She probably had hormonal changes (hasn't mentioned) and that's why her hair became different than she used to it. I mean, in my case, for a baby I had curly hair, then for 18 years, I had no heavy waves at all. At the age of 23, when I noticed some hormonal changes, I started to develop glamorous curls. Still trying to get used to it. :)
@@fantagegirl255 it can happen with just getting older. I didnt even get my full thick irish hair till i grew it past my waist lol....she just wants hair she doesnt have....
Girl, listen. I went through EXACTLY the same thing as you. Tried every single thing you did to get my hair back (it used to be super pretty and it suddenly got just as troublesome as yours for literally no reason). None of them worked. The only thing that finally worked was seeing a TRICHOLOGIST! A trichologist is a hair specialist, like a hair doctor. They’re not hairdressers (who know nothing about hair quality, just aesthetics). They’re like dermatologists, but they focus on hair and making sure it grows well from the roots going down. They give you specialized products, look at your hair every couple weeks to see how it’s going, massage your hair, give it red light treatments and stuff like that, all based on science. I HIGHLY recommend you go see a trichologist. They’re pretty much the only professionals who actually know about hair, because most people just focus on short term aesthetics instead of the health of the follicules. I swear my hair was just like yours and even though it still isn’t perfect, it is SO SO much better than it used to be. I really know how frustrating it is to try everything and still not get the results you want when so many people don’t even do anything and have gorgeous hair anyway. I used to cry out of frustration and now I don’t even think about it much. I really hope you see this! Sending you lots of love
@@dolcepescas6153 The main thing was just going to the appointments and using products that were specifically formulated for my hair (products that my trichologist made himself for his clients). In the beginning the appointments were once every couple of weeks and then once every couple of months as my hair got better. He would start by evaluating my hair to check the consistency of the fibers, how it was growing, how oily the skin was, etc. Then he would clean the hair, apply specialized lotions, massage the scalp and finish by applying an overhead red light for better absorption of the actives. After the session, he would prescribe certain products for continued daily use (typically a shampoo, conditioner, lotion and heat protectant). He would also instruct me on the proper way to use each one of them. For example, my skin was quite oily at the time, so I had to shower every day and use the shampoo twice in a row and just on the scalp (it was a very gentle sulfate-free shampoo). Then I had to apply conditioner to the rest of the hair, excluding the scalp. After the shower, I had to apply the heat protectant. I want to clarify: I never use heat on my hair. The heat protectant was meant for frizz control and sun protection. It was like a sunscreen (who knew you also had to apply sunscreen to your hair! The sun damages your hair, just as it does with the skin), so it worked as a layer of protection between the hair fibers and the external environment. Finally, before going to bed I had to apply the lotion, just on my scalp (I think it worked as some sort of exfoliant for the skin underneath the hair and promoted healthy hair growth). He was also very adamant in not doing anything that would damage my hair. So no restrictive hairstyles that pull too much on the scalp, letting the hair dry naturally without rubbing it with harsh towels, using a silk pillow case to reduce the friction with the pillow while sleeping, not using any sort of heat or products meant for styling, which typically include ingredients that damage the hair in the long run. If I was ever going to style it, use heat, be out in the sun or get into a pool, I had to apply the heat protectant first. I also started taking some supplements that he recommended for my hair, such as a multivitamin that included biotin, iron, zinc, inositol, vitamin B2 and B6, alpha lipoic acid, L-Cystine, L-Methionine and L-Lysine. He also recommended nutritional yeast and bee pollen or royal jelly (but I wasn't as consistent with these ones in comparison to the multivitamin). He would also emphasize the importance of having a healthy diet and exercising regularly. Obviously, all of this would depend on your type of hair and your specific problems (how thin or thick your hair is, how oily or dry, if you have dandruff or not, if you experience hair loss, etc). That's why it's important to go to a professional, so they can prescribe the products you actually need (for example, a friend of mine also started going to my trichologist, and some of the products she uses are different because her hair is different from mine). Hope it helps!
I am going through the exact same thing, but I don't want to go for a big chop. How much did the trichologist cost? Because I might start to talk to one and get this birds nest sorted!
When your hair gets thinner, there can be an iodine deficiency or ferritin level is not high enough. Ferritin should be over 70. Oral contraceptive pill can cause iodine deficiency. This was what happened to me, now after 10 years with thinner hair, my hair grows thicker again
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It's never "just hair". I lost my almost waist length hair when I was on chemo. Watching this and dreaming about the time I had more than 2 cm. This gives me hope that I can grow it all back.
my dad used to tell me as a child that if you obsess over something that's already beautiful to begin with it will slowly turn ugly (he was saying this about looking in the mirror too much but I found that lesson applicable to many things in life)
um yes agree 100% I had long blonde curly hair and became obsessed with it wanting it to be blonder that I eventually had major fall out and now I have frizzy unruly and unmanageable brown short hair. Nothing wrong with brown hair but it was crazy how obsessed I became with just a color state of my hair that I had to let go of it lol.
my dad has always told us something similar as well, it doesn’t make the insecurities go away but it does remind me that it’s just me and many of the features i don’t like someone else would like, or someone will find beautiful.
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Because shes the 'i want' type and not 'i have' type. The moral of her whole journey is that she tried to have long straight hair (that stays straight no matter wut, so no frizz) and thick ends. but her hair type is is not straight but wayvy or maybe curly
Their is a long hair community, no extensions, completely natural. These girls have hair down to the thighs that is completely their own length. I myself have hip length hair, no extensions. It's not possible for everyone tho and that's okay! Her hair looks beautiful short and in so glad she came to a decision to prioritise her mental health.
@@jamieh2484 yes! You gotta embrace your natural hair texture and thickness. Literally all hair types are gorgeous when taken care off no matter then length, I think she needs to embrace she has naturally wavy hair or accept the fact she will need to flat iron it or blow it out often to style it the way she wants. Also accepting that her hair is about average thickness and alot of insta hair models have above average thickness, it may never look the way she pictures it in her head without heat styling and extensions but it can be just as stunning if she embraces it for what it is. IMO when she tried the curly girl method it looked the best and maybe sticking to it throughout her long hair journey would be best for her. There are so many options for her to take here but the most important thing is that she learns to love herself and her hair.
I have super thick hair... and I almost always have to brush when wet or it's an ordeal, it tangles easily. my hair is healthy just super thicc it's at upper torso area and I tend to brush when I have conditioner in it.
I feel like extensions make for unrealistic hair expectations! I can't tell you how often I have seen someone with amazingly long and thick hair and every single one of them have extensions. Great video! Thanks for being so vulnerable! I have cried over hair more times than I would like to admit.
i have waist length thick hair & you honestly cant have the hair this girl dreams of unless it is natural by genetics or unnatural like the extensions & the best way to try to get there is just cutting it short and learning ur own hair type
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i diagnose you with having curly hair. sounds about right. when you tried the curly girl method, and you saw those results, that was your hair getting healthier. let’s face it, if you have curly hair, there is no way youll be able to keep it straight and healthy at the same time.
I tried the curly girl a little bit. I'm prob 2C. I killed it and decided to keep sulfates out, no heat, silk pillow cases, etc, after I got the big chop. I still use "bad shampoos" and hairspray from time to time still, but it does make a difference when you use the right products and methods! Oh and I went back to a brush cuz the pick made me feel scruffy, and my waves are still nice afterwards once I use texturizing spray and hair wax. I think it would be closer to 3a or 3b if I was consistent longet and let it heal. But.... Ok no excuses, will re commit. The whole idea was to treat it the way I should once it was chopped.
Just because you guys think her hair isn’t that bad and that she’s just being whiny, everyone has different insecurities. If hers is her hair then let her be. Don’t degrade her insecurity because you aren’t her.
I feel like it's because this video didn't really give out any solutions to people sharing her problem and was rather just her moping about her hair not being something it's not. Nothing wrong with feeling insecure but I kinda wish I got the minutes I took to watch this video back.
I have 4b/4c hair and I understand her struggles but just times it by 5. I get this is her insecurity but I'm just jealous because people wouldn't realize her bad hair days as much they'd criticize me for how my hair naturally grows. But honestly I hope she achieves her goal. My goal is also waist length :)
Hard water has this effect on my hair. I notice if I'm staying in a soft water area my hair is completely different, softer, shinier and more manageable. A neutral henna paste applied to the hair adds shine that lasts and is a great conditioner. I really enjoyed watching your video! Great work! *
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@@camillefaith2005 if your mixed, if your whole family is white you will not be able to have type 4 hair at all, it's not possible, you will have to be a mixed person to even have a chance of having type 4 hair
I hated my frizzy hair for years only to discover I was a “curly-wavy girl”. Made me accept the frizz and worked with it. Frizz = Curls/Waves! Stop dreaming about the hair that you are not born with, you will end up frustrated and hate your hair even more. Instead try to accept that you have textured hair. :)
she doesn’t have frizz because she has curly hair, its frizzy because she has naturally thin hair. her hair grows straight, it’s literally straight. she doesn’t use flat irons she just has naturally thin hair that causes frizziness.
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😂😂 the hair is like " not today, try again tomorrow" I wish she would just keep it medium length and realize how beautiful her natural hair color & highlights are.❤
@@quackslikeaduck It that's short my hair is a pixie cut 😂 I think she was just fucking with it too much. Hair doesn't need all that, it needs to be left alone mostly.
ANY TIPS GUYS, YESTERDAY MY HAIR WAS UP TO MY MID-BACK LENGTH, THEN MY MUM GOT ME A LITTLE TRIM TO MY SHOULDER BLADES THEN SHE SAID MY SPLIT ENDS GONNA MAKE ME HAVE TO CUT MY HAIR OFF MORE BUT I DIDNT WANNA SO I WAS CRYING SO MUCH WHILE SHE CUT IT BETWEEN SHOULDER LENGTHS AND BOB CUT, SOMEONE HELP ANY TIPS TO GROW IT BEFORE SCHOOL STARTS IN 8 NIGHTS SHOOT
@@user-lb9zq7ou1h you can’t grow hair that fast I donated mine 2-3 years back and it is now almost or completely back to the way it was before which is quite fast imo but u can’t grow it all back in 8 nights
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I've seen so many comments calling her psychotic for caring so much about her hair. Please consider that having hair can be a really emotional experience, people tie it to the comfort, to their memories, to their childhood or even to their relationships. Cutting it all off suddenly can be really scary for some people for this very reason. In some cases it's like cutting off an arm (obviously not physically painful) but from then on you wouldn't be able to type, write, hug... It's a part of you and what makes you feel whole, able and confident. Also a lot of people feel valued or identified by their hair. Something really iconic about you and it's suddenly gone, you'd feel like you're missing an integral part of what makes you you. It is also a symbol of beauty for many people. Shamed for wanting something that makes you feel beautiful is so wrong.
thank you! i feel like so many ppl are too quick to judge because they might not have that anxiety (and living w that anxiety is so so hard!) and i feel like more people need to understand the why behind the what
Exactly, I'm the same way as her and it hurts to see some of these comments be so ignorant. I have basically the same goals and struggles as her. In my culture and family hair also has like a spiritual connection. When my sister accidentally cut my hair to short (I only wanted the dead ends gone) my mom started crying and so did I for 2 whole hours and it's still bringing me down everyday seeing my hair short. But ppl have connections to different things like hair or different objects and losing that could be like losing a part of yourself. It hurts.
Hillamiya Amashta can someone tell me that why does my hair always stops growing at a particular length its been 3-4 years and no matter ho much I trim it or completely get a haircut it just stops growing at that length does anyone know why?😭
There's one thing missing from your new plan, and that's is to ACCEPT YOUR HAIR. Honestly, an unhealthy hair image is just as real as an unhealthy body image. Hair isn't supposed to look like glass. Those instagram pictures are either heavily retouched or the hair has been through multiple damaging procedures to get to this look. Your hair was perfect before the keratin straightening (I do believe it was the treatment that damaged it). Just learn to love your texture. I've been growing my hair out for almost 10 years. I cut it back multiple times because I was upset it didn't look like I wanted it too. It was only recently that I finally understood. Having some texture in your hair is normal. Frizz is normal (my hair is as healthy as it can be and it still has frizz). It just needs some love, consistent care and patience. Good luck to you on your new journey, and I hope that you'll be happy wherever you decide to go with it :)
I can totally relate. And, if I may add: Try and do protective hairstyles as often as possible. That will prevent you from picking at the ends, too. Plus, the hair doesn´t get tangled so easily. Maybe just leaving your hair alone a bit more might help.
People also have different hair types. Not just texture but volume and quality. :( sometimes it's best to try to accept what you have and make the best of it. Tie it in different styles,accesorize,etc.
Doro T. ⚠️!! : Not all hair textures can wear ALL protective hairstyles. For example a 2b hair type can’t hold 4(a-c) “”box”” braids (conrows) for too long because the hair is not strong enough!!!
I have naturally straight blonde hair that about level 8/9 that’s almost waist length so I’ve never needed to bleach it or use heat so I have glassy hair however I’ve always thought it was boring and I’ve always wanted wavy hair! So I’m constantly using bendy rollers. It’s taken me a long time to accept my hair texture because I’ve always admired the beachy hair models with their effortless waves and my friend has wavy hair and she always looks edgy and mine is always straight and flat. The hair dresser tells me people always want something different from what they’ve got but she once said to me that there are people who don’t have hair from chemo or those with alopecia who struggle to keep their hair so I should be grateful for what I’ve got. Which sorta put my hair wants into perspective and made me grow up a bit.
I relate to so much of this. It's sound so fickle to be so heartbroken about hair but when you've tried so much and put so much love it's hard not to let it get to you - it's comforting knowing so many others have felt the same and are on this journey together (esp when we're surrounded by family and friends with BEAUTIFULLLY blessed hair) 😆❤
Haha exactly what I was wondering too.. her wavy >>>>> straight.. but you know she's deep into the matrix of Instagram, unable to see the lust in our eyes with her own eyes
Every hair type of hair is diffrent. Spending this long obsessing over hair and comparing it to models and instagram is unhealthy and kinda pathetic. Curly, straight, thick, or thin- hair is just hair. It only has the value the individual attaches to it.
Black White ok my point is as a curly hair girl all the work she put in is normal. I MUST do it weekly to maintain my hair. Thanks for your input though.
Yeah... I swear that my mother, who has very curly hair, has like hundreds of dollars worth of hair products, and I swear she spends at least an hour doing her hair every day.
same 💀 i’m out here using cheap ass shampoo & conditioner. i’ve box dyed my hair so many times. used a ton of heat on it when i was younger. but my hair is still healthy & thick. the only “treatments” i’ve done on it is not wash my hair every day & i stopped using heat on it
Sarah Medrano same my hair is really nice and thick and healthy I use heat every month just for fun I never dyed it before but some people have different hair types ya know? :)
@@thechosenpit mee to, now it's kinda of damage but when I want to grow my hair I just stop to dye and I try to don't use to much heat. It look really amazing how she really put effort to have an pretty long hair I could never have this much patience to do all that things
We have the same dilemma. We did almost similar things for years. We have the same dream. But I'm in my 50s now and it just became thinner and thinner while I'm premenopausal. In addition, it's turning grey. I had thicker hair when I was young. Now I know it's time to embrace what I have as I age more. As I go through life and seeing some loved ones had cancer and losing their hair, I started becoming satisfied for what I have. Now I'm happy that I just have hair and hair length at my age. I still try my best to maintain my somewhat still longer hair. Thanks for your vlog... nice knowing that I'm not alone. I didn't know about the hairtype 2B 2C. Now I need to research on that :). Thanks again and goodluck!
I’m suprised no one mentioned this. The Instagram girls she’s comparing her hair too are most likely wearing loads of hair extensions in order to achieve the “voluminous” look. Like there are very, very few woman who have natural hair like that . If she wants to get that hair she either needs a weave or invest in some good quality extensions. Just saying!
it's a shame that many young women are so influenced by what they see on Instagram, I feel that this girl took her obsession to a stressful point, and it was reflected in the health of her hair
I do have naturally really thick and glossy hair but I don’t like myself with long hair(idk I like to be different I guess) I don’t need it and now I kinda feel selfish to just let that go to waste... I’m happy I could at least donate a bit of my useful hair to think pink.
Hnemy Sui sooo true. It’s sad that girls are complaining their hair to such unrealistic things ! I’m blonde and I have thinner hair but I do so much upkeep
I have naturally straight and thick hair and I hated it so much, 4 years ago it was very poofy and frizzy (and it was medium length) and I absolutely hated it. I let my bangs and hair grow very long and got a straight perm. By 2018 it was very straight, long, thick, and *annoyingly heavy* so I chopped it to my shoulder. Now my hair is perfectly healthy and currently growing them out.
the amount of effort and commitment you put into this will NOT go to waste, you deserve to get that thick and long hair that you've been working towards for so long, and I am absolutely sure that you will achieve this, if not Ill have no trust in the universe anymore
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For my hair, I don’t trim it until maybe 6 months, I use Pantene and my hair is super silky and super soft. Use a mask such as olive oil and coconut oil every other month.
Not really girls in India have naturally thick beautiful dark hair and they hardly do anything they just oil thier hair regularly and wash it. God clearly has favourites 😔
That's me when I cut my bangs. When i have them, I hate it and wanna grow them out. But when i don't have bangs i get bored and cut i them. It's a neverending cycle
i completely understand this situation!! I have a friend (lets call her Layla) that had straight, shiny medium textured hair. Laylas hair used to grow quickly, and she hated taking extra time in the shower for her hair, so she started cutting it every month for a year. However, after that year, her hair became really, really fine, dry and damaged. You could even see her back through her hair (kinda like your situation). And it stayed like this for about three years, until she stopped cutting her hair every month. That changed her hair completely. It went wavy first, then it started getting thicker and thicker, and now its beautiful, thick, wavy and long hair. It looks almost exactly like that long hair image you showed us, except with a little more waves. What layla did was to stop cutting her hair for three years, and only do hair massages and put oils on her ends for three years, along with using olaplex and some other brands of shampoos. And today, she just had a trim off her hair and she cut 1 cm off, and so far, it still looks really healthy. So i hope this helps!
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Aggie Dalton Me: Hasn’t shampooed it in 9 days to prevent dryness, and hasn’t cut it in 6 months, so it’s grown 3 inches, but the front has only grow 2 inches due to biting it. However, for the 1st 3 months it was fine because I had barely bitten it yet. I still comb it a lot though.
Nabranes TwistyPuzzler *havent cut in seven years..* I have curly hair but also wavey.. mostly curly but it’s really long and I’m scared to cut it after all this progress-
I'm a guy growing my hair out, it's been 2 years, ive discovered how curly my hair actually is and have also been struggling with wanting straighter and less frizzy hair. I can get it to dry straight wavy but as we all know, leaving it down and any humidity will frizz and puff it up. It's mostly the ends though, so my compromise is now to dry it straight BUT allow the ends to curl , and keep them wet/moist. Humidity can't undo them then. I just have to accept that incorporating curls reduces my overall length until I grow it longer. Basically takes away 4 inches, that's 8 months! What you've shown is that for some waist length starts to become a natural length limit, without trims or cuts or with it, out hair naturally sheds at a certain max length. I suppose Il try to see how my hair looks at waist length at most. For men I think arm pit length makes the most sense, curly hair would probably have to be grown to waist length to be that.
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I thought at the end she was going to be like “yeah and then I realised the photos I used for inspiration are fake and these girls use extensions and heat, now I’ve accepted my hair the way it is.” Girl, the Brazilian blowout is a commitment, if you want it to look like that all the time you have to do the treatment every 2/3 months, if you want your hair straight when it just ISNT straight you have to straighten it everyday. My hair used to be straight, I’ve got curly hair now, I’m lazy af so I do the Japanese treatment every 2 months and I don’t think about my hair AT ALL. Man, you can’t let hair consume your life this way...
ebony b it works for me and it works on the people I do it for, friends always ask for my help when straightening their hair because it lasts them for days when I do it!
Simply Justina A year and a half ago my hair was at my chin, now it’s halfway down my back. I honestly just left it and didn’t give a shit about it, every time my friends would see me they’d tell me “wow your hair grew!” And I wouldn’t even notice.
I have waist length hair and it’s in quite a good condition, the ends can be dry but it’s generally healthy. I wash it every two days with just whatever I have, and straighten it everyday. I just let it get on with it
It's so important to remember that the long "Instagram Hair" is almost always achieved with hair extensions and expensive, frequent treatments, which a lot of these influencers/models get paid to do. Sure genetics come into play too, but all of those pictures are just a snapshot in time showing the best moments. Your video is so open and honest about your goals and struggles! It's such a relatable struggle, and I hope you get to the point where you are able to enjoy and have fun with your hair!
Additionally, there are other types of manipulations, like "shine soffits" by snapseed app, or in Photoshop use the radiance effect. So they can do a paid sponsored post, use the manipulation software and trick their subscribers.
amazing story! you are such a good story teller ! it was like an audiobook , Thank you, really entertaining, wishing you the best in your hair journey !
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The reason you cannot achieve your dream hair is simply because you weren't born with it. Most people with long luscious thick hair are not hair experts, they just have good genetics. Also, your hair looks very long and nice even after your big chop
She’s trying to go against her own biology and it’s eating her in the ass. She naturally has wavy hair and she insists that she wants straight hair. No helping her there. She also keeps looking to ethnic women or blonde women as inspiration, both of which tend to have thicker hair follicles and higher density.
I relate to this! As a 14 year old girl dealing with traction alopecia, it can definitely be bad on your mental health But to everyone out there struggling with their hair, I understand. Even though you may not see it very often, a lot of people deal with hair related issues and EVERYONE, YOU ARE MORE THAN JUST YOUR HAIR. DONT LET A FEW STRANDS OF DEAD CELLS SAY OTHERWISE. Yes hair is a big part of our identity but as long as you continue trying your hardest to make it better, it will get better. I promise. TAKE CARE, LOVE YOURSELF, AND KNOW YOU ARE WORTH IT self love and acceptance is a journey, but many people have to go through that journey so don’t feel alone
Did you know that for some people, their hair can be naturally straight, and then after some years their hair type can change and grow in to be wavier. Your hair may have been straight but then it became wavier after.
This is very true! I used to have silky straight hair when i was younger but as I grew up my hair got thicker and more wavy. I'm 15 now with 2c hair and I definitely love it more than straight hair.
well my hair is like that. When I was younger my hair was really straight and kind to have a curve at the end but as years passed it was not as straight as it was and when I reached high school my hair was wavy, thick and frizzy so I constantly tie it and never let it down. Right now my hair is rebonded and very long but my natural hair is showing at the top
The opposite can also happen, when I was a kid my hair used to be ringlet curly and now it’s just a bit wavy. Sometimes after I wash it the waves get a bit tighter but nothing like what I used to have.
Hi I’m a hairstylist and I want to break down everything you’re doing wrong. For starters you have unrealistic standards for your type of hair. Without using a flat iron your hair isn’t going to be straight with no frizz it’s just not possible. Your hair is thin and frizzy and will always be that way naturally. White women generally do not have pin straight smooth hair that type of hair gene is most prominent with asian people, their strands are thicker and heavier individually and they have more hair as where your individual strands of hair are thin and fine. The reason why your hair got more and more shitty was because of that keratin treatment, and the products you were using. Too much of a good thing is not a good thing. No hairstylist should have ever done a keratin treatment on your hair, those are only supposed to be used for people who have lost their keratin. For example, people who have extremely bleached hair, people who have gotten perms and people who have done massive amounts of heat damage are going to be the only candidates for a keratin treatment. Otherwise doing the treatment without any reason to other than to tame frizz or straighten will over keratinize and put too much protein in your hair leading to all this damage and breakage you’re seeing. KERATIN TREATMENTS ARE NOT MEANT TO BE USED AS A PERMANENT STRAIGHTENING METHOD. I can’t stress that enough to people. It’s meant to help rebuild extremely damaged and fragile hair temporarily. The only reason it straightens hair is because it’s weighed down by protein. Otherwise doing this treatment on hair that doesn’t need it will cause breakage and damage and do the opposite of what you want. Also stop using these heavy creams and expensive products, use something like an oil based hair shampoo or a shine shampoo and conditioner and you will be much better off than something with keratin or protein in it. Also stop with all the keratin products that you used for after the treatment if you’re still using them they will not help you. Also, products that say something along the lines of it “repairs damage” you don’t have damage you’re causing it by using too much of what your hair doesn’t need. Use a PH bonder a hair serum or light oil only, and it will help a whole lot with frizz. Less is more. Another thing is you can get a filter for your shower head, the more calcium that’s in the water you use to wash your hair the more frizz you will have. With all this stuff you’re doing to your hair I also recommend using a clarifying shampoo once a month because I’m seeing a whole lot of product buildup on your hair. Also because you do have 2b hair, brushing is dry produces more frizz, just use a wet brush and get over your fear of brushing it wet please. It really doesn’t cause that much damage at all. Replace what you’re doing with simpler and less intense methods and your hair will be much better off.
Hi, i'm 13 years old and I have 80cm long hair. Today I went to a hairdresser and I wanted to get a keratin treatment but the guy refused, he said it's chemical and not good for me. So my mom bought a keratin treatment to do it by yourself. Actually I wanted to straighten my hair. But it's also dry and frizzy, so can I do it? Or are those keratin treatments from the store shit? Have a nice day ( also, sorry for my bad english, i'm from germany :/)
@Sibb_ Ss trueee!!! i would be eating green juice w healthy nuts and my friend McDonald's and i would still look horrible.i gave up and focused on school so i can get rich and pay laser treatments and expensive skincare hahahha
I think it’s just genetics, your age and hormones. My skin goes through good and bad phases ( it’s quite bad atm😑) and I get facials although the facial lady (I don’t know the technical name😂) says I have very oily skin and that’s why the majority of the time my spots are in my t zone instead of on my cheeks.the best thing you can do is not change products too often, speak to a doctor and just accept your skin because acne happens to the best of us😊
watching this video really made me realize how I take my own hair for granted, I have long thick hair that grows really fast just over the course of a couple months and my hair is just naturally oily too. I never really though about how much effort people put into trying to make their hair look like that and how lucky I am. I would always complain about how my hair would be really tangled because of how thick it is or how frizzy it would be because it was thick, when after learning how to just come and straighten my hair I don't complain about it anymore because my hair is just the way it is and I like it.
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1. stop saying she's overreacting or "it's just hair" 2. her dream was to get thick, glossy waist length hair, whether or not the ig posts she saw were hair extensions, cheer her on!
Is it healthy to literally keep worrying about your hair like just to have hair like those people on ig IS IT healthy? I don’t wanna cheer her on if it’s gonna hurt her.
For all my life I had long hair and I wouldn't cut it for the longest time. Like her I thought long hair was the only thing that made me pretty. My hair length was around 28 Inches. Finally when I was 13 I did the big chop. Honestly the best decision for my hair. I'm 15 now and my hair looks way more healthy than before.
A weird child YES. Honestly long hair doesn’t look nice to me :( unless you have thin hair it looks okay. And never cutting your hair makes it get split ends and yucky. Cut your hair! You won’t regret it. Also you can donate it to help people.
KarinaP that’s the silliest thing i’ve heard all day. You should say ‘the less you stress the better’ or something because you can’t seriously think most things people care about like weight and grades will solve themselves with them doing nothing (not caring)
@@memesandstuffso Hootle said that there is definitely some texture going on in her hair and that it looks good when its shorter.. and the good old "no hate, just explaining" thing too. There u go
Yes!! I used to obsess over my hair and when i eventually started to accept and started to love it, i actually saw improvement. i learn that I should just leave my hair alone, improve my mental health and that way my hair’s health will also improve.
Am I the *only* one who brushes their hair when it’s wet? I do this since I was 4 or something. My hair looks to this day really healthy! Edit: ty for 883 likes :DD
I watched this last night. I’m a hairstylist. Your hair changed, as it does every 7-10 years, and you’re fighting against the waves. That alone creates the frizz and weakens/breaks the hair where the hair bends. My advice would be to embrace your new waves and continue the curly girl method or something comparable. Your hair isn’t straight, and it may not be again for a long time. Also lots of the pictures you see on social media are enhanced, so please don’t try to achieve what an editing app can do.
@susan shaughnessy Hello , since you are a hairstylist , may I ask you a question ? My hair is usually straight when it is dry , but when it is wet and I air-dry it ( I hardly use a hairdryer ) it is wavy , and then it turns back to straight after completely drying . So what exactly is my hair type ? Wavy or straight ? I read an article on the internet which said that if your hair is wavy when it is wet , then it is actually wavy . I'm fine with hair but I am really confused when it comes to this, I would appreciate it if you could help me. Thank you.
5:43 important! The static hair has nothing to do with your hair but it’s the brush, I have used that brush my whole life and if there is high pressure and humidity in the environment you live in it’s more likely to do that with your hair, what I do when it happens is wet my hand and tap it on the brush, the water will make it loose that effect
Y'all ragging on her because she's "obsessed" with her hair and she should get over it: How many of you can say there isn't a flaw or something that you would change about your body? Hair, weight, skin, too much hair (on your body), boobs, flat butt, rolls, nose, lips, eyebrows, the list goes on... let people be. Encourage them towards better health, whatever that means for them.
but she is going a little bit too far tho. yes i don't like my nose for instance but i don't get obsessed about it as much as this girl does with her hair. idk that's just my opinion it's different for everybody of course but it's not healthy to go this far you might develop mental health issues like ocd. i'm not saying she has all those things but it's what could happen.
long thick hair really depends on the genes to be honest, my hair has always been past my ass (it grows fast AF) but with beautiful thick and long hair like mine... comes bodyhair :) im like an ape...
I've always said if you have a head full of thick hair you will have it everywhere else too! lol and I don't mean that disrespectfully! Long thick hair is a blessing :-)
Yep, I'm a hairy girl too and my hair grows fairly fast. Never tried any special treatments because I never needed one (except that I have a dry scalp). My grandmother had beautiful thick hair and always encouraged me to grow it long but the body hair, especially during summer is just pain in the arse. But now I see some people struggle a lot like this girl I'm glad to have fast growing hair everywhereeee.
this is so true. having long thick hair comes at a price of tonnes of razors and shaving cream haha. and because its so heavy, i cant hold a wave and styling it any other way except straight is a problem.
i have REALLY similar texture to you- it has wavy kinks and breakage in the back, somewhat thin, and frizz. my saviour has been heatless curls, coconut oil, wild growth hair oil, wigs, heat once a week, and only using scrunchies. it’s actually growing in quite well, but i had many mental breakdowns in the process. adding a little bit of pure coconut oil to the ends and scalp before bed makes it grow in so well!! best of luck!!!
i’ve found that my true damage came from forcing my hair to be straight (my hair curls SO easy, like… i put it in a bun and it looks like shirley temple) maybe it’s the same for you!! wear a straight hair wig!!!
it looks like when she "overcared" for it, it was actually getting healthier and trying to revert to its curly/wavy state. If she leaned into that with her new cut, she might actually get a nicer wave?
Your hair isn’t “worse” it’s wavy and dry. You need to keep it moisturized to combat the dryness. If you keep straightening it and using heat it will continue damage the ends and you’ll have to continue to cut them.
@@lonelli8439 She didn't change with her hair. She has an expectation for her hair, so she uses a routine to achieve it. It just so happens that what she wants is not possible with her hair.
1) It could be the water. Hard water can really ruin your hair. You mentioned washing hair at home after the salon and it was back to being matted and dry. You need a shower filter with a water softener. 2) Also, it looks like your hair needs more protein - something more professional like a K18 mask would work. 3) Could soy milk be messing with your hormones? I’d consider eating more natural. Plant milks are not natural human foods. If you want to have healthy hair, you need to eat a lot more protein than you do. More meat like chicken and red meat and dairy like Greek yogurt. 4) A good professional shampoo. Not John Frieda. Something like Pureology or Kerastase or Oribe, plus a clarifying shampoo once a week. You need to clarify if you have hard water. 5) Silk bonnet is the best kept secret for perfect morning hair! 6) Your natural hair texture is not exactly straight. Your hair is very fine too. To get that glossy straight hair with weighted texture you would have to blow it out with hair products after washing when it’s 80% dry. You can’t just air dry it.
Your hair is very beautiful, but what’s damaging it is how you touch it and play with it so much. Also all the stress, maybe even too many products. I hope it gets better though!
My hair dresser told me once “you need a trim because your hair is fried” and I was thinking “what?? I havent used any heat on it in 1WHOLE YEAR!” Then she said its from too much protein...then it clicked. I was doing hair mask almost everyday (hair mask that included EGG). Hope this might be a lil helpful. Dont do hair mask all the time!
a lot of it is also from coconut oil (an oil used for hair treatments and EXTREMELY high in protein). especially on finer hair, it can't handle the excess proteins and just ends up becoming even more brittle and fragile.
@@aleaq3005 My hair was soooo thin and dry back in 2018 but after using coconut oil twice a week my hair is waaay healthier, now my hair is so thick and long.
My though 🤦♀️ "i want healthy waist length hair but it has to be pin strait despite my natural hair so im going to do loads of unhealthy shit to it to make it strait"
Yes! Using straight hair products in hairs that are not straight do a lot of damage! Is forcing your hair in a way it’s not natural. As she said, years passed, she started as teen, adding all the hormonal issues, hairs CAN change! I had straight flawless hair, but after I was 12 my hair started to curl and now is a full 3B/3C! She is just going back to all the old treatments for straight hair that didn’t work, like, can’t she learn?
Abbie Ainsley so true!!! Once I just accepted my hair texture & stopped having unrealistic goals and actually caring for how it was instead of how I wanted it to be (unrealistically) it thrived so much more 🙄
I used to have waist length hair, I thought they'd look nice but my natural soft curl in addition with the waigh of the hair just made it freezy. Now I cut it chin length and I'm embracing the curl, they are softet and healthier than ever.
yes! this, or even an aloe leaf. get the gel out the plant and massage it in your hair. make it like a mask but with out the extra incentives. i have grown 7 inches since march. i also use maui products since they’re vegan and aloe based as well.
I’ve been watching a lot of your hair journey videos today after you popped up in my feed. Hair traumas aside (and I know that is important to you) but I just wanted to say what a lovely voice you have. Such a nice accent, such good articulation and brilliant narration skills! Have you ever considered doing podcasts or putting yourself forward for audiobook narration? Your voice makes me super relaxed 😊
I always do this when people think below shoulder length or shoulder length itself is “short”. When I had a pixie cut, that was damn short. It’s a pain looking for ‘short hair’ styling videos, or it was a long time ago anyway. 🤦🏼♀️
I bleach-murdered mine and got it chopped. 🤦 Don't get girls who go with long bobs when they bleach-murder their hair, and freak out about the length. They'd rather have dried out poofy looking long bobs as though it won't grow back in time. (Not talking about ppl who don't recover from a big chop)
this felt so personal and relatable for me and im not even talking about the hair im talking about life itself ive had so many issues and my only dream is getting gurther and further from coming true. but the only thing left is to hope for the best
Wash your hair in cold water. It stops the oils in your hair from being completely stripped away when you shampoo. It stopped my frizz immediately edit: here are a few more suggestions that helped me. Maybe it isn’t just the cold water... Btw I have hair type 2a and my hair is medium thickness, this is just what works for me!! 1. Only shampoo your scalp - any runoff shampoo is enough to clean the rest of your hair. Then condition ur whole head excluding the very top of your scalp. The idea is to clean your hair but not strip it of its oils. 2. Use a *very moisturizing* conditioner. And let it soak while u take a shower. (The brand I use is at the end of this comment) 3. Brush ur hair. The oils in your hair can be ur friend if u spread them evenly. Esp like me, I have long hair so brushing to my ends helps keep it looking shiny but not oily. 4. braid your hair down your back before bed. It prevents frizziness from where you lay on your head at night. Also, try to be conscious of how your hair lays at night. Keep it neat and if you tend to adjust your head on your pillow a lot before you fall asleep make it a habit to pull your hair over your shoulder to stop it from getting tangled This is the shampoo/conditioner that I use... AG hair care “smooth” coconut shampoo and conditioner. I also use amika curl corps defining cream *only* the day after I wash my hair, mostly to keep the top layers flat If ur hair is still frizzy just keep trying different things and don’t give up!!
i feel like this video is a lesson in how the internet and especially the beauty community warp our perception on what is achievable, and how someone can go to great lengths to achieve something that is impossible to do with her hair naturally. even then she resorted to a treatment that damaged her hair beyond repair and resulted in her being far more unhappy with the result after the initial honeymoon period. as other commenters have said, she just doesnt have thick hair, but theres also the idea that "natural" is somehow better or more authentic than extensions or wigs. its a hard pill to swallow when youre constantly comparing yourself to other people you look up to, so you should occasionally step back and question what the goal youre trying to achieve is out of reach and will stay that way
@@elliemedford1852 I have skyla now and I was on kyleena before that. Kyleena started the hair thing and i switched to skyla because it had less of the hormone. I've tried almost every single type of birth control and different hormone combination that exists, but all of them have had serious negative affects for me. The only thing I haven't had is the copper IUD but I can't get that because I have endometriosis. Skyla is literally my last and only option unless I want to get off birth control, but that can cause my endometriosis to act up even worse and ofc increase the chances that I get pregant. I honestly don't even know what to do anymore lol
I am actually so happy I saw this comment because my hair has been falling out for a little over two months now. I also started a different bc so maybe that could be a reason I’m going to look in to. I have been looking for reason but this one could actually be a good one. Thank you.
Maybe u should test out some hormonless options. I had so many problems with the kyleena and hormons in general and im really happy now with an IUP. Therr are so many ways to do birthcontrol without taking hormons
Can we just comment on how well u put this video together? I don’t even have long hair or your hair type yet I’m here watching your whole video.
Thank you! that means a lot! x
Same!
Dumi MDKN actually same cuz I’m a guy and I’m soo super invested
Same , like my hair 4 inches and yet here i am watching the whole video lmao
Dumi MDKN lol me too bro😂😂😂
Girl you can't run away from your natural hair texture
Like honestly, I have the exact same looking hair as her - it's wavy. I find it weird she thinks that's not her natural hair texture.
She probably had hormonal changes (hasn't mentioned) and that's why her hair became different than she used to it.
I mean, in my case, for a baby I had curly hair, then for 18 years, I had no heavy waves at all. At the age of 23, when I noticed some hormonal changes, I started to develop glamorous curls. Still trying to get used to it. :)
Yeah
She literally explained in the video that her hair has never been like that before so obviously something has changed.
@@fantagegirl255 it can happen with just getting older. I didnt even get my full thick irish hair till i grew it past my waist lol....she just wants hair she doesnt have....
the feeling of thick ends right after cutting it is the beeeeest
Popi I have to thin mine so much cause it looks insane
@@jessicapassey2471 same haha
I have layers in my tips, otherwise it just looks like a pyramid
it is thoooo
Popi i know right!
Popi ikkk
Girl, listen. I went through EXACTLY the same thing as you. Tried every single thing you did to get my hair back (it used to be super pretty and it suddenly got just as troublesome as yours for literally no reason). None of them worked. The only thing that finally worked was seeing a TRICHOLOGIST! A trichologist is a hair specialist, like a hair doctor. They’re not hairdressers (who know nothing about hair quality, just aesthetics). They’re like dermatologists, but they focus on hair and making sure it grows well from the roots going down. They give you specialized products, look at your hair every couple weeks to see how it’s going, massage your hair, give it red light treatments and stuff like that, all based on science. I HIGHLY recommend you go see a trichologist. They’re pretty much the only professionals who actually know about hair, because most people just focus on short term aesthetics instead of the health of the follicules. I swear my hair was just like yours and even though it still isn’t perfect, it is SO SO much better than it used to be. I really know how frustrating it is to try everything and still not get the results you want when so many people don’t even do anything and have gorgeous hair anyway. I used to cry out of frustration and now I don’t even think about it much. I really hope you see this! Sending you lots of love
Underrated comment!! What kinds of things did the trichologist have you do that helped you in particular??
@@dolcepescas6153 The main thing was just going to the appointments and using products that were specifically formulated for my hair (products that my trichologist made himself for his clients). In the beginning the appointments were once every couple of weeks and then once every couple of months as my hair got better. He would start by evaluating my hair to check the consistency of the fibers, how it was growing, how oily the skin was, etc. Then he would clean the hair, apply specialized lotions, massage the scalp and finish by applying an overhead red light for better absorption of the actives.
After the session, he would prescribe certain products for continued daily use (typically a shampoo, conditioner, lotion and heat protectant). He would also instruct me on the proper way to use each one of them. For example, my skin was quite oily at the time, so I had to shower every day and use the shampoo twice in a row and just on the scalp (it was a very gentle sulfate-free shampoo). Then I had to apply conditioner to the rest of the hair, excluding the scalp. After the shower, I had to apply the heat protectant. I want to clarify: I never use heat on my hair. The heat protectant was meant for frizz control and sun protection. It was like a sunscreen (who knew you also had to apply sunscreen to your hair! The sun damages your hair, just as it does with the skin), so it worked as a layer of protection between the hair fibers and the external environment. Finally, before going to bed I had to apply the lotion, just on my scalp (I think it worked as some sort of exfoliant for the skin underneath the hair and promoted healthy hair growth).
He was also very adamant in not doing anything that would damage my hair. So no restrictive hairstyles that pull too much on the scalp, letting the hair dry naturally without rubbing it with harsh towels, using a silk pillow case to reduce the friction with the pillow while sleeping, not using any sort of heat or products meant for styling, which typically include ingredients that damage the hair in the long run. If I was ever going to style it, use heat, be out in the sun or get into a pool, I had to apply the heat protectant first.
I also started taking some supplements that he recommended for my hair, such as a multivitamin that included biotin, iron, zinc, inositol, vitamin B2 and B6, alpha lipoic acid, L-Cystine, L-Methionine and L-Lysine. He also recommended nutritional yeast and bee pollen or royal jelly (but I wasn't as consistent with these ones in comparison to the multivitamin). He would also emphasize the importance of having a healthy diet and exercising regularly.
Obviously, all of this would depend on your type of hair and your specific problems (how thin or thick your hair is, how oily or dry, if you have dandruff or not, if you experience hair loss, etc). That's why it's important to go to a professional, so they can prescribe the products you actually need (for example, a friend of mine also started going to my trichologist, and some of the products she uses are different because her hair is different from mine).
Hope it helps!
I am going through the exact same thing, but I don't want to go for a big chop. How much did the trichologist cost? Because I might start to talk to one and get this birds nest sorted!
When your hair gets thinner, there can be an iodine deficiency or ferritin level is not high enough.
Ferritin should be over 70.
Oral contraceptive pill can cause iodine deficiency. This was what happened to me, now after 10 years with thinner hair, my hair grows thicker again
ATTENTION: REPENT AND BELIEVE IN THE GOSPEL! HELL IS REAL PLEASE CHANGE! NO ONE KNOWS THE HOUR HE IS COMING AT EXCEPT THE PRECIOUS FATHER! TAKE THIS SERIOUSLY! DO NOT IDOLIZE! DELIVER YOUR LIFE!
i’ve never been so emotionally invested in someone else’s hair
Same. 😂 and we're all in the 5th month now. 😂
@@naomifaiheng1126 ikr 😭😂
Same😂😂
Me too🤗🤗
Ikrr
It's never "just hair". I lost my almost waist length hair when I was on chemo. Watching this and dreaming about the time I had more than 2 cm. This gives me hope that I can grow it all back.
Wish u luck
hope you are well now❤️
@@khoi_0918
It’s short for Chemotherapy = cancer treatment
@@chloeeve2370 thank you, I’m much better. Short hair, but no cancer ☺️
@@josefinemusus5182 you are a strong woman
Man, quarantine really has me invested in a 13 minute video about someone else’s hair
Meanie
Same here man:-|
Lol same here
Haha same...
hahah same
i swear it’s a ritual to come back to this video every few months
Lol same. I don't know why this video lives in my mind
@@penchimericalFrr I always come back
Yupp just popped into my mind after a few months
Haha yes! Its like asmr
my dad used to tell me as a child that if you obsess over something that's already beautiful to begin with it will slowly turn ugly (he was saying this about looking in the mirror too much but I found that lesson applicable to many things in life)
wise man!
um yes agree 100% I had long blonde curly hair and became obsessed with it wanting it to be blonder that I eventually had major fall out and now I have frizzy unruly and unmanageable brown short hair. Nothing wrong with brown hair but it was crazy how obsessed I became with just a color state of my hair that I had to let go of it lol.
@@artbyneenadipeppe thank you for sharing! I'm sure you look great as ever with your brown hair!
my dad has always told us something similar as well, it doesn’t make the insecurities go away but it does remind me that it’s just me and many of the features i don’t like someone else would like, or someone will find beautiful.
I miss my dad...
Oh wow I really think the 'shorter' length of hair looks amazing on you, it frames your face and gives you a cooler vibe
L yes I agree!
Agreed !!!
L it looks wayyyyyyyyy better on her than longer hair, if only she would realize :(
Yeah the long hair honestly does not look good.
wow y’all are so mf rude lol
Girl,let me tell you something:
Girls at the pictures you showed wear hair extensions.
Djurdjina Milovanovic bruh when I said your name my fucking furniture started floating
@@yuri.tkachenko IM LAUGHING SO HARD
Right? And besides, her hair was never going to be that thick: your hair texture and type won't just change
Djurdjina Milovanovic I know
Djurdjina Milovanovic not all of them with long hair wear extensions
I have never seen this girl before but I’m so invested in her hair journey
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don't know why everyone is coming at my girl for showing her hair journey...she's being honest WHY is everyone so pressed/suddenly a hair expert?!
Because she is honest and that attracts these kind of know it alls, I think.
Literally!
Amen
Strawberry cheesecake n the time
T pkkuy
Because shes the 'i want' type and not 'i have' type. The moral of her whole journey is that she tried to have long straight hair (that stays straight no matter wut, so no frizz) and thick ends. but her hair type is is not straight but wayvy or maybe curly
girl you realize the hair pictures on instagram is most likely hair extensions??
Sometimes even lace wigs, I know one girl that has natural loooong beautiful hair
Their is a long hair community, no extensions, completely natural. These girls have hair down to the thighs that is completely their own length. I myself have hip length hair, no extensions. It's not possible for everyone tho and that's okay! Her hair looks beautiful short and in so glad she came to a decision to prioritise her mental health.
Weave snatched
It's also because her hair is no where near as thick as the photos she was posting from insta....
@@jamieh2484 yes! You gotta embrace your natural hair texture and thickness. Literally all hair types are gorgeous when taken care off no matter then length, I think she needs to embrace she has naturally wavy hair or accept the fact she will need to flat iron it or blow it out often to style it the way she wants. Also accepting that her hair is about average thickness and alot of insta hair models have above average thickness, it may never look the way she pictures it in her head without heat styling and extensions but it can be just as stunning if she embraces it for what it is. IMO when she tried the curly girl method it looked the best and maybe sticking to it throughout her long hair journey would be best for her. There are so many options for her to take here but the most important thing is that she learns to love herself and her hair.
"always brushing gently and NEVER when wet" **laughs in curly hair**
I was like "woah! That's what white people do?! My comb would never survive that, certainly not my 4c hair" 🤣
I have super thick hair... and I almost always have to brush when wet or it's an ordeal, it tangles easily. my hair is healthy just super thicc it's at upper torso area and I tend to brush when I have conditioner in it.
@@gabbybennitt293 same my hair is good quality and thick I always brush my hair when wet to get rid of knots,frizz and it being tangled
thats what im saying...if i brushed my hair constantly when it was dry i feel like it would fall off🤣
HAHAHAHAHA
I feel like extensions make for unrealistic hair expectations! I can't tell you how often I have seen someone with amazingly long and thick hair and every single one of them have extensions. Great video! Thanks for being so vulnerable! I have cried over hair more times than I would like to admit.
i have waist length thick hair & you honestly cant have the hair this girl dreams of unless it is natural by genetics or unnatural like the extensions & the best way to try to get there is just cutting it short and learning ur own hair type
ATTENTION: REPENT AND BELIEVE IN THE GOSPEL! HELL IS REAL PLEASE CHANGE! NO ONE KNOWS THE HOUR HE IS COMING AT EXCEPT THE PRECIOUS FATHER! TAKE THIS SERIOUSLY! DO NOT IDOLIZE! DELIVER YOUR LIFE!
huh? theres more people will naturally long thick hair than people with extensions.
@@mist4727I TOTALLY agree.
@@SuziOkbagabir-l1m Dude stfu this is a hair care video nobody cares about your sugar daddy.
when she said long hair is what makes me feel pretty i felt that
Sydnee Harris same!
*Laughs in Muslim*
That's why I cut my hair c:
I was just about to type this 😭
@@anisaathe1 LOL
i diagnose you with having curly hair. sounds about right. when you tried the curly girl method, and you saw those results, that was your hair getting healthier. let’s face it, if you have curly hair, there is no way youll be able to keep it straight and healthy at the same time.
Her isn't no where near curly, wavy yes. Curly? No...
wavy enough for her to be treating her hair different that she is.
I tried the curly girl a little bit. I'm prob 2C. I killed it and decided to keep sulfates out, no heat, silk pillow cases, etc, after I got the big chop. I still use "bad shampoos" and hairspray from time to time still, but it does make a difference when you use the right products and methods! Oh and I went back to a brush cuz the pick made me feel scruffy, and my waves are still nice afterwards once I use texturizing spray and hair wax.
I think it would be closer to 3a or 3b if I was consistent longet and let it heal. But.... Ok no excuses, will re commit. The whole idea was to treat it the way I should once it was chopped.
My hairs wavy and ik I don't treat it the best but I avoid heat and everything now and will treat it better in the future for when I get more money 🖤
Her hair is naturally straight lol
Just because you guys think her hair isn’t that bad and that she’s just being whiny, everyone has different insecurities. If hers is her hair then let her be. Don’t degrade her insecurity because you aren’t her.
I feel like it's because this video didn't really give out any solutions to people sharing her problem and was rather just her moping about her hair not being something it's not. Nothing wrong with feeling insecure but I kinda wish I got the minutes I took to watch this video back.
I have 4b/4c hair and I understand her struggles but just times it by 5. I get this is her insecurity but I'm just jealous because people wouldn't realize her bad hair days as much they'd criticize me for how my hair naturally grows. But honestly I hope she achieves her goal. My goal is also waist length :)
Little Sade
Girl! You can do it! I have the same type of hair, and it’s waist length (naturally not permed or heat) just do your best!
@I want a cup of NamTiddies and Jiminie Hi ArMy :>
Hellow fellow moa, like your pfp
Hard water has this effect on my hair.
I notice if I'm staying in a soft water area my hair is completely different, softer, shinier and more manageable.
A neutral henna paste applied to the hair adds shine that lasts and is a great conditioner.
I really enjoyed watching your video! Great work! *
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Was going to say this! The frizziness and texture of her hair definitely looks like hard water damage. I put a water softener on mine.
I didn't realise that hair could consume someone life so much.
Ye wtf how shallow can you be and shameless to admit it
Imagine having black girl hair🤣🤣
allipop that’s not a hair type. White people can have type 4 hair as well.
@@camillefaith2005 if your mixed, if your whole family is white you will not be able to have type 4 hair at all, it's not possible, you will have to be a mixed person to even have a chance of having type 4 hair
Anna Ivanova It’s possible to be white and have curly hair but she’s saying to have Type 4 hair
It is NOT silly to cry over hair. I've cried many, many times over my hair. I got such a bad haircut one time I made my mom cover the mirror.
please help i got a bad haircut amd i cant go outside
@@qrilixz5157 maybe try curling or styling it
@@qrilixz5157 you can put a hat on and go to the hairdresser
@@qrilixz5157 to make them grow faster try the indian massage and to cover it you can try to braid them or use different kind of style.
I have VERY curly hair, this is a regular occurrence 😂
She sounds like an ACTUALLY HAPPENED voice over actress
Omg. Omg. I cant unhear it!!!
i was just about to comment this.
finally someone said that
She is an actress , she graduated
That's what I was thinking while watching the video like...is she one?!
I hated my frizzy hair for years only to discover I was a “curly-wavy girl”. Made me accept the frizz and worked with it. Frizz = Curls/Waves! Stop dreaming about the hair that you are not born with, you will end up frustrated and hate your hair even more. Instead try to accept that you have textured hair. :)
Ikrr
she doesn’t have frizz because she has curly hair, its frizzy because she has naturally thin hair. her hair grows straight, it’s literally straight. she doesn’t use flat irons she just has naturally thin hair that causes frizziness.
@@user6024k she has wavy hair, it's just very loose plus she originally had straight hair so the confusion is understandable
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Her hair is making me madd she workes so hard for it and it dosent change lol😂
Right? Ungrateful child.
Maybe ita because she's not meant for waist long hair genetically
can't change genetics
😂😂 the hair is like " not today, try again tomorrow"
I wish she would just keep it medium length and realize how beautiful her natural hair color & highlights are.❤
@@ughlwtmechangerhisthabks8349 😂😂😂😂
Okay but? Not gonna lie, the short hair suits you way better
Periodtttt
yeah
BLASPHEMY
Her hair looks much healthier, for sure! I wouldn't call that "short", though. :)
@@quackslikeaduck It that's short my hair is a pixie cut 😂 I think she was just fucking with it too much. Hair doesn't need all that, it needs to be left alone mostly.
The shortest you’ve cut your hair is the longest my hair has ever been lol
Same lmao
saaame
I have naturally curly hair and I want it long but it’s IMPOSSIBLE!!!!!!! Any tips? plz help meh
Sameee
sameeee
Not silly to cry, I’ve cried over my hair too many times to count. 😔 I can totally relate to the frustration of hair growth.
ANY TIPS GUYS, YESTERDAY MY HAIR WAS UP TO MY MID-BACK LENGTH, THEN MY MUM GOT ME A LITTLE TRIM TO MY SHOULDER BLADES THEN SHE SAID MY SPLIT ENDS GONNA MAKE ME HAVE TO CUT MY HAIR OFF MORE BUT I DIDNT WANNA SO I WAS CRYING SO MUCH WHILE SHE CUT IT BETWEEN SHOULDER LENGTHS AND BOB CUT, SOMEONE HELP ANY TIPS TO GROW IT BEFORE SCHOOL STARTS IN 8 NIGHTS SHOOT
@@user-lb9zq7ou1h you can’t grow hair that fast I donated mine 2-3 years back and it is now almost or completely back to the way it was before which is quite fast imo but u can’t grow it all back in 8 nights
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I've seen so many comments calling her psychotic for caring so much about her hair. Please consider that having hair can be a really emotional experience, people tie it to the comfort, to their memories, to their childhood or even to their relationships. Cutting it all off suddenly can be really scary for some people for this very reason. In some cases it's like cutting off an arm (obviously not physically painful) but from then on you wouldn't be able to type, write, hug... It's a part of you and what makes you feel whole, able and confident.
Also a lot of people feel valued or identified by their hair. Something really iconic about you and it's suddenly gone, you'd feel like you're missing an integral part of what makes you you.
It is also a symbol of beauty for many people. Shamed for wanting something that makes you feel beautiful is so wrong.
thank you! i feel like so many ppl are too quick to judge because they might not have that anxiety (and living w that anxiety is so so hard!) and i feel like more people need to understand the why behind the what
Exactly, I'm the same way as her and it hurts to see some of these comments be so ignorant. I have basically the same goals and struggles as her. In my culture and family hair also has like a spiritual connection. When my sister accidentally cut my hair to short (I only wanted the dead ends gone) my mom started crying and so did I for 2 whole hours and it's still bringing me down everyday seeing my hair short. But ppl have connections to different things like hair or different objects and losing that could be like losing a part of yourself. It hurts.
THANK YOU QUEEN
THANK YOU! Someone started a fight with me in the comments and said terrible things about both me and her. That person really needs to see this!😊
Hillamiya Amashta can someone tell me that why does my hair always stops growing at a particular length its been 3-4 years and no matter ho much I trim it or completely get a haircut it just stops growing at that length does anyone know why?😭
There's one thing missing from your new plan, and that's is to ACCEPT YOUR HAIR. Honestly, an unhealthy hair image is just as real as an unhealthy body image. Hair isn't supposed to look like glass. Those instagram pictures are either heavily retouched or the hair has been through multiple damaging procedures to get to this look. Your hair was perfect before the keratin straightening (I do believe it was the treatment that damaged it). Just learn to love your texture.
I've been growing my hair out for almost 10 years. I cut it back multiple times because I was upset it didn't look like I wanted it too. It was only recently that I finally understood. Having some texture in your hair is normal. Frizz is normal (my hair is as healthy as it can be and it still has frizz). It just needs some love, consistent care and patience.
Good luck to you on your new journey, and I hope that you'll be happy wherever you decide to go with it :)
I can totally relate.
And, if I may add: Try and do protective hairstyles as often as possible. That will prevent you from picking at the ends, too. Plus, the hair doesn´t get tangled so easily. Maybe just leaving your hair alone a bit more might help.
This is truth !!!
People also have different hair types. Not just texture but volume and quality. :( sometimes it's best to try to accept what you have and make the best of it. Tie it in different styles,accesorize,etc.
Doro T. ⚠️!! : Not all hair textures can wear ALL protective hairstyles. For example a 2b hair type can’t hold 4(a-c) “”box”” braids (conrows) for too long because the hair is not strong enough!!!
I have naturally straight blonde hair that about level 8/9 that’s almost waist length so I’ve never needed to bleach it or use heat so I have glassy hair however I’ve always thought it was boring and I’ve always wanted wavy hair! So I’m constantly using bendy rollers. It’s taken me a long time to accept my hair texture because I’ve always admired the beachy hair models with their effortless waves and my friend has wavy hair and she always looks edgy and mine is always straight and flat.
The hair dresser tells me people always want something different from what they’ve got but she once said to me that there are people who don’t have hair from chemo or those with alopecia who struggle to keep their hair so I should be grateful for what I’ve got. Which sorta put my hair wants into perspective and made me grow up a bit.
She would actually look very good with a shoulder length haircut and wispy bangs
Omg yass
Exactly what I was thinking!
Ikr
What does wispy mean?
fr omfg
I relate to so much of this. It's sound so fickle to be so heartbroken about hair but when you've tried so much and put so much love it's hard not to let it get to you - it's comforting knowing so many others have felt the same and are on this journey together (esp when we're surrounded by family and friends with BEAUTIFULLLY blessed hair) 😆❤
This is just an opinion from a stranger on the internet, but I think you should give your wavy hair a shot 🤷🏻♀️
Shhhh its 2019 women arnt aloud to love themselves!
If she gave her natural hair a shot who would make the CEOs of hair companys rich?
Haha exactly what I was wondering too.. her wavy >>>>> straight.. but you know she's deep into the matrix of Instagram, unable to see the lust in our eyes with her own eyes
@RainyRunningRiver what? 💀
To everyone saying they’ve never seen someone so dedicated to hair ... just look up a natural curly hair care video. It’s all this...and more.
Every hair type of hair is diffrent.
Spending this long obsessing over hair and comparing it to models and instagram is unhealthy and kinda pathetic.
Curly, straight, thick, or thin- hair is just hair. It only has the value the individual attaches to it.
Black White ok my point is as a curly hair girl all the work she put in is normal. I MUST do it weekly to maintain my hair. Thanks for your input though.
@@destayneeauguste4736 no I 100% agree I just dony think I worded my comment right.
Yeah... I swear that my mother, who has very curly hair, has like hundreds of dollars worth of hair products, and I swear she spends at least an hour doing her hair every day.
She did all the things possible and I'm here just using shampo and conditioner
same 💀 i’m out here using cheap ass shampoo & conditioner. i’ve box dyed my hair so many times. used a ton of heat on it when i was younger. but my hair is still healthy & thick. the only “treatments” i’ve done on it is not wash my hair every day & i stopped using heat on it
Sarah Medrano same my hair is really nice and thick and healthy I use heat every month just for fun I never dyed it before but some people have different hair types ya know? :)
@@thechosenpit mee to, now it's kinda of damage but when I want to grow my hair I just stop to dye and I try to don't use to much heat. It look really amazing how she really put effort to have an pretty long hair I could never have this much patience to do all that things
Yea keep rubbing it in her face 💀
We have the same dilemma. We did almost similar things for years.
We have the same dream.
But I'm in my 50s now and it just became thinner and thinner while I'm premenopausal. In addition, it's turning grey. I had thicker hair when I was young. Now I know it's time to embrace what I have as I age more. As I go through life and seeing some loved ones had cancer and losing their hair, I started becoming satisfied for what I have. Now I'm happy that I just have hair and hair length at my age. I still try my best to maintain my somewhat still longer hair. Thanks for your vlog... nice knowing that I'm not alone. I didn't know about the hairtype 2B 2C. Now I need to research on that :). Thanks again and goodluck!
I’m suprised no one mentioned this. The Instagram girls she’s comparing her hair too are most likely wearing loads of hair extensions in order to achieve the “voluminous” look. Like there are very, very few woman who have natural hair like that . If she wants to get that hair she either needs a weave or invest in some good quality extensions. Just saying!
it's a shame that many young women are so influenced by what they see on Instagram, I feel that this girl took her obsession to a stressful point, and it was reflected in the health of her hair
I do have naturally really thick and glossy hair but I don’t like myself with long hair(idk I like to be different I guess) I don’t need it and now I kinda feel selfish to just let that go to waste... I’m happy I could at least donate a bit of my useful hair to think pink.
Hnemy Sui sooo true. It’s sad that girls are complaining their hair to such unrealistic things ! I’m blonde and I have thinner hair but I do so much upkeep
Lol. Google the HolisticHabits girl from TH-cam. You'll see real hair goals.
I have naturally straight and thick hair and I hated it so much, 4 years ago it was very poofy and frizzy (and it was medium length) and I absolutely hated it. I let my bangs and hair grow very long and got a straight perm. By 2018 it was very straight, long, thick, and *annoyingly heavy* so I chopped it to my shoulder. Now my hair is perfectly healthy and currently growing them out.
straight hair people: “ i seemed to have some frizz in strange places “
curly hair people: “ welcome to the jungle”
😂😂
Preslee Hilliard faxssss
Yep my hair is a jungle before I brush it but it’s straight and frizzy and less curly when I brush it
OH. My hair is more beyond than the jungle. lmaoo
Mine is not a jungle. It's healthy, glossy and I care for it and it's perfect when i wake up imaaoooo
The voiceover sounds like something from a storybooth animated story time
I know right thats the first thing i thought of when she did the voice over
Johanna Shapaka 😂
EXACTLY WHAT I THOUGHT
the amount of effort and commitment you put into this will NOT go to waste, you deserve to get that thick and long hair that you've been working towards for so long, and I am absolutely sure that you will achieve this, if not Ill have no trust in the universe anymore
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im trying to grow my hair rn so looking forward to this a lot!
hopefully it should help motivate you! x
same
For my hair, I don’t trim it until maybe 6 months, I use Pantene and my hair is super silky and super soft. Use a mask such as olive oil and coconut oil every other month.
So basically cut it all off and wait for it to grow
I want to grow my hair too! I use different types of oil to moisturize my hair, and, i use subliminal audios too haha
Girl, the photo of your "dream hair" the girl has extensions.
thats what i was thinking the WHOLE TIME...but also their hair is just thicker than hers.
Not really girls in India have naturally thick beautiful dark hair and they hardly do anything they just oil thier hair regularly and wash it. God clearly has favourites 😔
@@aryat15 Im an Indian and oiling and massaging hair is must...it's the best thing you could do to your hair
Can I have a time stamp
Jayshree Waghela I agree. Coconut oil is a great way to start
i want long hair so bad but every like 7 months i get bored and cut it to my chin
chae can relate
That's me when I cut my bangs. When i have them, I hate it and wanna grow them out. But when i don't have bangs i get bored and cut i them. It's a neverending cycle
chae hehe same
chae same
SAME
i completely understand this situation!! I have a friend (lets call her Layla) that had straight, shiny medium textured hair. Laylas hair used to grow quickly, and she hated taking extra time in the shower for her hair, so she started cutting it every month for a year. However, after that year, her hair became really, really fine, dry and damaged. You could even see her back through her hair (kinda like your situation). And it stayed like this for about three years, until she stopped cutting her hair every month. That changed her hair completely. It went wavy first, then it started getting thicker and thicker, and now its beautiful, thick, wavy and long hair. It looks almost exactly like that long hair image you showed us, except with a little more waves.
What layla did was to stop cutting her hair for three years, and only do hair massages and put oils on her ends for three years, along with using olaplex and some other brands of shampoos. And today, she just had a trim off her hair and she cut 1 cm off, and so far, it still looks really healthy. So i hope this helps!
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Interesting
People need to chill out. She's not saying her life is hard, this is a HAIR video. This was her dream, five years of her whole life.
13 min of mine 😐
Not really though just joking but seriously I've bean growing my hair out sense I was 5 and I'm 12 right now
Jessica Pelt omg ur so young 🥺
First World priorities
her: stresses for 6 years over her hair me: hasnt brushed my hair in like 26 days
Aggie Dalton Me: Hasn’t shampooed it in 9 days to prevent dryness, and hasn’t cut it in 6 months, so it’s grown 3 inches, but the front has only grow 2 inches due to biting it. However, for the 1st 3 months it was fine because I had barely bitten it yet. I still comb it a lot though.
Nabranes TwistyPuzzler *havent cut in seven years..*
I have curly hair but also wavey.. mostly curly but it’s really long and I’m scared to cut it after all this progress-
We stan
You got me there 🤣
Wow so quirky
The amount of times I've watched this video is UNHEALTHY
Stephanie Crossman same!
Me too 😂
Same
Omg SAME
it's one of those videos that you can watch loads of times without getting bored of it 💅
I'm a guy growing my hair out, it's been 2 years, ive discovered how curly my hair actually is and have also been struggling with wanting straighter and less frizzy hair. I can get it to dry straight wavy but as we all know, leaving it down and any humidity will frizz and puff it up.
It's mostly the ends though, so my compromise is now to dry it straight BUT allow the ends to curl , and keep them wet/moist. Humidity can't undo them then.
I just have to accept that incorporating curls reduces my overall length until I grow it longer. Basically takes away 4 inches, that's 8 months!
What you've shown is that for some waist length starts to become a natural length limit, without trims or cuts or with it, out hair naturally sheds at a certain max length.
I suppose Il try to see how my hair looks at waist length at most. For men I think arm pit length makes the most sense, curly hair would probably have to be grown to waist length to be that.
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I thought at the end she was going to be like “yeah and then I realised the photos I used for inspiration are fake and these girls use extensions and heat, now I’ve accepted my hair the way it is.” Girl, the Brazilian blowout is a commitment, if you want it to look like that all the time you have to do the treatment every 2/3 months, if you want your hair straight when it just ISNT straight you have to straighten it everyday. My hair used to be straight, I’ve got curly hair now, I’m lazy af so I do the Japanese treatment every 2 months and I don’t think about my hair AT ALL. Man, you can’t let hair consume your life this way...
Yes!!!
Not strighten, just blow it out, I have really curly hair thats stubborn and it stays for a while
Wait, this is not comming? Thanks for saving me time
Damn imagine telling someone else what to worry about in their life
ebony b it works for me and it works on the people I do it for, friends always ask for my help when straightening their hair because it lasts them for days when I do it!
All of the stress you are putting on urself over ur hair is what’s ruining your hair. Just dont stress over it so much
Simply Justina
A year and a half ago my hair was at my chin, now it’s halfway down my back. I honestly just left it and didn’t give a shit about it, every time my friends would see me they’d tell me “wow your hair grew!” And I wouldn’t even notice.
So yeah, I agree. It’s because she’s inspecting it ALL THE TIME that she probably doesn’t see the difference
Simply Justina soo trueeee
Stara Oftmo NEVER wash hair daily, wait at least 3-4 days before washing again.
I have waist length hair and it’s in quite a good condition, the ends can be dry but it’s generally healthy. I wash it every two days with just whatever I have, and straighten it everyday. I just let it get on with it
It's so important to remember that the long "Instagram Hair" is almost always achieved with hair extensions and expensive, frequent treatments, which a lot of these influencers/models get paid to do. Sure genetics come into play too, but all of those pictures are just a snapshot in time showing the best moments. Your video is so open and honest about your goals and struggles! It's such a relatable struggle, and I hope you get to the point where you are able to enjoy and have fun with your hair!
Additionally, there are other types of manipulations, like "shine soffits" by snapseed app, or in Photoshop use the radiance effect. So they can do a paid sponsored post, use the manipulation software and trick their subscribers.
amazing story! you are such a good story teller ! it was like an audiobook , Thank you, really entertaining, wishing you the best in your hair journey !
The whole time I was screaming JUST CUT YOUR HAIR
I do get my hair cut but it's still dry and coarse
@@veritybritcliffe1391 see a trichologist. Not a hairdresser.
her hair is probably frizzy and nasty because it's too long and the nutritions she's eating can't get to the ends.
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*im cringing*
i feel as if she should just leave her hair alone, she’s doing so much with her hair that i didn’t even know someone could do
The reason you cannot achieve your dream hair is simply because you weren't born with it. Most people with long luscious thick hair are not hair experts, they just have good genetics. Also, your hair looks very long and nice even after your big chop
She’s trying to go against her own biology and it’s eating her in the ass. She naturally has wavy hair and she insists that she wants straight hair. No helping her there. She also keeps looking to ethnic women or blonde women as inspiration, both of which tend to have thicker hair follicles and higher density.
@@gummy5862 a wig would have been a quicker option
@@gummy5862 how do girls w blonde hair have thicker and more dense hair than her
@@bratzlover501 Well actually they don’t have thicker strands, but they actually do have higher density on average.
Luscious thick hair here. Mine is too thick to wear long. It becomes too weight down and gives me headaches. 😅
I relate to this!
As a 14 year old girl dealing with traction alopecia, it can definitely be bad on your mental health
But to everyone out there struggling with their hair, I understand. Even though you may not see it very often, a lot of people deal with hair related issues and EVERYONE, YOU ARE MORE THAN JUST YOUR HAIR. DONT LET A FEW STRANDS OF DEAD CELLS SAY OTHERWISE. Yes hair is a big part of our identity but as long as you continue trying your hardest to make it better, it will get better. I promise.
TAKE CARE, LOVE YOURSELF, AND KNOW YOU ARE WORTH IT
self love and acceptance is a journey, but many people have to go through that journey so don’t feel alone
Did you know that for some people, their hair can be naturally straight, and then after some years their hair type can change and grow in to be wavier. Your hair may have been straight but then it became wavier after.
Its like hair colour as well, some redheads grow up and become a natural blonde
This is very true! I used to have silky straight hair when i was younger but as I grew up my hair got thicker and more wavy. I'm 15 now with 2c hair and I definitely love it more than straight hair.
well my hair is like that. When I was younger my hair was really straight and kind to have a curve at the end but as years passed it was not as straight as it was and when I reached high school my hair was wavy, thick and frizzy so I constantly tie it and never let it down. Right now my hair is rebonded and very long but my natural hair is showing at the top
The opposite can also happen, when I was a kid my hair used to be ringlet curly and now it’s just a bit wavy. Sometimes after I wash it the waves get a bit tighter but nothing like what I used to have.
Mine did that during puberty. Went from thick and straight with a slight wave, to 3C. Very jarring and confused tf outta me at like 12 lol.
Hi I’m a hairstylist and I want to break down everything you’re doing wrong. For starters you have unrealistic standards for your type of hair. Without using a flat iron your hair isn’t going to be straight with no frizz it’s just not possible. Your hair is thin and frizzy and will always be that way naturally. White women generally do not have pin straight smooth hair that type of hair gene is most prominent with asian people, their strands are thicker and heavier individually and they have more hair as where your individual strands of hair are thin and fine. The reason why your hair got more and more shitty was because of that keratin treatment, and the products you were using. Too much of a good thing is not a good thing. No hairstylist should have ever done a keratin treatment on your hair, those are only supposed to be used for people who have lost their keratin. For example, people who have extremely bleached hair, people who have gotten perms and people who have done massive amounts of heat damage are going to be the only candidates for a keratin treatment. Otherwise doing the treatment without any reason to other than to tame frizz or straighten will over keratinize and put too much protein in your hair leading to all this damage and breakage you’re seeing. KERATIN TREATMENTS ARE NOT MEANT TO BE USED AS A PERMANENT STRAIGHTENING METHOD. I can’t stress that enough to people. It’s meant to help rebuild extremely damaged and fragile hair temporarily. The only reason it straightens hair is because it’s weighed down by protein. Otherwise doing this treatment on hair that doesn’t need it will cause breakage and damage and do the opposite of what you want. Also stop using these heavy creams and expensive products, use something like an oil based hair shampoo or a shine shampoo and conditioner and you will be much better off than something with keratin or protein in it. Also stop with all the keratin products that you used for after the treatment if you’re still using them they will not help you. Also, products that say something along the lines of it “repairs damage” you don’t have damage you’re causing it by using too much of what your hair doesn’t need. Use a PH bonder a hair serum or light oil only, and it will help a whole lot with frizz. Less is more. Another thing is you can get a filter for your shower head, the more calcium that’s in the water you use to wash your hair the more frizz you will have. With all this stuff you’re doing to your hair I also recommend using a clarifying shampoo once a month because I’m seeing a whole lot of product buildup on your hair. Also because you do have 2b hair, brushing is dry produces more frizz, just use a wet brush and get over your fear of brushing it wet please. It really doesn’t cause that much damage at all. Replace what you’re doing with simpler and less intense methods and your hair will be much better off.
MeganMegaAwesome word! That is the best advice (based on facts) that anyone could give her.
Me: slow clap to standing ovation!
This comment needs more likes! Hope she sees it.
MeganMegaAwesome could you please give me your advice in my hair 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 plzzzz
Hi, i'm 13 years old and I have 80cm long hair. Today I went to a hairdresser and I wanted to get a keratin treatment but the guy refused, he said it's chemical and not good for me. So my mom bought a keratin treatment to do it by yourself. Actually I wanted to straighten my hair. But it's also dry and frizzy, so can I do it?
Or are those keratin treatments from the store shit?
Have a nice day ( also, sorry for my bad english, i'm from germany :/)
@@dilichan682 dont do it yourself always get it done by a professional and if they said no then believe them!!!
literally me but with skin... when i see girls that do no skincare and have glowy skin while i do everything omgggg!!!!!
@Sibb_ Ss trueee!!! i would be eating green juice w healthy nuts and my friend McDonald's and i would still look horrible.i gave up and focused on school so i can get rich and pay laser treatments and expensive skincare hahahha
Ikr 😒
I think it’s just genetics, your age and hormones. My skin goes through good and bad phases ( it’s quite bad atm😑) and I get facials although the facial lady (I don’t know the technical name😂) says I have very oily skin and that’s why the majority of the time my spots are in my t zone instead of on my cheeks.the best thing you can do is not change products too often, speak to a doctor and just accept your skin because acne happens to the best of us😊
@@user-du2dq8li7k thanks Rachel 💛💛
lu 😘
watching this video really made me realize how I take my own hair for granted, I have long thick hair that grows really fast just over the course of a couple months and my hair is just naturally oily too. I never really though about how much effort people put into trying to make their hair look like that and how lucky I am. I would always complain about how my hair would be really tangled because of how thick it is or how frizzy it would be because it was thick, when after learning how to just come and straighten my hair I don't complain about it anymore because my hair is just the way it is and I like it.
Everyone is ungrateful for a lotta things like that
ATTENTION: REPENT AND BELIEVE IN THE GOSPEL! HELL IS REAL PLEASE CHANGE! NO ONE KNOWS THE HOUR HE IS COMING AT EXCEPT THE PRECIOUS FATHER! TAKE THIS SERIOUSLY! DO NOT IDOLIZE! DELIVER YOUR LIFE!
me too! i have the same hair as u described- long, thick, grows fast n oily n i love it sm
A tough but honest disclaimer: Social media is not real life!
@kenzie. jade yeah obviously
1. stop saying she's overreacting or "it's just hair"
2. her dream was to get thick, glossy waist length hair, whether or not the ig posts she saw were hair extensions, cheer her on!
Exactly lol can everyone just like shutup
@Ane Calvo exactly
sometimes its just genetics
Is it healthy to literally keep worrying about your hair like just to have hair like those people on ig IS IT healthy?
I don’t wanna cheer her on if it’s gonna hurt her.
@Ane Calvo THANK you
being attached to your hair is unhealthy at times... sometimes you just gotta CUT IT
If I cut my hair any shorter I’d look bald
Yep.forget about it.look at little kids with long hair there not doing any treatments on there hair.it just grows.
For all my life I had long hair and I wouldn't cut it for the longest time. Like her I thought long hair was the only thing that made me pretty. My hair length was around 28 Inches. Finally when I was 13 I did the big chop. Honestly the best decision for my hair. I'm 15 now and my hair looks way more healthy than before.
Easier said than done
@@pinklemonade6597 truly it is but one day you get to that point
so much hair wisdom in the comment section and im here for it 💇🏻♀️
You can’t force your wavy hair to be straight and expect it to be healthy.
I agree
Exactly, everyone learns this eventually
If you use the right producs it wouldn't damage it to bad
@@myrtheharreman7043 *too
@@kirin1230 thanks
She sounds like someone from ACTUALLY HAPPENED or My Story Animated 😂😂
OMG, yea.
Sooo true I was searching for this comment
Yeah
Lmao
That's kinda rude
She sounds like a narrator from “ My story animated”
I-
minute videos riteeee
i thought it just me
Savage Gamer lol
I was thinking that to 😂
This is officially my comfort video...I've seen it like a million times😂❤
the “short” hair looks so good on you and now i wanna cut my long hair
@Golden Puppies i once had short hair and regreted it but now i kinda wanna do it again
i feel like i shouldnt do it but im just bored lol
don't don't you will regret
do it if u really want to do it Sis, I cut my waist long hair to my chin and with a undercut and I don’t regret anything I did :)
A weird child YES. Honestly long hair doesn’t look nice to me :( unless you have thin hair it looks okay. And never cutting your hair makes it get split ends and yucky. Cut your hair! You won’t regret it. Also you can donate it to help people.
The key for everything in life: if you don't care, it will solve itself. The more you care about something, the worse it will become.
KarinaP agree 😂 i dont really dont care what i do to my hair and its actually really pretty and thick
Will this help with grades?
CD Gamer 😂😂😂
KarinaP that’s the silliest thing i’ve heard all day. You should say ‘the less you stress the better’ or something because you can’t seriously think most things people care about like weight and grades will solve themselves with them doing nothing (not caring)
I disagree and agree
Sis u have wavy hair, it looks so bad because you’re trying to force your hair to be straight when it’s not
Hello, I'm Hootle :D Can you explain in English?
Hello, I'm Hootle :D There isn’t any grammar and a lot of it’s spelt wrong, so it’s really hard to understand.
@@memesandstuffso Hootle said that there is definitely some texture going on in her hair and that it looks good when its shorter.. and the good old "no hate, just explaining" thing too. There u go
Hello, I'm Hootle :D not again 😂🤦♀️
It’s gay ;)
One simple way to grow your hair:
Accept your hair the way it is,love it.
Exactlyy obsessing over my hair always makes things worse
@@salmaalwan256 💝💜💙🕊️
Yes!! I used to obsess over my hair and when i eventually started to accept and started to love it, i actually saw improvement. i learn that I should just leave my hair alone, improve my mental health and that way my hair’s health will also improve.
Me with my bi-annual pixie cut: “why am I watching this?”
Same, I have littererally the shortest possible Bob haircut. It doesn't go over my ears, it just covers my head.
Same lol
Coconut oil
Exact my thought just now... I went from waist length to pixie and yeah, now I'm gay
same
Am I the *only* one who brushes their hair when it’s wet? I do this since I was 4 or something. My hair looks to this day really healthy!
Edit: ty for 883 likes :DD
I do that too! It's so much easier.
Sameee
Same
Same
Same! If I don't, when it dries it becomes all tangled and poofy
I watched this last night. I’m a hairstylist. Your hair changed, as it does every 7-10 years, and you’re fighting against the waves. That alone creates the frizz and weakens/breaks the hair where the hair bends. My advice would be to embrace your new waves and continue the curly girl method or something comparable. Your hair isn’t straight, and it may not be again for a long time. Also lots of the pictures you see on social media are enhanced, so please don’t try to achieve what an editing app can do.
Exactly! Thank you, Susan. I hope she saw your comment!
i thought the same. her hair just went wavy
As a hair dresser, why does your hair change ever 5-7 years?
loveayomidelace hormones!
@susan shaughnessy Hello , since you are a hairstylist , may I ask you a question ? My hair is usually straight when it is dry , but when it is wet and I air-dry it ( I hardly use a hairdryer ) it is wavy , and then it turns back to straight after completely drying . So what exactly is my hair type ? Wavy or straight ? I read an article on the internet which said that if your hair is wavy when it is wet , then it is actually wavy . I'm fine with hair but I am really confused when it comes to this, I would appreciate it if you could help me. Thank you.
5:43 important! The static hair has nothing to do with your hair but it’s the brush, I have used that brush my whole life and if there is high pressure and humidity in the environment you live in it’s more likely to do that with your hair, what I do when it happens is wet my hand and tap it on the brush, the water will make it loose that effect
Y'all ragging on her because she's "obsessed" with her hair and she should get over it: How many of you can say there isn't a flaw or something that you would change about your body? Hair, weight, skin, too much hair (on your body), boobs, flat butt, rolls, nose, lips, eyebrows, the list goes on... let people be. Encourage them towards better health, whatever that means for them.
I was about to comment this. People acting self righteous in a way like they don't have a part about their body they dont like. Its annoying
Roxy I agree💖
That was such a glee Santana moment!
but actually obsessing over your hair and this mental state actually affects your hair
but she is going a little bit too far tho. yes i don't like my nose for instance but i don't get obsessed about it as much as this girl does with her hair. idk that's just my opinion it's different for everybody of course but it's not healthy to go this far you might develop mental health issues like ocd. i'm not saying she has all those things but it's what could happen.
Can you guys not hate she’s not even hurting anybody like dude..
None is hating
player a yes they’re
I would like to give a like on this comment, but I will leave it in 666
long thick hair really depends on the genes to be honest, my hair has always been past my ass (it grows fast AF) but with beautiful thick and long hair like mine... comes bodyhair :) im like an ape...
I've always said if you have a head full of thick hair you will have it everywhere else too! lol and I don't mean that disrespectfully! Long thick hair is a blessing :-)
Yep, I'm a hairy girl too and my hair grows fairly fast. Never tried any special treatments because I never needed one (except that I have a dry scalp). My grandmother had beautiful thick hair and always encouraged me to grow it long but the body hair, especially during summer is just pain in the arse. But now I see some people struggle a lot like this girl I'm glad to have fast growing hair everywhereeee.
I feel this in my soul
Honestly if she switched to black hair care, it would helped her tremendously. A good cut and implementing better quality products would have helped
this is so true. having long thick hair comes at a price of tonnes of razors and shaving cream haha. and because its so heavy, i cant hold a wave and styling it any other way except straight is a problem.
i have REALLY similar texture to you- it has wavy kinks and breakage in the back, somewhat thin, and frizz. my saviour has been heatless curls, coconut oil, wild growth hair oil, wigs, heat once a week, and only using scrunchies. it’s actually growing in quite well, but i had many mental breakdowns in the process. adding a little bit of pure coconut oil to the ends and scalp before bed makes it grow in so well!! best of luck!!!
i’ve found that my true damage came from forcing my hair to be straight (my hair curls SO easy, like… i put it in a bun and it looks like shirley temple) maybe it’s the same for you!! wear a straight hair wig!!!
I think you overcared about your hair and got the reverse effect
agreed
She got played the UNO reverse card
it looks like when she "overcared" for it, it was actually getting healthier and trying to revert to its curly/wavy state. If she leaned into that with her new cut, she might actually get a nicer wave?
@@spoon1778 I wanted to like ur comment but the amount of likes is too perfect laul XD
@@spoon1778 and yeah I know annyeongaseyo (or however it was to be written...)
Your hair isn’t “worse” it’s wavy and dry. You need to keep it moisturized to combat the dryness. If you keep straightening it and using heat it will continue damage the ends and you’ll have to continue to cut them.
how do you keep your hair moisturized?
@@dinonuggets9749 oils and leave in conditioners, good ones tho
Is you not watching the video? She moisturizes and doesnt use heat on it.
@@lonelli8439 But she didn't do that with her wavy hair. Different hair types need different products.
@@lonelli8439 She didn't change with her hair. She has an expectation for her hair, so she uses a routine to achieve it. It just so happens that what she wants is not possible with her hair.
this feels like a documentary from netflix
hahahahahhah
no it doesn’t. it doesn’t have over dramatic affects and one words and flashing to black screens and fading into a weird ocean landscape
😹😹😹😹
Is the dog face for me
Right! 😂
1) It could be the water. Hard water can really ruin your hair. You mentioned washing hair at home after the salon and it was back to being matted and dry. You need a shower filter with a water softener.
2) Also, it looks like your hair needs more protein - something more professional like a K18 mask would work.
3) Could soy milk be messing with your hormones? I’d consider eating more natural. Plant milks are not natural human foods. If you want to have healthy hair, you need to eat a lot more protein than you do. More meat like chicken and red meat and dairy like Greek yogurt.
4) A good professional shampoo. Not John Frieda. Something like Pureology or Kerastase or Oribe, plus a clarifying shampoo once a week. You need to clarify if you have hard water.
5) Silk bonnet is the best kept secret for perfect morning hair!
6) Your natural hair texture is not exactly straight. Your hair is very fine too. To get that glossy straight hair with weighted texture you would have to blow it out with hair products after washing when it’s 80% dry. You can’t just air dry it.
Your hair is very beautiful, but what’s damaging it is how you touch it and play with it so much. Also all the stress, maybe even too many products. I hope it gets better though!
I like this commemt
Zachary Evans thank you 😎
Best comment on this vid! giving suggestions but not being rude about it, thank you!
Kelsey M! 😎
Olivia Campbell lol
My hair dresser told me once “you need a trim because your hair is fried” and I was thinking “what?? I havent used any heat on it in 1WHOLE YEAR!” Then she said its from too much protein...then it clicked. I was doing hair mask almost everyday (hair mask that included EGG). Hope this might be a lil helpful. Dont do hair mask all the time!
a lot of it is also from coconut oil (an oil used for hair treatments and EXTREMELY high in protein). especially on finer hair, it can't handle the excess proteins and just ends up becoming even more brittle and fragile.
@@aleaq3005 My hair was soooo thin and dry back in 2018 but after using coconut oil twice a week my hair is waaay healthier, now my hair is so thick and long.
Heat damage might be also caused by sun(depends on the region where you live and how much time you spend outside without a hat)
Ohhh thanks
fried egg
This feels like a documentary to me we need this on Netflix
I've watched this video so many times over the past few years. I'm obsessed. I love hair.❤
Sis u have 2b and 2c hair just accept it you don’t need to use curly hair products just learn how to treat it
My though 🤦♀️ "i want healthy waist length hair but it has to be pin strait despite my natural hair so im going to do loads of unhealthy shit to it to make it strait"
amen! she wants to look a certain way, but sometimes you need to listen to what your hair wants
Yes! Using straight hair products in hairs that are not straight do a lot of damage! Is forcing your hair in a way it’s not natural. As she said, years passed, she started as teen, adding all the hormonal issues, hairs CAN change! I had straight flawless hair, but after I was 12 my hair started to curl and now is a full 3B/3C!
She is just going back to all the old treatments for straight hair that didn’t work, like, can’t she learn?
Abbie Ainsley so true!!! Once I just accepted my hair texture & stopped having unrealistic goals and actually caring for how it was instead of how I wanted it to be (unrealistically) it thrived so much more 🙄
I used to have waist length hair, I thought they'd look nice but my natural soft curl in addition with the waigh of the hair just made it freezy. Now I cut it chin length and I'm embracing the curl, they are softet and healthier than ever.
Try rice water for growth and thickness. Rice has protein. You should definitely do more research or look into it.
yes! this, or even an aloe leaf. get the gel out the plant and massage it in your hair. make it like a mask but with out the extra incentives. i have grown 7 inches since march. i also use maui products since they’re vegan and aloe based as well.
@@xk8lynnx Do you do it everyday?
Yeap! Just make sure your hair isn't protein sensitive!
I tried that
It worked
I’ve been watching a lot of your hair journey videos today after you popped up in my feed. Hair traumas aside (and I know that is important to you) but I just wanted to say what a lovely voice you have. Such a nice accent, such good articulation and brilliant narration skills! Have you ever considered doing podcasts or putting yourself forward for audiobook narration? Your voice makes me super relaxed 😊
i have curly girl that’s 20 inches long when it’s wet, but when it’s dry it literally hits my shoulders... shrinkage is real
can relate
Ariel E relatable
SAME!
My hair is straight in the beginning the wavy like hers in the bottom half
Oh yeah thats how it is
leaving your hair alone completely is always best. hair is amazing at taking care of its self
"And then I had short hair!"
me, having had a buzzcut:
*looks at the camera like*
*they're @ the office*
I always do this when people think below shoulder length or shoulder length itself is “short”. When I had a pixie cut, that was damn short. It’s a pain looking for ‘short hair’ styling videos, or it was a long time ago anyway. 🤦🏼♀️
@@kateh2434 Same here.
@@kateh2434 it is short, for her, it's "relative"
I miss my buzz cut so much. It's so freaking comfortable and low maintenance
I bleach-murdered mine and got it chopped. 🤦 Don't get girls who go with long bobs when they bleach-murder their hair, and freak out about the length. They'd rather have dried out poofy looking long bobs as though it won't grow back in time. (Not talking about ppl who don't recover from a big chop)
this felt so personal and relatable for me
and im not even talking about the hair im talking about life itself
ive had so many issues and my only dream is getting gurther and further from coming true. but the only thing left is to hope for the best
Wash your hair in cold water. It stops the oils in your hair from being completely stripped away when you shampoo. It stopped my frizz immediately
edit: here are a few more suggestions that helped me. Maybe it isn’t just the cold water...
Btw I have hair type 2a and my hair is medium thickness, this is just what works for me!!
1. Only shampoo your scalp - any runoff shampoo is enough to clean the rest of your hair. Then condition ur whole head excluding the very top of your scalp. The idea is to clean your hair but not strip it of its oils.
2. Use a *very moisturizing* conditioner. And let it soak while u take a shower. (The brand I use is at the end of this comment)
3. Brush ur hair. The oils in your hair can be ur friend if u spread them evenly. Esp like me, I have long hair so brushing to my ends helps keep it looking shiny but not oily.
4. braid your hair down your back before bed. It prevents frizziness from where you lay on your head at night. Also, try to be conscious of how your hair lays at night. Keep it neat and if you tend to adjust your head on your pillow a lot before you fall asleep make it a habit to pull your hair over your shoulder to stop it from getting tangled
This is the shampoo/conditioner that I use... AG hair care “smooth” coconut shampoo and conditioner. I also use amika curl corps defining cream *only* the day after I wash my hair, mostly to keep the top layers flat
If ur hair is still frizzy just keep trying different things and don’t give up!!
Tysm! I will try it..hope it works
Gonna reply so ill remember this
@@crystalmethany3245 tell me if there was a difference
@@auroraknight3766 will do
Crystal methany just leaving this comment here so I’ll remember
This makes me appreciate my really thick hair.
same...
Same
Yep same. If my hair was that length it would be thicker than the top at the ends
this makes me appreciate my super long hair
time to cut the ends!
Yeah i always wanted thinner hair but this video made me appreciate my thick hair
Your hair looks way better in the “curly girl method” then it does straight 😅 but to each their own! You look good either way!
i feel like this video is a lesson in how the internet and especially the beauty community warp our perception on what is achievable, and how someone can go to great lengths to achieve something that is impossible to do with her hair naturally. even then she resorted to a treatment that damaged her hair beyond repair and resulted in her being far more unhappy with the result after the initial honeymoon period. as other commenters have said, she just doesnt have thick hair, but theres also the idea that "natural" is somehow better or more authentic than extensions or wigs.
its a hard pill to swallow when youre constantly comparing yourself to other people you look up to, so you should occasionally step back and question what the goal youre trying to achieve is out of reach and will stay that way
If you're on birth control it can also have a huge effect on your hair. My hairs thinned out at least 50% because of my bc :/
shanda vanier what type of birth control and how long? I’ve been on it for a year and my hair is still very long and very thick
@@elliemedford1852 I have skyla now and I was on kyleena before that. Kyleena started the hair thing and i switched to skyla because it had less of the hormone. I've tried almost every single type of birth control and different hormone combination that exists, but all of them have had serious negative affects for me. The only thing I haven't had is the copper IUD but I can't get that because I have endometriosis. Skyla is literally my last and only option unless I want to get off birth control, but that can cause my endometriosis to act up even worse and ofc increase the chances that I get pregant. I honestly don't even know what to do anymore lol
I am actually so happy I saw this comment because my hair has been falling out for a little over two months now. I also started a different bc so maybe that could be a reason I’m going to look in to. I have been looking for reason but this one could actually be a good one. Thank you.
ghost boi umm, birth control isn’t exclusively for the devil’s tango.
Maybe u should test out some hormonless options. I had so many problems with the kyleena and hormons in general and im really happy now with an IUP. Therr are so many ways to do birthcontrol without taking hormons