New-Wife Attacked Me Just Because Am Flying To Meet My Daughter, Now She's Blowing Up My Phone
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OP’s second wife doesn’t like OP’s daughter at all. As a stepmom, she has always been cruel when it comes to looking after the daughter, so OP sensing that she doesn’t like the daughter sends his daughter away to join a famous college in another state. It is also because OP could never spend time with his daughter because of his wife, who would interrupt them at any point.
When the graduation ceremony arrives, OP books flight tickets to go and see his daughter. But the stepmom has plans under her sleeves to stop him from doing that. She first intentionally takes a lot of time to get ready to reach the airport and when they arrive, she goes missing. OP ends up looking for her and they miss the flight. She then arrives to say that she got lost and couldn’t find OP. OP genuinely believes her but then next time, OP’s daughter gets admitted to the hospital because of an illness. OP again books tickets to go and see her but this time, when they arrive at the airport, the wife says that she wants something to eat or maybe drink. OP argues that they barely have 15 minutes left to board the flight, but the wife throws a tantrum.
OP doesn’t listen to her this time and leaves her at the airport and boards the flight. Behind him, he gets to know that his wife was arrested because she misbehaved with the staff. She gets arrested for disorderly conduct, resisting
arrest, and attacking a police officer. When OP gets a call from her, he refuses to pay her for the bail. She again goes in rage.
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That situation was abusive to your daughter. I would have never gotten married. Not fair to your daughter. Your wife is selfish. She made you miss your daughter graduation and wanted to stop you from going to your daughter. You did the right thing, you chose to take care of your daughter, better late than never.
I would never find myself in that position, because I would never bring someone opening hostile into my child's home. Your daughter was old enough to have an opinion and you actively made her home unsafe.
Most men do this...they think of their own comfort and warmth and give zero f*cks about their kids.
As a female who sees lots of shops in the airport, I would never leave my purse with my husband. I think Mirla purposely left her purse behind because he wouldn't be able to fly without her.
Hands down YOUR KIDS COME FIRST!! If the person you are with can't come to terms with that, then they are not the right one for you. If I was in OP's position, I wouldn't have let things get as far as it did with Mirla. There were several red flags even before he married her.
Your child comes 1st, not that wife.
OP did the right thing not bailing his wife out, however, he was totally in the wrong for putting his wife before his daughter, especially from his daughter's graduation.
My ex's step-dad was THE SAME way... He broke her down so bad that she gave up her boys. Then she got cancer and he made her last years hell.
How did she go shopping without her purse or phone.
Right..right!!!
Omg, OP is the pure definition of denial and a bad father. His daughter deserves so much better.
Fastest way to get fired is to try and be between me and my kids... who are full grown adults. End of story.
Wow OP sounds like Father of the Year!!!
OP fumbled his relationship with his kid badly- How TF do you let your spouse interfere with your kid's milestones?! A graduation?? Dude, c'mon!!
Mirla did that shit on purpose. OP was just too p-whipped to notice it.
100%
Dump new wife. Sounds like a borderline fo me. Get an apartment alone without crazed woman. She WILL abuse ur child
She already emotionally abused his child but he didnt care.
He saw the red flag in the beginning but he chose to ignore it.
I’ve told my husband, “Don’t ever bail me out.” Then they have to get me in front of the judge the next business day, at least in my area. If you get bailed out it could take weeks to go your initial day in court. I can deal with 1 day or 1 weekend if it gets me through the system faster.
If you marry a person with a child you have to accept the child. If you can't fully accept the child you shouldn't marry the person.
OP was right not to bail out his wife. She got herself in the mess by acting like a toddler.
Hahaha, I like how OP just lied to his daughter's face, but still tried to play it out like he did nothing wrong. Next time I get caught in a lie, Im pulling OP's card and saying it wasn't a lie, Im deescalating
If my wife was acting like Merla in the airport, I'd for sure go take care of my daughter instead
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Mirla played you. What is sad is you had the red flags waving in your face. But act surprised
Agree not one woman shop without her purse.
OP's girlfriend died in childbirth because she was small and the baby was big. Did her doctors ever hear of a cesarean birth?
There could have been other things going on to cause the death.
There had to be other things going on. You can't expect a non medical guy at 25 years old to be able to adequately remember the technical details.
The girl probably hemorrhaged. It does happen
@@smstnitc He's was a 25 yo GROWN man. The mother of his child died giving birth to HIS child. Such a traumatic event would/should be etched into his memory forever. He should remember every moment of such a horrible day.
@@robingibson6561 you assume he understood everything at the time. I've been in the middle of traumatic medical situations, and everything tends to flow around you and is hard to take in. It's easy to go numb, or break down, and hope to just mentally survive yourself. Much less have to carry on and raise your kid alone afterwards.
If my partner didn’t like my son, I’m gone
OP you're not too bright are you? Mirla's a business shark but she gets lost in a big airport? Leaving her cell phone behind with you while allowing you to sleep? And crying on the other side of the airport because poor little naive 'girl got scared?' Give me a break. And why didn't you have her PAGED at the airport? Or left without her? Missing your daughter's graduation??? What a lousy thing to do. She knew exactly what she was doing! Did she play that 'little girl act' throughout your relationship? Glad you finally got smart and divorced!
OP was stuck between two women (wife and daughter) who can't stand each other. Why didn't OP page Merla when she was gone. Merla did this on purpose because she didn't want to go to Angie's graduation. Nor she did she want OP go to care for her when she was ill. So she had all types of accuses and had a hissy fit when OP went to care for his sick daughter. I would have not posted bail for Merla even after returning home and I would have found a divorce lawyer before I even unpacked. Signs were all there: never liked step-daughter, encouraged distant college, separate holiday celebrations, missed graduation flight, didn't want OP go to take care of sick daughter. It took OP years to realize his wife did not his daughter in his life, especially after she was 18. Glad he finally came to his senses and took his rose colored glasses off and saw the real Merla.
Honestly I would have done exactly the same thing. I would have left my wife and jail. She should learn that children come first in are relationship. However, with that being said, I would not let my child come between me and my wife. There would be a balance.
Graduation. Take her things to lost and found and get on the plane.
I am liking this only because my friend animated it.
OP seriously messed up by keeping his daughter and his wife separate! He should have never married her!
Op I'm glad you chose your daughter but you should have seen the red flags early.
OP abandoned his daughter for the evil stepmother.
Whats the bet she deliberately got lost the first time
Nope that wife is a crazy person
Thanks again
OP your spouse was a nightmare and it is a good thing that your left her.
That first airport incident was so on purpose. You can't shop without your purse. She didn't feel terrible she was playing him.
Anyone reading this thinking: I wonder what Mirla’s POV is 🤔
Tbh, OP's thoughts were all reasonable. From the start, it looked like the classic "She's not my mom" situation with Angie, and, "I didn't do anything to you, why are you mean to me?" with Mirla. It's unsurprising that someone would want somebody who insulted them for no reason to get out, family or not, so I find Mirla's actions in that situation reasonable.
With the first airport situation, Mirla was wrong for leaving OP when he told her not to, and for good reason, but Mirla seemed to regret her decision, a classic case of someone doing something stupid and later regretting it, with OP just trying to prevent an escalation.
It wasn't until the second airport incident when it became clear that Mirla was a bad person, trying to make excuses like a little child. I think this would've been out of the blue, and OP was right to cut Mirla off when she showed her first obvious series of red flags.
It's crazy that Mirla was always at least somewhat reasonable, and then, one day, out of the blue, she makes a scene for no obvious reason, and it was only then when Mirla went beyond the realm of an understandable mindset.
Covert narcissist
Reasonable, how? OP dated someone that started the relationship with a bad attitude towards a kid she hadn't even met. She was telling OP that teenagers cannot be reasoned with so she was already combative. Angie just matched the energy she was receiving from that horrid woman who just had to *compete* with a child...who does that?
@@Azulakayes While that stereotype that Mirla used is just, well, a stereotype, it's true that teenagers are much more of a handful than a child. During one's teenage years is typically when they date or pick up not-so-good habits. So, while Mirla's mindset about teenagers wasn't correct, she did have reason for concern.
It's also unfair to completely blame Mirla when Angie, too, had a similar mindset about stepmothers, saying that they "Could be irrational beings whom you could only argue". When two people hate each other, but love a similar person, it's normal to see the person who hates you more as an obstacle than anything else, and one will try to make themselves seem like the better person. This issue is basically politics in a nutshell, two political parties trying to convince the same group of voters that they're better than their opponents.
Had Angie been wronged by Mirla, and expressed that to OP, it would've been a completely different story, but neither Angie nor Mirla ever gave a solid reason to OP as to why they hated each other. So really, before Mirla's second fiasco at the airport, Angie was just as bad as her stepmom was.
So he missed graduation and is missing the daughters hospital stay? He is all but confirming the evil step mom scenario. A grown adult who is jealous of a child shouldn't be marrying someone with kids. Unfortunately happens all the time.
He was right to go to his daughter and his wife was behaving like a spoiled child
If real she got lost on purpose .
Leave this woman OP I don’t think you’re a bad dad. I just think you are between a rock and a hard Place, to grow up and realize there’s another person in your life. That’s important to you and she can’t always have her way. If she had not left your side at the airport, you would’ve seen the graduation.
You definitely the AH
For sure, he was lonely and got married. Bastard. His wife played him. Asshole. He left his 'sick' wife to go see his really sick daughter. How can he live with himself?. He chose to stay with his daughter while she needed him instead of caving to his wife. Off to Hades with him.
B. Itch deserves jail
You choose a stranger over your family that needed you the most at that time, your simply horrible
SORRY OP BUT , MIRLA IS THE WORST HUMAN BEING YOU COULD HAVE CHOSEN AS A STEPMOTHER FOR YOUR DAUGHTER. MIRLA
“IS A SHARK”. PERIOD HOW CAN A WOMAN BE SO SMART THAT SHE BRINGS A BUSINESS FROM, 0 to 100% AND ,
LEAVE HER PURSE
LEAVE HER PHONE
GET LOST
CRY FOR BEING LOST???? PLEASE.
Ok,you have rightfully taken responsibility,so how you going to fix it,and ask your wife why she is acting like a entitled,jelous child bc you just raised a child and ain't interested in being married to such a high matience who acts like their parents let her loose to be feral
The wife did it on purpose
8 minutes into the story and I am thoroughly annoyed with OP and bored by his story. He should have kept his story to himself.
His new wife would’ve been better staying at home in her bed and not getting everyone else sick all because she’s selfish
Sounds like the wife has a huge inferiority complex!
She actively tried to undermine the relationship between the father and his daughter.
She caused a ruckus and won her prize, let her sit and reflect.
Honestly, you’re better off without that drama
Charges of disrespect for authority?! Lmao, that’s how you can tell this story is fake
What is she a 5yr. Old? Shes a grown adult she could of found her way back. She did it on purpose!
Step mom planned it
Something doesn't sound right to me. If you are ill they won't let you board the flight.
How he didn’t see the red flags from he wife the airport getting lost to miss the flight like really she left her purse she wasn’t shopping she was hiding. Glad he finally saw the truth and put his daughter first.
My thoughts too, a "savy business woman" not only got "lost", but didn't take her purse and handy with her?!
I have nothing to back this up but there’s something weird about OP and I find myself being sympathetic to Mirla. His quasi psychological and arrogant assurance of his own assessments of other peoples’ motives and intentions is at the base of my overall irritation. And after years of a relationship to start identifying red flags is just nasty. I think there’s more to this story.
OP has terrible grammar
Start driving you are a BAD FATHER, not a DAD. Should have started driving right away and should have planned to fly in a day or two early.
Op your wife did it on purpose.
Sounds like his new wife just got a cold his daughter is it worse condition that’s the person you visit.
Bro ignored the signs and honestly, he deserves to be alone.
4:36 He is just the worst. He did notice the attitude that horrible woman had and she said that teenagers are irrational. She was having a problem with Angie even before meeting her and OP just thought, yup, I will marry this woman and force my daughter to accept her as her stepmother. Angie must have sensed this woman's hostility when they met but OP was too oblivious about it. I would never continue a relationship with someone who is hostile to my kid...damn, I think having a happy and well adjusted kid is a parent's goal but apparently not for OP.
Marla intentionally made sure they couldn’t go to his daughter’s graduation no matter what she said or how good of an actress she was about it. I wouldn’t doubt that she tried to talk over a lot of his phone conversations with his daughter. I doubt Marla was as sick as she claimed to be otherwise she would have been in the infirmary in jail. She might have had a mild to moderate cold but it sounds like his daughter probably had a bad flu or COVID. If his daughter was about to go to the hospital she could have possibly died. Mirla still hated his daughter but she could hide it better since they weren’t living together anymore. This could have ruined her plans if they actually went out there. She was still trying to stop that from happening only this time, since his daughter’s health and potential life was at risk, he wasn’t going to let anything stop him… not even his wife.
OP did the right thing. Mirla is a ridiculous, childish, controlling woman who was jealous of Angie and the relationship she has with her father. On the graduation trip, Mirla deliberately pull that stunt. What woman leaves her handbag, with all her ID, money and cellphone in it, so she can't be contacted, then gets 'lost' in an airport. She was described as a strong, self sufficient woman but was found crying, like a child, because she was 'lost'. Oh, please. She should be ashamed of herself. That's his only daughter's college graduation and to sabotage that is disgraceful, smh. I'm also glad OP left her ass in lock up, after her second attempt to keep OP and his daughter apart and causing a scene at the airport. She has a lot of growing up to do but she's not the type of woman to admit her flaws and grow from her mistakes.
What women doesn't carry their phone and purse with them. Silliness
OP is lucky that his daughter didn't tell him to go fawk himself and cut contact. She grew up in a toxic household with an abusive stepmother.
Mirla only saw her stepdaughter as competition and wanted him all herself. Even making situations where OP is forced to choose and because she has him whipped, she can control him.
As for OP, go see someone for that room temperature iq.
Glad things worked out in the end, but OP deserves to be smacked around a few times due to the mistakes I noticed. For one, introducing Maril to his daughter after 5 dates was asinine. Being a single parent, you should vet a potential partner at least a year before they're introduced to children. Second, not paying attention to Angie's feelings during the initial reactions when they first met and have a conversation; in addition, rather than couple's counseling, common-sense would be family counseling to be more effective. Third, not attending Angie's graduation due to the BS his wife pulled. I can't see myself enjoy a life where the only way I'll have peace is if my wife and daughter are separate. Very unhealthy.
He married a woman who said 'Teenagers are irrational' and had a bad attitude towards a kid she didn't know before she met her. He also was okay to be with a woman who thinks that competing with a child is okay.
At all times your family comes first even your wife family to her they come first because it will be hell if you choose someone else