3 BIG signs of Toxic People | Ankur Warikoo
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When you realise every single person behaves like this 🙃🙂
Brother can you talk with me, I have toxic neighbour thats why I am sad
@@killerboy-jk1ip what happened bro, what they did to you ?
Yes same. Every people become toxic when I frank with them
In reality in my life I meet every boy or people all are selfish
@@jdhdbennssmns limit urself,i hope it helps
That means you have never met a real toxic person.
These old generation parents can never understand how toxic they are
100%
Yep
True
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where are you from???
Toxic people are the ones who hurt others intentionally. And they hurt the ones who truly love them. They can go to any lengths to get what they want.
Good video 😊 Some traits in my ex were particularly focused on looks and body.
I suddenly realised that I'm a toxic person. Hope Almighty can forgive me. I'm feeling extremely low and hating myself rn for being such a person. 🙃😣
Only u have the power to change that
@@rajindroneel Thanks for saying that.
Whatever he said it can be perceived in many ways, If say you're best friend or someone very close to you wasn't there for you in a time of need when you were always there for the... Just because you blamed him/her that doesn't make you toxic... Hope your day is better :)
This is not like that.. I am als 🤣 feeling the same after watching this video...But I do these things to make people realise things...and I think there is nothing wrong in it..We can't do ki agr koi accha na kre ya kuchh glti kre to usko samJhane ki bajaye use shabashi do?? Will you do it?? .. There is no point in it
now that you've realised, you can fix it. been in that place, will only get better if you become better
All of these lines are certified by parents 🤣
😂😛😂🙌
😂
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💅 😔 skretch my hands other side mom ,safe her
Without any context, these three lines can make an adulterer make themselves feel that their spouse is the toxic one and not them.
Exactly my point
Exactly, this channel is good for finance, career related things but when he talks about life it's comedy vdo for me... 😂😂
He talks total nonsense
This guy is not that mature, to guide on such topics
@@tn8014 yes
Exactly! This is crap.
So true
I Live with those people 😂
me too. they are the most important people in my life
SAME WITH MY SO CALLED FAMILY !! 😊
Me too yrr. Shadi ke bad yhi haal hota h
@@subramanianvenkata3054lol
I can relate to this my parents are like this 😢
Idk this is random I don't have anyone to share this with so I decided to share it here for 8 years I have been bullied mentally and traumatized my childhood was ruined by toxic friends in my school I was so kind but everyone exploited me,my father passed away when I was 17,Even my own sister and brother in law treated me like shit. But today I turned 18 and I cutted them off today And I feel a big weight off my chest like justice is served💖✨. Thank you mahadev,, Thank you God,Thank you universe💖
Congratulations to you and so much love for being such a strong person🥺💜
My parents are the most toxic in this world I feel like sooo lonely
Its okay I am with you 💖
My parents used to beat me daily, they always blamed me if they couldn't find their belongings. If anything goes wrong in their life they scold me..they even slap me if I look straight in their eyes. And other than that if any relative come to visit us... They try to show their power or superiority in front of them by shouting at me without any reason. I always ask myself...why? Why they did this to me? What was my fault? Why wasn't I brave to fight back? I know it's my fault.
It’s not your fault ❤❤
I've been there and facing the same thing from childhood even at 30. These things bothered me which made me neglect my career. Idk how old you are but I would like to tell you to try your best to focus on your career.. If possible leave your house at the earliest and focus on yourself.
No its not ur fault! You are really strong to go through this. I myself have faced similar situation in the past. But i figured out something, and that is whenever i achieve something they behave better. May be because they don't consider me a loser for sometime. I wud suggest u to do the same. Work hard towards ur goals. May be ur achievements will change their behaviour towards u. If not, then just know that u deserve better. ❤
I thought i am the only one with these kind of parents but this is kalyuga, what can we expect😢
My brother. He’s younger but behaves like elder. He abuses me a lot . My family also supports him.
If I would had known this before then then I wouldn’t feel like I am victim and this video is for me !!! Thank you for sharing !!
If they are our parents, then how we can stay away from them 🥲❤
That is my question
Exactly , better motivate yourself everyday to be so independent that you never have to see their faces again in life . And create a non toxic peaceful life for yourself
Don't take this short videos too seriously.. No matter who is speaking..
Your parents may have some negative points.. But it doesn't make them toxic people..
Parents are last people you should think about staying away..
See the whole picture, these are also the same ppl, who will always be by your side, most loyal.
At times parents ka bhi APNA context hota Hai...... Always put oneself in others shoes to actually understand how wrong and right they are....
Besides if they still are.... Try to be independent financially.... Have a life partner.... But never forget your responsibilities as a kid to your old parents .... Create a barrier like ideological, emotional... Such that there toxicity stays with them.... While you do your duty unaffected
Mere realisation will help you understand how to not care about the words.....n concentrate on yourself.
And stay away from those who pull you backward.
What if they are younger than you??
What if they are your family members?
STAY AWAY???Bro I LIVE in THEIR house!!!!
My mom is the most toxic person I have ever met ( but now she understand me, i am so happy)
relatable 🙁
Same ...but sad thing is she don't know she was behaving in toxic manner
Absolute truth of my life
Same to you. I find this video just because I cried today because of my mother.
Me too
Kicked them away in 2014...They were my relatives.....ur words are true 💯%.....We are a happy family now...🙏
According to this definition everyone is toxic
Very good man I can relate to this thanks
Basically, he covered everything a human experience in the journey of any of his/her relationships.
They also give wrong advice as "for your own good" advice
Absolutely correct
I get it omg
Well said😊
I live with them
Sir,
What should we do if someone is there from your own family... how to tackle I am actually getting numb and depressed day by day 😥
Finally I realized this 😂😂😂😂😂😂and broke my 7 yr. Old friendship 😂😂😂😂😂
Very true sir 👍
Ur absolute right😊
I think I'm toxic from childhood But i never displayed my toxicity in front of people
Stay away from them? How do i stay away from myself?
Great statement and Right 👍👍
Stay away from toxic people, Boss, colleagues, wife, husband, ....
Agree 😍😍
I am that toxic person. 😒I understood it a while ago and I am working on being better.
Right ajj Kal life Mai achhe insaan milte hai hei nahi ! 😢
Sanyas Lene ka Maan krta hai Mera toh 😂...but kya karun ladki Hun ladkiyan sanyas nhi le Sakti 😂
True😢😂@@Lavanaya724
Everything has an exception
You are right ✅️
The biggest advice to tackle such people is that you never make them feel that they are somebody very important to you,if if they arent there,you will be nothing.
Care for everybody,be there if they need help but don't give any utter importance to anybody,no matter how close they are.
Because in the end its only you who have to face your problems.
Yup. Only reciprocate. Or do only that much that you wouldn't regret when they turn their backs.
Hey Ankur, good one but you cannot avoid such people in workplace. So look forward to your video on how to improve relationship and create better work environment.
Just great! No words....
Akdam sahi bole 🥹🙏
stay away from toxic people .we are the average of the five people we spend the most time with --- Jim Rohn.
What if they are younger than you?
I mean what if they are your brother?
And your are still kids?
These exactly are my parents behavior with me... When i got my first salary i gifted a phone to my father.. Instead of feeling happy he started scolding me and at every point he used to blame me of wasting money as he didn't need phone still i gifted and my mom and dad always used to insult me in front of guests and their frnds just to make them laugh.. I am feeling very lonely these days sometimes i think of ending up my life 🥺
Baate naa ke barabar karo unse indirectly unhe ignore karna start kardo sirf kaam se kaam baat rakhne ka or baaki time distance maintain rakhna hoga
Leave them
Yes you are right
My life is your videos...
Totally changed is my life....bagavan your is greatman...totally changed my family and every things...thanks forever forever forever forever
What you have said is exactly matching for my parents 😢
My father has got all these traits and my mother is opposite to him but still ultimately his decisions only overrule, so how to stay away from him?
I feel you😢
Leave you
Focus on your studies and stay quiet till you can get a real job . It may take 10-15 years but once you are financially independent stay away from your father.
This is absolutely true . Very true. I personally experienced these lines
This is completely me to myself!💀💀💀
Idk.. what to do with this personality of mine?.. how do I change this??? And becoz all of these i suffer a lot 😭😭😭
Don't Give A Shit To Them 💀🤡
Maybe I'm that toxic person now. But after staying by them, helping as much as I could and sacrificing then getting betrayed by people i think I'm better toxic now.
Helpful knowledge in our day to day life. 😊
People say to cut off toxic person,,, but how to do it when it's literally your parents 🙃
I can totally relate with that. The only solution i found is to become emotionally independent ,focus on ur goal, get successful and prove them wrong. Am working on this myself! Its working..
Yes for sure😢😢
@@bittu2416you dont have to try so hard to prove urself , come on dont be a loser just be yourself and accept yourself for what you are
@@shirleychan762 I am proving myself to get their love and respect and not just to them but to myself as well. Everyone has a right to live with self respect. I am not a loser. I would be a loser if i'd also consider myself a loser just like them. And i am not changing myself, am just changing my opinion about myself and that is " I am NOT a loser ".
@@bittu2416 Why do you have to prove yourself so hard if you really respect yourself? To gain acceptance from the toxic ones? Really? I mean self respect is good but you'll have to make it clear that you're doing all that for your own sake instead of pleasing anyone in order to earn their hearts just becoz they r ur family. The fact is if anyone really loves you they'll love you and accept you for who you are without you making any changes. Get it?
I'm this kind of person and I hate myself how I've been I'm seeking for betterment now hope God forgive me
So true 👍
Yes it's true even I feel this exactly in one person
When you realise it is your parents😂
But my mom and dad is like that
Bilkul sahi kaha aapne very right
Thanks 🙏🙏🙏
What if i am such person . 🙂
Hehe, then mate, first don't take it as a negative thing..hell now you know where u are going wrong..next step is trying to work on each one of the points and negate them out of your life..be good to others even if you are at your worst.
Be hopeful but never expect(not easy to implement) from others/friends/parents..instead put yourself in the shoes of the person u admire(and think how they'll react to said situation) and think before you react to any situation..small steps and changes go a long way.
@@rishabhbhatnagar3214 appreciated 👍 it's a person's insecurities that make him toxic i guess would be better if i work on that
How to face a narcissistic father..help me😭😭
I know this is not easy but you have to try to ignore his taunts or blaming and distance yourself in home and also become beshram or self dependent. And also spends your time to become spiritual also.
Leave him
😂😂 dude I thought I was a duffer but sooner realised I'm surrounded by toxic people😅
To the point
These lines will change life of many, amazingly....
"They always blame you if you aren't there for them". While it is true that people have their own problems to deal with and they can't be there for us every time when we need them and it is futile to blame them for that, but if you have been the kind of person who has been there for others when they needed you, and they run away from you every single time you face a problem in life and when you need them the most, and it becomes a pattern, then know that the person is not worth holding on to in life.
Literally me.... Purely relatable
This is true in my surroundings people
This man is the classic example of , First become rich then become a philosopher. 😂
No no sir !! 😀😀
All things are natural!!
Please be your self 😀😀
We all are have feelings, when you feel something, u react too 😀
Beautiful language and message.
This is real i feel this type of hurts
What if someone is actually a stupid person but you don't want them to be stupid
What if we are married to one ? 🤣🤣🤣
Sadly this is my mother😢 as the eldest sibling of 5 I have lived all my life in her condemnation. I’m now 40 unmarried but all my younger ones are. And she has always encouraged me not to… my life is ruined by the time I realised. It’s hell on earth . While I love and care for her. She knowingly or may be unknowingly did this to me. Can’t throw her away …. I will be happy when I die
So true these are my family members
Depends on ppl experience i belive waise to sab log hi toxic hojayinge 😅
True but not always...
This is true 😢
Now i realise ever single friend that i have is toxic
This guy just asked me to stay away from my parents 💀
I've just come to a new country faced a lot of toxicity from people merely because I couldn't adapt to the culture. They never gave me time and to adapt and never understood my effort to fit in. People can be really terrible.
Exactly sir I feel the same 😢
My family 💔
😂 bhot shi let's change ourselves for better 💎💪🏻
Oh yes! And mostly them come in the form of friends
A friend of mine is like this
Thanx bro for cautioning god 🙌 bless
This will really change my life..
Exactly, I faced this toxic person for so long!!
100% true
Here’s a message to people who are dealing with these toxic people: Don’t listen to them
I think you are right
Damn that's my beloved family✨✨
My favorite author
I know one friend. It matches exactly what you told
100% correct
Right 👍
1. They make you feel bad about who you are......what if I'm actually bad, arrogant, self centric then shouldn't I need to interospect?
2. They will make you feel guilty if they're sad and 3. They will blame you if you are not there for them.....these two points depends on person to person plus situation to situation.......
Don't let people feel bad about themselves or anyone by posting such idiotic facts created by you, everyone is intelligent enough to see if they're happy with someone or not.
1st point: I Disagree
If they do something that may destroy their life then what we gonna do?
stay silent?
or tell them you are wrong? they feel bad And also they realize , yes this might be a bad idea
that's what true friendship is
criticize our bad habit and improve it
💯 real my mom literally like this
My father... A huge salute to my mother who breared him he used to even disrespect my mother with the worst wods.infront of his family 😢