10 Weird Things Men Do That Women Find Attractive
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normal women don't care about menspreading... but do you think some find it attractive? 🤔
Guys, your FACE is the most important. Evrything else are not or almost not important. U can be fat, with short legse, without a hair, if u have a nice face, u are HANDSOME man. SIMPLE.
I realy do not know why, but 99% of womans will not admit that to you. They will say: your hair is beautiful, your hands are rough and sexy, you are handsome in that jacket.
But, what they realy thinks: YOUR FACE IS BEAUTIFUL. I realy do not know why, but almost every woman behaves and talks on that way.
@@whisperjet5346 ?
@@whisperjet5346lol subtle
I'll tell u what I find atractivo! u! love ur gorgeous eyes and smile! and i love ur hair & outfit
When you start to focus on yourself to become the best version of yourself, they will notice and find that attractive. Never chase women, always chase excellence.
I actually agree with this a lot! I find that women become attracted to men based on what they’re doing with their own lives and whether or not they want to be a part of that life.
No. They won’t. You’ll just be an awesome guy who is well put together, has a lot going for him, who women STILL don’t give a shit about…
Women still expect you to approach. And even if they didn't, telling guys not to ask women out isn't great advice. No offense but I'm starting to think this "cHaSe ExCeLlEnCe nOt WoMeN" manosphere line is just giving men an excuse to avoid taking risks or becoming vulnerable, by convincing them you can just focus on yourself and women will fall into your lap. But that's not how it works at all.
Rich cooper was right
That’s all you really need to do!!!!Everything else falls into place enough said conversation over
SUMMARY GUY
#1: Being a good driver.
#2: Watching you fix something.
#3: Great with kids or a Dog dad.
#4: Saving money (Financially stable).
#5: Your Hands.
#6: Grey Hair (matured men).
#7: Roll up your sleeves.
#8: Your smell (Great fragrance).
#9: Wearing glasses.
#10: Showing your talents or skills.
dang so having grey hairs at 30 is a no go? lol
@@Underthegun897 you mustn't have all qualities. That one is for old men 😂
@@justody1 i started getting grey in my beard around age 25-26
@@Underthegun897 you R now an old man ✅
Is it sus if a guy cleans his nails ?
Courtney is definitely that cool, no BS, no mixed signals because she's fooling around when she shouldn't, friend who gives it to you straight and helps you decode some of the feminine mystique that us men sometimes don't know how to crack.
Every guy should have a female friend like her and I'm so glad I found this channel!
😂 women are not your friends. The only exception is maybe a sister.
@@thomashall6288 maybe ? what ?
@@milannikolic3371 I stand by that.
One of the things that helped me win my wife of 15 years over was a piece of advice her girlfriends gave her when we first started dating. They told her to carefully watch how I treated my mother because that's how I would treat her. What they didn't know was that Mom was getting divorced from her husband (My dad died several years earlier so he was not my father) and forced to sell their house. I bought it from them, told Mom to not move a thing and told her soon-to-be ex to please vacate my house. When she explained that to her friends they said, "Marry him!".
Haha, hate to break it to you, but those types are the "Worst" types. Sorry Man, but you got yourself another NPC... First of all, W who take advice from other W are dangerous and have no innate personality of their own, and the girls who base you off how you treat your mother, use that as a gauge of how well you can be manipulated. Just as easy as your wife was told to "Marry You", tomorrow she could be told to "Divorce You" and she'll be all for it.
@@prussiansocietyofamerica, "NPC"? Is that a MGTOW code?
@@Staticjumper Nope. It means an Automaton.
Help me out here, @@prussiansocietyofamerica. An "Automaton"? I'm still not understanding your point.
Good man! Sometimes, doing the right thing provides real rewards!🤘
I can attest to the showing off your skill point. I'm a paramedic. I was at a large outdoor concert as the medical staff one summer. I had to go out into the crowd to treat a patient who had fainted. I brought them back to the med tent and eventually called for a second ambulance to transport them to the hospital as I had to stay on site. My wife was there and got to watch me go into, "Medic mode," as she called it. She showed her appreciation very well when I got home that night.
Gross
Haha yeah boyyy
Keep her away from those doctors at the hospital. She might go into "Rich Doctor mode"
One of the things I've found that men and women appreciate but women seem to really find attractive is being able to explain or teach something to someone without making them feel dumb or foolish for not knowing whatever it is you are talking about.
That is actually not easy to do.
I always find that impressive, and I'm not even a woman 😎
And be accused of mansplaining ?
@@briar35981 Never been accused of that in my life, but I usually don't engage with the type of people who would make that claim.
Spot on brother! It shows competence and confidence with humility. What's more attractive than that? Especially to women?
We spend so much time thinking about big issues and grandiose schemes that might possibly make the world better but it's really things like this that are under-appreciated that will certainly make the world a better place to live. Thank you, Courtney.
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasnt going to let my marriage of 18years crash
amazing,i am kinda in a similar situation,how did you handle it?
@@peterwilliams6361 well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer
@@DailamiPuang please how can i get in touch with the spiritual adviser?
@@peterwilliams6361 her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE,and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster
you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.
"My ovaries can barely handle this." Best line ever. I was looking for an excuse to spit coffee all over my carpet.
😂
🤣
Now if you spit your coffee with precision that could count as a talent or skill women could find attractive 😉
Bro
Somebody should make a video of "Courtney Ryan out of context" with quotes like this.
my gf told me that she loved that ill stop a conversation to open a door for someone (generally an older person or someone who is carrying something), and that i say "thank you" a lot to the waiting staff. she said she rarely saw men do that.
Good for you. Respect for service people is really important to keep the world running smoothly. They do a lot of work for very little money and rewards like being thanked make them feel appreciated and being taken for granted does not. Never forget that your gf should be told how much you appreciate her too.
Did you score in the bedroom after it was all set and done?
That is unusual. That doesn't play into the usual trope of women seeking big baddy brutes.
“It’s like having a little wingman, that won’t steal your girl.” - priceless!!
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser, i wasn't going to let my marriage of 18years crash.
@Rose Allen well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer
@Rose Allen her name is Shelly Renee White, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster.
@Rose Allen you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.
Shut up you scammers
Yea because if YOU do you get screwed financially by the divorce court and the eyes of the law
Here's the summary:
1. Being a good driver
2. Reversing the car
3. Watching you fix something
4. Great with kids or a dog dad
5. Saving money
6. Your hands
7. Grey hair
8. Roll up your sleeves
9. Your smell
10. Wearing glasses
This sounds like bullshit just to make a video
This is really more long term partner attraction vs short term fun.
Do you know why women have such a hard time parallel parking? Because they've been lied to all their life about what 8 inches is.
Again, all of this is about what you can do for them. Not anything about you that she is attracted too.
We’ll done Courtney! My wife finds many of the same traits attractive in me and I kid her….”that’s only because you love me.” Who knew?🤗
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Yes, saving money is a huge plus - for both men and women. I can't tolerate financial irresponsibility!
What I find funny is that a lot of people who flex with expensive stuff arent even as rich as they seem. And then there are people who make a lot more money yet they still dont waste them on all the overpriced stuff
I can listen to her voice forever! So soothing and really slows my mind down enough to completely digest what she's saying
Hi Courtney, that was VERY helpful. I think more people should spend a little time each day watching your videos. This was good, solid, constructive advice for all of us and it really made me think about my life and ways I can improve. This video kind of goes hand in hand with some recent videos I watched that talked about people we need to avoid and things that are best kept to ourselves. They were both done well and were very constructive. I actually saved them so I can go back and watch them from time to time as a reminder. Sorry so wordy . Thank you for being kind and honest.
After this video:
Teddy scheduled driving lessons, took out a light bulb to replace it, signed up to foster a dog, opted for cheaper lunch, used grip trainers for more veiny hands, bought touch of grey hair dye, rolled his sleeves, sprayed cologne, then juggled knives in front of Courtney
please do message again later as to the results in your life before and after 🙂
So you became 'Jason Bourne.' 😉
😂
All that effort and all you got was poorer, stink, wasted days and now 2 parasites hanging off you, one human and one canine.
☕☕☕
Courtney, seriously , you are giving me hope in the mad world we are living, listening to your great advices is allways enjoyable
My gf really loves how passionate and proficient I am at art. She loves the fact that I've been successfully adding parts and accessories to my guns without needing any instructions (since instructions are for squares, lol) and she loves how I've been turning into a bit of a gear head as well since I've been fixated on learning how to tune up vintage muscle cars, especially since I'm planning on getting one very soon. 😁😎
Love your content as always Courtney. God bless you. 🙌🏻
Fixing something I can attest, girls freaking LOVE that. It surprises me to this day. We don't do it for that reason to be honest. We do it because we resist paying a lot of money to have someone else do something we believe we can handle.
But #10 doesn't always work if you're a bass player. Some women are unusually attracted to a bass player. Many are not. It's a weird thing. There is a drummer version of that too.
Great job as always Courtney, I can see your confidence growing as a creator, your sense of humour is definitely coming through more now and as a Brit, Sarcasm and being Deadpan are very well-received. 🙌🏻💥
I think many men get the "being a good driver" part wrong. They see for example in movies a dude that drives super fast, and others in the movie are amazed by it. The point isn't that he's driving fast, it is that he is driving fast not because he wants to show off but because he _has_ to (often because they are being chased by bad guys in the movie). He is actually a very skilled driver, remains in control, and does his best to keep everyone safe in spite of the adverse situation. And *that* is what is attractive.
Courtney is back to back with the content and I'm loving it!
Well, there's an abundant resource of material to cover!! hahaha (We're dealing with women, right??). This ain't Baskin&Robbins my brother.
Thank you for this insightful video on things women find attractive. Very reaffirming message in it. As always, thank you for providing resources to help men on their journey to becoming better men.
Thank you Courtney for your wonderful, well thought insights and your honest approach to helping us all get along in a complicated world of social ambiguity. You are a beautiful soul and your words are helpful and true. Many thanks!
Ive gotten attention for being a good cook, and not of just steak. The designer in me, loves the presentation as well. I've also gotten noticed for being a good host at a party or function. Along the hands line. I've been told a few times over the years, that my hands were dangerous. I learned to give a great massage and luckily I have strong hands, and not just the shoulders, having had many sports injuries over the years, and having to get massage for recover, I also picked up anatomy, studying for my personal trainer certification. I just now what usually is hurt and sore! LOl. Now when asked how did I learn to do these things, my answer is usually, well since I'm not 6ft or make 6 figures, I had to have other skills along with being cute and charming! I know I really need to work on my lack of self confidence. Thanks for the content.
I had no choice but to well up and get teary-eyed when you said glasses were a positive. It's always been my thing, complex, whatever, that wearing them made me some perpetual dweeb, weakling, Urkel, whatever because a lot of people graduate high school but never graduate high school. I never thought of it as a positive asset until now!
As a fellow glasses wearer, something important that I think she left out is your FRAMES. Something that simple can make the difference between sexy and dorky. Make sure that your glasses frames compliment your face shape well. Get the opinions of some trusted friends, particularly women, and find out if your glasses match your face. And if they don't, swap them out for a pair that do. It took me a few tries to find what works for me, but now that I have, I get the same style every time I update my prescription because I know what makes me feel confident and hot. I promise you'll start feeling good in your glasses in no time, best of luck!
Important things as well: 1:51 (being a good driver), 2:16 (funny, and agree with you totally Courtney 😂😂😂👏👏👏), 2:23 (reversing the car), 2:57 (watching you fix something), 3:26 (great with kids or a dog dad), 4:10 (saving money), 5:17 (totally agree with that difference as well. That's a total respect as well), 5:30 (your hands), 6:49 (grey hair), 7:11 (mentally mostly, I agree that), 7:20 (roll up your sleeves), 7:41 (your smell), 8:24 (agree with the smell of either onion, or garlic as well 😂😂😂👏👏👏), 9:31 (wearing glasses), 10:00 (showing your talent or skills), 10:47 (agree with confidence as well).
The most important things are deeds, and not the words. The deeds is what do everybody sees as well. The grey hair cannot be just showing who is mentally mature. The mature mentality can be seen by behavior as well. Everybody wants a person that is also a mature, and that can also be relaxed as well (of course not literally to be relaxed, but to have a balance between two mentioned things as well). Relaxed men have self-confidence, and they are gentlemen as well (believe it or not)
As for me I'm doing model kits, and believe it or not I have even met some women that find doing model kits interesting as well. Also some of them are collecting toy cars as well (believe it or not). I also play guitar as well. And even some of the girls even asked me what is that model kit airplane, and I have explained it etc. I'm a future civil engineer (I hope as well).
Forgot to mention that my channel is dedicated to hobby modeling. If you are interested, you can check my channel as well.
Keep up the work you intelligent and gorgeous lady 😉😘😘😘🙂💪💪💪🦾🦾🦾🤓😎❤❤❤❤❤❤.
Love your work very much Courtney. Have a nice day as well ❤❤❤❤❤❤.
Always thought-provoking. This time my head is swelling. I'm all the things on your list. Although having desirable traits doesn't
have much utility if there's no way to connect with a proper "match" that's looking for them and has desirable traits of their own.
This subject was amazing, the way you explain it is so unique and honest. It’s great to see the female perspective.
Hey Courtney. I'm a 56 year old guy, happily married, and started watching your channel a couple of years ago to improve my fashion style a bit....but then kept watching cause of all the great and interesting videos you make. Any way, just wanted to say I thought of you at the airport the other day. I was in the TSA line (in my Courtney approved outfit) and saw a nice looking lady (don't forget, happily married...but not dead) who was way back in the line. Before I knew it, she was standing right behind me. Anyway, I said hello and made a little joke about the joys of travel (sarcastically). She laughed and then right away.....her eyes went straight to my new leather dress shoes. I started cracking up because it reminded me of something you said in a video about a year ago. So just wanted to share that you were right. I almost wanted to say to her...."Hey, my eyes are up here"...but then refrained. Anyway, keep up the great work. Love your videos and just the way you keep things real. Have a great day !!
I hope you told your wife about all of this.
@@front331 yep…sure did
Um...
@@oscard2577 How could you survive then?😅
When a guy is themself and focused on their purpose, women will flock.
not
Yes!!
I prefer to use the term froth.
Not if he's one of the 80% of men that women find unattractive.
Not in my experience
Courtney, thank you for another interesting, informative, respectful and kind video. I notice that one of the media articles you quoted had a small error. Forgive me if I'm stating something that you and your audience already know. Oxytocin is not a pheromone but a hormone. Pheromones are chemicals used to communicate between two different individuals, whereas hormones are chemicals used to communicate between distant cells within the same organism. Oxytocin is released from a part of the brain called the posterior pituitary. It can also be administered as a medication. In medicine, we are interested in oxytocin for its contractile effect on the uterus (causing labour, childbirth, and cessation of bleeding after delivery), for its effect on mammary glands (causing release of milk in response to stimulation during breast feeding), for its effect on emotional bonding between mom and baby and for causing water retention and hypertension (these last two are unwanted effects). I have heard of it being used to spike women's drinks, to make the women feel more loving, thus altering their judgement. I'm sure it's illegal and I can imagine what you and your audience would think about that.
This video made me feel so good about myself because I have/do so many of these things.
I realized this smell thing pretty early since all of my past girlfriends, and my now wife, liked how I smell. Also got that it's not the BO smell but something to do with with my "basic natural smell" if that makes sense. I can't smell it myself but I wish I could so I'd know what the fuss is about. 😀
The glasses one was something that I both appreciated and chuckled at, because when I had glasses as a kid (ages 4-13), girls HATED my glasses. Then, almost overnight, the whole “geek chic” thing took off once I was in high school and glasses were suddenly sexy. I’m 34 now and I know I’ll need glasses again in the near future. Hopefully it’ll work out better for me the second time around. 🤷🏻♂️
As far as anything I do that attracts women, I’m kinda drawing a blank. I’m a nerd working towards a Ph.D, so that doesn’t exactly scream “sex appeal.” 😂😅
What topic are you researching for your PhD?
This was super helpful thank you! I’m that introverted shy guy. I’m not a bad looking guy physically, but I know the talk behind my back gets me the label of “asshole” just based on looks, sorry all, just not really socially skilled, at all, even a little bit. What really doesn’t help my case out, im really dumb. With that being said, channels like this honestly do help, literally just Learned all this for the first time. A lot of that stuff, people collectively all do, and know how to respond. Me, those subtle hints you where explaining that woman do, well I’m in my 30’s and I never knew woman did that. And if iv ever noticed which is rare my thought has always been “woman love to talk to everyone, and if one is attracted to me, I can’t wait until she comes and talks to me” and then she doesn’t. I know woman are afraid of everything at first. You ladies even talked in this one how your friend had to walk up to people and do interviews and it was like a man waking up to a woman he’s interested in, it’s terrible! and I agree. It’s nerve wracking and uncomfortable. Especially if they are thinking you’re “just some asshole” it would be really confusing getting messed with by a woman you’ve just met.
I find politeness & a lovely accent most attractive in ladies as demonstrated perfectly in your video. Thank you 🙏 ❤
Showing off your talents & skills is a major draw, it shows you are creative & are always planning new ways to make it truly wow the women. As a Graphic artist, I have to agree on this one.
I used to do the one-handed driving thing, then I grew up. I have had extensive training in pursuit, executive protection, escape & evasion, and tactical response driving in various vehicle types. I now drive with both hands on the wheel and am hyper-conscious of my surroundings. When I drive, I drive and keep conversation and other distractions to a minimum. I want to get myself and my passenger to our destination safely. I think she will understand.
I believe that Courtney described many beautiful traits of Steve Stifler in one video! He is also a great dancer. 😁
haha wtf
This video was incredible. You made it funny AF and still helpful. Thanks for the video
I hit 10/10 on your list, although I wear contacts 90% of the time because I don’t like the feel of glasses. However my wife (very much like you on your 10 scale) prefers the glasses.
She has similar taste as you, and one said to me one time when, I was finishing our basement and was carrying a 2x4 with my sleeves rolled up, work gloves, and dirty clothes, she practically fainted 😊
Another time when I was flying is home (I’m a pilot and we’ve had our own plane for years) in bad weather, turbulence, landing and she was in the front seat with me, she related how hot it was seeing me struggle with the controls and said so while I was flying. It was nice.
She agrees with your list.
Liking for the Pagani reference. Love it when you can reference old content.
😂❤️
Thank you Courtney for helping your male viewers be attractive.
Happy Saturday and keep doing them squats along with eating healthy.
Try factor :)
Thank you my friend!!
@@CourtneyRyan you’re welcome 😊
Your a great content creator and helpful to us all Courtney Ryan
Thanks Courtney, lots of interesting points!
For the women out there, as a guy I always notice women’s hands - shape, size, softness, and for me short nails and natural is preferable so no need to get fancy manicures (unless you like that yourself)
I'm a circus artist and that last one has happened a lot to me. Sometimes there's a girl that I normally wouldn't even notice, but once she starts showing her skill at the stage doing her thing, she suddenly becomes the sexiest girl in the world.
Laughed at the grey hair part.
I’m in my early 20’s and started finding grey hair in my head and my beard. I fear that my hair might be fully grey by the time I’m 40. But hey, that might work in my favor 😂
I started going grey when I was in my 20s too but I like grey hair so it was not a problem. I'm in my 70s and there are still red hairs.
Silver fox
It WONT trust me.. im 38 and half grey already and have YET TO HEAR 1 SINGLE FEMALE tell me m grey hair is attractive or a turn on..😒
@@ariesscar443 Yup. Grey hair will only hurt you, unless you look like Ben Affleck playing older Bruce Wayne or something. That's probably what she meant.
I hear ya. I've got some gray appearing in my red beard. My wife calls it cinnamon sugar.
This was a good list you mentioned a lot of things you don't hear often. The hands/forearms is dead on. Also a decent video concept may be something like "Women's worst fears/best case scenario on a date" like the things she'd most want to happen and the worst possible things she doesn't want to happen. Also "What makes a person boring." Anyway, cheers.
I found this video very interesting. Especially when you said women like it when a man backs up the car and puts his arm around the passengers seat when he turns around. This is standard back up procedure in virtually every state. Men or women, Cameras, or not,mirrors or not, When you test for a license this is what the manuals say and motor vehicle inspectors look for. The right arm gives you the leverage to be able to turn fully around to lookout the rear window. Some driving teachers and license inspectors actually cover the computer screen in the car when it comes time to back up
I feel like having a sense of humour and being sarcastic with women is attractive. I noticed that a lot when you joke with one woman or you’re just being sarcastic with her or try to tease her, she’ll find more ways so you can do this more. If another girl notices that she’ll find ways to be around you as well so you can make her laugh too. However it’s all based from my experience
Women actually do not care about sense of humor, at least from the standpoint of attraction. They only say they like a guy who is funny because they know funny guys can be easily manipulated since they don't take life too seriously. It means you are an ATM who will more easily dispense for them.
Fixing things AKA competence
Great job. Today at church talking to my friends. I am 64 go to the gym daily. My church friends are all women older than me. Most are friends that knew my passed away GF of many years. A woman I see regularly at church comes up to us and engages us all. After being introduced she replies all the single women our age know who you are and your name. I can only guess my friends are talking me up. They all know how much I miss my GF. And how much I want to be married. It was a boast to hear from a good woman.
Hi Courtney, you are just ....awesome. ❤️ Love your honesty w every point you make. 👏👏👏
I was recently at a family event that was catered. A young lady and her brother were manning a taco bar and doing a wonderful job at it. Very professional, well run and efficient. Great food too, but the ingredients were produced off site at the Family's restaurant. In the end, while taking down the bar, I happened to have the opportunity to speak to the young lady. Now I am 67 and happily married and I was not at all meaning to flirt with the young woman. I introduced myself, and mentioned that I wanted to compliment "them" on such a skillful and professional presentation.
This was a very striking young lady and since I was from out of town, I assumed that she was maybe a friend or relative to someone in attendance. The answer was no, that she was not. I asked what town she was from, and I knew that town, so I started to pinpoint her origin and life a little bit. I assumed that she was in her mid 20's or so, but was very much taken that she gave me her complete and undivided attention. (Something that I find very attractive!) Come to find out that she was going to be off to a 4 year college, as soon as her Jr college graduation in the spring. (Another attractive thing to a man!) Calculating in my mind, I now put her into her very early 20's. But the surprises kept coming! I next asked if she had graduated highschool locally, and was again startled to hear that she was going graduate this spring from both highschool AND from community college at the same time! That she had been in a program called running start and was about get two diplomas at the same time. So, I said to her that she must like 18 or 19? The answer was again no. That she was turning 17 soon! Again I was shocked! She was so put together (a big attraction to me) and was till giving her undivided attention! And much so, that I started to feel self-conscious! She had so readily told me some details about her life that, if I was at all "on the hunt" I felt like I could have asked for more and gotten it from her. Not in a sexual context, but in a friendship/relationship context. I am always attracted by youth, and potential, and by confidence, and I always try to promote and encourage those qualities. Someone who has it, has a great gift and needs to be encouraged!
It was very refreshing, as I don't often run across someone so young, so well put together.
There are different woman. Different preferences. And remeber guys this is only one girl's opinion. Don't generalize . Get to know your girl.
Nice to see 'being a good driver' mentioned. 😎👍
Great vid !
As an older man, and Chauffeur, I have found that the attraction meter with the ladies goes max when I'm dressed in a Tux !! I've caught women from their 20's and up, with the "deer in the head lights" stare . . . tooo funny, but complimentary.
Thanks for sharing
Why do I feel like this video was an homage to Teddy.😅
Here's my odd one for women:
When she has an inherent, weird, almost abstract(ish) sense of humor and she doesn't even know it, but it comes naturally to her because she's wired different. It's addicting.
Men's list for women looks something like this:
#1: Has a feminine energy and lilt in her voice (no vocal-fry please!)
#2: Being supportive and appreciative of our efforts
#3: Being playful and has a good sense of humor & wit
#4: Knows how to cook and spoil us once in a while
#5: Doesn't constantly nag and complain (THE #1 turn-off!)
#6: Dat ass
Thanks Norwegian Blue
it is sad that 38 people are agree with you even half of what you say is wrong .
1# It is not nearly neccesary and not so important . When I think none of the girls I liked in the pass had a sexy voice
or even feminine energy
2# I would like to know my partner is aware of my value but she doesn't have to express it all the time like I need the non-stop attention ( Just letting you know the diffarence )
3# true
4# I don't seek a woman who know how to cook . I knew it well enough thanks to my family culture . Not all of us has a need our girl to spoil us it could be fun of course but I am being the one who spoil its partner ( rewarding her) is also fine .
5# If she knows how to explain herself respectfully not just yelling and bitching than I am with her till de and because those woman are rare and very valuable
6# nah its just a sexual instinct not important while searching for a serious partner
In the and you can't generalise those toughts of yours . Mainly what men wants most is to have a pecafull life .
@@gokerveral6713 that's your opinion, and you are entitled to it, just like others have an opinion.
@@gokerveral6713 Of course everyone is different. But I am pretty sure most men would sign off on my list. One thing we do agree upon is that men just want peace in their home.
@@vincentortega4284 yes genius thats the point
In the friend group i usually associate with there's a strongly opinionated woman who was giving her opinion of a specific topic, it happened to be a topic i was very knowledgeable of and i noticed a flaw in her opinion so i voiced mine in an attempt to fill in that gap.
She tried to counter with a more elaborate explanation of her viewpoint and i answered with mine, we were both passionate about this topic.
I knew my info was correct so i stood my ground proving my point with evidence.
After this instead of being angry at me she actually said she was pleasantly surprised to see that i could stand my ground.
Hope this is a good example.
I totally relate to your bit about hands! Even down to the part about feeling like a weirdo. 😅 And while it seems common for women to be into guys’ hands, it seems less common for guys to be into women’s hands. 🙈
You know a woman is all about you when she doesn't even ask you to drive, she just hands you her keys, if you don't go out and pull your car around first
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Be careful not to go to the bank with that thought. More accurately, the woman trusts you enough to drive but many times either hates to drive and/or wants a chauffeur. Driving in big cities is frankly a chore for many people anyway let alone the assumption of the man paying for any parking or valet. It takes many dates, in what I call the 90 day rule, to even remotely know who one is dating let alone to be "all about you" as motivation can change 180 degrees in a heartbeat. Time is needed to truly tell the truth in that matter.
Especially if you might put gas in the car for her.
"I Don't Even Have Any Good Skills. You Know, Like Nunchuck Skills, Bow Hunting Skills, Computer Hacking Skills. Girls Only Want Boyfriends Who Have Great Skills!"
- Napoleon Dynamite 😂
Lol. Love it. I commented about Napolean Dynamite too. But my comment was on the closing scene...."Wanna play me?" The tetherball kid gets the girl....Be Napolean. "Napolean, don't be jealous that I've been chatting online with babes, all day. Besides, we both know I've been training to become a cage fighter." Be Kipp, the poet. Don't be Uncle Rico 😉
As a person who has engineering conversations with non-engineers on a regular basis - I found I started to have trouble after I got lasik. People started saying the confidence in a solution is "intimidating" whereas I never had that before. Before they took my suggestions as just suggestions when I had glasses.
Have you seen "the expert" (made for engineers) series? These are freak'n hilarious and true. m.th-cam.com/video/BKorP55Aqvg/w-d-xo.html
@@echo-channel77 - Yeah, I love them
I'm enthralled with all your old-fashioned sayings... The bees knees... love it! 🐝
I remember hearing a lady tell me once "Men don't make passes at girls with glasses." I felt the opposite. Women with glasses were instantly more attractive. What's more, it was an instinctual attraction with no conscious cognition. What I believe could be going on here is that I associate glasses with intelligence (even though I consciously understand that the two are not really related). I"m attracted to intelligence, so glasses are hot.
Like my friend said above, this doesn't work on everybody. But I'll just submit that while wearing glasses might limit the pool of people attracted to you, it may improve the quality.
As a women, I definitely think my glasses limits the dating pool for me and I definitely do that when it comes to “making passes” I thinks pretty true. You can think something is attractive but I also think certain physical traits make a man a little more sexual forward. I think men can want to marry a brunette, but when it comes to making passes, it’s going to be at the blonde. And I’ve got red hair, so I’m screwed lol.
Having an appropriate sense of humor can make one look extremely attractive. After all, laughter is healthy!
Tip: If a woman loves SpongeBob, then SpongeBob references are a plus to use every now and then!
SpongeBob???
@@niggasgang8784 if you don't know what SpongeBob is, then look it up on TH-cam. But it's fair to say most people will be able to recognize a SpongeBob reference. Being able to make one not only leads to good chuckles, but it can also start conversations on other pop culture topics.
Good advice, especially on the good car driver part. I have a mastiff mix well bred carefully selected by its breeder. Great best friend, extremely loyal and protective! I also have a small deer head 🇺🇸 chihuahua na,Ed Charlie. These are my two best friends, and they are healthy and happy dogs. I spoil them. My chihuahua Charlie is my Wing man 😄
Truly focusing and working on your goals.
Yes if you must attract women with money you will end up with a succubus. If you can't attract her with your personality, after getting noticed by your looks, you will never get very far. Game and frame, AKA people skills and strong mental fortitude, will get you much much further than looks alone
100%, Well Said!
Seems like my wife missed the "what women find attractive" course. I'm married since a few years and the best compliment I got is "I'm happy to have you" because I help in the household. Never experienced more attraction than that
welp, this is sad 🥺
I think you need to compare this to how she complements other people. She may not be overly complementary, or may not be a very strong communicator. Also, just ask her why she doesn’t complement the things you do. But, be ready for her asking why you don’t complement her. Maybe start by complementing her to see if she catches on. Good luck, mate.
Fantastic Video!!!
Super helpful. I am seeing a friend from high school after 25 years, and I scored across the board, minus the glasses, but she tells me how smart I am all the time. I just can't tell if it's still friends zone like hs. She is single, wants to date, tells me she hasn't had success. Due to her 2 kids which I think are great. Anywho, any suggestions on how to discern friend zone from romantic potential would be awesome!
Great video! Thanks for sharing your thoughts in such a cohesive way.
having had glasses since 13 ( I am allergic to saline solution ) I can attest that NO GIRL has ever found me attractive from the glasses on my face. No matter the different styles, sizes, lenses. not once. not ever.
Shades
She is picturing someone like Henry Cavill wearing glasses when she says glasses are hot on guys.
My wife always likes that I'm not an angry driver even though people cut me off or speed around me to hit the exit that is 200 feet in front of us. The dog thing really is a plus that I didn't know about. My wife, while we were dating, noticed how I interacted with my puppy and her puppy and instantly thought I would be a good father and husband. She also really liked how emotionally stable I am yet able to be vulnerable at times. It's a hard balance but when done properly is a major plus.
Also, where did you get your shirt? It is a very pretty and the style my wife loves. I would like to get her something similar to it for Valentines Day.
I'm impressed...You have great insight. I just stumbled across this video, lol, TH-cam recommended. Nicely done 👍 The Lotec
"The Bee's Knees" ??? OMG ... hadn't heard that used in decades ... and so delightful to here from a young Woman ... your Beau is so, so lucky. Thanks for sharing this info ... wasn't really surprised by many ... except the Glasses deal ... spent a whole lifetime hiding them ... dang having laser correction for nothing ... LOL
It’s a little known fact, but Courtney is actually a time traveler from the 1920s.
@@DarkPrince784 LOL
I love your dark hair Courtney. It's cute
Aw thank you 🥰
Yep love brunettes
@@deemen7132 I love the blonde headed women
"My ovaries can hardly handle this." 😂😂
Don't worry about being a little bit "weird" out there. I'm trying to learn and I need to hear honest thoughts like the hand veins. Thanks for posting this!
Weird is better than boring any day
Honestly, I've never had even the slightest idea of what women actually find attractive about me, and that's not purely my crushingly low self-esteem talking. I sort of understand what men find attractive about me; I'm available, and for a lot of men that's the major box ticked, but I've never really been conscious of or thought to ask what women find in any way attractive about me. I assume there's something, as I've been in relationships, but what actually drew them to me in the first place remains an enigma. I think at least one ex. liked me because I'm tall and she found that in some way comforting or useful, which I can understand as I do indeed excel at reaching things on high shelves, but otherwise I simply don't recognise what's in it for them? It's not particularly relevant now as I'm no longer actively seeking a relationship, but your video does certainly make me wonder what was my U.S.P.? Please keep the great videos coming though, they're a needed and welcome island of reason in an increasingly toxic sea of division that seems to be drowning society in general and social media in particular.
Bro, a guy that is tall for women is the equivalent of a girl nice body for men. Women want someone who can make them (and their offspring, biologically speaking) feel safe. Men who are larger in stature are more imposing, and thus make her feel safe, provided she trusts you.
Lol, let's see I don't have kids...and I don't live in a place that allows dogs. Should I carry around a plant? Those I can keep alive.
Plant dad! 😂 love that too
A cactus.
I am still waiting for my dog reel me in a winner. Hopefully this spring is more fruitful.
I did get my eyes examined the end of 2022 with the intent to get new glasses. I don't need them for daytime, but I have been wearing blue light blocking glasses practically every day at home. When I look at myself while I am in a meeting, I like the way I look in glasses more than without.
I recently finished a book written by an evolutionary psychologist. It was meant to be a handbook for how to actually attract women and why women are attracted to these things. Courtney's list here echoes a lot of the traits in the book. The book is titled "Mate" by Geoffrey Miller, if anyone is interested. I highly recommend it. I plan to listen to it again and take written notes.
Hey Court loved the video just wanted to add one thing. My girlfriend loves when I paint 🎨 because she said she likes seeing me focused and in my zone doing something I love . Next time I paint on canvas I'm gonna roll my sleeves up & make her go wild lol
Women: I want a man that can fix things.
Men: Alright, cool. And i want a women that can cook.
Women: REEEEEEEE F*#/K@$
*_KeK_*
I'm a guy in my 50's that's been happily married for going on 23 years. I like watching your vids regarding the attractive (or non-attractive) qualities of men. It helps to remind me and reset/refresh my point of view from time to time. We can all get lazy and forget what's important -- I want to strive to keep my wife happy with me.
Maybe it was just my case, but my previous GF, was way younger than me, and she said she felt attracted to my own self esteem and interesting conversations, she also liked my hobbies (more the fact that I have them than the activities themselves)
Another good video from yo Cortney that is a learning curve for me thank you and he's a lucky man to I should add
*Guys, can she be trusted?*
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Never, ever fully trust a woman, it will backfire!
@@CourtneyRyan *alright 🚬🗿*
She has a significant other_ I believe in love _ just treat people the way you want to be treated
My girlfriend likes the salt and pepper on me
I love it!!!
@@CourtneyRyan I love the salt and pepper look
My gf likes the chocolate fondue on me....
Too much information? 😉
Thanks for helping me up my attraction level!
PAGANI BC! Funny about the engine revving and road racing, as a guy despite driving a sports car I also cringe at this. Alot of guys will step up next to me at a red light and indicating they want to pull, I enjoy pretending we are going to and when they launch I don't and just drive like an old person hahahah.
Being tall, rich, muscular... being any or all of those helps massively.
Being >5'10" is usually a prerequisite for all of those 10 weird traits (tall gamer/tech nerds with glasses excluded).
Eh I don’t know, I’m 6’1”, make a good amount money, workout 4 times a week, a firefighter, coach kids basketball, make music, but the down thing is that I live in a small town. I think you can have everything but if there’s one thing a woman doesn’t like, (living in a small town with nothing to do) then it trumps everything else and you’re a lost cause. It’s dumb
@@daniellehotsky1776 bruh, I just bought a house here and the small town is where I’m making 90k a year. I’m in a 3 year mechanic apprenticeship so I can’t just move…
Women don't actually care about Men who are Tall, Rich and Muscular. Those are just trends that they are programmed to be after. But they don't really care for it.
@@prussiansocietyofamerica such nonsense you spout. They are biologically programmed to seek those things just as men are programmed to see fertility/ youth and the physical traits of it.
Fix something and rolling up the sleeves have been a couple of things I remember someone I have dated in the past told me that was a major point.
This is heartwarming to me because I've always thought I needed to be more attractive but I wear glasses and I'm talented at rapping and art
Hi Courtney,
Thanks for the great content. I'd love to hear your advice on this. I don't know if this is where I'm supposed to ask these questions or on your other social media. Yesterday I was at the local grocery store right near my house and when I was at the checkout stand there was an attractive girl. I complemented her jacket and we started talking and I turns out we have some things in common. I'm trying to figure out what the next steps are in this situation since she's at work at a grocery store. Should I write a note and hand it to her? What do you think? Thank you for the advice
@@T_elegramRealCourtneyRyan no thanks fake Courtney
The contrast the hardware store thing: knowing when to ask for help instead of pretending to know what you're doing.
Someone pretending they can fix something when they can't can result in spending more money on further damages or doing quick fixes that just delay the problem and actually cause future problems.
This also includes mental and physical health issues that men ignore. Being open and knowing when to go to the hospital or therapy is valued by a woman as well.