to find anyone who can put in any level of effort these days. Very here today and gone tomorrow and disposable culture. I can only ever attract people who don’t care for themselves and they couldn’t even begin to care for someone else till they can provide the space for their own healing..
You're a GOAT in such conversations man, you're changing lives. Thanks a lot
@@jen_gottlieb why are you deleting comments about Matthew being a scammer? There's evidence all over the web and externally? You support this intentional fraud?
@@Unmaskwithrobert no he's not, he's a credit card scammer and did it to thousands of women even single mothers
Interesting video content, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Hang in there man. You can do it without her, for sure!
Showing up and being your advocate... Giving people permission to not like you. So freeing🎉
My issue in middle age is meeting people to date full stop. What do you do when your few friends are partnered up, Meetup groups are mostly tragic and full of the people that life left behind, your interests don't put you in the path of single women and you think it's cringe to try and flirt with someone in the street or a supermarket?
You should be more organic when you are out. Don't be afraid of rejection. It's not the end of the world.
@@danielle_ghn_ I think you missed the start of the video where he says: "You are the only person who is charged with taking care of the human that is you." Wonder why you keep making the same mistake.
For me it is the best interview with Matthew i have ever seen!
@jen_gottlieb why are you deleting comments about Matthew being a scammer? There's evidence all over the web and externally? You support this intentional fraud?
yay! Thank you!
matts best interview for this book.
Don't date at all.Stay single.A better life.
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The best interview thankyou completely resonated with me
Glad you enjoyed it!
I’ve loved this conversation. I love that idea of I am my own person to take care of. I’ve shared similar videos of Matt saying this with my kids and friends. I’m in a new version of myself and embracing who I am without apology. Dated guys that wanted to change my likes and who I am. Even though I wasn’t happy with that I still held onto them. Not anymore!
❤ two of my favorite life inspiration and mentors! Absolutely loved the interview (it was an instant click 😁) and looking forward to growing my love life even more!
Glad you enjoyed it!!!!
Wow Jen I love this especially the part about self-love and being your own caretaker!! This is a great explanation! Thanks for this and love the backdrop!! See ya in ATL!!!
Yaaay! See you!
@@jen_gottlieb why are you deleting comments about Matthew being a scammer? There's evidence all over the web and externally? You support this intentional fraud?
omgosh the intro brought tears to my eyes
Me too! It got me all emo!
Loved, best interview in a while ❤ Thank you so much to you both. Inspiring energy 🌹
Glad you enjoyed it!
Really enjoyed the conversation of you two. Thank you 😊
So glad!!
he's a scammer, why do you have him on and delete comments about him? check out his credit card scam
@@enriqueval7092 for sure he is, is Jen supporting scammers now? disgraceful
This!! ❤🔥🔥
We all can heal❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Just noticed about this love guro guy that in all his videos its always the other person is wrong.. what about you as the person, dont you have any flaws?! I know love is not as simple as we think most of the time it is really complicated and hard and painful to some degree. However it takes two people working together to make it happen. Not just one person should be the good one.. both have to take risk,sacrifice, love whole heartedly and respect each other.
What if you’ve met someone who does treat you right and has all the qualities that do matter but you’re just not physically attracted to them, even after you’ve given things a go and kissed etc but “it’s not there”…
I had the same thing. But soon i noticed all the things i did not like at all in a man. So he was not ony not my type, he also dit not fit the way i am. He has social anxiety, he told me the other way around. He did not like to travel as often as i did. So i felt hold back when i was with him. Had to change my life to fit with him..... Biggg no! So with 4 months i ended it. Felt so good for me. (He blamed me for having another person i was dating at the same time as him. I only did tell him we are not a match, so i wanted to break up 😅 )
break up dont waste time. I stayed for 6 years
why are you deleting comments about Matthew being a scammer? There's evidence all over the web and externally? You support this intentional fraud?
Very simple you are not compatible. People complicate everything. You move on the end.
I was never any good with women. I am 65 ..my time clock is running out.At my age women would take advantage of me. I am lonely.You learn to live with it.Single 25 years Sorry I don't trust.Never will.I was ripped off once .I has never got over it.Wrecked me.
Where can i get the book?
Feel free to check these links:
Website: matthewhussey.com/llc/
Love Life book: matthewhussey.com/llbook-launch/
Harts can change 👵🏿
Any body these days.Who gets into a relationship Has to be. careful .My self i wont.I have been ripped off once.Been single for 25 years.Never bothered again..To many Golddiggers.I will die a loner.My life is a total mess.Sorry i dont trust.Never will.
I have been single for 25 years.Burnt once by a woman.Married for 5 weeks.Never bothered again.i live a lonely iife.Sorry i dont trust.Never will.My wife these days is my car.At least my car is faithful.To many Goddiggers out there.I will die a loner.
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Really quite sad that you have such a fatalistic attitude. Might I suggest you seek peace in God?! 🙏❤️✝️
If you have that mind set all you will see is gold diggers. You have a bad mindset. None of the women I know are like this
Keep being miserable see where it gets you.. You attract what you give out.
I know there is Good women out there.But do some have to rip off Good men.God would not want that.There are Golddiggers out there.In 25 years .I have never bothered again.What get used again.
Extremely alpha men are attracted to me. But i prefer quiet men..how do i approach them
Tell them to watch your water bottle 🍶 twice. They'll speak, after that opening its up to you to decide if it'll be a relationship with huge potential... or not...
Can I ask: WERE U BUSY, AND JUST OFFERED DUDE SUNDAY. ? Or was it a display And indifference to show your now, husband you had some sort of self-control. You were really actually busy on Saturday when he asked you out. Cause then it just doesn't make sense because you say no. Pretty busy. I'll see you Sunday, but you're not really busy. I understand you're building the tension. The sexual tension, but I guess the tension could have been built built up even by meeting up on satur day. That's right. I don't know. I guess. Were you really busy on Saturday?
Solution to this problem .Stay single.You only get ripped off.Have a good car instead.At least they are faithful.
Dont date at all.Stay single.
That actually makes sense, i would rather say: Make peace with being single. Like truly. And when some a**hole comes along... it should be instantly clear that being single is clearly the better option.
Or if you are the a**hole... don't be. Or if you have to be: don't be with people.
girl now i’m so curious about ur channel! been a student of Matthew Hussey for 10 years now! u got the best on ur show 🎉
Wow! Thank you!