Your videos are quickly becoming a lifeline; thrown overboard to me as I drown in the most stressful years of my 27 year career… AND: I will stop complaining today. Thank you for what you do, Jennifer. God bless.
I got a new boss about 2 years ago. She was a terrible fit for the company and for me, but I repeated a gratitude mantra over and over, focusing as much as I could on the good aspects, her positive qualities, etc. (it was not easy, not gonna sugar coat it). I was able to "cope" until she was ultimately pushed out within a year. After that, the company decided they didn't need to fill that position again, so they gave the duties to myself and a coworker, we both got promotions and my current boss is amazing.
When I stopped complaining and/or participating in talks with coworkers who were complaining, they said they felt I was stuck up and blackballed me as someone who was against them and I wasn’t…even though one of them blatantly outed one of our other teammates with our boss!!! I’ve continued to refrain from that kind of communication and their judgements continue as well. It’s so wrong. My job has certain values and I honestly live those values, but it does not feel like all of them do and it’s really sad. Thank you for sharing your experiences and advice❤️
I’m grateful I have 3 jobs plus my own business during this pandemic, I’m grateful that my company wants to invest in my growth, and I’m grateful that I’m healthy.
I got a call for a complaint happening at work this morning, while I'm off today. I'll stop complaining about work when I know it should affect me. I will become more thankful for the family I have who hear me, sit with me, and pray with me for a another day done in peace. I will listen to more audios that are lifting my soul and spirit no matter the genre. I will set my goals straight and prioritize what is most important to me at work. I will speak out more to my colleagues and listen more. Motivate myself. Motivate others. Prevent myself from giving into the negatives and focus on the positive matters at hand and move forward.
Hard work def doesn’t pay off. Relationships with the right people is what pays off. Hard work matters zero. The harder you work the more you will be taken advantage of. If you build relationships and make the bosses like you not only will you do less but you will make more $
I am lucky not to work in an office environment anymore - definitely remember the complainers, and not in a good way! Great tips for anyone who wants to rise above that noise and achieve their potential!
Two things I like : self admission of the complaining fault and stating that you are losing control when you go down the complaining path. Also, gratitude is great, even more so with the significant others in your life. I need to complain less and say thank you more.
Had a crap day at work but this vid has made it completely float away. I almost forgot it was a crappy day. You’re so right. Gratitude and positivity are so powerful and motivating and will give me far more than any commiserating about petty work nonsense ever will. Thank you!
I will stop complaining starting today. I will only be positive at all costs. I am grateful that I have a job which puts a roof over my head, food on the table and the ability to do the things I like in my life. Thank you for making these videos to help me cope on a daily 👍
I’ve been having a REALLY difficult time at work and I searched how to deal with toxic coworkers and your other video came up and I’m really grateful. I had to check this one out! I like your vibe. This is smart, straightforward advice. Straight to the point. I’ll be using quite a few of these ... the Be The Light hit me! Thank you.
I just left a toxic workplace. I know that I did not help the situation to improve. Watching your videos is helping me in two ways. First, I can see where I need to do and think differently to make work a better place. Second, I can see how best to respond to other people's toxicity without making it worse. Thank you!
These are such great tips, for life :-) The complaining one I used to do all the time too... and like you said just made a commitment to stop complaining, and gradually I just stopped! My work and just life in general has improved so much! Thank you for these gems... I pray that everyone who sees this can also succeed as well.
Thank you for the video I’ve been having a really rough time lately - toxic workplace... I’m a very happy person generally but have been going through a lot of stress and take anti depressants. I previously had a discussion with my workplace (6 months ago) that there is a lot of negativity in that workplace and that it really needs to end to have a good work environment. Nothing changed... but now I have been singled out as the issue. Thanks for the reminder to stay calm put a big smile on and get out ASAP.
I'm so sorry you're going through this. There is a lot of discussion about toxic workplaces, but not the real mental health implications. I know people who have experienced PTSD from toxic companies/bosses. Focus on what is good in your life, take time and do the things you need to decompress and don't chastise yourself for it), and optimize your search to get out ASAP!
I use the mantra, I love my job , they pay me to work here , I work full time , they acknowledge my work, I live close to work, I enjoy and love my job.They pay 4 weeks leave per year. Don’t let the negative Nelly get to you as I think they are the most unhappy.
Words have power. And there is power in agreement. If you’re agreeing in negativity, and complaining. It will affect the atmosphere. Being positive is more powerful than it may seem. Be a light. Gratitude, your superpower.
My name is Lesley, I am going to stop complaining as I feel gratitude that I’ve learnt from my ex colleagues who bullied me, I felt gratitude of learning a lot of experience that makes me grow to my new endeavour. And my new light 😃 and make me smile with new life.
This is a great practice. I've done the same: in the hardest and worst scenarios... moments of WTF is happening... asking immediately for what is good, what the opportunity is from it is so powerful.
Thats me 😊 i completely agree with this video. I dont waste my energy on negativity. I spend my energy on things that matter in my life.The gratitude practice is my go to. Smiles change the dynamics and attitudes in the workplace. I look for things that go right, not wrong.
After watching your toxic coworkers video and then this, it's ammo I need to really help with my days at work. I started complimenting toxic coworkers and staying happy and they were freaking out. I basically took their fun away
I will stop complaining today !! I am grateful for everything I have. I will be more patient and accepting of myself and others. I had a lovely cup of coffee this morning , I'm in my warm home and my friend text me something nice
I love these tips -- I agree with them all and find that stopping complaining combined with daily gratitude is totally transformational for me! Negativity is catching -- gotta nip it in the bud or it just keeps spreading!
@@LisaGallegos I knew what you meant - you work with dogs, and while i'm sure there are things that aren't great (like when they poop), it's impossible to complain because they are so adorable.
I'm lead at work and pulled in so many directions, conflicts, escalations, ect. This video is a breath of fresh air. As slight as I do... I will not complain to the other leads. All great advice. I will try all of these tips in the next week as I need to learn and grow as much as I can. Thanks!
I have always been a super positive person. I have had so many nice people say how much I brighten their day. You are so right about facial language...KEEP SMILING. Thanks for another great video!
One thing practicing gratitude has helped me do is appreciate the little things in my day to day it's like a light bulb moment when I realize I had a good day I then go home listen to the ICE Cube song "It Was A Good Day" I honor of the swell day gone past. I tell you guys that gratitude stuff makes life feel so much more rewarding anger won't disappear but it fades so much quicker.
I will start being grateful for things and focusing on positivity, also I will have more self compassion as I am very hard on myself and that gets me down a lot most times clouding anything positive.
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Which strategy are you putting into action today to have a good attitude at work?
In life (I work from home) but stopping complaining... it's so true, this is a spiral of complaining.
Taking a break and a few deep breaths.
Your videos are quickly becoming a lifeline; thrown overboard to me as I drown in the most stressful years of my 27 year career… AND:
I will stop complaining today.
Thank you for what you do, Jennifer. God bless.
I don t get along with co workers
Co - workers are my ( Pet Peeves )
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1. Stop complaining
2. Gratitude
3. Smile
4. Focus on positivity
5. Set goals
6. Be the light
You forgot to add Spoiler Alert!
Okay, thanks 😊😊
Amen
Thanks for the list 😊
Thanks for the list 🙏
I will stop complaining and start being more grateful today! Lord grant me more patience and understanding for others🙏🙏
You can do this, Mary!
I will stop complaining. Work is a privilege and a blessing.
I will stop complaining, be grateful I have a job that I can do and will set goals!
I will stop complaining today and thank the Lord for all the good in my life, at work and home.
I got a new boss about 2 years ago. She was a terrible fit for the company and for me, but I repeated a gratitude mantra over and over, focusing as much as I could on the good aspects, her positive qualities, etc. (it was not easy, not gonna sugar coat it). I was able to "cope" until she was ultimately pushed out within a year. After that, the company decided they didn't need to fill that position again, so they gave the duties to myself and a coworker, we both got promotions and my current boss is amazing.
When I stopped complaining and/or participating in talks with coworkers who were complaining, they said they felt I was stuck up and blackballed me as someone who was against them and I wasn’t…even though one of them blatantly outed one of our other teammates with our boss!!! I’ve continued to refrain from that kind of communication and their judgements continue as well. It’s so wrong. My job has certain values and I honestly live those values, but it does not feel like all of them do and it’s really sad. Thank you for sharing your experiences and advice❤️
I’m grateful I have 3 jobs plus my own business during this pandemic, I’m grateful that my company wants to invest in my growth, and I’m grateful that I’m healthy.
I got a call for a complaint happening at work this morning, while I'm off today.
I'll stop complaining about work when I know it should affect me.
I will become more thankful for the family I have who hear me, sit with me, and pray with me for a another day done in peace.
I will listen to more audios that are lifting my soul and spirit no matter the genre.
I will set my goals straight and prioritize what is most important to me at work.
I will speak out more to my colleagues and listen more.
Motivate myself. Motivate others.
Prevent myself from giving into the negatives and focus on the positive matters at hand and move forward.
I will stop complaining. I want to maintain a positive outlook on my work life & having thicker skin! Hard work pays off, and I will get through it.
Hard work pays off is what I needed a reminder about
Hard work def doesn’t pay off. Relationships with the right people is what pays off. Hard work matters zero. The harder you work the more you will be taken advantage of. If you build relationships and make the bosses like you not only will you do less but you will make more $
I am lucky not to work in an office environment anymore - definitely remember the complainers, and not in a good way! Great tips for anyone who wants to rise above that noise and achieve their potential!
Two things I like : self admission of the complaining fault and stating that you are losing control when you go down the complaining path. Also, gratitude is great, even more so with the significant others in your life. I need to complain less and say thank you more.
I stopped complaining at work and your right I’m viewed in a more positive light it feels good
Had a crap day at work but this vid has made it completely float away. I almost forgot it was a crappy day. You’re so right. Gratitude and positivity are so powerful and motivating and will give me far more than any commiserating about petty work nonsense ever will. Thank you!
I will stop complaining starting today. I will only be positive at all costs. I am grateful that I have a job which puts a roof over my head, food on the table and the ability to do the things I like in my life. Thank you for making these videos to help me cope on a daily 👍
I’ve been having a REALLY difficult time at work and I searched how to deal with toxic coworkers and your other video came up and I’m really grateful. I had to check this one out! I like your vibe. This is smart, straightforward advice. Straight to the point. I’ll be using quite a few of these ... the Be The Light hit me! Thank you.
You are the light, Michelle! I can see it!
Attitude is more important than what we think. It will change a whole game
Yes!! So much this!!
manifest good things around you - sounds like a good mantra
I just left a toxic workplace. I know that I did not help the situation to improve. Watching your videos is helping me in two ways. First, I can see where I need to do and think differently to make work a better place. Second, I can see how best to respond to other people's toxicity without making it worse. Thank you!
I agree. Good points. 👍
Completely agree, positive attitude is essential for every aspect of life. Thanks for sharing
So true - carrying it home from the office is ideal :)
I practice appreciation today
gratitude
appreciation
forward thinking
positive focus
optimistic mindset
I work in a beautiful space. I'm imagining a yellow orb just under my ribs emanating warm light unending.
These are such great tips, for life :-) The complaining one I used to do all the time too... and like you said just made a commitment to stop complaining, and gradually I just stopped! My work and just life in general has improved so much! Thank you for these gems... I pray that everyone who sees this can also succeed as well.
I will stop complaining today!! Thanks for the advice 👍😊
It's simple but powerful. Being aware of when you do it is huge (I know this because I tend towards complaining) :)
Thank you for the video I’ve been having a really rough time lately - toxic workplace... I’m a very happy person generally but have been going through a lot of stress and take anti depressants. I previously had a discussion with my workplace (6 months ago) that there is a lot of negativity in that workplace and that it really needs to end to have a good work environment. Nothing changed... but now I have been singled out as the issue. Thanks for the reminder to stay calm put a big smile on and get out ASAP.
I'm so sorry you're going through this. There is a lot of discussion about toxic workplaces, but not the real mental health implications. I know people who have experienced PTSD from toxic companies/bosses.
Focus on what is good in your life, take time and do the things you need to decompress and don't chastise yourself for it), and optimize your search to get out ASAP!
Gratitude is key--love writing my three things in my daily planner!
It completes each day doesn't it :)
I use the mantra, I love my job , they pay me to work here , I work full time , they acknowledge my work, I live close to work, I enjoy and love my job.They pay 4 weeks leave per year. Don’t let the negative Nelly get to you as I think they are the most unhappy.
I will stop complaining today. I am grateful for the many blessed and beautiful things in my life. ✨
Words have power. And there is power in agreement. If you’re agreeing in negativity, and complaining. It will affect the atmosphere.
Being positive is more powerful than it may seem. Be a light. Gratitude, your superpower.
I will stop complaining. I will maintain a positive attitude. ☀️
I will stop complaining in general :) thank you for the positive tips beautiful soul!
I will stop complaining today. My Director and Manager is great!
My name is Lesley, I am going to stop complaining as I feel gratitude that I’ve learnt from my ex colleagues who bullied me, I felt gratitude of learning a lot of experience that makes me grow to my new endeavour. And my new light 😃 and make me smile with new life.
Oh. my. god. GRATITUDE. Absolutely!! You are awesome. I'm writing this video down as something I'm grateful for today. :)
Awww I'm blushing 😊 Did you already have a gratitude practice?
It was something I put into place only a few weeks ago but it has made a massive difference in mindset and perspective. Non-negotiable now!
I will stop complaining
I will be grateful for everything even challanges ❤️
I no longer have any reasons to complain, as the blessings in my life far outweigh any obstacles that may arise
Such great tips! One of the other things I remind myself each day is to focus on the opportunities, not the challenges.
This is an excellent addition to the list Demelza! Thank you!
I will stop complaining today! I will say that these things come naturally when in a positive workplace.
I will stop complaining today and practice gratitude
I tried with negative ppl at work. At the end, I resigned from them. The best thing I did.
Gratitude is huge for me. I always ask myself how can I find the gratitude in every tough situation. Great video!!
This is a great practice. I've done the same: in the hardest and worst scenarios... moments of WTF is happening... asking immediately for what is good, what the opportunity is from it is so powerful.
I will stop complaining.🙏 stay blessed
Being GRATEFUL and practicing remembering what I am grateful for sets my day in a positive direction...Thank you!!
Thats me 😊 i completely agree with this video. I dont waste my energy on negativity. I spend my energy on things that matter in my life.The gratitude practice is my go to. Smiles change the dynamics and attitudes in the workplace. I look for things that go right, not wrong.
Played with my dog, my son liked seeing me, smiled.
I will stop complaining today, stay productive and inspired to continue to elevate the company I work for and my own development 🙏🏽
I’ll stop complaining. Thank you.
I will stop complaining today! 👏🏾🥰
I will stop complaining from today, and practice gratitude.
Smiling and building rapport at work is harder with the mask on. And I will stop complaining today, but no promises I won't make any slip ups 😅
Haha can't be perfect as the time, friend.
And this was filmed preCOVID. Can't wait for things to go back to normal!
Smiling is so good. I love to smile and laugh! It just makes you feel so good and it’s natural for me! Smile! ☺️
I will stop complaining today! I am grateful for my life!
Lots of these tips Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) taught. It’s sunnah to have gratitude and to smile at people. Amazing stuff.
I will stop complaining today! 💗🌷👍😇
After watching your toxic coworkers video and then this, it's ammo I need to really help with my days at work. I started complimenting toxic coworkers and staying happy and they were freaking out. I basically took their fun away
Yes! Very important be positive if we want to grow at work!
It all starts with positivity 😀
@@JenniferBrick 😀 You're right! And congratulations for the good content, I like it!
I will stop complaining today !! I am grateful for everything I have. I will be more patient and accepting of myself and others. I had a lovely cup of coffee this morning , I'm in my warm home and my friend text me something nice
I love these tips -- I agree with them all and find that stopping complaining combined with daily gratitude is totally transformational for me! Negativity is catching -- gotta nip it in the bud or it just keeps spreading!
Negativity is contagious. I love that you have a daily gratitude practice too! What does your look like?
@@JenniferBrick I've been daily journalling for the last month and it's been amazing -- plus telling the people in my life how grateful I am for them!
I WILL START COMPLAINING TODAY!!!! I definitely do this, but practicing gratitude has truly helped.
Gratitude makes such a big difference!
Jennifer Brick omg I just realized I said START 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 so bad Lolol
Obviously I meant stop 🥴
@@LisaGallegos I knew what you meant - you work with dogs, and while i'm sure there are things that aren't great (like when they poop), it's impossible to complain because they are so adorable.
@@JenniferBrick oh i know, it's the owners that I need to stop complaining about ;)
I will stop complaining today 🙌🏾
You're so right! Staying positive at work is essential! Can't wait to put these strategies into practice!
Yay, I'm so glad you got some action items from this video!
I totally agree about STOP COMPLAINING!! Think of the solution, not the problem! Besides I feel like it makes you miserable as well.
So true!!!
I will stop complaining at work today. To maintain a good attitude and to be positive at work.Briliant
I will stop complaining today & start thanking God for what I do have. 💕🙏🏽.
When I am positive and work honestly they take my credit to become stronger
I will stop complaining today. I practice gratitude
I will stop complaining today, and be more grateful.
I will stop complaining about my life and be more grateful. Thank you ❤
I will stop complaining today 🙏🏻🥳
I'm lead at work and pulled in so many directions, conflicts, escalations, ect. This video is a breath of fresh air. As slight as I do... I will not complain to the other leads. All great advice. I will try all of these tips in the next week as I need to learn and grow as much as I can.
Thanks!
I have always been a super positive person. I have had so many nice people say how much I brighten their day. You are so right about facial language...KEEP SMILING. Thanks for another great video!
Your videos and advice get me out of my work spirals thank you ❤
I will practice gratitude!!!
I will stop complaining.
I learnt a lot just listening to your suggestions. Thanks
I will stop complaining and be Thankful for my Job!❤️🙏🏾
I will stop complaining today! ❤
I will stop complaining today. Your videos are awesome and you're beautiful btw!
Today I will stop complaining. I will be grateful, patient and will not unnecessarily burden myself with the responsibilities of others.
I will stop complaining but will show more gratitude!
I will stop complaining today 🙏🏾☺️, practice mindfulness and be grateful!❤
These are great tips for LIFE!!! Really great!! I love this so much.
Yas! Thanks Stephanie!
I will stop complaining!💗
I will stop complaining today! I am grateful I have a job.
i will stop complaining today!
Thank you for your efforts and advice!
Ive been starting to set goals because of your past videos! Its been helping me make SO MUCH progress in my business :)
YES!!! Daniel, it makes my heart so happy that you've been able to take the action items I share - I certainly take the ones I learn in your videos!
I will stop complaining today. 💪🏻
One thing practicing gratitude has helped me do is appreciate the little things in my day to day it's like a light bulb moment when I realize I had a good day I then go home listen to the ICE Cube song "It Was A Good Day" I honor of the swell day gone past. I tell you guys that gratitude stuff makes life feel so much more rewarding anger won't disappear but it fades so much quicker.
I will stop complaining today and be more grateful for the things I have and be more positive about the people I work with.
I will stop complaining. My circumstances are sometimes hard. I will do my best to remain positive.
I will start being grateful for things and focusing on positivity, also I will have more self compassion as I am very hard on myself and that gets me down a lot most times clouding anything positive.
I WILL STOP COMPLAINING TODAY!!💕🥳💕🥳
Great tips here, thank you! I think not complaining will be a big game changer for me!
Yay - I'm so glad you got an action item from the list!
I will stop complaining Amen 🙏🙏👼👼
I will stop complaining today
Thank you for the amazing message
I need to watch this everyday!!
This is a tricky one, I currently work in a very toxic workplace, that is all about not complaining, it can be harmful to internalize and not vent.
thank you !! ❤️ i will stop complaining about my job instead I’ll say i value my job * as an affirmation
I will stop complaining!!!❤️
I will stop complaining today and just be positive for how things go.