Shattered Trust: A Daughter's Struggle to Overcome Her Father's Betrayal

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  • In today's episode, Christina Johnson bravely shares her story with us. From the age of 7 to 21, she endured unimaginable trauma and abuse at the hands of her own father. Christina's father exploited her trust and subjected her to years of inappropriate behavior, robbing her of a happy childhood.
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  • @positivevibesonly9536
    @positivevibesonly9536 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +231

    I'm sorry you were not protected. You are such a brave and beautiful woman.

  • @user-zd3qe6nu9j
    @user-zd3qe6nu9j 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +350

    My step dad did that to me 32 years ago.I left the next day, i was only 15. My mom did not divorce him(i did tell) until i was 36 years old. I am 47 now and finally started counseling. I say all this,only to say that please dont be hard on yourself. Your a freakin' survivior! I pray that you continue to heal,and smile, and live a beautiful life!🕊️✌️

    • @ceceprincess4758
      @ceceprincess4758 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Sorry that happened to u

    • @alweeks7619
      @alweeks7619 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I’m sorry that happened to you but can I ask you a question

    • @elope10000
      @elope10000 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      The saddest part is when a mom doesn't put you first. I went through the same thing.

    • @mr.mclibtard5015
      @mr.mclibtard5015 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      What were you wearing?

    • @kagasaki6
      @kagasaki6 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      At 15 you would have been vulnerable out in the streets, I am glad you better now but what was your journey afterwards?

  • @XicaD
    @XicaD 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    When I told my mom at 7 yrs old about it. She took me to the police department and told them she didn't want me. I grew up in a beautiful foster home. Thank you mom because as an adult I understand that you couldn't do it for me and for that I am grateful.

    • @boutiquebitcoin809
      @boutiquebitcoin809 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      It's not your fault 😢

    • @sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722
      @sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm happy that you are fine now, never let the traumas to defeat you!

    • @XicaD
      @XicaD 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ​@@sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722Thank you however I do have my moments but I keep moving forward
      Take care

    • @teresathorne4237
      @teresathorne4237 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😮😮??😊

    • @sindeymacias4904
      @sindeymacias4904 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      We love you and your so strong 🩷

  • @MarR310
    @MarR310 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +188

    Im sorry this happened to you. Please everyone if you suspect something like this is happening SAY SOMETHING!

    • @user-qu4ey5yy3f
      @user-qu4ey5yy3f 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Touchy situation, I tried to trigger the alarm when I caught glimpses with my sisters at the time 11- year -old daughter and her stepdad. I was strongly attacked for even suggesting such thing.
      4 years later all hell has broken lose now with the daughter accusing the step dad. Sister continues to defend husband but at least niece now lives with older sister.

    • @MarR310
      @MarR310 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-qu4ey5yy3f smh.. sorry you went through that

    • @Anon06428
      @Anon06428 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I did a cps report in 2007 at age 13, guess what it did? All my family covered for my dad. And I was ostracized and scapegoated even by aunts and uncles. They didn’t make a cps report until I was 18. After my whole childhood was taken. So at least my younger siblings got proper help sooner. And the sister who was being graped by “dad” even covered for him and demonizes me to this day. I feel like speaking out is fruitless, he never got punished for what he did to all 7 of his children. Aside from the younger ones being put in cps care. He be@t and verbally @bused me and my other siblings and graped my oldest sister.. I was made out to be a “story teller”…. And it’s hard to recover from, in therapy now as a 31 year old. I’m honestly too scared to ever speak out again. It’s sad…

    • @MarR310
      @MarR310 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Anon06428 💔 I'm sorry. 🙏

  • @sheenabailey
    @sheenabailey 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +338

    This was so hard to watch and listen to. I can never fully trust a man around my kids. I’ll always be watching.

    • @Sunshine-jq9sw
      @Sunshine-jq9sw 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You better be careful with women because they're a lot of perverted lesbians. Everyone should be a suspect.

    • @elope10000
      @elope10000 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      That's right!

    • @BriettyBratt
      @BriettyBratt 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      This! My girl will be 1 next month and I watch her like a hawk

    • @jerseybred732
      @jerseybred732 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same. My father molested me as well. He ended up going to jail when years later he molested my step-sister. I will never trust any man 100% around my daughter.

    • @vikingrolloishot1789
      @vikingrolloishot1789 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      That's me too girl I do not trust any man with kids. Not even if they are the father or not.

  • @elenisiopi2033
    @elenisiopi2033 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    I admire the strength and resilience of this woman. Her capacity to see it as it is and to articulate it clearly, simply and bravely. She's so strong. We need people like her in this world. Strong survivors.

    • @angelaholmes8888
      @angelaholmes8888 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes this woman is truly a courageous person

  • @Tay.rarebreed
    @Tay.rarebreed 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +114

    This is sad & sickening!!

  • @mdixon4212
    @mdixon4212 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +72

    Who puts their own sexual desire above their own child's safety? A monster.

    • @gospelmusicbrooks-yates5979
      @gospelmusicbrooks-yates5979 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You would be surprised by the sick woman who put men before their children😡🤬😡🤬😡🤬

    • @debbiemohekey1509
      @debbiemohekey1509 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      A weak man with no morals, boundaries, and a sense of entitlement. Look out for them, not monsters. I realize you're saying this behavior makes a man a monster but ordinary looking men need to be noticed, don't overlook them while looking out for most peoples idea of bad.

  • @mellowmoods8393
    @mellowmoods8393 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +147

    As a single Father to three kids including a 14 year old girl, this turns my stomach and I bleed for this poor girl who had to go through this. Looking at your own kids as sex objects is just a place where most minds would never venture, I would like to believe. I could never do something like this to any of my kids or ANY kid. Just vile.

    • @user-qu4ey5yy3f
      @user-qu4ey5yy3f 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      "I would like to believe" is she the youngest of the 3, are the others boys??
      Either way be careful with "I would like to believe"

    • @wandalester8624
      @wandalester8624 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Don't let anyone tell you might hurt your children, because someone else hurt theirs.

    • @mellowmoods8393
      @mellowmoods8393 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@user-qu4ey5yy3fShes the oldest. I also have 10 and 7 year old boys. I have raised them all since birth as their mother has largely been absent and I have had to do everything for them. Just being honest. I mean, I am sure child molesters have all said "I would never do that" to kids or my children but they end up doing it anyways. I could tell someone until I'm blue in the teeth that "I would never do that", but our actions speak louder than words, and my track record around kids at this point speaks for itself.I have learned to never believe ANYTHING any one says but rather see what they do.

    • @mellowmoods8393
      @mellowmoods8393 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@wandalester8624Thank you, Wanda.

    • @wandalester8624
      @wandalester8624 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@mellowmoods8393 Your welcome, your children are blessed to have you as their father!

  • @PaperMario64
    @PaperMario64 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +104

    You endured such a terrible, traumatic childhood. That beast ruined the person you were to become and I feel like these predators should be punished as if they committed murder. I pray you are getting support, continued therapy and unimaginable blessings.

    • @rockmangurlx4973
      @rockmangurlx4973 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Technically they have. Murder of the soul.

  • @carolynjiminez1247
    @carolynjiminez1247 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +82

    Ah Christina, I'm part of the same horrible "club" as you. Please continue to heal and thrive. I'm still working on my recovery. Counseling makes all the difference.

    • @sheilabogan4703
      @sheilabogan4703 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You should have told some one about him I dont understand why yo let him do it how can you talk about all this you make me sick

    • @ellyt3429
      @ellyt3429 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      ⁠​⁠@@sheilabogan4703what is wrong with you?! they didn’t “let” their abusers do anything, they were *children* being manipulated + harmed by somebody they believed had power over them. where is your empathy? your understanding? even in this video, the lady talks about how her father made her too *scared* to tell anybody, by threatening suicide + making her feel like it would be all her fault if he went to prison. how can you even write such a cruel, nasty, disgusting thing? please rethink this + try not to be so vile next time. these people make me feel sad for what they’ve gone through, *you* make me feel sick.

    • @mandysingh7670
      @mandysingh7670 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      There will always be someone to pass judgement, poor girl was living a life of misery and fear

    • @user-qu4ey5yy3f
      @user-qu4ey5yy3f 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@sheilabogan4703 Grooming can be a mother! he was her whole world, and he took advantage of this in a sick way. DAMN!

    • @Schrodingers_Kat
      @Schrodingers_Kat 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sheilabogan4703Please, find a short peer and take a very long walk.

  • @CJ-xg6ii
    @CJ-xg6ii 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +112

    So sick and creepy how he “planned” the start of the abuse for when you could be manipulated to keep quiet. THEN to play mind games and punish you like it was your fault. Sorry that he was also molested as a child, but that is NO excuse for what he did to you all those years. Pray you continue to heal, and I’m glad you’ve got the supportive and loving husband that you deserve.♥️

  • @tammybutler166
    @tammybutler166 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    I am 59 years ild and you just said out loud what I never could. I've had extensive counseling, I'm on the other side but I have never told anyone living or dead what my father did to me.

    • @sharlenejustice7700
      @sharlenejustice7700 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Neither have I and I am 61....I totally understand why you haven't. I hope you can someday tell someone.....I hope the same for myself. God Bless you ❤

    • @marygoff3332
      @marygoff3332 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      ​@@sharlenejustice7700ladies, it is not shameful. NOT your fault. You are not damaged goods. Please speak to someone you can trust implicitly, you will feel a release you never knew possible. ❤

    • @effielincoln803
      @effielincoln803 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      My mom passed away stopping it happening to me.
      By women N my dad .
      I was pretty young.
      N dad didn't want us around him.
      Because he knew what he wanted to do with us.
      Play forgave him because it was a tough thing that happened to him in residential school.
      By the priests.
      He took that sickness.
      But we were also touched by others in our family on both sides my mom's side and my dad's side.
      Friends of the family as well.
      And by the churches.
      I'm 57 I did get help .

    • @shaunasmith8834
      @shaunasmith8834 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Might help your healing to get it out. Everyone is different but you definitely have nothing to be ashamed of

  • @the_source4435
    @the_source4435 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +107

    These stories are getting more frequent and it’s so disturbing 😢

    • @xoxo_lilbitt555
      @xoxo_lilbitt555 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      These men been predators . It’s just more talked about now

    • @pinkpugginz
      @pinkpugginz 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      incest is one of the most common forms of child abuse. and the most under reported

    • @nickdelaney6953
      @nickdelaney6953 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      ​@@xoxo_lilbitt555it's because more media

    • @theuzumakikay8647
      @theuzumakikay8647 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      They’re not getting more frequent. They’re finally getting more attention.
      This is an occurrence that has been happening since the dawn of time and will continue to happen until time stops unfortunately

    • @nickdelaney6953
      @nickdelaney6953 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Abolish the registry and just keep people in jail it they are dangerous wrongful convictions also happen

  • @lavetteharden4835
    @lavetteharden4835 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    THE INNOCENCE OF A CHILD THAT WAS TAKEN BY HER FATHER. I CAN ONLY IMAGINE THE SADNESS SHE WENT THROUGH!! I AM SO SAD FOR YOU!! GOD BLESS YOU SWEETHEART!!

  • @LauraSmith777
    @LauraSmith777 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    You are such a loyal, kind and beautiful person. It is too bad someone didn't speak up for you when they knew it was happening, You. are a strong voice for hurting victims to speak up. I am so thankful for your love that reaches the innocent.

  • @NHJDT
    @NHJDT 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

    You are so strong for surviving and sharing this. There are true monsters in this world

  • @truly3743
    @truly3743 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    I’m very sorry this happened. As a seven year old girl and having well checks and visiting the doctor it’s hard to believe the doctors or nurses didn’t see trauma.

  • @katarinaolstad9709
    @katarinaolstad9709 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    I dont understand how you can survive molestation. You are soooo strong. Thank you for sharing your story. ❤❤❤

  • @user-mr5mb5en2k
    @user-mr5mb5en2k 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Oh you sweet soul… I want to hug you and thank you so much for your transparency, honesty and voice. You are brave AF! I’m in my forties. My ex-husband shot and killed himself two days after our biological daughter disclosed 1.5 years ago. I married him because I thought he was safe. He was a police officer. I met him while I worked at the same department. He was a cop 25 years on the day he killed himself. I’m profoundly proud of my daughter. I am proud of every little human that has the courage to speak. I can’t imagine the fear. And so many children are not believed. So many perpetrators are slapped on the wrist or worst, never convicted. I mourn the husband I thought I had. I left him five years into our marriage because of his verbal and emotional control and abuse. And he was not kind to my son. I applaud you for speaking your story, which emulates the exact same scenario behind way too many closed doors. Thank you for your courage! I hope you reach out somehow … I’d love to talk and collaborate. Suicidal manipulation is a thing and putting money into that is nonsensical to me. There clearly needs a lot of work done to better our infrastructure and our systems in place. And the police should never have a celebration of life for a sex offender… but his department sure did. And invited my daughter. It’s maddening. I’m ready to fight this $hit. It’s gotta stop. Every story gives power back. Every truth stops this sickening cycle. 🫶🏼💕

    • @Eslayybae999
      @Eslayybae999 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Wow so sorry this happened. My father is a cop and I couldn’t imagine. Scary that the people that are supposed to serve and protect let alone protect as parents can even do this.😢

  • @reneakoons4392
    @reneakoons4392 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    God give this lady strength to continue to heal,protect her and grant her all the beauty life holds till the day she dies.This was a horrific story.

    • @ark198989
      @ark198989 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes ABBA, in JESUS Mighty Name!

    • @katanne7382
      @katanne7382 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It seems God and Jesus dropped the ball.

  • @_.Sparky._
    @_.Sparky._ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    As a dad my heart is just aching to hear your story. The beautiful love, trust and yes magic held between a father and a daughter is a sacred thing. Your father violated you and that relationship in such a heinous, despicable way. The fact that his real ‘fear’ was going to jail and not that he was crushing your beautiful soul is just beyond my comprehension.
    Thank u so much for sharing your story. I think it’s hard for many of us to imagine that true monsters like this actually do walk upon the earth. You are incredibly brave and strong! Love and light to you

  • @sassynfree884
    @sassynfree884 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Thank you so much for sharing your WHOLE story. I was riveted when you honestly said “your body reacts”. I knew a 14 year old boy who was molesting younger boys. I was a case manager at the time and he was in a group home. When I tried to explain how that behavior was (whatever I said to him), he replied with “but it doesn’t HURT, it feels good”! It *always* hurts, and I am so sorry it happened to you and he was so brutal. My heart breaks for the little girl, the teenager, the young lady. And then it celebrates the strong, intelligent, well grounded woman you are today. You are an inspiration!
    Again, thank you for your bravery and honesty. 🙏🏻God Bless You & Yours🙏🏻

  • @jacquelinelefebvre2395
    @jacquelinelefebvre2395 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    “The beast ruined the person you were to become!” No one could state the effects of the abuse, better than that! Such a sad and undeserving reality for the victim!😢

    • @TOOKIETIA23
      @TOOKIETIA23 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She is NOT ruined. She is a survivor and a beautiful soul. Saying that this monster ruined her, is giving him control after his death. She is STRONG, BEAUTIFUL, COURAGEOUS, AMAZING and anything but RUINED!!!!!!! She became a very strong person, stronger than she may have been. In a very tragic stick, sad way, but I am PROUD of who she became!!!!

  • @missjackson9680
    @missjackson9680 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    Things that happened to you, it was horrible! You went through horrific things no child should ever have to go through and thanks for sharing. Nothing that happened to you was your fault! Not 1 time or 1000 times! You were subjected to a sick individual! Much love and strength to you and whoever needs to hear this ❤❤❤❤

  • @lisaferguson4266
    @lisaferguson4266 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Such gracious testimony! These stories are so difficult to share with spoken words. I'm always drawn to those who can achieve with such grace, and dignity. Thank you for sharing. 💜💜💜 courage comes in all shapes and sizes

  • @sisko011
    @sisko011 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    What a monster, you are a very brave young woman ❤️

  • @amym.694
    @amym.694 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +156

    I hope he is in prison.

    • @Tyme_flies
      @Tyme_flies 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      He is dead, did you watch the video?

    • @amym.694
      @amym.694 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      @@Tyme_flies I was commenting before the video was released yes I watched the video But he belonged in prison

    • @rickiericktv3320
      @rickiericktv3320 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Tyme_fliessome people can’t listen to this sick ish! Her dad was a monster!

    • @BruceLee-fd7uw
      @BruceLee-fd7uw 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@amym.694😅😅😅dumbo

  • @GeekCulture101
    @GeekCulture101 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    I'm so sorry you went threw this. Having had been molested at a very young age(I'm on a unfiltered stories story too) i understand to well how confusing it is and scary. So my thoughts and prayers are with you.

    • @ceceprincess4758
      @ceceprincess4758 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      When were u on there?

    • @GeekCulture101
      @GeekCulture101 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ceceprincess4758 two weeks ago

    • @GeekCulture101
      @GeekCulture101 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @ceceprincess4758 2 weeks ago. I think it was like 26th or 27th.
      Hope your well.

    • @GeekCulture101
      @GeekCulture101 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Also try not to let the few negative comments some have who havent faced the emotional and psychological struggles and confusion caused by abuse will never understand it. Its also hard for people to face the darker side of this world so they want to believe it other than it is.

  • @ilenerobinson2190
    @ilenerobinson2190 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Just look at your little innocent face 😔 how did you make it through my child. Huge hugs to you for endurance and have faith in God and thank him for keeping you. God loves you.

  • @jennyoyster5054
    @jennyoyster5054 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    This is just so sick and demonic. This poor lady, OMGGGGGGG.

  • @LisaMelton-hj5es
    @LisaMelton-hj5es 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I went through this with both my dad and step dad. My heart breaks for what you went through. I wish I could help others that have been through this. That’s all I’ve ever wanted to do, have a women’s group where we can talk without being judged or feeling awkward or uncomfortable cuz we’ve all been there and we get it. You are amazing! My dad also passed away and right before he did I finally got to tell him to stop denying what he did and I told him what I remembered and he cried and apologized…my stepdad…he just says I won’t talk about it! He’s a scumbag and now has a child of his own and I feel so scared for her or her friends.

  • @ambersm6986
    @ambersm6986 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    You are so honest and correct. I’m so very very sorry for the terrible abuse. Thank you for your bravery

  • @breathnstop
    @breathnstop 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    How a monster can penetrate a little tiny child and torture her like that. Im crying right now.

  • @teijaflink2226
    @teijaflink2226 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I can't believe how strong this woman is, that creep tried to destroy her.

  • @donnajensen5486
    @donnajensen5486 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    1. Thank you for sharing your living experiences so clearly & honestly. 2. The beast leaves a life long taint that will never be eradicated. 3. It does change who we could/should have become. 4. We can bring this evil into the light, we can be brave & fight for children and adult victims for the rest of our lives. You are a warrior! So proud to have met you. Blessings always.

  • @sea2sea2seevanlife92
    @sea2sea2seevanlife92 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    “Grieve the father I never had.”
    Yes… yes. I understand and I’m sorry.
    I’m 60 now and grieving the same loss…
    Father’s can do so much damage, I wonder what my life could have been.😢
    Thank you for sharing your story with us…
    CPTSD… facing it at 60, therapy once a week at 60…
    I apologize… I didn’t mean to make this about me, I just connected with that statement.
    I wish you well, you and yours…

    • @intpleb4206
      @intpleb4206 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Connecting with others over shared experiences is what brings comfort to people in a cold world. I saw nothing that took away from her experience, and I'm grateful you are getting the support that you deserve.

    • @lidiatanasescu4807
      @lidiatanasescu4807 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I trust no man anymore😢😢😢...no words...

  • @genniejefferson6588
    @genniejefferson6588 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    This is one of the worse stories I’ve heard yet. He’s the sickest yet.

    • @Armistead_MacSkye
      @Armistead_MacSkye 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      All of these stories are bad.

  • @sunnyquinn3888
    @sunnyquinn3888 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    No, a child can't "seduce" an adult, ever! It's ALWAYS nobody's fault but the perverted adult's. I'm so angry on your behalf and so sad for every thing that was stolen from you.

  • @MethodiousMind
    @MethodiousMind 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    We need to find a way to prevent people from doing this, as well as quickly get victims out of those situations.

  • @emilyectoplasm
    @emilyectoplasm หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm literally about to text my dad who I haven't spoken to in a year just because I'm so grateful he's a good man and I never had to go through anything like what you did. I'm so sorry.

  • @karenfumagalli583
    @karenfumagalli583 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Omg how awful 😔 what a monster. Thanks for sharing your story ❤

  • @jenhari3432
    @jenhari3432 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    Was it the cps that took you away from you mother? This aggrivates me to no end. I'm so sorry this happened to you 😢

  • @kathydavis2764
    @kathydavis2764 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    The flashbacks alone nearly kills u soo sorry

  • @paolow1299
    @paolow1299 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    What a remarkable young woman .I applaud her for showing such courage and decency during the trials she had to endure .

  • @NancyCronk
    @NancyCronk 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I wish this woman strength, peace and healing. Because of her courage, others will will be helped. Thank you.

  • @thaistomp
    @thaistomp 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    This is the real reason a lot of dads don't like guys talking to their daughters.

    • @auntv7727
      @auntv7727 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Amen

    • @thaistomp
      @thaistomp 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@auntv7727 it’s crazy how nobody ever wants to talk about it though 🤫

    • @KayciazWorld
      @KayciazWorld 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ​@@thaistomp Yep, this. It's not about protection and normal healthy love for their daughters. It's because they want them to themselves💔

    • @thaistomp
      @thaistomp 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@KayciazWorld Pure facts sis. I lost out on so many opportunities with girls because their dads were jealous of me 'cause I'm tall/muscular, and a trained fighter. Crazy times we're living in.

    • @user-qu4ey5yy3f
      @user-qu4ey5yy3f 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Are you saying a Dad should just let every would- be fisherman, fish around his daughter??. Every parent should view their son/daughters friends with cautions,
      that's what loving parents do.

  • @Oranges-and-despair10
    @Oranges-and-despair10 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    Stories like this break my heart.

  • @Anon06428
    @Anon06428 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My oldest sister went through this. She demonizes me to this day for reporting to cps when I was 13. Sad that my sister can’t realize I was not trying to shame her I wanted to help my family I was scared for all 6 of my other siblings….. and myself who was also being physically abused badly. She has hurt me deeply in adulthood and I have cut her off.

  • @apriljohnson2441
    @apriljohnson2441 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +98

    This is horrible your father will burn in hell if he does not repent!! My 🙏🏾 to you for what you have endured

    • @reneakoons4392
      @reneakoons4392 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Even repenting won't save someone from these evil doings,Karma with not forget.

    • @kathydavis2764
      @kathydavis2764 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      To bad he will have a chance to repent poor girl

    • @yvonnegoodgridge6693
      @yvonnegoodgridge6693 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He needs too right here on earth, and a truck need

    • @_green_needle
      @_green_needle 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      It's actually messed up if you think repenting extinguishes the monstrous acts he committed.

    • @alexzandria6803
      @alexzandria6803 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Did y’all not watch the video? He’s already dead.

  • @gods_favorite5912
    @gods_favorite5912 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My step dad used to always make comments about my figure in front of my mom & says how we used to take baths together when I was little he also make a move on my oldest sister I’m just starting my healing journey

  • @sindeeesquibel5198
    @sindeeesquibel5198 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    That monster who called himself your father is a disgusting and horrific possessing.

  • @Dani-fc1hc
    @Dani-fc1hc 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    This is so disturbing I couldn’t finish. I pray her dad is in jail.

    • @angelaholmes8888
      @angelaholmes8888 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Before he could be arrested he died

  • @nicoleluther4510
    @nicoleluther4510 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    my dad did the same thing to me on my visitation days. Also at home I got beat for looking at mother the wrong way. she threatened to kill me if i told. I had mommie and daddy dearest. I still have nightmares' even though their dead!

  • @fionualarogersa.k.amisstip4620
    @fionualarogersa.k.amisstip4620 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Bless your pure heart 😔I can't imagine the deceit, confusion, and heart breaking pain of what your father was doing to you. Your strength and courage is a testament to you! You're an inspiration. Huge love and warm hug coming your way 💐❤

  • @MM2PuppyDog
    @MM2PuppyDog 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I'm so glad that you have a great husband to help you through all this. Keep being the strong, courageous survivor and continue helping other survivors.. You are awesone!!!!

  • @blackpower87
    @blackpower87 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Exactly 💯 no excuse because what abuse he suffered as a child. At the end of the day, parents are supposed to protect their children. So sad what you been through. Thank you for sharing your story. 🙏🏾🙏🏾♥️♥️

  • @mrbakerskatz
    @mrbakerskatz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This happens every minute of everyday and it has to stop . It destroyed my sister and my life’s , there is no recovery …..just attempted coping !

  • @shaunasmith8834
    @shaunasmith8834 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This must be so hard to expose. Thank you for your selflessness and for bringing awareness

  • @daniellealarid8984
    @daniellealarid8984 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is somewhat similar to what happened to me. I totally empathize with anyone that has gone thru this. It’s heartbreaking and devastating. The damage it causes is beyond comprehension at times. This is one thing I wish didn’t exist in the world . 😢

    • @sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722
      @sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm sorry to heard that, I hope you to be alright now, if you want, you can tell your complete history, but if not, it is fine, I know that could be really hard but I'm pretty sure that you strong, the same fact of mention this demonstrate that you're strong and you some day are going to tell the history and feel proud cause you, are going to be even stronger

    • @sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722
      @sebastianblackandwhitewatc2722 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The best wishes, good luck, and remember Build a better future

  • @nickdelaney6953
    @nickdelaney6953 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Proof that the sex offender registry doesn't work it should be abolished. The person who's a really threat already knows the kids cop, teacher, family members etc

    • @beverlybalius9303
      @beverlybalius9303 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      No it should not be abolished,,, that has saved lives.

    • @nickdelaney6953
      @nickdelaney6953 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@beverlybalius9303 no it has not lol

    • @nickdelaney6953
      @nickdelaney6953 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@beverlybalius9303 it has actually done the opposite it has put kids lives in greater danger did you know people are on it that shouldn't be like kids as young as 9

    • @Armistead_MacSkye
      @Armistead_MacSkye 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@nickdelaney6953You must be on the registry.

    • @thatsthejobbb8587
      @thatsthejobbb8587 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes, and then those people go on the register post eviction to help prevent further reoffending? What kind of warped logic is that?!

  • @MOPARDIVA
    @MOPARDIVA 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Your heart ❤️ is pure I'm sorry you had to go through this 😢

  • @mckmel5496
    @mckmel5496 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Good for you for speaking out.

  • @jeanette4026
    @jeanette4026 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    I pray for your peace...

  • @kellybishop7238
    @kellybishop7238 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    God bless you for sharing your story, know that it will make a difference with someone who is suffering like you did. You are a true survivor and an inspiration. Wishing you all the blessings you deserve

  • @ellyt3429
    @ellyt3429 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    this is so truly horrifying- what a sick, twisted, evil monster of a man. words will never be good enough, i am so sorry. you should’ve been protected + cared for, and you deserve so, so much better than what life has given you. how could so many people turn a blind eye + let a child down in such a horrific, traumatising way? how do they live with themselves?

  • @goldieslacks
    @goldieslacks 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I wasnt molested by my dad but emotionally abused. He was a drug addict and he would call and taunt me and ask me where he should shoot up because the veins in his arms collapsed. He would also tell me that his then wife didnt want me in their house and he would make me sit on the porch no chair during visits. My name was not put in his obituary.

  • @bornbranded29
    @bornbranded29 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Such a profoundly evil father. I hope she forgives him - for her peace of mind. And I hope she turns to God for consolation and healing.

    • @beegeesquirrel9010
      @beegeesquirrel9010 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      how can you hope she forgives that animal? she doesn't need to forgive.

  • @wandalester8624
    @wandalester8624 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I felt so guilty for having good feelings. A Counselor helped me, she said because I had a normal body. A child is not emotionally ready for adult feelings.
    I'm so so sorry you had to live through this. We are victims to Victorious!

  • @merisadelcampo8352
    @merisadelcampo8352 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    So heart-breaking to listen to your story. You are a strong brave woman!

  • @Phanonyoutube
    @Phanonyoutube 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    This is so heartbreaking 💔

  • @shawn576
    @shawn576 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    This does sound emotionally confusing. The only person who cares about you is also a person who abuses you, so that becomes "normal" behavior. People find themselves in abusive relationships over and over again.

  • @x0539p
    @x0539p 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Never assume you know that a person is doing unthinkable things to a child & say well “I don’t have proof. And do nothing”. Your gut instinct is telling you that it’s happening & report them! If you confront them they now need to make excuses or move away suddenly & the abuse continues for the victim. Just confronting the victim will tell you it’s true despite their them denying it as it will be written all over their face & body. We are taught to not get involved in other peoples business but that is wrong. I too was SA as a child by a man my father placed me with & I told people but no one not even my dad wanted to hear of it & called me a liar & left me there to be abused over & over. My dad admitted to me at 21 that he knew the guy was a molester & had told him not to touch me but still left me there. I hate my dad to this day despite him dying years ago. My life has been a struggle & still is despite the years of therapy. What I would have given for just one person to speak up for me, to protect me, to love me enough to help me. I was 5 when it started & it went on for years. I have kids & I have fiercely protected them & have an open door policy where they can talk to me about anything & I won’t get mad or upset. They know I was SA & abused in other ways & how hard life has been for me. Suicide has been a constant thought throughout my life & they don’t know that part. I am still here because of them, because I don’t want to hurt them by taking my life. They are my saviours. If you suspect any type of abuse don’t walk away from it. You will save a precious life!

  • @user-on3pt6wc7p
    @user-on3pt6wc7p 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I survived my biologcol father's abuse & am am strong survived who feels very compassionate 😭 about childhood sexual abuse... They need heavier sentences by "Our supreme Court's decisions" & JURY'S...😢

  • @maryanneoflaherty2560
    @maryanneoflaherty2560 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    No words. Was he not attracted to his own wife? Just sick. I'm so sorry.

    • @user-pd5et5ft7p
      @user-pd5et5ft7p 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      of course he was, but he was attracted to his daughter too. The two things are not exclusive.

    • @RP-vy8st
      @RP-vy8st 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      He was a gross lustful man

  • @oodlesmallow8150
    @oodlesmallow8150 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    🥺😤😡😡🤬🤬🤯🤯 YOU ARE STRONGER THAN MOST PEOPLE CAN EVEN FATHOM BEING.

  • @shereerockdaschel9301
    @shereerockdaschel9301 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I always told both of my children did if anybody ever touched them that way I don’t care who it is you tell me even if that person was their father.

  • @whisper_dreams216
    @whisper_dreams216 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This young lady is amazing! My heart just hurts for the innocence she lost. You will do great things in life. Your story will save someone. Many times we'd don't know what we have to be the one to hit through it.. but God always holds u up

  • @TheCHRISTLOVER
    @TheCHRISTLOVER 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    my daddy is so protective and he totally hates nonsense like this, men, I thank God for the dad he gave me, I'm really sorry for that pain and all you faced😢

  • @Eurael
    @Eurael 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    😢 😭 I am so sorry that all this happened to you. It wasn't your fault at all, but it was the monster's fault who was supposed to protect you. All 7 year old girls would do what you did because they don't know what's wrong and what's right. It's even more confusing and harder when it's your own father. I pray to Jesus to help you get over your PTSD and all flush backs. May God bless you, your husband, and your girls forever!!!

  • @sindeymacias4904
    @sindeymacias4904 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's crazy how the people that are suppose to protect you and care for you do the most horrific things to you , thank you Cristina for sharing ! I hope you keep healing from this 🩷 your beautiful and so strong mama.

  • @JakoleenJansenvanvuuren
    @JakoleenJansenvanvuuren 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I was 16 when my one uncle touched me inappropriate i told my grand parents they chased him away praying for u as a survivor

  • @PrincessPowerranger
    @PrincessPowerranger 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I hate that this happened to you, i personally would have walked away during his suicide attempt the fact that you still tried to help this man. You are an incredibly strong❤ you've gone through so much and still turned into a beautiful soul❤i hope that you continue to grow

  • @cindie785
    @cindie785 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This horrible nightmare you have endured. I wish I could take the pain that you feel even today. No child should have to live or relive this in memory. All we can do is fight that our children dont go thru this. THAT PAIN STOPS WITH US....

  • @LM-my1jz
    @LM-my1jz 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You are a hero to tell your story, and save another girl from this horror

  • @M3GRSD
    @M3GRSD 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    This was very hard to hear, but thank you for sharing. You are a survivor! Don't grieve, he was not a father, not a dad, he wasn't even human.

  • @reneahetrick8142
    @reneahetrick8142 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You're aunt should be in jail for not going the police about what happened to you 🙄

  • @maritzasimmons1649
    @maritzasimmons1649 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing your story. Many adults deal with childhood trauma just like yours, and it’s so hard to put the pieces of your life together as you try to live life. Though many try to ignore and put this memories in the back of their mind, without counseling, the deep, rooted issues, hurt, emotional and mental pain, trust issues and insecurities will always be there. It’s not that these weren’t happening before or are more frequent now… it’s that we have an open platform to tell our stories, stories that most who have a great life with wonderful care takers, a happy childhood would like to pretend doesn’t happen and rather ignore and keep living in blissful ignorance.
    Exposing your abuser and sharing your story gives you power that the abuser can’t take away from you. And it gives strength and understanding to those who might be going through it that they don’t need to keep this kind of secret. If you’re being abused in any way, you’re not at fault, you have nothing to be ashamed of and you don’t have to protect them or feel guilty for exposing them. I’m sorry your father “your abuser” died and didn’t get punished here on earth for what he did, but trust, he’s paying the price right now, in hell. Take care of your beautiful children, God bless you.
    Thank you for sharing.

  • @nichole9943
    @nichole9943 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I can't imagine going through this. She was also so beautiful as a teen and still is... what a sick bastard.

  • @_nz_diy_
    @_nz_diy_ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My mind is utterly blown 😮. As a solo dad I'm so sorry hear about this, and the trauma caused.

  • @hollyaseltine1965
    @hollyaseltine1965 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Wow I am so sorry you had to go through that!! I can't even begin to understand how TF a parent can even think about doing this with their child!!! This is a sick world

  • @amerocker
    @amerocker 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Feb 29, 2024
    With all the illicit problems in the USA now, like child sex trafficking, I still find it disturbing we can not protect our children, our little girls from molestation. This current administration and congress are the most heinous to date. Until good Americans make molestation stop, this tragedy will perpetuate. I am sorry for your pain and suffering.

    • @susiesmith406
      @susiesmith406 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are so right! Party line Democrat court Colorado just voted probation is acceptable for punishment in raping 1 to 4 year olds! Sick!!!! Evil has to stop

    • @fredmckinney8933
      @fredmckinney8933 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@susiesmith406Probably because the lawmakers are doing this vile crap themselves.

  • @danelleporter7330
    @danelleporter7330 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Im so sorry this happened to you! No child should ever have to deal with this! Unfortunately, its happening everywhere!

  • @hakunakahuna
    @hakunakahuna 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Just want to say I am dad to two teen stepdaughters, and I have never and would never do anything like this to them. If anyone did, I would definitely go to prison for beating the perp slowly with a bat.
    I am so, so sorry this happened to you. You are a brave woman for telling your story, and many kudos to Sam for stepping up and being a great support to you. I am sure working through this has been challenging to you both.
    You see, even though there is a lot of bad in this world, there is also still a lot of good as well. I am glad that you could still see there are good men. Wishing you and your family many blessings.

  • @user-hp9wo2ko9s
    @user-hp9wo2ko9s 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I'm sorry that this has happened to you.🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @ShimmerRaven
    @ShimmerRaven 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You are a warrior and never deserved any of that evil

  • @astrohitter1791
    @astrohitter1791 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Im so sorry 😞

  • @susannasnyder-vm3hd
    @susannasnyder-vm3hd หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sweet strong woman I am so so sorry for this travesty and horror that was put upon you for so many years. May you continue to heal and be the amazing mother and wife I know you are.

  • @user-em2qp3gc1o
    @user-em2qp3gc1o 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    God bless yall on what yall do always

  • @warriorwoman3247
    @warriorwoman3247 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    You are in my prayers 💗😢
    Your such a strong woman beautiful smart and you deserve only the best as well as your family you have made. I send you big big hugs K Dios les ayude y Los cuide mucho 🥰😘❤️