Here are my main takeaways! Redefine Networking 1. Reconnect with old friends a. Reach out to old friends and renew dormant ties. Reach out with genuine interest to connect, not with an agenda. 2. Turn work friends into real friends. a. When networking, ask about hobbies and non-work interests. Research suggests the more diverse ways we connect with a person, the deeper connection we create faster. b. Find a non-work reason to connect. 3. Connect through friends of friends. a. Ask current friends, “who do you know in ____?”. b. Ask for introductions.
Thank you for this interesting & inspiring talk, I can't help but share those points: 1. Reconnect with old friends - renew dormant ties: new old connections. 2. Turn work friends into real friends 3. Connect through friends of friends. The Catchphrase : Show me your friend of a friend, & I'll show you your future.
@@andrewbotkin7916 Yeah, he looks a lot like the actor. Forget his name off the top of my head. He always plays middle-aged versions of fratty jock dudes. He was in Step Brothers as well and played Adam Scott's bro buddy.
Couldn't agree more! I've found that networking online can be helpful for introverts/shy people. I've recently made a video for networking on LinkedIn if it's helpful for people. :)
Am curious to hear people's thoughts for networking online. In our socially distant world, this seems to be an increasingly important skill as we move online.
We show this to all our clients. It's really the first step we use in coaching clients how to be better at networking and helping them evolve into the best networker than can be.
Wow, amazing... I especially like how a friend of a friend has more influence on my happiness that money. I got happy friends, but I will be on the lookout for more happy friends.
What you learn in intro to sociology is that “social capital” is not something you just can get if you’re a go-getter. It’s something that is passed from ppl with it. Meaning if you were raised by ppl w social capital they will pass it onto you. This doesn’t mean it’s impossible to gain social capital if your parents weren’t elites, but it does mean it’s a much more systemic disparity than it seems by saying just “gaining social capital”
golfing is a great way to network I've been playing for 4 years and I'm gonna go to Vegas when there will be a real estate convention. I'm not paying for the convention. Instead, I while flag people down outside and ask if they are interested in golfing with me. What is the worst that could happen? Maybe they say no, but I know someone who would, also they have a great career and could help you etc
So, the moral of this talk is: don’t befriend “obese” folks, smokers, or unhappy folks or even folks who might have friends or friends of friends who fall into any of the aforementioned categories. Personally, I’m not a fan of perpetuating stigmas of obesity, smoking, and mental illness.
Eshanth Rathaor as i see it IT networking and social networking have a lot in common each other, human mind, computers, hacking and human hacking have same principles
It is impossible to help people out of there comfort zone without getting feelings getting hurt in the process. The Problem is not them, the problem is you, not getting over our feelings.
I just step foot in the real estate business, being a little motivated but im left to find connections on my on and sometimes it just seems impossible.
Cool talk, it seems like he's are misinterpreting or misrepresenting the study regarding weight of friends-of-friends (etc.). Correlation is different than influence. Two overweight people becoming friends is a different narrative than a skinny person becoming overweight because they have an overweight friend.
Pink Pepper Aren't they using you every time you know what to do beyond what you did your first day? Social benefits are just a way to save money long term.
Reaching out to old friends and family isn't useful when you've moved to another country. Even moving to a new city or state severely limits what your "connections" can do.
Interesing show but there is a thing I cannot agree with, I believe that statistics are made of real life events, but you cannot force a real life event based on statistics.
My best friends are my computers. They are not fatty. Their friends are not fatty either. Then why am I fatty? Yeah, my computers make me happy. I'll like to gain computers and of course some online courses and documentation rather than gaining money.
It's kind of hard to support yourself, buy computers, and take online courses if you're not earning anything. Money isn't everything, but it's still a good idea to have enough to live comfortably or support your goals.
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Here are my main takeaways!
Redefine Networking
1. Reconnect with old friends
a. Reach out to old friends and renew dormant ties. Reach out with genuine interest to connect, not with an agenda.
2. Turn work friends into real friends.
a. When networking, ask about hobbies and non-work interests. Research suggests the more diverse ways we connect with a person, the deeper connection we create faster.
b. Find a non-work reason to connect.
3. Connect through friends of friends.
a. Ask current friends, “who do you know in ____?”.
b. Ask for introductions.
thanks
Thank you for this interesting & inspiring talk, I can't help but share those points:
1. Reconnect with old friends - renew dormant ties: new old connections.
2. Turn work friends into real friends
3. Connect through friends of friends.
The Catchphrase : Show me your friend of a friend, & I'll show you your future.
Good work...
Thank you
This guy was so great as the football coach in 21 Jump Street.
what does it mean? lol
andrew Botkin that he looks like the football coach from the movie, 21 jump street
@@andrewbotkin7916 Yeah, he looks a lot like the actor. Forget his name off the top of my head. He always plays middle-aged versions of fratty jock dudes. He was in Step Brothers as well and played Adam Scott's bro buddy.
"My name is Jeff."
HAHAHA
The encouragement that we who thought we are not good connectors can do this just find the right people and be genuine
Networking is so vitally important and you share such helpful points!
Couldn't agree more! I've found that networking online can be helpful for introverts/shy people. I've recently made a video for networking on LinkedIn if it's helpful for people. :)
I love it when people give actionable insects like reaching out to those friends 💪🔥
Am curious to hear people's thoughts for networking online. In our socially distant world, this seems to be an increasingly important skill as we move online.
Being very active in both real world and online networking, real networking still reigns supreme in efficiency and deepness of connections.
David's ideas are fascinating. He takes complex studies and shares the takeaway in a way that is actionable and relatable.
Who is David?
What an amazing speech! Keep up the good work David!
Awesome David, that's why I treasure and nurture friendships.
We show this to all our clients. It's really the first step we use in coaching clients how to be better at networking and helping them evolve into the best networker than can be.
Just found this video - amazing perspective in networking. Looking forward to reading the book.
Wow, amazing... I especially like how a friend of a friend has more influence on my happiness that money. I got happy friends, but I will be on the lookout for more happy friends.
You killed it. Such an original video, I appreciate this so much. Thanks for teaching from an original perspective the value of networking.
What you learn in intro to sociology is that “social capital” is not something you just can get if you’re a go-getter. It’s something that is passed from ppl with it. Meaning if you were raised by ppl w social capital they will pass it onto you. This doesn’t mean it’s impossible to gain social capital if your parents weren’t elites, but it does mean it’s a much more systemic disparity than it seems by saying just “gaining social capital”
I expected a talk on compromising IT infrastructure when I clicked on the video.
Also my social skills are a solid 0 out of 10.
Might I suggest a channel called "charisma on command"? It might help you develop some social skills
Has it improved?
He's a great story teller
What a speaker! Well done.
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Great share. I’m sharing this video with my tech club.
I’m watching this in 2023 and it really helped thank you guys for this
Great talk! I just shared a video on how to land a job at a Big 4 firm through networking ✨
golfing is a great way to network I've been playing for 4 years and I'm gonna go to Vegas when there will be a real estate convention. I'm not paying for the convention. Instead, I while flag people down outside and ask if they are interested in golfing with me. What is the worst that could happen? Maybe they say no, but I know someone who would, also they have a great career and could help you etc
So, the moral of this talk is: don’t befriend “obese” folks, smokers, or unhappy folks or even folks who might have friends or friends of friends who fall into any of the aforementioned categories. Personally, I’m not a fan of perpetuating stigmas of obesity, smoking, and mental illness.
I use my coaching business as a way to connect with people it creates small talk.
Great great talk💯💯💯. Thanks David
I just know switch, router, computer networking.
Eshanth Rathaor as i see it IT networking and social networking have a lot in common each other, human mind, computers, hacking and human hacking have same principles
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Same here. I think this video for hackers
I clicked on this video to learn how to set up a LAN network... Baited
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so important point but not all
Your true friends will help you lose weight and eat healthier.and try not to hurt your feelings as impossible as it seems.
It is impossible to help people out of there comfort zone without getting feelings getting hurt in the process. The Problem is not them, the problem is you, not getting over our feelings.
Really enjoyable speaker!
Good talk !
Reconnect with old frnds
Turn work frnds into real frnds
Connect thru frnds of frnds
Wow! Awesome video. Thank you so much.
This was awesome!
great site
I just step foot in the real estate business, being a little motivated but im left to find connections on my on and sometimes it just seems impossible.
Everybody got to be rich in social capital!!!!!!
Easy said than done
Great👌
great video
Excellent
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Amazing!
Something Fresh ❤🔛
Wow! That's some powerful stuff!
its all about money in terms of happiness here
Cool talk, it seems like he's are misinterpreting or misrepresenting the study regarding weight of friends-of-friends (etc.). Correlation is different than influence. Two overweight people becoming friends is a different narrative than a skinny person becoming overweight because they have an overweight friend.
Amazing
so what if your someone like me who dont have any friends what should i do then ?
Make some
@@kristiankayy_ heeeey
We could be friends
That waa great, thank you!
Awesome
What can I say to bring up hobbies?
I thought this would be a video on IT Networking.
Nice
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I don't have that kind of person in my social circle XD
I don't have friends so I'm set.
Jk
Divineshot 314 same story
Divineshot Steven.
Insanity Lover It's okay.
Bindu Sharma Yeah
I REALLY do not have friends!
I don't have many friends.... is that why I'm so skinny???
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Amazing, Life is all about friends and connections! = Happiness :D
"Show me your friend of a friend I will show you your future"
What's up with that painting with a crying emoji on it
Joe Pauli Seriously 😂😂
Shakespeare , Said the Dear Brutus is Not In Our Stars That WE are Underlings
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Let's say Net_working! :V
My net work at 100% retention rate is worth 13 billion per month
Well... That was not what I expected😅
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statistically significant doesnt mean practically significant. google it
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Promotion OF TWITTER
Using people to get further in your career.....
Ruth Carr Yes, being connected.
Ruth Carr c'mon.. we all do it.. why not do it better
Using people doesn't always have a negative context
Pink Pepper
Aren't they using you every time you know what to do beyond what you did your first day?
Social benefits are just a way to save money long term.
Pink Pepper
You are, so not trying to keep employees(healthy) long term is a waist of (human) resources.
Sounds like good tips. But almost everyone I know is broke and overweight. 😅
😂😂I know what you mean
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Homie I make 2600 cold contacts per day using social media
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Reaching out to old friends and family isn't useful when you've moved to another country. Even moving to a new city or state severely limits what your "connections" can do.
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Interesing show but there is a thing I cannot agree with, I believe that statistics are made of real life events, but you cannot force a real life event based on statistics.
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Do you believe in creation or evolution?
you and THOSE PPL WHO LIKED YOUR COMMENT CARES , cause you cared for at least commenting here
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@@VaughnMalecki both creating and evolution bruhv! wtf is that even a question. Stay away from Abrahmics.
might evolves to an affair
The stat connecting at the end is major BS lol
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My best friends are my computers. They are not fatty. Their friends are not fatty either. Then why am I fatty? Yeah, my computers make me happy. I'll like to gain computers and of course some online courses and documentation rather than gaining money.
It's kind of hard to support yourself, buy computers, and take online courses if you're not earning anything. Money isn't everything, but it's still a good idea to have enough to live comfortably or support your goals.
What rubbish, really.
Amazing, Life is all about friends and connections! = Happiness :D