Flirting- A Christian’s Guide

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  • ‘Flirting- A Christian’s Guide‘
    Yep, we believe it’s okay for a Christian to flirt. But don’t abuse it! When trying to get that guy or girl to notice you, there are some things you should be mindful of. Here are our best healthy flirting tips :)
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  • @PaulandMorgan
    @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +208

    Alright, Fam, let’s hear your thoughts on Christians flirting :)
    Do you agree with where we are coming from? Or do you see things differently? Love you guys!❤️

    • @paulbenish8982
      @paulbenish8982 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      You guys read my mind. This is the video I was about to ask for

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Paul Benish good to hear, Paul!

    • @abigailhattersley7220
      @abigailhattersley7220 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I totally agree with what you said in this video! This was very helpful! Thank you!😁

    • @lexisellers828
      @lexisellers828 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree with y'alls point of view!!❤❤ right on with this video🔥🤙

    • @suzyjean3764
      @suzyjean3764 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes! I agree! And also I am glad that told the guys to step up and be a man. So good!! Amen to that!

  • @erickillmonger1101
    @erickillmonger1101 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1104

    I was looking through the book of numbers and realized I don't have yours🤔

    • @madisonmclendon7191
      @madisonmclendon7191 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      King Wavy yes.

    • @erickillmonger1101
      @erickillmonger1101 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@madisonmclendon7191 holy CRAP did that actually work 😱😱😅

    • @Hermandesigns123
      @Hermandesigns123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      King Wavy haha

    • @annafebland4460
      @annafebland4460 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      King Wavy I know when I saw the video from John Crist (I caught you lol) I like fell on the floor when I heard that:

    • @erickillmonger1101
      @erickillmonger1101 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@annafebland4460 dang it, you caught me 😅😅

  • @T-She-Go
    @T-She-Go 5 ปีที่แล้ว +510

    "If I march around you seven times, will you fall for me?" I love that line :D

  • @sunshinehurricane1139
    @sunshinehurricane1139 5 ปีที่แล้ว +532

    I'm sorry I just have to say Morgan always has the best looking hair

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Sunshine Hurricane awe hehe thank you❤️❤️

    • @annabellesiegel4335
      @annabellesiegel4335 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sunshine Hurricane is that a flirt

    • @sunshinehurricane1139
      @sunshinehurricane1139 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@PaulandMorgan your welcome 😍

    • @hilary1014
      @hilary1014 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      oh my gosh i was thinking the exact same thing!

    • @ellihighfill8189
      @ellihighfill8189 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yesssss!!!!

  • @raewynshaw462
    @raewynshaw462 5 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Eye contact, the only type of contact allowed.

  • @CourageDearHeart316
    @CourageDearHeart316 5 ปีที่แล้ว +458

    I am not being mean but if he is not funny, I am not gonna laugh. I personally believe that I have to enjoy his humor and be honest about it. After all, he is the guy imma spend the rest of my life with.

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      Right, and if his humor truly repels you, good chance he’s not right for you😊

    • @beulaho
      @beulaho 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      A guy once said a terrible joke, then repeated it, then said "Did you even hear me? Why didn't you laugh?"
      I said "Yes, I heard you. It just wasn't a funny joke!" 😂 We still talk every now and again, but he's wise enough to keep things serious 😋🤭

    • @samsmusichub
      @samsmusichub 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I would agree with this. Me and my fellow Christian bros would like to earn your laughs instead of being gifted sympathy laughs.

    • @LivingTrancefully
      @LivingTrancefully 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Princess Bina Chosen this idea that there is pressure to make a woman laugh is ridiculous. we can have an enjoyable relationship without cracking jokes constantly. you can find laughter without humor.

    • @carolineurena8509
      @carolineurena8509 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I'm pretty sure what they meant was that some people (like Morgan's friend) don't laugh at the joke because they're nervous, not necessarily because they don't find it funny... Also, if you don't enjoy his humor then you might not want to spend the rest of your life with. :)

  • @cheyannlematrix
    @cheyannlematrix 5 ปีที่แล้ว +316

    I think it's okay to flirt. As long as it's in a Godly way and you REALLY like them, and not just leading them on or doing to try and make someone else jealous.

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Alaska Jones exactly!

    • @diaa2841
      @diaa2841 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Motivation is very important, don't play dirty games😉

    • @tskjesusfreak
      @tskjesusfreak 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      No, affairs happen, so don't even come close to flirting with someone of the opposite sex.

    • @kaylenejantjes8113
      @kaylenejantjes8113 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Flirting in a godly way? What would that look like?

    • @irinaamariei1705
      @irinaamariei1705 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That's right. If two persons like each other they will flirt without even realising it. I mean a guy will make eye contact, will try to be in the same group to the girl, be funny around the girl he likes, and same for girls, they will laugh at his jokes, play with they hair, etc.
      As long as you have good intentions,if you are truly interested in somebody I think it's perfectly ok to flirt.

  • @carleedanielle13
    @carleedanielle13 5 ปีที่แล้ว +291

    I have always enjoyed when a boy I was interested in said my name! Good tip!

    • @aidylweiss.
      @aidylweiss. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Carlee Sadler Reminds me of this Brooke Fraser lyric that I love: "I could write a million songs about the way you say my name." :)

    • @View-sc8wf
      @View-sc8wf 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Carlee Sadler or when they say a nickname. Like how my name is Sophia, whenever a guy calls me Sophie, not only does he get my attention more but I know almost instantaneously that he likes me lol

    • @nick624179
      @nick624179 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      People love when someone says their name

  • @sarahjuntunen5884
    @sarahjuntunen5884 5 ปีที่แล้ว +324

    Guys, be a gentleman! Even the little things like holding a door open, mean so much to a girl. She will notice if you do it, and she will notice if you don't.
    Personally, one of my main requirements for dating/marrying if that the man is a gentelman.

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      This is true

    • @sarahjuntunen5884
      @sarahjuntunen5884 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@PaulandMorgan thanks for the reply, love you guys😀!

    • @hopefitzpatrick6484
      @hopefitzpatrick6484 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sarah Juntunen Absolutely 👏👏👏

    • @gods_messenges1191
      @gods_messenges1191 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PaulandMorgan yea it is true my friends

    • @Coleslaw97
      @Coleslaw97 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Sarah Juntunen, wow, i am so glad to hear that girls still appreciate chivalry!

  • @eshtonadams8121
    @eshtonadams8121 5 ปีที่แล้ว +225

    Flirtings cool when you know your limit and intentions😌🔥

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      eshton adams right on!

    • @diaa2841
      @diaa2841 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes, limits!👍

    • @tskjesusfreak
      @tskjesusfreak 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      No, affairs happen. That is why I can't flirt with any woman.

    • @eshtonadams8121
      @eshtonadams8121 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tskjesusfreak then you're doing it wrong buddy.... then you needa change the limit your flirting goes to, don't flirt to the point where it seems like you're tryna have an affair

    • @tskjesusfreak
      @tskjesusfreak 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@eshtonadams8121 it starts out that way. I'm getting advice from the reformed perspective. Guys like John MacArthur, Steve Lawson, James White, Paul Washer and the late R C Sproul. They all say one should not flirt.

  • @sarahmatos1658
    @sarahmatos1658 5 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    Morgan’s hair literally ALWAYS looks incredible. Drop a hair routine girl!! I’m struggling over here 😂😂

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Haha you're sweet! :P

    • @cindyhampson5859
      @cindyhampson5859 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Just be you Sarah! God made you beautiful! Your value is not in your hair

  • @grantprairie5307
    @grantprairie5307 5 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    Just quote Song of Songs and tell her that her neck is like a tower of Babylon. Worked for Solomon: the man did get married 700 times...
    Why am I still single?...haha...ha...

  • @rachelmoore4438
    @rachelmoore4438 5 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    So I have been flirting a lot with this guy for a few months and he finally took the first step and we are dating now! We have been twice and we are going out again soon.

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      YAY!! :)

    • @arabian_empress
      @arabian_empress 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Hows it going 8 months down the line?

    • @Moosewoodworks
      @Moosewoodworks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Update?!?!

    • @meanmasherttv3285
      @meanmasherttv3285 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      How did it go?

    • @rachelmoore4438
      @rachelmoore4438 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@meanmasherttv3285 oh my gosh that's been so long ago! We dated for a month and then I realized we would be better as friends. There really wasn't any spark ig. I was right and we are still close. He even helps me try and get other guys. I haven't seen him in a while but we will see each other soon!

  • @AnnaPotts818swifferbaby
    @AnnaPotts818swifferbaby 5 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I'm Soo shy! Flirting is honestly talking for me lol

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      You have to determine what flirting is for you, what you are comfortable doing! :)

    • @Marie-oh8es
      @Marie-oh8es 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same😂 I just never know what to say

    • @Moosewoodworks
      @Moosewoodworks 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PaulandMorgan Wow, that really makes since. I always get anxiety when watching these types of videos bc of how different everyone’s style is but this video helped me a lot, thank you. I’ve had a crush on this girl all my life as I’ve know her since I was born through Sunday school but I’ve always been so scared because of how beautiful and KIND and crazy she is. But I feel like since my interest in her has never gone away that maybe it’s a sign from God so it’s prob about time I really get out there. There’s just one issue. I’m a freshman and she’s a junior in high school but luckily I’m not a small freshman lol. Tbh it is a little intimidating tho bc of that lol.

  • @nissihires3518
    @nissihires3518 5 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    I was literally hoping someone would do a video on Christian flirting, and who better to do it then y'all! Thank you!

  • @duct_tapeheart6484
    @duct_tapeheart6484 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Omg. Im 27 yall... TWENTY SEVEN!!! 🙈 I've rededicated my heart and purity to Christ, I moved back home to my college town and serve in my local youth ministry and with the most awesome kids at work...HOWEVER, my dating pool has been dry for years lol. You hear me?!!! 😩 I had a crush on an old schoolmate long distance. Then I told him so, and he was like "no ma'am!" lol... I thought... He loves kids, I love kids, he's single, I'm single, we both love Jesus, made occasional eye contact in the library- maybe his heart skipped a beat like mine! ...nope! *sigh
    So that was embarrassing, but he didn't stop liking my stuff on social media even though I unfollowed him in an attempt to disappear... Which proves it wasn't as cringey as I thought. However, THASSIT!!! That's almost a year's worth of romance 🙈 I'm lowkey thinking I should join a convent (those gals get to do all kinds of missions trips FO FREE!!! 😍 )

  • @thomashouk5434
    @thomashouk5434 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    My mother taught me to be the one walking closest to the street, which is one rarely mentioned. God bless you and thank you for a great video!

  • @erikabutterfly
    @erikabutterfly 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I think the most important element is trusting God, praying about and for whoever you are interested in.

  • @megandelli1
    @megandelli1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    I totally agree with you guys on this. Especially the saying the name part! When my husband says my name I'm taken aback a little and feel butterflies! I know this wasn't the point of the video, but your video really reminded me to flirt more with my husband because it's so easy to forget that!

  • @aletheamarie1341
    @aletheamarie1341 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I like that at the end of the video ya'll said "we'd like to hear your opinion so we can have a conversation about it"... That is HUGE. Even if people disagree with them these youtubers want a conversation. Yes you heard right. Wow. :) Two thumbs up here. And I also love the vid.

  • @Emily-ok1nq
    @Emily-ok1nq 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Coming from a 17 year old who’s never dated and genuinely doesn’t know how to flirt...thank you :)

    • @tskjesusfreak
      @tskjesusfreak 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I disagree with that. Flirting should only happen between a husband and a wife only. Flirting leads to sins like affairs, sex outside of marriage, and lusting. Start listening to John MacArthur, Steve Lawson, James White, R C Sproul, and other reformed guys. They never flirted outside of their marriages and have wonderful marriages.

    • @account10558
      @account10558 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@tskjesusfreak Flirting shows someone that you're interested, I have no idea what you're talking about 😂

    • @chocogirlxo5608
      @chocogirlxo5608 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol the definition of me...twinsies 😊

  • @mollyprins3930
    @mollyprins3930 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Does anyone else think it’s funny that Morgan Cat Statue just causally sits in the background? 😂

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😺😼😺😼

    • @carolineurena8509
      @carolineurena8509 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      YES! I was waiting for someone else to comment on it xDDDD

    • @semire1111
      @semire1111 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kinda weird

  • @mada7393
    @mada7393 5 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    “ Hii👀🙂” 🤣🤣Morgan, your hair looks gorgeous😍

  • @Estiexo
    @Estiexo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Yep I needed this im that girl who avoids the guy they like smh. This helped a lot though so thanks :)

    • @meganhassenkamp5303
      @meganhassenkamp5303 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Estie P haha me too 😂

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      haha you have to be confident in yourself and then that confidence will flow into how to present yourself to others

    • @leahh.5107
      @leahh.5107 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same. This video was helpful. 😂 I don't know what I'm doing.

    • @omphashandukani6524
      @omphashandukani6524 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Estie P I’m also in the same boat.

    • @randomperson-zs5wb
      @randomperson-zs5wb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is so me 😭

  • @maryc8502
    @maryc8502 5 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    I know way too many single women that really wanted to get married and never did because they never showed interest. I wouldnt show interest in most cases and i almost missed getting married for not allowing myself for guys to approach me (including my husband in first instances )My husband called me (cuz he lived in a different state) after my Bible school graduation to congratulate me and we werent friends so I just knew from that call that he was interested...my husband was bold and intentional.

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Love that! Thanks for sharing, Mary😊

    • @virgeleyp.4040
      @virgeleyp.4040 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes thanks for sharing!!! ♥️ because i always reject a guy and say “I’ll wait for what God will say” in my mind and purposely ignore them. And wasn’t taught how to show interest.

    • @johnpeake3560
      @johnpeake3560 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mary C m

    • @johnpeake3560
      @johnpeake3560 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Paul and Morgan h

    • @LivingTrancefully
      @LivingTrancefully 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mary C when I’m bold and intentional, pursue the girl, they tell me they want a man who doesn’t care about them. Christian women. Let me ask you, were his looks very important to you? For example, if he was ugly but treated you the way he did, would you still have married him?

  • @cstanard10
    @cstanard10 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    You both make me laugh so much!!! The awkward “hiiiiiii” 😂 You’re so informative, relevant, practical, entertaining, and you speak TRUTH!! Your content is solid. Thank you! ♥️♥️

  • @joshuadiaz6777
    @joshuadiaz6777 5 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    You guys are so enjoyable to watch. Love all your vids. 💯⚡️

  • @beautifulworth8309
    @beautifulworth8309 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Morgan, your hair looks sooo pretty!!! Also, I am very bubbly like you and it was good to hear that I can just tone it down sometimes cause it does seem like I have a flirty personality. Yall are a beautiful couple. God bless.

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're sweet! And of course you can tone it down! It is not wrong to be bubbly, everyone just has to learn how to present themselves most effectively! :)

  • @saharbrown1751
    @saharbrown1751 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Yes! It's really helpful to me that you guys are talking about this from a christian perspective❤

  • @dragonairbender1796
    @dragonairbender1796 5 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    Impress those girls with those Bible versus

    • @eymerich6872
      @eymerich6872 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I think this is gonna be a hit guys try it while flirting !! Timothy 2:11 "Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection…" pretty sure she will be impressed :P

    • @fionandanu9060
      @fionandanu9060 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@eymerich6872 Nope , actually that hurts my ears

    • @fionandanu9060
      @fionandanu9060 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tell 'em!

    • @nick624179
      @nick624179 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, tell a girl "your hair is like a flock of goats"

  • @ruthbarboza4609
    @ruthbarboza4609 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    I always avoid the boys that I like 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @nick624179
      @nick624179 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I assume that a girl acting like that doesn't like me. The things we do...

    • @ruthbarboza4609
      @ruthbarboza4609 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      nick 😀

  • @rebeccadurden4281
    @rebeccadurden4281 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The laughing thing is such a great one for me. I have always been the class clown and the person who likes to make people laugh so if I notice someone who genuinely laughs (or at least pretends to) it really stands out to me! Love this video!

  • @jeanmarieperez8528
    @jeanmarieperez8528 5 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    amen amen, needed this. Thank you so much for your point of view on this aspect. It’s very helpful!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jeanmarie Perez so glad to hear that! ❤️

  • @lattesdarling
    @lattesdarling 5 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Of course!!! Flirting is so important!!❤️

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      lattesdarling 😄😄❤️

    • @sierrab489
      @sierrab489 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Honestly, without ANY flirting at all it's not only harder to approach someone but also it can be really weird when you do because neither one of you has any clue that the other had interest in you in the first place haha it's kind of a necessity in a way. XD plus.. it's also a little fun 😏

    • @diaa2841
      @diaa2841 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sierrab489 agree with you! Flirting is needed, but just in right way😉

    • @tskjesusfreak
      @tskjesusfreak 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Disagree with the whole notion of flirting. Why? Affairs happen. Only flirt with your spouse. If you don't have a spouse flirting still can be dangerous. Don't ever flirt.

    • @DeathxStrike18
      @DeathxStrike18 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Flirting is a form of fornication if your looking for the person your meant to be with Pray to the Lord Jesus Christ to show you who your supposed to be with and a sign to be certain their the one you dont need to date God will bring you togeather if you ask and have faith. I prayed to God and 2 days later got a text message from the person I'm ment to be with after they said they had this strange urge to call me and see how I was doing God is the greatest dating app because he knows who your ment to be with before you and knows who's right for you.

  • @fionandanu9060
    @fionandanu9060 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Is your name Faith? Coz you're the substance of things I've hoped for

  • @osselot
    @osselot 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Thank you for your vids! I watched ur last one on spiritual gifts, and it came at just the right time. For the past few weeks, God has been putting it on my heart that I have the gift of prophecy. When I went to church our youth pastors sermon was talking about spiritual gifts, and he said "I pray that some of you will have the gift of prophecy" and I knew God was talking to me. So I prayed with my youth pastor and we talked about it, and I'm really excited to use my gift. Ik I left some of the details out, but I do know that God has given me this gift. So basically can u guys pray for me that i can use this gift to help others?
    P.S God has been speaking to me too! Like he has told me sooooo much about me, and what he wants me to do, which is super cool. Love your videos! Keep up the good work!💜💜💜💜

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Katie That’s so cool! Praise God, that’s a really special gift!

  • @mahalashelby381
    @mahalashelby381 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lovedddd the video! Been watching for the past two weeks now and have been on a Paul and Morgan marathon all evening lol. Keep up the great work!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      awe that's so sweet! Thank you :)

  • @joannalambright738
    @joannalambright738 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Ahhhhh!!!!!!! I love you Paul & Morgan!!!!😍😍🔥 amazing video💗💗

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aweee you’re awesome Joanna😊❤️

  • @monanana-04
    @monanana-04 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Omigosh, yasss😍😍 saying their name is truly such a good tool! I love it when ppl ya my name. It’s kinda shows(to me) that they are truly interested in talking to me. It’s gahh so interesting and effective!

  • @hopep8371
    @hopep8371 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Love this video! Something that I’ve noticed on a few dates that is “good weird” is when the guy will come over to open my car door for me before getting in on his side! It’s clearly intentional and no one really does that nowadays!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's a good tip for guys too :)

    • @HeatherJaneBirkeland
      @HeatherJaneBirkeland 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hope P the guy I’m trying to know did that a couple of times too!!!

  • @priscillaahlers
    @priscillaahlers 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh my gosh saying, the name thing is so true! I love when people say my name. It makes my heart so happy ❤️

  • @michaelsaviano2802
    @michaelsaviano2802 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ahhh seeing that fresh shave on Paul is a good sight😂. In all seriousness though, I needed this video. Thanks guys, I love you both, hopefully this retreat happens bc it would be so exciting to meet you both !

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      haha yes! And we hope the retreat happens too! We would love to meet you! :)

  • @hannahmarie7112
    @hannahmarie7112 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you guys! This couldn’t have come at a better time! 💛 Could y’all make a video about you journey and testimony of speaking in tongues? Thanks and love you guys!😊❤️

  • @TheChocchipcookie
    @TheChocchipcookie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this! So helpful to hear it’s okay to show that you notice someone and like them without feeling guilty or weird about it. Loved this video.

  • @Sarahannamaria
    @Sarahannamaria 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Yeah I have that happy bubbly personality that gets every guy to misunderstand me... 😄

  • @JamesPrime1
    @JamesPrime1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Everyone knows that the best way to show interest in someone is to:
    1. Stay as far away from them as possible.
    2. Say absolutely nothing.
    3. Avoid any and all eye contact
    4. Ask God why they don’t like you.
    Or am I doing it wrong?

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha no, no...that's perfect! :P

  • @abbeymorrison5431
    @abbeymorrison5431 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you so much for making this video!! I am one of those awkward girls and I accidentally avoid the guys I find attractive sometimes and this video was SUPER helpful!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      We're glad you found it helpful! :)

  • @kellynorthern3612
    @kellynorthern3612 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is great! and Morgan thanks for the advice about being aware if you are too bubbly or outgoing and how that can deter a guy without you trying. I’m naturally super friendly towards EVERYONE so I find it hard to know where the line is in still being my true self but also how to make it apparent that I’m interested in someone

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, you have to be yourself no matter! God has created you in a special way :) now to figure out how to best express that to others :)

  • @mbabaziguma
    @mbabaziguma 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Morgan said, "wear your hair down and play with it"... So, what do girls who have afros and whose hair goes up and not down do?
    Otherwise, fun video!!💕💕 Keep on keepin' on!

    • @braylap
      @braylap 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mbabazi Guma good point

    • @dejacurry2741
      @dejacurry2741 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Girl, I guess just twist your puff. Look like you enjoying the conversation. Haha.

    • @anaf6984
      @anaf6984 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think she meant if you have long hair.

    • @mbabaziguma
      @mbabaziguma 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@braylap Thank you!

    • @mbabaziguma
      @mbabaziguma 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@dejacurry2741 LOL😂😂😂 good one!

  • @gabNordmusic
    @gabNordmusic 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I think I’ve only watched three of your videos so far, and I loved them all a lot. Thank you guys for making these videos and helping your fellow brothers and sisters out. You guys are such a cute couple

  • @samy7789
    @samy7789 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    you guys fill so many gaps when it comes to my knowledge about dating as a Christian so thank you for making these videos (esp because im heading off to college in the fall)!!!

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for your support! And good luck next fall!! :)

  • @shanerothman4357
    @shanerothman4357 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for making this video. My wife and I just watched. We also should guard our hearts in case the person isnt interested. This happened to me a few times and it was really good, so it wasnt awkward around them and could still je friends.

  • @jessimitchell2051
    @jessimitchell2051 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am SO GLAD that you two put out this video!! I cannot flirt for the life of me and it really bothers me. I don't know what to do around guys who I am interested in. I freeze up, am super awkward, or simply avoid them. But I don't like that this is how I act around guys I am interested. I want to know how to flirt in a normal way that is not over powering but is obvious. I am also 20 and have never been in a relationship, so I do not have any past flirting experience to help me haha. So yes, I think it is fine for Christians to flirt... with someone that they are genuinely interested in. But I disagree with flirting with everyone or just trying to lead people on, because that is playing with emotions which is not okay. Paul and Morgan, THANK YOU for your tips to flirting! I would love even another video (maybe collab with other TH-camrs) where you can talk about this topic more and give more tips.

  • @Lisa-xp5qj
    @Lisa-xp5qj 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love the last part 😂😂😂smelling her hair!!! You guys give good advise this is great thank you and keep posting videos.

  • @kennadikeck7048
    @kennadikeck7048 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh my lands I love this video.😂😁 I really appreciate the points you made while still recognizing that it's not a "game" per se. Well done.

  • @ashgohard
    @ashgohard ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I truly respect what you two are doing I think it’s amazing !!

  • @anna-rebeccajohnson9480
    @anna-rebeccajohnson9480 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    @Morgan, I 100% understand you. We have similar personalities, and one time my best friend said “No offense, but sometimes guys think you’re flirting with them, because you giggle a lot.” 😂 The bubbly personality struggle is REAL.
    Love to watch y’all. I recently started a channel, and y’all were a huge inspiration in why I wanted to do that. Keep it up! 💕

  • @KendraMBrandon
    @KendraMBrandon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Paul and Morgan, I love watching you’re videos; they definitely make me think! 😀 Just a suggestion... it would be really cool if you guys made a video on what it looks like when a guy pursues a girl in a genuine, God- honoring way. Thank you for all you are doing!!

  • @kealrae3247
    @kealrae3247 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've been watching you're channel alot lately on all topics of love, dating, relationships and everything to do with this subject. I'm interested in a guy in my youth group n hes intrested in me. I just want all the Christian advice I can get. Thanks for being a youtuber who's open about their faith and the topics church's dont talk about often love you guys!

  • @hannahdonaldson9537
    @hannahdonaldson9537 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    GOALS. I pray that someday I have a relationship as genuine and Godly as you guys clearly have.❤️

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God will bring the right one in the right time :)

  • @petralines1376
    @petralines1376 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I totally feel that part about the bubbly personality. There are guys that think I like them when I totally didn't mean that. This does make it harder because I can't tell how the guy I actually do like feels about me. I just discovered and love your videos! Thank you for answering these types of questions from a Christian perspective!

  • @ItsAshHun
    @ItsAshHun 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    LOL PAUL THE END when you sniffed her hair 😂😂 Oh my I love you guys so much and love this video! Also, thanks to you guys for giving me the idea of going on prayer walks because I felt really stressed out with school today, so when I got home I went for a walk and listened to worship music the whole time and I just had this really long conversation with myself and God in my head and it really helped to just calm me down. 🧡 Unfortunately, it’s time to study for my anatomy and physiology test now 😆

  • @walkingwithH
    @walkingwithH 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey guys! I wanna encourage you for the good work you’re doing in the kingdom!❤️
    I really felt on my heart to share with you guys that the Lord is challenging you to grow more in the revelation of what it means to involve the Holy Spirit into the journeys of dating and marriage!
    So I encourage to pray on that, I believe God specifically wants to speak to you and take you deeper into these topics💛
    I am so blessed by your ministryy and beautiful anthenticity, may God take care of you more and more!💓

  • @dianasimina
    @dianasimina 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This video came out too late for meee 😢😂 now i'm married but i totally agree with you guys and i soo needed that back in my single days!
    In the 4 years after i got baptized and before getting married this summer, I actually struggled with flirting and i kinda had some problems (who got very known from the whole church, and it's a big church - hundreds of people...) with a guy from my church. I also have a very outgoing personality like you Morgan, and this happened in the period when i just got into the church, i was new in faith and didn't rly know how to behave as a christian. And I met this guy and i was all nice and ME with him and of course he thought i liked him, and he fell in love with me (in my defence, during 2 weeks) and it got a bit nasty.. I had to tell him that i don't like him in the same way, he didn't understand why because i was so nice to him, our pastor heard about the whole thing, he called me and said he wants to talk to me, the whole church heard something about it at jumped at conclusions and I turned out to be the bad guy who hunts and hurts little nice christians. And it was 2 years before he got over me and before people in the church let me forget about it and it was tough for me, being at the very beginning in my walk in faith, to go through that and not turn back to my old life, because it was tempting... but Jesus was holding me with His birth hands ♥️ And it was tough to learn how to back down a bit, i turned out pushing every guy away without even realising, because i was trying to be the exact opposite of how I normally am, until a guy told me to get off my "back off" sign from my forehead 😂 only then i realized how bad it was 😂 and I came to the conclusion that I have to back down from flirting for a while and focus on my relationship with God. And i've done so util last year when I met my husband 😁♥️ So everyone, take this flirting thing serious enough because it can turn out bad for someone...
    And story No.2, my husband, while we were dating, told the most not funny jokes 😂.. but i love him and i learned to love his kind of humor and his jokes ♥️ and now i genuinely think they are funny, i just used to have a different taste of humor, i still have it but i made room for his too 😁 so don't be so harsh about it, try to see where this person is coming from. If he/she is a good christian he/she won't tell bad/missoginist/racists/etc jokes so there's nothing that you can't try to accept and end up to like or even love, because trust me, in a future marriage there will be a lot of compromise - the jokes will be the easy part 👍
    (Sorry for the novel, i just felt that I have to share)

    • @dianasimina
      @dianasimina 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      but Jesus was holding me with His BOTH* hands 😂 sry autocorrect....

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for sharing! That's is awesome! :)

    • @semire1111
      @semire1111 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't date as a teen. There is a time for everything. Enter Into a PURPOSEFUL RELATIONSHIP; when ur ready for marriage

    • @kimberlyjennings618
      @kimberlyjennings618 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Aw thanks for sharing!

  • @graciemcgrane2056
    @graciemcgrane2056 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    “I will give an authentic response...”
    *goes and smells hair* -Paul 2018 😂

  • @heathersolly51
    @heathersolly51 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for this video!!!! I was just thinking about this the other day, perfect timing! 💛

  • @monicamarie4986
    @monicamarie4986 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    🤓📝 (taking notes)
    1.Hey Sarah ...
    2. Staring contest
    3.LOL
    Jk.
    Awesome video guys!!!
    Love youuuu guyyyyss!!!

  • @jujupianolover
    @jujupianolover 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is such a good video :)) thanks for such a timely message!

  • @keilaniaraniva4793
    @keilaniaraniva4793 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I LOVED this video!! I definitely agree on where you're coming from...keep up the good work!

  • @kassidyhench299
    @kassidyhench299 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I loved this!! The part when you talked about girls who just avoid the guy they like/are unintentionally rude is SOO true! I know so many girls who are like that. 😅 My husband and I started dating in high school and I definitely made it clear that I liked him cuz I wasn’t messing around. 😂 Flirting is so important, how are you ever going to start a relationship without showing interest? 🤷🏼‍♀️
    Love you guys and your videos!! 💗

  • @Chryslerdealership
    @Chryslerdealership 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You both are so cute together!! :) (I hope that doesn't sound weird lol). I hope I will find a guy like Paul who loves God, has humor, and can sing, and that my future relationship will be just as godly as yours'! Thank you so much for this channel!!

  • @emileebeausoleil7937
    @emileebeausoleil7937 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    hahaha I love you guys!! i was smiling through the whole video. :) you are doing great things, keep being awesome!

  • @liveyourbest
    @liveyourbest 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Christians aren’t allowed to flirt..? When did anyone ever say rhat nonsense...I’m a transitional Christian and I flirt all the time and love to do so as well😂

  • @megtoholke825
    @megtoholke825 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    LOVE LOVE LOVE this video!! Thank you so much for putting this view forward, definitely agree with your points! X

  • @gabriellefoster3731
    @gabriellefoster3731 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ok I LOVED this! It’s so hard for me to know how to actually interact with a guy I might be interested in and I agree 100% with the guys advice about getting out there! Thanks for the awesome video!

  • @vanzrox1
    @vanzrox1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Morgans role play/awkward laugh scene @ 1.55.... Been there, done that!
    and the 'being rude' part applies too :)

  • @sandraelizabeth1347
    @sandraelizabeth1347 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Morgan is so pretty❤❤ the role play at the end when Paul smells Morgan's hair😂 I died😂😂

  • @denisebuliga990
    @denisebuliga990 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I LOVE this video :) SUCH great advice & and I especially enjoyed the ending, hair-smelling lol.

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your support! :)

  • @beulaho
    @beulaho 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was just thinking about you two (it almost seems like I'm flirting 🤣) then by chance I saw a notification that you had uploaded a video! 👏🏾

  • @lydiameriana3154
    @lydiameriana3154 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thank you so much for your videos btw!!! they're SO helpful for me - just what I needed, god brought me hear after many prayers :)

  • @cheyannlematrix
    @cheyannlematrix 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is a very good video!!! I got inspired!! Thank you both.

  • @tavernwenchreads
    @tavernwenchreads 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This could not have been uploaded at a better time!

  • @Hermandesigns123
    @Hermandesigns123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Paul you said about taking the hit from the car if necessary
    to protect her! Love that 😂

  • @KellBell-oz3cu
    @KellBell-oz3cu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This very is one I was looking for! 😱😄 thank you!

  • @meanmasherttv3285
    @meanmasherttv3285 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I thank you guys for this. As an adult who has recently found faith and lived quite a different life prior to Christ, Im clueless on how to flirt because I'm used to taking it across the line. Thank you guys for sharing these tips!

  • @Jesulover95
    @Jesulover95 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video! Definitely helpful from a girl's perceptive about receiving compliments and other positivity from men! Thank you Paul and Morgan for your advice! BTW your hair looks awesome in this video Morgan! Peace

  • @noblepuzzler1536
    @noblepuzzler1536 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    The name one is so true! If a guy says my name, especially if he has a nice voice, it plucks my heart strings!

  • @ladyjoyarcher1187
    @ladyjoyarcher1187 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really appreciate you guys as a couple addressing the nuances in Christian interactions , esp in the modern era - whereas most Christian relationship books have been based off marriage or for engaged couples, from a previous era. I actually have the opposite problem; I’m introverted& quiet. Not that I’ve low self esteem, but that I watch and amylose everyone & interject when somethings important. However, there’s a lot of bold, controlling girls younger than me w/ more $ who I mentor that have informed me they’re obsessed with the Sam guy I’ve been keeping an eye on. I haven’t told them that, because they are also very controlling & tend to dominant any interactions as a group. I couldn’t agree more w/ u both that girls shouldn’t peruse the guy constantly in conversation txts & posts on fb or esp asking them out because God put the man in charge of everything; but they believe “it’s the 21st century, everyone equal, I’m perfectly caliber of asking him to date me even though I’d never propose”. So, it was refreshing 4 me to hear your friend in another video w/ all the guys comment that quiet girls can be Attractive as well. I guess I’m wondering how quiet guys peruse a women, when all the Christian dating books are saying ‘he has to know what he’s persuing first; go add him on fb & start a conversion, go up & say hi to him first’ & where that fine line is between us quiet girls being completely ignored from church cliques again & being perceived as persuing the guy.

  • @richardcuadra1094
    @richardcuadra1094 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very cool and informative video thank you for sharing your videos help me in my day-to-day Life as a Christian starting to have a relationship with the opposite sex as a Christian be coming a better person a better Christian

  • @kirstenwillemse4663
    @kirstenwillemse4663 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love you guys! You always make my day! 🤗

  • @maeganjames2490
    @maeganjames2490 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    These are really good pieces of advice! Even though I'm not going to date anyone any time soon, I'm glad that I watched this video.

  • @An19941
    @An19941 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Oh man, the bubbly thing has been an issue for me SO many times and it's something I've been worried about now that I actually think I may have met "The One'' (who's in Australia right now, so thank the Lord that I have some time to practice this pulling back thing).
    Thank you for opening my eyes and helping me realize that pulling back in an option lol!
    And for the tips, nearly all are pretty "scary" to me (except for laughing, smiling and cute nervous ticks since those happen naturally), because love is one big bawl of nerves and leaving your comfortzone, I'll try them out once he's returned (in February, so I've got some time to get used to the idea of flirting (in a way that is a little more obvious while still subtle) with him :P)

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      It doesn't need to be scary! Just practice being clam and relaxed. Be yourself, and good luck with your guy!:)

    • @An19941
      @An19941 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PaulandMorgan aww thanks for the advice, that's something I'll focus on. I will, always. Thanks, if there's a development, I'll let you guys know

  • @mariaalessia2557
    @mariaalessia2557 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Was wondering if you could do a video on your thoughts on teen dating and what age do you think is reasonable to date? Love this vid btw🙌🙌☺️☺️

    • @ddraper4819
      @ddraper4819 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Maria Wright i think 16-17 is a good age. That way you can drive yourself to dates and stuff. Its awkward having your mom drive you. I started dating my husband at 16. Got married at 21. I do however sometimes wish I would of dated later because we knew we wanted to get married 2 months in and couldnt because we couldnt legally get married at 16. So we had to wait several years.

    • @mahalashelby381
      @mahalashelby381 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Maria Wright sammeee it would be a great topic

    • @melbabennett8191
      @melbabennett8191 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes

    • @nick624179
      @nick624179 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@justchilling704 I hope you talk to your church leaders 😅

  • @chasityscott1857
    @chasityscott1857 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am new to watching ur channel but I absolutely love it! You guys are awesome! I will definitely be telling everyone of my friends abt you guys! There are some of my friends that struggles with not being pretty or handsome enough for that one person they like and you guys would be amazing for them to watch! Thanks for being encouraging! I will definitely be watching a lot more of your videos! 👍😁

  • @veronicaromero4940
    @veronicaromero4940 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love you videos! So entertaining and encouraging!

  • @ivoryiris97
    @ivoryiris97 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The name thing is RIDICULOUSLY true. You notice it (sometimes subconsciously) and it just makes you feel special and seen.

  • @xxTheSkilletFreakxx
    @xxTheSkilletFreakxx 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Morgan is literally my spirit animal

  • @sofiaelizondo154
    @sofiaelizondo154 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for being the man and woman God called you to be. He loves you. I bet He´s proud of you both

  • @angelicalloyd3535
    @angelicalloyd3535 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This gave me so much clarity

    • @PaulandMorgan
      @PaulandMorgan  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yay :)

    • @angelicalloyd3535
      @angelicalloyd3535 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PaulandMorgan thank you so much

    • @angelicalloyd3535
      @angelicalloyd3535 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can you make a live video on single virgin because I'm a single virgin my family doesn't approve of the white Australian man I want to meet and marry one day what should I do?

  • @annasthoughtsandmusicalpar2239
    @annasthoughtsandmusicalpar2239 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was a really good one, I like your perspective on this!