I Couldn't Get Away From My Stepfather
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 มิ.ย. 2023
- In today's episode of Unfiltered Stories, our guest Felicia shares her life story with us. She had to endure so much at the hands of her stepfather. As a kid, she couldn't get away from him despite all her efforts.
After seeing a video about CSA, she realized what was happening to her was not normal.
She talks about how this experience affected her health and her life. She gives advice to all the survivors to help their healing process.
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There should be no such thing as parole for pedophiles
Exactly. I don’t understand it.
💯 🙏
I agree!
Everyone deserves death, but Jesus paid the penalty. It's important we seek refuge and repentance in him, because on the Day of Judgement he will judge all sin, and it's about what you did on Earth for him what counts
Death!!!!
How are these mothers allowing their daughters alone with a new man?? I find this appalling
I know. I’ll never understand.
My mum was a single mum and she would NEVER. The only males I was EVER alone with was one my two uncles and even then my aunty or cousins were always around. I felt safe with them.
They always do! Because these women are in love with these men. 1 out of 4 little girls are r ped, molested and kiI*ed by moms new boyfriend turned husband
These mothers need to be prosecuted too!
This woman is making every excuse for her mother clearly it's all her mother's fault
My mom said she stayed single after divorcing my dad cause she was afraid that I would be molested. She also never left me alone with any man and didn’t start dating until I was in college. I just found out this year that she was molested by her brother at a family reunion. That’s another story.
I was over protective with my kids because of my abuse.
I’m sorry!
Great job to your mom!!!
@@sassybaby2u , I agree! When you decide to have a child, you’ve also signed up to put their needs before yours until they’re grown. Dating or remarriage can wait. Enough shit happens with bio dads, forget bringing some unnecessary dude into the household.
same - none of that!
As a mom Im doing the same.. my mom did not protect me at all. You are lucky...
Just the look on your face in that childhood photo is heart breaking. I'm so sorry
Sad but true. I was so young but so damaged.
I thought the same thing when I saw her picture. That's a troubled child and someone should have noticed
😔💔🙏💙
@@aces553 They noticed that something was wrong but just like nowdays people do not want to be involved. Anyway school staff and school sister should alarm what they see.But nobody want to take a responsibility. So many rotten äggs in a basket…
@@QueenofKings2this isnt about ur daughter
Convicted Child Molestors should not get parole
I agree 100%
Agreed. What are their sentences SO short?!
Ladies....be careful who you bring around your children and married to cause you never know if they have an ulterior motive let alone carrying a bad spirit.
Exactly. We never really know the real them. They are soooo good at pretending!
Exactly
Yeah women have to stop being so f*cking desperate for men. It's ridiculous. A LOT of men are weird so you have to watch your child. As a single parent father or mother you need to create a comfortable space for your child to tell you if anything is wrong. I always said when I have children, when they are little and are able to talk, I will tell them if a grown up, even your father if anyone touches you on your private area or anywhere, I don't care if they tell you not to tell me, TELL ME. I don't want my child going through NO sh**. It's already bad he touched her once, he should have never been able to touch her for YEARS. Her mother is a typical desperate woman. I know she knew something was off, women we always can pick up on things. Awful "parent".
@@gm6034Exactly it's the parenting and some Women are desperate with men. They can't live single🤨
@@gm6034 Yes - the signs were very obviously there. I WISHED SHE HAD SHOUTED OUT AS LOUD AS SHE COULD TO HER MOTHER - HE IS TOUCHING ME IN MY PRIVATE PARTS. How could her Mum be so oblivious? It really makes me so damn angry.
My neighbor girl told me she was being molested, it ruined her life, she struggled the rest of her life and died at 27, evil perverts, it’s so destructive to people. You can see this lady’s struggles. I wish I could have done more, it will always haunt me.
I’m so sorry. It’s very hard to recover from. Our lives are forever altered.
Mamas piss me the phuc off!!!
@@knightbridges8369 yea when mamas and daddies don’t protect their babies.
@@lookupyourredemptiondrawsn7285 Amen!
@@georgecharleston8532 And what about the fathers? No blame onto them? or they the ones raping them? But yea its totally easier to continually blame the mothers and not the fathers or the actual abusers who are quite possibly the FATHERS
I was molested by my dad it started when i was really young until i was a teenager. Its not something you forget at all, you carry that shame and guilt forever, just have to learn how to live with it and sadly You can never forget about it:/ Im so sorry this happened to you💔
I’m sorry it happened to you too. It’s something that should never happen but it’s happens way too often.
@@feliciaperezauthor I know, is disgusting and evil for someone to do that to a child, but your own father or family member Makes me sick to my damn stomach🥺🥺
😢😢😢
Omg how old were you? 😞 I’m so sorry
I'm so sorry hun
Why did she block the face? If he’s out free and going to look for his next victim. People need to know how her abuser looks like… He’s a monster!! He needs to rot in hell..
I agree 100%. I didn’t block it. Unfiltered stories did. I think they have to. I did share his info and pics in other comments though.
@@feliciaperezauthor I wish you all the best that this world has to offer. You are so loved and cherished your testimony probably saved a couple people's lives and you would never know it. May your abuser rot in hell you never deserved any of it and what he did to you he also did to God. My father is a predator as well and he hides behind religion.
I was abused by my real brother and cousin... They made my life hell
I was 6
They were sixteen/17
My mom turned a blind eye
I feel your pain as I share the same 😢
I’m so sorry!
Your mum needs locking up
❤
Felicia is so strong and kind. She tells her story for the benefit of others, I know it’s not easy, but you are helping so many others process their trauma.
Thank you. I never wanted to tell my story but I knew it had to be done when l knew he was getting out of prison. I just couldn’t live with myself. It’s still hard knowing people know some things about me but I’m doing it for the better good.
You are a courageous survivor!💐 My mother had 5 children. Out of the five, four of us were sexually abused either by family members or “close” family friends. My father would squeeze my breasts when I started to develop them. He said he was checking to see how much they had grown. I felt uncomfortable but if I didn’t go, he would whip me. My parents later divorced, but that left my sisters and I vulnerable and open prey for those who harmed us.
No child should go through CSA. It breaks my heart to know that it’s still continuing in todays time. Thank you for sharing your story. I wish you love, happiness and security🪻
Thank you so much. I’m sorry for all that happened to you. None of this should be happening but it is. It’s a sad reality that we live in. That’s why it’s so important to keep speaking up and sharing our stories. It’s us that need to raise awareness!
You are such a courageous SURVIVOR! 💪❤ Thank you for sharing your story 🙏 I’m sending you all my love and I wish you nothing but peace, happiness, and a constant sense of safety, security, and serenity. 🫶
@@SeattleRaindrop206 thank you so much!
God bless you 🙏 and all the best in life 💞
You should let your demonic mother alone and keep far away from her. Forget about her.
Thank you for speaking out on behalf of all survivors❤️
We’re all in this together!!
Thank you so much for your support ❤
I am sure Her mother always knew what was going on.
I always wonder.
Yes . They usually know I think it was just the shame of CPS finding out
100
You don't need to cover his eyes in the picture. He's been convicted.
child sexual battery ruins lives. These perpetrators are criminals and steal a person's safety and innocence for life - so terrifying for a child whether boy or girl
Exactly.
Hi there, I'm also a survivor of child sexual abuse by my step father from the age of 6 to 13, I noticed we have so many similarities in what we've been through, thank you so much for sharing your story, unfortunately I didn't get any real justice, my mum always believed me but she stayed for my brother and I to continue being abused
I’m so sorry!
I’m so sorry too!
I hope your out of it now!
I got out a long time ago but it has taken so many years to heal and even at 50 years old it can still haunt me, as 7 years of every day sexual, psychological, torture it leaves a permanent scar, the night mares can be shocking
Carolyn i am so sorry , it is heartbreaking when parents turn a blind eye , always reach out we are all here for you ❤️❤️
My mom was very overprotective when we were kids. Whenever I or my brothers joke about it now she's always like, "But did you get molested, though? No? OK then lol." I'm very grateful for her
LMFAO! I like her.
My mom and dad was very protective over me and my sister .
your mom was molested. but she was sharp enough to use it to become protective instead of bringing around abusers.
The American justice system is so fucked. We seem to want retribution on people that can be rehabilitated, and rehabilitation on people who need to just be locked up for life.
I am really glad you told your story - it’s not really fair to the victims that they have to, but nothing happens unless they do. But we need to do our part to support them.
Thank you so much!
The " Aussie" system is also well and truly " fucked"...😢
It's such a shame that her little friends picked up on what's going on and not mom.. The person who was supposed to be her daughters shield.. Hope you still check up on your friends sometime.. Sending you lots of love as you recover ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Oh yes I did. Thank you!!
And why did the teachers just ignore?
your mum knew she knew
You poor baby❤You are a such a strong Woman... I admire you..
My abuser ( I call him my mom's husband, he doesn't deserve to be called a dad or stepdad) admited to it, but since I already moved to live with my dad at the time, he only had to do councelling until I turned 18. My Mom still lives with him, I am 45 now. the abuse started I was two months shy of turning 9 and and continues until I went to live with my dad at 13. started having the really bad nightmares six months later. I still have trouble with being touched, my whole body will tighted up and freeze even my grow kids hug me its automatic. cant use a box shower that has a door, for being locked in one untill 30 mins before my mom got home because I wouldn't let him in.
Oh my gosh. I’m so sorry. But incompletely understand the freezing up part. It’s a natural reflex. It annoys my husband sometimes. If he does something when I’m not expecting it i automatically pull away and freeze up. It’s sad.
Im so sorry 😢 may Jesus Christ heal and comfort you ❤
You will heal and come to a realization that you have nothing but living and supportive people in your life. These people that hurt children are really sick. I can't believe the mom stayed. It happened to my friend too. She didn't have anyone that believed her and her dad beat her up for telling. The abuse was horrific and continued into her adult years (55) until he died.
You are not alone. Rape is one thing, but when mom does not help its horrible...
@@dawncharley6511 oh my gosh. That’s so sad. Some people are so evil!!
You are so brave! Thank you for giving us all a voice!
Thank you so much. I’m trying!
This is why pedophiles need harsher sentences and even chemical castration. They get a laughable prison sentence, and then they are out to live on, while their victim(s) have to live with the effects and trauma for the rest of their lives.
I fcuking HATE pedophiles.
Thankyou Felicia for telling your story or I should say horrific experience that you still have to live with today. I'm so sorry. I'm going to buy your book, I wish you all the best things in the world moving forward.
Thank you so very much. Please help me share my story. The more eyes on it the more it’ll be able to help children today.
Yeah.. But not all abusers are men
@@JustHereToHear true
@@JustHereToHear oh yea. That’s very true. A lot are women!! I know some women who were sexually abused by their mom. Just mind blowing!
Chemical Castration doesn't work
When the court says "children aren't a credible witness " it's tragic bc that takes away their voice.
i’m so very sorry this happened to you - i have no other words- thank you for being so strong and telling your story
Thank you!
My mom was one of six daughters. After she was divorced, my overweight, depressed grandma NEVER had a problem finding a boyfriend. It was never spoken about but I know some or all my aunts were molested. Why else did they get married and leave as soon as possible? Like 17 years old.
Wow. That’s crazy but I’m sure you’re right.
This channel has encouraged me to talk about long abusive and traumatic childhood. I also tried to brushed it under the carpet thinking that I have finally overcame those memories. But it haunts me till the date, nightmares and sudden triggers when I hear such stories from other girls. The worst part of it that we all felt that all of this was normal during the childhood and never spoken about it to our parents. I will ask for therapy soon. I need to get better and sleep better.
I'm so sorry I hope you are doing better
Omg 😢it’s disgusting 😮no child should go through all of that
It’s soooo heartbreaking 💔
I agree. Things like this should never happen to children.
Thanks for sharing your story, and I believe it can bring awareness to parents, especially, single mothers who may end up in these unfortunate situations.
I pray my story will help others. If sharing my story can help one person, it’ll be worth it.
@Neymariscool oh, absolutely
@Neymariscool exactly. It’s our job to protect them from this type of evil, and all evil.
This is insane, thank you for this story. I can relate. I am 36 years old and it feels like barely to now I can face that awkwardness that I was going thru as a teen. It’s like I completely blocked it off because when I spoke up I was shamed and my mother turned on me and me feel like it was my fault. But I always knew it was wrong . Luckily my step dad tried to abuse at 13, 14 so my conscious knew it was wrong what he was trying to do so when I put him on my blast I was shamed and sent off with my dad. I lived with him for a couple of years and then had to come back and I didn’t want to, my mother was still with him so he would always make me feel like outcasted . Like I was nothing to their family. I left their home at 16 and never went back. I am now in therapy but I never realized how that affected my life and listening to this is very awakening. Thank you
Me again:That story made me cry as it brought back those horrible memories of that time! 😢
Early intervention is so important. You are incredible- much ❤
Thank you so much! Listening to it gives me anxiety. But it needs to be told.
@@feliciaperezauthor sadly, it really does- you make a positive difference ❤️
@@bethaniel841 thank you. I appreciate it!
How did your mother not know? Your own friends saw that something was not right and that he was a disgusting creep. I feel like your mum knew something was wrong but still decided to just ignore it but then again how can you do that to your child? Mothers always believe your children and always choose them and do what is right for them. Im sorry for what you went through as a child . You are a Suvivor, God bless you ❤.
You are such a beautiful person ( telling your story to help others ; your right if my daughter was crying i would definitely be asking questions ; I am so sorry you had to go through this , i have had family members who were abused and your reactions are because of this abuse , i am so sorry you could not gain help from others ( well you have all of us so your never alone ( wishing you a beautiful life ❤️❤️
Thank you so much. It means more than you know. I promised myself I wouldn’t keep silent anymore.
@@feliciaperezauthor you had kept quiet to protect others , by speaking out you are helping others , just shows what a beautiful kind person you are ; I sincerely wish you every happiness and thank you for helping others love from Melbourne Australia ❤️❤️
I could just cry hearing you telling your story, how can some mothers let this happen to their little daughters, I'm always fearing for my little granddaughters, God forbid nothing of this kind should ever happen to them.
Thank you. I’ll never understand it either. It’s sad.
You're amazing and brave for speaking out. God Bless you🙏❤️🙏
Thank you so much!
Just scary and gross he is!
I'm admiring your courage to help others by talking about this!
Thank you so much! I’m trying my best to show others what to watch for.
God bless you... You are a warrior... and it was not your fault...😢😢
Thank you so much. I think I’m finally able to believe it.
In South Indian (India) tradition, unless absolutely unavoidable a girl child is never left alone with her father or any male relatives (including brothers) - it's a proactive and preventative measure. And it is understood & accepted by male members of the family.
Yeah, sadly that stuff is rampant in India. So even though one would love to think is a good proactive measure and sensible behaviour, the truth is the measure is necessary because the situation is abhorrently common.
This is truely horrifying! I pray for everyone who has suffered this abhorrent abuse! Love ❤️ Jesus will comfort you in your pain !
Thank you!
Amen I pray the same. Jesus Christ healed me from depression and suicidal thoughts.
God bless you Princess. ❤️🙏❤️
I don't understand how so many mothers don't know that their child or children are being abused, but yet women say they have intuition when their husband's or boyfriends are cheating on them. I find that very odd. A person can make themselves believe that nothing is happening because they rather do that, than to deal with the situation and be there for their own child or children.
Thank you so much for sharing your story. The lives you are going to touch with your book and your story are immeasurable. Child predators need to never be released back into the public. The damage they do to their victims never goes away and some never fully recover if any at all. Thank you for being brave and sharing so others can learn from it!❤️
Glad your mom believed you. Mine didn't and I went to live with my grandma and grandpa because they did believe me. I was 15.
If one of fhese monsters gets locked up, how dare a parole noard let them out. We know they woll reoffend. Its disgusting. God bless you
That’s exactly right! He was given (8) 20 year sentences and was out in 13. Makes no sense. I’m 99% sure he will reoffend.
@@feliciaperezauthor I'm so sorry this happened to you and that your mum ignored it. We need to find a way to get that man far away from children because he's a permanent danger.
@@feliciaperezauthor I pray God will either force him to repent or end his life. He keeps destroying so many children’s life. 😢
I'm so sorry this happened to you. I was molested on various occasions by different men including my step father and even my blood brother. You're absolutely correct when you say it feels like it's a shameful secret but as you said it's not ours, it's THEIR secret cuz they're the ones saying 'don't tell anyone or you'll get in trouble'..=( I hope you don't pull away from God because of this. This wasn't about you, you were an innocent little girl surrounded by the wrong ppl. It is THEM and their demons. They're the ones that will be haunted by their wrong and wicked deeds. I pray our good Lord will heal your emotional wounds and also I pray you call on Him during those difficult times when no one else gets it. I'll keep you in my prayers, Felicia. =)💖🙏
Thank you so much. I agree. It’s no longer my secret. It’s his. That’s why I decided it’s time to speak up. I’ll continue sharing my story with Gods guidance. I’m sorry for all that happened to you.
@@feliciaperezauthor thank you..💕 It was so long ago, but I always talked about it, it wasn't a secret for too long. It was kind of freeing in a way I made peace with it many years ago, and recently after coming to Christ I let it go completely. I forgave them all, I'm at peace with that part of my life. 😌 It's heartbreaking that this continues to happen to so many children and even more so when it's their own parents. 😢The times seem to get worse, we desperately need Jesus more than ever. 🙌💖
@@BlessedThroughChrist77 that’s so awesome! I’m glad you found peace and was able to let it go. I’m getting there. Im better than I was last year!
God bless you Felicia 🙏❤️🙏
Prayers to you Felicia and what you went through! You are a true Survivor!
I'm so glad your telling yori story we need more awareness of this jack and evil shit!!! May Our Dear Lord give you peace from this abuse🙏🙏🙏
Thank you so much.
Your experience is so powerful to free people that are bound by child abuse! Thank you!
I am so thankful you stood up and shared your truth. I know what it is like. As a victim of my own abuses and a mother of kids. Don't stop telling, till you feel strong.
I’ll never stop! Thank you so much!
I am so proud of you for speaking out! You are so brave and an inspiration ❤❤❤
Thank you so much!!
I'm crying so hard. Thanks for sharing your story, so sorry.
Thank you!
Thank you for being brave and telling your story as to help others that are suffering as you did…
Thank you so much.
Thank you for your voice.God bless you and heal you.
❤Thanks for sharing your story❤️ i hate that there are so many of us that this has happened to.😢. Big hugs to you sister ❤❤❤
Thank you so much!
@@feliciaperezauthor your welcome sis❤️
I'm so sorry this happened to you, thank you for sharing your story
Thank You for telling us about you. You just gave me an emotional connection to things i've only logically deducted in my thoughts earlier. Very strange feeling, kind of both a very heavy load on me -and relief - at the same time. Life is a strange journey.
I’m sorry. I never wanted to bring on more emotional distress onto anyone. I was in a turmoil when he got out of prison last year and I did a lot of research trying to understand myself. It’s not an easy feeling.
Bless you, you are a beautiful positive courageous and inspirational human being ❤. Im so glad you have found someone who values you and is worthy of your love ❤️
I am SO sorry 😢 😩😢
Thank you so much.
I’m so glad you had friends that were there for her throughout this situation
You're so resilient. I hope you can find peace, somehow, in this life given
I'm sorry this happened to you and thank you for sharing your story luv .😢♥️🙏
Your a beautiful spirit and woman Felicia. Your story will help others heal.
Much love and respect to you on your journey.
God bless you for sharing !!! You are a beautiful woman and I’m so sorry you went through that horrible nightmare. I went to a similar situation and I also didn’t talk about it till I had a stalker follow me when I was 12 . I grew up feeling disgusted by mens hands . We are survivors and all that made me strong by God’s mercy !!! Later an uncle tried to take advantage but I physically fought back and he became intimidated and never tried anything again. May Our Lord heal you completely!!!!!
W0W I'm soo sorry you went through all this abuse and grief and pain 💔 😔 😢 😞 I can't believe your mom didn't pay attention to her beautiful little girl thanks for sharing your story with us ❤️ 😇😇🫂🦋🩵🫂🦋🟦 it's not your fault please don't blame yourself you sweet little girl you should been loved not treat like an animals so sad
She is such a perfect example of why teachers and other safe adults should be vigilant about children who are acting out in a sexual manner. She was only eight and trying to replicate the forced pleasure she received from her dad and nobody paid any attention.
Im so sorry u went through this. But also so proud of u for what uv overcome!
That helped. It gave me another piece of the puzzle. Thank you.
I am the same age as you Felicia. Thanks for sharing your story, i wish you only happiness and healing, much love from Australia 🇦🇺
Please, never give up, you are an really strong and good person that di nothing to deserve that, thr best wishes and don't let the traumas to win!❤
Thank you for sharing you are incredible lady there your behalf the shame is all his for what he did to you many Blessings beautiful ❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏
I'm so sorry this happened to you 😢 That creepy f*** deserves the very worst karma has to offer. There should never be an ounce of leniency for pedophiles, ever. Thank you so much for sharing your story. I know it will help many other abuse victims for years to come. I wish you the best moving forward 🙏
Thank you for sharing your story. you are a strong woman.
Thank you for telling us about your story.❤
Your child photo is so sad, so glad you are sharing, you are a very beautiful strong woman.
Poor little girl. You had your childhood stolen. God bless you, I hope and pray your forthright account saves many children from this evil. ❤️🙏❤️
I am so sorry it's so heart breaking all this happens inside homes n with close people .
How horrible 😢these people should not be let out wtffff
Exactly. I agree 100%.
You are such an amazing beautiful person. Thank you for sharing your story it’s so similar to mine.
You're amazing!!❤
Thank you.
Poor girl. God bless you
Thank you.
I would like to share my story .. I have experienced the same with my mom.. I had to study psychology to understand the things that I went through because I had no one to tell me that I've been through worst 💔😔I wanted to face my demons
Wow....I've NEVER heard an abuse story so similar to my own😔
I’m sorry! I’m sure we’re very much alike, unfortunately.
Im so sorry 😢😢😢 praying for you ❤
@@PrincessAfrica3 thank you. I’ll pray for you as well.
So sorry this happened to you. God bless you. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
If this man was so bad,WHY cover up his eyes?? LET THAT EVIL BASTARD BE KNOWN!!! It’s a shame that he violated you and the other children… Praying for your healing 🙏🙏🙏
You are a beautiful,brave woman!
My opinion is, now that you have a better grasp on what your step-father did to you, there is a chance you can still prosecute him.
I wish. I talked to the DA. he said that I had 10 years from the time I turned 18. So I’m several years too late. I tried.
Only if the statute of limitations hasn't expired for prosecution
The fact that there is a statute of limitations for these crimes is absolutely TERRIBLE. It's a violent crime. The only reason for a statute of limitations is to protect PEDOPHILES. To me, that's a huge fight we must win. No statute of limitations for these crimes.
@@dontbelongherefromanotherp9807 I think right now there is no statute of limitations in texas. But we still have to go by the statue of limitations at the time the person became an adult, which is dumb.
@@Aelffwynn you’re so right! They’re only there to protect the offender, not the victim.
This is so heartbreaking 😭😭😭
Unfortunately it is. Thank you.
I was abused for years as well and grew up in a Christian home too. God doesn't do anything bad, it is man's free will to choose bad decisions and Satan's influence on them... God has saved and delivered me from the emotional pain and destruction caused by my abuser. I have chosen to forgive him so I can move forward and not have to live in that constant resentment and relive those moments. Praying for you all to be healed!
Thank you for sharing ❤
I am so confused. There's no way the mother didn't know. Why then do mothers in this situation so often turn a blind eye? They wouldn't allow a random stranger molest their child but when it's their husband suddenly they can turn a blind eye? I'd rather be single forever and raise a child without a father figure than have a man around that molests my child.
I know. I’m trying to understand it.
You’ll,never understand because you aren’t evil. The mothers are. They want to keep a man so bad they sacrifice their children.
@@dcg590 🥺 thank you.
i was molested by my dad my grandpa my dads freinds from 3 to 11 i tried to kill him i got locked up for eight years he got nothing theres alot more but thats the past im sorry you went through that my prayers and a hug
When I was young, my mom would bring men who would molest me after she trusted them enough to be alone with me. I thought it was normal. Last time, I told my mom what her husband did, she said, “why did you encourage him?”
I was 13.. I didn’t encourage anyone. I dressed to the point that all my clothes were baggy just to look as unattractive as possible. Long pants and a sweater every time and I thought he’d stop touching me. Just to STOP touching me.
Thank you for telling your story. It just justifies my feelings that what I’ve been through wasn’t normal.
So disgusting that you would be blamed for encouraging him, and even worse victims blame themselves like they did something wrong to have the person molest them, no these sick predators use all kinds of these tactics, just evil. May God help you.
I’m so very sorry for what happened to you. We’re all in this together.
Sin loves darkness!!!
Exposure to LIGHT brings HEALING!!!!
So true. Thank you.
I’m so sorry for what you have gone through 😭😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Of course your mom knew. They always do.
I didn’t live with her full time. I spent the school year with my dad and some weekends/holidays and all summers with my mom. When I turned 10 I was with my mom full time. I believe they were signs that couldn’t been seen but I think she truly trusted him and didn’t know. Looking back she knows there were things she missed. We’ve always been close though. She kicked him out the day CPS was notified. I don’t blame her though. I only blame him.
@@feliciaperezauthor I’m sorry, but that’s crap. She knew. I realize you need one parent to care for your own piece of mind, but eventually, you will come to the realization that she rationalized the whole thing. Ask yourself how it was your much younger friends knew something was amiss, yet your mother, who was married to the pig, did not. No one sane believes your mother.
If your mom herself was molested she may not have known. Since she wasn’t protected she didn’t know how to protect. This is a fact. In research of SA this is a proven fact. There are mothers who do know and they don’t care. So you’ll most likely never know what is true. So sorry for you pain. I too was abused and was in therapy for years to learn how to be sure the next generation didn’t repeat it.
🤮🤮🤮disgusting his identity should b exposed so won’t b able to show his filthy face to the world 🤬I’m so sorry for ur horrible childhood n shame on the mothers who r busy working but don’t have the common sense to notice how their children r behaving 💔💔💔💔
Thank you for the story I've been abused too I was with my aunt since I was 14 until I was 36.
because these people prey on children who are forming their identity as a human (very early in life) what they did impacts the WHOLE life of the survivor. I am single and will always be single. I refused to live with my sons father or have anyone stay over night. People notice that I DO NOT trust ANYONE for any situation. I am always in physical pain and have been a dysfunctional person most of my life. I DO NOT understand why these life destroyers are permitted to go out into the world. A 9 month course is NOT going to fix a pedo. There is NO cure for them and they are a waste of money, space and resources. They will ALWAYS be a threat to society. This woman is a hero for putting her story out. The more we tell the less it is a secret that these shoe scrapes bank on to continue their "ways"