I know you already have a time stamp but I made this one for the comment section. Intro: 00:00 ISFJ- 18:21 ESFJ- 27:43 ISTJ- 40:02 ISFP- 54:25 ESTJ- 1:06:07 ESFP- 1:18:15 ENFP- 1:31:06 ISTP- 1:44:24 INFP- 1:56:13 ESTP- 2:11:16 INTP- 2:23:18 ENTP- 2:39:04 ENFJ- 2:53:20 INTJ- 3:04:45 ENTJ- 3:21:05 INFJ- 3:33:50 End: 3:44:27
As an ENTP, the moment I saw “Very Argumentative” in the weaknesses category, my first thought was “No I’m not” I have since changed my stance on the matter.
You know you're a fellow INTJ when the sentence "They have bold unrealistic dreams and ambitions while also being the harshest of pessimists" hits painfully hard.
I like to imagine myself all the time in prestigious roles in society like Astronaut, CEO of a Company, Military Officer, Scientist. Then I create scenes in my head on what I would say and how I would act….im also romantically clueless as well.
POV: you scrolled ahead to your type in the video, wrote a comment about yourself, started looking for comments about your type, and now you’re reading this one.
as an infp, i used to cry every night as a kid with the thought that others were dying around the world. not related to me, just sad for their families😅 i’ve also found that focusing my creativity on anything is immensely difficult due to unreachable goals i make for myself! the weaknesses is what really made me feel seen
I had to stop watching war documentaries on tv bc I was so upset for all the young men and their families.. even though I don't know them and most of them will be long gone now it was just really heartbreaking seeing what they went through. I'd end up crying for almost the whole show 😭
I mean... most of the "INFPs and especially INFJs" in the mbti community are mistyped because they took the 16personalities test and haven't researched cognitive functions. 😃
@@sipulit7295 I took the cognitive functions test as well, and it affirmed my most pronounced cognitive function is "introverted feeling". I cannot see myself fitting in any other classification apart from INFP. I think people in general view myer-briggs in far too rigid terms sometimes, they fail to understand it is a personality guide, not a concrete classification with no room for nuance.
I am an INFJ, but I do the same thing. Talking out loud to myself helps me think. If I ever do it around people, I often remind them that I am okay and not crazy
ENTP here, according to science, intelligent people are often in a state with full of thoughts,silent and calculative.and one of those thoughts are battling yourself with facts that contradicts it's neighbors, like: Quantum physics and The theory of relativity, and Science and religion. "i like quiet people,you never know if they're carrying the entire world, or if they are dancing in a Daydream"
As an INTP, I can confirm that I usually spend hours of my day doing full debates about completely random subjects with myself only. Good to know I'm not crazy.
as an infj, when i was a child i used to think my parents' problems were also my problem. i spent my childhood thinking of what i can do when i get older to help, and make a difference in our family. as i got older, i was always told that i was thoughtful, and considerate; things i knew myself. but yep, it's hard to grow up while you were constantly looking out for other people, even though you don't really want it.
As an INTJ, when i was a child i was similar in a way. But i wasn’t an emotional child, i constantly was a kid who thought logically about things, the pros and cons to everything without emotions. The way i responded to those issues was to help them in a way indirectly. Like if they asked me what i wanted for my birthday while they were poor, i told them i didn’t need or want anything so they could save money. Or if it was something that was a huge responsibility, i would also handle it in a way that would help them out as well in terms of not having to worry alot. Like when my mom asked me when i was 15yo what kind of car i wanted to get for my 16th birthday. And i told her i didn’t want a car because i knew it was a huge responsibility to have to have a car payment, maintainence, car insurance and just the fact i would have to operate a heavy piece of machinery while on the road with other drivers that could be very unpredictable. She told me i was an odd child because i wasn’t the typical thinker for my young age. I got alot growing up that i even though i was quiet, shy and private, i was wise beyond my years.
@@anonnnymousthegreat this was me- except for me it was more like I took my parents problems as my own, and then ran away from home to cut their problems out of my life 💀
As an INTJ, I've only recently just learned that other people only wanted someone to vent out to, not have their problems solved. I don't know how but I've tried it and it was the only time that I realized that not all problems and failures does not need to be analyzed and solved.
Fellow INTJ -- I also greatly struggle with this at times! I've gotten into the habit of asking before a conversation starts, "Would you like me to listen or do you want some input?" It saves yourself and the other person a lot of frustration. I am more of a "If I'm saying anything I have considered solutions and am ready to act", and less of a, "I want to vent about this and then do nothing because venting alone helped enough" so it was hard for me to grasp at first.
Same here, had a problem with my girlfriend where I given the shortest, best case scenario to fix her problem, except she didn't want to fix it she wanted to ride out the emotion
Most people hate it when you try to make decisions for them. So I just offer potential solutions to their problems and let them make the final decision.
Hahaha i just know that im not alone thank u guys, realy hard to talk with other person. I know we all not the same but talking to someone thats not have vision at result of what they talking about n do is iritating n confusing n i often chose not to say my opinion if they not asking
No wonder until now I can never decide what I want to be, because everything seems fun and exciting. Seriously, I want to be a teacher, a therapist, a baker, a farmer, an artist, a lyricist, a content creator, an entrepreneur, make my own recipe and do business, omg.. And in the end, I still can't do anything. Because I really need to take time thinking, planning, plotting, and consider the pro and cons, then tired, lost and achieve nothing. HELP
even trough when I did the test I didn't get it (and it probably was just a misunderstanding of myself), everything he said about it just feels so true to me. I'm pretty sure I must be an INFJ.
I’m an ENFP through and through. Hearing all of this was heartwarming and really shows all of the depth and complexity we have as individuals. Even though we all share a MB personality, you add our life experiences, interests and perception of the world into the mix and you have one very dynamic, interesting person :)
INFJ here, this is scarily accurate, especially the part where you said we are drawn to non-competitive or behind the scene's role in our career but became highly frustrated if the role doesn't have room for us to grow. In fact, all parts are scarily accurate. Thanks for the great video! :)
I’m an INFJ and I’ve always been a bit ashamed of/annoyed by some of things about my personality such as me being so introverted or my difficulty in getting into romantic relationships but this makes me feel understood and proud of what I am
I remember, like a year ago, my friend suggested to me to do 16perosnalities test, and I got INFJ, then i started to look around that personality, and it was like a big shock for me. I finally started to understanding myself and my day to day stuff and my thought process. ^^
Im an enfp and OH MY GOSH. Everything feels so accurate, its scary. The enthusiasm, disorganization, lack of focus, a lot of thinking, the want to accommodate, and spontaneous energy and passion as well as losing it after a while
I think they are called Archtects because this major combines creativity, imagination and innovation AND stric calculations and analysis, cause you're still making a real thing, a real project what people will be using. A lot of architects know not only how to draw but basics for engineering, physics and many others majors cause they're creating for a real world and they should think of each little aspect to reach perfection Just like INTJ's personality brings together not only rationality but imagination.
As an INTP, I always wondered why I always changed what my hobbies or passions were. When I discover new hobby or passion, there is a high chance I change
Same I go through so many phases it's exhausting and now I just don't trust myself to commit to anything and constantly look for things I always return to the most -
The part about INFP's having a rather unassuming life from the outside but having a rich inner world is so fascinating. I meet plenty of people that don't show much interest in learning more about my inner world, and while I have no expectation or judgement of them for it, I just can't help but think what they're missing out on. The analogy of a wardrobe and Narnia can summarize it quite well.
this. i’m an infp and im unintentionally super reserved about personal things (even towards ppl close to me). i don’t really care if others around me don’t know about it, but deep down it’d be cool if they wanna know lol. i feel like an ancient old being living peacefully in a magical forest who doesn’t mind answering an explorer’s question about my lore
Yeah as an INFP I’m the same way. Theres so much about me but it’s so hard to get to that part especially since I’ve never let myself just be myself. I’ve molded myself to others to avoid anyone not liking me to the point where I don’t have hobbies, favorite songs, or anything. I didn’t want people to think different things about me so I just avoided everything altogether and lived a boring life. I realized how toxic it is and how I’ve basically been hurting myself by doing so so I’m working on it more and trying to allow myself to grow and be who I am
As an INFJ, every detail that was told here is incredibly accurate. I am so sensitive to criticism even the slightest one, and i am also a perfectsionist. Everything triggers me if something is not in the right place.
saaame tho it's insane XD the way i've busted my ass sometimes for school stuff, then spent half an hour in the bathroom crying cause i was burning myself out, but i wanted to reach that goal! ^^' i'm so happy about vids like that and the test itself, bc like that, i can find out more about myself :)
also an infj here, and i'm not sensitive to criticism as long as there's a good point to it, i absolutely hate empty judgements, and just empty people that don't bring anything to the table general u know? I truly hate unfairness, you can also call it injustice, like the guy said in the video
I dont like over appreciation from others that much but i do tend to appreciate myself less and always talk to myself. Sometimes its frustating with the flooding of thoughts and my introverted nature
As an INFP, this is so accurate. My mind's really loud all the time, trying to converse with myself, that it becomes overwhelming at times. Also, I always have high expectations for myself; in all aspects of life, that's why a lot of people tend to say that I'm a perfectionist. This is also the reason why I have never entered in a relationship. In addition, it has always been my greatest dream to help those people in need so once I have enough money, hopefully I could establish a foundation. I also wish to adopt in the future 😊
As an ENTJ I feel attracted to what you said, we have the same goals in life. I also have the goal of helping other's in need, my disare is so big that I feel life is useless if I don't accomplish that goal.
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It's pain. As an individualistic personality its really hard - thats what she said - to realize how perfectly you fit in to this category of person. I know that personality is much more than MBTI but still...
Yes same here! It really describes me, even the type of work I do. My degree is in behavioral science and ended up doing social work now trying to get into corporate healthcare
Lol, I'm an INTJ-A, and I'm a very fulfilled preschool teacher. I find the wonder and never-ending curiosity of children stimulating. I enjoy their candor and that they too see no need to mask their opinions. Every day is new and different, presently challenges and satisfaction. :)
INTP here and the description about projects is SO SPOT ON! I have abandoned so many projects because one little detail couldn't be achieved, because I'm a perfectionist. I've spent weeks on small details of my projects, because I'm a perfectionist. It's honestly one of my weaknesses. Perfection is the enemy of completion.
One thing I noticed, as an INTP too, is that not only am I a perfectionist, but I'm also a procrastinator (I think that's where the "P" comes in, i.e. play now work later). If I can't imagine doing something perfect in my head, then I won't even start it. However, starting a project, and learning from the mistakes is what makes things perfect, which is so counterintuitive for my brain 😅
The problem I have being ISTP is connecting with people, I like this girl and she used to like me back but I have no idea where I fucked up. Only slightest idea I have is I wanted to talk all the time and asserted conversations between us. I hate myself for this.
INTJ here. This was quite possibly the most informative and most complimentary description of the INTJ personality I've ever seen on TH-cam. When you said they probably spend more time thinking about love than expressing it, I started laughing hysterically at my screen because that's exactly what I do! Same goes with any emotion, really. When I'm watching an emotional scene during a movie, instead of crying like some people may do, I just think to myself 'Man. I guess I'm supposed to cry at this bit.' I did cry a lot as a kid, but now I just can't. The rational part of my brain never switches off, I just don't like losing control of myself. This was also a great video to learn about the other personalities, particularly the extroverted sensors.
INTJ aswell. 100% agree on the movie thing, I can tell when a scene is supposed to be emotionally evocative to viewers but I'm often too busy dissecting the characters in the scene to focus on feeling those emotions myself lol.
I'm also an INTJ and I don't cry at movies either. It's funny because I'm "barely" an INTJ (The myers-briggs test has percentages for each letter trait and mine barely tipped the balance) but I can really relate. I also found myself analyzing the part where they said INTJs were analytic. 😂
Hits home. I’m an ENFJ. I am into: all natural bodybuilding, music production, DJ’ing, philosophy, flair bartending, etc. I think I am sensitive, very authentic and have zero problem with being vulnerable. I’m told I’m super empathetic. I felt misunderstood and ‘not part of the group’ my whole life. The things I chose to do also made me even weirder. Hobbies, profession, interests, etc. I also live in Holland where ‘acting/being different’ is not really well received. ‘Act normal, then you are already acting crazy enough’ is a saying here. I’m also an ENFJ that hardly has any friends. That makes me feel even lonelier. I have a huge need for human contact but that contact is hard when people think you are odd.
My brother, we are extremely similar people, I relate so much. I’m too into a ton of different things and I find a lot of joy in life. I’m authentic and I also feel as though I am unable to connect to the masses, but when people are receptive, deep connection is easy. Being myself even if it means not fitting into a group has been one of the most important lessons in my young adulthood. Good luck with life jack 🫡
As an INTP, I can attest that you have described my personality trait perfectly. I'm glad that I have overcome the urge to stop talking to people whom I think inferior.
as INFJ when i took a personality test it was just eerily similar to how i usually think. while on some days i feel like speaking out against a really annoying and bothersome person, the next day i might feel insecure about my appearance and not talk much. i dont really like making friends with strangers, but when I'm with close friends, it's like my personality completely changes and i become wayyy more talkative and emotional.
@@mapledemon5601 the best option for me is to js be as calm as possible and try not to provoke anyone or just ignore ppl trying to start an online argument Idk abt u but it rlly works😭😭I think i used to get into so many online arguments before bc I was stubborn and wanted to keep going once it started its like that kind of "I'm not gonna be the first one to stop arguing once i got into an argument"
It’s really bad, I tried to explain to the person who introduced me to it that I’m not even an extrovert I just feel really comfortable around them and the ensuing argument was dishearteningly enlightening on just how willfully ignorant some people can be.
I agree 100%, for me it seems that everyone wants to be the quiet genius intj type, and i see a lot of parallels in admittedly cringe sigma male community, and also with everyone wanting to be neurodivergent and 'special', it really seems like the descriptions here are things that are just vague enough that anyone can align themselves with it, in the same way astrology does that to make people think "wow, thats exactly me!!!" when its just stuff everyone thinks about/experiences.
Yeah, I think some of these might apply to people, but there’s no “definite” amount of personality types. That’s why I’m cringing at most of these comments that say “As an…”, “I am…”
I do not know I mean after reading all personalities I truly think there are personalities here that completely do not align with my actual personality I think it is accurate to some extent but that does not mean they don't generalize people and use generalized thoughts, sentences and words to describe people and their personalities like astrology but overall it is much better than astrology
I'm an INTP, and funnily enough I zoned out thinking half way through your explanation of INTP so I didn't take in half of what you said because I was thinking. But I did catch that we think too much!
INFP here! I’ve taken the test many times and have always gotten this one, so I feel confident calling myself an INFP. The strengths and weaknesses described are very on par w/ how I am. The careers part really got to me, though, as a psychologist is the career I currently have in mind for myself. It’s just something I’ve always been told I’d be good at, and something I really love the idea of pursuing
Same here. Its pretty accurate. A few things are a little untrue but unfortunately no test can describe absolutely everyone perfectly. The relationship and creativity aspect is on par though.
@@minty_macaron doesn't seem like you answered the questions 100%. The romantic part is extremely accurate for me. I overy romanticized relationships, try retaking the test.
@@AetharWolf no I did, I’m just not romantic. at all. Some of the relationship part is true, like how I expect a lot from my partner (platonic) and how I try my best to be loyal, but,,I’m just not romantic. Other than that, it’s on point.
@@minty_macaron Thats very odd. Ive never met a Aromatic person, at least not one who has similar personality. I would say its unfortunate to not be romantic but i guess you cant miss what you've never felt.
As an INFJ(-T), being sensitive to criticism, neglecting my needs, and burnout is true. I’ve worked hours on something just to lose motivation. I’m also a very artistic and love making others happy. I’m very principled, and I’ve learned to keep mine to myself a little more. Being a perfectionist is true. And I hate opening up to others because of trust issues and the fact that I’m afraid of judgement. And I plan to become a Vet, Artist, or Musician. Maybe a therapist if I end up doing it.
As a writer, gotta shout out to the ENTJs for existing. Seriously. You are the best characters to write out there. You can lack a plot, but then an ENTJ character will 100% start one and drive it themselves. Mad respect.
EXACTLY! my main FC is an ISFJ and the one character that make her go through everything that happens to her is an ENTJ. Like I love my ENTJ character more than I love my main character!
Deuteronomy 18:9-12 New International Version Occult Practices 9 When you enter the land the Lord your God is giving you, do not learn to imitate the detestable ways of the nations there. 10 Let no one be found among you who sacrifices their son or daughter in the fire, who practices divination or sorcery, interprets omens, engages in witchcraft, 11 or casts spells, or who is a medium or spiritist or who consults the dead. 12 Anyone who does these things is detestable to the Lord; because of these same detestable practices the Lord your God will drive out those nations before you.
@@exploremylocalarea946I didn't know God was still writing these days! Thx for letting us know that, Godbot. Though I guess just revising your old material yet again isn't all that newsworthy...
As an INTJ-T (have taken the test either 3 or 4 times and always gotten the same result) I think the INTJ section is spot on! I can understand why people are sceptical of the Myers-Briggs but I think it is an extremely valuable tool that everyone can learn something from, regardless of your type. Well done with this video, it must’ve taken a long time to put together!
As a INTJ myself, it was truly amazing to feel some sort of understanding. It was extremely spot on with me to a level I've never seen before. Myers-Briggs is fantastic, in my opinion.
@@hatzulsuprem9623 Se (Extroverted Sensing) Si (Introverted Sensing) Ne (Extroverted intuition) Ni (Introverted Intuition) Fe (Extroverted Feeling) Fi (Introverted Feeling) Te (Extroverted Thinking) Ti (Introverted Thinking)
Hearing someone talk about my strengths and weaknesses with such accuracy is so nice to hear. As an INFP what he said is so accurate hearing someone form it into words is very comforting. Thank you for creating this video
As an ISTP, I think that the "ISTPs are difficult to get to know on a deeper level" goes both ways. For me forming friendships and deep connections is really difficult.
I am an INFJ and you’re pretty spot on with what you said. Thanks. I am stuck between different careers like Lawyer, pediatrician, writer, private investigator and even biologist.
INFJ and its feels silly to say but I had this grand vision to become an architect and solve the homelessness problem but quit because of all the pressure I'd put on myself
I'm an ENFP and the part about trusting prematurely hit hard for me. I trusted someone too early and they ended up hurting my young, innocent heart far beyond full repair. It's made it tough for me to properly trust again and be that outgoing, caring, and approachable person I once was. Now a lot of people would say I'm more negative than I am positive, and one of the quietest in any group I'm in (and not just because I'm zoning off). I think it's important for any ENFP to be very careful about trusting others and now that I know that I made a decision. I decided I would have no secrets that need to be hidden, I share everything with almost everyone if they want to know so that I don't have to trust anyone. The only thing I don't share are my deep emotions. So to all those young ENFPs out there, be careful and learn when to keep something to yourself, or make the same decision I did.
As an ENFP with the same experience I am so, so sorry. I sometimes miss the person I used to be and I think that makes the heartbreak even worse… I think the solution is to not repress our natural urge to socialize, but try and be much more cautious around other people with how much we trust them right off the bat.
As an INFP I can say that pretty much everything is on point. I want to help others and Iam passionate about stuff. When I have a passion I dive deep but with other stuff that I'm not passionate about, I have trouble with. I daydream a lot and it has come a problem, I just need to work but it is extremely hard at times. I do not worry about anything as it will always work out. Everything that happens to me is ultimately good, even if it doesn't feel like that in the moment.
infp here as well and that’s crazy. i always found it weird that i’m constantly feeling positive when i’m at the most lowest point in life (cause i always believe that everything will work out in the end and that things happen yk, it’s just a part of life)
Im an INTP but ive never felt so understood, it is so insane how a simple 4 traits of someone can give you so much information and allow you to make correct assumptions about a person- Its wild
turbulent and assertive doesnt actually exist in the actual mbti system - its an element the 16personalities website implemented - i advice u to study cognitive functions
@@lolnino8511 oh it’s okay dw !!! i also had no idea abt the assertive/turbulence stuff not being a thing until i did my own research and its actually sososo interesting once u understand some of the functions !! tho a bit confusing at first aha :)))
@@myrosesarewithering1015 This is extremley off topic but tsym for actually giving me advice and actual information and helping me understand, rather than just insulting me for having a different point of view- i appreciate it :D and ill look into these cognitive functions
@@lolnino8511 dw dw i dont mind off topic aha !! and awww bless u,, its fine - we were all at a point where we were clueless abt stuff - !! i hope it helps ❤️❤️
Having gotten INFP and then watching my traits, it really seemed to define some key traits about myself. Especially the daydreaming. I have a tendency to get caught in an idea and lose focus on reality, all because I’m imagining all sorts of things. It’s hard for my brain to stop creating stories and the like in my head. I tend to want to write a lot, but end up stressing over if it is good or not. I like doing things for people a lot. I like making others breakfast, for example. It makes me fee happy that they started their day off right and I made them feel loved.
@Persephone Blackburn lol I literally abandoned stories when after writing few chapters and recently I abandoned another one after almost finishing it 😩😭 and now started a new one again. idk what's wrong with me.
@Persephone-Marie Goodnite I'm not artistically gifted either but I've found making mood boards on pinterest etc a pretty good substitute - that way I can pin related images and then whenever I want I can scroll through and day dream from them haha
I feel like i'm reading my own feelings from another person, but instead of writing i play instruments (i like writing and i've been told i'm good at it, but i always feel like they are cliché so i just read a lot instead of writing) Sorry for the bad english, i'm trying to improve by talking in the comments hehe
As an ISFJ you were very spot on, especially the part where you say feeling betrayed when not given the proper explanation addressing new drastic changes!
As an ENTP, the moment he said that we have trouble focusing on one thing I realized I wasn't actually paying attention and was doing multiple things at the same time, I am shocked
Same, I'm listening to music, talking to someone, coming up with essay ideas.. all while replying and watching this video. I cannot concentrate on only one thing
As an INTP 5w4, this was quite spot on. I wouldn't consider myself a non-emotional person, but I'm terrible at social cues and empathy. While initially I thought that Myers-Briggs was a bit pseudo-scientific, it does have a layer of accuracy to it despite not being scientific. Thanks for giving me this insight.
It’s crazy how accurate this is I feel like INTJ described me perfectly normally I can’t find anything that suits my personality but this video summed it up
ENTP who married an INFP. This hit very hard. I’m always pushing the limits of things with my own calculated risk, she is always getting frustrated because of the worry about the possible consequences. The relationship part about “ENTP need to not always be in an improvement mode” is very important because the self critical nature of INFP makes them feel like they’ll never be adequate.
I like that you are learning more about yourself and your partner, as an infp myself I think she would be happy to know that you care about such things :) my father is an entp and sometimes when I want to talk to him about something that I found interesting he criticizes or wanders off when I just want to hear 'wow that's interesting, tell me more' from him
I had dated an INFP. I had a lot of issues with pushing forward and taking risks for ambition. I’m also an ENTP. It’s not an easy feat, I ended up having to leave her behind because she wouldn’t come with me to the dream I had since I was young. She was a wonderful partner but too cautious.
As an ENTP, I also 100% feel this. My partner is a ISFP and I’m learning about it! I always always always want to know the next move, but he wants to relax and it frustrates me sometimes. I’ve learned over time that it’s okay to lay back and let life be. Best of luck to you and yours!
Advice for INTPs: - Focus on your own weaknesses, learn to apply your pattern recognition to emotions, test on yourself first, figure out what biological things are happening when you get angry, upset or even happy, remember how these illogical emotional things impact your thinking, then start applying that logic when dealing with someone also experiencing the same thing. Giving logical arguments to a pissed off or upset person isn't going to work, you know it'll just make them dig in their heels, just like you :) - Get a whiteboard with a grid for filling in the days of a month, use this to move the mental load of remembering small things that need to happen on a schedule and to keep you grounded. - Do not argue with stupid people, this sounds harsh, but understanding that you can't force someone to change their mind if they're already to rigid in their thinking, it'll just lead to your own frustration and making you look like a jerk.
Please, don’t be that person who only cares about their own personality. This personality stuff has taught me and those around me so much about ourselves. It has caused deeper connections and understanding. I recommend everyone to not only know themselves, but those around them. I am an INFJ, my husband as an INTP, and my best friend is an ENFJ. We have lots of fun with how we interact because we choose to know each other, not just ourselves. Best of luck to all who go on this self seeking journey.
Man. I always think that I'm pigeon holed into being that personality type forever, but the more time I'm on this earth I realize that you are who you want to be.
as an enfp I relate to the overcommitting so much. especially with people. I find it easy to make friends and want to hang out with everyone and ‘get the most’ out of being with them. I love being in social groups and chatting with people one on one, it gives me so much energy. but then when I completely drain myself and need to be alone I find I don’t have the energy to put into what I want to do creatively, or do the best I can at work, and that sucks. but if I say no I feel so much fomo, like I’ve missed an experience. it’s a hard balance lol still trying to work on that one
Gurlly I am a enfp too and I agree with everything you said! I always want to help others and have at least one genuine friend that wants to be my friend but I always get disappointed as no one matches my energy.. But like you said it's easy to make friends. Also, it's funny as when one of our weaknesses is disorganization... everyone tells me I'm not organized and sometimes I'll get random burst of motivation to organize and I'll do it.. It doesn't last long! But like our personality says I want my career to be based on helping people or the environment and have a meaningful relationship with someone. But it's nice to know someone gets it lol
ENFP here: so scarily accurate for my flaws! People always praise ENFP for our social skills but its cool to have our negative aspects that we may not even be consciously aware of pointed out too !
It's weird because we have to force ourselves to focus on developing on our weaknesses so that we can be truly who we are and then focus on what we are best at
I got INTP. Let me say how insane it was that you used the line "They could be obsessed with programming an app, then immediately find themselves watching videos on DIY electronics." I have a passion for fixing things and technology. I literally started programming on some inspiration I had to create a cool website for my small business doing general IT work. During that process, I found myself enthralled by a few videos of electronics & computer repair and completely redesigned the website & my business model. All cause while I was learning to program, I immediately found myself watching video of electronics repair.
I studied sports science and philosophy, coached athletes, worked as a data analyst, doing a PhD in psychology and a master's in artificial intelligence. It's infuriating I couldn't just be okay with a basic job 😅
As an ISTJ everything you stated is very accurate. Anyone who knows me know that integrity is very important to me. I know that I’m probably not that fun to be around because I’m gonna be that person reminding everyone of the rules and consequences of everything lol
As an INFP i can really relate to us being very open-minded to the point where I have made friends with many tracers and art stealers and just bullies all in all, although there was this one moment where someone kept bullying me for being "too casual and aggresive" since I have a fond use for caps and I probably just love strarting conversations even if they may be a bit more on the weirder side (and lets say that person who bullied just straight yeeted a bad memory on me that gave me quite the self-doubt phase)
I find it difficult to get mad at people for doing something wrong and I always continue being friends with people I know I shouldnt be, I've only cut off a few people in my life it really annoys me because I'm always told to be more opinionated but I'm always in the grey area :')
I'm an ENFP and it's crazy how much I can relate lol, I go from being all pondering to being loud and outgoing, it's like on some days I'm craving social interaction and fun and on others I want to shut myself in my room for hours and hours
As an INFJ-T our only enemy is our thoughts but once conquered there's no stopping us from reaching our dream just like how we drew it up in our minds.
I'm the INFJ type. I've taken the test a few times before and landed on the INFJ personality type every time. ln, the past I have felt like an outsider and an odd duck. Even in my own immediate family. Nowadays, however, I embrace my differences.
I've always felt the same way too, for me i think INFP is my solution, when being around INFP, i feel like we can really connect and they don't judge us for being quirky
I used to land on enfp and infp in early secondary school but since late secondary school and afterwards I keep landing on infj, I think with the first few tests I wasn't being 100% honest with myself, I was trying to be too optimistic back then, but now I value honesty more than anything, so I try to be especially honest with myself at least. But to a degree, I do somewhat relate to those two previous personalities quite a bit, but infj just- hits more on a deeper more personal level. I also realise I've probably studied the wrong thing and got into the wrong industry, I think I would've been so much happier working as a therapist or massage therapy. Oh well, never to late to study again, I'll save up for adult classes and work my way into it.
@@infinitechibi1496I remember getting different personality types when I was younger as well. It was always similar to the advocate and always one of these green types. I am clearly an Advocate for years now but I don't see the other outcomes as mistakes. For me personally, I see my own devolopment in the different archetypes I got over the years. I belive that the human soul is infinite complex and ever changing, I think it makes perfect sense that nobody is one personality type their whole life, at least I am not. Maybe the other outcomes describes your younger state of consciousness in its process to find its true self and maybe seeing it that way can help you to understand your own devolopment better 🤔
ISFJ here: we’re very rare. The line about getting assignments done effectively but still procrastinating along the way hit so hard 🤣 we’re super sweet, quiet and loyal to family and friends.
Glad to be a part of the INFP group of people, I definitely connected with it when I took the test. I wish I had the advice for people like me when I was younger, a lot of problems I had could’ve been a lot less bad if I knew this stuff then. All in all, pretty damn accurate for me.
The other day I was thinking, if I could go back and meet my younger self, I'd say "there's this thing called MBTI. The reason you suffer so much is because you're an INFP," and then go on to explain the pros and cons. Oh man, could I have had such a better life had I known!
@@dionysiapanagou6035 that's true. I missed out on some good times in younger years, but also certainly dodged some bullets, and also had good experiences people might not typically have. You're right - better to move forward with wisdom thannlook backward with regret. I'll keep it in mind :)
As an ESPF, I really loved how someone finally mentioned that ESPF‘s can be very comforting to be around and that they care about others a lot. It‘s nice how we are finally not considered as selfish or attention seeking.
I've been an obvious ENTP my whole life. "This kid sure likes to argue and talk back." "His mouth is going to get him in the most trouble." On top of generally being interested in vast arrays of knowledge and having short attention. Good to know that this is all commonly experienced and my type are still kickass.
ive been this w generational trauma, my family teaching dumb shit that my greatgrandma and grandma and mom and so on were taught, going "no fucking thank you"
@@tasneemahmed5821 oh same here- but it has also spoken out against injustice, provided helpful ideas that improved my company, and a number of other positive things.
“The idea of hurting another person is something that never comes to mediators” also me, and INFP-T genuinely considering strangling several members of my family multiple times a day
Sorry to inform you but there is 99% chance that you are mistyped. 16personalieties is absolutely THE WORST site to take test for MBTI since it doesn't even listen to Myers-Briggs theory and instead of testing you for MBTI, it tests you for Big5 I recommend researching functions or at least do mistype Investigator test
I agree with ^. If anyone wonders why, it’s because 16 personalities(unfortunately the most widespread of mbti tests) types people based off of letters. That is not what mbti is about. Mbti is about cognitive functions. If you stick to taking tests, I suggest taking tests from multiple trusted sites and come to a conclusion. If the test results are significantly different, you could study cognitive functions and type yourself(just make sure not to be biased and seek help from other people). Good luck on your self discovery journey!
I'm an INFP too, I've self studied cognitive functions and learnt alot about my type. One of the traits of infp is to be able to know our own feelings quite well and a healthy infp will be able to control and express it in a healthy way. Our empathy also means we cannot stand unnecessary cruelty, especially towards others. It can lead to "evil" thoughts which our open mindedness doesn't shy away from. Healthy infps will engage with the thoughts but wouldn't act on it because we know our values deeply.
@@lararys7765 yes, i am someone who would prefer to solve unstable issues calmly in a lengthy discussion to go through all the problems to avoid conflict or not talk at all. the aggressive thoughts can come at a stressful event but aren’t acted upon.
I did this quiz twice and got INFP both times and after watching that segment, I understand why. I sometimes feel lonely in this world because no one shows me the same care I show other people (except from my mum but she's my mother, she knows me well). Hell I've cried for people before, because they cry but no one has ever done that for me. I know people show concern and care in different ways but I've never met someone who does that and I just feel like I'm very different to those I know. But it's always nice to hear other people who do feel the same.
Hey, I feel that way too, down to the feeling lonely part. ;-; I'm not an INFP, I'm an ENFP so kinda close. But I understand, trying to show care and love to everyone when they don't really back to you.
To the fellow INTJs my advice is to realise that other people will never be superior to you in terms of intelligence and thinkin, but do not let this make you feel in some way superior or them inferior. See it as it is your job to help in things you are better at, just tone down the intensity of this "help" to about 5 or 10x lower than the intensity you use to work on yourself. This is your role, to think and create solutions, just remember other peoples roles are just as important. Also by now you probably know you can learn anything and everything if you want to. This in my opinion is our biggest strength and the reason why we tend to develop slower but at the end of our lives we are way more accomplished in comparison. Use this learning skill to learn how to act socially and other skills that help you form a good family. Because sooner or later you will realise that no matter how big of a picture your goal is having a family is always the even more larger picture. Learn and be patient with people who matter. Remember their strengths are not the same as yours, learn about them too. I know you care.
This is the most non-INTJ statement ever... *especially the "I know you care" lol. Redo the test - a couple of times (over a significant time period), and you'll get a result that tend to come up on average more than others... that result is probably what you are and it's probably not INTJ especially if you focused on "worrying about other people's feelings".
@@triggytiggy740 Early INTJ tends to stick towards the edgier side, believing that they're extra special and deeming other's feelings as trivial as they're inferior and their opinions don't matter. The truth is, continuing through life with that mentality is detrimental to society while at the same time, depending on it to survive. As you mature, you'll find that cooperation with others is important; it's much more rewarding to lead others and show them the way instead of scorning them for not seeing things your way
ENTP has always been glossed over so I really appreciated a deep dive on it, everything felt much more accurate than the typical "You're loud and argue with everyone"
I see your point of view but allow me to turn your attention to… whoopsie! Almost got carried away seeking knowledge through interrogating your perspective 😅
As a ISTP, I find this very accurate. I find making friends really hard because I'm so insensitive, and if I made friends and I realize I was being a bit Insensitive I quickly apologies sincerely cause I don't wanna lose them. I been in a lot scenarios that I lost friends because I'm so insensitive, that's why I don't ever show my real self to anyone.
As a fellow istp, I found a solution to this problem. I usually think less about submitting the humor itself and rather say/do things for the sake of the interest of it. Its weird that we want to have friends that will be with us without the humor and its kinda difficult. So far i can only see a solution to this problem by befriending other istps. Befriending different personality types other than istp is too costly for my energy.
It gets easier with age. You will become more intuitive to when you should either tone down your insensitivity or explain without compromising yourself and being able to do it in an endearing way with with humour or witt. I feel like my youth was mostly ISTP, but with age I float my S into an N and become the INTP when I have to.
You're really good at quoting things word for word from the 16 personallities website without sounding like you're quoting something to make it look like you're doing more original work.
It’s scary how accurate this is. An an ENFP, the whole thing about being overwhelming to other people was scary true. I’ve always been told I’m too optimistic and too talkative, and often times people don’t like it when I get super crazy about things I’m passionate about. So if I’m in a relationship, it can definitely be overwhelming for the person I’m with, because sometimes I can be very overbearing.
I'm an enfp with ADHD and autism. you can imagine what social situations are like for me, I want to engage and build relationships but I'm overbearing as an enfp and hyperactive with my ADHD, and then my autism makes it hard for me to read social cues so it turns into a whole mess. thanks mum and dad
to all my enfp companions: you must be appreciated for all that energy you put to make others feel good but most importantly we must make ourselves feel good and appreciate ourselves and stop expecting others to be as kind as us , and let our trust to be gained not on automatic mode. take care ❤
As an ENFP connecting with people and always being enthusiastic can come off as being “fake” to a lot of people which isn’t the case but I feel my enthusiasm comes across like that to people who don’t know me well enough
as an INTP, i was hooked the minute you started talking about analysts and their weaknesses and i got called out so much harder than i ever expected to
I’m an INTJ. it’s very accurate, I took about 4 different tests each twice just to be sure that I am an INTJ. People always think that I’m cold and rude but I’m really just spitting facts. My mom always tells me that I’m heartless and gave me the nickname “Wednesday Addams” when I was younger. Only my bf (which took him about 3 years to date me because I was romantically clueless) has seen my soft spot.
I’m part of the rare type of the personalities as i’m a female INTJ personality type. I didn’t even know that female INTJ’s were that rare. When it comes to careers, i do work with equipment in a way. I’m an xray and ultrasound tech.
As a mediator (INFP), I realise that my friends always appreciate and acknowledge my kindness… and how I listen to their vents; replying unbiasedly. And apparently I have a knack for rephrasing things for them to understand. Another thing I’ve found is that I’ve become so hyperconscious to the point where I do things purposefully despite knowing the reality. I also procrastinate a lot, not bc I can’t do it or I’m lazy but bc of the emotions I associate with the task. Anxiety 😭. I tried telling my mentor that I’m having trouble completing tasks bc I have intense anxiety thinking about it. This is why I somehow pull off assessments in the last min. The thing is she didn’t understand and questioned me how she can help. Idk 😭 More on self realisation and retrospecting: I’m at a point in life where I don’t care about what people may perceive me as. Like I won’t care about what others think of my outfit or what I look like when presenting. But this took some time to achieve this mindset. I’m still a people pleaser but only intentionally. If that makes sense Last thing, although I’d gladly choose creative careers, it greatly conflicts with family expectations. Luckily as an empath, there’s healthcare :)) now to choose which exact one ;;-;;
My sister is an infp struggling with anxiety and depression about friendships, going to college, finding a job, and generally getting older and having responsibilities. Which of these strategies for stopping worrying have you tried, which have you found to be most/least helpful, and is there anything else/advice you know to be helpful for an infp to stop worrying so much and participate in life on a daily basis? Mindfulness and meditation Deep breathing Practice self-compassion Do a body scan Share your fears with friends and family Practice gratitude Keep an emotions journal Maintain a consistent sleep schedule Focus on what you can control Exercise more often Take positive action Enlist professional help
@@landonionm Hello! I'm also an infp who struggles with anxiety, depression, and social situations. The feeling of knowing you're getting older is something that I think I will always dislike because it makes me feel as if there is so little time. I know a couple of these methods that help me the most in my case, especially with my anxiety. For me, sharing our fears and feelings with friends and family is important so they know how I feel and can help me in certain situations (panic/anxiety attacks, etc.) by assuring me of what I need to know and here. I often feel I need to be the one to help myself but it is important to know there is not shame in asking others for help too. I also attend therapy due to my anxiety and many family problems that have genuinely taken a toll on my life and confiding in a professional can also help because they can provide helpful insight that sometimes your family can't provide. Practicing self-compassion is also important and though I don't do it a lot myself, it is important to assure yourself of some things in certain situations instead of putting the pain aside. I tend to think that everything is my fault in situations where I fail, or other people are suffering, and it's important to understand that it's not and solely just understanding your emotions. Keeping a journal really does help, not just to keep track of your emotions. We are known to express ourselves through creative outlets and mine is writing :) I tend to put in lots of anger into my writing rather than taking it out on others and keeping track of your emotions and writing about them in a journal can help you understand yourself and better yourself as well. SLEEP IS IMPORTANT!!! I don't get much of it myself because I struggle with it, but it can overall affect everything. Your health, mood, actions, and emotions. I was feeling drained today and I can relate it to only getting 3 hours of sleep, despite it being summer vacation. I cried just because I felt so tired and it affected my mood and frankly, I just felt like shit. So keeping a consistent sleep schedule will certainly help, especially if she is going into college :) Going outside, taking a breath of fresh air, and taking a minute to yourself to recharge is one of the most important ones. I don't go outside a lot but when I went outside today it was very refreshing and helped me reset my mind. It is stated on the website itself that we need to take a step back sometimes and recharge, and it really is correct. Taking a step back today and getting that breath of fresh air really helped me understand how I felt today. Whether that be going on a walk, or exercising, or hanging out with someone, just get that vitamin D :) It really helps to ease your mind of the worry. One really good activity to do this from a personal experience is watching the sunset. Good luck to your sister and I hoped this helped because it definitely helped me by giving advice I didn't even know I had in me 😃 And I know this was lengthy but I think that it's truly some helpful advice
@@landonionm yes the future is daunting, I feel your sis! I have this paradox where I really want to skip to adulting and independent living, but I'm also scared of getting older. I'm only 17 but I feel old 🥲 All of the strategies you've mentioned I've tried (except seeking professional help) and are really useful. A tip I like is sharing feelings with people in your circle and journaling as it releases the internal build-up of emotions. When feeling overwhelmed, do enjoyable things and escape the stressful environment by going for a walk or simply sitting outside. I also recommend art and artists; find someone admirable and reflect their experiences and stories with yours. I personally like K-Pop and it's honestly helped me cope immensely (shout out to BTS and their message to love, speak and be yourself 💜) I find that focusing on the present helps me deal with worrying about the future; not only the end goal but life as a long journey with little steps (focusing on what you can control). I'd reassure your sister to not stress too much about following the "structure of life". And what I'm saying can be applied to everyone: there's always another route to get where you want to be and making mistakes will only help you avoid them in the future and improve. Take on responsibilities little by little and build independence. My first time catching the bus was last year... I was too scared before lol (and now I can go casually). As INFPs we can be overcritical of ourselves and other people's evaluations. I suggest taking chances, you might find yourself anxious at first, but try enduring it if you know it’s overall beneficial!! (e.g. applying for a job position, talking to new people, asking for help). You’ll get through it and grow stronger mentally. I remember trying to psychoanalyse other people to avoid negative connotations. But after a while it led me to an epiphany: not everyone thinks alike; people are unpredictable. After this, I was self-aware still but didn't assume their expectations. So reinforce introspecting and retrospecting to see a new angle, but to do so manifesting _beneficial_ change. For example; sitting alone and thinking that others perceive you as lonely. But then realising it's an idea created in your head based on your own experiences and perspectives. (true story lol) I now sit alone unironically as it’s something I enjoy (no awkward silence and some recharge time. I suggest always having something to do to keep yourself occupied), so I don't hold friendships to a high pedestal as I once did. It’s a reminder to not dwell on social gratification. It’s okay to not have friends at first. It's okay to be yourself and being comfortable with yourself. Optimistic thinking definitely helps in dark times. With your sister's friendships, comfort her that it’s not the end of the world. Find extroverted friends!! They honestly bring out the best in introverts and admire INFPs' empathy and listening skills. Or even online friends. Overall your sister should use all the strategies, and focus on building mental strength to endure this complex world. I’m in a similar position and life’s hard. But it gets better... hold onto positive thoughts 🌷
@@Pa_t1nn yes yes yes excellent response. totally agree. i need to re-establish my sleeping schedule 😩and i can't tell if my response was more lengthy oop--
Yep I relate as a 62 year old INFP I understand that the procrastination is related to perfectionism, if I don’t finish a project or in my case an art piece it doesn’t have to be perfect because it’s not done yet , I actually have art pieces I’ve been working on or just haven’t finished for 15 years, and then there are ones that get done in weeks or months, I’ve gotten much better at controlling my perfectionism , especially on commissions,but things I do just for myself well not so much .
The worst thing about dating as an entp that if someone doesn't challenge me mentally or doesn't bring something new to the table i got bored very quick. Somehow now days i value personality much more than looks. I even give it a go if i don't find her attractive but she has something new/interesting.
I agree with you completely. The physical attraction only lasts so far as your sexual interest. Beyond that, we have to hope and pray that their personality can keep us interested. I'm definitely not extroverted and have little to no interest in dating so I'm curious... at what point and how you determine whether or not a person is worthy of pursuing?
@@Maker1 after the first meet up both parties usually decide , either a natural flowing conversation (i had a few first dates longer than 6 hours) or good sex but sex is really good for keeping up my interest for a while if we cant talk besides it i will lose my interest (much slowly tho) my friend good is consist of 2 other ENTPs an INTJ and an INTP so I'm use to fast paced conversations and huge parties. If i feel like I cant bring a girl to our parties i will lose interest too. Obviously there will be exceptions.
ENTPs sucks, even as friends,they crave and grow on your insecurities, mistakes, and so...don't give them that...i let peace with them but also always on guard, i would recommend yall too, before they take advantage of you or manipulate/screw with you( in my case try hehe).
As a writer (INFP), I have done the 16personalifies test a lot of times through the eyes of different characters. And a lot of times, the results were really congruent with the characters. Their greatest strengths and greatest weaknesses. Their flaws and character arc. It just makes me feel “Hey, I might be doing to decent job at creating consistent characters”.
My dad and I are both ENFP's but my mom is SO close as an ESFP. This is very spot on! I've found myself in a leadership position and all of my over-arching strengths and weakenesses were right in this video.
Before I believed in this 16 personality thing, I thought it was just another Zodiac Sign thing. But then my professor grouped us into our personality groups and I realized that my experience, as an INTP, was shared by other INTPs too! That's when I really believed in this thing. Afterall, the 4 letters is determined by your response, and not when/where you were born. So it has better judgement than someone using Zopdiac Signs to "understand" you.
It's way better than Zodiac but also worse than real science. For real science, refer to the Big Five model. MBTI is somewhere between Zodiac and the Big Five (I would say it's around 70% of the way there).
zodiac signs have nothing to do with logic and are really silly in my opinion, How can when I was born affect my personality? The things that affect your personality are the environment you live in and your pre given traits. As you mentioned the mbti you are given is totally based off of how you respond to different situations and how they make you feel, so actually looking at who you are as a person. that's why I love MBTI intensely, and I have a strong dislike towards zodiac signs and using blood types to determine your personality. so I really strongly agree with you
i think it’s because 16 personalities can be more mutuable than a zodiac sign can. since it’s strictly about personality and not life experiences/happenstance, your myers-briggs result can change as you go through events that shape your personality.
@@wren_. It can result in change, but when I was with my INTP group, we shared a lot of similarities in how we react to the world despite the world having different events for us to experience.
I’m an istp and this was scarily accurate, I have a hard time expressing my emotions so it makes me seem like I’m insensitive but really I’m very empathetic
With an "expressive" problem left over from 1+ (70?%) Year of Speech Therapy. K -> 1st., I'm a Born Researcher. 🌞 💞 🐬 Some Architect and, PROTAGONIST + Adovocate, even. ⛵"EXpansive". Yes!
i am afraid to say this is wrong. You don't type yourself based on letters the mbti types have. You type yourself best on which cognitive functions you relate to the most. You have two introverted functions, and two extroverted functions. Si/Se, Ni/Ne, Fi/Fe, Ti/Te. So many people are falling for the 16 personalities test and getting mistyped because of the test. It is a complex thing to understand and a lot of people seem to not dive more into this.
I know you already have a time stamp but I made this one for the comment section.
Intro: 00:00
ISFJ- 18:21
ESFJ- 27:43
ISTJ- 40:02
ISFP- 54:25
ESTJ- 1:06:07
ESFP- 1:18:15
ENFP- 1:31:06
ISTP- 1:44:24
INFP- 1:56:13
ESTP- 2:11:16
INTP- 2:23:18
ENTP- 2:39:04
ENFJ- 2:53:20
INTJ- 3:04:45
ENTJ- 3:21:05
INFJ- 3:33:50
End: 3:44:27
Thank you.
Me as an INTP skipping to my part and turning the video’s speed 2x faster because he talked too slow for me
Haha same
These are so long wt
Thx
As an ENTP, the moment I saw “Very Argumentative” in the weaknesses category, my first thought was “No I’m not”
I have since changed my stance on the matter.
As a fellow ENTP, I dispute that.
We can agree to disagree. What side do you want?
@@axeman03 both
That one really hit close to home. Yeah science!
literally me but i accepted it months ago.
As an INTP I thought I was going insane because of all the full conversations and debates I had going on with myself for hours
Same help
I do the same as an INFP
Sameee I was watching this and hearing all the good things and being like yes I do pride myself and then he told me I didn't understand emotions lol
Literally same here
Relatable shit
You know you're a fellow INTJ when the sentence "They have bold unrealistic dreams and ambitions while also being the harshest of pessimists" hits painfully hard.
Right? I've never felt more attacked.
it hits,real hard-
I find it funny that im an architect and my brother is a protagonist 😂
I like to imagine myself all the time in prestigious roles in society like Astronaut, CEO of a Company, Military Officer, Scientist. Then I create scenes in my head on what I would say and how I would act….im also romantically clueless as well.
it's scaring
POV: you scrolled ahead to your type in the video, wrote a comment about yourself, started looking for comments about your type, and now you’re reading this one.
Yes
self-absorbed ahh comment
..........where are you- WHO ARE YOU!! I KNEW THERE WAS A SECRET CAMERA ON MY PHONE!!
Do you see me phantom texting?
@@Jk-ki7tr what😭
Excuse me, do you have access to my camera?
as an infp, i used to cry every night as a kid with the thought that others were dying around the world. not related to me, just sad for their families😅 i’ve also found that focusing my creativity on anything is immensely difficult due to unreachable goals i make for myself! the weaknesses is what really made me feel seen
I had to stop watching war documentaries on tv bc I was so upset for all the young men and their families.. even though I don't know them and most of them will be long gone now it was just really heartbreaking seeing what they went through. I'd end up crying for almost the whole show 😭
fellow infp here 💜 you two aren’t alone i’ve felt that at times too
wow that's so weird I'm an infp too and I've experienced these too
Lol same but now I kinda repressed my emotions it kinda sucks
a fellow infp 😃
I feel like INFP’s are by far the most obsessed with Myer Briggs. I see us everywhere lol
Yes us and infjs because yk ✨ empathy ✨
I mean... most of the "INFPs and especially INFJs" in the mbti community are mistyped because they took the 16personalities test and haven't researched cognitive functions. 😃
@@sipulit7295 I took the cognitive functions test as well, and it affirmed my most pronounced cognitive function is "introverted feeling". I cannot see myself fitting in any other classification apart from INFP. I think people in general view myer-briggs in far too rigid terms sometimes, they fail to understand it is a personality guide, not a concrete classification with no room for nuance.
ENFJ's too which is no surprise considering INFP's are soulmates with ENFJ's lol.
I'm guessing it's an Fi thing. Where we're naturally seeking to find ourselves or understand who we are and why.
Where are my INFP friends?!
I'm here 👁️✨
Here 😶
here
I'm like an INFP/ENFP more so extroverted
Here I am 🙈😁
As an INTP, I am grateful to know that I'm not crazy when straight up talking to myself in the form of debates
I am an INFJ, but I do the same thing. Talking out loud to myself helps me think. If I ever do it around people, I often remind them that I am okay and not crazy
Real
ENTP here, according to science, intelligent people are often in a state with full of thoughts,silent and calculative.and one of those thoughts are battling yourself with facts that contradicts it's neighbors, like: Quantum physics and The theory of relativity, and Science and religion. "i like quiet people,you never know if they're carrying the entire world, or if they are dancing in a Daydream"
As an INTP myself, i wanted to leave a reply but it took 1 month due to my procratio... (I will finish typing that word later)
My mom thinks talking to myself will make me insane and hates when I do it though
As an INTP, I can confirm that I usually spend hours of my day doing full debates about completely random subjects with myself only. Good to know I'm not crazy.
Same man like why can't my mind just stfu for once
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Devil's advocate is also true for me
Or are you?
ME FR
:) ahhh a fellow logician
As an INTJ I do that too, sometimes I'm just thinking about a scenario and having beef with the air
as an infj, when i was a child i used to think my parents' problems were also my problem. i spent my childhood thinking of what i can do when i get older to help, and make a difference in our family. as i got older, i was always told that i was thoughtful, and considerate; things i knew myself. but yep, it's hard to grow up while you were constantly looking out for other people, even though you don't really want it.
Yeah it’s really exhausting :(
As an INTJ, when i was a child i was similar in a way. But i wasn’t an emotional child, i constantly was a kid who thought logically about things, the pros and cons to everything without emotions. The way i responded to those issues was to help them in a way indirectly. Like if they asked me what i wanted for my birthday while they were poor, i told them i didn’t need or want anything so they could save money. Or if it was something that was a huge responsibility, i would also handle it in a way that would help them out as well in terms of not having to worry alot. Like when my mom asked me when i was 15yo what kind of car i wanted to get for my 16th birthday. And i told her i didn’t want a car because i knew it was a huge responsibility to have to have a car payment, maintainence, car insurance and just the fact i would have to operate a heavy piece of machinery while on the road with other drivers that could be very unpredictable. She told me i was an odd child because i wasn’t the typical thinker for my young age. I got alot growing up that i even though i was quiet, shy and private, i was wise beyond my years.
I feel youu
@@anonnnymousthegreat this was me- except for me it was more like I took my parents problems as my own, and then ran away from home to cut their problems out of my life 💀
Same😭 I agree it's a lot of weight
Any creative INTPs feeling called out?
"Oh man, a 7 hour long analysis/essay about a game I've never played, I need to watch this"
Me with the 5 hour Eve Online Documentary
I really feel called out…I watched a 4 hour iceberg deep dive on the “NSFL” videos…it’s interesting
@@drolemem ah man, what's it called? I'll never play Eve, but watching a 5 hour doc seems like it would fill that gap of knowledge lmao
This except it’s not really with games, more so abt different medical conditions
lmaoo mee
Who didn’t realize this was almost a 4 hour video before clicking on it?
Me I was surprised once I saw how long it was😂
Me🥱
Holy sh I just noticed now that you say it
“Logicians often spend time pondering various ideas and what-if scenarios” as an INTP my anxiety really appreciates it 👍
I as an INTP found this a little creepily relatable but this feels really relieving to know that I'm not the only one who does these weird stuff
Same here
I get shivers knowing im not the only person that feels an thinks the way I do
as another INTP i feel weird but at the same time kind of good knowing that others feel the same way as me:)
@@palicarrot7881 same
As an INTJ, I've only recently just learned that other people only wanted someone to vent out to, not have their problems solved. I don't know how but I've tried it and it was the only time that I realized that not all problems and failures does not need to be analyzed and solved.
Fellow INTJ -- I also greatly struggle with this at times! I've gotten into the habit of asking before a conversation starts, "Would you like me to listen or do you want some input?" It saves yourself and the other person a lot of frustration. I am more of a "If I'm saying anything I have considered solutions and am ready to act", and less of a, "I want to vent about this and then do nothing because venting alone helped enough" so it was hard for me to grasp at first.
This is so true !:)
Same here, had a problem with my girlfriend where I given the shortest, best case scenario to fix her problem, except she didn't want to fix it she wanted to ride out the emotion
Most people hate it when you try to make decisions for them. So I just offer potential solutions to their problems and let them make the final decision.
Hahaha i just know that im not alone thank u guys, realy hard to talk with other person. I know we all not the same but talking to someone thats not have vision at result of what they talking about n do is iritating n confusing n i often chose not to say my opinion if they not asking
As an INFJ... all of that was painfully accurate, I felt a little attacked during the weakness area. Awesome video!
same. i was crying on how i was called out so accurately.
hitting every point like there's no tomorrow
No wonder until now I can never decide what I want to be, because everything seems fun and exciting. Seriously, I want to be a teacher, a therapist, a baker, a farmer, an artist, a lyricist, a content creator, an entrepreneur, make my own recipe and do business, omg.. And in the end, I still can't do anything. Because I really need to take time thinking, planning, plotting, and consider the pro and cons, then tired, lost and achieve nothing. HELP
Yea.
even trough when I did the test I didn't get it (and it probably was just a misunderstanding of myself), everything he said about it just feels so true to me. I'm pretty sure I must be an INFJ.
I’m an ENFP through and through. Hearing all of this was heartwarming and really shows all of the depth and complexity we have as individuals. Even though we all share a MB personality, you add our life experiences, interests and perception of the world into the mix and you have one very dynamic, interesting person :)
Sameee
Same
enfp rise up and smile together
US FRL 🫶🏾
Another ENFP here 👋🏻👋🏻
INFJ here, this is scarily accurate, especially the part where you said we are drawn to non-competitive or behind the scene's role in our career but became highly frustrated if the role doesn't have room for us to grow. In fact, all parts are scarily accurate. Thanks for the great video! :)
same. every other year i always take the test and i keep getting infj
Omg same I thought he was stalking me for a second haha
Same here, hit a little too hard
It's so accurate I feel outed
Infj gang
I’m an INFJ and I’ve always been a bit ashamed of/annoyed by some of things about my personality such as me being so introverted or my difficulty in getting into romantic relationships but this makes me feel understood and proud of what I am
I remember, like a year ago, my friend suggested to me to do 16perosnalities test, and I got INFJ, then i started to look around that personality, and it was like a big shock for me. I finally started to understanding myself and my day to day stuff and my thought process. ^^
Heck yea
Yep
I am infj)
wooooo ❤️
Im an enfp and OH MY GOSH. Everything feels so accurate, its scary. The enthusiasm, disorganization, lack of focus, a lot of thinking, the want to accommodate, and spontaneous energy and passion as well as losing it after a while
OMG A TSUKASA PFP
@@Luckydog-cc9jnA TSUKASA AND AKITO PFP
same here I was shocked
@@Luckydog-cc9jn KANADE YOISAKI HEREEE
LITERALLY.
I believe that INTJ is named The Architect due to them building up knowledge over time, brick by brick from diverse sources.
I thought it was because they’re good strategists?
@@alnsubugaThat can also be it
Or a combination of both
As someone given intj I think you are right as I am not the best at architecture
I believe the term comes from the tendency to create plans (blueprints) for the future...
I think they are called Archtects because this major combines creativity, imagination and innovation AND stric calculations and analysis, cause you're still making a real thing, a real project what people will be using. A lot of architects know not only how to draw but basics for engineering, physics and many others majors cause they're creating for a real world and they should think of each little aspect to reach perfection
Just like INTJ's personality brings together not only rationality but imagination.
Skipped intro, watched intj, left.
Relatable
cool? lol
Don’t you call me out like that yo
Dude feel exposed
real
As an INTP, I always wondered why I always changed what my hobbies or passions were. When I discover new hobby or passion, there is a high chance I change
me too!!!
Same
I go through so many phases it's exhausting and now I just don't trust myself to commit to anything and constantly look for things I always return to the most -
Same frrr
For intp they don't change, they just add new things. Sorry i diagnose you INFP.
same. i feel like i have no real interests other than surface level
The part about INFP's having a rather unassuming life from the outside but having a rich inner world is so fascinating. I meet plenty of people that don't show much interest in learning more about my inner world, and while I have no expectation or judgement of them for it, I just can't help but think what they're missing out on. The analogy of a wardrobe and Narnia can summarize it quite well.
this. i’m an infp and im unintentionally super reserved about personal things (even towards ppl close to me). i don’t really care if others around me don’t know about it, but deep down it’d be cool if they wanna know lol. i feel like an ancient old being living peacefully in a magical forest who doesn’t mind answering an explorer’s question about my lore
@@luvyeew yes you just summed that up so well
I am also an INFP, and i have the exact same thing!
Yeah as an INFP I’m the same way. Theres so much about me but it’s so hard to get to that part especially since I’ve never let myself just be myself. I’ve molded myself to others to avoid anyone not liking me to the point where I don’t have hobbies, favorite songs, or anything. I didn’t want people to think different things about me so I just avoided everything altogether and lived a boring life. I realized how toxic it is and how I’ve basically been hurting myself by doing so so I’m working on it more and trying to allow myself to grow and be who I am
As an INFJ, every detail that was told here is incredibly accurate. I am so sensitive to criticism even the slightest one, and i am also a perfectsionist. Everything triggers me if something is not in the right place.
Its true and sad😢😂
saaame tho it's insane XD the way i've busted my ass sometimes for school stuff, then spent half an hour in the bathroom crying cause i was burning myself out, but i wanted to reach that goal! ^^'
i'm so happy about vids like that and the test itself, bc like that, i can find out more about myself :)
also an infj here, and i'm not sensitive to criticism as long as there's a good point to it, i absolutely hate empty judgements, and just empty people that don't bring anything to the table general u know? I truly hate unfairness, you can also call it injustice, like the guy said in the video
I dont like over appreciation from others that much but i do tend to appreciate myself less and always talk to myself.
Sometimes its frustating with the flooding of thoughts and my introverted nature
@@bksama8314 truuueee 🥲🥲
As an INFP, this is so accurate. My mind's really loud all the time, trying to converse with myself, that it becomes overwhelming at times. Also, I always have high expectations for myself; in all aspects of life, that's why a lot of people tend to say that I'm a perfectionist. This is also the reason why I have never entered in a relationship.
In addition, it has always been my greatest dream to help those people in need so once I have enough money, hopefully I could establish a foundation. I also wish to adopt in the future 😊
As an ENTJ I feel attracted to what you said, we have the same goals in life.
I also have the goal of helping other's in need, my disare is so big that I feel life is useless if I don't accomplish that goal.
You're literally me and I'm literally you reading this hahaha. INFPs ftw.
bruh why you exposing me like that 😭
@@jessglane lol me too
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I’m an ENFP and when I did this quiz, I was not prepared for the site to start listing my thoughts at me! It’s perfect!
It's pain. As an individualistic personality its really hard - thats what she said - to realize how perfectly you fit in to this category of person. I know that personality is much more than MBTI but still...
Me too 😂 ENFP
@@p4uls7 I love you all in this comment section :D
Yes same here! It really describes me, even the type of work I do. My degree is in behavioral science and ended up doing social work now trying to get into corporate healthcare
Let's goooo
Lol, I'm an INTJ-A, and I'm a very fulfilled preschool teacher. I find the wonder and never-ending curiosity of children stimulating. I enjoy their candor and that they too see no need to mask their opinions. Every day is new and different, presently challenges and satisfaction. :)
I'm an INTJ-A and I wish I was an INTJ-T cause I'm sooo lazy and not stressed out about how far behind I am.
INTP here and the description about projects is SO SPOT ON! I have abandoned so many projects because one little detail couldn't be achieved, because I'm a perfectionist. I've spent weeks on small details of my projects, because I'm a perfectionist. It's honestly one of my weaknesses. Perfection is the enemy of completion.
That happens to me a lot but then I push it to the back of my brain and then I finish and then I couldn’t care less about it lol
Amen!! It’s my greatest problem in life!!
One thing I noticed, as an INTP too, is that not only am I a perfectionist, but I'm also a procrastinator (I think that's where the "P" comes in, i.e. play now work later). If I can't imagine doing something perfect in my head, then I won't even start it. However, starting a project, and learning from the mistakes is what makes things perfect, which is so counterintuitive for my brain 😅
The problem I have being ISTP is connecting with people, I like this girl and she used to like me back but I have no idea where I fucked up. Only slightest idea I have is I wanted to talk all the time and asserted conversations between us. I hate myself for this.
Yes, it does suck 😶
INTJ here. This was quite possibly the most informative and most complimentary description of the INTJ personality I've ever seen on TH-cam. When you said they probably spend more time thinking about love than expressing it, I started laughing hysterically at my screen because that's exactly what I do! Same goes with any emotion, really. When I'm watching an emotional scene during a movie, instead of crying like some people may do, I just think to myself 'Man. I guess I'm supposed to cry at this bit.' I did cry a lot as a kid, but now I just can't. The rational part of my brain never switches off, I just don't like losing control of myself. This was also a great video to learn about the other personalities, particularly the extroverted sensors.
It's a shame he didn't discuss functions at all
Yeah that was definitely the biggest downside.
INTJ aswell. 100% agree on the movie thing, I can tell when a scene is supposed to be emotionally evocative to viewers but I'm often too busy dissecting the characters in the scene to focus on feeling those emotions myself lol.
the love part is so true 🤣
I'm also an INTJ and I don't cry at movies either. It's funny because I'm "barely" an INTJ (The myers-briggs test has percentages for each letter trait and mine barely tipped the balance) but I can really relate. I also found myself analyzing the part where they said INTJs were analytic. 😂
As an INTJ, I have never heard somebody describe my personality with such precision and accuracy. It’s kind of disturbing how accurate it is
Nice pfp . woundeeerr offff uuuuu
Yes yes exactly!
I feel unsafe listening to these😭😂
Do you get along with INFJ's? They say we are good friends
I KNOWW
100%
Hits home. I’m an ENFJ. I am into: all natural bodybuilding, music production, DJ’ing, philosophy, flair bartending, etc. I think I am sensitive, very authentic and have zero problem with being vulnerable. I’m told I’m super empathetic. I felt misunderstood and ‘not part of the group’ my whole life. The things I chose to do also made me even weirder. Hobbies, profession, interests, etc. I also live in Holland where ‘acting/being different’ is not really well received. ‘Act normal, then you are already acting crazy enough’ is a saying here. I’m also an ENFJ that hardly has any friends. That makes me feel even lonelier. I have a huge need for human contact but that contact is hard when people think you are odd.
My brother, we are extremely similar people, I relate so much. I’m too into a ton of different things and I find a lot of joy in life. I’m authentic and I also feel as though I am unable to connect to the masses, but when people are receptive, deep connection is easy. Being myself even if it means not fitting into a group has been one of the most important lessons in my young adulthood. Good luck with life jack 🫡
ENJF-T here
As an INTP, I can attest that you have described my personality trait perfectly. I'm glad that I have overcome the urge to stop talking to people whom I think inferior.
*overcome
i’m aware that it was most likely a typo, but, as another intp, i figured you would like to be made aware.
@@imikiah yeah hahaha I'm glad someone noticed it.
yeah same. it even gave me goosebumbs sometimes
I’ve taken this test about fifteen times, and I ALWAYS get INTP. While I feel like it’s fitting to an extent, I don’t feel like it’s really me.
Jesus such condescending thoughts
As an INTJ, I keep on returning to this video. This is by far the best description of an INTJ personality I have found on the internet.
@Blueness1230same here and also a INTJ
I agree. It's hard to accurately explain our nature, but this man does a great job
INTJ here aswell, used to be INTP, got ISTJ once with one of my friends pitching in chosing some answers for me -_-
@@caity_strophicwoah. I'm an INTJ too, but sometimes my J becomes P and it becomes chaotic
@purpleradish2006 yo, mood tho
as INFJ when i took a personality test it was just eerily similar to how i usually think. while on some days i feel like speaking out against a really annoying and bothersome person, the next day i might feel insecure about my appearance and not talk much. i dont really like making friends with strangers, but when I'm with close friends, it's like my personality completely changes and i become wayyy more talkative and emotional.
INFP but I feel you
ENFJ 😄
I feel the same way! -INFJ
i swear to god I just wanna go one day without getting into an online argument
@@mapledemon5601 the best option for me is to js be as calm as possible and try not to provoke anyone or just ignore ppl trying to start an online argument Idk abt u but it rlly works😭😭I think i used to get into so many online arguments before bc I was stubborn and wanted to keep going once it started its like that kind of "I'm not gonna be the first one to stop arguing once i got into an argument"
Somewhere I heard that Myers Briggs is like astrology but for people who went to university and I think it's accurate
It’s really bad, I tried to explain to the person who introduced me to it that I’m not even an extrovert I just feel really comfortable around them and the ensuing argument was dishearteningly enlightening on just how willfully ignorant some people can be.
I agree 100%, for me it seems that everyone wants to be the quiet genius intj type, and i see a lot of parallels in admittedly cringe sigma male community, and also with everyone wanting to be neurodivergent and 'special', it really seems like the descriptions here are things that are just vague enough that anyone can align themselves with it, in the same way astrology does that to make people think "wow, thats exactly me!!!" when its just stuff everyone thinks about/experiences.
Maher did a joke that it’s astrology for people that believe in science.
Yeah, I think some of these might apply to people, but there’s no “definite” amount of personality types. That’s why I’m cringing at most of these comments that say “As an…”, “I am…”
I do not know I mean after reading all personalities I truly think there are personalities here that completely do not align with my actual personality I think it is accurate to some extent but that does not mean they don't generalize people and use generalized thoughts, sentences and words to describe people and their personalities like astrology but overall it is much better than astrology
I feel so blessed being an ENFP. The Joy of making people enjoy the Moment ist everything to me
As an INTJ I appreciate ENFPs for that quality, as someone who is future driven it’s nice to have an ENFP friend to help me enjoy the moment
😊 ur amazing
You capitalized moment for no reason
t. ENTP
I’m an ENFP that works at Disney World and it is truly the most fulfilling job I’ve ever had 💜
As an introvert, I love ENFPs. Thank you for making us all happy!
I'm an INTP, and funnily enough I zoned out thinking half way through your explanation of INTP so I didn't take in half of what you said because I was thinking. But I did catch that we think too much!
yeah thinking this could hold my attention for that long was a mistake
I almost made it through, but funny enough I started to get lost in thought towards the end
same!! I am rn
Same, I was thinking the real life example of what he's saying so i kinda lost it
LMAO SAME, it happened again while reading your comment
INFP here! I’ve taken the test many times and have always gotten this one, so I feel confident calling myself an INFP. The strengths and weaknesses described are very on par w/ how I am. The careers part really got to me, though, as a psychologist is the career I currently have in mind for myself. It’s just something I’ve always been told I’d be good at, and something I really love the idea of pursuing
Same here. Its pretty accurate. A few things are a little untrue but unfortunately no test can describe absolutely everyone perfectly.
The relationship and creativity aspect is on par though.
It is pretty accurate, besides the romantic part. I’m not romantic.
@@minty_macaron doesn't seem like you answered the questions 100%.
The romantic part is extremely accurate for me.
I overy romanticized relationships, try retaking the test.
@@AetharWolf no I did, I’m just not romantic. at all. Some of the relationship part is true, like how I expect a lot from my partner (platonic) and how I try my best to be loyal, but,,I’m just not romantic. Other than that, it’s on point.
@@minty_macaron Thats very odd.
Ive never met a Aromatic person, at least not one who has similar personality.
I would say its unfortunate to not be romantic but i guess you cant miss what you've never felt.
As an INFJ(-T), being sensitive to criticism, neglecting my needs, and burnout is true. I’ve worked hours on something just to lose motivation. I’m also a very artistic and love making others happy. I’m very principled, and I’ve learned to keep mine to myself a little more. Being a perfectionist is true. And I hate opening up to others because of trust issues and the fact that I’m afraid of judgement. And I plan to become a Vet, Artist, or Musician. Maybe a therapist if I end up doing it.
I'm a 48 year old Infj woman. You'll be OK 💪🏽❤️
As a writer, gotta shout out to the ENTJs for existing. Seriously. You are the best characters to write out there. You can lack a plot, but then an ENTJ character will 100% start one and drive it themselves. Mad respect.
EXACTLY! my main FC is an ISFJ and the one character that make her go through everything that happens to her is an ENTJ. Like I love my ENTJ character more than I love my main character!
You're welcome 😁
ENTJ here!
Deuteronomy 18:9-12
New International Version
Occult Practices
9 When you enter the land the Lord your God is giving you, do not learn to imitate the detestable ways of the nations there. 10 Let no one be found among you who sacrifices their son or daughter in the fire, who practices divination or sorcery, interprets omens, engages in witchcraft, 11 or casts spells, or who is a medium or spiritist or who consults the dead. 12 Anyone who does these things is detestable to the Lord; because of these same detestable practices the Lord your God will drive out those nations before you.
@@exploremylocalarea946I didn't know God was still writing these days!
Thx for letting us know that, Godbot.
Though I guess just revising your old material yet again isn't all that newsworthy...
As an INTJ-T (have taken the test either 3 or 4 times and always gotten the same result) I think the INTJ section is spot on! I can understand why people are sceptical of the Myers-Briggs but I think it is an extremely valuable tool that everyone can learn something from, regardless of your type. Well done with this video, it must’ve taken a long time to put together!
As a INTJ myself, it was truly amazing to feel some sort of understanding. It was extremely spot on with me to a level I've never seen before. Myers-Briggs is fantastic, in my opinion.
The 16p test isn't real mbti
name every cognitive function
@@hatzulsuprem9623 there's only 8 in total
@@hatzulsuprem9623 Se (Extroverted Sensing)
Si (Introverted Sensing)
Ne (Extroverted intuition)
Ni (Introverted Intuition)
Fe (Extroverted Feeling)
Fi (Introverted Feeling)
Te (Extroverted Thinking)
Ti (Introverted Thinking)
Hearing someone talk about my strengths and weaknesses with such accuracy is so nice to hear. As an INFP what he said is so accurate hearing someone form it into words is very comforting. Thank you for creating this video
Ikr! It’s great to see the accuracy
Respect to this guy for making a whole 3 HOUR video for us! 👏👏👏
As an ISTP, I think that the "ISTPs are difficult to get to know on a deeper level" goes both ways. For me forming friendships and deep connections is really difficult.
ISTP, I got the same damn problem lol
So true
yup yup
This is so true😭
I don't have that problem, it's just that not every person needs to be a close genuine friend.
I am an INFJ and you’re pretty spot on with what you said. Thanks. I am stuck between different careers like Lawyer, pediatrician, writer, private investigator and even biologist.
im also an infj but i am looking forward into being an architect
INFJ and its feels silly to say but I had this grand vision to become an architect and solve the homelessness problem but quit because of all the pressure I'd put on myself
@@rraisaaa I am infj and already an architect studying my master's degree 😁
I'm an INFJ pursuing a degree in Nursing.
I am INFJ going into archaeology!
I'm an ENFP and the part about trusting prematurely hit hard for me. I trusted someone too early and they ended up hurting my young, innocent heart far beyond full repair. It's made it tough for me to properly trust again and be that outgoing, caring, and approachable person I once was. Now a lot of people would say I'm more negative than I am positive, and one of the quietest in any group I'm in (and not just because I'm zoning off). I think it's important for any ENFP to be very careful about trusting others and now that I know that I made a decision. I decided I would have no secrets that need to be hidden, I share everything with almost everyone if they want to know so that I don't have to trust anyone. The only thing I don't share are my deep emotions. So to all those young ENFPs out there, be careful and learn when to keep something to yourself, or make the same decision I did.
I totally feel you bro. 100% :-(
As an ENFP with the same experience I am so, so sorry. I sometimes miss the person I used to be and I think that makes the heartbreak even worse… I think the solution is to not repress our natural urge to socialize, but try and be much more cautious around other people with how much we trust them right off the bat.
Same
same
I feel this most
As an INFP I can say that pretty much everything is on point. I want to help others and Iam passionate about stuff. When I have a passion I dive deep but with other stuff that I'm not passionate about, I have trouble with. I daydream a lot and it has come a problem, I just need to work but it is extremely hard at times. I do not worry about anything as it will always work out. Everything that happens to me is ultimately good, even if it doesn't feel like that in the moment.
Fellow INFP here but wow dude I’m exactly the same!!! It’s so interesting I always though I was the only one like this loll
infp here as well and that’s crazy. i always found it weird that i’m constantly feeling positive when i’m at the most lowest point in life (cause i always believe that everything will work out in the end and that things happen yk, it’s just a part of life)
Im an INTP but ive never felt so understood, it is so insane how a simple 4 traits of someone can give you so much information and allow you to make correct assumptions about a person- Its wild
turbulent and assertive doesnt actually exist in the actual mbti system - its an element the 16personalities website implemented - i advice u to study cognitive functions
@@myrosesarewithering1015 Oh,my mistake! Thank you for clearing that up :) and ill look into it-
@@lolnino8511 oh it’s okay dw !!! i also had no idea abt the assertive/turbulence stuff not being a thing until i did my own research and its actually sososo interesting once u understand some of the functions !! tho a bit confusing at first aha :)))
@@myrosesarewithering1015 This is extremley off topic but tsym for actually giving me advice and actual information and helping me understand, rather than just insulting me for having a different point of view- i appreciate it :D and ill look into these cognitive functions
@@lolnino8511 dw dw i dont mind off topic aha !! and awww bless u,, its fine - we were all at a point where we were clueless abt stuff - !! i hope it helps ❤️❤️
Having gotten INFP and then watching my traits, it really seemed to define some key traits about myself. Especially the daydreaming. I have a tendency to get caught in an idea and lose focus on reality, all because I’m imagining all sorts of things. It’s hard for my brain to stop creating stories and the like in my head.
I tend to want to write a lot, but end up stressing over if it is good or not.
I like doing things for people a lot. I like making others breakfast, for example. It makes me fee happy that they started their day off right and I made them feel loved.
@Persephone Blackburn lol I literally abandoned stories when after writing few chapters and recently I abandoned another one after almost finishing it 😩😭 and now started a new one again. idk what's wrong with me.
Omg yesss im the same exact way
Gang gang
@Persephone-Marie Goodnite I'm not artistically gifted either but I've found making mood boards on pinterest etc a pretty good substitute - that way I can pin related images and then whenever I want I can scroll through and day dream from them haha
I feel like i'm reading my own feelings from another person, but instead of writing i play instruments (i like writing and i've been told i'm good at it, but i always feel like they are cliché so i just read a lot instead of writing)
Sorry for the bad english, i'm trying to improve by talking in the comments hehe
As an INFP who is currently trying to understand more about each personality type, the ISFP was refreshing after ISFJ, ESFJ and ISTJ.
An an ISFP, thanks
I think INFPs like us seem to be some of the more introspective and personality analytical types
Same
Same!
@@LoopSeek3r yeah
As an ISFJ you were very spot on, especially the part where you say feeling betrayed when not given the proper explanation addressing new drastic changes!
As an ENTP, the moment he said that we have trouble focusing on one thing I realized I wasn't actually paying attention and was doing multiple things at the same time, I am shocked
For real I thought I was like out of control but really it’s my personality and high need for stimulation, it’s a super power
lololol
Same, I'm listening to music, talking to someone, coming up with essay ideas.. all while replying and watching this video. I cannot concentrate on only one thing
Yeah at some point I just zoned out starting thinking of numerous other things lol (like this even more than once)
😂
As an INTP 5w4, this was quite spot on. I wouldn't consider myself a non-emotional person, but I'm terrible at social cues and empathy. While initially I thought that Myers-Briggs was a bit pseudo-scientific, it does have a layer of accuracy to it despite not being scientific. Thanks for giving me this insight.
yooo im an intp 5w4 too!!
@@miles-lk7po me too
@@casey934 cooool
Jung dat dude
@@miles-lk7po me too lol I'm a 584
I am an INTJ, and I must say that your description is incredibly accurate. It's very reassuring to see myself reflected so precisely in your words
@@RainyWolf7 what?
I'm an INTJ as well, I don't see them often. Take care
agreed
Being described as emotionally disabled??
Any INTJ girlies here??
It’s crazy how accurate this is I feel like INTJ described me perfectly normally I can’t find anything that suits my personality but this video summed it up
ENTP who married an INFP. This hit very hard. I’m always pushing the limits of things with my own calculated risk, she is always getting frustrated because of the worry about the possible consequences. The relationship part about “ENTP need to not always be in an improvement mode” is very important because the self critical nature of INFP makes them feel like they’ll never be adequate.
I like that you are learning more about yourself and your partner, as an infp myself I think she would be happy to know that you care about such things :) my father is an entp and sometimes when I want to talk to him about something that I found interesting he criticizes or wanders off when I just want to hear 'wow that's interesting, tell me more' from him
ENTP buddies :D
I had dated an INFP. I had a lot of issues with pushing forward and taking risks for ambition. I’m also an ENTP. It’s not an easy feat, I ended up having to leave her behind because she wouldn’t come with me to the dream I had since I was young. She was a wonderful partner but too cautious.
As an ENTP, I also 100% feel this. My partner is a ISFP and I’m learning about it! I always always always want to know the next move, but he wants to relax and it frustrates me sometimes. I’ve learned over time that it’s okay to lay back and let life be. Best of luck to you and yours!
The "calculated risks" are 50% of the time not calculated if you're pushing a due date
Advice for INTPs:
- Focus on your own weaknesses, learn to apply your pattern recognition to emotions, test on yourself first, figure out what biological things are happening when you get angry, upset or even happy, remember how these illogical emotional things impact your thinking, then start applying that logic when dealing with someone also experiencing the same thing. Giving logical arguments to a pissed off or upset person isn't going to work, you know it'll just make them dig in their heels, just like you :)
- Get a whiteboard with a grid for filling in the days of a month, use this to move the mental load of remembering small things that need to happen on a schedule and to keep you grounded.
- Do not argue with stupid people, this sounds harsh, but understanding that you can't force someone to change their mind if they're already to rigid in their thinking, it'll just lead to your own frustration and making you look like a jerk.
thanks man will try
Thanks!
bro made a long ass comment like intps would actually read it😭
@MondaySundayEvaMiracleWing congratulations
Holy crap the last thing hits, just realized that's what I've been doing for a long time
Please, don’t be that person who only cares about their own personality. This personality stuff has taught me and those around me so much about ourselves. It has caused deeper connections and understanding. I recommend everyone to not only know themselves, but those around them.
I am an INFJ, my husband as an INTP, and my best friend is an ENFJ. We have lots of fun with how we interact because we choose to know each other, not just ourselves. Best of luck to all who go on this self seeking journey.
Man. I always think that I'm pigeon holed into being that personality type forever, but the more time I'm on this earth I realize that you are who you want to be.
as an enfp I relate to the overcommitting so much. especially with people. I find it easy to make friends and want to hang out with everyone and ‘get the most’ out of being with them. I love being in social groups and chatting with people one on one, it gives me so much energy. but then when I completely drain myself and need to be alone I find I don’t have the energy to put into what I want to do creatively, or do the best I can at work, and that sucks. but if I say no I feel so much fomo, like I’ve missed an experience. it’s a hard balance lol still trying to work on that one
Gurlly I am a enfp too and I agree with everything you said! I always want to help others and have at least one genuine friend that wants to be my friend but I always get disappointed as no one matches my energy.. But like you said it's easy to make friends. Also, it's funny as when one of our weaknesses is disorganization... everyone tells me I'm not organized and sometimes I'll get random burst of motivation to organize and I'll do it.. It doesn't last long! But like our personality says I want my career to be based on helping people or the environment and have a meaningful relationship with someone. But it's nice to know someone gets it lol
BESTIE SAME IT SO TRUE
@@5.s.r356 you just summed up my life 😳
i'm an ENFP and this is so true!!!
Soo true :)))
ENFP here: so scarily accurate for my flaws! People always praise ENFP for our social skills but its cool to have our negative aspects that we may not even be consciously aware of pointed out too !
I KNOW LIKE ITS SO FUN TO LEARN ABOUTT
Everything was so spot on 😂😂
They hit the nail on the head for us ENFP's 😅
It's weird because we have to force ourselves to focus on developing on our weaknesses so that we can be truly who we are and then focus on what we are best at
I don't think a personality type description has ever felt like it described me this close to 100%, as ENFP does, both in my strengths and weaknesses.
I got INTP. Let me say how insane it was that you used the line "They could be obsessed with programming an app, then immediately find themselves watching videos on DIY electronics." I have a passion for fixing things and technology. I literally started programming on some inspiration I had to create a cool website for my small business doing general IT work. During that process, I found myself enthralled by a few videos of electronics & computer repair and completely redesigned the website & my business model. All cause while I was learning to program, I immediately found myself watching video of electronics repair.
As an intp I’d love to make a primitive computer from just discrete transistors one day. Too bad that’s kinda impossible, :/
I studied sports science and philosophy, coached athletes, worked as a data analyst, doing a PhD in psychology and a master's in artificial intelligence. It's infuriating I couldn't just be okay with a basic job 😅
As an ISTJ everything you stated is very accurate. Anyone who knows me know that integrity is very important to me. I know that I’m probably not that fun to be around because I’m gonna be that person reminding everyone of the rules and consequences of everything lol
i was hunting for this comment thank you 😭
ENFP here who's become more than a little obssessed with this system. Very nice to see a well-balanced explanation of it 💚
As an INFP i can really relate to us being very open-minded to the point where I have made friends with many tracers and art stealers and just bullies all in all, although there was this one moment where someone kept bullying me for being "too casual and aggresive" since I have a fond use for caps and I probably just love strarting conversations even if they may be a bit more on the weirder side (and lets say that person who bullied just straight yeeted a bad memory on me that gave me quite the self-doubt phase)
I find it difficult to get mad at people for doing something wrong and I always continue being friends with people I know I shouldnt be, I've only cut off a few people in my life
it really annoys me because I'm always told to be more opinionated but I'm always in the grey area :')
Me, an infp who ghost people at first sign of red flag, "We are what now? 👀"
@@letsreadtextbook1687 yeah I'm just colorblind and see red flags as green flags I think
@@cabs251 whenever i'm mad at someone i end up self hating myself. And rethink my decision was bad. And yada yada yada
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I'm an ENFP and it's crazy how much I can relate lol, I go from being all pondering to being loud and outgoing, it's like on some days I'm craving social interaction and fun and on others I want to shut myself in my room for hours and hours
facts my friend group be thinking i’m sad or something on days when i’m not talking most the time but i rlly just be chilling and thinking
It really is a game of "do you have adhd, bipolar disorder, autism or you're ENFP, or a mix of those? Some day we'll find out"
Ikr, and my family thinks I'm not social or something. But it's like nah, I need to be alone for a while at times to recharge.
Wassup Weronika, I saw you always on Facebook group of MBTI, nice to see ya here
bro same
As an INFJ-T our only enemy is our thoughts but once conquered there's no stopping us from reaching our dream just like how we drew it up in our minds.
I'm the INFJ type. I've taken the test a few times before and landed on the INFJ personality type every time. ln, the past I have felt like an outsider and an odd duck. Even in my own immediate family. Nowadays, however, I embrace my differences.
I've always felt the same way too, for me i think INFP is my solution, when being around INFP, i feel like we can really connect and they don't judge us for being quirky
@@aly7754 I’m INFJ and my best friend is a INFP, so i agree
“The test” as in 16p?.. Research cognitive functions
I used to land on enfp and infp in early secondary school but since late secondary school and afterwards I keep landing on infj, I think with the first few tests I wasn't being 100% honest with myself, I was trying to be too optimistic back then, but now I value honesty more than anything, so I try to be especially honest with myself at least.
But to a degree, I do somewhat relate to those two previous personalities quite a bit, but infj just- hits more on a deeper more personal level.
I also realise I've probably studied the wrong thing and got into the wrong industry, I think I would've been so much happier working as a therapist or massage therapy.
Oh well, never to late to study again, I'll save up for adult classes and work my way into it.
@@infinitechibi1496I remember getting different personality types when I was younger as well. It was always similar to the advocate and always one of these green types. I am clearly an Advocate for years now but I don't see the other outcomes as mistakes. For me personally, I see my own devolopment in the different archetypes I got over the years. I belive that the human soul is infinite complex and ever changing, I think it makes perfect sense that nobody is one personality type their whole life, at least I am not. Maybe the other outcomes describes your younger state of consciousness in its process to find its true self and maybe seeing it that way can help you to understand your own devolopment better 🤔
ISFJ here: we’re very rare. The line about getting assignments done effectively but still procrastinating along the way hit so hard 🤣 we’re super sweet, quiet and loyal to family and friends.
bahahaha yup its pretty accurate😭😂
Ikr the level of altruism too
I can relate with the assignments line as well:)
ISFJ is the most common personality type...
Hahahah true
Glad to be a part of the INFP group of people, I definitely connected with it when I took the test. I wish I had the advice for people like me when I was younger, a lot of problems I had could’ve been a lot less bad if I knew this stuff then. All in all, pretty damn accurate for me.
I’m an Infp and I’m really young. I’m glad I could do this test now rather than later because it definitely made me feel understood.
The other day I was thinking, if I could go back and meet my younger self, I'd say "there's this thing called MBTI. The reason you suffer so much is because you're an INFP," and then go on to explain the pros and cons. Oh man, could I have had such a better life had I known!
@@themartialartsapproach8786 I'm 45 and these are my exact thoughts. I try to persuade myself that there is time to fix the things though.
@@dionysiapanagou6035 that's true. I missed out on some good times in younger years, but also certainly dodged some bullets, and also had good experiences people might not typically have. You're right - better to move forward with wisdom thannlook backward with regret. I'll keep it in mind :)
Infp is very common.
As an ESPF, I really loved how someone finally mentioned that ESPF‘s can be very comforting to be around and that they care about others a lot. It‘s nice how we are finally not considered as selfish or attention seeking.
ESFP, sorry i just have to correct it
ur so real for that
Agree with the video or not, you’ve got to agree that they’ve put an amazing amount of effort into this.
Thank you!
does not make it any less misinformation. Its big 5 which is a great test but they shouldn't call it mbti
I've been an obvious ENTP my whole life. "This kid sure likes to argue and talk back." "His mouth is going to get him in the most trouble." On top of generally being interested in vast arrays of knowledge and having short attention. Good to know that this is all commonly experienced and my type are still kickass.
My family usually opted for “he’s gonna get his ass kicked one day” when describing me, so I can relate lmao
ive been this w generational trauma, my family teaching dumb shit that my greatgrandma and grandma and mom and so on were taught, going "no fucking thank you"
thing is my mouth HAS gotten me in trouble so mant times
@@tasneemahmed5821 oh same here- but it has also spoken out against injustice, provided helpful ideas that improved my company, and a number of other positive things.
My parents always told me, that I m rude, emotionless, nosy and ignorant. So i guess i ve also been an entp my hole life
I took the MBTI test ten times and the result remain ISTP... thanks for describing about ISTP type 👍🏼
Yes i am an ISTP too
Sup istp to
complete opposite of me lol -enfj
🤜🤛sup. Rare istp female here.
hey fellow ISTPs lets build a city with forks
Proud ENTP dating an INFJ, weirdly enough - thank you for the accurate descriptions and explanations for each personality type🙌
“The idea of hurting another person is something that never comes to mediators” also me, and INFP-T genuinely considering strangling several members of my family multiple times a day
Sorry to inform you but there is 99% chance that you are mistyped. 16personalieties is absolutely THE WORST site to take test for MBTI since it doesn't even listen to Myers-Briggs theory and instead of testing you for MBTI, it tests you for Big5
I recommend researching functions or at least do mistype Investigator test
I agree with ^. If anyone wonders why, it’s because 16 personalities(unfortunately the most widespread of mbti tests) types people based off of letters. That is not what mbti is about. Mbti is about cognitive functions. If you stick to taking tests, I suggest taking tests from multiple trusted sites and come to a conclusion. If the test results are significantly different, you could study cognitive functions and type yourself(just make sure not to be biased and seek help from other people). Good luck on your self discovery journey!
If you’re typed with XXXX-T or XXXX-A then you’re mistyped
I'm an INFP too, I've self studied cognitive functions and learnt alot about my type.
One of the traits of infp is to be able to know our own feelings quite well and a healthy infp will be able to control and express it in a healthy way.
Our empathy also means we cannot stand unnecessary cruelty, especially towards others. It can lead to "evil" thoughts which our open mindedness doesn't shy away from. Healthy infps will engage with the thoughts but wouldn't act on it because we know our values deeply.
@@lararys7765 yes, i am someone who would prefer to solve unstable issues calmly in a lengthy discussion to go through all the problems to avoid conflict or not talk at all. the aggressive thoughts can come at a stressful event but aren’t acted upon.
ENFJ here- crazy how accurate this is!! Apparently we are rare- thank you for this video! I watched it and it was very informative. Thanks again!!
apparently!! I can already name one other person who’s an ENFJ
fr, im also an enfj here
Checking in! ENFJs unite
Enfj here too!
Hello everybody. ENFJ at your service, ha.
This is spot on😊
I did this quiz twice and got INFP both times and after watching that segment, I understand why. I sometimes feel lonely in this world because no one shows me the same care I show other people (except from my mum but she's my mother, she knows me well). Hell I've cried for people before, because they cry but no one has ever done that for me. I know people show concern and care in different ways but I've never met someone who does that and I just feel like I'm very different to those I know. But it's always nice to hear other people who do feel the same.
Hey, I feel that way too, down to the feeling lonely part. ;-; I'm not an INFP, I'm an ENFP so kinda close. But I understand, trying to show care and love to everyone when they don't really back to you.
I'm INFP and I care a lot about people and I think about them all the time but it makes me sad to think that they probably don't think of me :(
@@trini27 same
I don't think people think of me as much as I think of them...
People might cry for you....you cannot be sure, but you introverted feeling at the top makes it hard for you to see sometimes, thats all.
As an infp, i feel the same way. Im so glad to see that someone else feels the same way :)
To the fellow INTJs my advice is to realise that other people will never be superior to you in terms of intelligence and thinkin, but do not let this make you feel in some way superior or them inferior. See it as it is your job to help in things you are better at, just tone down the intensity of this "help" to about 5 or 10x lower than the intensity you use to work on yourself. This is your role, to think and create solutions, just remember other peoples roles are just as important.
Also by now you probably know you can learn anything and everything if you want to. This in my opinion is our biggest strength and the reason why we tend to develop slower but at the end of our lives we are way more accomplished in comparison. Use this learning skill to learn how to act socially and other skills that help you form a good family. Because sooner or later you will realise that no matter how big of a picture your goal is having a family is always the even more larger picture. Learn and be patient with people who matter. Remember their strengths are not the same as yours, learn about them too. I know you care.
This is the most non-INTJ statement ever... *especially the "I know you care" lol. Redo the test - a couple of times (over a significant time period), and you'll get a result that tend to come up on average more than others... that result is probably what you are and it's probably not INTJ especially if you focused on "worrying about other people's feelings".
@@triggytiggy740 you must be young still
This is good advice from an older INTJ, I can see my future benefitting from this advice going in this direction
@@triggytiggy740 Early INTJ tends to stick towards the edgier side, believing that they're extra special and deeming other's feelings as trivial as they're inferior and their opinions don't matter. The truth is, continuing through life with that mentality is detrimental to society while at the same time, depending on it to survive. As you mature, you'll find that cooperation with others is important; it's much more rewarding to lead others and show them the way instead of scorning them for not seeing things your way
ENTP has always been glossed over so I really appreciated a deep dive on it, everything felt much more accurate than the typical "You're loud and argue with everyone"
Yea, I looked this part of the vid and was shocked at how much I though ‘’ hey ! I do that ‘’.
I mean.. I'm loud. but yeah i agree
Yees😂
I see your point of view but allow me to turn your attention to… whoopsie! Almost got carried away seeking knowledge through interrogating your perspective 😅
As an ENTP, I agree with this
As a ISTP, I find this very accurate. I find making friends really hard because I'm so insensitive, and if I made friends and I realize I was being a bit Insensitive I quickly apologies sincerely cause I don't wanna lose them. I been in a lot scenarios that I lost friends because I'm so insensitive, that's why I don't ever show my real self to anyone.
So true… the insensitivity is a problem for me cuz I don’t know when I take jokes too far :(
As a fellow istp, I found a solution to this problem. I usually think less about submitting the humor itself and rather say/do things for the sake of the interest of it. Its weird that we want to have friends that will be with us without the humor and its kinda difficult. So far i can only see a solution to this problem by befriending other istps. Befriending different personality types other than istp is too costly for my energy.
It gets easier with age. You will become more intuitive to when you should either tone down your insensitivity or explain without compromising yourself and being able to do it in an endearing way with with humour or witt. I feel like my youth was mostly ISTP, but with age I float my S into an N and become the INTP when I have to.
I feel the same way!
I feel the same
As an ENFP, I watch every personality explanation not because we care, but because we feel superior
🤣
BAHAHAH SO TRUE
i just watch it bc it's so scary accurate 😭😭
we're simply the best.
HAHHAHAHAHAH I FEEL SO CALLED OUTTTT
You're really good at quoting things word for word from the 16 personallities website without sounding like you're quoting something to make it look like you're doing more original work.
Thank you.
@@Maker1 This is a certified gamer moment
@@Maker1Lmao glad you got a ton of views off this pseudoscience bs, good on ya man
It’s scary how accurate this is. An an ENFP, the whole thing about being overwhelming to other people was scary true. I’ve always been told I’m too optimistic and too talkative, and often times people don’t like it when I get super crazy about things I’m passionate about. So if I’m in a relationship, it can definitely be overwhelming for the person I’m with, because sometimes I can be very overbearing.
Fr I’m a ENFP to and also i had sone situations where i was overly optimistic,and at the end that end up bad
I'm an enfp with ADHD and autism. you can imagine what social situations are like for me, I want to engage and build relationships but I'm overbearing as an enfp and hyperactive with my ADHD, and then my autism makes it hard for me to read social cues so it turns into a whole mess. thanks mum and dad
to all my enfp companions: you must be appreciated for all that energy you put to make others feel good but most importantly we must make ourselves feel good and appreciate ourselves and stop expecting others to be as kind as us , and let our trust to be gained not on automatic mode. take care ❤
As an ENFP connecting with people and always being enthusiastic can come off as being “fake” to a lot of people which isn’t the case but I feel my enthusiasm comes across like that to people who don’t know me well enough
OMG, same!!! I'm so glad someone out there understands, lol
as an INTP, i was hooked the minute you started talking about analysts and their weaknesses and i got called out so much harder than i ever expected to
same
I’m an INTJ. it’s very accurate, I took about 4 different tests each twice just to be sure that I am an INTJ. People always think that I’m cold and rude but I’m really just spitting facts. My mom always tells me that I’m heartless and gave me the nickname “Wednesday Addams” when I was younger. Only my bf (which took him about 3 years to date me because I was romantically clueless) has seen my soft spot.
true INTJ moment XD theres a reason i have the "soulless" role on my friends discord server X)
Funny coz im also called Wednesday adams😅 while I feel normal other people find me odd
smh my family called me "Mean Meesh" because im "mean" when in reality im just being blunt
@kenna I'm Wednesday Adams in my family too!!! 😂 (well, "Merlina" as she is called in the Spanish version.)
Relatable
the best description of the ESTJ type for sure, where are my estj ppl at?
✋ hussle hard, keep your head high warrior, whatever you might be doing right now. YOU GOT THIS!!
I’m part of the rare type of the personalities as i’m a female INTJ personality type. I didn’t even know that female INTJ’s were that rare. When it comes to careers, i do work with equipment in a way. I’m an xray and ultrasound tech.
Omg hi we’re the same hehe
i’m also a female INTJ!
Same
Female INTJ crew!
Also female intj here!
As an INFJ this was INSANELY accurate!
as an INTJ, this video is very accurate and you explained it very well.
This is the new horoscope
As a mediator (INFP), I realise that my friends always appreciate and acknowledge my kindness… and how I listen to their vents; replying unbiasedly. And apparently I have a knack for rephrasing things for them to understand.
Another thing I’ve found is that I’ve become so hyperconscious to the point where I do things purposefully despite knowing the reality.
I also procrastinate a lot, not bc I can’t do it or I’m lazy but bc of the emotions I associate with the task. Anxiety 😭. I tried telling my mentor that I’m having trouble completing tasks bc I have intense anxiety thinking about it. This is why I somehow pull off assessments in the last min. The thing is she didn’t understand and questioned me how she can help. Idk 😭
More on self realisation and retrospecting: I’m at a point in life where I don’t care about what people may perceive me as. Like I won’t care about what others think of my outfit or what I look like when presenting. But this took some time to achieve this mindset. I’m still a people pleaser but only intentionally. If that makes sense
Last thing, although I’d gladly choose creative careers, it greatly conflicts with family expectations. Luckily as an empath, there’s healthcare :)) now to choose which exact one ;;-;;
My sister is an infp struggling with anxiety and depression about friendships, going to college, finding a job, and generally getting older and having responsibilities. Which of these strategies for stopping worrying have you tried, which have you found to be most/least helpful, and is there anything else/advice you know to be helpful for an infp to stop worrying so much and participate in life on a daily basis?
Mindfulness and meditation
Deep breathing
Practice self-compassion
Do a body scan
Share your fears with friends and family
Practice gratitude
Keep an emotions journal
Maintain a consistent sleep schedule
Focus on what you can control
Exercise more often
Take positive action
Enlist professional help
@@landonionm Hello! I'm also an infp who struggles with anxiety, depression, and social situations. The feeling of knowing you're getting older is something that I think I will always dislike because it makes me feel as if there is so little time. I know a couple of these methods that help me the most in my case, especially with my anxiety.
For me, sharing our fears and feelings with friends and family is important so they know how I feel and can help me in certain situations (panic/anxiety attacks, etc.) by assuring me of what I need to know and here. I often feel I need to be the one to help myself but it is important to know there is not shame in asking others for help too. I also attend therapy due to my anxiety and many family problems that have genuinely taken a toll on my life and confiding in a professional can also help because they can provide helpful insight that sometimes your family can't provide.
Practicing self-compassion is also important and though I don't do it a lot myself, it is important to assure yourself of some things in certain situations instead of putting the pain aside. I tend to think that everything is my fault in situations where I fail, or other people are suffering, and it's important to understand that it's not and solely just understanding your emotions.
Keeping a journal really does help, not just to keep track of your emotions. We are known to express ourselves through creative outlets and mine is writing :) I tend to put in lots of anger into my writing rather than taking it out on others and keeping track of your emotions and writing about them in a journal can help you understand yourself and better yourself as well.
SLEEP IS IMPORTANT!!! I don't get much of it myself because I struggle with it, but it can overall affect everything. Your health, mood, actions, and emotions. I was feeling drained today and I can relate it to only getting 3 hours of sleep, despite it being summer vacation. I cried just because I felt so tired and it affected my mood and frankly, I just felt like shit. So keeping a consistent sleep schedule will certainly help, especially if she is going into college :)
Going outside, taking a breath of fresh air, and taking a minute to yourself to recharge is one of the most important ones. I don't go outside a lot but when I went outside today it was very refreshing and helped me reset my mind. It is stated on the website itself that we need to take a step back sometimes and recharge, and it really is correct. Taking a step back today and getting that breath of fresh air really helped me understand how I felt today. Whether that be going on a walk, or exercising, or hanging out with someone, just get that vitamin D :) It really helps to ease your mind of the worry. One really good activity to do this from a personal experience is watching the sunset.
Good luck to your sister and I hoped this helped because it definitely helped me by giving advice I didn't even know I had in me 😃 And I know this was lengthy but I think that it's truly some helpful advice
@@landonionm yes the future is daunting, I feel your sis! I have this paradox where I really want to skip to adulting and independent living, but I'm also scared of getting older. I'm only 17 but I feel old 🥲
All of the strategies you've mentioned I've tried (except seeking professional help) and are really useful. A tip I like is sharing feelings with people in your circle and journaling as it releases the internal build-up of emotions. When feeling overwhelmed, do enjoyable things and escape the stressful environment by going for a walk or simply sitting outside. I also recommend art and artists; find someone admirable and reflect their experiences and stories with yours. I personally like K-Pop and it's honestly helped me cope immensely (shout out to BTS and their message to love, speak and be yourself 💜)
I find that focusing on the present helps me deal with worrying about the future; not only the end goal but life as a long journey with little steps (focusing on what you can control). I'd reassure your sister to not stress too much about following the "structure of life". And what I'm saying can be applied to everyone: there's always another route to get where you want to be and making mistakes will only help you avoid them in the future and improve. Take on responsibilities little by little and build independence. My first time catching the bus was last year... I was too scared before lol (and now I can go casually).
As INFPs we can be overcritical of ourselves and other people's evaluations. I suggest taking chances, you might find yourself anxious at first, but try enduring it if you know it’s overall beneficial!! (e.g. applying for a job position, talking to new people, asking for help). You’ll get through it and grow stronger mentally. I remember trying to psychoanalyse other people to avoid negative connotations. But after a while it led me to an epiphany: not everyone thinks alike; people are unpredictable. After this, I was self-aware still but didn't assume their expectations. So reinforce introspecting and retrospecting to see a new angle, but to do so manifesting _beneficial_ change. For example; sitting alone and thinking that others perceive you as lonely. But then realising it's an idea created in your head based on your own experiences and perspectives. (true story lol) I now sit alone unironically as it’s something I enjoy (no awkward silence and some recharge time. I suggest always having something to do to keep yourself occupied), so I don't hold friendships to a high pedestal as I once did. It’s a reminder to not dwell on social gratification. It’s okay to not have friends at first. It's okay to be yourself and being comfortable with yourself.
Optimistic thinking definitely helps in dark times. With your sister's friendships, comfort her that it’s not the end of the world. Find extroverted friends!! They honestly bring out the best in introverts and admire INFPs' empathy and listening skills. Or even online friends.
Overall your sister should use all the strategies, and focus on building mental strength to endure this complex world. I’m in a similar position and life’s hard. But it gets better... hold onto positive thoughts 🌷
@@Pa_t1nn yes yes yes excellent response. totally agree. i need to re-establish my sleeping schedule 😩and i can't tell if my response was more lengthy oop--
Yep I relate as a 62 year old INFP I understand that the procrastination is related to perfectionism, if I don’t finish a project or in my case an art piece it doesn’t have to be perfect because it’s not done yet , I actually have art pieces I’ve been working on or just haven’t finished for 15 years, and then there are ones that get done in weeks or months, I’ve gotten much better at controlling my perfectionism , especially on commissions,but things I do just for myself well not so much .
As an ISFP-T, I just feel the need to say that the weakness section was painfully accurate.
u're not a "isfp-t", the -t doesn't even exists. don't use 16personalities it's not accurate at all, study cognitive functions instead
Indeed... 😭
It was a bit scary tbh
Right ;o
Yep the fiercely independent part is always my draw back, especially in school is all about peers helping each other to be able to thrive.
The worst thing about dating as an entp that if someone doesn't challenge me mentally or doesn't bring something new to the table i got bored very quick. Somehow now days i value personality much more than looks. I even give it a go if i don't find her attractive but she has something new/interesting.
I agree with you completely. The physical attraction only lasts so far as your sexual interest. Beyond that, we have to hope and pray that their personality can keep us interested.
I'm definitely not extroverted and have little to no interest in dating so I'm curious... at what point and how you determine whether or not a person is worthy of pursuing?
@@Maker1 after the first meet up both parties usually decide , either a natural flowing conversation (i had a few first dates longer than 6 hours) or good sex but sex is really good for keeping up my interest for a while if we cant talk besides it i will lose my interest (much slowly tho) my friend good is consist of 2 other ENTPs an INTJ and an INTP so I'm use to fast paced conversations and huge parties. If i feel like I cant bring a girl to our parties i will lose interest too. Obviously there will be exceptions.
As an entp i can relate
As an entp I can't agree more
ENTPs sucks, even as friends,they crave and grow on your insecurities, mistakes, and so...don't give them that...i let peace with them but also always on guard, i would recommend yall too, before they take advantage of you or manipulate/screw with you( in my case try hehe).
As a writer (INFP), I have done the 16personalifies test a lot of times through the eyes of different characters. And a lot of times, the results were really congruent with the characters. Their greatest strengths and greatest weaknesses. Their flaws and character arc. It just makes me feel “Hey, I might be doing to decent job at creating consistent characters”.
My dad and I are both ENFP's but my mom is SO close as an ESFP. This is very spot on! I've found myself in a leadership position and all of my over-arching strengths and weakenesses were right in this video.
Before I believed in this 16 personality thing, I thought it was just another Zodiac Sign thing. But then my professor grouped us into our personality groups and I realized that my experience, as an INTP, was shared by other INTPs too! That's when I really believed in this thing. Afterall, the 4 letters is determined by your response, and not when/where you were born. So it has better judgement than someone using Zopdiac Signs to "understand" you.
It's way better than Zodiac but also worse than real science. For real science, refer to the Big Five model. MBTI is somewhere between Zodiac and the Big Five (I would say it's around 70% of the way there).
zodiac signs have nothing to do with logic and are really silly in my opinion, How can when I was born affect my personality? The things that affect your personality are the environment you live in and your pre given traits. As you mentioned the mbti you are given is totally based off of how you respond to different situations and how they make you feel, so actually looking at who you are as a person. that's why I love MBTI intensely, and I have a strong dislike towards zodiac signs and using blood types to determine your personality. so I really strongly agree with you
The way that I see it, MBTI tells you you're an asshole, and Zodiac signs *attempt* to tell you WHY you're an asshole.
i think it’s because 16 personalities can be more mutuable than a zodiac sign can. since it’s strictly about personality and not life experiences/happenstance, your myers-briggs result can change as you go through events that shape your personality.
@@wren_. It can result in change, but when I was with my INTP group, we shared a lot of similarities in how we react to the world despite the world having different events for us to experience.
I’m an istp and this was scarily accurate, I have a hard time expressing my emotions so it makes me seem like I’m insensitive but really I’m very empathetic
we just be rare. took forever to find this comment aha
Finally the ISTP comment
Wow finally found a fellow istp
We really are few and far between
With an "expressive" problem left over from 1+ (70?%) Year of Speech Therapy. K -> 1st., I'm a Born Researcher.
🌞 💞 🐬 Some Architect and, PROTAGONIST + Adovocate, even. ⛵"EXpansive". Yes!
i am afraid to say this is wrong. You don't type yourself based on letters the mbti types have. You type yourself best on which cognitive functions you relate to the most. You have two introverted functions, and two extroverted functions. Si/Se, Ni/Ne, Fi/Fe, Ti/Te. So many people are falling for the 16 personalities test and getting mistyped because of the test. It is a complex thing to understand and a lot of people seem to not dive more into this.