How to deal with toxic people at work | Ankur Warikoo Hindi Video | Surviving office politics
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 31 พ.ค. 2024
- #warikoo #toxicworkplace #officepolitics
How to deal with negativity at work? How to deal with mental and emotional health issues that come up as we are working from home, and are yet stressed out?
00:00 Introduction
01:58 Distance yourself
03:14 Stop reacting
04:43 Don't repeat their mistakes
06:03 Document everything
07:58 Report them
09:42 Stay positive
10:40 Make a decision
12:03 Be empathetic
13:08 Summary
There is toxicity at work, and it affects your job. Not only your work, it also affects your positive state of mind. In this video I will share some effective steps you can take right away, to make sure you stay away from that toxicity. Which one, are you going to begin with?
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How well articulated, best part about all these pointers shared is they are pragmatic and win-win situation as we will learn how to handle the situations in not just work life but elsewhere and grow emotionally. And the last point is absolutely right - it's not about the toxic people getting up each day with an intention to spoil other person's life. They come with baggage, and that itself is their curse sadly. Alas we can just empathise and be good to them, not a tit for tat act basically, and sometimes that does become source for their change in any small way be it!
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If u not faced such circumstance u shd not make a video
I once reported my manager for putting undue pressure on me and putting others work on my plate and now I am branded as not a team player.
Agree. I am also sailing the same boat.
It happend with good employee and capable employees only.
Toxic people always try to pressurized capable resources to become king of team and creates flattered resources,
Flattered resources rewarded with promotions, good ratings and project bonus.
Personally experienced it.
experienced the same
Best is to leave the toxic environment as soon as possible . I tried many points mentioned in the video but in turn I was asked to leave the company during time of covid
How many times can you actually leave a company ?
@@AbhishekSharma-gi6eg exactly. I've left 3 toxic companies in a span of 3 years. It is ruining my career
agree. But 99.9% places are toxic and dont know how to find 1% for healthy environment. Thats called heaven and in heaven you can be after your death only... Ha ha
@@soniagill4181 that is the problem with modern world, it has done everything outside for its comfort but not given enough time to improve itself from within
@@TSCardoz doesn't matter. as much as your skills are on demand companies will hire you, i am also waiting to complete 1 year in my current company and then i will leave, it's way too toxic.
Toxicity peaks itself in TCS.
True
in SBI as well
@@sandronesta1 sorry to hear this!!
Agree
In fact in every place where Indians are in majority. Problem is with Indian mindset and how we Indians are brought up
1)Distance yourself
2(Let them act out drama without giving any reaction
3)don't gossip about them
4)Document everything discussed on whatsapp
5) report them to senior
6) surround urself by positive people
7) leave if not earning respect recognition encouragement
8)emphathise and understand why they behave like this
Exactly true, by genuinely we want more to hear this type of content
How many of you agree 🙂
Nahi bole bhai
I'm really suffering with such toxic environment and head
Your video really make me realize and deal with such environment and people
Always try to make a proper difference between your professional n personal life...
What ever happened at your workplace, leave it at your office's gate only.. don't ever you bring it with you to your home 🙏
I never ever thought someone could give me such a manner to tackle the toxic people at workplace.
I have experienced such toxic people in my previous organization. I could barely survive for a year there. The manager and the lead were sadistic and in a span of one year, my whole team of 10 resigned to escape such toxic people.
I sometimes really wonder how someone can be so so toxic :/ but like you said, there could be some experiences and/or people that might have resulted to such toxic nature of a person.
Thank you for your empathy
@@warikoo Regarding last point, I have to say people are born with their unique nature/mentality. That's why you see some children enjoy bullying weaker children. Their habits get even stronger as they grow big, if they are not punished.
Yes. Some people do have criminal minds .
@@SuvaMukherjee yes that's why one should be mentally strong!!! To tackle these assholes!!!
This is a diplomatic video which just tells you to take soft steps. Sometimes you have to face the toxic managers and speak up. You cannot always report them, many a times you have to deal with them yourself.
Reporting behavioural issues in the company for our manager are taken granted way. Higher management only concentrates on the delivery of the project.IF TOXIC MANAGER IS BRINGING THAT IT’s OK FOR THEM.
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My manager was very toxic in my first company, he used to take away credit of our work.
he even used to blame girls that they compromise with him for promotions. Very bad experience...
Too bad, but helped me to rise later. He taught me what not to do.
Today I am myself a lead, and know exactly how people feel.
I am a kid and my opinions change every moment ... I always try not to take action against what i feel toxic ...i was completely relating all the time as I was ragged at my college today...just got some support
...thankyou sir
Being INDIFFERENT with emotional toxic person is a tool I use. And I think it works way way better than reacting to it.
I really would like to appreciate for your content. Secondly can you please make a video on how to reduce over thinking and keep ourselves mentally healthy
Very common concern among working professionals!
yep
In all your videos you have been advising not to talk about another employee or employer who is toxic.. this is so interesting to me becoz we were raised in a school of thought which said - if you share your problem with others you will feel light. However, at work we cannot do this and I learnt it very hard way. Few of my colleagues couldn’t tolerate my boss but yet were quiet about it or moved to another company. However, I spoke to these few colleagues openly as though it was going to be a secret. Finally the message reached my boss somehow and I felt sick becoz that wasn’t my intention but I was just venting out. I wish I hadn’t done it but towards the end I was like the bad person even though my boss was toxic one!!!
Your channel is a GOLDMINE. I’m so glad I stumbled upon your channel lately. Really appreciate the efforts you put in Ankur.
Loved this video Ankur. I have been lucky to have been in a toxic working relation only once in 8 years. I realize now, empathizing really helped, to understand where the person was coming from. I did also raise my concerns to him personally and other leaders, managed to get out of the project in less than 2 months. But empathizing actually helped to move on from the drama and the mental stress, and bringing back my own confidence again for next projects.
Ankur, what you explained that works up to certain extent, but at times the political war goes to a long extent , where such toxic people gang up and standing against them for a long is really difficult. There survival becomes difficult.
Very true
True'...but always keep doing good and our work. good did always bounce back to us with good always and they will get their.
So true 😭
All these points I needed to hear 2 years ago and I am glad that someone made video on this topic and suggested the solutions as well.
I loved the last point of empathy. It just simplifies everything at work and personally. Thank you!
Such a gold pill Ankur.... recently went through a phase of experiencing a toxic person
This has happened with me every time in every office wherever I worked and finally I gave up and now just doing what I want to do because there is a thing called mental peace so corporate people best of luck for all the torture you are going through I can feel for you
This episode is so core to heart ,so true .Each line is so powerful and beautifully explained.The message is loud and Crystal clear .One of the best motivational speech till now .I can easily correlate this .Thanks Ankoor Sir 🙏🙏🙏
100% agreed with your statement, making distance from toxic people help us to focus on our assignment to achieve goals.
Best Video on TH-cam so far. Very Well Articulated with so much clarity. Thank Ankurji...Wish I had someone like you in my 20s.
Love you, Ankur. Always a pleasure to listen to you. You're a great mentor and a very genuine person!
Thank u so much, Ankur. I m working in a toxic environment since two years . Very helpful clip. Thank u
Bhaiya dil se bol raha hun ye abhi tak ki sabse zyaada beneficial video hai mere liye. Thank You
Hie Sir, Whatever you said is all relatable about india's working culture, Precisely slavery. And one who sits on the throne is more often a maniac. So wise one should change his/her place rather than trying to change the place. Thanks for making such a good video.
Thank you so much for making this video. I was going through similar situations at my workplace. This video is definitely worth learning about tackling such a situation. I'm going to implement this thing personally and professionally in my life
Feeling empowered now. Thanks so much!!!!🙏🙏
The last point is truly a gem 💎
Thank you so much for this. It was much needed. I was having a tons of stress which I could actually feel over my shoulders physically. This video has truly removed that stress to the extent when I can atleast sleep peacefully.
Thanks so much!! Will try to follow all points one step at a time. You're are a great person ❤
Poverty is the reason why i am in it !!
Unable to leave because of financial issues?
Hi Ankur, I can connect with all of your videos. This issue is now growing most of the work places. It is a thing that is causing mental issues in most of the employees.
Thanks for this video !Much needed.Please also guide how to not get overwhelmed with such environment, as once targetted emotions run high and you need someone to share which might get you in more trouble.
The last point you said really describes your character, it tells me that you are a good leader.
Thanks for sharing this Valueable video. It is needed video for people like me who observe every little thing and if someone said anything bad they get affected. But best way to deal is as you said. Be more empathetic. Be more emotionally strong.
This is so intresting that I happen to come across this when I am going through something similar. While with experience of 14year + you are expected to know all of this however it still healing and directional.
Hello Sir, Thank you for providing so much valuable information on youtube , after watching your videos I feel over the time, I have evolved to cultivate a very mature thinking and lifestyle at a young age.. May you keep sharing for the rest of your life and I am sure I will still following your wise nuggets of wisdom even then 🙏😊
Amazing articulation. I have a toxic boss who doesn't know what he is doing. I too tried everything to sort things but in the end, it's not worth wasting my life. So, am moving on.
I just lovvve you! Eventually you will save me from all troubles! Your clarity of thought is amazing 👏 It connects to me in all aspects
Thanks Ankur,
Me wakai kafi pareshan raha hoon beete 1 saal se or finally mene sabkuch try kiya jo bhi bataya ab tak apne, or mene apni life ek naya spot aim kar liya, M thoda dar raha tha ki har month ki salary nahi hogi kesse hoga, par apki video dekh kar confident feel kar raha hoon ki move out karne ka fesla sahi tha.
This single video sorted my whole problem of life. Thank you Ankur sir 👍👍👍👍
U r ryt..thanks for share this video...today I really frustrated but when I watch this video feeling much better...thank you so much...
Definitely sir, u proved tht mine decision to leave toxic environment is correct 🙏
N this video came on right time where i m on notice period 😇
Thankyou so much sir....i was so stressed but because of you i am so relaxed now....
Very practical tips indeed.... Not for workplace only but for relationships also.
Thanks
Thank you so much for this important talk. This was one of much needed talk for me. I am grateful for your help and guidance. Thank you Sir
Much needed sir ,I have felt this in my manager ..creating blockages to stop my growth
I am glad I came across this video. Best take away for me is to analyse higher managers as well. As mostly we are concerned about the behaviour of our colleagues and manager. We never try to study the situation globally. @Ankur, thanks a ton for sharing this perspective. Keep up the good work.
Hi Ankur sir...Thank you so much for making a video on this topic...I m currently going through this torture... Needed this a lot...It's helped a lot
Oh that’s exactly what I felt today! Just had a conversation with my colleague today evening regarding the work environment. After watching this video , I’m sure I can survive this. There are very important key takeaways from what you’ve listed here.
Stop Gossiping is the highlight. Couldn’t agree more to this.
Good news spreads fast. Bad news spreads faster. 💯
Thank you Ankur for covering such relatable issues we experience in our lives. 🙌
Shall surely implement this for my own good :)
These are pragmatic and well documented. Thank you Ankur.
The amount of wisdom that anyone can get in your 15 min Video is just Surreal..
I have recently started following you and just love your content it like u know the nerves of your audience. My question is please create a video for a toxic member in your family please
Very well explained and thank you ... I will be able to start my day with positivity today.
Sir,you are really an inspiration to people like us,I wish I could be like you..how could explain all these tough life situations so easily...
One of the finest videos on TH-cam. Thank you so much 🔥💯❤
Very well portrayed and well defined. This are not difficult task but small tips to make them as your habit. I encourage the last point empathize your boss. And I really need to know my boss after hearing you.
Absolutely brilliant stuff.... Thank you so much for the real guidance.
Thankyou sir...... Most needed!!!!❤️❤️🥺your live videos also motivates me a lot!
thank you so much for providing such a very useful content, i'm going to watch this video again and again to keep myself motivated.
Thank you Ankur, for making this video, explaining the topic to roots, I felt good after watching this video! hope this helps to all who deal with toxic environment!
You are an exceptional orator sir I can listen to u throughout the day without getting bored
Thank You Ankur sir for sharing this video. I really like the way you have explained the various situations and how to handle those. after watching your video I don’t think I need to listen or watch any other video on this topic and really feeling very motivated and confident about myself , thank you for sharing this video.
Hi Ankur,
Happy to report, I did point 8 just a week ago this video was uploaded. I WORKED WONDERS.
Thank you sir for sharing such a solution for the biggest problem in corporate. Believe me you are the life saver of the many people like me to excel in career.❤
Thanks for making this video. After watching this i feel bit relieved from pressure.❤
Ankur, your vedios are really helping to have common knowledge, that most of the people miss it.
One of the best video.
Mental and emotional exploitation is at peak.
Sir ur videos is just an rescue for my mental state m going through in my office...thankyou ❤️
This is so beautiful video must watch for every human who is working in corporate office❤️
Points that is occurred in a professional world. Thank you sir for your stunning solutions
You are the best and so easy to understand. One of the best truly. God Bless you!❤♥♥
I just wish this video was released much earlier. Never realised that we can be feeding into the energy by confronting/saying yes..this was happening on a daily basis by the topmost person of the company with my colleagues & myself and
Man! The outbursts that wrecks your mental peace and created such a toxic work place. This content definitely makes me understand a little better and to watch out for such signs in future.
Superb video !!! Thank you so much for great advice.
Much needed strength thanks.
Really great advice sir. Thank you
Amazing Wt a gud suggestions u hv given in a simple way....100% sure u helped many with Ds speech..keep it up God bless u😊
So well said. Thank you
Thank you this gave so much wisdom to me in 15 minutes.. 🙏🏻
Criminals don't need to be empathised, they need to be thrashed once threshold of tolerance crosses the limit!!!!!!
Right you gave nice answer ....I was following some points and I learnt some more points... thanks
Brilliant Knowledge! Thanks
The one channel we really need❤️
Thank you very much
Thank you so much for this video...I really needed this...
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I need this video very badly...!!!!
Thank you sir......
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Sir thanks for supporting us. Motivating us for achieving our goals ❤️❤️❤️
Thanks you so much , for wonderfull experiance sharing with us ,thanks so much. Sur
The most encouraging video❤ for me to deal with my situation 👍
Thanks brother for an information, this is the issue that i have been facing on a dailybasis
One of your best videos!! This is a must must watch!
Thank you Ankur Sir . You guided very well 🙏
Actually sir i think i am follow all this point before this video... But after watching this video i feel great about it ❤️
Excellent video
Thanks a lot 🙏🙏
Thank You