honestly I think short hair is for you. you look so chic and like some cool French girl (??) whereas I think longer hair makes you look younger and less unique
@@horrorhahn I consider this short, I used to gave mine down to my waist (I donated it) and I think mine is SO short now. It's just now hitting my shoulders after 2 months of growth
Less unique??? , sorry but short hair is less unique, I see people with short or medium hair ALL THE TIME, long wavy hair is the best type of hair, almost no one have that type of hair in a healthy state.
western spy That’s because she needs to continue using it. Most of the time it doesn’t work the first time so she needs to either use a protein treatment to get rid of frizz and have more wavy hair or continuing to use the curly girl method.
She looks pretty obsessed with her hair but as a former Rapunzel who has been told her whole life what she should do with her hair, I want to punch half of the comment section.
@@beep7634 I'm so sorry :( I had to cut them in a long bob bc I started losing them around the temples... I don't know if u can but you should cut them in layers ONLY to frame your face , so u won't lose them in the front
I used to stress over details, and "science", trying to grow my hair. Then I learned that most people with hair longer than hip-length.... did nothing. They almost always use cheap shampoo and conditioner, don't give a hoot about sulfates or silicones, don't use heat styling, don't use a ton of products, eat whatever they want, and rarely if ever get trims. They wash it, condition it, brush or comb, bun or braid, and live life. For years. And boom.... long healthy hair.
Bohemian Rhapsody I agree with this!! I think sometimes the simpler, the better. Overwhelming your hair with too many products and treatments can have a reverse effect sometimes.
Of course yes, but not everybody can just leave it and do whatever they want and achieve the same results. I do agree over-doing it can be excessive, but different hair types have different needs- + genetics mostly factors into your hair type and rate of growth + maximum growth, although most girls and a fair amount of guys are able to achieve long hair, not rapunzel but enough for it to be worth calling truly long hair. I myself am struggling to grow my hair longer, and am just not the sort of person to go short- it's not me, I've always adored long hair, it goes with my personality and style, might try the rice water method since there's been some pretty positive reviews out of that.
exactly I used to have really long hair and I have really thick hair and only need to wash it twice a week. I use normal shampoo, never condition and hardly use heat
as one of these people... it's kinda true. different things will help or hurt your hair, you can over or under do it, but ultimately it's 90% genetics.
Yesssss!!! *TREAT YOUR HAIR LIKE THE W-A-V-Y TEXTURE IT NATURALLY IS UNTIL IT GROWS TO YOUR DESIRED LENGTH, **_THEN_** STRAIGHTEN IT!!!* Stop applying heat and trying to make it straight for 3-4 years, and go back to the CURLY GIRL METHOD!!! Cowashing Leave in conditioners Air drying (LEAVE IT WAVY!!) Light oils especially on the ends Trims, silk bonnets, and caring for your ends will get you to your goal!!! Please accept that your hair is *naturally* wavy if only for the next couple years, then you can straighten it. ☺
your "dry" "unmanagable" "frizzy" hair is literally just what all wavy/lightly curly hair looks like when it's brushed when it's not wet enough & not moisturised how wavy hair needs to be. You just have long sleek hair tied too much into your self esteem that u can't accept that it's short & wavy & looks best like that.
Moo Moo i have naturally wavy hair, it always frizzes. I have a 6 step hair routine and EVERY step includes moisturizing oils. Still frizzy unless I straighten it. Sucks having dry hair
I think your hair is frizzy because your hair seems wavy when it air dries. So if you brush out your hair it brings out even more frizz. My hair used to be frizzy and puffy all the time but it turns out my hair was curly/wavy. Using the right products can definitely help out
‘Fix split ends’ 🥱🥱🥱 girl the only thing that fixes split ends are a pair of scissors EDIT ~ I don’t know why some people in my comment are trying to tell me (a professional hair dresser) that you can fix your hair with oils and other b.s💀 You can definitely prevent it, however if you’re hair is already damaged and you have split ends above split ends, the only thing fixing that is a pair of damn scissors. You also cannot fix your split ends in ‘only 3 yeArS’ because over time your hair will just keep splitting higher up without a CUT. Treatment only makes your hair look good until the next time you wash it and it’s back to its normal state BUT sort your hair out with scissors first and get it looking healthy, THEN start using hair masks/creams etc.
Okay so how to treat it actually? Mine hair is exact same like hers, looked healthy and straight at that length but when I grow it out it just gets all thin and frizzy and funny. I don't think the curly girl method is for me, I can't use any gel whatsoever (no allergies, I just hate it)
coffee and freedom as a rule of thumb I find that my hair looks better the more moisture I put into it, and that usually just means using a hair mask and a decent condition with no silicones. You don’t have to use gel, there are other options for getting more definition. I use mousse a lot of the time. The CG method isn’t for everyone, but there are certainly elements to it that everyone with wavy or curly hair should pay attention to.
@@gayleh thank you I'll give it a shot... I currently wash once a week and deep condition beforehand and then apply some oil on the ends but idk I'm not seeing much difference when if comes to fixing the dryness
Gayle H as someone with quite wavy hair, before I sleep I always comb out my hair with a wide pick comb and add a minimal amount of coconut oil onto my ends and a bit through my hair and I throw it in a braid. It works fine for me
I see a lot of comments saying this girl should just accept she doesn’t have straight hair but I just want to add in my two cents. All my life I’ve had really silky, really long, straight black hair. Around middle school, I got highlights. My hair was fine at first but I had NO idea how to take care of it, and I had NO idea what products to use to maintain it, so my hair became very dry, frizzy, and ended up having random waves where I never had waves. It wasn’t pretty. Over the years, the only thing I could do is cut off the damaged highlighted parts (I had layers so I cut layer by layer, I didn’t cut all the damage off at once). So I’d cut a layer, use so many different products to help the health of my hair and continue as such. My hair still looked extremely frizzy and dry and weirdly wavy in places (mind you at this point all the damage was cut off and I was left with my natural black hair). And no I didn’t use ANY heat tools regularly. Growing up, my mom actually forbid us from owning any heat tools because of how bad the damage may get so heat has only ever touched my hair a total of 4 times in my entire life (I’m currently 21). And even then my hair was so frizzy and dry although all the color damage was gone. I left my hair as is and kept experimenting with new products and conditioners. Idk what it is, whether it’s my improved diet (I would skip a lot of meals in highschool cuz of how busy my schedule was) or hormones or whatever it is but eventually my hair the past two years has returned to its silky, straight state. It wasn’t easy though. When it became straight again, it was still frizzy. It literally looked like I took a heat tool to it and poorly straightened it. It looked like frizzy straight hair although like I said, I rarely use heat at all on my hair. Eventually though the oil production went back to normal and I don’t have that issue anymore. But I guess what I’m trying to say is that it takes a lot of time and a lot of experimentation. I’m not sure what your specific issue is, but I’m sure you’ll reach your goal one day. Best of luck ❤️
My hair also used to be long and perfectly straight in elementary school but now that I’m in middle school it is randomly wavy and really frizzy, I don’t know how to manage it even after cutting a few inches off
I'm normal well for me it seems like the highlights affected and damaged it since my hair went back to straight. But if this randomly happened to you, your hair is probably wavy now. I’ve read that hair can change throughout your life because of hormones, which makes sense since you’re in middle school now
My hair used to be long and pin straight, thick, and practically perfect, THEN, I GOT A PUXIE CUT ADJSJDSJDJSSD. Once it grew out, the ends of my hair are curled up. Sometimes it looks perfect, with the curl facing out, or other times, it looks like a mess. Currently it looks like a mullet, because one year ago, the pixie cut had layers. Oh well, I like the texture, because having boring straight hair 24/7 gets boring and I would drool over wavy hair, well, I still do haha. Oh well, one day, one day.
honestly that length looks really great on you!! super chic also: something i would recommend as someone who has very weightless light fine (annoying) hair that can tend to frizz a lot is to spray rose water on your hair as it dries and brushing through it, i feel like for me this is basically like straightening my hair because you’re taking all the frizz and laying it down and letting it dry in that position, kind of like the silk press method you use. rose water also makes my hair really soft so that’s another plus. I know you get so many tips every single day but this is my one tip I would recommend that maybe hasn’t been brought to your attention yet
+R G B 0.2 rather the opposite!! rose water has a slightly acidic pH so it can help you bring your hair back to the right pH level, it’s also anti inflammatory so it can be good for dandruff and eczema. it’s imo the most harmless and universal leave in conditioner you could find
*_I was like you. Your hair isn't straight anymore it's wavy. Your hormones are changing but this girl is not willing to listen. There are so many comments yet you pick ones that nobody notices because they are incorrect._* _edit: what the actual hell, I swear this is insane why is there so many likes?! Thanks lol_
It makes me question: can we manipulate hormones to chance our hair texture to the one we want? Maybe not now, but in the future who knows... it might be less damaging to the hair
different oils for different kinds of hair. I have fine hair for instance and what works best for it is argan oil(!) and jojoba oil. There’s no use in moisturising your hair if you don’t lock it in with oil ❤
Your hair won’t ever be “silky straight”. It’s got a wave in it and you should either accept it, or get a Japanese hair straightening treatment. Less damaging than a Brazilian hair straighten, and lasts longer.
KittenGoesGrr I think she had an Japanese one but it didn’t work and her hair became dry and I think you need do to it again and again so that it stays it’s not one time (expensive, time consuming and not good for the hair for the long run) that’s what she missed
Malena Sander she had the Brazilian one and it killed her hair. For the Japanese treatment depending on how wavy/curly it is, you’d could get it done literally once a year. Provided you keep up with the instructions that the *reputable* (important) salon give you, your results will last
KittenGoesGrr agreed. got japanese hair straightening and a year and a a half later it’s still going strong, my hair was very damaged and frizzy before but now it’s smooth and straight
HELL NO! i tried it and it damaged the crap out of it. i'm just experimenting and finding out what works for my hair. and yes believe it or not I know my hair is wavy...
It defenetrly change your hair yes. When I was in London where the weather is so humid, my hair was sooo frizzy and very wavy and when I went to Munich for a couple of days where the weather is very dry, no frizz at all and my hair were straighter
Honestly just as you can overwhelm your skin with a lot of products and methods of care, you can do the same with hair. I really wonder what her hair would be like if she just took a step back and just used a nice, lovely quality shampoo and conditioner as always that meets her hair needs like hydration and strengthening while washing, with a hair treatment like a deep conditioner or hair mask just once or twice a week. I feel like there’d be a lot less stress surrounding her hair care routine and trying to find new ideas and new methods. She seems like she puts her hair through quite a bit trying to make it look like how she wants it to, but I feel like all the products and methods of treatment she tries continuously might be stressing it out more and potentially having an opposite effect.
This!!! I agree. She’s overwhelming her hair too much. I am growing my hair with the most simple routine and it looks lovely. I use a good quality hydrating shampoo and conditioner and use the Miracle Hair Mask 10 once a week. I wash my hair 2 times a week. Before I wash it, I always apply a mix of all the oils I have in my house. Coconut, Olive, Avocado, Rosemary (love to darken my already dark hair lol), and almond. I let it sit for hours while I clean the house. Then wash my hair like usual. I also have a metal comb called Magnetix that I used when I had hair loss due to dermatitis. It helped with stimulating the scalp. I now find it helpful to promote my overall hair growth. I also comb my hair 2 times a day with a regular brush. I don’t use a straightener (only for special occasions) but I do blow dry my hair to get rid of the puffiness. I have straight her, yet it gets puffy so it really helps. It has never affected the quality of my hair. That’s my routine! :) it has become a habit by now lol
Elizabeth Arias Yes, but her dream is to have it dry naturally like that. She can’t get straight hair without SOME heat, and she can’t accept that it is wavy. That’s why she is frustrated.
“I’vE TrIeD eVeRyTHinG” Girl, you tried the curly girl method for ONE DAY and expected it to do something..... P.s. the kinky-ness at the base of your neck HIGHLY suggests that your hair is turning wavy/curly.
Emma Naylor I reckon she should at this point get a Japanese hair straightening treatment done. She wants silky straight hair but like you mentioned, that’s not the case. Treating her hair as straight when it’s not is causing the problems
For goodness' sake. So many comments thinking you know everything that goes on in her mind and with her hair. She wants _healthy_ hair, not straight hair. Suggest, don't make assumptions and claims about Isabella and her hair. Y'all need to chill. Honestly. Also. This is one of my most liked comments so thanks!
UPDATE: So i know my hair is Wavy. There’s no need to tell me what I already know. I'm not denying my waves, It's in transition phase so my waves are not fully formed yet. This means it's difficult to maintain cohesiveness throughout my hair, so I’m just experimenting with style and different methods. I share this stuff for you guys because I love trying and discovering new hair care methods. x ALSO, keep caaalllmm everybody... I'm not done with the Curly Girl Method just yet ;) P.S if I want to straighten my hair once in a blue moon, I WILL! We all deserve to feel good and get glam once in a while even if it means using a bit of heat to create a nice do. This is why we take good care of our hair in the meantime! Heat protectant at the ready! x
Try this routine its saving my hair from frizz. Shampoo of your choice, preferably sulphate, paraben and silicone free, i like shea moisture but your hair is fine and may find it too heavy. Noughty is another good brand in boots. Then use the hask protein conditioner, thickly coat the mids and ends, leave for 3 or more minutes, brush through with a wide-toothed comb, denman brush or tangle teaser. Then scrunch in the conditioner to really get it in your hair follicles and rinse off. You can brush it once more whilst its sopping wet but not once it starts drying, that creates frizz. I have a feeling you don’t like volume in your hair so apply these next products whilst wet not damp. Dry your hair a little with a t shirt of microfibre towel just enough to stop it dripping. Then apply a curling cream, again i like sm but that will likely be too heavy for you so try Aussie noughty. Using the praying hands method - don’t rake - to mids and ends mostly and scrunch. Then add a leave in conditioner- again noughty is good haha - using very gently praying hands method to ends and mids and scrunch with the towel again. I likr to then flip my hair gently as it dries to keep my roots mobile to create volume. Don’t touch your hair until it’s dry to scrunch out any crunch. If you do before it’s dry you’ll get frizz. Enjoy nice hair. Sleep with pineapple or wrapped to protect and in the morning you can re-wet it and scrunch and apply more products if needed to refresh Edit - I don’t reslly get grease but you can do this with dry shampoo and still wet it if you do and this method keeps me going for up to a week before i really need to wash it again
Isabella, your reactions to these comments are not serving you. 100%, there have been rude comments. But many of the comments are simply advising you to let go of the silky straight dream for your hair and embrace your texture. And why are people stating this? Because your whole video at the start of this journey was you going on, and on, and on about wanting silky straight hair from Instagram, trying the CGM for a minute, deciding it’s not working, and going back to striving for straight hair. You have been replying to comments in past videos “thanks for the advice, but I really prefer straight hair on me” and continuing to advertise straight hair products. So of course everyone is going to assume that you still want straight hair and advise you against running down this road to nowhere. This is the first time I have heard you fully acknowledge that your hair is not straight anymore and that you are working on enhancing its new texture, which is great news for your hair. But it’s unfair to be so critical of people telling you to stop trying to force it to be straight when that is what you have been showing the whole time.
@@WavingFan Lindsey, Thank you for taking the time to write this criticism in a constructive way. I have read and put thought into this so I hope you'll read my response. Some of my reactions have been very blunt yes, my frustration is real. But interestingly this comment you've just written also mentions many things that are no longer true, which further adds to my point. I make it very clear in that first video that silky long hair was a dream of mine for the past 6 years but that it is No Longer My Goal. I state in that video that my goal now is for healthy hair not long hair. Nowhere in any of my videos since then have I expressed my desire for that long thick straight hair that I once wanted because i already realized about a year ago that it's just not going to happen! My videos are purely about trying to make sense of what my hair wants and experiment with different methods to improve my hair quality, those Instagram hair goals are a thing of the past! So Yes Lindsey, i do know this. As for your reference - trying the CGM for a minute. very true, I didn't give it long enough which is why for the past 2 months i've been gathering research so i can give it a proper go starting next week in fact. You mention, my reply to a comment that I prefer how straight hair looks on me. yep that's true! I do, and i don't see what's wrong with preferring one hairstyle over another. but this is irrelevant anyway becasue I don't even let myself have straight hair unless i straighten it for a special occasion. 99% of my daily life my hair is left natural and wavy. so its upsetting to see people bashing me for straightening my hair in this one video (for a date i had that night actually.) - "continuing to advertise straight hair products." Interesting use of words there. it is not a straight hair product, and your use of the word continuing is out of context. I chose straightening as an element of my formula simply because I wanted to see what it would do. turns out it worked pretty well with the straightening iron, but i've actually decided to discontinue using it because it's no secret that my hair wants to be wavy. - Unfair of me to be critical of those criticizing me, Perhaps. But honestly, i think some people are just being plain rude which is unfair of them too. I can see where you're coming from and I have already decided i need to be much clearer in future videos, because it seems people are confused and stating things that are untrue, or assuming I'm holding on to the old desires from my hair story video. However, explaining every detail in every video is just not possible sometimes. Apart from trying to be clearer, I can only hope that people will use their common sense and understand that maybe there is much, much more to the situation than what they've watched in 1 or 2 videos. x
Hey this might be a wierd idea but the whole issue with your hair is that it seems dried and damaged and considering the fact that you seem a little iffy about using the curly girl method I have an idea use the steps in the curly girl method minus the scrunching. Dont try to straighten it but also don't try to scrunch I did something similar with hair it is looking way better than it did before. I personally cant do all the steps in the curly girl method since my hair can't take the product but but i hope it works out for you.I totally understand how it feels when you can notice how your hair isn't like it was before. People on the internet only see the pieces you choose to display and they assume based on that just because you have only hair related videos doesn't mean you are obsessed with them. It goes with content you are currently putting out. I wish you good luck on on your hair repair journey 😊
use OLAPLEX. go to a qualified hairdresser to get a gloss (NOT a dye) with no1 and 2 olaplex treatment. then maintain the results with olaplex no3 at home. it'll make your hair shiny, less frizzy and wavy but in a beautiful, disciplined way.
Your hair texture looks more like mine than anyone I've ever known. It's kind of surreal. My texture switched from pin straight to wavy frizzy when I was about 12 or 13. Honestly, the best thing to do is embrace your new natural texture. All the rinses and shampoos in the world aren't going to reverse the change in your natural hair texture.
K'lah Dyer so true darling. it definitely is upsetting but what can we do? 🥺 I’m so glad your embracing your hair with such positivity unlike Isabella qq
@@K1ndlatte_ Haha! It was a long process, don't get me wrong! But I have really come to love my natural hair texture and care for it as it is, not as I wish it would be.
The same happened to me and even tho I prefer my hair straight too, it's not a reason to be so obsessed about it, she should juste try to embrace her natural hair texture instead of fucking her hair up all the time. And she should stop getting such little trims when her hair is so dry and damaged, a big cut never hurts you hair and it will grow thicker and stronger.
Try using curlers for your hair instead of flat ironing it. It will add a little volume and a nice wave or curl which will probably look a lot more flattering on you than straight hair.
@@mj.guti_ Exactly. First video. Then she did curly girl method - where people were talking shit that she has straight hair and now they're into her because she "has curly hair reee". Let her make her own choices for her hair. If she cut it all of, it'd be still her business, not yours.
I know you’ve tried the curly girl method, but I can see once you’ve hydrated and air dried, I can tell it’s wavy. Might help to try it again but for longer. Not telling you what to do with your hair, just curly girl to curly girl. xo 💖
Her hair is actually really nice and shiny. Hair is mostly genetics like I can do anything to my hair and it won’t get damaged like at all but hers seems to be the opposite. I think you need to accept the fact that you can’t dong anything else for your hair and just love it the way it is. Girl I’m with you in the journey I’ve hated my hair for so long and it’s nice to see someone as obsessed with their hair as me haha but somethings only time can heal.
IKR. Like.. Some people might like change? Lot of these people in comments get their panties wet over a girl that wants to try and experiment on her hair 🤦🏾
@@lunalove9395 Brad Mondo isn't a qualified hair dresser, he was literally just a cleaner in his father's salon & then started making videos giving other people advice because he thinks having a parent that's a hairdresser makes him qualified. The times we've seen him do someone's hair, it's been horrific.
@@jaydenisaacs4855 right?? I feel like she's struggling so much just because she wants completely straight hair. Something we all thought before going natural 😅
They’re gorgeous, but unfortunately she has some of the hardest waves to work with. 2A is hard to style, especially when you don’t have wavy hair experience.
@@hitsumiku30 it happened to me as well. I recommend a keratin treatment. It will even out your hair to be straight, unless you want to try out the curly hair method (which I don’t recommend since your hair is mostly straight). I get the Global Keratin done every 6 months and it does wonders. There is no permanent solution for it since your hair grows like that from your roots. You cannot change your hormones.
I’m so done seeing you ruining your hair. 😭😭 girl your hair isn’t “dead” well all hair is dead but I mean your hair is good, you just treat it like straight hair and your hair ISNT AND WILL NEVER BE STRAIGHT. Embrace your waves Edit: correction, I know she isn’t literally ruining her hair! There are way more worse things that ruin hair but it’s still damaging her natural wavy hair :) in no way I wanted to be offensive
Well, sometimes hair changes mine went from wavy to straight. When it was very wavy it was an absolute mess tho, I didn’t know how to take care of it lol. Ended up looking like hers when I would try to straighten it without a flat iron. I think she should try something like a curl cream or a mouse, as far as I remember she had tried the curly girl method and I’m not surprised that it didn’t work out since it is too heavy for wavy hair.
Omg. Your wavy hair is so obvious after it naturally dried. Please have that instead. And make it long. I think wavy long hair is also pretty for you girl...
If ur hair isn’t naturally straight and instead its naturally wavy, maybe try the curly girl method to define ur waves. Might improve ur hair condition aswell!! Xx
honestly, have you maybe thought about that it could be something with your thyroid? i'm not a doctor but i have hypothyroidism and i've had dry hair all my life.
I’ve been commenting that she should get her blood checked. She said she eats well but that doesn’t mean anything. I had a b12 deficiency (despite eating meat every day) and a vitamin d deficiency.
I don't think she has hypothyroid, as I do and I know she'd have other much more obvious symptoms. It could have something to do with her hormone levels changing, or like someone earlier said if she has a vitamin deficiency
people are always saying "you just have high expectations for your hair" "you have wavy hair stop wanting it to be straight" "stop wanting long hair so bad" and all that other bs. SHE KNOWS, ITS NOT BAD TO HAVE A GOAL FOR YOUR HAIR, also its HER hair, she likes her hair long. she doesnt need validation from a random person on the internet. she doing so much with her hair, and obviously you guys are only watching a teensy bit of her hair journey and making judgements on that. she wants long hair, she knows her curl pattern has changed, so just support her and help her.
dude this haircut looks GLAMOROUS af on you. rock it! no lie, i think it makes you look like a movie star. idk i saw it and i just got that 'wow' feeling.
You should watch Gillian McLellan’s video. She had hair similar to your’s: poofy, frizzy, and dry. Turns out she had RINGLETS. Totally curly! Her hair just needed the right products and styling. I really think you’re a curly/wavy girl.
Let me give you this advice : you’ll have a great hair when you’ll stop focusing on it ! That’s literally what happened with me .. i was so obsessed with growing my hair until it became awful ! By time i cut it and got too busy in life that I completely forgot about it .. it grew very quickly and got so much better I don’t even understand how !
I feel like shes getting boderline dysphoric and obssesive about her hair, to the point that it seems it's impacting her mental health. She look beautiful but she says her ponytail looks awful etc etc.
The thing is, is that when people are saying that you’re treating your hair texture wrong, they mean you’re treating it like it’s straight and you end up with frizz bc your hair’s texture is currently wavy. Even though you may not like your waves, focus on defining them vs trying to make it look sleek and straight. Bc it just won’t be. That isn’t your hair’s texture. Defining the hair’s wavy texture will make your hair look a lot less frizzy and more manageable even if there is a wave, it’s something you shouldn’t be upset about ❤️ it’s just how your hair is.
Y’all please stop attacking her, if you were to see her hair journey video you would understand! She has her own goals and she’s tried literally everything, just let her do her! It’s not hurting you. 💓💓
Try “curly girl method”. I’m sure that you have wavy/curly hair and that will solve all of your problems. Your hair will not be that frizzy and dry. You will have nice, curly, healthy hair.❤️
Ok so Isabel if you don’t see this it’s fine but I used to have frizzy damaged hair and here is what I did I showered every morning and night using deep conditioning and rinsing with cold water and using a wet brushing when damp it worked for me and the waves in my hair faded away.
Isabella Demarko i’m sorry , i didn’t mean for it to come across as rude . I should have worded it differently. I was trying to be helpful as you complained about having dry hair , and applying any sort of heat to your hair when it’s dry makes the hair break off and also burn off easier .
Olga Zuluaga it’s also to do with genetics. I naturally have very long and thick hair like “insta hair” simply because i was born with these genetics 🤷🏻♀️ of course there are methods to get your hair thick but, alot of times genetics plays a huge part
I dont want to seem ignorant, I know you've probably tried everything. But I just want to offer some of my limited hair knowledge. Have you tried the 30 day plait/ braid method? Basically you just oil your ends and wear your hair in a protective style like a plait for every day for a month. It really helps to protect from breakage and just gives your hair a little boost.
Maybe someone has already said this to you but a good trick is not to touch the hair so much - ever since I stopped doing it my hair started feeling much better. With that said your hair looks great :) short or long
Hmmmm the thing is.. surely, for the eyes of the human, "dry" hair might not be the look we want to go for. But the natural state of your hair might just be the "dry" look. And to be honest, it doesn't look "dry", it looks alive and well. It feels like "dry" is a word we have chosen for hairtypes like yours and it just doesn't click to me. I don't think you can change the way your hair naturally look. Surely you can do keratin to make it look straight, but that isn't necessarily healthy for your hair, just 'cause it looks shiny. If you eat somewhat healthy, do some kind of exercise and drink a bunch of water, you're doing good. You and your hair is healthy. NOT SURE if I managed to get to the point whatever that was, but your hair looks great to me anywayys!! xx
Yes, her hair is extremely healthy! She is just really fighting her natural wave because she had pin straight hair when she was younger. 🤷♀️ She's going to be really miserable until she decides to embrace it.
@@Lucy-vx2ls Right?! Looks super healthy to me. Well, just as our body changes as we grow older, so does the hair! And I don't think we can (nor should) fight against that. Easiest would be to embrace it and find new ways to style it if that would help with getting along with it, with pins and etcetera.
You should really just stop using heat on it. I had similar hair to you and my hair is really intolerant to heat once it’s heat damaged it looks dry and frizzy. I haven’t used heat in three years and my hair is naturally wavy and very shiny and healthy now. Maybe you should embrace your waves they will look good on you!
Emily no! please don't comment stuff like this cause i can tell you're a nice girl and you mean well but it feels like you're not paying attention. Did you not hear me say in the video i barley ever straighten my hair? i've done it like 3 times in the last year. 3 times! ive gone my whole life without using heat so believe me, just because someone never uses heat doesn't mean their hair is healthy! My hair damage is not due to heat! I know i have wavy hair all i'm trying to do is make them more managable. and i deserve to get glam and style it once in a blue mon if i choose to :)
Isabella Demarko hello. Yes I did pay attention to your video, and to be fair you didn’t specify how many times you’ve tended to straighten it. To some girls “barely at all” might be once a week. I’m sorry my perspective couldn’t be more helpful, I hope you find a solution soon.
After watching this video I realized it took me 8-9 months to get my hair to the state its in now I have never loved my hair till now. Im so happy she is in it for the long run and is taking it one step at a time keep going girl👏👏❤❤❤
today I joined the hair journey. Did a huge chop and now I have a bob. Gonna try oils, vinegar rinses, silk pillow, scalp treatments and less heat styling. Wish me luck, people
You need to stop being in denial 😒 You have *WAVY LOW POROSITY* hair! Start finding products that will help your hair *TYPE* and you will not have to keep cutting it! Your hair is *NOT* straight & you *CANNOT* force it to be!
Leah, please please don't leave comments like this. Believe it or not Leah, I KNOW MY HAIR IS WAVY. I'm not "in denial", I'm only trying new ways to make it more manageable. Secondly, It is unwise to tell someone their hair porosity! My hair is in fact HIGH POROSITY. Please Stop making sweeping statements that have no thought or truth behind them.
Isabella Demarko are you sure? Because your hair has a hard time absorbing moisture which is why it's dry all the time and, frizzy. I'd look into seeing if it's truly high porosity.
@@Itsleeuhhhhh Yeah, I have low porosity hair and I think she does too. If she's experimenting, she should try low porosity wavy hair routines for a few months just to see results.
Isabella Demarko I’m a little disappointed you responded to her like that. I may be making assumptions because this is the first video I’ve watched of yours, but your response to her seemed to be kind of.. rude? After all she is supporting your channel by watching it and only trying to give you helpful information and help you. Sigh... I probably won’t be watching any more videos. Sorry
Omg you're so patient about the whole thing. I have a never-ending dilemma with my hair because sometimes I want to cut it short (like yours in this video) because I wanna look more dynamic and active but I'm afraid I would regret it because I like my long hair as it makes me feel feminine (which I like). I'm at boob-length now and I'm considering a haircut now so I think I need to find a middle ground between feeling feminine and looking dynamic with the right haircut/style. Anyway, keep up with what you're working on because you've worked this hard!
Alya알랴 Hi as someone who had hip lengte hair at 18and cut my hair to above my shoulders in the summer before Uni. I would say go for it, do it in a few times don’t cut more than 40 cm of at once like I did since it leaves you proner to split ends. But yeah what I wanted to say is I’m 1,5 year later and while I regretted it the first week after that i thoroughly enjoyed the feeling of healthy short weightless and easy to handle hair, my hair grows really quickly (I think) and it’s already almost below my boob again. I didn’t feel it growing one day it was just long again. I didn’t feel less like myself when I cut it but like I had more time to give my hair better care. And like I had less to worry about regarding my hair. The older you get the harder changes are going to be so if you still want to try it short I’d suggest sooner rather than later
However feminine wise I got a ton of “you look so cute” instead of omg I love your hair remarks once it was short so you’ll have less of a “womanly” and more of a “girly” cut. But I am white and have curly hair that curled more when I cut it so that also might be the reason I looked “girlier” all of a sudden
Me too! My hair is almost to the waist, but it's thin and I keep thinking I should cut at least 10 centimeters to make it look nice and thick ... But I really like my long hair.
I completely understand you because I can't recognize and like myself with short hair as well... I'm trying everything to grow my hair back. Please keep posting your videos ..they inspire me SO MUCH. And please don't listen to the bad comments...unfortunately there is a lot of people envy of your beauty and the shine you have. 🌹👑
As a hairdresser, the only thing I can think of is the fact that you went so long without a REAL cut that your split ends started to split up towards your scalp and that wrecked a good amount of your hair so now you have to keep getting regular cuts and it will be HEALTHY you will probably always have drier hair type but it will help a lot with the ends being thicker and less frizzy
Can’t believe after all this time and effort you use a straightener. You clearly have temperamental hair, maybe you shouldn’t irritate it further with heat?
Maybe because i want to look and feel good and get glammed up for a nice night out. You've clearly misunderstood my efforts. i've gone to all the effort to get my hair healthy so that i CAN style it and make it look nice once in a while. Can't a girl get dressed up once in a blue moon? Leave me alone.
Isabella Demarko Dude, when you have such issues with your hair then maybe you have to accept that you have to use other methods. Also, if you post about your journey online and get people invested in your hair you can’t expect for no one to say anything remotely critical.
Wavy hair loves styling. It just looks similar like yours when it’s not styled. Wavy hair is cool. You can style it straight and curly. Learn how to style it! 🩷
my hair used to be much drier than yours and i started uesing crushed Christ's thorn jujube leaves with olive oil and the result was marvelous !! u should really look it up it has a lot of hydrating oils within the leaves and even vitamins i heat olive oil with double boiler method then add the leaves and leave it overnight then add yogurt and any favorite oils and apply it from the med section to the ends and leave it for 2h and rain your hair with worm water and apply conditioner heavily wash it and you are done!!
I mean her hair is pretty but it’s wavy, not straight. If she tries the curly girl method for at least a month it’ll look way better. Or if you just don’t like wavy hair do Japanese hair straightening or smthn
If she wants nice hair then she’s gotta do it for more than a few months. I’ve been naturally wavy/curly for almost a full year now and it’s still not perfect. It takes lots of love and patience but I don’t think she wants to do that lol
Woah these comments are so negative. I totally feel you girl, my hair is basically the same but a little thicker and I think I have the frizz under control for now. I am equally as obsessed with my hair growing long although I've never underestimated the need for cutting off the split ends. Now I don't know what scissors you use, and clearly this isn't the only thing going on with your hair, but I've heard that if your scissors ain't sharp enough the ends will split sooner. You probably know this. I mostly wanted to say that I understand your obsession and I appreciate your videos a lot. Would love to get an update on function of beauty when you've used them for a few more months! Best of luck to you and your hair! xx Edit: wow I sound so rude? I love your videos!
I know right!Can't people just support her for what she does?If it was me that have frizzy hair I would've do the same.Like who the f like frizzy hair even though it's natural.Frizzy hair are just so messy and annoying
I know my hair is wavy and i don't have a problem with it! i'm only experimenting and working on making it more managable. I wish people would stop going around telling people to accept things. i have nothing i need to accept.
My hair was super dry kind of like yours, then I started to use Moroccan oil. I use it at night after I shower, and if my hair needs it, in the morning as well. It helps your hair look glossy and not dry. If you don't already do this you could only wash your hair every other day. Washing you hair a lot actually drys it out. I hope this helps ♥ If you are reading this, have a great day, and just know, you are beautiful.
Since someone asked if Function of Beauty contains silicone, I decided to share this information I consider to be important: "I think they are silicone-free (correction: they are not but I heard they can be made silicone-free upon request), but last time I checked, they seem to have substituted it for polyquaternium, which has similar properties. It puts a layer on your hair (it actually bonds chemically with your hair), scalp, skin, and everything that it comes in contact with indirectly, such as towels, clothing, etc., which can be hard to wash off in some cases (especially amodimethicone), so it can build up over time, causing skin and hair problems and possibly stains on fabric. Some companies are dumping that into hair products so they can happily claim they're silicone-free, just because the consumers haven't properly caught up to what polyquats are. While polyquats also provide some benefits in the short term by smoothing the hair and making detangling much easier, I personally avoid them for the reasons above, and because they caused me a lot of hair loss for months before I pinpointed what exactly it was. Furthermore, synthetic polyquats are not biodegradable and are therefore persistent organic pollutants. Wether you decide to avoid polyquats or not is up to you, but I hope I helped you make a more informed decision :)" I just researched all of this recently, feel free to let me know if I got anything wrong.
@@Chlunkon I just don't see why healthy below-the-shoulder hair is out of the question and then you just clip in the extensions for the length... her videos have honestly taught me so much about hair care, but for her own sanity why not invest in real hair extensions (clip-in so she could care for them more easily) and then care for her own hair at a length that doesn't bring her stress? I love that she's taking this journey i just hope it's not on the basis of online pictures of perfect hair. There's no way to know if those were real, ya know?
I have very healthy hair that grows pretty fast from not washing it very often. Let your hair get greasy. I have curlyish hair so I only wash once a week.
Ass someone with dry hair I can tell you her hair was pretty dry before she cut it and that leads to loads of tangles and more damage. It looks and feels matted and kinda like straw. Best to cut it.
PLEASE LIKE SO SHE CAN SEE THIS PLZ I might be a little late but rice water has a ton of protein in it which might not be a good idea because you said you were sensitive to coconut oil which also has proteins. I have the same problems so yea but you might not, you’ll never know unless you try tho 😘
Just a thing: Eating healthy and drinking water will help your new growth, but will do absolutely nothing for the already existing hair 🤷♀️ That's why it didn't work
Thats it, honestly. And she has thinner hair, which looks like its probably fine and wavy. If you have thinner hair you have to focus less on length and thickness and more on hydration and overall health. Eating right, drinking water, and using hydrating masks like oils and honey and egg yolks will help immensely
is used to have very long hair till my waist. it was healthy too. i tried for years to grow my hair abd it never worked but after a while i just stopped focusing on my hair so much and suddenly in less than a year it grew. i liked it at first but cut it after a while abd honestly i love my hair now so much more. my hair falls a little below my collar bones and it looks much more classy! id never want to go back to waist length hair. im thinking of getting a bob now i think you look so much better with short hair. long hair normally ages people and makes hair look more thinner. it also doesnt go with many outfits ( the main reason i cut my hair). i would recommend you to focus on having healthy hair with the texture you have instead of trying to grow unhealthy hair to reach an ideal youve set up for yourself. just an advice tho
I know what you mean, I have very long hair but my dream is season 8 Rachel hair, when it was collar bone length. I cannot do it though my hair has to be long because it’s so puffy and wavy when it’s short, very thick too. I also love ponytails and prefer a very long pony to a short one as it looks less juvenile I find for that specific hairstyle.
honestly I think short hair is for you. you look so chic and like some cool French girl (??) whereas I think longer hair makes you look younger and less unique
This is short hair? Lol my hair is medium I'd say and it doesn't grow over my shoulders.
@@horrorhahn oh same mine is shorter than hers and id call it medium but she referred to it as short
I'm french and i can tell you she just need a red bob and Voilà ! She will be french 😂
@@horrorhahn I consider this short, I used to gave mine down to my waist (I donated it) and I think mine is SO short now. It's just now hitting my shoulders after 2 months of growth
Less unique??? , sorry but short hair is less unique, I see people with short or medium hair ALL THE TIME, long wavy hair is the best type of hair, almost no one have that type of hair in a healthy state.
YOUR HAIR IS WAVY YOU CAN'T FORCE IT TO BE SILKY STRAIGHT THAT IS WHY IT BECOMES FRIZZY AND DRY
IKR
Her hair is not wavy is just dry and not that healthy
Carro Armário Her hair is wavy she just needs to treat it wavy and all her problems will be solved.
【Carzia】 she has tried the curly girl method, it didn’t work.
western spy That’s because she needs to continue using it. Most of the time it doesn’t work the first time so she needs to either use a protein treatment to get rid of frizz and have more wavy hair or continuing to use the curly girl method.
She looks pretty obsessed with her hair but as a former Rapunzel who has been told her whole life what she should do with her hair, I want to punch half of the comment section.
lmao me too! I can't cut my hair bc my religion says not to....so yeah my hair is past my butt......i feel u
@@beep7634 I'm so sorry :(
I had to cut them in a long bob bc I started losing them around the temples... I don't know if u can but you should cut them in layers ONLY to frame your face , so u won't lose them in the front
Bahaha thanks for the love (to both of my replies) 😂😂, its hard yeah, but I've accepted it at this point and....I do kinda love it :D
TheFuschiaDragonfly Also i secretly trim the dead ends 🤫🤫🤫
@@beep7634 may I ask what religion you have?
I think you look stylish with short hair, almost like a french 90's model .
NonNominatus as a french girl you are totally right
How did I have this exact same thought
Not everyone's hair is meant to be shiny and smooth. So your hair has some texture... it looks really healthy, to me.
“Look how awful my ponytail looks”
Me: “ That is how my hair looks :(
IKR
That's okay don't get upset!Everybody have different opinions
she thinks that about herself not everyone in general who has that hair cut, stop crying for attention.
@@leilah1016 lol we don't ^^
Norman Reedus girl what???
Your haircut looks so much healthier than your long 💇hair
LMAOO NO SHIT
Bxtch haïr can be healthy and long too. Leave.
@@liamileson9091 I know that im not dumb... It's just everyone knew it..
Lia Mileson they weren’t saying that... they were saying her long hair wasn’t healthy. Calm down
uuuu i see fall out boy
Ngl, her hair actually looks better shorter compared to when it’s long-
Yes
I agree but i understand her
It's because her hair is on the thinner side
I agree
I disagree.
I used to stress over details, and "science", trying to grow my hair. Then I learned that most people with hair longer than hip-length.... did nothing. They almost always use cheap shampoo and conditioner, don't give a hoot about sulfates or silicones, don't use heat styling, don't use a ton of products, eat whatever they want, and rarely if ever get trims. They wash it, condition it, brush or comb, bun or braid, and live life. For years. And boom.... long healthy hair.
Bohemian Rhapsody I agree with this!! I think sometimes the simpler, the better. Overwhelming your hair with too many products and treatments can have a reverse effect sometimes.
Of course yes, but not everybody can just leave it and do whatever they want and achieve the same results.
I do agree over-doing it can be excessive, but different hair types have different needs- + genetics mostly factors into your hair type and rate of growth + maximum growth, although most girls and a fair amount of guys are able to achieve long hair, not rapunzel but enough for it to be worth calling truly long hair.
I myself am struggling to grow my hair longer, and am just not the sort of person to go short- it's not me, I've always adored long hair, it goes with my personality and style, might try the rice water method since there's been some pretty positive reviews out of that.
exactly I used to have really long hair and I have really thick hair and only need to wash it twice a week. I use normal shampoo, never condition and hardly use heat
It’s genetics
as one of these people... it's kinda true. different things will help or hurt your hair, you can over or under do it, but ultimately it's 90% genetics.
ur hair looks way better when it’s naturally air dried
@@alexandratirello2251 she's done a video on that already
I have wavy hair , like her , and I only air dry it , it never looks good straightened .
Yesssss!!!
*TREAT YOUR HAIR LIKE THE W-A-V-Y TEXTURE IT NATURALLY IS UNTIL IT GROWS TO YOUR DESIRED LENGTH, **_THEN_** STRAIGHTEN IT!!!*
Stop applying heat and trying to make it straight for 3-4 years, and go back to the CURLY GIRL METHOD!!!
Cowashing
Leave in conditioners
Air drying (LEAVE IT WAVY!!)
Light oils especially on the ends
Trims, silk bonnets, and caring for your ends will get you to your goal!!!
Please accept that your hair is *naturally* wavy if only for the next couple years, then you can straighten it. ☺
@@natnat8199 so true
She already has thought and she didn’t like it
I don't know who needs to hear this but: embrace your curls and waves.
It's not the fact that its curly its just dry
@@maripotter649 yeah no her hair is curly/wavy
***Or if you want to straighten your curls do what makes YOU happy.
Kimberly Couture HALELUJAH❤️
@Lotte yes u can. If u straighten it
your "dry" "unmanagable" "frizzy" hair is literally just what all wavy/lightly curly hair looks like when it's brushed when it's not wet enough & not moisturised how wavy hair needs to be. You just have long sleek hair tied too much into your self esteem that u can't accept that it's short & wavy & looks best like that.
Moo Moo i have naturally wavy hair, it always frizzes. I have a 6 step hair routine and EVERY step includes moisturizing oils. Still frizzy unless I straighten it. Sucks having dry hair
Gothiccino_ your hair’s probably over moisturized. Maybe try a protein treatment
catherineanne 24 it feels really nice after my treatments. Protein treatments make it stiff
Feels *healthy* I mean
She knows its wavy
I think your hair is frizzy because your hair seems wavy when it air dries. So if you brush out your hair it brings out even more frizz. My hair used to be frizzy and puffy all the time but it turns out my hair was curly/wavy. Using the right products can definitely help out
What products did you use 🤔
Honestly.. I don't think mother nature wants you to have long hair
Die Izzi meee
Relatable 😔
Might be true. My hair stops growing healthly at some point too. I can't get it past my chest without it getting frizzy, no matter what I do
nah anyone can have long hair your just gotta care for it properly
@@Makasituation that's not what I said :) I didn't say she can't have long hair
‘Fix split ends’ 🥱🥱🥱 girl the only thing that fixes split ends are a pair of scissors
EDIT ~ I don’t know why some people in my comment are trying to tell me (a professional hair dresser) that you can fix your hair with oils and other b.s💀 You can definitely prevent it, however if you’re hair is already damaged and you have split ends above split ends, the only thing fixing that is a pair of damn scissors. You also cannot fix your split ends in ‘only 3 yeArS’ because over time your hair will just keep splitting higher up without a CUT. Treatment only makes your hair look good until the next time you wash it and it’s back to its normal state BUT sort your hair out with scissors first and get it looking healthy, THEN start using hair masks/creams etc.
No. I fixed them in only 3 years of treatments. No joke. XD
best fly that’s good lol but curly hair 3 years would be an inch lol 😫
And olaplex.
best fly so by your magic treatments it bonded the splits together sure sis
Oils help
“look how horrible my ponytail looks!”
girl, i was over here thinking it looked cute as shit!
Finally a nice comment!❣️
It looked adorable
jordan jeez Lololol same it looks so cute
But like shit isnt cute tho
Not really
I always thought I just had frizzy straight hair. Spoiler alert: it was wavy and your hair is also wavy.
Okay so how to treat it actually? Mine hair is exact same like hers, looked healthy and straight at that length but when I grow it out it just gets all thin and frizzy and funny. I don't think the curly girl method is for me, I can't use any gel whatsoever (no allergies, I just hate it)
coffee and freedom as a rule of thumb I find that my hair looks better the more moisture I put into it, and that usually just means using a hair mask and a decent condition with no silicones. You don’t have to use gel, there are other options for getting more definition. I use mousse a lot of the time. The CG method isn’t for everyone, but there are certainly elements to it that everyone with wavy or curly hair should pay attention to.
coffee and freedom also, don’t comb or brush it when it’s dry. Only when it’s wet or damp with conditioner in it.
@@gayleh thank you I'll give it a shot... I currently wash once a week and deep condition beforehand and then apply some oil on the ends but idk I'm not seeing much difference when if comes to fixing the dryness
Gayle H as someone with quite wavy hair, before I sleep I always comb out my hair with a wide pick comb and add a minimal amount of coconut oil onto my ends and a bit through my hair and I throw it in a braid. It works fine for me
I see a lot of comments saying this girl should just accept she doesn’t have straight hair but I just want to add in my two cents. All my life I’ve had really silky, really long, straight black hair. Around middle school, I got highlights. My hair was fine at first but I had NO idea how to take care of it, and I had NO idea what products to use to maintain it, so my hair became very dry, frizzy, and ended up having random waves where I never had waves. It wasn’t pretty.
Over the years, the only thing I could do is cut off the damaged highlighted parts (I had layers so I cut layer by layer, I didn’t cut all the damage off at once). So I’d cut a layer, use so many different products to help the health of my hair and continue as such. My hair still looked extremely frizzy and dry and weirdly wavy in places (mind you at this point all the damage was cut off and I was left with my natural black hair). And no I didn’t use ANY heat tools regularly. Growing up, my mom actually forbid us from owning any heat tools because of how bad the damage may get so heat has only ever touched my hair a total of 4 times in my entire life (I’m currently 21). And even then my hair was so frizzy and dry although all the color damage was gone. I left my hair as is and kept experimenting with new products and conditioners. Idk what it is, whether it’s my improved diet (I would skip a lot of meals in highschool cuz of how busy my schedule was) or hormones or whatever it is but eventually my hair the past two years has returned to its silky, straight state. It wasn’t easy though. When it became straight again, it was still frizzy. It literally looked like I took a heat tool to it and poorly straightened it. It looked like frizzy straight hair although like I said, I rarely use heat at all on my hair. Eventually though the oil production went back to normal and I don’t have that issue anymore. But I guess what I’m trying to say is that it takes a lot of time and a lot of experimentation. I’m not sure what your specific issue is, but I’m sure you’ll reach your goal one day. Best of luck ❤️
My hair also used to be long and perfectly straight in elementary school but now that I’m in middle school it is randomly wavy and really frizzy, I don’t know how to manage it even after cutting a few inches off
I'm normal well for me it seems like the highlights affected and damaged it since my hair went back to straight. But if this randomly happened to you, your hair is probably wavy now. I’ve read that hair can change throughout your life because of hormones, which makes sense since you’re in middle school now
Jo K Yeah I think my hair is transitioning to wavy now which does makes sense since part of my family has curly hair
My hair used to be long and pin straight, thick, and practically perfect, THEN, I GOT A PUXIE CUT ADJSJDSJDJSSD. Once it grew out, the ends of my hair are curled up. Sometimes it looks perfect, with the curl facing out, or other times, it looks like a mess. Currently it looks like a mullet, because one year ago, the pixie cut had layers. Oh well, I like the texture, because having boring straight hair 24/7 gets boring and I would drool over wavy hair, well, I still do haha. Oh well, one day, one day.
honestly that length looks really great on you!! super chic
also: something i would recommend as someone who has very weightless light fine (annoying) hair that can tend to frizz a lot is to spray rose water on your hair as it dries and brushing through it, i feel like for me this is basically like straightening my hair because you’re taking all the frizz and laying it down and letting it dry in that position, kind of like the silk press method you use. rose water also makes my hair really soft so that’s another plus. I know you get so many tips every single day but this is my one tip I would recommend that maybe hasn’t been brought to your attention yet
+R G B 0.2 rather the opposite!! rose water has a slightly acidic pH so it can help you bring your hair back to the right pH level, it’s also anti inflammatory so it can be good for dandruff and eczema. it’s imo the most harmless and universal leave in conditioner you could find
Also wooden brushes give less static than plastic brushes. Might be helpful to know considering static can get bad in winter :)
+Valerie yes definitely!! i also really enjoy a wide tooth comb for when my hair is soaking wet to detangle it
Wow, I’ll give this a try. Do you dilute the rose water?
@@MarcianMarshmallows i wonder too
Wait what? Did she actually say that she doesn’t like her short hair???
It looks so good, even better than the longer haircut!!
I’m just waiting until Brad Mondo finally reacts to your amazing hair videos
Imma brad mondo today :d when i saw this video :(
i care about this girl's hair more than i care about my own loooool
candilly8 😂
*_I was like you. Your hair isn't straight anymore it's wavy. Your hormones are changing but this girl is not willing to listen. There are so many comments yet you pick ones that nobody notices because they are incorrect._*
_edit: what the actual hell, I swear this is insane why is there so many likes?! Thanks lol_
ThanksForReadingThis YouAreABlessing It happened to me when I first got my period. My hair was 1C and became 2C-3A. It’s crazy
It makes me question: can we manipulate hormones to chance our hair texture to the one we want? Maybe not now, but in the future who knows... it might be less damaging to the hair
@@WafflesOinc how can her hormones be changing for years and years?
My hair got dryer when my estrogen plummeted. Dry hair goes more curly.
👏👏👏👏👏
Jojoba oil on the ends of your hair and keeping it up in a bun to protect the ends helps. Then again, everyone's hair is different
That’s literally exactly what I do to my hair! Great tip
different oils for different kinds of hair. I have fine hair for instance and what works best for it is argan oil(!) and jojoba oil. There’s no use in moisturising your hair if you don’t lock it in with oil ❤
Your hair won’t ever be “silky straight”. It’s got a wave in it and you should either accept it, or get a Japanese hair straightening treatment.
Less damaging than a Brazilian hair straighten, and lasts longer.
KittenGoesGrr I think she had an Japanese one but it didn’t work and her hair became dry and I think you need do to it again and again so that it stays it’s not one time (expensive, time consuming and not good for the hair for the long run) that’s what she missed
Malena Sander i thought that was the brazilian one not the japanese one
Malena Sander she had the Brazilian one and it killed her hair. For the Japanese treatment depending on how wavy/curly it is, you’d could get it done literally once a year.
Provided you keep up with the instructions that the *reputable* (important) salon give you, your results will last
KittenGoesGrr agreed. got japanese hair straightening and a year and a a half later it’s still going strong, my hair was very damaged and frizzy before but now it’s smooth and straight
HELL NO! i tried it and it damaged the crap out of it. i'm just experimenting and finding out what works for my hair. and yes believe it or not I know my hair is wavy...
Subscriber: have you considered that the weather where you live may be causing your hair to be so frizzy?
Isabellas next video: I’m moving..
It defenetrly change your hair yes. When I was in London where the weather is so humid, my hair was sooo frizzy and very wavy and when I went to Munich for a couple of days where the weather is very dry, no frizz at all and my hair were straighter
PAHAHAHHAHH
Humectants+dry weather= nasty hair
I cried haha 😂
Honestly just as you can overwhelm your skin with a lot of products and methods of care, you can do the same with hair. I really wonder what her hair would be like if she just took a step back and just used a nice, lovely quality shampoo and conditioner as always that meets her hair needs like hydration and strengthening while washing, with a hair treatment like a deep conditioner or hair mask just once or twice a week. I feel like there’d be a lot less stress surrounding her hair care routine and trying to find new ideas and new methods. She seems like she puts her hair through quite a bit trying to make it look like how she wants it to, but I feel like all the products and methods of treatment she tries continuously might be stressing it out more and potentially having an opposite effect.
This!!! I agree. She’s overwhelming her hair too much. I am growing my hair with the most simple routine and it looks lovely. I use a good quality hydrating shampoo and conditioner and use the Miracle Hair Mask 10 once a week. I wash my hair 2 times a week. Before I wash it, I always apply a mix of all the oils I have in my house. Coconut, Olive, Avocado, Rosemary (love to darken my already dark hair lol), and almond. I let it sit for hours while I clean the house. Then wash my hair like usual. I also have a metal comb called Magnetix that I used when I had hair loss due to dermatitis. It helped with stimulating the scalp. I now find it helpful to promote my overall hair growth. I also comb my hair 2 times a day with a regular brush. I don’t use a straightener (only for special occasions) but I do blow dry my hair to get rid of the puffiness. I have straight her, yet it gets puffy so it really helps. It has never affected the quality of my hair. That’s my routine! :) it has become a habit by now lol
You realize that she literally did this for YEARS.
Why did you choose "straighten" when choosing shampoo? And why do you straighten your hair? It clearly wants to be curly/wavy! Just let it be that.
It's her dream to have straight hair just let her be
@@ellie5017 I know but obviously it's not working for her and it's making her hair super dry and she obviously feels sad about that
@@normagruden I mean yeah, I guess, but since she saw the option she wanted to give it a try since she wants it so bad. But you're right
Elizabeth Arias Yes, but her dream is to have it dry naturally like that. She can’t get straight hair without SOME heat, and she can’t accept that it is wavy. That’s why she is frustrated.
@@aromarose4133 I understand
“I’vE TrIeD eVeRyTHinG”
Girl, you tried the curly girl method for ONE DAY and expected it to do something.....
P.s. the kinky-ness at the base of your neck HIGHLY suggests that your hair is turning wavy/curly.
Emma Naylor I reckon she should at this point get a Japanese hair straightening treatment done. She wants silky straight hair but like you mentioned, that’s not the case.
Treating her hair as straight when it’s not is causing the problems
Emma Naylor I think she said that she tried the curly girl method for a few months in her fist video
KittenGoesGrr i think that would just damage it even more
Macedonia is Greek no, was for a day or some.
jullie soares she said in her first video that she “had to give it the commitment of a few more months” and she did have results
For goodness' sake. So many comments thinking you know everything that goes on in her mind and with her hair. She wants _healthy_ hair, not straight hair. Suggest, don't make assumptions and claims about Isabella and her hair. Y'all need to chill. Honestly.
Also. This is one of my most liked comments so thanks!
Elianna Eccleston facts
Plus that's her hair she can do whatever she wants
@@ieatdirt1563 IKR.
@veksur I agree
If she didn’t want straight hair why did she choose straighten in the shampoo thing.
UPDATE: So i know my hair is Wavy. There’s no need to tell me what I already know. I'm not denying my waves, It's in transition phase so my waves are not fully formed yet. This means it's difficult to maintain cohesiveness throughout my hair, so I’m just experimenting with style and different methods. I share this stuff for you guys because I love trying and discovering new hair care methods. x ALSO, keep caaalllmm everybody... I'm not done with the Curly Girl Method just yet ;) P.S if I want to straighten my hair once in a blue moon, I WILL! We all deserve to feel good and get glam once in a while even if it means using a bit of heat to create a nice do. This is why we take good care of our hair in the meantime! Heat protectant at the ready! x
Try this routine its saving my hair from frizz. Shampoo of your choice, preferably sulphate, paraben and silicone free, i like shea moisture but your hair is fine and may find it too heavy. Noughty is another good brand in boots. Then use the hask protein conditioner, thickly coat the mids and ends, leave for 3 or more minutes, brush through with a wide-toothed comb, denman brush or tangle teaser. Then scrunch in the conditioner to really get it in your hair follicles and rinse off. You can brush it once more whilst its sopping wet but not once it starts drying, that creates frizz. I have a feeling you don’t like volume in your hair so apply these next products whilst wet not damp. Dry your hair a little with a t shirt of microfibre towel just enough to stop it dripping. Then apply a curling cream, again i like sm but that will likely be too heavy for you so try Aussie noughty. Using the praying hands method - don’t rake - to mids and ends mostly and scrunch. Then add a leave in conditioner- again noughty is good haha - using very gently praying hands method to ends and mids and scrunch with the towel again. I likr to then flip my hair gently as it dries to keep my roots mobile to create volume. Don’t touch your hair until it’s dry to scrunch out any crunch. If you do before it’s dry you’ll get frizz. Enjoy nice hair. Sleep with pineapple or wrapped to protect and in the morning you can re-wet it and scrunch and apply more products if needed to refresh
Edit - I don’t reslly get grease but you can do this with dry shampoo and still wet it if you do and this method keeps me going for up to a week before i really need to wash it again
Isabella, your reactions to these comments are not serving you. 100%, there have been rude comments. But many of the comments are simply advising you to let go of the silky straight dream for your hair and embrace your texture. And why are people stating this? Because your whole video at the start of this journey was you going on, and on, and on about wanting silky straight hair from Instagram, trying the CGM for a minute, deciding it’s not working, and going back to striving for straight hair. You have been replying to comments in past videos “thanks for the advice, but I really prefer straight hair on me” and continuing to advertise straight hair products. So of course everyone is going to assume that you still want straight hair and advise you against running down this road to nowhere. This is the first time I have heard you fully acknowledge that your hair is not straight anymore and that you are working on enhancing its new texture, which is great news for your hair. But it’s unfair to be so critical of people telling you to stop trying to force it to be straight when that is what you have been showing the whole time.
@@WavingFan Lindsey, Thank you for taking the time to write this criticism in a constructive way. I have read and put thought into this so I hope you'll read my response. Some of my reactions have been very blunt yes, my frustration is real. But interestingly this comment you've just written also mentions many things that are no longer true, which further adds to my point. I make it very clear in that first video that silky long hair was a dream of mine for the past 6 years but that it is No Longer My Goal. I state in that video that my goal now is for healthy hair not long hair. Nowhere in any of my videos since then have I expressed my desire for that long thick straight hair that I once wanted because i already realized about a year ago that it's just not going to happen! My videos are purely about trying to make sense of what my hair wants and experiment with different methods to improve my hair quality, those Instagram hair goals are a thing of the past! So Yes Lindsey, i do know this. As for your reference - trying the CGM for a minute. very true, I didn't give it long enough which is why for the past 2 months i've been gathering research so i can give it a proper go starting next week in fact. You mention, my reply to a comment that I prefer how straight hair looks on me. yep that's true! I do, and i don't see what's wrong with preferring one hairstyle over another. but this is irrelevant anyway becasue I don't even let myself have straight hair unless i straighten it for a special occasion. 99% of my daily life my hair is left natural and wavy. so its upsetting to see people bashing me for straightening my hair in this one video (for a date i had that night actually.) - "continuing to advertise straight hair products." Interesting use of words there. it is not a straight hair product, and your use of the word continuing is out of context. I chose straightening as an element of my formula simply because I wanted to see what it would do. turns out it worked pretty well with the straightening iron, but i've actually decided to discontinue using it because it's no secret that my hair wants to be wavy. - Unfair of me to be critical of those criticizing me, Perhaps. But honestly, i think some people are just being plain rude which is unfair of them too. I can see where you're coming from and I have already decided i need to be much clearer in future videos, because it seems people are confused and stating things that are untrue, or assuming I'm holding on to the old desires from my hair story video. However, explaining every detail in every video is just not possible sometimes. Apart from trying to be clearer, I can only hope that people will use their common sense and understand that maybe there is much, much more to the situation than what they've watched in 1 or 2 videos. x
Hey this might be a wierd idea but the whole issue with your hair is that it seems dried and damaged and considering the fact that you seem a little iffy about using the curly girl method I have an idea use the steps in the curly girl method minus the scrunching. Dont try to straighten it but also don't try to scrunch I did something similar with hair it is looking way better than it did before. I personally cant do all the steps in the curly girl method since my hair can't take the product but but i hope it works out for you.I totally understand how it feels when you can notice how your hair isn't like it was before. People on the internet only see the pieces you choose to display and they assume based on that just because you have only hair related videos doesn't mean you are obsessed with them. It goes with content you are currently putting out. I wish you good luck on on your hair repair journey 😊
use OLAPLEX. go to a qualified hairdresser to get a gloss (NOT a dye) with no1 and 2 olaplex treatment. then maintain the results with olaplex no3 at home. it'll make your hair shiny, less frizzy and wavy but in a beautiful, disciplined way.
Your hair texture looks more like mine than anyone I've ever known. It's kind of surreal. My texture switched from pin straight to wavy frizzy when I was about 12 or 13. Honestly, the best thing to do is embrace your new natural texture. All the rinses and shampoos in the world aren't going to reverse the change in your natural hair texture.
K'lah Dyer so true darling. it definitely is upsetting but what can we do? 🥺 I’m so glad your embracing your hair with such positivity unlike Isabella qq
@@K1ndlatte_ Haha! It was a long process, don't get me wrong! But I have really come to love my natural hair texture and care for it as it is, not as I wish it would be.
The same happened to me and even tho I prefer my hair straight too, it's not a reason to be so obsessed about it, she should juste try to embrace her natural hair texture instead of fucking her hair up all the time. And she should stop getting such little trims when her hair is so dry and damaged, a big cut never hurts you hair and it will grow thicker and stronger.
Try using curlers for your hair instead of flat ironing it. It will add a little volume and a nice wave or curl which will probably look a lot more flattering on you than straight hair.
People, she wants her hair to be healthy, not straight
confoosion watch her first video
mary jane she’s changed
@@mj.guti_ Exactly. First video. Then she did curly girl method - where people were talking shit that she has straight hair and now they're into her because she "has curly hair reee".
Let her make her own choices for her hair. If she cut it all of, it'd be still her business, not yours.
If that was true why does she still straighten it?
Danyelle Jones did u not hear what she said at 6:13
I know you’ve tried the curly girl method, but I can see once you’ve hydrated and air dried, I can tell it’s wavy. Might help to try it again but for longer. Not telling you what to do with your hair, just curly girl to curly girl. xo 💖
Little Flow What is the curly girl methode? Do you have a link or something.. I would like to try it
i plan to try the curly girl method for longer soon! x
Her hair is actually really nice and shiny. Hair is mostly genetics like I can do anything to my hair and it won’t get damaged like at all but hers seems to be the opposite. I think you need to accept the fact that you can’t dong anything else for your hair and just love it the way it is. Girl I’m with you in the journey I’ve hated my hair for so long and it’s nice to see someone as obsessed with their hair as me haha but somethings only time can heal.
love how everyone in the comments suddenly becomes brad mondo
Brad Mondo needs to do a commentary on this girl 😂😂😂
IKR. Like.. Some people might like change? Lot of these people in comments get their panties wet over a girl that wants to try and experiment on her hair 🤦🏾
Now that you said it, I feel like brad mondo really should make a commentary on her!
ngl i would love for brad mondo to talk to her though. i get it might be hard since he's in the states...but it'd be a cool collab.
@@lunalove9395 Brad Mondo isn't a qualified hair dresser, he was literally just a cleaner in his father's salon & then started making videos giving other people advice because he thinks having a parent that's a hairdresser makes him qualified. The times we've seen him do someone's hair, it's been horrific.
Your hair looks much healthier and thicker now, and also you can see your natural waves forming (4:56).
Lara Bakir I think she just neeeeeds to understand that her hair won’t be straight. It’s just got a wave and that’s fine
@@jaydenisaacs4855 exactly!
@@jaydenisaacs4855 right?? I feel like she's struggling so much just because she wants completely straight hair. Something we all thought before going natural 😅
Right! And that even makes her look more mature. The straight hair let her look like a child/young teenager 🤷🏼♀️
They’re gorgeous, but unfortunately she has some of the hardest waves to work with. 2A is hard to style, especially when you don’t have wavy hair experience.
Isabella: I know my hair is curly
Also isabella: I chose straighten
Megan V. I know! I mean she stopped using function of beauty, it probably didn’t work because of that, she needed to chose curl definition
She has straight hair. Just uneven in some areas. This happens a lot due to hormonal changes
@@elegant_peasant how do you fix that? i need help it suddenly happened to me :(
@@hitsumiku30 it happened to me as well. I recommend a keratin treatment. It will even out your hair to be straight, unless you want to try out the curly hair method (which I don’t recommend since your hair is mostly straight). I get the Global Keratin done every 6 months and it does wonders. There is no permanent solution for it since your hair grows like that from your roots. You cannot change your hormones.
@@elegant_peasant okay thank you very much ❤️! i’ve been frustrated with my hair for months and i just want to tame it down.
I’m so done seeing you ruining your hair. 😭😭 girl your hair isn’t “dead” well all hair is dead but I mean your hair is good, you just treat it like straight hair and your hair ISNT AND WILL NEVER BE STRAIGHT. Embrace your waves
Edit: correction, I know she isn’t literally ruining her hair! There are way more worse things that ruin hair but it’s still damaging her natural wavy hair :) in no way I wanted to be offensive
Exactly 4:56 u can se her curly waves
Omg thx so much for the likes❤💕
itz jj m they’re not curls omg
I don’t understand most girls would kill for waves. I know everyone has different tastes but waves are really nice too
Well, sometimes hair changes mine went from wavy to straight. When it was very wavy it was an absolute mess tho, I didn’t know how to take care of it lol. Ended up looking like hers when I would try to straighten it without a flat iron. I think she should try something like a curl cream or a mouse, as far as I remember she had tried the curly girl method and I’m not surprised that it didn’t work out since it is too heavy for wavy hair.
No no no no, I go to a lot of effort and take bloody good care of it! Obviously, my hair is wavy! I'm just e x p e r i m e n t i n g. leave me alone 😂
Omg. Your wavy hair is so obvious after it naturally dried. Please have that instead. And make it long. I think wavy long hair is also pretty for you girl...
She said in her first video she didnt want wavy hair, so I dont think anything will make her change her mind
@@anothertitan5543 yeahh...
@@anothertitan5543 But treating wavy hair like straight hair is probably what caused all of her problems tbh
Mrithika Viswanathan but she also said she tried treating her hair with the curly girl method for awhile and didn’t get good results
@@gracealyssa28 Oh right, I didn't know.
I just can't get over your editing skills
This is the content I needed 😂
If ur hair isn’t naturally straight and instead its naturally wavy, maybe try the curly girl method to define ur waves. Might improve ur hair condition aswell!! Xx
She did it for like a min.. lol
@@serina_makeup_mama4094 chill Serina, that doesn't mean i won't try it again, infact, i've been planning to try it full out!
@@IsabellaDemarko cant wait
I saw people commenting on her curly girl method video that she has straight hair, now in here people are whining that she has curly lmao
Jin the banana from the left thats always gonna happen rlly 🤣 And we don’t know that they are actually correct tho as im sure they are not experts ☺️
honestly, have you maybe thought about that it could be something with your thyroid? i'm not a doctor but i have hypothyroidism and i've had dry hair all my life.
Misa yeah me too!
I’ve been commenting that she should get her blood checked. She said she eats well but that doesn’t mean anything. I had a b12 deficiency (despite eating meat every day) and a vitamin d deficiency.
This should be top comment
That’s what I thought, my mother has hypothyroidism too and she’s been struggling with her dry hair
I don't think she has hypothyroid, as I do and I know she'd have other much more obvious symptoms. It could have something to do with her hormone levels changing, or like someone earlier said if she has a vitamin deficiency
people are always saying "you just have high expectations for your hair" "you have wavy hair stop wanting it to be straight" "stop wanting long hair so bad" and all that other bs. SHE KNOWS, ITS NOT BAD TO HAVE A GOAL FOR YOUR HAIR, also its HER hair, she likes her hair long. she doesnt need validation from a random person on the internet. she doing so much with her hair, and obviously you guys are only watching a teensy bit of her hair journey and making judgements on that. she wants long hair, she knows her curl pattern has changed, so just support her and help her.
yes!! they're being so rude
no ❤️
@@zoya9506 update: yeah agreed
Darling! Go to endocrinologist and trichologist! These is probably inside problem
Yes!! She was looking for hair scientists and these are it!!
But search for a good trichologist. Mine charged 80€ and all I know now is that my hair grows in "bundles".
Anna's Actuality true that
She's got curly hair, but she doesn't know how to take care of it
Why you call her darling tho
dude this haircut looks GLAMOROUS af on you. rock it! no lie, i think it makes you look like a movie star. idk i saw it and i just got that 'wow' feeling.
meglr aw thank you!
I feel like u need to stop touching your hair so much and messing with it, just leave it alone😂
if i’m being honest, i actually really love the shorter look on you, even with the waves. it looks gorgeous on you!
You should watch Gillian McLellan’s video. She had hair similar to your’s: poofy, frizzy, and dry. Turns out she had RINGLETS. Totally curly! Her hair just needed the right products and styling. I really think you’re a curly/wavy girl.
She knows that she is.
Finally not a hate comment
Gillians video is very good and she is so lovely in her video to! I hope isabella tries it.
Let me give you this advice : you’ll have a great hair when you’ll stop focusing on it ! That’s literally what happened with me .. i was so obsessed with growing my hair until it became awful ! By time i cut it and got too busy in life that I completely forgot about it .. it grew very quickly and got so much better I don’t even understand how !
I’d really really encourage you to embrace your waves! Your hair looked very nice in the little clip you showed after it air dried
I feel like shes getting boderline dysphoric and obssesive about her hair, to the point that it seems it's impacting her mental health. She look beautiful but she says her ponytail looks awful etc etc.
C c ikr hair is not that big of a deal..
@@maisie133 yeah its kinda hard to watch
C c, thank you for your concern but im absolutely fine. this is a channel about hair care so naturally i will make videos focusing on myhair.
This! It reminds me of when my OCD manifested as BDD and an eating disorder
she has always has long hair. she cut her hair. she hated the very short hair. that's it
I know it may seem hard to do but BUZZ IT OFF AND START AGAIN! It WILL be worth it!!
YESSS!!!
Your hair is naturally wavy stop treating it like it’s straight,,,
The thing is, is that when people are saying that you’re treating your hair texture wrong, they mean you’re treating it like it’s straight and you end up with frizz bc your hair’s texture is currently wavy. Even though you may not like your waves, focus on defining them vs trying to make it look sleek and straight. Bc it just won’t be. That isn’t your hair’s texture. Defining the hair’s wavy texture will make your hair look a lot less frizzy and more manageable even if there is a wave, it’s something you shouldn’t be upset about ❤️ it’s just how your hair is.
However, when she tried to the curly girl method, it didn’t really change the quality much
The Disney Expert Of All Time watch her recent videos, she revisited the curly girl method. I think her hair has definitely improved since here.
That’s because she needs to give her hair time to revert to its original self because it’s been damaged for so long
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@@jenniferlopez5446 Seems that didn't work out either.
Y’all please stop attacking her, if you were to see her hair journey video you would understand! She has her own goals and she’s tried literally everything, just let her do her! It’s not hurting you. 💓💓
Who else thinks she looks really good with short hair?
Tbh if I were you I would just embrace the texture in your hair, that’s the only way we will feel smooth and not dry.
*cuts it for regrowth just to straighten it the next day* 🤦🏻♀️
Even a couple times a month is too much. Your hair is too thin.
According to her TH-cam story she straightens twice per year and she needed to measure it at the time.
Ikr
how do you want your hair to be naturally straight like if it's kinda wavy
Try “curly girl method”.
I’m sure that you have wavy/curly hair and that will solve all of your problems.
Your hair will not be that frizzy and dry.
You will have nice, curly, healthy hair.❤️
She already did but she said it was a mess
Samia Erg nah, she said she saw improvements but didn’t want curly / wavy hair.
Ok so Isabel if you don’t see this it’s fine but I used to have frizzy damaged hair and here is what I did I showered every morning and night using deep conditioning and rinsing with cold water and using a wet brushing when damp it worked for me and the waves in my hair faded away.
Don’t ever straighten it again . If you have dry hair it’s like hair suicide .
B00_bit Just use oils
is there something you like doing once in a while to look and feel good? well, don't ever do that again. that's how your comment comes across.
Isabella Demarko i’m sorry , i didn’t mean for it to come across as rude . I should have worded it differently. I was trying to be helpful as you complained about having dry hair , and applying any sort of heat to your hair when it’s dry makes the hair break off and also burn off easier .
Olivia Worth thanks !
I thought the short hair was a look 😭 also I'm thinking at this point you have unrealistic expectations for your hair...
paloma aint nothin wrong with having goals for healthy hair
@@gothiccino_9194 she had healthy hair with the curly girl method. She clearly wants *straight* hair
@@tealgirl3609 I thought she is doing the curly hair method now again.
Exactly!! She has been looking up to “insta hair” but we all know they use extensions
Olga Zuluaga it’s also to do with genetics. I naturally have very long and thick hair like “insta hair” simply because i was born with these genetics 🤷🏻♀️ of course there are methods to get your hair thick but, alot of times genetics plays a huge part
I dont want to seem ignorant, I know you've probably tried everything. But I just want to offer some of my limited hair knowledge. Have you tried the 30 day plait/ braid method? Basically you just oil your ends and wear your hair in a protective style like a plait for every day for a month. It really helps to protect from breakage and just gives your hair a little boost.
When your hair is this length, it looks less frizzy and more wavy
Honey, you'll never have straight hair that is not damaged.
Meike Kroll me and my straight hair asian genes
Meike Kroll this is funny because my hair is naturally wavy and frizzy but when I condition it right and straighten it, it’s silky and straight
honey, let me experiment.
@@leanntan3229 I also have naturally straight and very thin hair
Isabella Demarko BRUH
Maybe someone has already said this to you but a good trick is not to touch the hair so much - ever since I stopped doing it my hair started feeling much better. With that said your hair looks great :) short or long
Hmmmm the thing is.. surely, for the eyes of the human, "dry" hair might not be the look we want to go for. But the natural state of your hair might just be the "dry" look. And to be honest, it doesn't look "dry", it looks alive and well. It feels like "dry" is a word we have chosen for hairtypes like yours and it just doesn't click to me. I don't think you can change the way your hair naturally look. Surely you can do keratin to make it look straight, but that isn't necessarily healthy for your hair, just 'cause it looks shiny. If you eat somewhat healthy, do some kind of exercise and drink a bunch of water, you're doing good. You and your hair is healthy. NOT SURE if I managed to get to the point whatever that was, but your hair looks great to me anywayys!! xx
Yes, her hair is extremely healthy! She is just really fighting her natural wave because she had pin straight hair when she was younger. 🤷♀️ She's going to be really miserable until she decides to embrace it.
@@Lucy-vx2ls Right?! Looks super healthy to me. Well, just as our body changes as we grow older, so does the hair! And I don't think we can (nor should) fight against that. Easiest would be to embrace it and find new ways to style it if that would help with getting along with it, with pins and etcetera.
Omg so true. Because my hair is exactly like this but it's healthy. The only thing I could do Is straightening my hair so it looks even better
You should really just stop using heat on it. I had similar hair to you and my hair is really intolerant to heat once it’s heat damaged it looks dry and frizzy. I haven’t used heat in three years and my hair is naturally wavy and very shiny and healthy now. Maybe you should embrace your waves they will look good on you!
Emily no! please don't comment stuff like this cause i can tell you're a nice girl and you mean well but it feels like you're not paying attention. Did you not hear me say in the video i barley ever straighten my hair? i've done it like 3 times in the last year. 3 times! ive gone my whole life without using heat so believe me, just because someone never uses heat doesn't mean their hair is healthy! My hair damage is not due to heat! I know i have wavy hair all i'm trying to do is make them more managable. and i deserve to get glam and style it once in a blue mon if i choose to :)
Isabella Demarko hello. Yes I did pay attention to your video, and to be fair you didn’t specify how many times you’ve tended to straighten it. To some girls “barely at all” might be once a week. I’m sorry my perspective couldn’t be more helpful, I hope you find a solution soon.
After watching this video I realized it took me 8-9 months to get my hair to the state its in now I have never loved my hair till now. Im so happy she is in it for the long run and is taking it one step at a time keep going girl👏👏❤❤❤
She low key reminds me of Alyssa from The End of the F*cking World. Anyone else???
I’ve been to the year 3000 omg yess i knew she reminded me of someone
I feel like she just needs to let her hair alone
today I joined the hair journey. Did a huge chop and now I have a bob. Gonna try oils, vinegar rinses, silk pillow, scalp treatments and less heat styling. Wish me luck, people
You need to stop being in denial 😒
You have *WAVY LOW POROSITY* hair!
Start finding products that will help your hair *TYPE* and you will not have to keep cutting it!
Your hair is *NOT* straight & you *CANNOT* force it to be!
Leah, please please don't leave comments like this. Believe it or not Leah, I KNOW MY HAIR IS WAVY. I'm not "in denial", I'm only trying new ways to make it more manageable. Secondly, It is unwise to tell someone their hair porosity! My hair is in fact HIGH POROSITY. Please Stop making sweeping statements that have no thought or truth behind them.
Isabella Demarko are you sure? Because your hair has a hard time absorbing moisture which is why it's dry all the time and, frizzy. I'd look into seeing if it's truly high porosity.
@@Itsleeuhhhhh Yeah, I have low porosity hair and I think she does too. If she's experimenting, she should try low porosity wavy hair routines for a few months just to see results.
Isabella Demarko I’m a little disappointed you responded to her like that. I may be making assumptions because this is the first video I’ve watched of yours, but your response to her seemed to be kind of.. rude? After all she is supporting your channel by watching it and only trying to give you helpful information and help you. Sigh... I probably won’t be watching any more videos. Sorry
Layn Star honestly same. This is the first vid i’m watching from her and she seems passive aggressive and rude in her replies...
Omg you're so patient about the whole thing. I have a never-ending dilemma with my hair because sometimes I want to cut it short (like yours in this video) because I wanna look more dynamic and active but I'm afraid I would regret it because I like my long hair as it makes me feel feminine (which I like). I'm at boob-length now and I'm considering a haircut now so I think I need to find a middle ground between feeling feminine and looking dynamic with the right haircut/style. Anyway, keep up with what you're working on because you've worked this hard!
Alya알랴 Hi as someone who had hip lengte hair at 18and cut my hair to above my shoulders in the summer before Uni. I would say go for it, do it in a few times don’t cut more than 40 cm of at once like I did since it leaves you proner to split ends. But yeah what I wanted to say is I’m 1,5 year later and while I regretted it the first week after that i thoroughly enjoyed the feeling of healthy short weightless and easy to handle hair, my hair grows really quickly (I think) and it’s already almost below my boob again. I didn’t feel it growing one day it was just long again. I didn’t feel less like myself when I cut it but like I had more time to give my hair better care. And like I had less to worry about regarding my hair. The older you get the harder changes are going to be so if you still want to try it short I’d suggest sooner rather than later
However feminine wise I got a ton of “you look so cute” instead of omg I love your hair remarks once it was short so you’ll have less of a “womanly” and more of a “girly” cut. But I am white and have curly hair that curled more when I cut it so that also might be the reason I looked “girlier” all of a sudden
GIRL DON'T THINK ABOUT IT CUT! SHORT HAIR TEAM
Me too! My hair is almost to the waist, but it's thin and I keep thinking I should cut at least 10 centimeters to make it look nice and thick ... But I really like my long hair.
This isn't even that short 😂
I completely understand you because I can't recognize and like myself with short hair as well... I'm trying everything to grow my hair back. Please keep posting your videos
..they inspire me SO MUCH. And please don't listen to the bad comments...unfortunately there is a lot of people envy of your beauty and the shine you have. 🌹👑
As a hairdresser, the only thing I can think of is the fact that you went so long without a REAL cut that your split ends started to split up towards your scalp and that wrecked a good amount of your hair so now you have to keep getting regular cuts and it will be HEALTHY you will probably always have drier hair type but it will help a lot with the ends being thicker and less frizzy
Can’t believe after all this time and effort you use a straightener. You clearly have temperamental hair, maybe you shouldn’t irritate it further with heat?
Næp Sæck FINALLY I SEE SOMEONE ADRESS THIS SITUATION! I don’t think she even used heat protection before she straightened it.
Maybe because i want to look and feel good and get glammed up for a nice night out. You've clearly misunderstood my efforts. i've gone to all the effort to get my hair healthy so that i CAN style it and make it look nice once in a while. Can't a girl get dressed up once in a blue moon? Leave me alone.
Isabella Demarko Dude, when you have such issues with your hair then maybe you have to accept that you have to use other methods. Also, if you post about your journey online and get people invested in your hair you can’t expect for no one to say anything remotely critical.
Wavy hair loves styling. It just looks similar like yours when it’s not styled. Wavy hair is cool. You can style it straight and curly. Learn how to style it! 🩷
my hair used to be much drier than yours and i started uesing crushed Christ's thorn jujube leaves with olive oil and the result was marvelous !!
u should really look it up it has a lot of hydrating oils within the leaves and even vitamins
i heat olive oil with double boiler method then add the leaves and leave it overnight then add yogurt and any favorite oils and apply it from the med section to the ends and leave it for 2h and rain your hair with worm water and apply conditioner heavily wash it and you are done!!
I need to try this!
that sounds amazing for hair, I might have to try it
I mean her hair is pretty but it’s wavy, not straight. If she tries the curly girl method for at least a month it’ll look way better. Or if you just don’t like wavy hair do Japanese hair straightening or smthn
Bella Johnson she did!
Ex E she only tried it for a few days. She would probably need to try it for longer to see more of an effect.
*• Lyric •* in the viral video she said she gave it a few months and it sucked
If she wants nice hair then she’s gotta do it for more than a few months. I’ve been naturally wavy/curly for almost a full year now and it’s still not perfect. It takes lots of love and patience but I don’t think she wants to do that lol
Its her hair. Let her do with it what she pleases.
i honestly loved the first hair style/cut (short)
Woah these comments are so negative. I totally feel you girl, my hair is basically the same but a little thicker and I think I have the frizz under control for now. I am equally as obsessed with my hair growing long although I've never underestimated the need for cutting off the split ends. Now I don't know what scissors you use, and clearly this isn't the only thing going on with your hair, but I've heard that if your scissors ain't sharp enough the ends will split sooner. You probably know this.
I mostly wanted to say that I understand your obsession and I appreciate your videos a lot. Would love to get an update on function of beauty when you've used them for a few more months! Best of luck to you and your hair! xx
Edit: wow I sound so rude? I love your videos!
I know right!Can't people just support her for what she does?If it was me that have frizzy hair I would've do the same.Like who the f like frizzy hair even though it's natural.Frizzy hair are just so messy and annoying
1. Your ponytail is gorgeous.
2. Take some vitamins girl.
thanks, and i take them every day.
I recomend the shower filter. My hair as improved so much. The price is nothing for the results
4:59 LOOK AT HER HAIR, IT LOOKS GOOD like gurl stop straightening it and then it wont be "dRy" please
Kika Barátka i was thinking the same thing
She looks a lot more mature with her natural hair
She straightens her hair twice a year. Chill.
Right
@@elianna_ecc right? These hate comments are so obnoxious and annoying 🙄
your hair is wavy. accept it. you cant make it straight without damaging the hell out of it.
I know my hair is wavy and i don't have a problem with it! i'm only experimenting and working on making it more managable. I wish people would stop going around telling people to accept things. i have nothing i need to accept.
My hair was super dry kind of like yours, then I started to use Moroccan oil. I use it at night after I shower, and if my hair needs it, in the morning as well. It helps your hair look glossy and not dry. If you don't already do this you could only wash your hair every other day. Washing you hair a lot actually drys it out. I hope this helps ♥
If you are reading this, have a great day, and just know, you are beautiful.
Since someone asked if Function of Beauty contains silicone, I decided to share this information I consider to be important:
"I think they are silicone-free (correction: they are not but I heard they can be made silicone-free upon request), but last time I checked, they seem to have substituted it for polyquaternium, which has similar properties. It puts a layer on your hair (it actually bonds chemically with your hair), scalp, skin, and everything that it comes in contact with indirectly, such as towels, clothing, etc., which can be hard to wash off in some cases (especially amodimethicone), so it can build up over time, causing skin and hair problems and possibly stains on fabric.
Some companies are dumping that into hair products so they can happily claim they're silicone-free, just because the consumers haven't properly caught up to what polyquats are.
While polyquats also provide some benefits in the short term by smoothing the hair and making detangling much easier, I personally avoid them for the reasons above, and because they caused me a lot of hair loss for months before I pinpointed what exactly it was. Furthermore, synthetic polyquats are not biodegradable and are therefore persistent organic pollutants.
Wether you decide to avoid polyquats or not is up to you, but I hope I helped you make a more informed decision :)"
I just researched all of this recently, feel free to let me know if I got anything wrong.
This was interesting to read and i was considering buying them but I want to buy silicon free and sulphate free products. So thank you!
are extensions just out of the question? if i see beautiful long long hair on the internet i always assume that extensions are involved...
Avery Bailey at this point she should just get extensions lol
@@Chlunkon I just don't see why healthy below-the-shoulder hair is out of the question and then you just clip in the extensions for the length... her videos have honestly taught me so much about hair care, but for her own sanity why not invest in real hair extensions (clip-in so she could care for them more easily) and then care for her own hair at a length that doesn't bring her stress? I love that she's taking this journey i just hope it's not on the basis of online pictures of perfect hair. There's no way to know if those were real, ya know?
Avery Bailey having long hair that grew out of your head just hits different
@@veex103 you do be having a point there
I have very healthy hair that grows pretty fast from not washing it very often. Let your hair get greasy. I have curlyish hair so I only wash once a week.
I was just thinking about you and your hair yesterday 😂
Why is she calling her hair dead?? It wasn’t dead - she just has an issue with her hair when it’s not fresh from the salon.
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Ass someone with dry hair I can tell you her hair was pretty dry before she cut it and that leads to loads of tangles and more damage. It looks and feels matted and kinda like straw. Best to cut it.
Well actually, hair is dead cells
She looks soo good in that cut
..... even though its not very long bt u look beautiful
PLEASE LIKE SO SHE CAN SEE THIS PLZ
I might be a little late but rice water has a ton of protein in it which might not be a good idea because you said you were sensitive to coconut oil which also has proteins.
I have the same problems so yea but you might not, you’ll never know unless you try tho 😘
Just a thing: Eating healthy and drinking water will help your new growth, but will do absolutely nothing for the already existing hair 🤷♀️ That's why it didn't work
True dat
She already knows that, try and watch the full video about her first documentary abt. Her hair probs. LOL
Thats it, honestly. And she has thinner hair, which looks like its probably fine and wavy. If you have thinner hair you have to focus less on length and thickness and more on hydration and overall health. Eating right, drinking water, and using hydrating masks like oils and honey and egg yolks will help immensely
is used to have very long hair till my waist. it was healthy too. i tried for years to grow my hair abd it never worked but after a while i just stopped focusing on my hair so much and suddenly in less than a year it grew. i liked it at first but cut it after a while abd honestly i love my hair now so much more. my hair falls a little below my collar bones and it looks much more classy! id never want to go back to waist length hair. im thinking of getting a bob now
i think you look so much better with short hair. long hair normally ages people and makes hair look more thinner. it also doesnt go with many outfits ( the main reason i cut my hair). i would recommend you to focus on having healthy hair with the texture you have instead of trying to grow unhealthy hair to reach an ideal youve set up for yourself. just an advice tho
I know what you mean, I have very long hair but my dream is season 8 Rachel hair, when it was collar bone length. I cannot do it though my hair has to be long because it’s so puffy and wavy when it’s short, very thick too. I also love ponytails and prefer a very long pony to a short one as it looks less juvenile I find for that specific hairstyle.
I’m literally exhausted just listening to you talk about your hair in these videos, I can’t even imagine how you feel 😕💔☹️