She Faced True Hardship At The Hands of Her Father
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 29 ก.ย. 2024
- In today's episode of Unfiltered Stories, we have the privilege of hearing Brandiann Hernandez share her deeply personal and heart-wrenching story from her early childhood years. From the tender ages of 5 to 7, Brandiann faced unimaginable hardship and a profound betrayal of trust within her own family. Her story sheds light on the devastating impact of trauma inflicted by someone who should have been a child's ultimate protector.
Brandiann's journey took a frightening turn when, after her family confronted the individual responsible, they resorted to extreme measures, attempting to forcibly remove her from her grandmother's house. Despite the overwhelming challenges, Brandiann's resilience shone through as she courageously stood up for the truth, ultimately leading to a guilty verdict in court. Her story serves as a powerful reminder of the strength it takes to speak out and seek justice. Join us as we listen with empathy and respect to Brandiann's unfiltered account of her painful childhood experiences, and may her journey serve as a source of hope and solidarity for others who have faced similar struggles.
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why is this still up?
This is my mothers story. And I’m so proud of her for finally sharing her life story. I’ve always been proud of my mother but this is the most proud I’ve ever been in a long time. My mother is so strong and I can’t express how happy I am to have her as my mother !! Please continue to share her story. She deserves all the love and prayers. If u are being rude abt her story or saying something abt her story click off immediately.
Thank you babygirl
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This is your mother??? ❤️🩹 This story had me crying... Hard. She's so brave strong and beautiful. I hope all is well🫶
I know she feels the same about you. What a great daughter❤️
Sending hugs to your dear mom! I hope she is doing okay.. I really respect her for talking about everything
These stories are helping a lot of people
I'm sorry you went through this. I'm so happy you had a mother who listened and believed you because so many don't.
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How can a father do this to his own child 😢
I am so sorry that you had to experience such despicable act from the one person who had to protect you! I pray God surrounds you with love and peace. I pray that you can heal and allow yourself to experience all the good that life has to offer.
Thank God for your grandma ❤🙏
Such a beautiful and loving grandma. God bless your sweet grandma. I’m so happy she stood up for you !
The quilt resonates with me you are not alone 😢😢 The worst betrayal 😢 you are so brave telling your story 🦋💜 I don't think my word's would come out without crying like I'm that child again 😢 Bless you much love 💜
thank you for listening to my story. Telling it gets easier each time I go it. I still have triggers, but not as bad as they once did.
It breaks my heart to hear what your father did to you. Fathers are supposed to protect. 😢
Thank you❤
It really does hurt more when it’s your own father that hurts you and they never admit to it or apologize for hurting you.
Yes, it hits you in a way I can’t fully explain.
It’s disgusting and shameful hearing your own father can do that to their own daughter and enjoy it. The thought just makes me wants to throw up 🤮.
I really hope she finds peace and closure even though she didn’t get to confront him. He did it because he was sick. Some people are just wired different. His actions don’t define you. You are beautiful and wonderful and you deserve everything great in this world.
I’m still trying to heal. Thank you!
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I’m so so sorry that happened to you so young.
I hope you find some peace in this awful world.
This story touched my soul, you remind me so much of my mother. The things you went through no human being should ever go through. I hope your father burns in hell forever and I hope your mother also get what she deserves. People are supposed to protect their children from everyone including family. I’m sorry you didn’t get the closure you deserved but I’m glad he won’t be able to hurt anyone ever again. I’m praying for you and your family. Thank you so much for sharing your story. Hearing things like this makes me feel like I’m making the right decision never allowing a man in my home. I’m so glad you had ur grandma in your life to protect you she is an angel from heaven. ❤
My mom has suffered everyday since this happened. She’s worked on herself a lot and we have a good relationship. Yes, parents should protect their children.
She looked ike Selena Gomez when she was younger
I actually get that a lot
Proud of you❤
Thank you
i love your grandma so much
She’s pretty amazing
Bless you beautiful! My tears are falling but my heart is happy you are here telling your story. Thank you 🙏🏽
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Girl your baby pictures look like me when i was young are we related ...i had to stop video its triggering im sorry you went through this what a sixk man and here i am feeling bad bc i don't know wheres my father he left when i was 2.5 years anyway im glad your gma fought for you.
Hi, Brandiann! I’m so glad that you survived your horrors and have since freed yourself from guilt and anger. You are a help to many in ways that I can only envy. I’m still too triggered to be a help to anyone else, even after 11 years of therapy. Like you said, maybe certain triggers may never go away. I guess it just depends on the guy and the situation, in my case. Who knows? I haven’t been intimate (at least not with a person lol) in 2 years. I REFUSE to do so casually anymore. I have too much talking to get off my chest at all times. So it’s either I’m in an actual loving, faithful, committed relationship with a superb listener and communicator, or no deal. What’s your IG handle??
It’s in the bio above 👌🏾
@fitnessrican23
Thank you for listening to my story and I’m sorry you still struggle with triggers. to be honest, I think the triggers lesson and how we react towards them, but I don’t think they ever go away.
This story reminds me again I’m not alone in being sexually abused by my own father, thank you for your bravery for speaking out. I hope one day I have the same courage.
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Same...❤
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I hear you your definitely not alone 😢❤
I can relate. I'm currently working through confronting my father about his sexuall abuse so I've been watching so many of these videos to get myself emotionally and mentally ready for when that day comes. It's hard but we must hold them accountable bc the shame and guilt is on them and not on us.
Her story is heartbreaking but thank GOD she had her grandmother. She sounds like a phenomenal person. To legit have a gun to her head and stand her ground and be ready to die to protect that baby. She’s just amazing.
She’s truly my angel and I’m blessed and grateful to have her in my life.
I think it's normal when you love someone
“You will take her over my dead body” while she believed a barrel of a g*n was touching her head. That level of strength is in you today. What an example she set for you to fight what you know is wrong w everything you have. ❤
And I will tell you this. Till this day I stand up for what is wrong. Even if it’s unpopular to most.
This is the first time I’ve listened to someone’s story and I’ve finally been able to cry over my own story which happened for 4 years over 40 years ago. Thank you for being brave and telling your story. ❤
I'm 😢so sorry that happened to you
So sorry it happened to you too.
Pray you're okay and healing too.
Please find someone to talk to,it helps sharing.
Release all the bottled up negative experiences.
Above all GOD loves you more ❤❤💕💕
Grandmother is no joke. She showed a fierceness I can only pray for. Thank you for sharing this.
Im so sorry this happened to you by your father. These are the cases that absolutely blow my mind more than others. Stay strong to all men and women who still suffer from abuse you are not alone
Thank you very much!
How do I tell my story on here… I’d like to speak out finally.. I know I’ll probably be re traumatized because I wasn’t believed as a child even though the truth came out, there wasn’t true justice served … I just want to speak out to warn others and perhaps to finally heal.. I wish I had family on my side … I’m glad she got out of this. She is so strong.
So sickening to do this to your own flesh and blood. It’s sickening all around. But my god. I’m sorry you had to endure this 😢
I just saw this on Snapchat and cried so hard and came to see if I could find the whole story. Absolutely abhorrently evil 😞
You don't need to hear his reasoning or apology..the reason is bc he's sick in the head and an apology wouldn't be genuine, he knew it was wrong but did it anyway so he can't be sorry, sorry is for a mistake, what he did was a decision, so there is no sorrow ..I'm glad you didn't see him, he would have gotten some sick pleasure replaying it in his head, how it ended was meant to be..
You are right. I think the little girl in me wanted to face the monster in my life, but it might have set me back from all the healing I've done.
I wasn’t believed when I told my parents and it has forever scarred my heart.
I'm so sorry you weren't believed. That's so traumatizing. I can relate
@@moonlightles333 my heart is with you. Its just a horrible reality of being born into a horrible family as far as my experience goes.Much love to you!!
@@fairysensitive1 yea healing from incest/sexual abuse is such a journey. and being marginalized by those that are supposed to protect us as children makes it so much worst.
But the fact that you even spoke your truth shows that you are strong and amazing! It took me more than 2 years to be ready to tell my story but I'm glad I spoke up for little me. Sending you so much love in your healing journey 🫶🏼
@@moonlightles333 and I redirect the sweet sentiments🌙f
Stay Strimg my internet twin flame 🔥 Stay strong Sister!
You’re grandma is your savior. What a hero in your life. I’m so sorry for all that you have gone through, Many blessings to you
She truly is. thank you!
This made me cry I'm so sorry this happened to you and thank you for sharing, we need to protect children and do more for them 😢
This channel is so much better than Soft White Underbelly, which reeks of pain porn. I’m so sorry for what this lady went through and admire her for persevering
God bless everyone who been through things like this this makes me angry sick disgusting people 😡😢
This makes me so scared to have kids. Cannot trust NO ONE not even the progenitor of said child! 😢
I’m so so sorry. I just want to say healing isn’t a straight- forward journey. You’re amazing and your father is a complete and utter horrible human being. But you are so inspiring for sharing your story🤍 you deserve the world you really do🤍
I’ve noticed. As much as I’d like to just get over with it I’m realizing I’ll work on myself for the rest of my life.
@@fitnessrican23 no I get that. I’m sorry for what you went through you didn’t deserve that and I hope you heal. Wishing you nothing but the best. You deserve the best! ❤️🩹🫶🏽
Death penalty for people like this. Enough already.
I couldn’t agree more
So happy to know that you got away from the monster who should have been your greatest protector
I was molested by my aunts husband, and no one in my dads family believed it. My grandmother had the nerve to say my mother put me up to it. As an adult it makes me furious to think that they actually thought my mom would be so twisted to coach me to say i was abused, because she was a bitch, but not a sick bitch like that. My heart goes out to you girl ❤
I’m so sorry no one believed you. I can’t even imagine how that feels.
Grandma's will always have your back like no other. I'm so so sorry that you went through this. May your life now be blessed, and thank you for sharing your story
So bravety for sharing such a tough story your strength is so beautiful keep growing and glowing princess much love from philly🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
I wonder if her dad got assaulted in jail for being a rapist. I wish she would have shared that part of the story.
Your maternal grandmother is an AMAZING person. We need more people like your grandma 💯
Your grandmother is EVERYTHING! 😢 I thank you for sharing this, you are brave and I truly hope you find the peace you’re seeking!
Thank you so much. Yes, my grandmother is pretty amazing.
I do have a quick question...do you know any female who wasn't abused in some sort of way in their life? I realized years ago, that I didn't know one.
My prayers go out to this woman during this time 🙏
Woman
It happend to me to I am sorry it happend to you
I’m so sorry to that little girl…. Good for her her momma saved her…. Idk why kids to tell…. I never told and I’m 45 years old and to this day I won’t ever speak it to my own mom…. But as a child idk why I never told anyone…. 😥
Thank you for being brave I'm so sorry what happened to you, I hope you tell someone close to you never be afraid to tell. It will relieve you.
My heart goes out to you.
These stories with incestuous and molestation are very hard to hear, especially when you have childhood trama. And my trama was nowhere as traumatic or damaging as this. My prayers go out to you and everyone who has been a victim as a child. This is as bad as it gets!
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3:11😢😢😢😢😢😡,aint nooo way a grown man would be able to take a bath with a child when i grew up😮
You say you wouldn't be who you are now... And you became a BEAUTIFUL strong person who helps others heal with your survival story. Your my inspiration ❤
This is heartbreaking 💔 am so sorry you had to go through this
You are a survivor and I am proud of you❤ you are a awesome person and anyone who thinks otherwise then ignore them because so many people don’t survive and you are one that did and i will never fully understand bc nothing like that has ever happened to me and I am happy that you feel comfortable sharing this story with the wirld
Thank you so much for that.
Sorry you went through all of 🥲🥲 and Grandma is a true HERO ❤️❤️
God bless you! Thank you for sharing this story with us! You're a strong and courageous woman! ❤
Darling it's okay to cry he will be judged by the lord I'm crying with you may the lord give you strength to overcome
OMG. I don't have adequate words. What an absolute nightmare you lived through and I know that it has impacted you greatly - how could it not? But your grace, your kindness, your empathy, your lovliness just blows me away. I am so so so sorry this happened to you. You are a survivor. And you are a beautiful person. Inside and out.
Brandiann I'm so sorry that you were abused what happened to you was not your fault you were truly brave to testify against the monster who abused you I hope that you will heal from your trauma and find happiness in your life
Not me sitting at work crying 😢
Her mother failed her idc you have her to that monster
She did. She failed me as a child, but she’s paid for it ever since and had showed me how sorry she is for the last 17 years.
You are beautiful, brave, strong and so wonderful. Cheers to you. God bless you
Awwwww.....so well stated.....and such a beautiful gal.....my heart aches for her.....I pray the Lord Jesus will pour healing over her and her family.....and that healing will flow from this beautiful gal! Amen
The "sometimes I wonder what I would be like if that didn't happen to me" had me balling. I know that exact feeling
Honey! I’ve known you over 30 years and I knew about some of this but the extent… JFC!!! 😢
How are you so well adjusted that you are!!??? 😢😢😢
I can’t honey 😞
I’m so so so sorry honey. I love you
You’re an amazing woman.
Love you to honey ❤
I'm sorry you went through this but you are an amazing woman. Sending love and light. ❤️
You are your abuela's granddaughter! Bravo 💝
Time feels so much different when you're a child.
This is so sad. What a beautiful woman she has become considering the trauma she endured.
So happy she was saved by her mother.
11:11,funny that she asked if it was him though..
I'm sorry what u went through
Such kind words. Thank you!
You're such a beauty. I'm so sorry that you went through this. It's something that is very difficult to comprehend on so many levels... I can't believe that he did that to you. The way you described it was daunting...
Thank you so much!
So ,sorry that this happened to you sweetheart 😢
❤❤❤❤❤❤ you are loved. Not your fault . Thank you for your courage
Her grandma is an angel
Bless your heart❤.
Just pure evil and wickedness 😢 I’m so sorry you went through that by the person that’s supposed to protect you
I'm so glad that brandiann mother and grandmother instantly believed her but they still should had called the cops I totally would
Cops were called
@@ceceprincess4758 yes but not immediately only later they did
You and you grandmother are amazing I ❤ u girl!!!!!!!!
Thank you ❤
I’m a person who just doesn’t cry but THIS…. OMG I feel for her because I KNOW, it’s crazy how much we go thru this should not be I’m happy you are ok now, I want to talk to her so bad .. 😢 I still have no one who would actually listen but this is too real and needs to be approached immensely.
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You are a remarkable person and I am sure that you will help others on their survival journey. Be kind to yourself
I'm so sorry this happened to you , I don't understand why people do this , even being your own father. My mom would never let me go anywhere, and I would always be upset with her , but now I understand why. I hope you're doing better in life ! You're so beautiful!
Hot story
i just wanna hug her i havent had this exact thing happen but i was SA and i didnt tell anyone for the longest time until years after i happend but i wanna give her a hug i feel so bad with what she had to go through
I’ll take a cyber hug
This is terrible .
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I hate every part of what she went thru. And there's so many little girls out there going thru this right now!! and the family doesn't help! Sick and tired of this.. Rape should be life sentence because you've killed that person and they are still alive reliving it everyday
I couldn’t agree more. Thank you ❤
I am so sorry for you and all the other children who had to go through that 😢
Im so sorry this happened to you. Im a therapist and there is a form of therapy wher u can get confront him in a safe way even though hes passed away. Talk to your support systm about it. Its called psychodrama and open chair tecnique. Its a way of finding closure inside..goodluck on your healing journey. I wish the best
Thank you very much!
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She’s extraordinary💝
Thank you ❤
24:40 your amazing! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you ❤
Glad u survived❤
Me to. It’s been a struggle but I’m grateful I’m still Here.
Thank u for sharing❤️ I'm Hispanic and In my family that's how it was too. My cousins went thru similar things and we all knew and would just keep away from the "Chester's" in the family. No one involved the law..
I cried with you... There are no words for this hell. I wish you the best. ❤️
Thank you for listening
I'm soo sorry you went through all this abuse and grief and pain 💔 your mom should keep you with her please don't blame yourself it's not your fault queen your beautiful inside and out ❤❤please don't blame yourself please invite God into your life asked God to help you forgive yourself soo sad sick monster like that need to be in jail 💔💔💔🤲🤲🤲😇😇
Thank you so much for listening to my story and your kind words. I definitely look up to God daily for guidance and to feel protected.
Sorry this happened to u. This story made me so uncomfortable
You’re so brave for sharing your story. He will face the ultimate judge one day and I hope he shows no mercy.
God bless you.