6 Physical Traits That Women Find Irresistible | Courtney Ryan
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 พ.ค. 2024
- In this video, I go over 6 physical traits that women find irresistible. There are things that are out of our control in the looks department, but these are all things that are IN our control. Thank you all so much for watching and let me know what you think in the comments below.
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You are already ahead of most of America by simply:
--- being in shape ---
*wheezing intensifies*
Youre ahead of most of America by just not being fat. In shape is a bonus.
@@johnmcmillian8842 mhmm
So true! I have gained about 8 pounds during COVID. My pre-COVID job was an extremely active one where exercise was part of the work. So, I didn't have to "formally" work out as much. Anyway, I'm getting back to form. But my point is, that even at 8 pounds above my "fightin' weight", I STILL look better than over 90% of American men my age. My intention is not to brag, it's to make a point. The US has a serious epidemic and it's not so much about exercise really. The problem is more due to diet and nutrition. I know people that work out HARD and are still chubby. EAT.MORE.PLANTS!!! The unrefined and unprocessed (or minimally processed) kind. It's that simple.
This goes beyond physical attraction. There were other very attractive traits that you develop and exude while getting in and staying in shape.
The one who cares the least runs the relationship. get with the girl that adores you the most. Not the one you breakin your neck for.
I totally agree because a guy should always be the one who is the leader in the relationship; and his girl should be constantly trying to keep his attention because he is on his purpose in life. The second a woman starts leading the relationship; it will end eventually.
Have you been watching Cole Hastings? I saw that quote in one of his videos.
I literally just watched one of your videos this morning. Ngl I laughed a lot. Good memes.
i'd rather be alone that being with someone i don't desire.. whats the point then lol
I disagree, and I believe that that's an unhealthy way of looking at a relationship with someone you like or love. I've been independent long enough to be used to being single. If I'm in a relationship, it's because I want to be. And yeah, I'mma care about the health of the relationship and the happiness of my partner. But I'll be sure that I'm still getting what I want out of the relationship too. If I don't care enough about either my partner's happiness or my own, then I don't really need to be in a relationship.
Reducing a relationship down to simply power dynamics is very naive. If one person or the other guides the relationship, that's fine, but when both people in a relationship are healthy adults with realistic expectations, you both come into it trying hard to make it work. In that case, both of y'all care.
My father always said, "just remember, no matter how good she looks like, someone out there is tired of her $hit, so, pay good attention at what you want and how she is"
Lmao 🤣 so true.
Seems like your father underwent a lot of shit
Pearls of wisdom 😎
Your dads a wiseman I like that advice 👌
My saying was always "show me the hottest, sexiest woman in the world...and I'll show you a guy that's tired of that p*ssy and is cheating on her" but...I know what your dad was saying too 😂
"If they don't like you, why do you want them to like you anyway". Words of wisdom.
Right, high value men have many better choices
Reminded me of Ace and Ginger from the movie Casino.
As a wise man (George Costanza) once said, "she hates me so much - it's irresistible".
1.good shaped body
2.nicely maintained facial hair 5 oclock shadow and stubble with jawline
3.dressing well
4.nice hair style
5.look tall
6. Good grooming habbits
And if you don't talk to women you will still be single af
"Look tall" can be as easy as well fitted clothing and confidence
"Good shape" doesn't have to be muscular just fit/healthy energies and active.
The real #1 is unshakable confidence
Thanks
Thanks
Self improvement(gym, work, socializing)= MASSIVE CONFIDENCE
Yes!! 👏🏼
LMAO the amount of work men need to do just to a get a chance with women in dating. Sad world we're living in.
@@AmirChemE unbelievably sad but they say dont hate the player, hate the game
No. Results in any form would give confidence. Self improvement in itself does not
Also hobbies!! If your only hobby is the gym you’re lacking. Get into sports, group activities or outdoors.
5/6 isn’t bad for me. I’m 5’ 6” and have a lot of experience in the past decades. I’m in my 40s, single dad, and I’m still doing fine. I’ve always stayed in shape and take care of my appearance.
For all you shorter guys like me, it’s exactly what Courtney says, it’s about your confidence only. All but two of my ladies of the past were taller than me. I like taller women, what can I say? I just don’t see myself as a short person, and if you don’t see yourself this way, then neither will women. It’s really is that simple. Walk talk, be confident.
I am same height as you. My wife has passed so I am on the market again, and the first girl I went out with was taller, it doesn’t bother me at all. I think I will do the five o’clock shadow thing though.
I’m 5’ 8” and have dated several women taller than me. They were actually very insecure about being “too tall,” if you can believe it. Having said that, I struggled with women until I put on a decent amount of muscle mass. More than anything, women want a man who looks and acts masculine.
This helped a lot. Thank you.
I’m 64 and enjoy doing the same activities I did when I was 19. Skiing , golfing ,hiking, biking.etc…I find it funny looking back what a scrawny looking kid I was back then. I see today’s youth out of shape drinking too much coffee , eating junk , wearing odd clothes . That was my generation too , were not so much different. Keep active and exercise doing something you enjoy . I remember good looking people losing their looks and health due to bad lifestyle choices.
In my case, hitting the gym, or track or just being active also improved my state of mind. This makes me more confident where I don't have to try and overdo it. If a girl shows no interest, I move on.
Looks fade, most folks need a sense of humour!
If it took the gym to alter your mind then you’re already as weak as piss
Absolutely...and better sleep.
I USED to be confident from workout out year.. last couple years females dont care, i dont even get looked at anymore n im constantly rejected by females. My confidence has all dwindled away.. i can’t get a female to save my life it seems. This world has turned to trash and girls minds are all mush now.. 😢
@@ariesscar443 Keep hitting the gym for yourself!
1:36 good shaped body
4:06 nicely maintained facial hair 5 o'clock shadow and stubble with jawline
5:01 dressing well
7:27 nice hair style
9:00 look tall
10:36 Good grooming habits
So you are saying personality and sense of humor have nothing to do with it? (LOL) the 2 most common things that women say on a dating profile are all lies
Look tall? Lol your tall or your not
@@ashifarman4813 so men wearing high heela basically lol as if they havent made men feminine enough now a days🤦♂️
@@ashifarman4813 idgaf if your not interested its a fact men are being turned into sissys more and more every day by our sick society and its for a very sinister purpose … when shit hits the fan yall will be begging us to bring back our toxic masculinity 💯
@@vanthadoun1 the vid is abt physical traits not personality
These are not just to attract women but to become a better person in general. Go Courtney!
Very long story short, my dear sweet wife passed going on 3 years ago, 2 Saturday's ago a mutual female friend of ours came up to me and said I had been on her heart for quite a while and that she had always been quite fond of me as well as my sweet wife. Last Saturday I invited her to have a coffee at a bakery w me and it was from the moment I picked her up in my car to the moment I dropped her back off the best time I have ever had w a woman. I told I very enjoyed our time together and she invited me to 3 different upcoming events. I don't know where this will go, but it's off to a incredible start. I've known this person for about 30 years and I already know I've fallen for her but will wait and see how things develop Lord willing. Thank you for all your advice. I followed it as best I could . We she is wonderful and everything I had prayed for in a friend and hopefully way more.
How did it turn out?
Being fit transcends mere physical attraction. Somebody dropped this gem on me many years ago:
Observe how well or how poorly someone takes care of themselves and their own life -- that is the very best you expect them to extend to you over any appreciable stretch of time.
Nice 👌🏼👌🏼
I hope your avatar is not the example of being fit. LOL
Yes. Most men love women who smells nice, gentle & feminine. As most women loves masculine,well groomed & maintaining good hygiene men.
It's mostly about being healthy and taking care of ourselves (men and women) and that's attractive of course
@@JLchevz Yes people
Please do not repeat your socks 🧦 and Underwear. Change them after every use!! Even if only a few hours before taking a bath.
What about man who is covered with mud and blood .. but has freshly slain deer in tow? Proving he also can provide and protect.
Oh, well. Never mind ..
That was important thousands of years ago ..
@@matikaevur6299 Deodorant and Shampoo did not existed years ago as well…. Not sure what point you were trying to make.
@@matikaevur6299 Depending on what part of the U. S. you're in, she might see you as a keeper.
I love how you lay out the realities of human attractiveness in such a nice and polite way.
I attended the female conference earlier this year and they finally agreed that guys should focus on having more money
Great calm voice, Courtney. I’m a truck driver. I’ll stack a list of videos to last a few hours and just listen with the screen off. I’m too old for your advice to matter much lol. Your voice is like a calming salve for my soul in traffic. Thanks,
this is unexpected but that's how to get product market fit .. launch something and see what stick lol
Don’t fall asleep on the road lol
@@punisher20g58 THAT’S funny! LOL.
age does not matter, try star signs are worth taking a look at before taking on a new relarionship.
You sound like a good, humble guy! You may just have an awesome adventure left with a lady who recognizes your virtues!
"Your personality doesn't matter if the door isn't open."
- Living A Life Of Abundance
NoCap
"Living A Life Of Abundance" ...Such a sickening verused cliche.
Lmao hard truth
Wise words bro... you are 100% right... 0 attachement...
@@yankee2666 sounds like someone not abundant
She’s sweet and honestly it’s a nice channel to follow. I wish youngsters watched more such advice
And always has very tasteful cleavage. Enough to get our attention not too much so that we lose attention to the message 😅
Irresistibility 101: (1) bulging wallet; (2) large organic banana; (3) excellent physical shape; (4) tall; (5) handsome; (6) sense of humor.
I do not have any of these, what can I do except crying?
@@alexanderkohary1690 No problem. Actually, quiet sobbing with a little bit of tears works fine because it shows the sensitive and feminine sides of you. And get a dog. Women loves cute dogs. 😀
@@TheWanderer28 I did what you recommended. Now I am attracting sympathetic protecting and comforting MEN, damn.
@@alexanderkohary1690 Good start?🤣 May need to finetune your techniques. 🤣🤣🤣
"Teacher, what must i do to have quality women? I've done everything that you asked me"
"If you want to be perfect, go, sell all you have and give it to my sister, then you will have eternal abundance of women"
I asked Tim Gunn once how you know what clothing is in style. His response: “Whatever you walk out of the house feeling the most comfortable in and feeling the most like YOU… that’s what’s in style.” Authenticity always wins ✊
horrible advice but sounds great👍
@@bobbadman1551 said the guy walking out of the house in a forced-feeling gucci suit
@@gregorcollins If I would dress how it felt most “like me” i would go on dates in sweatpants and flip flops.
Thanks for your advice bro!
@@bobbadman1551 point being, you would be the best version of yourself, and that would come across :)
Like a bin bag?
It’s all in the eyes, chico. The eyes never lie.
Goddangit I love it. Me and my boss always quote that movie.
"The eyes chico...they never lie!"* *
@@sigmaballs93 ay man, don be goin fuggin cracy on me OK? That’s the bosses lady
@Hubert Harmon lol in that case, if there’s anything in that eye🤢
I prefer his quote about women
I like your honesty. If you lost out in the looks department, tough luck, life isn’t fair. Trouble is, if you did miss out (like me), getting in shape doesn’t make any difference (or very little). Looks are 85%, Money 10%, Fitness 3%, charisma 1%, SOH 1%, Good Maths skills 5%.
😆
Or your 70yrs.old,finally gaining extra pounds,and most alarming,graying,and basically losing your hair...mostly on top,so yes,tried the hair fiber thing, and worked kinda,till you don't have enough on top for the fibers to stick to, oh well,do the old stand by,put on a sticking hat,or cool 😎 cap of some sort...da!!!oh yeah, some say just shave it all off!?!Well in my opinion, I don't want to look like a Q-ball,Not for me!!!
Dude, looks is big, but excelling in the other areas you’ll still find someone around your level or slightly better. But if you view your looks as a 3 then just assist your expectations to the same for a woman. There’s someone out there for everyone.
I can think of two people I work with who are bald, short and don’t look good facially. Both are married to attractive women so there are other things that are important - just don’t ask me what - I’m single!
Courtney, I really enjoy your content. I appreciate your efforts to help gents with relationships from a female perspective.
I don't specifically believe in doing something just because women will find it sexy, don't spend Your whole life making girls happy and chasing them. Find your purpose and get busy in achieving it, girl who deserves you will come to you automatically.
💯💯
taking care of yourself is something you should be doing regardless of whether youre trying to get a girl or not
@@nobee99 So true 👏
Girls who deserve you will come to you during your progress. If they only show up once you’ve bettered yourself all alone, then they aren’t worth keeping around.
100% My friend, this one is indicative of the air heads we men have to tolerate
Looks do matter. Humans on a baseline psychological level are judgmental. We assess risks, threats, distance and even potential mates based off of perceptive judgment. A man's overall health is a priority if you're wanting to market yourself to a quality friendship. 🙂
Yes, I believe it's high time people start to accept that humans are just "wired" in the way that they perceive some aspects and features to be beautiful and some to be undesirable. It's just human nature to like one aspect and dislike another and people need to understand that. Looks do indeed matter.
Couldn't agree more on this.
Yeah I learned in AP Psychology when I was in high school a while back that literally ALL people are judgemental by nature and that's just how it is.
My health is my responsibility, and I owe it to myself to keep myself in shape, exercise and eat halfway decently. That I might be attractive to someone else because I am in shape is a side benefit. As I tell my sons, if you take care of your body, it will take care of you. Treat your body as a temple and respect it.
@@slundgr I fully agree sir
As a fisherman I usually don’t take advice from fish but I appreciated the honesty here.
Thank you for giving your honest opinion! There’s so many videos that talk solely about personality- which I’m finding matters very little. 😅
"I won't date you unless you're 6'5"."
That is such a ridiculous standard. Those women will be sorely disappointed as that's less than 2% of the male population!
I mean, I sort of understand why women want their men to be a little taller, but requiring your date to be above 6'0" is fucking ridiculous, let alone 6'5"! 😂 That is SO dumb! Notice how guys never have these preferences for women. All we want is for our girlfriends to take care of themselves and stay in shape. Having a good face obviously helps, but as far as physical attraction goes, our requirements are usually within any woman's reach. Women have standards that 80% of men LITERALLY can't compete with.
They don't always end up with very tall people, it's become an excuse or soft rejection path for women.
@@hasselett ehh, the large majority of women don’t have strict height requirements. The ones who say this kind of thing are usually super hot Instagram model types. They can get away with drastically narrowing their dating pool like that because they’re so sought after in general.
Luckily most girls who aren’t very tall themselves are horrible at guessing people’s heights, so if your like 5’9 and above they just assume your about 6 feet tall
I'm only 5'10" and my height has never been an issue with women. I even dated a couple women who were taller than me. Not saying there aren't women out there who are obsessed with height. But from my personal experience it's not the norm.
Courtney is that female best friend or older sister that we all wish we had to talk about girl problems with, lol.
LMAO..Let us know when you LEAVE FANTASY LAND
Ha Ha
How many times a day do you get down on your knees to kiss her feet? How often do you put women on a pedestal?
@@MogamishuI did her on the kitchen table, haven't tried the pedestal... hopefully tonight!
@@Mogamishu I finally did her on the pedestal, it was great...tomorrow night the banister.
I really like your approach in these videos. Lots of helpful advice that I can tell comes from personal experience and careful consideration, but at the same time delivered in a way that doesn’t make people feel bad or that that they have no choice but to live a certain way to be attractive. Keep up the great job!
I'm new to your channel and i already like your videos I'm not quite sure why but when i see them, it gives me vibes that you are sincere and honest, you truly want to help guys. The way you talk contributes to the kindness you show in your videos. Thanks for this kind of content.
I was one of those persons that gave everything from himself and receive nothing but insults and that i'm not enough.😀😃
Having a healthy gut micro biome plays a big role in skin care/ quality. Thank you for this video Courtney
I have found this to be true
A man who has been in the dating game since the late 90’s, the number one trait that all women universally love and can’t resist is this: Confidence
Fuck yea!!
Confident and 5ft 6in, yea!!!
Confidence; a good sense of humour; someone who can make her laugh; and ultimately, someone who can make her feel secure.
Wrong confidence doesn't matter looks & height does
Does it really work? I mean I'm humorous, confident but haven't ever asked a women out.
When I was a teenager, I took tetracycline for acne. Unfortunately, my dermatologist didn't tell me one of the side effects was darkening of my teeth. When I went to Brite Smile years ago to get my teeth professionally whitened, I was so disappointed they could only whiten my teeth two shades brighter.
Can always get some veneers.
I have only seen like 2 of your videos and I loved how you say things straight and clear without fluctuating :)
I like how you point out that physical qualities like body type and style of dress do matter and that it will attract a woman who is into that type of physical quality! Also, most of those traits, we do have some influence over.
For sure! 👏🏼
Simp
@@jimtart4271 Thats ok John Im sure you have other fine qualities. Its ok, youll find a woman who will love your simpeness 😁
Indifference is the core. Even a man who has the physical traits, financial resources, confidence, looks, heighth, guaranteed women will get tired and want someone else no matter how God like the man is. Stop caring what women think.
star signs are worth taking a look at before taking on a new relarionship.
@@lesjones471 i am a virgo man and have wanted a Capricorn woman for 20 years. Never found one.
Agreed g
@@lesjones471 Imagine believing this
@@lesjones471 star signs lmaoooo
Its key to do all of this work for you and your own value not to attract a women. When you succeed your options increase and you can choose who you allow into that great life youve built.
When my girlfriend and I first met, what attracted her was my attitude,personality, sense of humor and she says I look badass. I have burn scars from the top of my head and all the way down my right side. She’s shorter than me (she’s 5 feet tall) and we are inseparable.
Being short has a bigger stigma then your scars frankly.
Courtney is the perfect person to explain us things like we're 5.
😂 I’m sorry
yeah but Im as with many men are kinda sick of women explaining alot of obvious stuff to us as we are 5...
Thats gud lol
I’m five but I read at a six-year-old level.
We are a 5? 🤣
Really like how you emphasize where your advice is most useful - ie, what stage of a relationship. Always makes sense and gives us new areas to work on to make ourselves feel better and that confidence does help. Thanks Courtney :)
As someone who was an athlete his entire younger life. I played, hockey, baseball, basketball, football, surfed and scuba dived. I lifted weights and was strong as an ox but I never had a quote unquote chiseled body. I was 6’8” tall and 250 pounds. I was very conscious of my attire. I put in the effort and was a gentleman but was always overlooked by women.
The gym is a game changer. It spikes your confidence. It holds you accountable. It gives you a sense of goals. It fixes your posture and the same earnestness rubs off as a passive trait in your day to day. Folks love radiance. Its attractive.
100% true! To those guys who say, "Screw this dumb advice, I don't care what women notice, I do what I want." I say, thank you. That's less competition for those of us who want to win the hearts of high value women. Thanks Courtney!
Just for the record: you are not going for the 'hearts of high value' women, you are going to their panties...
BTW - and it is my own observation - you get the most attraction as a man if you are neither seeking, nor trying to avoid attraction but instead you do what you exactly laughed at: if you are simply focusing on your own shit, like work, school, sports. And if anyone asks you if there is any fuckable chick in that activity you can simply not answer that because you don't know it.
From the beginning of time women have been selective when it comes to the men they want to be with. ITs about resources. Money, appearance and good genes. both men and women are shallow, men are just honest about it and women want to appear not shallow (lies they tell themselves) but yes most women will be honest with each other. I don't fault them, because if they will mate with someone they definitely want a long term investment they dont want to be stuck with a deadbeat and someone who will give them sickly children. Why do you think Elon Musk has 10 children with 8 different women? Its not his personality that these women are attracted to.
Jason, your comment is werid man..
Simp
@@stevensmith4660 He needs to change his name to Simp. He will loose all of his money in the divorce.
Small details that can make a huge difference: Simply change your pillow cases more often.
Whatever time frame you're doing it in, just shorten it and it'll solve the majority of your facial problems.
What benefits there is to change pillow cases very often?
@@JstJaybeingJay it gets filthy and all that bacteria goes on your face :D. The skin on your face is the most sensitive.
Clean your cellphone as well, at least once per day
@@JstJaybeingJay Not burying your face in the oil that comes off of it every night.
I don't use a pillow, guess i have to change the whole bedsheet.
Twice a week clean that shit and never get in ur bed dirty, take a shower before bedding down!
Courtney I always appreciate your honesty. Never stop
I’ve struggled finding a good skin care routine and would really like to see a video on this!
Thanks!
Have you found one yet? I actually got a solid one
@@bgcm1995 I use jack black face wash and scrub. I also use First Aid Beauty 5 in 1 face cream (moisturizer). Do you have any other recommendations?
@@e-dizzy yeah I'd skip the scrub. Do you have acne? I actually helped my family and some friends get some good looking skin. I have oily skin so I use peach slices salycilic face wash, then use a hydrating toner, a vitamin c serum and moisturizer. I also don't leave the house without sun screen. I'm a dude and man, I always get compliments in my skin. Let me know your skin type and your skin tone.
Do not eat anything that is made in a factory
Its not food
Causes inflamation and skin flare ups
I started lifting a month ago. I’m so mad at myself for not starting 5 years ago.
All that matters is that you started king! That’s the first step. Like all things stay patient and work hard…you got this 🤝
Wish I would have started years ago also!
@@brennanpoole7960 thanks brother I added 30 lbs to my squat today. I don’t know where the strength came from but my first max felt light.
If it doesnt become a lifestyle you wont stick with it.
@@id10t98 On my way to the gym now at 4 am
Thank you , I like this video. I've been working on myself intensely for the past 6 months and i get stares almost everywhere i go 😭🏋🏾♂️, I dont really want to start seeing anyone until another 6 months because I want to finish the year focused. You and a few other coaches helped motivate me to become the 2.0 version of myself💵. Your videos are always helpful!💯
You only get one shot. Make it count. Courtney, you are an amazing person. Continue to upload these insightful videos.
Thank you Courtney. This was priceless for us men!
One of your biggest fans,
Exsosus
I am a 40 year old male who has spent the majority of my life in sports and hanging with popular socially acquired crowds. I have always took care of myself health wise from 14 until current with clean eating and exercising. I used to be a very nice dressed, always very well groomed and styled especially when going out. All of that good jive lasted until I hit 31 or 32 then I turn the tables a bit. While still taking care of myself physically but not as religiously, I started focusing on my relationship, family and work. I quit the Abercrombie and slacks look and went to white tees and jeans, grew my beard and stash out more, stopped worrying about my hair styled as much and started getting tattoos around 34 and continue to do so while being more of a grease monkey and motorcycle enthusiasts in my spare time now and honestly, I have to say that I notice alot more females looking, talking to me and more even asking me if I'm single! Also, I do enjoy not having to worry about spending half a day on my looks anymore and more time with my family and my dogs lol! Point is in my personal experience, you don't have to be a Ken doll or male model to attract the average woman and a 10 female usually isn't the best choice for a relationship in my experience as well lol! There's so much more to life than craving attention guys and it's way too short anyways so enjoy it the best you can!!
As long as you are confident in who you are, whether fat or not, you will still attract women
Wise words brotha 👊🏼
I agree with everything you say. I was in really good shape in college, and had a great time dating. Later on like so many guys, I let my body slip and starting getting a bit fat. Then a friend challenged me to get back in shape, and because I was reaching the age my dad died at, I took this challenge quite seriously. I've been quite serious about my workouts pretty much ever since, I've definitely gotten some very positive comments over the years, though honestly the main reason I stay in shape is I enjoy playing sports and I don't want to die young like my dad. Also, pretty much agree with what you said about height, although twice in my life I had very long relationships with large women, by large I don't mean fat, I mean one was on the college basketball team, and she ended up marrying a guy shorter than her, and a girl that was just big, neither of us married, but we are both still friends.
I can agree with this. Being in shape is not just physical, but it def promotes a more positive self image and confidence. Who doesn’t appreciate confidence lol.
I love the way Miss Courtney deliver her insights and tips for us guys. So feminine! More power to you and your channel, with admiration here in the Philippines!👍
It’s always cool seeing my favorite creator do podcasts/ interviews. Hope you do more in the future after roommates?
I definitely will!
From my experience, the taller the girl is(5’10-6’) the less she cares about height and the shorter the girl is(5’ and below) are the ones who want a basketball player for a bf. The taller girls probably aren’t picky because their options are limited as far as having a taller partner.
my experience as well. I'm 5'7 and had better luck with taller chicks than smaller ones lol
True, I'm 5'9 and I don't care, with heels I'm taller than most guys anyway. My kids don't have to be 6'5
Hello! Tall girl here! (Six foot) I used to care about height.
"Absolutely not, I will never go for a guy shorter than me!"
As time went on though, I met guys I liked that were shorter than me (not midget, they were at least touching my head lol), and I realized I didn't care as much anymore. I wouldn't exactly say this process occured because of lack of options, because I had tall options as well. Moreso I think I learned to find it endearing.
TLDR: good guys aren't worth giving up just cuz they're a little shorter than me.
Agree - super tall gals don't have many options. I'm 6'-2". I met a gal once she was maybe 5'-11" or 6'-0" who was interested in me but naw she was just too gangly for me (like me!). I like 'em at 5'-7" the perfect height for me. That said if i could design myself i'd be 6'-0" bang on - it's all about proportions if u ax me...
@@aldosigmann419 dude, I would pay for that 2 inches you don't need;)
Her voice is so relaxing
I used to have a really bad posture. No matter how I tried to remind myself to stand upright, I never could do it consistently. Then I started working out and dressing better. Not only did the stretching exercises help my posture, but just being more confident about my body also made me automatically stand up straighter.
As a woman, I agree with this list!!! 🙌🏽 ♥️
She missed the fat wallet though .
do woman pick men baste on wot thay think there children will be dist curious
@@orrinclerk1454 you high af
I appreciate how careful you are to not offend people, make it clear that it’s all just your own opinion. Help, but not upset anyone. It’s cool. Respectful.
Always impressed by her opinion and advice. You go girl. Intelligence is a Must for me in a Relationship. Thanks 🙏🙏💯👍👌
Love the Talk, very Logical, common sense !! Love listening to you.🌹🌹
As a man, I am so happy to see this kind of advice being put out there. Great content in these videos. Keep up the great work!
Thank you, my friend! ❤️
It’s very honest compared to many other stupid pieces of advice on the internet.
The key takeaway trait from this is to PUT IN EFFORT. If you spend the extra 30 minutes a day to put a little effort into making yourself presentable, it shows that you'll not only put in effort for yourself, you're also someone who who puts in effort...generally. This is a key trait in maintaining any relationship and that goes a long way.
Thank you for actually being honest I really appreciate it
I just recently discovered your channel, and I really enjoy your vids. I’ve been in a couple relationships, but you give some really good advice and help me see some things from the ladies perspective that I didn’t think of before. I definitely have a better mindset in general whenever I get into my next relationship. I definitely subbed, keep up the good work Courtney✊🏻
Thanks Courtney. Truths need to be heard, doesn't matter how hard it is to digest.
Thank you for not pushing the "dad bod" narrative. I've always believed that it was bullshit.
You're right about Each point. I dress well and am 6'5". I've had many beautiful women come on to me and be very bold towards me with advances and asking me on dates. I don't consider myself handsome or. Good looking. But many women tell me I dress well and have a nice smile. And that i walk like a king and have a regal bearing. That's very gratifying and flattering. I agree with you. You're very on the nose about the qualities of men that women like. Women tell me I have very nice hands and they like that I'm naturally muscular and im very healthy. In the last 9 years i went from 470lbs down to 225.😊😊 i didn't have any surgeries or anything fake. I dieted and i eat right and work out and swim a lot. I didn't Read anything or have surgery. All i did was choosing to get healthy for my own sake. Women liked me even heavier because I bore it well. And Still looked good and dressed Nicely and always have my regal bearing and Carried myself well and with dignity and self respect.
I think what must stand out is your modesty and humbleness 🤔
Ffs 🙄
@@serenityinside1 it's not unhumbled or immodest to be proud of what I've achieved or how far I've come from my 470lb days. Confidence isn't ego or arrogance. Many women mistake that
@@serenityinside1 being confident isn't ego. Many limited people confuse that
Hi Ms. Courtney 🌼
Thank you reminds me of
James 2:8
What you describe in video is how we are to be good stewards of what God gives us, that is to love.
You have a body and a mind. Why not take care of it properly...?? People always talk about the emotional traits, even the spiritual traits. But they forget that in order to truly love yourself and grow confidence, your better mind and body it's a must. Oneness is harmony with yourself--in the psychological, the emotional, the physical. Thanks for being so honest and talk about this, Courtney.
Courtney, so thankful you're out here in YT land. I appreciate, YOU. Wish I was you, when I was younger. In any case....you have such a sweet spirit, unbiased, and just tryna help both males and females. Kindness, be your best self, etc. I'm an age-gap woman (older woman/younger man) and I'm always appreciating a guy of any age who keeps their body trim, and grooms up well. Height, a mating thing from Neanderthal man days (height, for some reason meant/means better able to produce/provide/strength/protection, etc); body parts match up sooooo nicely with a guy the same height or not much taller haha! May I add teeth whitening? "If you're not whitening, you're yellowing" was a Crest ad from the early 2000s. Such, a turn off, yet sooooo inexpensive to fix with strips, no matter straight or crooked teeth! May God bless your endeavors!
Courtney, you give excellent advice. Keep up the good work!
This information is still great well into the marriage too. Aftet 31 years tying the knot, being fit and keeping these principles do make a difference...
Courtney: Have a good skin care routine.
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Except Courtney’s not a shill…
Courtney is right about these 6 things. You should be in shape as a man not neccesarily to get a girl but so you can feel comfortable in your own skin. We always have to be on our A game as men. Because when we are, it allows us to not accept bad treatment from women. Looks definitely get you in the door but your mindset and ability to provide for the girl will keep her around. I prefer the stubble/clean cut look for myself but i try to present my best self when i do start looking for a woman. Anyways be blessed everyone ♥️
Absolutely ❤️ thanks for being here as always, Georgio!
@@CourtneyRyan you're welcome! I do my best haha. I appreciate you being honest with us about what women really look for cuz so many would lie to us. Definitely do a mens skincare video cuz so many guys don't know about it
And if we are comfortable in our own skin being a bit overweight thats ok too right? Because if is not then you'll say you'll never attract a woman that way to which your point of " not necessarily to get a girl" is total bullshit
I appreciate her taking time to help men in general she is classy a fine woman and her points are important
It is so obvious when a short man is insecure about his height. But when a shorter person is not insecure it speaks volumes about their confidence.
Confidence makes you irresistible
Your inner thoughts should be authentic and come as glowing on your face and eyes!
I seen more hot girls with guys having chubbiness and dad bods
Your confidence should be positive and spread happiness
Atleast make her comfy around you
While that's true, you should still wanna be in the best shape of your life as a man. Because like Courtney said, you having your shit together as man and you in shape; puts you ahead of most of the guys in the dating market who aren't.
Common sense
Ironic most dad bod dudes have more confidence than ripped dudes in this case
You're right, I agree, but being healthy, fit physique wise, and just healthy does make one both mentally strong and confident. It has changed my own state of mind. I was obese, 270 pounds with a 47" mid section. Once I dropped to 190 pounds and got down to a 36" mid section. My mindset improved and treatment by others improved too. Everything matters.
"Dad" boobs??? Sheesh. Have a little respect. Dad's are the best people around. Why does a guy even join in on disrespecting them??? Maybe someday you'll be there.
An important thing to keep in mind about the whitening toothpaste is that it can be very harmful for your teeth. A lot of those toothpastes use abrasives to polish your teeth up, but in turn they remove a small layer of enamel, which is going to be very bad in the long run. They make your teeth look white, but over time your enamel will be scraped away, leaving you with yellow teeth *forever*
Good tip!
First video I've watched. I'm married and not really looking ran across you randomly. But just wanted to say you're spot on and beautiful as well. Keep doing what you're doing. Wish I had these videos growing up
Perfect, precise and to the point explanation...
Thank you for sharing this...
Appreciate your efforts....
She's had such a soft voice.
Bedroom voice.
"If they don't like you why do you want them to like you anyway?" That's pure gold.
Guys don't always receive 'schooling' as to how to care for themselves like women do. I am grateful for information such as this. Thank you.
Good advice.I was not blessed with good looks but I make up for it by working out and dressing well
"We all have different preferences.."
- maybe about hair and eyes color, but everyone is looking for most attractive person in our environment. :)
star signs are worth taking a look at before taking on a new relarionship.
Thank you, Courtney our sister/bestfriend for caring about us men. 🙏🙏🙏
Hi Courtney I thoroughly enjoyed your video. You’re very attractive, articulate and speak very well. You spoke during the video about your voice and the comments from some listeners, it appears you have not let get to you. Well done. You will always get people who are sad about their own life and hate when someone has their life together. I’m an older guy, happily married but what you’re saying is keeping the standard high. Good video keep it up☘️
I just wanna share my tips with “being in shape”.
If you don’t like the gym, that’s fine. If you don’t like running, that’s fine. Find something you enjoy that requires physical exertion and get really good at it.
My buddies are gym bros and they look good. Buttttt I’d rather surf for hours and have fun and stay in good shape. My cardio is through the roof, I have a good tan, and it attracts the type of woman I want.
So if you’re not a gym rat, that’s ok. Just do something to get in shape or stay in shape. I’ll share some activities:
Hiking. Mountain biking. BMX. Snorkeling. Swimming. Surfing. Hydrofoils. Surfskate. Calisthenics. Playing with/walking dogs. Skateboarding. In-line skates.
You get the idea. Find something you enjoy and be healthy doing it. I think women are also attracted to someone that has a skill they’ve mastered. It shows commitment.
It took me nearly 3 years to get to my skill level on a hydrofoil. And some women notice it because it isn’t something just anyone can do.
Good luck guys! The main thing is being healthy for you. But if it attracts a woman along the way, best of luck.
Courtney, I would LOVE a skincare routine video from you. As for this video, the facial hair tip is difficult for me because the career I am going for requires me to be clean shaven. However, I have never found that to be a big obstacle. If you guys prefer to be clean shaven, my suggestion is make sure you're in great shape and rock a military-like haircut.
I’d love if you showed us teddy’s skin care routine!!
Guys...if you're lacking in any of these areas that's difficult or impossible to change, there's one thing that DOES overcome some of these...That is a great Sense of Humor !! And please, Be Confident about yourself !
BTW - You have ONE Life to live and Nothing to lose ! GO approach "that" woman for conversation...GO !
Dont forget guys there are plenty of women out there that have flaws too. Mostly mental issues.
I don’t know about you guys but what a woman! I love the way she carry her self and the way she think. She make me feel passionate.
The Body positivity only applies to those who created it… WOMEN! Men remember that! We can’t afford to be out of shape. Stay healthy and get fit if you’re not. Because having a good body MATTERS!
@@cris-rj5zf bro regardless get in shape not for women but for yourself.
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Yes.
Do it for yourself.
Once your health and well-being takes precedence token symbols of "success" become pleasant, but secondary.
I'm 58 years old, and I've dedicated 100% of my time and effort into my career. In highschool I was the typical geek, and was laughed at and teased by my peers. I graduated highschool, went on to university, attended medical school and became a pediatric neuro-surgeon. Unfortunately, my past has left me emotionally scarred when it comes to women. I live alone, BUT I love what I do, and the rewards that come with the job.
Your beliefs have been on auto pilot since you were younger and are not a reflection of who you truly are. The universe and everything in it will treat you exactly the way you want to be treated deep down.
@@nickferry8909 It's too late for me to ever change my thinking now.
@@christianguenther1276 If you truly believe that, then you are correct. I'm here to say anyone can change IF they really want to and make a conscious effort to do so. We are our own worst enemy though, that negative self talk isn't the real you speaking.
A video regarding a skin care routine for men would be greatly appreciated. Thank you so much for your content.
I have been trying to find a woman like Courtney Ryan, but she is one of a kind!