She Couldn’t Escape From Her Father For 10 Years
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 4 ส.ค. 2023
- In today's compelling episode of Unfiltered Stories, we have the privilege of listening to Natalie Nava as she bravely shares her life journey with us. Natalie endured deeply distressing experiences at the hands of someone close to her. Despite her efforts to escape the situation, she found herself trapped in a cycle that seemed inescapable.
The impact of Natalie's relationship with her father extended far beyond her childhood, shaping her interactions with other men in her adult life. She found herself navigating toxic and unhealthy relationships, carrying the weight of her past trauma. However, Natalie's courageous journey serves as a powerful reminder of the resilience of the human spirit and the importance of speaking up and seeking help. By sharing her story, she sheds light on the long-lasting effects of childhood trauma and the crucial role of support and healing in breaking free from the chains of abuse. Join us as we listen to Natalie's transformative story and bear witness to the strength and determination of survivors who refuse to be defined by their past. #UnfilteredStories #SurvivorStories
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I can’t believe your mom used the threat of poverty to manipulate you into agreeing that your abuser returns to your home.
Sadly, this is common.
Evil bitch, she probably suspected all along but didn’t want to have to deal with it, didn’t want to inconvenience herself with confrontation
Broke my heart
Absolutely heartless to do that to a child. I’m sorry living in poverty is not the worst thing, her mom FAILED her.
And to think that these “ men” are advocating for women not to work and to completely depend on them. This is the consequence of complete rule under a man.
I can't stand women who choose to overlook and ignore abuse of their children. They're literally choosing a man over their own children. It's disgusting. Protect your children period.
This is why women should be allowed to be childfree not every woman wants to be a mother
@@abbeyjane5014yes, they should take birth control or have tubal ligation.
Those women don't choose men, they choose Themselves! Their personal well being, financial safety, passivity..all of that is their priority. Not their children, not marriage, not those monsters.
@@sueannarca9102 abortion should also be available to those who want it
Women like her mother aren't choosing men. They are choosing themselves over their kids, which is much worse.
The mom completely knew what was happening. She even called him "What are you doing?" to get him to know that she knew and to stop. That's so sad. It happens so much more often than people like to acknowledge.
She should have walked in…. But would she stop him?
I believe this i went through something similar & always pray and worry for my little sisters as well. I wish someone actually helped me as a child and protected me
Yea I agree she definitely knew ! This is insane so heart breaking 🙏🏼✨
@@maricelamora4745Pay it forward. It heals the soul and the world.
The mom frigging knew, talking bout "Victor, what are you doinggggg?"...not once she ever went to room, without him knowing?...she needs to be in jail along with the dad!!!
I believe she knew as well!!!😡
Exactly! As adults we are not fucking dumb....she played dumb!!!
the whole time
Natalie's mother truly failed to protect her how dare that woman gaslight her daughter like that she's just as horrible
She needs jail time!
@@rickihosein yes she does
they both need to be in prison
Sick people
Yes women like this need to start getting criminal charges
I'm so sick of perverts. How can you do that to an innocent child?! Sick bastard. Can't trust nobody. God bless her. She went through a lot
Mother needs to go to jail.
If my partner abused my daughter I’d be done. Forever… no second chances, I’d rather live in poverty and work my way up again…
The mom should have moved to a apartment and struggled instead of staying with monster it’s bs !sorry you went through that your a strong person god bless you.
Agreed. Calling CPS first! And ask for divorce and child support. He got away with it because his wife was an enabler.
Girl you are not alone. My mother failed me too and let her boyfriend rape me. Just know you can survive this and you are worthy!
Im so sorry 😢😢😢 praying for you 🙏🏾
Oh my I’m so sorry that happened to you😕 I hope you are healing ❤️❤️
Very worthy ❤
Sadly people who have been abused tend to get involved in abusive relationships because they think it's normal
The complete disregard for a child’s bodily autonomy within the Latino community is nauseating.
This is not a Latino issue it’s a universal issue
@@Sandra-bh3mq I’m only saying that because I’m Latina myself and so is the person in this video. I’m not speaking for other communities.
@tiyandgojiaquariums5311 Not backing down at all, you’re absolutely right. These issues run rampant in our communities.
I wish we knew what happened to her younger siblings who were left to live with their father a pedophile, I know her bother was around during adulthood but not sure if little sister is safe from father.
Not only Latina. Cmon. This knows no racial boundaries.
Your mother knew; she just chose to act like she didn't know. Any good mother would have called the police right away when you told her. Who know how many others he has done this too. Happy that now you have a loving a supportive husband!!!❤️
That’s so sick that a man could do this to a child let alone his own child!!😢💔
I’m so sorry this happened to you honey!
I'm trembling reading this. I was molested as a child.
Molestation changes you for life!!!
I still have flashbacks almost 60 years later.
The ultimate betrayal of trust is being molested by your parent. 💔💔💔
My mother supported me.
Years later she blamed me for the hard times because he was the breadwinner.
I'm so sorry, the amount of trauma that abusers cause is immeasurable. I honestly wish I could take the pain away from everyone who has experienced such horrendous things.
I can’t believe she took him back!😮
I’m sorry this happened to you and every little person that had to suffer thru something so unbelievably awful as this. Fathers are supposed to watch over and protect their children. Thank you for being brave enough to share your story.
No man should be a predator of girls and women. It damages a culture.
Thank you so much Natalie for sharing your story. I totally understand. My mom said to me "You didn't tell because you liked it" At that moment I felt betrayed and alone and scared and I hated myself for not having the courage to kill myself I was 16. I'm 58 years old now and I still have nightmares about my dad and I struggle with intimacy with my husband because I get flashbacks of my abuse that began when I was about 5. I'm so sorry you went through this😔
That is disgusting that your mother would say that to you. I'm so sorry you weren't protected. I hope you are able to find healing. I wish I had something to say that would help. I am also on my healing journey and unfortunately I think it is a lifelong journey but please feel proud of yourself for being a survivor and being a better person then those who were suppose to guide and protect you.
My mother said the same to me 😔 & started mentally, emotionally & physically abusing me from the time I told her until the time I moved out at 19. She stayed with him & she tortured me mentally and emotionally for years, til this day. Idk how I was able to forgive but I prayed a lot, I went through therapy too. Still doesn’t erase the memories or the abuse 😔
Natalie I'm so sorry that you were abused what your father did was wrong you are a courageous person to protect your sister and tell your story not many victims have the courage to talk about their abuse
I’m sorry but your mother is just a piece of work, we went through the exact same thing with my father and sister, my father was our breadwinner and we were also in a different country. When my mum found out she took us and left, we were homeless and far from our country so no family to turn to and no money. Fast forward to now, we are all living comfortable peaceful lives. I only wish there was more people like my mum out for kids like you 😢
From a CSA survivor to the other, I'm so sorry you went through this. I remember feeling alone and unsafe and it still affects me to this day. I genuinely think what affected me the most was not necessarily the abuse, but the way my family failed to protect me and still won't apologise or acknowledge it. It's like being victimised twice. Once by the abuser and the second time by the ones who are supposed to protect you. I'm a parent now and learned how underprotected children become overprotective parents. I could not imagine even passing by someone who hurt my child and not killing them with my bare hands.
I agree 1,000,000%!
Agree 100%. Definitely with the family part. Mine was physical abuse and they all act like it's okay. I ran away a few times (to family) and the just returned me after a few days. Told my father u can't do that blah blah. But he was my only parent as well my mom left when I was 4 so. I still have mix feelings he's been gone 11yrs now I love and miss him and hate him all in 1.
I am so overprotective of my kids and always worried with the worse senerio.
@@jessicatroxel2145yes,😢 I understand ❤
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Unfortunately I can relate to these stories because I was a victim of abuse by multiple people. When I finally had the courage to speak up, I had nobody there for me and was told if it did happen, it was my fault. I was failed by all the so called adults in my life.
so sorry for everything you went through! I truly feel that your dad needs to be behind bars. you need to tell the cops what happened. he is a pedophile, child molester and may be doing this to other kids
Your husband is a good man. He is the example of a real father and husband.
You are brave but what is more, you are a lovely kind, protective sister..
Though you should NEVER have had to go through something as horrid as this ... 😢
Strong women may the Holy Spirit can heal you and use you to help other women’s ♥️ benediciones
One of the most dangerous thing about her story and I hear of happening often, adults place the abused victim in unsafe situations while coercing them to recant their stories and also are EXPECTED to live with the abuser. This type of situation is why young boys and girls grow up with trauma and and go into a downward spiral, only a few are able to come out on the otherside such strength. I'm happy for her
I'm literally frozen in a state of shock and fury after hearing what your mother did and the video is not even over yet!
Your husband sounds wise and emotionally intelligent. You articulated your story very well.
Thanks for sharing your story. I hope this helps you to heal. You have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of or to be blamed for. I only say that because so many victims have expressed those feelings. Please know that you deserve so much more and can have a great life, if you do the mental work to achieve it. I'm so sorry you've had to life this nightmare.
I am so sorry that you had to experience this. My heart aches for you. The weight that you carried wasn’t yours to carry. Sending hugs, strength and positivity your way.
God bless you dear I'm glad you can let this out, and begin to heal yourself. It may be a long process ,but glad you have a good family, and a supportive mate. Take care of yourself❤
I wish I could hug u. im so sorry for what u went through. I also had something similar happen to me. Once i broke my silence my mom still decided to keep the abuser at risk of poverty. The only silver lining is that it stopped. I hate myself til this day. I still see his face everyday. Actively decided against having kids since i still cant live on my own. Im disgusted at myself and angry at my circumstances. Thanks for speaking up. It helps knowing others have been through similar situations. I really hate the all too common theme of mothers who are complicit by playing stupid. Betraying ur babies before they’re ild enough to even fend for themselves is bs.
You doing good kiddo 😊 day at a time lovely lady ❤ you are pretty remarkable, make sure you remind yourself that 😊
I'm so sorry this happened to you! Proud of you for speaking out💜
Hi Natalie I'm soo sorry you went through all this abuse and grief and pain 💔 shame on him he was a two legged dog that a shame it's not your fault please find you a good church and give all your grief and pain 💔 😢 to the lord
When you said “I have a human in my body” tears filled my eyes, you are so strong. You’re amazing, God bless you 🩷
wise and intelligent lady.
So sad I understand I my self is a victim of child abuse and I feel your pain but it's going to be alright the memories isn't going to go away but you need to seek help from a therapist and speak about it get it out of your system otherwise it will kill you we can't change what has happened but we can speak out so others will know and try to prevent this from happening to others may God bless and protect you always stay focus and keep on striving❤
Men are disgusting. They should be held accountable
The right thing to do as an adult would be to get investigative authorities involved and not even expose you to him again EVER!! anyways I'm so sorry you went through
Right... the mother should've freaking called the police. That's so messed up...
I don't know who's more disgusting the mother or the father , some people really shouldn't be parents!😡
I’m a childhood SA survivor
This shit is a battle everyday
Sadly, the mother in this story is "classic" in mother's who don't protect. I'm so sorry Natalie, and fully understand. Brave for sharing your vulnerability.
What a creep. Also shame on your mom for leaving it up to you to “decide” your family’s financial fate when she knew what a compliant and considerate daughter you were. Pray you are able to heal and make the most of your life with your loving husband and kids. You deserve it. Thank you for sharing your story.♥️
Your mom is wrong for that. Your dad even more. You we’re not responsible for your sister, but it’s understandable as a big sister. So sorry you went trough that. Bless you ❤
Aww praise God for allowing her to find a man that loves her for her and that is so patient, loving and kind to her and her children. Bless God. I pray for continual healing for her and I pray for her and her family to be saved in Jesus Name.
I’d rather have less and be safe then have a lot and live in fear 😢
Oh my love.... 😢
Much success and health to all.
It gets me sooo mad how her mom had the audacity to bring the rapist back to the house. I would of put his asz in jail!!
You are such a inspirational woman. Wishing you the best in your healing journey 🥲🤍
The Mom never called the cops on him either , who knows maybe the lil sister is getting abused but like u shared she might be also scared to say anything 😢🙏
Moms be scared to hear the truth! They ignore it! They choose not to be alone over their kids.
You're so strong! You're a warrior. You took all that pain to save your brother and sister. God bless you.
Im sorry but her mother is a monster as well😡🤬these two monsters are sick!!! Pedos need to be put down
It's sad that man that told you to pay up subconsciously the deal of having a car and a place to stay was just what your mom did to you. She said your predator had to come back at the expense of you so she could have nice things
My father molested me too for many years. There are so many terrible men out there who ruin lives-only looking at women for sex. I’m glad she finally found a good man. Criminals don’t understand the lasting impact of sexual abuse. I was suicidal many times, I suffered from addiction, and almost lost my mind because of the sexual abuse I experienced growing up.
@jayrod7389 yes, I am. Thank you 🙂and how are you?
I would die before allowing someone to hurt my babies...anybody's babies.
I'm happy that you manage to surpass all of that and continue fighting even after all the hard life, you're such a strong person, and I'm proud of you ❤
She shoulda took out a life insurance policy
Y'all would've been fine
How could the mom not notice how weird her husband was?
Please tell me you are not speaking to your mom
Praise God your continual healing and found a good father and husband!! Blessings
Before watching Unfiltered Stories, I never woulda thought that the men that women have children with could seriously become a sexual threat to their own children... The amount of women and some men coming forward with these stories is unbearable. Some people really force themselves to believe that we live in a good world full of good people...
Girl stay strong. You are warrior!
Bro nah the fact that her mom had her choose I don’t have any daughters yet but if anything like this ever happened to them I would not even question leaving with my children but maybe it’s personal to me as a SA victim. I hope she is healing ❤️🩹
Resonating deeply with you and your story! I’m so happy for you and your children to have found someone to understand and listen. Thank you for sharing your experiences and growth with us!
Ill live under my bridge if it means protecting my children...the mom is psychotic for giving her that ultimatum
This happens more than ppl think. I was molested as well by my stepdad and my mom prefer to ignore it and stayed with him.
The father need to be put behind bars.
I feel for you. The world against you. If your family treats you that way what else do you have left at that age?
It's absolutely fine and natural to feel like breaking ties with family. Family doesn't mean you have to forgive. Flip it around: if it's family why would anyone do that to their family member? So why should you forgive.
Please cut them out and be happy. You deserve that and so do your children
As i was istening to your story it brought back memories of my childhood, and of the SA I endured from my father, hearing how your mom put the weight of responsibility on you, when she was the adult and it was supposed to be her responsibility to make the decision to leave your dad for good...my mom did the same to me, I had other siblings and she said she made the decision to not leave him because she didn't know how she was going to feed us, so she continued to sacrifice me and my mental health for a plate of food. As soon as I turned 18, I decided to move out, I'm 47 now and I'll never looked back. Blessed with a beautiful son and a loving husband. I've learned that sexual intimacy can be beautiful between two people , I've learned that love can come without expecting nothing in return. I do suffer from depression, anxiety, I was bulimic for many years and everyday is still a struggle but I focus on how blessed I am today and I may not have my mother's love but I am surrounded by many friends that love me , friends that are family. Thank you for sharing your story. You are a warrior you are loved.❤
I unfortunately understand i was molested from the age of 4 til i was 18. He had a hold on me and i couldnt get out til i was old enough to leave on my own. I finally told my mom when i knew i was safe from being hurt by him and she called me a lair. Still does to this day. I have ptsd.. she said since it never happened to my sisters that it wasnt true. I protected my sisters with my life. I gave myself up so they wouldnt have to. I felt my siblings deserved a family so i didnt ruin it cuz i didnt want them to hate me. That was my mistake i should have spoken up sooner and i didnt i ruined my own life
So hurtful to hear stories like this.
You poor baby ❤
Sending you a big hug sweetheart❤️My mother also failed me at a young age to one of her cousins. You are so strong. Bless your heart ✨
She looks sooooooooo familiar. Eyes, smile lines, smile, even the heavy way her mouth moves when she talks. I wonder where i know her from. If she is in GA, then i definitely know her. Im so sorry, this happened to you and i, too, know your pain.
Omg yes i feel like i know her too. I’m in GA!
I've routinely talked to my kids about good touch bad touch since they were young. They are teens now and i still talk to them from time to time that he they feel uncomfortable with anyone, family friends or anyone that they can tell me no matter who is threatening them. I also told myself if i were to ever lose my husband or divorced, i would not bring any man in the house until my kids were grown. But seeing these stories where the mom and dad are the actual predators was not something i worried about.
I am Hispanic and my dad nor any males in our family spanked us. If my dad spanked us, it was in front of my mom because we did something bad but that was seldom. I am sorry you had to endure such a tragedy from your so called (protector), he is not a dad, he is a father. I really hope that you begin your healing journey with therapy. Sending prayers your way. 🙏🏼
I had something similar happened to me . I would also protect my little sister the same way
You are a beautiful girl! You are going to make a difference in this world. Keep fighting baby girl keep fighting
Your mom knew! Women like that truly make me angry. You've suppose to protect your children. I'll be in a deep grave, before my children constantly endured something like that. 🤬😡🤬😡🤬😡
I'm Soo sorry you when your mother was supposed to protect you, God bless you 🙏🙏♥️. I know you going to protect your❤❤
Thank you for sharing
I am so proud of you!
Blessings Rain Upon You✝️👑✝️
Im trully saddened by her story.. and even tho i dont no her im glad she found her husband who treats her how she deserves! ❤ give it up to all the real ones out there fr
I have the same story. Bless you ❤
I too was molested & turned promiscuous thinking that was love. Bless ur husband & baby girl…. You’re worth it all xxx
Turned?? At some point you had to make the decision to lay down with them people.
I’m proud of you girl. Your life story it’s inspiring.
You are a brave young lady. God bless.
I want to give you the biggest hug ❤️
God bless you we all going through thank God you have someone to help you. God Speed!
Awwwwwwwwww I'm happy you have a husband who loves you and your children
Oh my goodness,what a story 😢. I also was abused, yes even raped in my youth. And it brought me to a destructive way of life. Thanks to God, I came to know the Lord Jesus Christ, my Savoir, and I could start a whole new life. That's 36 years ago now. I hope and pray that you will come to a saving knowledge of the Lord Jesus Christ too. He is the good Shepperd.
Im so sorry that happened to you 😢 I wanted to tell you about Jesus Christ, but I see you already know Him❤ God bless you, sister
I’m so glad that you’re getting help
The Mother manipulated her as a child so she could stay with her predator husband who meant more than her children. I hope all parents pay the price for this cost.😮When they don’t support their children.
🙏🏼
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