Do THIS & Women Will ALWAYS Respect You… | Reacting To Darius M
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- In this video, I react to a video by Darius M, "Do THIS... & Women Will ALWAYS Respect You..." and give my honest opinion on what to do and what NOT to do if you want women to respect you.
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I ended up dating a girl who bought me a shot from across the bar. I was so surprised because I had never experienced it from the other end before, so I actually went over to introduce myself and thank her. She bought me another drink later that night after we exchanged numbers. A few nights later, while in bed together, it came out that she didn't actually buy me the drink! Apparently she had been telling her friend she was too nervous to approach me, so the bartender (who was a friend of mine) poured me a shot and said it was from "the blonde across the bar."
I had told her I never would have approached her had she not bought me that shot. So, to that bar tender, you were the greatest wingman I ever had. Thank you!
😂 best wing woman ever! How funny!
Holy shit what a bro! I would ask him his number to repay him if I were you. Haha!
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽😁
cool story bro , sad that its fake
I'll take _things that never happened for $500 Alex._ Haha, just kidding. If that did happen, you lucked out my man. Kudos.
A lot of men don't feel like they're good enough for women. Ever since i was young i Always remember being rejected by girls and women and its so damaging to your mind. Many people feel desperate and to all the guys that feel that way, i wish we could be gym buddies, work out and BBQ a steak afterwards. We gotta stick together and build comradery again instead of feeling so alone. As a Christian, i see my local church fail to band the brothers together, and i believe its up to the rest of us to fix these problems. Women join forces all the time. Lets do the same. Like the phoenix that rises out of the ashes, lets change men's culture to be stronger, better, and mentally healthier 💪
great post ! guys should join together more like women. the isolation with the internet can be too much at times and it shows in society.
Amen brother 🙏 🙌 👏
@@richardw3347 true isolation of video games online and pornography in particular i think affect us the most, I think gym-fitness culture is growing and becoming more mainstream can be a way to bring us together in a healthy and productive environment
You have my back....men of culture let's do it.
@@kisstagals haha. Your handle is the funniest brother.
Harold and Kumar go to Guantanimo Bay
I lost my wife who was my best friend in the whole world. Now I'm back in the dating world and I am abstinent, telling women "no" to sex has been a really unique experience. Sadly my experience is that it's been difficult to find a woman who respects herself enough for my standards.
They are so into disrespectful guys, they even want to be spat on i guess. 😜🤮🤮🤮
I'm so sorry that you lost your best friend. I can only imagine the pain you are feeling. Dating after something like that can be a depressing experience because nobody could ever come close to the love you lost. I hope you find new happiness soon.
Woman do whatever they want that benefits them. Understand that and keep your ass out of the line of fire.
You are right on big time. I've been thru the exact same situations.
LOL I got laughed at and called a liar when i mentioned how low my body count was! GULP! needless to say, i dont want to discuss it with women now!
This advice isn’t just good for relationships, it’s insanely good for mental health. Self-respect is one of the greatest methods of preventing self-destruction and suicide.
Best part is self-respect translates into confidence and people feel that!
@@ShinbrigTV thanks for summarizing the video. self respect = other's ppl's respect.
@@falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo6543 you're welcome
We need to raise our boys differently. Drop the white knight and princess myth and teach them self respect before all and refuse getting used by women
Facts the white knight shit is only fairy tale
Facts💯
@@jossell911 i reflected on my comment this past day, the white knight injonction that is so much thrust into us when we're young is so much responsible for all this i suspect. I stumbled upon a video of Matthew Hussey, where he says his mother raised him to be a perfect gentleman with girls, and he says they MAUUUULED him in high school.
I thought "this is so sad....so exruciatingly sad", that you're raised to be this perfect man your mother and grandma taught you to be and in response you are MAULED, taken advantage of by girls...As i type this i realise it probably means you're also taken advantage of by your mother and grandma, you're definitely flattering their egos that's for sure.
He continued on saying, something didnt click between what i'd been told, and the reality. Gosh we need to raise our boys differently, they come first in their life.
@@Nykoooo1 what’s crazy is that I’ve seen the same video too. We need to end this white knight crap. Have respect for ourselves and set boundaries. Be Kings of our own empire. Of our own lives!!
I raised boys. You bet I taught how to be gentleman. There is nothing wrong with teaching them to protect and provide. Women are the fairer sex if you will. Not as strong physically. You guys want to drop the white knight because it takes effort. If you want to be the leader in the family sorry but this what you have to do. If you don’t want to lead them her masculine energy will kick in at some point and god knows that’s not pretty. Someone needs to lead in the healthy household. Just my 2 cents.
It's nice to finally see it all unfolding...I used to get scolded by close friends for verbalizing things like "no, I"m not buying her a drink" - to which they would respond "Jeff that's so rude of you!" NO it's not "rude" it's called valuing myself, valuing my time, my efforts, and my god damn money. You didn't do a damn thing except look my way, and now I gotta pay? Heeelllllll no
You are my friend, Jeff. I'm like you...I say NO to women, too. Of course, I'm told that I'm rude, an a-hole, and that I rub people the wrong way. It's not that I rub people the wrong way; it's just that it's not right that I busted my behind to get to where I am in life...only for a girl to get free stuff from me, when I had to work hard for what I have?? No, woman! I'm not giving you anything. You're an example of how men should be to women.
@@joebeta1837 It's hilarious when people try to shame you into caving into simping.
@@Thestr8noodle It's even more hilarious when people post a comment on youtube to say that they said no to a women, to get a thumbs up from complete strangers.
@@maskedgamer7565 I don't post comments in the hopes of getting social validation like most people, I post comments because I can relate to what's being talked about.
@@Thestr8noodle Okay Nick!
When I used to pay my girls bills before I knew better, it wasn't that I expected anything in return, but to demonstrate that I was reliable and could handle things. A man of my word. My mistake was not knowing when to let her fend for herself
Love this. I love how you're addressing the toxic dating culture we're all dealing with in this day and age. It is truly needed. I am learning software designing and I dream to work with psychologists and social media figures to make a new social media app that fosters positive and non-toxic dating.
Patent that shot
What does "non-toxic" mean?
You'd have to change female nature itself.
Good luck!
I have learned that, when he talked about they have to earn it, same goes for giving gifts to a woman, don't do it for her attention, do it to reward good behavior and/or great shared experiences; do not give her a gift just because you want her attention. If you guys are in a relationship and you happen to think of her and you pick something up because you know she would like it, that is a little bit different than when you are just dating and think it'll help her choose you. No. No no no no no! No.
Absolutely spot on!
This literally came up for me this week, was being told to get a woman I just met and barely talked to a bouquet and chocolates cause she would like that. Ma'am, she hasn't even put in any effort to get to know me at all. Wtf that involves that, in a relationship my woman who deserves to be shown how I appreciate how she treats me within our relationship. But naw, guys just across the board. It's self respect season.
@@MijoShrek i hope this helps: like girls that like you; choose girls that choose you; invest in girls that invest in you. Today's video did cover that if you aren't her first choice, move on
Reward her. Not a great choice of words. If her birthday comes up yes of course buy her a gift. Anniversary ya don’t forget that one that will be bad. I guess use common sense.
Hi Joseph ..I need some advice how to get back my ex gf if can help me out..I did 3 month no contact my ex gf didnt reach out ..but I bumped into her coincidently and she was so happy but she said she not ready to get back the relationship however the next day she text me Honey I want u to receive Jesus and I went to church with her last Sunday and after lunch we became intimate and she said we can meet once a week every Thursday nite to catch up and possibly intimacy. Seem like I became her part time bf with no bf label or exclusive as she said she got use to life without me and she would go shopping on her own and she dont need me there anymore. The " Honey Good morning" " Honey Good Nite Kiss" no more daily text and soon after last sunday intimacy she didnt text me for 4 straight days .. what should I do ? I will be meeting her tomoro is Thursday. I guess I will get her body(sex) but her heart(love) is gone ...though she kept saying she love me always but those love me as a bf and all for herself is gone...she no longer feel jealous as she told me to find another gf and dont invest time on her. Should I be patient to slowly re attract her because to walk away to get her back does not work even after I did 3month of No contact didnt make her Ready to get back our 7 years Long term relationship
Darius is a student of the game.
Darius is a teacher of the game.
Courtney is like that big sister who would set us straight about women.
Thank you Courtney for standing up for what is factual and right. Really appreciate your work🙏
One time this older lady asked me that I should try this one drink and I said "alright sounds good" she orders the drinks and then says it on me. I was like "wtf" and had to tell the bar tender I'm not paying for her drink just mine. 😂
Good, no one should willingly get robbed
Well, no man should
Bravo!
Bravo! You showed her. If I would've been close enough to hear you and her having that little interaction, I would've said to you, "You are the MAN! " and would have given you a high five right next to that woman. Just so that she can learn that there are guys are out there that have enough cajones (balls) to say no.
Fair play, I was in a situation one night where this younger woman started flirting with me at a bar. I was buying myself a drink and casually asked her did she want one. She said I'll have a vodka and red bull, as soon as she got the drink she walked away from me which didn't impress me at all. I got my tequila shot and downed it, after that I went after the girl I bought the drink for, said excuse me and took the drink I bought for her out of her hand and downed that too, then handed her back the empty glass 🤣
I've been in lines for drinks and some chicks have started talking to me. When I just get my drink and go and say have a good night, they look they give me is priceless.
Saying no to a girl that isn't used to being told no really is an interesting experience.
Extremely based
Personally, I seldom tell a woman flat out "NO"; I'd rather ask her questions, such as: how is that fair to both of us, or what makes you think that I should do that? Let her explain herself, let her justify her motives. Engage the conversation by challenging her, while at the same time leaving the door upon for a continued conversation. It has worked for me, and I believe that women appreciate that approach.
Bravo!
Be yourself and respect yourself. I think this is a good mantra to live by just in life in general.
Thanks for the video Courtney!
High value women like Courtney just give me hope in humanity
❤️ thank you my friend!
You got friendzoneddddd boyyy
@@stayawayfromthewoke3412 bro chill she got a fiancé, you sick or sth?
100%
@@alimirzaee4689 Bahahaha, cptn save-a-hoe said fiance', are your saying she is a "financed prostitute?" I about pee'd myself when I read your comment. The end is near......
This also doesn’t just apply to reciprocation of financial investment but reciprocation of emotions, words and actions too. Money and drinks aside, ask yourself what emotional/spiritual/mental value does this person have to offer in exchange for mine.
I can say that one of the most painful things is being in a relationship where your love and energy doesn’t feel like it’s being reciprocated in the way that you deserve.
YES
Spot on!
It's a strange psychological thing that we end up giving more attention sometimes to the people who care less. We really need to ask ourselves what value do we really get from people.
*"what emotional/spiritual/mental value does this person have to offer"* that's a very dangerous idea road to be headed down - Easily 90% of women don't have value to offer a man's life besides their ability to bear his offspring. The ones that do bring value are instantly snatched up and wifed immediately (as they should), but even the remaining valueless ones are drowning in a sea of desperate thirsty male attention and simps. It doesn't make a difference if you can stand out to a girl who has a huge chance of not adding value to your life when she is seeing so many new faces every day and learning so many new names that she can hardly remember any of them.
This women is a real one 💯 thank you for the content, it's 1000% relatable, she's a real angel
Thank you for covering this subject. I recently asked you for this subject and you covered it perfectly ❤
Courtney, I met a girl at church last week and noticed the body language signals you've talked about! I think I'mma give her my number this week-no more waiting for a perfect moment or total certainty because they don't exist!
Do it! ❤️
Have faith in yourself!
A confident man moves decisively - he knows he has value and doesn't have to wait for the perfect moment because he's "enough" and also his time is valuable.
BUT - you're going to give her YOUR number? NO! You are going to ask for HERS. See my first line - you are ENOUGH! That's the high value move. If you give her your number you are basically communicating that you don't think she'll give her yours. LACK OF CONFIDENCE!!!!!!!!! Plus you are putting the next move, for her to call you, into her hands. Women are indecisive, don't give them the power of a soft rejection. Approach this girl, talk to her for 3-5 minutes and then test her attraction to you by looking her in the eye and giving her a firm number ask. "I'd like to take you for a cup of coffee soon, so we can talk and get to know each other a bit better, please give me your number." And then STFU. She'll give it to you or she won't, but that's the strong move, and women like strong men.
You don't know until you try.
Hope for the best and glad to see other brothers with success! Would love to see an update later in the future if your ok with that, and may the lord give you a special someone 🤞
Thanks for all you do Courtney!
Thanks for being here! ❤️
When I was 21 in college a girl came up to me at a bar randomly and asked me if I can buy her a drink. I then looked confused and my friend next to me said “how poor do you have to be to not afford a $5 drink? Is that LV purse fake to?” She then realized how stupid she looked and walked away. True story. This was in Tempe, Arizona
Your friend went right for the throat 😂
On mill ave huh?
@@inkyandthebrain yes on mill avenue it really happened
@@claytonelofgren I went to ASU too trust me I’ve been messing around on mill for years lol ton of females around there but yeah bitches do be broke in the bars bro
@@inkyandthebrain haha yep. It was Robbie Fox’s when it was a bar. I think even in college when we would go out with a group of friends half guys half girls the girls would usually be fine with buying their own drinks it wasn’t a big deal
Courtney, I have recently begun viewing your channel. Most of all, I appreciate how you conduct yourself, what a true lady you are. My Mom would love you! Thank you for being such a wonderful role model for other women as well as motivating Men to be our best selves so as to attract a woman of quality to share our lives with. You have truly restored my faith in the opposite sex.
Luckily I have never experienced this because the club/bar scene is not for me at all.
Not a bad thing at all. Not my scene either!
those scenes are for extroverts and chads. If you're neither it's just going to be awkward
Places for tossers & slags.😃
@@mjkittredge and alcoholics
Woman worth any kinda value most certainly do not hang out in the clubs.
I have been watching him for over 4 years now and he is one of the best channels. He is always on point.
Reminds me of the time i was at a rooftop club having a good time chatting and what i thought was 'vibing' with this woman i met. She hits me with "hey can you buy me a drink." I told her " maybe later( i wasn't going to). Soon as i said this she turned her back and walked away without saying a word lol 🙃
Such a powerful and amazing message. Simple and makes perfect sense. Thanks for posting Courtney!
Courtney, what you say is true most of the time that a man should say no once in awhile. Unless she's a complete control freak and expects her man to be on her hand and foot. Perfect example is my oldest sister and my Aunt. They expect a man to do everything for them no matter what and gaslight them that he is a selfish and horrible person if he doesn't do things for her. These women are crazy and should not be given the time of the day.
Ooof, agreed. Sounds terrible!
In the end they are only hurting themselves. They won't be attracted to a guy long term who is a doormat. These are the "there are no good men" women.
ow bro. come to turkey and see how many this kind of ... ı dont know what to say ..exactly the opposite of this video is applied here in everyday life and it is called being a gentleman. and this is true for people. madness.
Work on yourself and your goals. Self discipline is the key. Don’t be the simp, no matter how cute that girl is. It’s never worth it.
Thats far easier to say than to live out! You sound as clueless & self-important as all the rest! Congrats on your group think bro!
AMEN
Hey Courtney, you just changed my perception about approaching women! I always felt i wasn't good enough and had to spend to get respect from women.
Hello from Ghana!
Staying away from the bars and clubs goes a long way into finding a quality woman.
Hey I met my great wife and girlfriend at this club! ... Said no man ever
Not always...met my wife of 20+ years by accident in a bar. She was the most amazing person I ever met in my life. She passed away in 2019. Miss her every day.
@@timothygibney159 I did.
Courtney please don't ever change. You're awesome and one of a kind 👏. Also you're facial reactions to these videos are priceless 😄.
I found it funny how both Courtney and Darius possessed the same overall message but the way Darius expresses it is so different. I don't think I have ever heard Courtney refer to anyone as "beta males" 😂. Different audiences I guess. I'm not the type of person who talks about these issues in the same way he does, which is why I watch Courtney's videos, but I appreciate the message nonetheless.
yeah i cant stand the use of "beta" "alpha" "chad" "stacy"
@@jacksquadreturns7827 so which words do you prefer to describe those very real concepts?
@@inconnu4961 there are other words bruh, we are not a pack of wolves, there are no “alpha males” in humans, everyone is alpha or beta in their own areas, those concepts in humans are stupid
@@inconnu4961 I personally refer to those types as enablers.
Glad you're out here, Courtney! Your videos are like a breath of fresh air!
I like your coaching, the way you deliver the explanations I would say thumbs up for you girl.. thanks
I appreciate these kinds of vids, Courtney, as "Inceptionish" as they tend to be. Women don't often cover topics that men want to know, or often don't seem to completely understand why we want to know them. Yet I'm generally pretty leery of men who try to tell us what women want or what their motivations are(and sometimes they're badly focused, like the last half of this one). This format gives us a much clearer picture.
It's not just women... It's a human tendency... We all are running behind things we can't have ... But we need to realise we don't need to chase anything... What we deserve comes into our life without any need to chase anything !
I like to turn that “buy me a drink” test into another test; my response is “I’ll buy you a drink on our second date.” If she sticks around, I stick to my word, but get her number. If not, she leaves. A win/win for me, and I’ll drink to that.
this is pretty solid 💯
I was in a bar awhile back. A girl came up to me while I was ordering and asked if I wanted to do a shot of tequila. I said, sure let's do it (I have a girlfriend who I'm loyal to, but she wasn't with me). After a couple seconds, she realized I wasn't going to buy the shots, pulled out her card, and paid for them lol.
Darius M is a legend
Hi Courtney, I'm from Europe, I've been watching your content for some time and I really appreciate how you present the male-female relationship, especially against the background of red pill channels. If you and Darius ever recorded the talks, I think it would be a revelation.
very true. Darius is a sublime would love to see a collab
Thank you for confirming what I have been noticing. I am so sorry for falling for this, in spite of knowing better. I am stronger now thanks to you confirming what I have been feeling.
Congrats on 300k subs Ms. Ryan, wish you everything the best and thanks for blessing us with the gospells
darius always cracks me up.
Happy Friday Courtney keep up the great content your advice is gold as always 🌹❤
Thank you Luis! Have a great weekend 😊
This was a very valuable thing to have some good information on,good advice and thanks for the video,great job!.
what i love about your videos is how genuine and logical it is
I appreciate the thought put across in the video. In times where people have access to each other through internet, it feels like they are going crazy like they discovered a treasure and don't know what to do with it...because at the end of the day you are going to settle for one man/women. Money, fame and attention will not bring you happiness but choosing who you are and what you want might lead you in the right direction...
Friendly reminder that she doesn’t want you, she is just being nice. Focus on yourself kings 👑
I'm gonna be honest, when I first found your channel, I was skeptical, like "oh, here we go..." but to be honest, now I am entertained, at the very least. But I also really respect you Courtney Ryan. You seem really down to earth and, in the dating world, a real catch! You are doing a great service to a lot of people, covering all bases and perspectives. Thank you very much!
This is a great wake up call for me.
"Women want a guy that's hard to get." ... that is the key phrase. So unless you're an absolute stud or pulling in six figures, women almost instantly know that you're NOT hard to get.
Social media like I’ve said in other videos just makes things so hard to date
I can’t even tell the difference between being a gentleman and being a “simp”.. lol
I should make a video about that 😂
@@CourtneyRyan please! I know buying drinks isn’t a thing. My mom taught me everything, but at the same time I’ve literally had people tell me that they can open their own doors, even though it’s just what I do out of habit, for anyone
@@CourtneyRyan You really should. Lots of dudes dont get it.
Its going to sound vague ...but being a gentleman is respecting yourself, your boundaries and others....being a simp is doing things for approval of a woman, kissing her behind because you think it'll win her over, especially once you begin to compromise your personal boundaries for her. It'll come with experiece my friend...
I love he’s channel he really doesn’t flip flop with he’s content is always focused on the right stuff,definitely recommend he’s channel not toxic at all!
This us an incredible, eye opening video! It is life changing for I am now changing the way I do things in the Dating Game. Thank you for this!
im so happy that Darius was the first red pill boss that I ran into here on youtube. Learned so much from him about women
Awesome content Courtney! Could you make a video discussing about the feeling of being very nervous when being with your crush?
Mr. President, *ASK* *NOT...* what the girl can do for you...ask what you can do for the lady!
Mr. President, *ASK* *NOT...* what the girl can do for you...ask what you can do for the lady!
I listen to both of you. Great insight. Great vid💯
Thanks guys, very informative.
I had this happen to me. I remember buying women drinks, getting lucky with some and getting used too. Now, when a woman asks me to buy her a drink, I tell her “No”. If she asks “Why?”, I tell her “I’m used to women buying me drinks.” You’ll be surprised at the outcome. This video is the absolute truth. Trust me.
This was spot on, Courtney. Most women do not respect most men, and telling a woman no if she asks you to buy her a drink is a very easy way to put your foot down and show you're worthy of her respect. I've actually had women buy me drinks before and turn them down. A- I don't want women buying me drinks, ever. B- I don't want a random woman at a bar to feel entitled to my time.
It making me realize so many things. I’m happy to have a woman who goes against this standard
this video is pure Gold! Courtney u are the best!
It's really hard sometimes to resist beautiful women but at the end of the day you have to respect yourself enough to say NO!
It's very interesting and informative 😉 video and good thing is now we have Courtney to guide us in the best way thanks for the video 🙂 😌
I love your honesty Courtney. They do look down on the guys buying their crap and pay for messages. It's sad.
Thank you for your video I really like your honesty and the way you hold yourself as a woman. Respect
7:45 boundaries lead to feeling secure and that trust can be established
Bingo
Darius is the king of reality checks. Courtney is the queen.
@Courtney Ryan The world needs more women like you. Period.
As a man we don’t listen to women coaches we your videos are awsome and you’re amazing person Courtney
I still remember the first time i told a woman no some years ago. She blew up in my face over it. She seemed almost disgusted. I found it extremely amusing and still do. And really the only reason I said no is because i was busy doing something else. Her time wasn't that important to me, but the rude and shocked response left a mark on me. Not for the gaining of respect from women but to see if a woman can handle rejection in a humble manner.
This is SO right on! I do give a girl more than one chance to show me who she is. But if she shows me the wrong side, I walk away (but not always, lol !) Thank you Courtney - and Darius!
Thank you for being truthful,my whole life I was conned,I'm 62
Thank you for all your information. Your video contents helped me understand women better.
In a world filled with coal that turns to dust under pressure, you're definitely that diamond and I definitely appreciate what you do!😁👍
You’re so sweet, thank you Tommy! 🤍
@@CourtneyRyan I can only name so very few women who are that rare gem like yourself!
@@tommygunn6901 too much bro, coming off as a simp now
cool video.manosphere still has some gems from time to time .men really need to quit the self denigration and degradation with these behaviours.i m still not over the fact that some men pay for onlyfans for example.unbelievable.
Thank you! I agree
Courtney,
I wish there were more genuine women like you.
Ty
When I used to go out😆and a woman asks me to buy them a drink, my come back to that is 'Where I come from the women buy the drinks" . They either walk away or they buy me a drink and then I walk away😆😆😆👍🏽😎
😂😂😂
I learn lot of thing from your video. Thanks you. Subscribed🙏🙏
You are one of a kind Coutyney
Love courtney smart her voice makes me want to watch her videos I wish I had her voice 😍😍
Aww thank you 😊
I had to watch this video thinking I would get a laugh at watching a woman being mad at Darius for being real, and it's not what happened.
Darius speaks the truth, and I agree with most of what he says.
But Courtney, holy sh*t, this woman has her head on straight. I wish I knew where to find a world of women as enlightened as her, instead of being stuck in one destroyed by social media.
In reality guys, always be skeptical of any woman "giving" advice on dealing with (modern) women, nearly all of them will try to feed you BS to justify and validate being garbage in the head...
every time I see an ad for Marni the wing girl I shake my head in disgust, I've seen her videos and she only wants to tell you how to navigate and accept dealing with trash, and never addresses the real issues.
Thank you Courtney for being such a great voice of reason in a society of toxic noise, you get my utmost respect.
Ms.Ryan, I would like to express my gratitude for your wonderful Truthful female perspective and opinions. Thanks a million. For some reason being told by a woman, no games not emotions...I just realy absorbed it into my thick skull. Your a genuine class act.👍
Both you Ms. Courtney and Darius M i watched every single day of your videos and i learned a lot both of you😉
I piss women off all the time, but not because I’m rude, because they’re entitled. I would like to be in a relationship, but I’ve never bought someone a drink or did something like that for them until we were dating. If I did something nice for a girl when we weren’t dating, it was because I wanted to do something nice. That’s it.
Yep. When I was in my early 20s, I would frequently go out with groups of women friends - and they would get other men to buy ME drinks lol. If you want to standout, make them get YOU a drink. And you know what, when women see other women buying you drinks, you get their attention very quickly. Because they think there must be something 'special' about you.
Yes very true, some time it's take guts to say no to a woman, but once you do it the first time the second time will be easy. You gain respect and keep your insanity intact.
Knowing to how deal with this situation should you find yourself in it and not be used is main take away from this video. Much as I would like to be a relationship I'm not deperate . Thanks for this video Courtney.
Hey Courtney, I posted this question in a previous video, but, in case you hadn't seen it(I know you get a million comments and for good reason), I thought I'd post it again here. I was wondering if you could make a video on emotional attraction? You mentioned in a previous video that it was important for women, so I was wondering if you could give us more information about that.
Absolutely I can! Thanks for the suggestion!
@@CourtneyRyan Yay! You're welcome. I look forward to it. :)
A female coworker of mine once protested that she thinks
less and less men are giving free drinks in the Club & was asking me, why it is like that?
Told her, I think it is like it is since a lot of woman made themselves a sport
to go out and try to get as many free drinks as they can.
Great video, thank you 🙏🏽
Very interesting video thank you Courtney! ❤️🫂🤔🌹
Courtney, I have been married 33+ years. I have, much to my emotional detriment, come to understand that everything with my wife is some sort of transaction. Everything.
The harsh awakening was that, maybe a decade ago, I realized what I had been taught about women needing to talk before intimacy (I need you to infer a bit here) was necessary for the woman to relax and enjoy said intimacy. But, every time it seemed to be about getting things the way she wanted them and my obligation to do so. Very subtle. Don’t think she consciously knows she was doing it. Just hard-wiring…. This is where it ties in with this video content. Are women’s relational motivations only transactions? Is this why prostitution is called, “The Oldest Profession”? I use to think it was supply and demand which initiated this, but now I’m not so sure women initiated this, exploiting men. Heart wrenching to ponder,
Anyway, that’s was when ED started and has maintained. Knowing she didn’t really want to be with me, just doing a transaction. Very hurtful.
I try to watch most your content, but would you be willing to get an MD, or Psychiatrist, involved and address this honestly. I think very little about ED has to do with physiology but I don’t think anyone of influence is willing to speak honestly about it. Your thoughts? Or, if you’ve addressed this before can you give me the link?
Thanks,
_Some sort of transaction._
So you were expecting her to get aroused for sex in a matter of seconds?! *OF COURSE IT'LL SEEN TRANSACTIONA!!!*
It takes about ten minutes to start getting aroused for foreplay, y'know. And yes, all the dirty/sweet intimate talk is needed during foreplay.
In the old days it was called 'doing her duty'! She traded her body, for your everything else! Yes, its normally like this! Women are not naturally monogamous! so, after 5 -7 yrs, the bloom is off the rose and the bed gets chilly!
Why don’t you cheat on her?
@@checharles5224 multiple wrongs do not make something right. Also, why would I want to be treated that way by multiple women? People are all basically the same,
I have NEVER paid for a woman unless I was already on a date with them. I have been out on dates where it became clear she just wanted to free night out. Knowing that, what kind of loser buys random drinks or succumbs to Venmo scams? You will get used as an ATM just because you are a single guy from time to time anyway, so why volunteer for it?
I’ve watched like 2 of her videos back to back 😅 both reacting to M but already these videos 🔥
This is my first time on your channel (Liked), and I'm glad you are showing Darius M's video. I just started watching both your channels. Liked and Subscribed.
If a girl ask me if I COULD buy a drink for het, my answer would be yes I can....... This doesn't mean that I would buy it. Just because I say that I could buy it, doesn't mean that I will buy her a drink. So I would say yes and just do my own thing and just wait her reaction. And most likely laugh when she reacts.
Me, at raves: "Could I buy you a bottle of water?"😂