Woman Is Convinced Boyfriend Isn’t A Romance Scammer.
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Has this woman ever been to a real bank before? They don't charge you 40k to resolve an issue? Cone on lady!
They usually start by saying they're "not easily fooled," then proceed to tell the most outrageous story of being unspeakably foolish.
If you listen to her story, she was in a stage of grief and exhaustion. Her brain at that point was so hungry for happiness it would be like quitting heroin while holding the needle.
Both are good points ,but you have to be aware things are not want they seem,what's wrong with being on your own!!!!!😁
Yeah she said she’s not easily fooled, looks like she was fooled.
And end with “I couldn’t be that naive”
Unfortunately, she did not seem completely convinced that these guys were fake. I think she will be taken in again, given half a chance.
I'm widowed, and I get countless Facebook and Twitter requests. They're all middle-aged, handsome men,usually widowers. I delete and block every single one of them. My late husband worked hard to make sure I'd be okay after he was gone, and none of those bastards will ever get a dime from me.
Yes!!!! Very smart!!
You don't have to delete them. Just string them along.... but make sure they never get money from you... It's a fun too !!!!
I would totally make it my hobby to fool around with them and make them waste their time with me. "But I've sent the money! You just have to check again!" Then send them badly photoshopped transfer receipts XD
@@kristinhazell3840 you should join the community of scambaiters
I get friend requests on FB. Usually they are in the US army with medals and stripes galore. Lol. Not a chance. I tell em to eff off. But it would be fun to string them along for a while.
The best thing to say to a scammer is “wow I was just about to ask you the same thing. I need money”
But Have u eaten today my queen?
No i starved wanna buy me food@@afritunez4422
I use to love playin' with them like that 🤣🤣
I did that lol😅
@@eardrummedwhat did they say? 😂
If someone is out of your league , that should be a clue
Not an issue for narcissists.
She's in deep denial...Like so deep she's at the bottom of the effing ocean.
But if you don’t go for it then how will you know? I’d say have fun flirting but once the conversation turns to him requesting financial help the you have to cut it off.
LOL that's for sure .. there's no way he's going to be interested
Out of all the rotten people here, she is the only one who is actually good looking
"He had the kind of voice that would make you melt!"
Yeah, In fear. He sounds like a serial killer
🤣😂👍
Besides, fire melts stuff too and so does hydrochloric acid as murderers have demonstrated.
Sounds like the villain from Saw
Damn you took the words right out of my mouth 😂😂😂😂
😂😂
A kid asks their parent for money, they get a hard no. But a total stranger asks for money.... "Oh here's $35,000 my king!"
This is the bit I really can't fathom lol
Exactly
Honestly this is my mom right now. She owes my brother money and I think she forgot about it as he's not hounding her. Yet sent almost 60k to a stranger! Something she can't pay back as she's on disability. I've been trying to convince her with articles and videos but she just yells at me and ignores me. I fear we're losing the house and she won't admit it. She probably won't sell the house to me so we don't end up homeless. I don't know how to ask her on this topic to sell me the house with her attitude and personality change.
Hahaha 😂
@@Xanaphia you better get on it asap and not ask her ... You tell her .. she'll thank you later. Because dude will stop all communication when the money is gone.
Just looking at her I don’t know why she thought a top tier attractive man would pick her out of the really attractive and younger women he can get. Delusions costs a lot of money.
WHY would anyone send thousands of dollars to someone they never met?
Who in their right mind would think a bank would demand $75,000 to access your own money? At this point, people are deliberately ignoring common sense.
My fiance Chelsea warned me about these scam..
told her not to worry as these type of scams are blatantly obvious🙄
anyways me and Chelsea have been engaged for 3 years and i cant wait to meet her for the first time after her manager Romanov from Russia releases her from her modelling contract. cant wait!❤
#truelove #FREEChelsea
Not "deliberately" ignoring so much as subconsciously ignoring? For too many victims reality or "common sense" breaks through their desire to believe in the fantasy when it's too late. These POS catfishes are really, really good at what they do. They know exactly how to pick and cultivate their victims and they take their time.
I've been targeted by romance scammers/catfishers even though I've never been on a dating site. I've never been victimized but that might be because I'm definitely NOT looking for love. What if I were looking for love? I'd like to think I'd spot the creeps right away, but let me tell you how I WAS scammed...I needed a sort-of emergency house-cleaning and arranged for the work to be done over a local company's website. They looked legit online and I needed the job done the next day. I agreed to pay $600.00 the late afternoon and they were to clean the following morning. A very nice young man showed up to collect the payment ahead of time because, he said, they had been burned by people who hired them but left town before paying. I handed over the $600.00 and they never showed up. The police couldn't do anything. I was absolutely scammed. Infuriating.
The (dangerous) power of making choices/decisions using emotional thinking. It's sad but it's true.
lonely& Not Valuing herself & Got fooled
@@carolnahigian9518 she overvalues herself. She believes a hot, younger, rich guy would be obsessed with her online.
"He has a voice that would make you melt" sounds like a voice changer a kidnapper would use when they make the call to demand a ransom
Lol!
Rofl
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Exactly that!
Yup 100%. These people are lonely and wanting to believe 😢
“I’m not wearing no makeup.”
Oh, so then you’re wearing makeup?
😂😂😂
I appreciate a fellow pedant.
The use of double negatives makes me absolutely crazy! Lmao.
Thank you. I feel like I’m the only one
He "was gorgeous...i aint wearing no make up." She sounds very sophisticated.
😂😂😂
I wonder how her children made it into college.
Rule #1: NEVER trust anyone who refers to you as their "Queen"
I love you justmyopinion, send money
@@Cleatus546 🤣😂
Anyone who sees that word needs to run. Fast.
💯 exactly. Or babe.
@@annking8633 I don't mind babe I used to call me husband babe a lot. I once had a boyfriend that called me baby girl I quite liked that
That voice message the scammer left her was the creepiest thing I ever heard. It sounded like a voice changer.
Totally not a natural voice
Nigerian accent!
Voice changer 100%.
NIGERIAN ACCENT.....BUT
ALTERED.
@@kathrynshields8221 Right.
These women are so incredibly gullible. It completely baffles me.
Most women are gullible they have trouble accepting that after a certain age they are no longer relevant. Their whole life they are told they are “queens” “beautiful” “everyone is a 10/10” so they live their whole life believing that.
Jeez, that goodnight voice message she was so impressed with really creeped me out.
Would have given me nightmares after hearing that !!
A serialkillervoice😱😱😱🕷️🕷️💥
Girls are into that, ever heard of Ted Bundy?
I have been married for 23 years. My husband has never called me his "queen". If he ever does, I'm leaving. I would be certain he is just a scammer playing the long game.
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The best comment!
OMG. You win the best comment of the day. Thank you!😂🤣😅
HAHAHA
She is so silly “I am going to call him out”. He probably talks to 30 other women. He could care less. She is just part of his job.
Wait until she realizes it’s a robocall…..
Best she can do is ...just stop and block and never do this again. She can call him out, she is not going to get closure , he is not going to feel bad, she is going to feel worse when she gets that...that he just do not care, he will do it again and again. Why do people even believe strangers want them...that is weird thinking.
$32, 000 . What a mess
Couldn’t*
@@HodajuciParadoks Every husband was a stranger at some point, unless you grew up together. 😂. I met mine online. I guess he wasn't from Nigeria.
Gosh it’s the same story, over and over! What’s wrong with these people?
The fact that people are gullible to fall for this is nothing short of a miracle!
They're hot!
*”He had the same earrings and ALMOST the same tattoos”!!!* 🙈 *WOW. SERIOUSLY?!?*
*Someone give me this woman’s info, even I want to scam her now!!!!!*
I have no sympathy for these victims 🙄endless sympathy for their kids and grand kids.
Agree completely. The stupidity is beyond belief . Btw I'm a Nigerian prince who needs money to access my millions of pounds gold reserve.
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@@christinebrument6851can i help you by sending you my life savings? 😏
She's lonely. Blowing $32,000 on someone you've NEVER met is very scary
where can i meet a woman like this?
Very sad to be that desperately lonely!
@@lauraansara5066 Agreed
And stupid.
@@psims7342 🤣
"He had the kind of voice that would make you melt!"
Girl, that is Jigsaw
😂
LMAO
melt in fear
Another guy with west African accent, that's pretty clear.
Lol
Better be heartbroken than bankrupt!😡
No sometimes heartbroken is killing
The man trapped in overseas, I would encourage him to seek help from the Embassy there!
As others scam shows mention, the nicknames (Princess, cupcake, etc) are not just trying to show there is a “relationship,” but that the scammers are texting many people at once, and so they don’t slip and call anyone the wrong name.
I was just going to say this same thing....think of how many people they can be scamming at one time, on the same day, simply but copying/pasting the same messages over & over. And so sad that the human beings on the other end of the phone are grasping at & believing that what they're hearing is someone who loves and adores them.
A friend who had just recently retired from a successful career (and who had never married) suddenly told me this story about a guy who she met online (through a very sketchy Facebook con, BTW, whereby he "mistakenly" messaged her "thinking that she was someone else")...he had no family, was American but overseas in the Armed Services (which limited, naturally, his ability to speak with her...they mostly texted, but when he did call her, it was always rushed), so they never met but "were madly in love, he wants to build me my dream home & take care of me for the rest of our lives, I'm his Queen". I was immediately worried for her & asked "I'm sorry to ask this, and I'm happy for you if all of this is true, but some of the things you've said seem like red flags to me...has he asked you for $$??" She was immediately annoyed with me, said no, but shortly afterwards she admitted that he HAD asked her for money "only until he can access his American bank accounts & reimburse me"...and she emptied her retirement accounts to "loan" him money. I think it was around $100,000 and now she has none of that, AND she owes taxes/withdrawal penalties. Uggh. She's had to go back to work & isn't sure of her future. I (and her accountant) begged her to go to the police, but I don't think she ever did. These are crimes that feed on vulnerabilities, and then the victims are torn between not wanting to accept the truth, and not wanting to admit the truth. It's embarrassing.
Yes Queen is the red flag of Nigeria
Yeah I once knew a guy who fancied himself a notorious ladies man.
He said "I always call em Baby so I don't accidentally say the wrong name".
@@marciathehooligan9967 ugh! What a pig.
Queen was the best word
Listening to that breathy voicemail was like touching wet food in the sink
😂 omg yes! That’s exactly it
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Perfect description. I feel like I need a shower after listening to that.
SLIMY
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I've never heard of a bank requiring you give them money to get the money that's already in your account. How can anyone fall for this?
He is a 10, she is a 3. And she thinks this is real
IMO..he's a 10+ and she's a 2
This classification of people by numbers is so ridiculous! Beauty is on the eyes!
@@rodrigobonzanini8235she’s still a 2 & that’s being generous ..🙄
@@crystaljordan1632 ...this scale "from 1 to 10" does not exist... attraction is a personal thing...someone can be a 10 for me and a 1 for you, and vice versa...
@@crystaljordan1632 ... attraction is a personal thing...someone can be a "10" for me and a "1" for you, and vice versa...
Anyone who asks for money should be an immediate NO! Run immediately, man or woman.
This stuff happens all the time on Instagram. I had a nice looking lady ask me how I was. She had 1 follower but, was following many. I told her I was fine and then proceeded to ask her which scam center she worked for in Nigeria. She (he, whoever) told me to 'f' off so, I told them, okay - f'ing off and I never heard back, again.
United statians are very trusting it seems.
They trust their priests, those teleevangelists. Look up Jimmy Swaggert, Creflo Dollar, Peter Popoff, Robert Tilton, Jim Jones (Jonestown), William Lane Craig, Ron Wyatt, Ray “The Bananaman” Comfort, Kirk Cameron, Ken Ham, Kent Hovind, W.V. Grant, Kenneth Copeland, Ken Ham, Jim Baker.
They send these guys 10,000$ and more and these priests are super rich.
Give them the bank's number. Run if the bank won't loan them any money.
I agree
Absolutely.
That voice mail he left was super creepy, my dog even looked at the TV thinking it was the devil.
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Sounds like brothers back in the day in the clubs when I was young and clubbing. I knew it wasn't the White, blue eyed guy in the pictures.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 so true lol
It was terrifying! He sounded possessed!
When you are a 50 + woman, and a man you've never met face to face, calls you are " princess/queen" hellooo REDFLAG🤦🏽🤦🏽
Oh come on lady!! One look at that photo and you can see he's not batting for your team 🤦🤦🤦
They always steal gay guys photos. Compared to straight guys - especially older ones - we dress better, watch our weight, work out, moisturize, spend more $ on haircuts, and most important of all, we take a lot more selfies!
@@Sashazur Exactly
❤😊@@Sashazur
@@SashazurTrue 🥰
@Sashazur I'm gay and fat. 😂
He has a voice that will make you melt....
No. No he didn't.
The only thing that melted was her bank account.
Sounds like his mouth is full of food lmfao😂
I read this comment early on and then put my phone aside and just listened to the video. Imagine my GD SURPRISE when that voice came out of my speaker behind me. I almost pooped my pants 😱😂
“You know I still got IT. I’m 56, but I still got IT.” No Ma’am, the only thing you have is delusion and a side of debt 💸
Haha!!!! I was like what????? When I heard that voice ha! That was straight up mr Nigerian man using a crappy voice changer!
“He has a voice that can make your heart melt”
A deep Nigerian accent 😂😂😂
Sounds just like my Nigerian friend.
His voice made my skin crawl. And that kiss! 🤮
Holy Buffalo Bill voice!!!!😅
You know it, I know it . She’s stupid enough to believe it
@@JaimeMesChiens It is not about them being Nigerian, or having that accent. The implication is associated with the Nigerian prince scammers 2 or 3 decades ago.
"I'm not a person that gets easily fooled, I just happen to believe every stupid story strangers on the internet say."
They all say how smart they are. Every single woman on the channel, video after video. “I’m a very intelligent person. I’m well educated. Here’s the PIN to my bank account…..”🤦🏻♀️
He said "can you take off your make-up" and saying "atleast your real"...there's the con right there. I caught that right away. Dude thinks he's slick🤦🏾♀️
Same here. The fact ahe didn't is astonishing
He is slick… she fell for it 💯 and was so flattered she told us the story.
Lol, she doesn’t know the definition of “slick” if she thinks scammer is. Also she is using filters in this video
And knows she's a dumbass
And knows she's a dumbass......
If a guy were to ask me for a dollar we're done.
Can I borrow 50 cents haha
@@marknewton6984 I’ll send it to you 😂 only because you’re a millionaire (with frozen accounts) and I know you’ll pay it back as soon as you can. 😂😂😂
Hey, I work on an oil rig in the military and you are my Queen. I also plan on going to jail. But I am a millionaire. Are you interested? Please send $$$$ haha!
If my husband asked me for a dollar, we’re done. 😂
Girl, same
"He has the voice that will make you melt" sounds like a voice that is distorted in an FBI confession tape
Lmfao 💯
That voice that "made her melt" totally creeped me out. I immediately went around my house to make sure all my doors and windows were locked!
Fire makes things melt too and who the hell willingly wants to get burned?! It’s sad but apparently these people like to fry.
I know!.creepiest voice, sure wasn't melting my heart!
He sounds like he wants to play a game 😂
If they ever ask for money...just send all your savings immediately. You can save so much time.
😂
I told the guy I need to talk to my attorney first, never heard from him again.
They call each other kings and queens in EVERY SINGLE EPISODE!
It’s the highest compliment in Nigeria 🤭
They ask if u have eaten today too. I haven't been feeling well and my daughter asked me if I've been eating ( after I binge watched these all weekend) 😂I said "HEY ,ARE U SCAMMING ME"😂😅 ...
Yeah, I m tired of that ! How about " enough king and queen stuff. We are a democracy here,lol
@@m_b_s_l not only in nigeria
Yes ! Why is that something you want ?
"His name is Giege!"
Think that's enough right there.
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True
His name is Max Moose Advisor, that's how you know he's real
You know what I wonder? As A.I. gets better, will people be willing to knowingly pay for an A.I. relationship? Like an A.I. who texts you, calls you, with all the boxes checked in terms of what you want to be called, etc. Could it be a way to avoid these scams?
I definitely wouldn’t. Nothing beats real!!
They already have. With AI in it's rudimentary state people are paying for AI relationships.
And send in game money
Isnt there an app u pay subcriptopnto tat does tat!! It will “chat”
Wif u
Yes! Satire AI video th-cam.com/video/8VtEiHlC6Gg/w-d-xo.htmlsi=E5y3WSBgZNMv_k-E
Their script is easy:
1. Hook the victim by lovebombing
2. Scammers life falls apart, and he is out of money, so the victim needs to support them financially.
3. Victim sends money, sometimes less, sometimes more, sometimes victim tries to or sell their house, sometimes victim becomes a money mule unknowingly.
4. Victim realizes that they were scammed and are now out of money, out of life savings, and with a lot of additional debt....
I have an aunt who fell for this. It's gotten so bad that she won't pay her own rent or medical bills. She says "he needs it!". And yet she is homeless. Very delusional. 😞
Wow. That is so sad.
They prey on empathy & give you none back.
Shes financing a young African man
@@GuacamoleyNacho how do they not? I need money bcs - some random story made to make theese women feel guilt if they dont pay.. The "my mom/sister/dad or other close family" is sick i need money fpr operation" thats a common one..
Women dont work like men..
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@@GuacamoleyNachoit's both. they con their way into your life with romance and then give you all kinds of sad stories about why they need money.
"I'm not a person who gets easily fooled". Girl , you are the easiest. Just stroking your ego turns you into putty.
😂😂😂
The reason why Putin loves Trump. Say "you look less fat today" and he will say how great your plan to invade Ukraine is.
I feel sorry for women like this!
@@vickimartim176 She's pathetic but I don't feel sorry for her.
I scroll down to this comment at exactly the same time she said it lol
These people always seem to only give the physical description when asked what the catfish is like, it's never anything substantial, just looks
I know a lady being scammed right now. See won't listen to family , has borrowed $2000 from her ex husband, she lied about what the money is for, he found out & won't give anymore. She says " he loves me" . She's on the pension, rents & no savings.
. Hope now she cannot give him anymore money he disappears.
“My queen” straight out the Nigeria/Ghana scammer handbook 💀
I am a South African & I immediately recognized his voice as a Nigerian. The Nigerians are very good at scams. I have a very intelligent friend who was also caught.
Yes Nigerian scAmmmer are pathetic liars i also became their victims but I blocked him for few we are talking asking money with lots of alibis but he doesn’t want vc but I know his a Nigerian cause one time he called me he forget to off his camera then i click my camera and I happened saw him I found him in a dating site
As soon as i heard the voice i could have identify its nigerian
Ye same!
No they aren’t good. Far from it actually
@@DebbiePotter-xh7kvthey seem pretty successful at it ,the are able to make people pay thousands of dollar on average per victims ,some people even send $500k+
How delusional can she possibly be???? That woman thinks this gorgeous man LOVES her? Poor lady....it's pitiful!
Sounds like Giege is whispering so his partner doesn’t hear him cheating!
Unfortunately, she’s not talking to the real Giege, so there is no partner for him to be cheating on. He probably just doesn’t want her to be able to tell that she’s is talking to several different people, and it’s harder to recognize a voice if it’s a whisper. Poor Giege is some random guy living his life with no idea that some scammer is using his photo. There are whole teams of people in call centers somewhere in Nigeria or Ghana, working on scamming hundreds of people at once- it’s a wildly successful business.
"He had the voice that could make you melt" - I got chills listening to that voice message. Sounds like a serial killer no joke ☠
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Yessss
Me too!
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I was scared when I heard that voice!!! 😣
Every single time they play a recording from a scammer they sound like a serial killer trying to be seductive. It's so creepy. That would be an immediate turn off for me LOL.
exactly omggggg
😂😂😂
LITERALLY lool
@@ericrivera8410 right??? Exactly
These scammers are evil and find vulnerable people to victimize. It’s heartbreaking.
"vulnerable" is different to "obviously seeing and ignoring red flags"
As soon as they say he calls me his Queen, you can stop watching as you know the outcome!
He need apanage then !!
You can't "date" someone online. You can only date someone in person.
YES! I say that online “dating” is the ultimate oxymoron!
@@ditzygypsy I think online dating just refers finding people to date by using the internet instead of bars etc. people who think they’re ‘dating’ someone they’ve never met are just delusional.
"I'm not a person who is easily fooled." Uh, okay...
Fools always says that 🤠😂😂😂😂😂
Lol 😂
The belief that they can't be fooled is what makes them vulnerable. And you hear some version of it from almost all of these victims..."I'm educated...I'm intelligent...I'm nobody's fool..."
Yet she just got fooled. Look at me I am special needs & Even I know better then to buy these bull shit stories. & Send my money to complete strangers. My Money, is mine alone & not for some scammers or anyone else to take. A grown person would not need help from you a Total stranger help with their bank accounts, Ect & other things They are taken care of too if they are on a oil rig. People need to use Logic thinking instead of with their hearts.I do not feel sorry for her.
What people fail to realize is that she suffered in an abusive relationship, she lost her significant other and dealt with him being on dialysis and then raising children alone and working. This lady never stopped to take care of herself. She was too busy being oxygen for everyone else except herself. This man poured into her with the 'love bombing', she was vulnerable and he took advantage of her.
The voicemail recording of the guy talking with a deep voice had me cracking up 😂😂😂😂!
Every year i receive 2 or 3 friend invitations on fb from widowed, veteran men. Only once i accepted. The story was that his children have moved out of the house and he has a lot of money.He is bored alone and wants me to move in with him, so we van enjoy the life together. He said,he will take care of everything. But if I have a house under my name, I should sell it. I blocked him. I guess the next thing would have been after i sold my house, to transfer the money to his account.
That profile picture looked a lot like the person in this video.
When I heard “You’re my queen” that told me all I needed to know. These love 💕 bombing tactics really work especially to someone who’s had a traumatic experience. People like that should really distance themselves from online dating as they tend to miss the obvious red flags 🚩
Dating sites should have a warning and report button if anyone calls you queen in a message. Would save so many people.
@@demolazer That is so true. It is the ultimate red flag. I wish more people knew that it is a term African scammers use.
I thought the same thing, scammers ALWAYS use that phrase. HUGE red flag. I don't know one normal man who says that lol.
Exactly...that is the very first clue along with them being in love with the person.Then the asking for money starts.Also,are they always engineers LOL.
And...BABE!!! Lol !!!!
The MINUTE a stranger you never met asks for money - regardless of the circumstances- BLOCK THEM! It's up to you to not get taken for granted!!!
Mary, amen. I've gotten now when someone IM's me I don't know, within about 3 minutes, I beg their pardon for being direct, but tell them they need to know there is no situation, emergency, tragedy, or scenario under which I will give them money. I also say I don't want anyone feeling awkward, but if we start chatting much, I'm going to want a video chat or video send to confirm they are who their profile picture portrays. Scammers scatter like cockroaches when you mention video chat.
Can I have $2?
@@Nickelodeon81 Yes, but the transfer fee is $5.
@@miker3875 That's fine you can send me $7 no problems babe.
Well said. Be smart, not so lonely and desperate to open yourself to be scammed!
In every one of these I’ve seen thus far, the scammers never put in crazy effort to flatter the victim. Just “how are you? What did you eat today?” The basics 😂
"They didn't have an accent at all." Is she even hearing the voice that I heard on that recording?
Believing that you are "not easily fooled" makes you vulnerable to cons, liars, fraudsters and BSrs.
Not necessarily if you are more sophisticated than the scammers. I have a really good bs and scammer detector.
@@YS92651 Hope so.
@@YS92651 famous last words
Good point actually. In lot of these videos people say they are smart or not easily fooled which means it's hard for them to face it if they make choices that doesn't align with those beliefs.
That might of been one of the biggest mistakes I have made. I haven't been romance scammed, but we are each in different ways being scammed, whether it is the media, your kid that wants something. Question everything, believe in your innate wisdom and use common sense. Not scam proof, but it helps. None of us, not one should believe we are too smart to be scammed.
She’s a nice lady but highly, highly naive and inexperienced. I say she should stay away from any form of online dating full stop.
someone to me: "what are you doing cupcake"
me: "blocking you for calling me 'cupcake'"
I'm in the wrong business.
I love how they say, “I’m not a person who is easily fooled,” and then goes on to tell you how easily fooled they were.
hahahHajahahahHahahaha!!! yesss!
Love makes you do crazy things and being lonely doesn’t help either.
@@Aryantics agreed! This is heartbreaking. I feel so bad for her.
its probably human nature to think you are hard to fool no matter what!
Love how you stole that comment
She went from “queen” to “cupcake” bc the next scammer on shift for the day mixed up her nickname with nickname of someone else they were all scamming.
Omg yes that’s right 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂🤣 nice one eh!!
yeah that's what I thought too.
Absolutely
Wait - so are you picturing a roomful of scammers all talking to the same women in like, sceduled shifts? Ha! I never looked at it that way. So, one guy is calling her 'queen' from six am to noon and when he punches out, the next guy puts on his headset and takes over but he blows off reading the case notes, so he accidently calls her 'cupcake' from noon to six pm. Hahaha! I LOVE it!
@@eeeriebrilliance yeah, as crazy as it sounds. It’s a business with staff, managers, etc. That’s how they’re always available to talk to these women 24/7. Usually they just stick with “queen” to keep it easy, that’s why it’s so common, but I’m guessing some women don’t vibe with that so they come up with a new nickname for them and then get them mixed up sometimes.
I don’t get these woman! If you are middle aged and a man is asking for money, that’s a huge turn off!
She sent that much money and he wants 75,000.00 to UNLOCK his bank acct???? HUGE RED FLAG!!!!!!
Last night I saw another poor soul who was scammed. In what world does a person have to pay ANYTHING to unlock their account - let only $75,000! Yet the woman last night fell for that as well.
He sounds Nigerian to me
She did cough up 32k
‘You’re my Queen’ is a total red flag 😮
Intelligent women cut it off there.
It’s such an African thing to say Queen
A hansome man like this one,will never search for love on the internet! A real man will never ask for money from a woman!
There's plenty of hot scammers online. I used to do online dating. There's soooo many hot f*ckboys online. They hang out all day waiting for fresh meat.
When I saw he wore an earring in his right ear, I knew he was gay. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤪
Im a handsome older man and I have met women on the internet. Not by seeking for THAT though--so, that's true but no MAN would take a DIME from a woman. EVER. Agreed
Exactly...........never met a real man that does either. And they don't call you Queen and Cupcake when they've only known you for 2.2 seconds!
@@markmike7933 Yeah,sure....haha,I was nice....'ok,I'll say then...very good looking guys as you say,will not like a lady like this one in the video! Do you get it now?
I hate the scammers but the delusional victims make me nervous 😱
Oh goodness! This is exactly what happened to a friend. I kept telling her it was a scam! She said, I was just jealous. So sad!
If a guy you have never met calls you "queen", "baby", "booboo," etc., HE IS NOT FROM THE US!!!!
We'll use your name as well as terms of endearment, but that's because we aren't using the same messages for 100 gullible women at a time.
How can anyone believe a BANK is asking for 40k then 75k just to access their own money. Like wtf?????,
as soon as a man calls the woman a queen in the beginning i already know where this is going
When a guy ask you for money thats a red flag..And no one would give you there bank infomation.
The Nigerians are getting good at imitating a non-Nigerian accent. But the deepness of his voice and how quiet he is definitely sends the red flags
Still sounds like a 19 year old Nigerian.
Yes still sounds Nigerian
it is not imitation, it's a voice changing app
I think they just cut it out of some audio, an African or Indian would for sure have strong a** accents 😂 If you're scammed, usually it's from either of these 2 places 😂
@@catslove3884 Of course...
Red flags : they call you Queen
They want to private chat
They need money now
They’re otherwise wealthy
They love you almost instantly
A real love would not ask for money
Don’t send money to someone you NEVER MET
CJ, what does 'private chat' mean ? Chatting in the dating app? emailing? texting? I'm asking because I had a guy want my email address and I didn't want him to know my last name, so I said no, and he got mad and was suddenly no longer interested.
@@oneofthosecreativetypes24 You did the right thing. Honestly, trust no one online. I think private chat may mean they ask you to go onto Whatsapp or Kik or Snapchat (if those still exist)...platforms where you cannot see their name or number...
I'm even scared to send money to a friend who lives in another province.
Never send money period.
@@oneofthosecreativetypes24. Chating off the site.
The awful truth is that some of the victims of finance scams have travelled over to Nigeria to follow things up and were actually murdered. There are several cases that you can google.
Wowwww! Now I’m about to go down the rabbit hole 😩 I will be back to discuss lol
They all seem to be offshore!
Hes got a voice that makes me want to either laugh uncontrollably or call the cops to report a predator. Maybe even both.
Sounds like Daffy Duck has a horrible case of bronchitis and a speech impediment. “Dadadada dats all, folks!”
@@tundrawomansays694 That's porky the pig
Creepy
Lol
@@tundrawomansays694i was feeling down today but ive just laughed my tits off hi from u.k
How someone doesn’t know that’s a black man speaking is beyond me!
That was my first thought 😆 The resonance in that deep ass voice is not coming from that white guy in the photos. Come on now.
Even if it's got a voice changer on it, there's a very specific sound in that voice that you can tell is coming from a black man.
Thank you 😂🤦♀️same thing I just said
Sounded like Barry White
If she doesnt recognize Barry White's voice, damn...
Facts
This scam is so common. Poor thing. She seems like a total sweetheart. What a beautiful person she is. May all good things come her way
"I'm not a person that gets easily fooled...but" LOL
lol
"Can you take your makeup off?" That's a good one, and I'm sure many more women will fall for it 👩❤️💋👨.
I know oh dear 🤦♀️
New line to the script.
Ha, ha, will easily replace "do you model?"
First time I heard that one!
😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂
Did anyone else burst out laughing after hearing the 'voice that could make you melt'? 😆
Yes
I imagined his face... And he's not Hungarian 🤦
😂😂
No. I cringed. It was just scary.
She doesn't all have it. She probably never did
People fall in love, so they think, and their mind just goes out the window. Sad, nice people getting hurt so badly 😢
The moment they call you “My Queen” Know that he’s from Nigeria
Yess 😅😅
He’s gorgeous, you’re not. He wants money, you have some. Do the math, Diane. And surely the pic of him in a leather vest and shorts should have alerted you to the fact that he’s gay?
The part where she’s talking about his voice and then it cuts to an audio clip of the alleged accent. I just about spat my drink out in laughter. 😂 your editor needs a raise
I start to notice that most of these people are older, and their women whose husbands have passed and their lonely, and they pray on the same type of people. Do you ever find that someone who’s young and attractive gets scam like this?
Yes, the woman scammed online by a Nigerian posing as actor Dacre Montgomery (Billy in Stranger Things) is young. Late twenties. An ordinary looking lady but young..
My mother, who passed in 2020, had dementia. She met a scumbag with a criminal record at the local senior center that she let move in with her. He and his family bilked her for thousands, never paid a dime in rent, and bailed when she could no longer care for herself. I couldn't get the authorities to do anything about this because...it's her choice! So, my point is, they don't have to be from Nigeria to be a scammer.
I am so sorry to read this. It's the same here in the UK; it's very difficult to prove a person no longer has 'capacity' as they also have the right to make 'choices' until it's proved they don't. I worked with adults with MH issues and it's a very difficult one to balance.
Senior Centers are full of scam artists searching for lonely wealthy widows to take advantage of. The women are so naive they share all sorts of personal information a wise person would keep private. Instead, they share information about the value of their homes and lifestyles. Asian women are especially uncomfortable complaining about unwanted sexual advances, Many had husbands who helped them maintain sheltered existances, so when the husbands die, they have no clue how to take care of themselves, or even take reasonable precautions to be safe.
I'm so sorry to hear that predators hurt your mother & ultimately the family. I can't believe how low some humans will go.
I'm glad your mother is free from her illness & those hateful humans. I pray your family can rest & move on. 🙏
I'm so sorry your dear mother fell for that. My she rest in peace.
My father fell for the bitcoin scam. He wasted all of his money and their pensions. My parents went from well off to have nothing. We couldn't stop him - he never asked for advice before it was too late.
I will never be able to comprehend the people who can cheat and lie and have no scruples.
Imagine giving 32 thousand to a stranger that you wonder is even real.....
None of this makes any logical sense....
I’m sure scammers justify what they do because these people can apparently afford to send 32 thousand dollars, just like that.
I have people that I know would do anything for me that wouldn't give me ONE thousand dollars. Some people have more money that what they know what to do with I think sometimes. And it seems to always be the wrong people lol. Not saying this woman doesn't deserve to live in comfort but she clearly doesn't make great choices so it's hard to understand how she made choices that left her with so much disposable income.
Compared to other people it's not even that much which is wild.
The problem is that she never wondered if the guy was real or not.
I cried laughing when he starting talking in that voice message. Lmfao