I Was Molested By My Father For 3 Years
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 30 ก.ย. 2024
- In this episode, Shyanna Pettis shares her story with us. She was molested by her own father for 3 years, leaving her traumatized. Now as a 33 year old woman, she states that she is still healing from this harrowing part of her childhood. Shyanna has written a book about her experience and found her voice through words.
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This is so sad I just think god that this didn’t happen to me, because this happened so much in homes, I had my biological dad in my life. And my stepdad been in my life because he was with my mom when I was a baby and I had the best two dads in the world her dad was a horrible person they always say hurt people hurt people I pray that god gives her the peace that surpasses all understanding
I’m so sorry that happened to u
Young lady I'm so sorry for what you went thru .. but you're very courageous and I will surely keep you in my prayers...God loves you and me too...be strong and forgiving..and pray ❤❤❤ love you always
Tis is the same thing happen to my daughter she is 17 knw and the judge takes for the father
Those fathers out there need to go prison for the rest of their lives for child molestation can u imagine ur own father so sad God brought. You through through my dear so sad
How a man can violate his daughter in this way is beyond me smh . I hope she’s in therapy and getting the help she needs
I have a friend that went through this and she maintained a relationship with her dad down to his death . She also sings his praises on social media . I questioned her on it and she went snap off on me
@stacyr4768 Lend her your sympathy and grace. She is very much conflicted and trapped between the father she loves and the man who molested her. You became a vent for her anger. The anger she let out in you is only a fraction of the anger she feels toward herself, which were she to release it on herself, she would probably unalive herself. She is a victim who refuses to acknowledge that she is a victim.
@@akuddawahu9247 You are very correct . She claims that she never filed charges because didn’t want the anger to consume her .
Right I can’t believe how that happens smh how traumatic
Hope he's in prison. Still listening and not read messages as yet
Wow 😮 now more and more women are coming out..i am not alone i am so thankful she told her story. I was molested by father from when i was a baby until the age of six years old. One day he came home early from work, and told my mom he was very sick he diagnosed with a liver disease.
After that he stopped touching me and suffered a 6 year horrible death and passed away when i was 12 years old. My dad was 1 out of 10 siblings. My family knew but didnt want me to talk about it, so my dad wouldnt be looked at as a bad man. But i took my power back by telling my story. I realized this was a generational curse that has to be broken.
Thats why now i can tell my story so comfortably now.
Same. ❤
@@MillennialMountainMama 🤎🙏🏾
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@@sv6775 🤎🖤🙏🏼🫶🏼🙌🏼💫
I always thought that I was alone too. I’m so happy that most people are coming out to tell the stories because I always thought that I was by myself about what happened to me growing up into this day. I still suffer with it so I hope more people tell the stories about what happened to them also
My heart goes out to this woman what happened to her wasn't her fault she is truly a survivor
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What an amazing mother she became
Thank
You 😊
If this ever happened to any of my kids i would be in jail for murder
Yes you would 😂
Dam Straight!!!
That’s not what your kids need, they need you. Losing you to jail would totally traumatize them
much worse.
If you go to jail who's going to look out for your children? All you will do is leave them unprotected for other predators.
I know you feel that way, and that’s normal. But you need to stop and think of the consequences on your kids, if you’d be locked away in jail for 10-20 years. It’s not worth it, that’s punishing your kid.
A father is supposed to protect his family, not harm them. She was let down by both parents. I pray for her healing.
Fathers/men are supposed to be the reason why we don’t need protection.
This poor baby.
I would have ran away
Wow! Evil man
Exactly
For all the people in the comments that said they went to the same thing or that have gone through something similar I pray that all of you heal! ❤
Thank you girl
Sickest thing! I have been married to my wife for nearly 30 years. I raised her girls, and I think of them as my biological daughters. I NEVER had an inkling to be sexually attracted to either one of them! I hope that at the end of this story, creepy daddy goes to jail!
AMEN AMEN AMEN, U r a #Good man🎉
We need more men like you
@@Toni-AnnLeone-ww5id AMEN AMEN AMEN, Sister 🙏❤️
Kudos to you, sir 🎉🎉
This is what a MAN is.
There are too many men sick in the head, willing to harm whomever just to get their needs met. I am proud of you for sharing your story, persevering .
Exactly damn. He had his children in a shelter I guess better than the streets but goodness you would think his thoughts would be on future housing and not lusting after his daughter!!
Women do it too.
@@TheresaofTheWorld absolutely!! It was in this case I’m speaking of.
This man is disgusting. A daughter should never sleep in the father's room. That's definitely a red flag. I can't believe that this shit still happens in a modern society
@@gregorylyon1004 I agree with you about the father sleeping with the daughter Someone explained to me it’s not wrong and many fathers nap with their daughters and bathe them and don’t touch them. He was already sick and has serious issues!! If I was a worker at that shelter I would have had eyes on him all night he should have slept with the son and gave the daughter the other bed, weirdo. I would have gotten fired.
I was molested by a cousin that not only molested me at 5yrs old he took his time mentally abusing me also telling me I was the ugliest light skinned girl that he had ever seen. So I suffered threw life thinking that I had to always wear makeup even to go take the garbage out. To make this situation even worse his mother was the one that woke me up in the middle of the night and took me to him so I know she knew what was going on. SMH I went through hell,my mother was on drugs I told her what was happening to me but she act like she didn't hear me and continued to leave me over there 😢😢😢😢.I'm 46 i thought that i was over this but I can't stop crying just talking about it.😢😢😢😢
You need to press charges on your cousin and his mother (your aunt)They need to be put in prison for what they did to you.
Sending love and hugs to you strong woman.
😢
I’m sorry that happened to you
I'm so sorry for what happened to you sending you love and hugs
That's sad and disgusting
As a father, I really can’t imagine this. It makes no sense. It’s demonic.
I had to stop at 8:14.
8:14 is insane. Wanted to throw up
Tough to hear this. 😢
Right, it really is.
All it says at 8:14 is that he wasnt a drug user or an alcohol user. What is so bad about that?
@@boxelder9147
I guess they're trying to say at the time they heard enough and couldn't keep listening to hear anything else this father did to his own daughter.....
Biological father Austin Stevens brutally raped his 22 month old baby that wasn't enough so then he unalived her..
Biological farher Christopher Fransicquini strangled his 11 month old daughter that wasn't enough so he then stabbed her, that wasn't enough so he then dismembered her tiny precious little body....all that is deeply disturbing to hear...smh
That Evil 😈 & Demonic.
Stockholm Syndrome is real, my heart goes out to her. Sending love and prayers to her for continued healing.
It's more like a Slave Plantation Syndrome when mammy and the girls (Buck too) were g-raped first long before that incident in Stockholm.
Stockholm syndrome is having empathy for your abuser. So all you folks encouraging prayer are part of the problem!
@@bmailey75oh shut up
@@bmailey75 It's being BRAIN WASHED in to liking/relying on your abductor/abuser.
@bmailey75 I'm not religious but people have their right to believe in whatever they want. Who are we to judge about their healing, whether that be through prayer or whatever🤷♀️
THE BIOLOGICAL MOTHER PISSES ME OFF AS WELL. SMDH
She’s just as much of a monster as he is (excuse me…”more” of a monster).
@@leeleemee She's evil .
I admire your strength and bravery. I was abused in a 1 time incident at 5. I'll be 50 soon. No way I could confront the abuser. Continue in your healing. At only 11 you handled the situation quite well. The adults in your life dropped the ball 🏈 in protecting you.💙🥀🌹
@@JenSumma thank you. It's just embarrassing for me more than anything at this point.
@@JenSumma happy holidays, again thank you. When I was younger I was very angry. -& wanted revenge. But now I'll just let karma handle it. Karma has been doing very well by me.🦾
There was no way I could’ve confronted my abuser, my dad, I think for most of us it would be too difficult, no matter what age we are.
And I could never have told my mom either, as it was I think she suspected what was going on and I think she was blaming me possibly stemming from other infidelities from him in their marriage. This was in the 60’s, I was barely a teen at the time.
as a father of a 10yr old (girl) :
EVERY GIRL IS A PRINCESS , SO TREAT HER LIKE THAT - WITH LOVE & RESPECT !!!
NOTHING IS WORSE THAN LOSING YOUR BEST LITTLE FRIEND !!!
Why do y’all spoil yall daughters?
A biological father molesting his daughter is worst😢
You are a wonderful father!!PROUD OF YOU!!WISH IF OTHER FATHERS COULD TALK AND DO LIKE YOU!!❤ AND RESPECT!!😊
Apparently some of these dudes thought their daughters was Princess P***y.
You are beautiful person it's not your fault we all have our stories it seems like no one wants to listen but now it's all coming out good keep up the good work we needed this now mothers need to put burglar alarms on their daughter's doors to keep them safe from evil people God bless you
You started being around him again, because you were trauma bonded.
It was not your fault, and I'm so sorry this happened to you.
You are so brave, telling your story. The more you talk about it, the less of a hold it has on you.
I'm so happy to hear that you've taken your power back, and living your best life ❤
These men are sick and perverse.
Im so sorry that you had to go through that at the hands of your own father.
Stories like these make me miss my dad so much , and so grateful that he was my protector and wasn’t some perverse man because I slept in the bed with him a lot when I was little because my mom wasn’t there and I was only child at home. Never everrr did he violate me.
What is wrong with the vast MAJORITY of men? Like it’s the grandpas, dads, brothers, uncles, any male figure. And it happens a lot more than you think. It’s very sickening to me.
Yeah I want to know as well. I was abused by every single man in my life. Physically, emotionally, verbally, and sexually. It’s pushed under the rug in Black families and they are allowed to get away with it. In turn as little girls we are called “fast” and then it turns to black men calling most of us and angry, bitter and defensive. We become the angry black woman. Everything that happened to us is our fault.
@@phoenixsinclair2959Me too. It opens a demonic door to be further abused by every man that comes along. It’s child sacrifice. These men that assaulted me, they are proud. And proud that they can go around saying they SA someone who has been abused their whole life. But you know what? God sees what they did and he will repay what’s due.
@@phoenixsinclair2959it’s not your fault
@@phoenixsinclair2959not only black families, it doesn’t matter what race.
These men? Dont be so nieve. Women are doing this too. Yes to their sons and daughters.
Just sick and disgusting so sorry you had to go through this 😢it’s just a shame little girls can’t just be innocent little girls
As a man of indigenous African descent it’s disturbing how common molestation is in our families.
Right 😢
Indigenous African descent is a weird way to say white
@@eredmond5345 are u 🦥
I worry about the high percentage of single mothers who, desperate for love and support will have boyfriends come in to her life and then the molestation rate is much higher. All children need to parents who are moral and committed to making their marriage a success and protecting, teaching and providing for their children. It’s not easy but it is what our Heavenly Father wants for us. Peace and joy in families.
@@eredmond5345I didn’t hear Caucus mountain- indigenous is an antonym to white… make it make sense 🙄
Please please TELL SOMEONE, TELL ANYONE!!! These people need to be in PRISON!!! My black folks, please realize that we need to PROTECT OUR LITTLE GIRLS. This happens too often in our communities!! Prayers do not stop it!! The law does!!!
We need to protect our sons and daughters. It happens in every community no matter the color of the skin
Please send your Dad your book so he can see from your eyes what you went through with him. Prayers for you and your mental health.❤
That's a good idea about him reading her book
No he needs to be sent to PRISON! Not no damn book!!!
@@CourageUnderFire87 according to her, he is in prison!
Why on earth would that be her responsibility to be retraumatized by trying to prove anything to one of the worse kinds of predators, the one who preys on his own. If violating her child’s body didn’t sear his mind why would he actually read what he did to her. Come on, some of you ask things with intentions not thought out with the VICTIM in mind.
@@nasheilagibbonsknox She said herself that she was going to visit him in prison so wouldn't that be retraumatizing herself also? Sending him her book is a way to say hey, I remember all the things you did to me and now the whole world knows! 🤔
So sorry this happened to you but I’m so happy that you’re on your healing journey. Praying that God continues to strengthen you as a mother 🙌🏾
This absolutely a crazy story .molested by your own father.that’s completely insane 😫🤦♀️
I know it's sad but, it does happen quite often in every race , poverty stricken communities, middle class and the rich as well
@@sharondaoliver8520 I don’t understand how someone can do that to their own child.that’s sickening
And very common
So sad
It knows no boundaries, race, financial, religion, none.
I am so sorry 😞 this happened to her. When you are betrayed by your own father, you dont know who to trust.
💯💯💯💯
I was hurt by foster parents at 8 years old! I am now 62 years old, I still have nightmares!
I suffered the same experience except it was my Stepdad. From the time I was nine to 11. He didn’t drink or do drugs. He hid behind the Church. Deacon this and Elder this. I forgive him because that’s healing for me. It does affect my mental being. I pray a lot for peace of mind. 😢
PS: You are the FIRST abused person - that I hear - fought against *the abuser* in a certain way. I am very SORRY for such occurrence, however, VERY VERY & VERY PROUD OF YOU!
- Thank you *SO SO* much my Lady - THANK YOUUUUUUUUUUU!!!
"Obrigada" (in Portuguese) = Thank you.
I am so sorry your family failed you. You are right, the minute you told your mother what your father was doing to you, she should of came flying over there with the police asap! She failed you just as much as your grandma and father failed you. I am so glad he is rotting in prison now and pray that he never walks free.
I really prayed and hope they teach young kids and teens about SA. No matter , people should speak up.
I am so sorry that you experienced this. You didn’t deserve that and it wasn’t your fault. Wishing you healing, peace and happiness.
This is so messed up. I am a father to a beautiful princess, and I always ensure to show her nothing but love and protection.
I'm an Independent Latino. God Bless Shyanna. The sad part is her father being Sexual molested in his life. People please get proper professional help to heal the young kid trauma. Break the "Generation Curse". So not to molested and abuse others and damage the next generation. Learn from other peoples window of their lives......Yes Bueno.
It's not a curse this is shit you chose to do
"independent latina" troll alert 🚨
I'm sorry that happened to you. Your step mom didn't sense that he was gone at night. No woke up hearing anything. My dad raped me at 17 so i know how you feel. He got 10 years in jail. Yor dad was a monster. The family is always in denial. Like that person is God or a king or something. My other siblings talk to my dad. I don't have a relationship til this day. I have PTSD and other mental health problems. I have issues with intercourse because of being raped and molested as a child. I been celibate for six years. I'm trying to give myself to the right person. Thanks for sharing your story.
How do you feel about your siblings?
This is so sad. Praying for all the people who were sexually abused by a parent. 😢
Thank you so much for your story. My daughter told me at 14 years old basically that my new husband (son's father) had touched her on her tail more than once. I asked her why she didn't tell me, she said because she thought I loved him and she didn't want to break us up..I explained to her that she is my First love and will always come first. Thank you again so much for your life lesson.
So sorry you had to experience such horrendous trauma in your childhood. No child should ever have to go through such a heinous crime. Your father is a monster. So is my half sibling, they are not men, they are demons. These predators come like they are sweet and light. They use what threats they know will keep a child silent. Of course you would be confused as a child. Once your abused you do start acting and thinking differently. I still to this day as a grown women see the world through different eyes than most. I can never understand why my parents did nothing about it. Why are families complicit? I pray healing, blessings, love and light over your life.❤💜🙏🏾
My stepfather raised me and never ever tried to harm me. He was such a protector even after i was married. Suchva good man even after my mother left me with him and his biological children. Sorry that happened to her by a blood father 😢
God bless your step dad.
I'm so happy my step dad never did this too. My heart goes out to these kids
I had a stepfather. Such a great man. Over protecting and respectful to me. God bless his soul.
@@imeldapolymise8457 me too my stepfather was very protective and a real man that had morals.
I disagree with her kinda blaming herself for her kids not having good dads. Women have been made the scapegoats for men's shitty behavior especially when it comes to being a father. The reality is, its the man's responsibility to be a good father to his kids. Its not "well you chose him" thats just a gaslighting excuse to obsolve a man from his responsibility. He is not a brainless breeding robot! He knows better and is supposed to change for his kids.
Yes💯
We need to keep speaking up about these people who do these types of crimes. Thanks for sharing your story.
You have tremendous courage.
💨 YES!!!!
Shyanna, so sorry you had to deal with that abuse and all the turmoil that came along with it. Seems even worse since he wasn’t (apparently) always that way, then kind of instantly became someone you couldn’t rely on. I hope and pray that you will continue to heal and that you and your children have people in your lives who are worthy of you. You are worth it. God bless you♥️
I believe every word you say dear heart.God has giving you strength!
AMEN AMEN, Me 2🎉
This is so sad especially because she’s not the only one. As a woman who had no father this makes me skeptical of men.
Not all fathers or men in general are sexual predator animals.
Sadly this is common in black families back then and is presently continues to happen!!!!
All families I have taken care of more Caucasian child molestors in prison than I can count.
Almost every woman I met have been touched so sad women are not protected. Growing up I have been touched by several of my mothers boyfriends she didn't believe me. Prayer for all children
That's the worse the mothers. They are the ones who perpetuate thus. Hope you find your peace.
@@linklight889💯💯💯
My heart goes out to you and anyone who has gone through this experience. My wife confided in me when we started dating at 26 that her father had done the same to her since she was eleven and it was still happening as she was telling me. It caused many problems with her reliving it and then pretending it was a non-factor and me not knowing how to help her or myself. It can cause lasting effects on all involved. It is so important to speak up and speak out and not sweep it under the rug. We are divorced now.
@@JenSummaYes, Into adulthood. Families can have secrets that would astonish outsiders if they knew what was going on behind closed doors.
@@JenSummathat’s why the world seriously needs Jesus!
Even being a believer doesn’t stop this, it is just brushed under the rug and the perpetrator is protected 😢.
Your father was pure evil for doing this to you. I pray he repents of his sins. As for you, May Jesus heal you from this trauma.
There is healing in Jesus. Trust and believe in Him alone! ❤
Do we really need men in the house
This so 😭 . Very painful to listen to
I'm angry . I can't even finish this clip. She's very brave to tell her story. But what we need is good men to stop letting toxic men take the lead in the world. We need them .
They're too quiet while the toxic ones are too loud !
that is unfair to all male who are loving and protecting.
I am 53 (father, with girl, just 10)
i have never personally been physically abused but my brother has been when he was 8 by my father , just one time. It took him !!!35 years!!! to talk about it.... only then and all the coming outs in Hollywood etc, I suddenly realized that my father did also abuse me - but indirectly - only by watching me through the door in bathroom when I was 12-17, or through a balcony window when it was dark outside and lights inside turned on (he always said i cannot see from indoor to outdoor, but you can feel it when someone sneeks to your door..), or he just walked in my room without knocking, and many other situations....
And when he even told me "proudly" he tried to hook up with a 15yr old girl in a hospital (20 yrs ago when he was +- 60) and when the people there realized it, he fled from the clinic before something happened . .
Only then i started to become more and more aware about abuse but had no evidences as my brother did not want to report it to police.... (ashamed and "for the good reputation")
no wonder why all the victims need sooooo much time to talk and all the pedos get away (usually after 30 years) within their own crim...-system , created especially for that purpose...
5yrs ago i confronted my father as he only went to church instead hanging out with our family and said he is not a Christ but a "pedo" and shut the door.... we never met again. in a last will he at least had bad concious and wanted to reemburse me with money (which i get anyways as son after parents death) ...
my daughter is now 10, lives in Poland & Russia. i met her when she was 5 because my girl friend knew about all that and wanted not to let my father know about the baby. i fell in love with her instantly and I have the greatest little daughter , friend "sister" (i never had) .
how can someone do this to a child? its so unfair, disturbing, hurting. you NEVER get over that ! It destroys life and beyond that also you the self esteem of the victims , , careeer , new family, etc etc....
well this giot longer here than expected.....
anyways. LOVE TO ALL !!!!!! LOVE THE KIDS !!!!!!!
i think every child need a papa and a mama
Just the father's not your lustfull narsty boyfriends AFC podcast will tell you that
Thank you for sharing one day I will share mine ❤right now I am in therapy but I still aren’t brave enough to share my story
God Bless u sweetheart for telling ur truth I'm Also a SA survivor, by the hands of my Step monster father, I believe my mom knew, I applaud u 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽For ur strength ,Blessings to u my 💕dear.
He will reap. What he sowed to you. Thank you for sharing beautiful you are strong and beautiful! You deserve your peace!
AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉🎉🎉🎉
Preach
You should mail your dad a copy of the book
It’s so terrible especially the fact that a Father should be protecting their child. Abuse is so traumatic and damaging and affects a victim for life. Unfortunately this happens more than people realise 😔
The statistics show 1 in 3 girls, 1 of 4-5 boys. But it most likely happens more because so many don’t report it. 😭
It does affect a victim for life, in every way.
Thank you for telling your story. PLEASE share with everyone. There are a lot of us out here. The trauma is real!
My mother sent me up the road for a cup of suger,To get from her best friend, She wasnt home,Her husband who was my dad best friend, Inappropriate touch me,I was 7yrs old,Im now 61 never told my parents, I didn't want my dad to go to jail, My father would have killed him with his bare hands. Both of my parents decreased. I have 3 girls ,And iwas very over protective of them when they were young.
So sorry you experienced abuse. I wish the adults in your life were more protective of children. Your father should have went to prison 😢. Thanks for sharing 🌸🌹
Thank you for your story I am 66 years old now and just listening to you tell your story a lot is the same as my story I'm now going to a therapist and I'm depressed
I’m sorry this happened to you too, it happened to me, I didn’t speak about it or start getting therapy until my 60’s. I still am affected.😥
I used to sleep in the bed with my dad every night my mom would go to work..But i blacked out. I would scream and cry 😢 and beg for my mom to stay and not go to work. But she wouldn't listen. He would tell me i am trouble and this way his way of disciplining me.
Same, not with my dad but with my uncles. One would touch me. One would beat me.
@@phoenixsinclair2959 Wow 😢 I am so sorry 😞 you went through this. I have a great friend of mine shes like a sister to me. Unfortunately her uncle touched her too. Me and her are learning to heal together. ✨️ I pray 🙏🏼 you will find peace and keep healing over time.
@@phoenixsinclair2959 Wow 😢 thar breaks my heart. My dad tried to unalive me a few times before he passed. He even tried to do it in front of my older sister. She froze. My dad didn't like when I would be in a good mood and be nice too him it was like his torture. But when I wouldn't say anything he would buy me gifts. But I blacked out I couldn't remember everything, only bits and pieces.
Same. It was my dad. I have dissociative identity disorder because of it.
@@MillennialMountainMama I need to look into that. I know that I suffer from bipolar and I have multiple personalities . Because I had to lie and pretend I was happy when I wasn't. I also suffer from ptsd and mild depression. What exactly does your diagnosis mean?
Thank you for sharing your story. I hope this story helps someone that might be going through a similar situation. I grew up without my father in my life and it was always just me and my mom but whoever she dated she would never let them visit our home only to pick her up for a date. I would always have a sitter to watch me. Now as an adult and coming across these stories I understand she did that to protect me. As a mother and a father it’s our job to protect our children. This is such a horrible situation.
Props to you. Look at you being the Mom you needed. You go girl
I feel so horrible for you and all victims of childhood sexual abuse, especially by a close family member. I can't even imagine the hurt and betrayal you feel. These stories just make me even more appreciative for both of my parents. I grew up in a 2 parent household all my life and I can't even imagine my dad doing anything sexual to me and if he would have, I have no doubt in my mind that my mama woulda killed him. I grew up feeling very much loved, cared for and protected, as all children should.
I am 51 and was molested twice age 7 and then again at 11 by a fake friend in the family. My mom use to call his mom her sister. He was already i think in his 30s. I have been and still going through it everyday mentally but the higher power has this for me. I 😊but sooo😢inside. Stay Blessed and stay strong.
Thank you for sharing your story. I can’t imagine what it must feel like to be betrayed by your father. You are brave and courageous to tell your story and help other women relate to what you have been through.
Shyanna is so brave to want to confront her father
ALL FAULT IS ON HIM!
God bless you young lady!!
Why didn't you tell his ass you had to use the bathroom?, & you should have called social Services or the police, at 11 you should have known Better. Nuff-Said.,"" Question , is his Ass in Jail Now!!?
19:32 he’s been locked up since 2007
.. the healing journey will be for the rest of your life; definitely buying and reading the book.
Yes because we grow reflect some more…it’s a lifetime journey.
I am 53 (father, with girl, just 10)
i have never personally been physically abused but my brother has been when he was 8 by my father , just one time. It took him !!!35 years!!! to talk about it.... only then and all the coming outs in Hollywood etc, I suddenly realized that my father did also abuse me - but indirectly - only by watching me through the door in bathroom when I was 12-17, or through a balcony window when it was dark outside and lights inside turned on (he always said i cannot see from indoor to outdoor, but you can feel it when someone sneeks to your door..), or he just walked in my room without knocking, and many other situations....
And when he even told me "proudly" he tried to hook up with a 15yr old girl in a hospital (20 yrs ago when he was +- 60) and when the people there realized it, he fled from the clinic before something happened . .
Only then i started to become more and more aware about abuse but had no evidences as my brother did not want to report it to police.... (ashamed and "for the good reputation")
no wonder why all the victims need sooooo much time to talk and all the pedos get away (usually after 30 years) within their own crim...-system , created especially for that purpose...
5yrs ago i confronted my father as he only went to church instead hanging out with our family and said he is not a Christ but a "pedo" and shut the door.... we never met again. in a last will he at least had bad concious and wanted to reemburse me with money (which i get anyways as son after parents death) ...
my daughter is now 10, lives in Poland & Russia. i met her when she was 5 because my girl friend knew about all that and wanted not to let my father know about the baby. i fell in love with her instantly and I have the greatest little daughter , friend "sister" (i never had) .
how can someone do this to a child? its so unfair, disturbing, hurting. you NEVER get over that ! It destroys life and beyond that also you the self esteem of the victims , , careeer , new family, etc etc....
well this giot longer here than expected.....
anyways. LOVE TO ALL !!!!!! LOVE THE KIDS !!!!!!!
Yes, it is a lifetime journey, it never goes completely away.😥
This is painful, no child so go through this.
This is so sad 😢
This is so sad from the start. There are no words to say, but sorry you had to endure this. I'm the father of a daughter. This man is perverted. He did this with intention, God will judge this abominable act.
I will get your book. I am so proud of you for sharing this story. I was also assaulted within family and it's difficult. But I'm taking care of my mental health now. I am reparenting myself. And doing what I could do to heal my broken heart. 😊❤
So sorry this happened to you. Your own father smh
My 8 month year old daughter accidentally scratched her face very small scratch and she starting crying and my heart dropped to my stomach . And I was literally sad for 3 days straight evey time I looked at it.i was blaming myself and felt like I didn’t protect her it took her mother to come tell me it was ok . I could’ve even imagined something like this happening to her. My soul weep for you ma’am. I pray for your healing.
This is an example of why you should not criticize young mothers or promiscuous girls.
How brave & completely selfless not just to share such a personal story, but to want to go on & help others with their trauma.
They can sleep with a woman for 5 dollars these day. Stop 🛑 hurting your kids. U are a loses. 😈 He need to stay in jail ALWAYS. Sorry for u.
This makes Me so d@mn angry. Absolutely horrible. He failed You in so many ways. The fact that You showed him how You could you didnt want any of it and he still continued makes it so much more devious. How selfish, disgusting, demonic and evil. Your mom and stepmom failed you aswell, what a shame. Shame on all of them! There is absolutely no d@mn excuse this! I Am so sorry You had to experience such an awful thing. May You continue to heal in every way. Thank You for speaking and may it liberate many others.
You’re strong woman and god bless you ❤
How bold is that to do that in a shelter with 100s of ppl !
As a child, I thought my parents were so strict. As an adult, I thank God for having parents who protected me. May the victims of abuse continue to heal. Thanks for sharing your stories to raise awareness so that others know they are not alone and will have the courage to speak their truth💫
idc I would never leave a young minor female in the care of a male. Just disgusting what her own pa did.
I cant comprehend how someone could do this to a human THEY brought into this world. Their own blood. 💔
I have two beautiful daughters and I thank GOD for them I would never hurt them I'm their father I'm their protecter and I will keep them from harm may GOD bless you and give you peace.
This is madness, what kind of mind some men have to be molesting his own daughter? This makes me sick! Fathers are children's heroes and for a man to do this is disgusting and wicked, men who're doing this have brought shame to us all.
Wow she telling my story I was for years old and I never said a word Thank you for this video 😢
Didn't your stepmom come looking for him in the night .. in such small quarters. I'm sorry this happened to you.
LORD help this young lady. This is terrible, how could a man violate his daughter? Not that he should violate anyone, but his own daughter, smh!😢
Much success to you Ms lady im sorry this happen to you
I was also a victim of family abuse, I have an aunt that tried to k1ll me and other things. Every time I would told my mother something she did nothing, she didn't care. To this day the person I resent the most it's my mother.
I #Know the feeling 🎉
Shyanna is a beacon of hope in a cruel world. Thank you for sharing your story 💕
Then men wonder why our sisters say men aren't any good.
Yup, and this is also why men are giving up on women now. Too many females with this kind of past and cannot be trusted.
Hi Shyanna, thanks for being a hero! I wish you peace, love and happiness in your future! Thank you for sharing your story to help other women know they aren't alone. No one should have to hide! ❤
Very good story very articulate in what happened thank you for sharing!
Just disgusting.. the mother is a suspect to me . Why would you let your daughter go with a sex offender.. it sound like her alleged bio dad Groome her since she was 16 .. her and the family need intensive therapy.. we salute this man for sharing his side of story .. we pray for the family
How a father can do this, is beyond me. I am so sorry. I hate the world we live in sometimes. The person who suppose to "hold!," the family together. I commend your resolve and strength, young lady.
did you call the police on him why it went on for so long he should have went to jail and the later
Mom shame on you for not coming to your daughter's rescue. Shyanna you are so Beautiful & and proud of you for telling your story.
I just got done watching this and that makes me mad to hear that you went through that..... This world is so fuccked up it's like who can you trust or feel safe...... Keep positive vibes. Luv your babies that's all you should focus on....... 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
He was waiting on her to get older so he could do what he wanted to do to her. Thats exactly why he separated them. Its hould have been she will sleep in one bed and we will sleep in the other. Or he should have to slept on the couch
Wow, I am so amazed plus proud of you!
Most definitely honey you have endured a lot of childhood abuse from your own Father. Your so brave and such an inspiration to me, imagine all the other women/men that couldn’t come out-with their childhood trauma but after they see your story they will gain the strength to face some or all and be an overcomer like you!