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💯! I also find that I imagine all nice, loving or kind overtures as a sign that they are compatible with me or fellow INFP or empaths. That's not accurate as I get to know them better, and fall out of the daydream with a thump. Note to self: love bombing is a sign of narcissism, not a soulmate or twin flame!! Ipso facto unattached since the year 2000.
INFP: having fictional crushes and then being amazed when there is actually someone you have a crush on because you didn't think it was possible because your standards are impossible.
As an INFJ, I’ve listened to my crush’s feelings about another boy, and gave her advice while trying to hide the actual heartbreak I went through. Press F to pay respect to all those INFJs in this world.
As an INTJ, that was accurate. I overthink every gesture I do around people whom I like. Yet, sometimes, I can act really rude towards them just to hide my feelings.
Question, because I think the person I was interested in is an INTJ. He depicted this behavior and in the beginning hinted to his tendency a little. When you act rude to hide your feelings, are you intentionally trying to push them away so you don’t enter any relationship with them? Btw it’s confusing on the receiving end when someone genuinely is interested in you! ❤
@@blueskies773 Yeah, that's intentionally. I see them as outsiders so I can't reveal something personal to them. That's why I'm struggling with making friends.
I have an INFJ friend and he’s exactly like this. I feel so bad for friendzoning him 😔 He’s really an amazing person but I just don’t like him in that way. How do I reject someone (specifically an INFJ) without causing the person a ton of pain?
@@elliem.9408 That is a hard question, but I would say just be honest with him, but also be kind and compassionate in the manner and tone that you tell him. Try to be considerate of his feelings and reaffirm that you do enjoy having a relationship with him even if it's not a romantic one. We really appreciate honesty even if it might hurt at first. We appreciate and value the honesty after the initial sting of rejection, and this is coming from personal experience.
@@elliem.9408 Most of us INFJs can sense when someone is lying to us, so please tell him the whole truth, while insisting on the bright side. So really emphasize on your friendship and how important he is to you.
INFP alone: _Imagines chatting with crush about literally everything._ INFP with crush: Crush: _Talks a lot._ Why is nobody talking to me? INFP: Uh... sorry but idk what to tell you.
Instead of having a normal, spontaneous conversation, I just start thinking about what to say, but I'm terrible at coming up with something to say if it's not spontaneous lol. Especially because I end up thinking about *this* rather than the actual conversation.
me: *plans for every possible conversation during 8 weeks* Me: Well, i'm gonna solve this, i'm so prepared for this In the day of askin' her/ him to go out me: *OH FUCK, I HAVE TO TALK TO HER/HIM FIRST*
Crush: "Hi" INFP: [create an entire Netflix serie imagining the ups and downs of the relationship, including marriege, adopting a dog, kids, financial problems, breaking up, getting back, saving your love's life, dealing with cheating, becoming a secret agent, fighting aliens, finding a portal to another wor...] Crush: Are u ok? INFP: what? Oh yea... I'm fine, just got a bit distracted. [Constantly smiling]
As an INTJ the eye contact one is so true i think about it mid conversation all the time, usually deciding to look at the forehead then deciding thats too weird so i end up staring at one eye until they ask me why am i staring at one eye and i then say i don't know how to look at both lol
AS AN INFJ THIS LITERALLY HAPPENED TO ME HE WAS MY BEST FRIEND NOW HES DATING MY OTHER BEST FRIEND AND I HAD TO ACT LIKE THEIR THERAPIST THIS WHOLE DAMN TIME
ISTP's on point. I always act like I don't care about my crush and act like he doesn't exist when he's around. 😂 My mind works like "I will never confess. I'll just wait until you know I like you."
Not an INFJ falling in love with an idea of another person in their head, imagining their love life in their head and planning out their wedding in their head while the other person is having a crush on someone else again.
lol i did that like four to five days ago and i even planned out how we would die together with three alternative endings and it took 14 pages in my journal. im over them now.
INFJ: if you can't have the one you want, encourage the one you want to pursue the one they want. Because we're driven to make *somebody* happy, even if it means sacrificing our own potential happiness. Spot on, sir.
Literally me when my ex-girlfriend told me she was dating a good friend of mine. I told her everything was gonna be ok, your not gonna mess anything up, and you two are a really good match. That was literally like a month or two after we broke up and I just wanted her to be happy. Did I mention we were going out for a little over two years.
As an ambivert ENFJ, i can totally relate to the INFJ one. At college, I fully willingly helped my crush to open up to the girl he liked, by talking to the girl and preparing the surface for their date, and they got married two months ago lmao. After college. I accidentally caused my crush to get married with someone else.
Time Stamps ISTP- 0:01 ISFP- 0:11 ESTP: 0:16 INTJ- 0:25 ISTJ- 0:33 INTP: 0:45 ESFP: 1:06 ISFJ: 1:20 ENTJ: 1:38 ESFJ: 1:48 ENTP: 2:04 ENFJ : 2:14 ENFP: 2:27 INFP: 2:40 ESTJ: 2:50 INFJ: 3:01 This is my first one I hope its good and accurate. thanks for 2,000 likes
The two nervous INTJ modes: "avoid eye contact, they can sense your fear" and "stare through their soul so they know you are listening and interested."
The INFP one is so accurate. I actually just stare at my crush, right in the eye, and dream all about out future together, while he is is just explaining how come he bought ice cream the day before. My friends always tell me that it is written in my glance that I adore him, for my eyes seem to sparkle when I turn to look at his brilliant face.
I am an ENTJ and I have to say that portrayal is EXACTLY me. It's accurate to a scary level. I don't wanna waste time with other women. I've found my one and only and I know it, going after any other woman would be a waste of time and I know it.
LOL I'm an INFJ and that was depressingly relatable. INFJs will pretty much find themselves playing fairy godmother n helping everyone else get their happy endings... including their crush's! 😭
I'm sure you INFJs will all eventually find someone who doesn't friend zone you. My boyfriend is an INFJ and when I told him I liked him he was like wait really? Like Like? Not as a friend like? And we had that conversation multiple times.
@Tatenda Dune wait so are you saying you like him? Because then you should just say that to him bluntly and then you'll find out for sure how he feels.
INFJs are so good at breaking their own hearts. Because what really matters to us is seeing the people we care/we love be happy and content with their life even if we are out of the picture. I feel y'all! 👌
As an INFP i often like to imagine relationships with random people i make up personalities for in my head bc my standards are impossibly high and i'd rather not date anyone than date someone who doesn't live up to those standards......
INFJ is so on point. I watched my crush of two years break up, try to find someone to date, help them find someone to date, watched them break up after a week, and then finally, become "the therapist friend."
I always have to focus super hard when it’s at work and someone keeeps talking and talking about stuff that’s self explanatory. So then I zone out. They be like: ‘so do you understand?’ Me: uh yeah Them: ‘oke repeat back to me what I explained’ Me: uh…. well I kind of forgot some parts can you explain it again? Then: yeah so … blablabla Me: ( must focus) and oh yeah I get it now Yes it’s self explanatory however they add some extra info that I didn’t know so I zoned out too early
ikr? i space out and realise they are still talking and i get super awkward and im just like mhm yes completely i totally heard and understand what you just said.
2:36 really hits different: I’m an ENFP and when I asked my crush out to prom and she said no, my English teacher overheard me talking about it in class with my friends and he played a clip from napoleon dynamite in class to cheer me up. He didn’t announce his reason for doing this to the class but afterwards he talked to me separately said he hoped that I appreciated it and that he hoped I didn’t find his humor mean or mocking. That was without question the best English teacher I’ve ever had.
They aren't im more than willing to bet that over 85% of the people here are just saying that due to being friend zoned. The ignorance and simplicity of some people 🤦♂️
That happens way too often lmao and I can't even make out that whether u guys have a crush on me or not. Generally, the way a person sees u, acts with u, gives u a subtle hint.
Hey. I have a question. Enfp here. Why dont infj confess to someone they love/have a crush on? Is there a particular reason? Im really curious and I want to understand them better. Thank you!!! :* :>
Yeah that’s better than the person knowing you like them. Cuz what are you supposed to do after that. God if my crush found out that I liked them i would unalive myself out of that school.
as an infp i actually love daydreaming but it gets tiring cause i idealize people way too much and i end up getting disappointed really often lol the bar is set way too high and its all my brain's fault
For other INFJ's out there. I have been through a lot when it comes down to love and not being treated well. I set clear boundaries now especially if women do it like this. For self care i keep the convo short and still listen, but then cut off. I close the door to that person as well, cause most women do know how you feel about them naturally and if they like you back and still pull this, they do not deserve you. I also then move on. I won't let me be dragged down by it, cause life is worth more then someone who lacks any sense of empathy towards you.
You either start blabbering nonsense or you completely shut off. Once every 10 years the stars align - 5 mins after meeting her you already talk about anime and she laughs at your nerdy jokes; this goes on and on for hours at a time, you get her contact info, aaaand... she actually lives hundreds of kms away or she just flakes.
nope we have better programming than that. Open conversation: Hi! What are you up to? > if good stuff: Oh nice! > if bad stuff: Oh shoot. That sucks. > if so so stuff: Uh huh. it's the part when they start asking question back that we fail miserably.
As an INFJ this is so relatable. Be miserable on the inside but portraying happiness for the person. Don't want to dump on anyone else's parade. Smiling through a heartbreak. The feelings are too much and the best way to heal is to go away on vac or a mini trip to clear the mind. When you come back you have to set boundaries to distance yourself. INFJ's really need to set boundaries when it comes to self-care and self-preservation.
True, i just took a break from my relationship for a whole year just to concentrate on my studies and well... I really got f-ed up emotionally but walking in my garden at night all alone helped me a lot. It kinda is therapeutic because i talk to myself in my head and confront problems in my life only when i am alone. But i still fucking miss her 😂
I can't believe how accurate this is! Friend zoned. INFJ's are good at breaking their own hearts. Pretending to be a supportive friend and whatnot. I can totally relate.
Oh yeah, they never noticed how long i stared at them and whispering to my loud ass extroverted friend abt them and just acting completely as normal as i just was.
Its just that we internalizes our thoughts so much, and so when we get a place to relate and expresses ourselves, we just ends up over excessively doing it so much
@Duo my bestfriend is ENFJ, and she is the most wonderful person I've ever met, and she's the only friend I keep in touch with. I'm sure you're just as awesome! 😊
@Duo my bestfriend is ENFJ, and she is the most wonderful person I've ever met, and she's the only friend I keep in touch with. I'm sure you're just as awesome! 😊
As an INFP I can absolutely agree to the fact that we're daydreaming most of the time and don't even realize how time passes away and people talk to u-
So it’s normal getting lost, because your daydreaming in new locations to the point, that your loved ones search you while you stay in one spot having a entire movie in your head?
As an INFJ, this is SO very true. I listen to others' problems and advise them and then I don't know how to deal with my own problems. Sometimes, being considerate towards others, I end up hurting myself.
Yep. Sometimes I spend too much time helping others deal with their problems, that they end up getting too dependent on me, so it ends up with me getting so stressed out, which in turn hurts us both. I have regrets because of this.
It's quite funny and terrifying because I experience the exact same feelings right now. So yeah, my response ; laughing out loud while internally screaming frustratedly and miserably crying. Ahahahsjks
as an ISTP who stay quiet the whole moment until my crush arrives and he is the only person I talk to the rest of the day at school, this is pretty relatable
Ope. * ENFP’s bringing up memes intellectually with their crush * “The format is divine, really illustrates the conception of a mascot-turned-icon during a time of dread” * shows a meme of Gritty *
Me too man. When my emotions are too hype, I just like dissapear in this world and go somewhere in my mind to chill out. That makes many things i want to do get distracted, kinda annoying. I hope i will get used to it soon😢
Notice how we INFJs are the rarest but we’re the most loudest in every MBTI discussions, says a lot about our personality lol. We’re enthusiastic about the fact that we can meet the people we could most relate to. Because to be honest, as an INFJ, I think most of you will never get the way we feel except for our fellow INFJs. It’s nice to meet the people who understand you, especially in our case.
Yea that is kinda good but...is still need to overcome the needs for other's verification on how I do things because I really hates that. REALLY hated that
The infj was so accurate- If I have a crush on someone I show no signs of liking them and I kinda just stay in my place. If they have a crush on someone I’d totally help them get with them.
@@johnreeves2422 I mean I try to shoot my shot by laughing more at their jokes or sum, or by making flirtatious jokes with them (which hardly happens).
Me, INFJ, joking: "Hey, I'm single, you are single, you know what does that means?" My crush, ISTJ: "Yes." Me, blushing: "R-Really?" Him: "Yeah. We are both ugly." It's been 7 years. I'm still in love with him. He still think we're both ugly.
@@atanor2768 Yeah you're right, but I'm so shy... but I've nothing to lose anymore! I was waiting for a sign, maybe that's it 😂 I'll try and I'll let you know tomorrow!
@@tsuyu1181 dunno if I can explain it properly but basically, we only want to fall in love to experience the nice things people in love feel, like the feeling of being loved by someone. Most of the time, we have "problems" when it comes to falling in love ourself. Usually, the "problem" is that we can't actually distinguish if what we feel is love
@@tsuyu1181 For me (also an INFP) is that i always daydream of having a partner and imagine doing a lot of fun things with him, but when boys actually try to approach me I'm always like "no no no no" in my head because 1. I don't think i deserve to be loved (this is more of a mental illness thing tbh) and 2. My standards are just way too high and 3. I don't really know how to interact with people I'm not already close with ;-;
*OH...MY...GOSH... PHEW!!!! 😅😅😅 I THOUGHT, THAT I SUDDENLY HAD ANXIETY, BECAUSE... I STARTED FEELING REALLY, REALLY, REALLY ANXIOUS, AND DOWN, RIGHT WHEN I SAW THE INFJ PART, ESPECIALLY... WHEN... THE TRULY, TRULY SAD SONG BEGAN... I AM SO, SO, SO THANKFUL, THAT... I AM NOT JUST BEING TRULY, TRULY SENSITIVE, AND EMOTION, BUT, INSTEAD, BECAUSE... I AM AN INFJ, LOL!!!* 😊😊😊🤣🤣🤣
I think they're so used to it, they even imagine they're friend zoned when they'r3 not. Happened once. The INFJ guy was convinced I "played the field" when in fact I was waiting for him to get back on his feet and make a move.. 🤦♀️
-_____- people suck sometimes. I've done something similar. I am an INFP. I'd say when I dated an infj, I just felt like he didn't understand my depressed moods like my sociopath next boyfriend did. Sociopaths can read my mixed messages. My istj (?) Bf was cold and quick to judge bc I don't follow his rules. My ENTP bf won't commit admittedly, but he reads me and is attentive and an adventurous leader. Infj was creative, always committed (I think), always loved me, but I have always been just a very unhappy infp. I just couldn't feel understood because I overthink and he was carefree. ironically, the guy I really like that won't commit is supposed to be best matched with an... INFJ! I'm sure you'd find a guy like him in a sales job. He'd be the nicest salesman with the most logical information, and an extraverted, sharp wit. Probably techy too. Pretty sure my bf's best friend is also an infj. Just a weird thought I had about what you said.
Extrovert Types: "I really like you." Introvert types: "It's nice to hang out with you." INFP's: "Hey i've heard this very cool song, i think you should listen to it"
Exactly! Tell your feelings through the power of music! I'm always sending my boyfriend songs with a text saying THIS is how I feel...appreciate the beautiful lyrics or all my romantic dreams will crushed...(the last part would be in my head)
Internal monologue: Okay, so am I making too much eye contact? ... I have no clue Well, people get anxious when I stare them down so if I look for signs of anxiety and I find it then I'll know to manually change my facial expressions. But what if they are anxious for different reasons? No, people are scared of you there's no getting around that What if they can tell I'm not looking at their eyes, and trying to figure out their emotional state. Being stared down is probably better than analyzed... But how would I know if it's better for _them??_ What if I just asked her if I'm staring her down... No, no that's not question people ask, and I should act like a person maybe. But I'm eccentric as fuck and I don't plan on changing that for anybody. So, would it better to come off that way now and not have that jarring change at sometime later. Well I've probably already come off as eccentric... *fuck it* "Yea, have I been staring you down this entire time? I've been told I do that, and if I have I'm sorry it just means you make interesting conversation" "Haha yea it's fine, I noticed it but didn't think much about it" My brain still fucking steeped in anxiety juice: *How do we know if they were just being polite or if that's fully honest*
as an INFP I can confirm that I’ve literally sat outside at night imagining my potential life with my crush… on multiple occasions. oh and I’m really not good at listening to people ramble so that’s also accurate
When Im with my crush, I'll daydream when hes smiling and forgot what were talking about *signs* THE LAST THING I CAN DO IS NOTICE IF WERE AROUND PEOPLE! AND we are :')
This is me literally. When people are rambling, I practically zone out for like a couple of seconds before rejoining the conversation with successive nods.
I'm like that with a lot of people, not just my crush. I end up getting so lost in my thoughts that I end up saying "what" a lot because I wasn't paying attention.
@@theresachacon1122 i'm an infp and i'm like that with *everyone* especially in class, i just start thinking about the world and the universe and then realize the teacher is talking 😂
As an ENTP, this is SO true. I don't care whatever my crush said, I either tell them I have no quacking idea what they said, or I crack the lamest joke on earth 💀
@@-_..... if you get friend-zoned just date someone else you're a woman in the time of the internet dating is not hard for you liking who you date is hard but you can get someone to stand by you physically
If he means that ENFP ramble in front of their crush then yes that’s very accurate for me Edit: omfg Idk if I’ve expressed my gratefulness but thank you so much for the likes guys. To me it translate to support so thank you~!!!🥰💞 I genuinely wasn’t even trying and I broke my record, 1.1k in a month, I’M FAMOUS YEEHAW 🤠🥳
@@a.i.8813 , you get so excited and happy to be around them huh?😊 I hope we never grow old then... Since our souls resemble a toddler’s when it comes to these things 😂 God let us be youthful for a very long time 🙇♀️
@@memealicious787 oh, we’ll grow old, but i don’t think that our youthful and enthusiastic souls can ever change 😅 so i think it’s safe to say that we’ll still light up whenever our crushes are around even when we’re 50 🥰😂
As an INTJ the eye contact is HUGE! The “am I making enough eye-contact?” “Am I making too much eye contact?” and I even get into body language/posture “Am I mirroring them enough, or too much? Am I coming off creepy?-ahh CRAAP what did they just say?!-just nod and say ‘mm-hmm’ or ‘yeah’ maybe they won’t be able to tell that I got distracted…”
INFP: *dreaming about crush, and planning a life together* crush: hey, i like you INFP: what? crush: i like you INFP: I never imagined it would happen in real life, I'm sorry, but I don't like you (only in my dreams)
Something similar to this happened to me-- My crush said he likes me and I said "Really?" like 10 times and he got annoyed and said "If you don't want to believe, okay"
I’m an INTJ and I was told the same thing without warning or hint and my brains just smashed that overthinking button like crazy and I reply the word “Nice”. I cringe deep down inside 😂
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0:00 ISTP
0:10 ISFP
0:16 ESTP
0:25 INTJ
0:33 ISTJ
0:44 INTP
1:04 ESFP
1:19 ISFJ
1:38 ENTJ
1:47 ESFJ
2:03 ENTP
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2:41 INFP
2:52 ESTJ
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So you are my yt crush, should I share it with you Sir?
@@tikaardhany7568 OOP-
I love the introduction of Jason, a new nemesis (Timmy has already a lot on his plate annoying ESTJ)
@Nikki E. He's indeed sagitarius !
As a INFJ i feel both attacked and well represented.
INFPs like the idea of dating a person, but then remember the person is a people and people are difficult
THIS. 💯🙌🏾
Honestly
💯! I also find that I imagine all nice, loving or kind overtures as a sign that they are compatible with me or fellow INFP or empaths. That's not accurate as I get to know them better, and fall out of the daydream with a thump.
Note to self: love bombing is a sign of narcissism, not a soulmate or twin flame!!
Ipso facto unattached since the year 2000.
agreed
Sure
The “F” in INFJ actually stands for “friend-zone.”
As a INFJ I will vouch for that
Couldn't be more accurate
Lol everytime and I think of the hello darkness my old friend 🤣😂
Man I wanna date an INFJ
-a lonely ENTP
@@avanicole6700 yeah right y'all friendzone us :')
INFP: Prefers fantasizing from afar rather than actually dating someone :””) The romantic idealism is exhausting
I feel called out by this comment. :/
Hey, hey you better stop. I didn't come here to be personally attacked.
I feel like I could if I wasnt so in my damn head all the time.
this one hit home
I’m an INFJ but I do this too. Eventually though I realize I have to do something. It’s always scary initiating though :/
INFP: having fictional crushes and then being amazed when there is actually someone you have a crush on because you didn't think it was possible because your standards are impossible.
Bruh thats currently happening to me and I am like no way can i have a crush on someone_(:з」∠)_
Why is this so relatable TT
*yes*
WHAT IN THE- HOW IS THIS SO TRU-
im an INTJ but that still sounds like it describes me
As an INFJ, I’ve listened to my crush’s feelings about another boy, and gave her advice while trying to hide the actual heartbreak I went through. Press F to pay respect to all those INFJs in this world.
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I'm and INTP, but this is what is happening to me currently.
0:00 ISTP
0:10 ISFP
0:16 ESTP
0:25 INTJ
0:33 ISTJ
0:45 INTP
1:05 ESFP
1:19 ISFJ
1:38 ENTJ
1:48 ESFJ
2:03 ENTP
2:13 ENFJ
2:26 ENFP
2:41 INFP
2:52 ESTJ
3:00 INFJ
Woah, thank you! :))
@@stargazerforlife001 your welcome
you, my man, just won the internet
This guy has to be with the feds first one as an ISTP was spot on. I say relationships are a waste but if I think someone kinda bad well then yk.
This should be pinned
As an INTJ, that was accurate. I overthink every gesture I do around people whom I like. Yet, sometimes, I can act really rude towards them just to hide my feelings.
Question, because I think the person I was interested in is an INTJ. He depicted this behavior and in the beginning hinted to his tendency a little. When you act rude to hide your feelings, are you intentionally trying to push them away so you don’t enter any relationship with them? Btw it’s confusing on the receiving end when someone genuinely is interested in you! ❤
Same here, even planning my future with that person lol
@@blueskies773 Yeah, that's intentionally. I see them as outsiders so I can't reveal something personal to them. That's why I'm struggling with making friends.
it's our paradox.
I am an INTJ and when I like someone I completely avoid them and don’t talk to them or come near them. Just glance or stare at them from afar.
As an INFP, i felt really good after learning that all of us have imaginary partners in our heads. Thank you.
I thought I was the only one too. I feel relieved now!
@@Aniastasia same 😂 I thought I am mentally sick
LMAO
Im an INFP too
The second that music started I knew it was us 😅
As an INFJ I can confirm that the reaction is true. We just want our crushes to be happy even if they don't like us back...
Bro same
I have an INFJ friend and he’s exactly like this. I feel so bad for friendzoning him 😔 He’s really an amazing person but I just don’t like him in that way. How do I reject someone (specifically an INFJ) without causing the person a ton of pain?
@@elliem.9408 That is a hard question, but I would say just be honest with him, but also be kind and compassionate in the manner and tone that you tell him. Try to be considerate of his feelings and reaffirm that you do enjoy having a relationship with him even if it's not a romantic one. We really appreciate honesty even if it might hurt at first. We appreciate and value the honesty after the initial sting of rejection, and this is coming from personal experience.
@@elliem.9408 Just be honest about how u feel about them
@@elliem.9408 Most of us INFJs can sense when someone is lying to us, so please tell him the whole truth, while insisting on the bright side. So really emphasize on your friendship and how important he is to you.
INFP: daydreaming about their crush and a whole life together
true
Yes.
Me.
I can confirm this
I feel called out
I feel like, as an INTJ, that we are the type to look perfectly calm and composed on the outside, but on the inside, it's just pandemonium and chaos.
As an INTJ, it’s hard for me to hide my smile that’s why I avoid talking.
Fr I don’t think I look cold but to others I look cold but on the inside I’m literally the sweetest little girl. Just kidding.
yup.
Sounds about right 👍🏼
yep
INFP alone: _Imagines chatting with crush about literally everything._
INFP with crush:
Crush: _Talks a lot._ Why is nobody talking to me?
INFP: Uh... sorry but idk what to tell you.
Inside I am like: "Please marry me"
Outside: Oh shit he is coming, I have to hide
Instead of having a normal, spontaneous conversation, I just start thinking about what to say, but I'm terrible at coming up with something to say if it's not spontaneous lol. Especially because I end up thinking about *this* rather than the actual conversation.
@@MrTomas7777 yeah, me too. Is so terrible having so much to say but not finding anything appropriate for the moment.
It sucks...i wanted to talk so much but its like something catch my throat.😥😥😥😥
Talking to a woman is a mistake it's asking for a failure just avoid them that's what this INTP does like Albert Einstein and Tesla
INTJ: *Plans for every possible conversation*
Crush: “Hey!”
INTJ: “Mission failed, we’ll get em next time”
me: *plans for every possible conversation during 8 weeks*
Me: Well, i'm gonna solve this, i'm so prepared for this
In the day of askin' her/ him to go out
me: *OH FUCK, I HAVE TO TALK TO HER/HIM FIRST*
I am in INTJ
@@tlia.. well, me too :D
"I've been hit!"
"This is nothing like the simulations"
INFJ: Setting my crush up with their crush since 2002.
she's actually in a relationship with him now:)
i just distanciated myself from her from then on...
Why must you inflict pain on me like this
Same
INFJ : and not replying back to my crush even when he keeps up with me and texts everyday 😫
Same 😌
As an INFP I can confirm that daydreaming about our crushes whilst ACTUALLY talking to our crushes is customary, both in person and through text!
This is literally every intovert thought? Am I wrong???
I wrote this for myself (isfp)
0:01 ISTP
0:11 ISFP
0:17 ESTP
0:25 INTJ
0:33 ISTJ
0:45 INTP
1:05 ESFP
1:19 ISFJ
1:38 ENTJ
1:47 ESFJ
2:03 ENTP
2:13 ENFJ
2:27 ENFP
2:41 INFP
2:53 ESTJ
3:00 INFJ
Thanks and Regards,
INFJ
@@Raviksingh09 yeah you're the last... I knew it is hard for you.. Lol
@@Me-ec9uz haha true
Stay cool, nugs not drugs -infj
Thank you :) I didn’t feel like watching the whole thing to find mine
Crush: "Hi"
INFP: [create an entire Netflix serie imagining the ups and downs of the relationship, including marriege, adopting a dog, kids, financial problems, breaking up, getting back, saving your love's life, dealing with cheating, becoming a secret agent, fighting aliens, finding a portal to another wor...]
Crush: Are u ok?
INFP: what? Oh yea... I'm fine, just got a bit distracted. [Constantly smiling]
Why am I like this tho 😩😂😂
Don't call me out like that😳
Basically
true!
It concerns me that I actually did this with every crush I ever had
INFPs become an invisible kid around their crush.
And say stupid stuff. So your crush think you are creepy. And that's how we are always single.
D:
If you don't try you can't get rejected. Perfect plan.
hell yeaa
@@clairerussell1391 lol. Exactly.
Exactly. I have known my crush for more than a year and I never said hi to them once 💀
As an INTJ the eye contact one is so true i think about it mid conversation all the time, usually deciding to look at the forehead then deciding thats too weird so i end up staring at one eye until they ask me why am i staring at one eye and i then say i don't know how to look at both lol
I switch eyes every minute or so.
Im laughing rn " i dont know how to look at both "
Lollll that was so funnyyy!! I'm an infj and same sh*t happens to me every time that's why I avoid eye contacts for less awkwardness
🤣
I normally just look at the floor.
AS AN INFJ THIS LITERALLY HAPPENED TO ME HE WAS MY BEST FRIEND NOW HES DATING MY OTHER BEST FRIEND AND I HAD TO ACT LIKE THEIR THERAPIST THIS WHOLE DAMN TIME
You poor thing. *Hugs*
No you didn't have to do anything tell him to fuck off I'm an i n but I don't give a shit anymore
Damn i felt the hurt
OMG TRUE
the thing with infj is that you can serve as a therapist very well, but you’re probably the one who needs one the most.
"I'll just keep staring at you when you're looking away and hope that you make a move" - every introvert type ever
Pretty much 😅
but they never do :(
not wrong hahah
@@liisan3769 ):
Now *that* is accurate
INFP: *daydreaming about their crush in front of their crush*
Crush: INFP?? you ok??
INFP: yes I just can't believe you're real
😅🤣😅🤣😅
No we actually don't confess like that we just say sorry I got lost in my thoughts or I was thinking bout sth unimportant
@@maycenolaf1082 it was a joke-
same, but I would actually said that, because why not (isfp)
accurate
ISTP's on point. I always act like I don't care about my crush and act like he doesn't exist when he's around. 😂 My mind works like "I will never confess. I'll just wait until you know I like you."
Not an INFJ falling in love with an idea of another person in their head, imagining their love life in their head and planning out their wedding in their head while the other person is having a crush on someone else again.
lol i did that like four to five days ago and i even planned out how we would die together with three alternative endings and it took 14 pages in my journal. im over them now.
@Earl Jovhan Cameros 😂 Exactly!!!!
It's an everyday routine for me
ive gotten quite used to it at this point
MOOOOOOOOD
INFJ: if you can't have the one you want, encourage the one you want to pursue the one they want. Because we're driven to make *somebody* happy, even if it means sacrificing our own potential happiness. Spot on, sir.
We always want others to have what we don't have
why is this so accurate xD
OMG yes 😢
This is so true that it hit waaaaaay too close to home for me😂💔
hey look its me
As an INTJ, I approve of my staring habits and of ENTJ's extremely direct approach.
the same -ENTJ
ENTJ here - can confirm.
Drama is a waste of time, we’re all adults here
INFJ stands for
I - Independent
N - No appreciation
F - Friendzoned
J - Just me & my demons
😂😂😂💀 The accuracy.
Yes, I am
The P in INFP stands for Please kill me now
Thats right
INTJ:
I- Incredibly clueless
N- Not being able to talk first to their crush
T- totally friendzoneable
J- Just can't do it when the day comes
As an INFP, it's quite accurate, most INFPs tend to be more shy and introverted, but once we warm up to someone we're super hyper.
Yup. 👁👄👁👍
thats very true, this could be because a lot of infp's tend to have initentive adhd and this tends to be how we behave, lol.
@@kenya3449 I’m INFP with ADHD lol
rabid animal around my friends, around my crush im a slow witted turtle
frr
INFJ: Encouraging "her" to pursue her heart, even when it's with somebody else.
*cries in infj*
It would've been funnier f I haven't done EXACTLY THAT in the past collecting a bad recall of it
Me RN 🤧🤧🤧
People's happiness matters more than ourselves .
INFJ
Literally me when my ex-girlfriend told me she was dating a good friend of mine. I told her everything was gonna be ok, your not gonna mess anything up, and you two are a really good match. That was literally like a month or two after we broke up and I just wanted her to be happy. Did I mention we were going out for a little over two years.
As an ambivert ENFJ, i can totally relate to the INFJ one. At college, I fully willingly helped my crush to open up to the girl he liked, by talking to the girl and preparing the surface for their date, and they got married two months ago lmao. After college. I accidentally caused my crush to get married with someone else.
As an ENFJ I can see myself accidentally doing that as well. Being the ultimate matchmaker can be a blessing and a curse.
I’m so sorry for your loss😭😭😭😭😭😭
Why do we like to help people so much, it's almost like "It's my principle" we do it even if it costs us. Or is it just me?
Cmon bro u deserve better ur a whole human u can think you’re good enough for your own crush.
Time Stamps
ISTP- 0:01
ISFP- 0:11
ESTP: 0:16
INTJ- 0:25
ISTJ- 0:33
INTP: 0:45
ESFP: 1:06
ISFJ: 1:20
ENTJ: 1:38
ESFJ: 1:48
ENTP: 2:04
ENFJ : 2:14
ENFP: 2:27
INFP: 2:40
ESTJ: 2:50
INFJ: 3:01
This is my first one I hope its good and accurate.
thanks for 2,000 likes
Good job Zoe!
@@joeltchouala783 thank you :)
Thanks! What's your mbti?
Thank you!!
@@rexy2204 INFP, what is yours?
The two nervous INTJ modes: "avoid eye contact, they can sense your fear" and "stare through their soul so they know you are listening and interested."
Lmao!!!!! Can we find a balance?
Lol thats sooo me and I am an INTJ🤣🤣
So relatable 👊😪 (an INTJ btw)
So relatable I also make a heavy eye contact so that I can see through their intentions
This is literally me
Absolutely no one:
Me, INFP: feeling a deep connection with the sad song in the end... 😂😭
Oh my gosh right?! 🤣😂 Same here!
same
Oh don't reveal me🤧😭
YES! All the feels! Awww. ❤️ Poor guy.
Yesss!!!
as an INTJ, that was extremely accurate, I overthink how I act around people ALL THE TIME, esp when I like them, it’s so draining tho
It’s so tiring
INFJ is the rarest personality type.
The comments:
That's because they're trying to connect. Because they know that they're rare and hard to find IRL.
Couldn’t find any INTPS
@@Sheamuscz exactly. glad u found me
Because only people like infj infp and some others types watch those type of channel 😂
I can't believe i was the Infj either
The INFP one is so accurate. I actually just stare at my crush, right in the eye, and dream all about out future together, while he is is just explaining how come he bought ice cream the day before. My friends always tell me that it is written in my glance that I adore him, for my eyes seem to sparkle when I turn to look at his brilliant face.
Now this comment truly is an INFP comment
Aw, that's cute
same bro
hi there, infp here can confirm haha my girl said she's never been looked at like that before
🥺🥺🥺
INFP: not being sure whether your crush is even real or you just imagined them.
y e z
this is so true-
Me to my celebrity crush 😭💓
:,)
INFP here, I don't know who my crush is, but I know there's someone.
I am an ENTJ and I have to say that portrayal is EXACTLY me. It's accurate to a scary level. I don't wanna waste time with other women. I've found my one and only and I know it, going after any other woman would be a waste of time and I know it.
Exactly! Didn’t waste time with the whole feeling stuff and got it right the first time.
LOL I'm an INFJ and that was depressingly relatable. INFJs will pretty much find themselves playing fairy godmother n helping everyone else get their happy endings... including their crush's! 😭
It's pretty depressing ngl
Edit: so depressing
I'm sure you INFJs will all eventually find someone who doesn't friend zone you. My boyfriend is an INFJ and when I told him I liked him he was like wait really? Like Like? Not as a friend like? And we had that conversation multiple times.
@@elliezalick4985 thanks bro🙂, I really mean it! This is really really a good message
@@elliezalick4985 Wow🤩
@Tatenda Dune wait so are you saying you like him? Because then you should just say that to him bluntly and then you'll find out for sure how he feels.
INFJs are so good at breaking their own hearts. Because what really matters to us is seeing the people we care/we love be happy and content with their life even if we are out of the picture. I feel y'all! 👌
Us 🫂🥲
I did realize they always doing that
I swear XD
How was the heart broken in that case? Everything goes well anyway.
this is so accurate :')
0:01 I genuinely did not expect him to be that accurate, I don’t go chasing but when they come around me it’s like this
As an INFP i often like to imagine relationships with random people i make up personalities for in my head bc my standards are impossibly high and i'd rather not date anyone than date someone who doesn't live up to those standards......
Same (Infj)
Same
Yes yes
I feel exposed XD
Relatable
INFJ is so on point. I watched my crush of two years break up, try to find someone to date, help them find someone to date, watched them break up after a week, and then finally, become "the therapist friend."
Why not confess to your friend? Who knows maybe you guys will end up together if not then hey at least you won't have any regrets
@@dinajonaky4796ahahahahhaahahahahahaha. thats really funny
@@dinajonaky4796 Its fine now! Im not as close of friends with them and I started dating someone I really like.
Lmao I did the same now that guy's married and will be a father soon HAHA im happy for him tho
@@dinajonaky4796 Tried and failed...
I’m an INFP and I busted out laughing when he said “oh crap, she’s been talking this whole time - ..What?”
I do this all the time 😂🤣
I always have to focus super hard when it’s at work and someone keeeps talking and talking about stuff that’s self explanatory. So then I zone out. They be like: ‘so do you understand?’
Me: uh yeah
Them: ‘oke repeat back to me what I explained’
Me: uh…. well I kind of forgot some parts can you explain it again?
Then: yeah so … blablabla
Me: ( must focus) and oh yeah I get it now
Yes it’s self explanatory however they add some extra info that I didn’t know so I zoned out too early
Same 🤣 how is he even doing that; all of his INFP impressions are soooo me;
Same, but people usually have to shake me out of my daydreams and then I'm like "what?"
INFP and yeah I’m constantly doing this 🤷🏻♀️
ikr? i space out and realise they are still talking and i get super awkward and im just like mhm yes completely i totally heard and understand what you just said.
2:36 really hits different: I’m an ENFP and when I asked my crush out to prom and she said no, my English teacher overheard me talking about it in class with my friends and he played a clip from napoleon dynamite in class to cheer me up. He didn’t announce his reason for doing this to the class but afterwards he talked to me separately said he hoped that I appreciated it and that he hoped I didn’t find his humor mean or mocking.
That was without question the best English teacher I’ve ever had.
why is EVERYONE HERE AN INFJ
The guy who runs this channel is an INFJ
@_______________ oh what test is more accurate then? I do it for fun but it be cool to know. Thank you for your time.
They aren't im more than willing to bet that over 85% of the people here are just saying that due to being friend zoned. The ignorance and simplicity of some people 🤦♂️
@@tdog4423 There's one with 300+ questions. personally I just took them all to be more accurate hahaha
I think INFJs and INFPs are drawn to these kinds of videos 😭
I'm an ENFP, but I saw ISTP, and I've never felt so understood.
Omg! SAME
I'm an INFP but sometimes I end up relating with ISTPs
I love being an istp
@@jacksonbrewer2380 me too
@@GrayGoosey1134 me too!
Ahh, yes, us INFJs giving love/dating advice to our crushes while we're pining in secret, weeping inside our hearts
As always
Works for INFPs too :)
That happens way too often lmao and I can't even make out that whether u guys have a crush on me or not. Generally, the way a person sees u, acts with u, gives u a subtle hint.
Yeah. Even going so far as to hELP them keep their relationship together. 😭 I’d rather him be happy than anything else.
Hey. I have a question. Enfp here. Why dont infj confess to someone they love/have a crush on? Is there a particular reason? Im really curious and I want to understand them better. Thank you!!! :* :>
As an INTJ, I can proudly say that I try as hard as I can not to make eye contact with my crush and deny I like her so that no one else finds out.
Yeah that’s better than the person knowing you like them. Cuz what are you supposed to do after that. God if my crush found out that I liked them i would unalive myself out of that school.
as an infp i actually love daydreaming but it gets tiring cause i idealize people way too much and i end up getting disappointed really often lol the bar is set way too high and its all my brain's fault
Wait im enfp but why is this me ?
@@Trulyyaraa ENFPs and INFPs aren't very different I guess.
And that's how I haven't been interested in anyone for years. Also, being attracted to fictional characters doesn't help!!
its my brain and my over-attachment to fictional characters
True
The way INFJ switched his objective in a second.
Daemmmm
It was very accurate
@Tatenda Dune: Hell yeah! I personally feel that by doing so, it helps the person deal with the problem, which is healthier. Hope it went well.
Yup
Oh my gosh
"why don't we talk through it and you'll feel better--"
me, knowing where this is going: no no nO NO DON'T EXPOSE ME
I'm an Infp who's been In that exact situation lol
me, as an infj and had an experience before, never felt so heart attacked before
For other INFJ's out there. I have been through a lot when it comes down to love and not being treated well. I set clear boundaries now especially if women do it like this. For self care i keep the convo short and still listen, but then cut off. I close the door to that person as well, cause most women do know how you feel about them naturally and if they like you back and still pull this, they do not deserve you. I also then move on. I won't let me be dragged down by it, cause life is worth more then someone who lacks any sense of empathy towards you.
thank you, somehow this helped me, at least for now!
This is just for any type of personality
INTP: Oh hey, how are you doing?
Person: (actually answers)
INTP: *Wait no, you weren't supposed to do that...*
Shields failing. Engage evasive maneuvers!
You either start blabbering nonsense or you completely shut off.
Once every 10 years the stars align - 5 mins after meeting her you already talk about anime and she laughs at your nerdy jokes; this goes on and on for hours at a time, you get her contact info, aaaand... she actually lives hundreds of kms away or she just flakes.
@@dazzlebreak4458 indeed, she was from Argentina, press F 😔
nope we have better programming than that.
Open conversation: Hi! What are you up to?
> if good stuff: Oh nice!
> if bad stuff: Oh shoot. That sucks.
> if so so stuff: Uh huh.
it's the part when they start asking question back that we fail miserably.
@@faicotone accurate!
As an INTJ, if i continue acting like this i'll die single.
I do the opposite. No eye contact and ignore them to the point where they think I hate them.
@@efratcohen3429 yes same, i wrote this comment before even watching the video, i meant with acting like this as being too too distant
@@efratcohen3429 same
Hey, considering I was able to get married using exactly that, anyone can. ;)
@@WolfoxBR 🥺
As an INFJ this is so relatable. Be miserable on the inside but portraying happiness for the person. Don't want to dump on anyone else's parade. Smiling through a heartbreak. The feelings are too much and the best way to heal is to go away on vac or a mini trip to clear the mind. When you come back you have to set boundaries to distance yourself. INFJ's really need to set boundaries when it comes to self-care and self-preservation.
True, i just took a break from my relationship for a whole year just to concentrate on my studies and well... I really got f-ed up emotionally but walking in my garden at night all alone helped me a lot. It kinda is therapeutic because i talk to myself in my head and confront problems in my life only when i am alone.
But i still fucking miss her 😂
So true
@@Insigneon bro, we are exactly the same person😭😭
@@s4kura319 nice pfp. I believe it's from words bubble up like soda pop?
@@deluge7510 that's it ! I just changed but yes it was good hehe
I love seeing all of my fellow INFJ’s chiming in on how accurate that one was.
And yes, I have done the same thing before.
He’s so ecstatically stunned she’s talking to him that he doesn’t hear a word she’s saying! Yes!😸
I’m an INFP, and I can confirm that this actually happens to us 😂😂😂
way too often lmao
I felt sooo called out
Every intovert ever
I can't believe how accurate this is! Friend zoned.
INFJ's are good at breaking their own hearts. Pretending to be a supportive friend and whatnot.
I can totally relate.
I dont think they are pretending tho, is just natural to trynna help people emotionally.
@@gabrielparry210 didn't mean it that way. I should have said "trying"
@Bob Stone I was thinking the same because I'm also an INFJ
duhh I totally agree with you, we just want our loved ones to be happy :)
@Bob Stone wh--- i was there like "don't you dare... this can't be..." HOW could we think the same thing lmaooo
The irony is that INFJ's crush will never ever know that INFJ wanted to ask them out. Not fair to be an INFJ😔.
Oh yeah, they never noticed how long i stared at them and whispering to my loud ass extroverted friend abt them and just acting completely as normal as i just was.
He thought I was just being nice. I was but I was being extra nice. I had bad timing and so did he!😫
ENFP will adopt you and then make the discovery
@@bloodrune329 ☺
As an INFJ I learned you just gotta make the move, I’m typing this as she currently asleep next to me so it’s proof it works
That’s my internal dialogue for all human interactions, whether I’m crushing on them or not 😂
-INFP
Yeah it just turns out I am diagnosed with ADHD 💀
The comment section is mostly of INFP & INFJ😅
That says something about us too! (INFP)
we the main characters 🤡
@@sunnbiau1113 hmm trueee
Its just that we internalizes our thoughts so much, and so when we get a place to relate and expresses ourselves, we just ends up over excessively doing it so much
Yeah, so?
INFJ is that second lead character, the bestfriend we all cry for. yes. cry for me. or not, im jk.
wow i never thought about it like that. True🥺
Let's cry together 😂😂😂
but if infj become main character the world must be on krisis infj scarifice for the save world
@Duo my bestfriend is ENFJ, and she is the most wonderful person I've ever met, and she's the only friend I keep in touch with. I'm sure you're just as awesome! 😊
@Duo my bestfriend is ENFJ, and she is the most wonderful person I've ever met, and she's the only friend I keep in touch with. I'm sure you're just as awesome! 😊
As an INFP I can absolutely agree to the fact that we're daydreaming most of the time and don't even realize how time passes away and people talk to u-
So it’s normal getting lost, because your daydreaming in new locations to the point, that your loved ones search you while you stay in one spot having a entire movie in your head?
Mmmmmm
Yeah the INFP part of the video was so relatable
And sometime it sucks
But sometimes it boosts my energy
Literally 😭
as an infp, these comments coming from other infps really helped me understand myself a little better. thank you for this!!!
As an INFP it’s nice to know that we as a whole are embarrassing 💀💀💀
I'm an INFJ dating an INFP and I always reassure my girlfriend that she's not embarrassing to me because she thinks she is :')
Yep. Probably most times that I'm with humans I'm embarrassing. 😅
BAHAHAHAH true, as an INFP I confirm :')
I'm an INFJ, but I relate much more to the INFP here 😆
@@Ry9653 Hahah, in the end it's only one letter difference:)
As an INFJ, this is SO very true. I listen to others' problems and advise them and then I don't know how to deal with my own problems.
Sometimes, being considerate towards others, I end up hurting myself.
BRO SAME
@@leaht4555 :'')
Exactly .... ❤️How I am
Yep. Sometimes I spend too much time helping others deal with their problems, that they end up getting too dependent on me, so it ends up with me getting so stressed out, which in turn hurts us both. I have regrets because of this.
So relatable 🥹
That last one makes me want to laugh and weep.
-helpless romantic INFJ
P.S. Thanks for another fantastic video, FJ!
As an INFJ myself, I wasn‘t sure if I should have laughed or cried! I‘m experiencing unrequited love myself at the moment! 😢
Pain.
It's quite funny and terrifying because I experience the exact same feelings right now. So yeah, my response ; laughing out loud while internally screaming frustratedly and miserably crying. Ahahahsjks
@Rebecca Gale same😂😂😂😂
@@TheKrissi2007 It’s our lot in life, Krista 😔
as an ISTP who stay quiet the whole moment until my crush arrives and he is the only person I talk to the rest of the day at school, this is pretty relatable
ENFP: I just realised that I do tend to sound more “intellectual” when I’m trying to impress someone
I just realized this this week too 😫
Ope.
* ENFP’s bringing up memes intellectually with their crush *
“The format is divine, really illustrates the conception of a mascot-turned-icon during a time of dread”
* shows a meme of Gritty *
YES ME TOO, and even more now that my crush is an ENTJ :’)
ENFPs are intellectual even when they are goofy.
@@marwankarim4676 I know, right?! XD
As an INFP I can confirm that I am daydreaming even while talking to a crush
Can relate
o
happens scarily often lmao
Me too😂
Me too man. When my emotions are too hype, I just like dissapear in this world and go somewhere in my mind to chill out. That makes many things i want to do get distracted, kinda annoying. I hope i will get used to it soon😢
Notice how we INFJs are the rarest but we’re the most loudest in every MBTI discussions, says a lot about our personality lol. We’re enthusiastic about the fact that we can meet the people we could most relate to. Because to be honest, as an INFJ, I think most of you will never get the way we feel except for our fellow INFJs. It’s nice to meet the people who understand you, especially in our case.
Because, it's also rare to meet the people who understand us🙂
Omg my life makes sense now 😢
Yea that is kinda good but...is still need to overcome the needs for other's verification on how I do things because I really hates that. REALLY hated that
Sadly, it's like we're misfits for life. 😔
Yeah yeah!! I've tried a lot on the cmnt sec...Never found one...Most of them were lying about being INFJ...
LIKED for ENTJ'S No Nonsense Direct to the point action oriented Spiel. Results!
The infj was so accurate- If I have a crush on someone I show no signs of liking them and I kinda just stay in my place. If they have a crush on someone I’d totally help them get with them.
Same. I say NOTHING about my feelings, and I make sure I don't show any obvious signs I like them.
@@JAREDAND19 Same I’m just like cool um I guess I’m back to square one while helping another person out. 🥶
@@johnreeves2422 I mean I try to shoot my shot by laughing more at their jokes or sum, or by making flirtatious jokes with them (which hardly happens).
This whole comment section is made for me i can literally relate to all this
*A moment of silence for all the INFJs pals who got friendzoned*
🙄
Thanks man. I appreciate it😂
Got friend-zoned once and no not gonna do it again, I’m an infj.
@@e.blaise2226 Ikr you live and learn, and we clearly have learned😂
and thats why i turned off all emotional attachment to human beings
Me, INFJ, joking: "Hey, I'm single, you are single, you know what does that means?"
My crush, ISTJ: "Yes."
Me, blushing: "R-Really?"
Him: "Yeah. We are both ugly."
It's been 7 years.
I'm still in love with him.
He still think we're both ugly.
...you mean you are together?
@@atanor2768 no, but I wanna try to confess on his birthday 😂😂 even if I know I have no chances 💀
@@Marimo-wb4uy you know what? Do it now, at least you'll sleep better
@@atanor2768 Yeah you're right, but I'm so shy... but I've nothing to lose anymore! I was waiting for a sign, maybe that's it 😂 I'll try and I'll let you know tomorrow!
@@Marimo-wb4uy do it!!! fellow INFJ cheer squad has arrived!!
Man, even as an INTJ I just want to give INFJ a hug when I see some of these videos.
Hugs are not real nobody cares about INFJs
As an INFP, I thought it was normal that most people are only in love with the idea of love. Turns out it was a personality thing lmao
@@tsuyu1181 dunno if I can explain it properly but basically, we only want to fall in love to experience the nice things people in love feel, like the feeling of being loved by someone. Most of the time, we have "problems" when it comes to falling in love ourself. Usually, the "problem" is that we can't actually distinguish if what we feel is love
@@tsuyu1181 For me (also an INFP) is that i always daydream of having a partner and imagine doing a lot of fun things with him, but when boys actually try to approach me I'm always like "no no no no" in my head because 1. I don't think i deserve to be loved (this is more of a mental illness thing tbh) and 2. My standards are just way too high and 3. I don't really know how to interact with people I'm not already close with ;-;
@@Suzy292002 i feel this so much it hurts :')
@@Suzy292002 Yeah, same here ...
@@Suzy292002 wow, I feel like I have been exposed.
Me: Starts crying as an INFJ
FJ: Do YoU lIkE t-ShIrTs
Me: *Whispers as tears build* Yes, yes I do.
@@PixiieGrotto lol
Oh my word, so I'm not the only INFJ that started tearing up. 😆
I am feeling called out . . .
*OH...MY...GOSH... PHEW!!!! 😅😅😅 I THOUGHT, THAT I SUDDENLY HAD ANXIETY, BECAUSE... I STARTED FEELING REALLY, REALLY, REALLY ANXIOUS, AND DOWN, RIGHT WHEN I SAW THE INFJ PART, ESPECIALLY... WHEN... THE TRULY, TRULY SAD SONG BEGAN... I AM SO, SO, SO THANKFUL, THAT... I AM NOT JUST BEING TRULY, TRULY SENSITIVE, AND EMOTION, BUT, INSTEAD, BECAUSE... I AM AN INFJ, LOL!!!* 😊😊😊🤣🤣🤣
INFJ is like : "Why am I here, just to suffer"
Hahaha. Sad, but true.
LMBO!! I'm laughing because if I don't tears start rolling in, but also cause it true and funny.
I’m an existentialist and every day is a new day to question why am I on this planet!
@@ShawnDavid91 Yup. Laughing while those wet tears roll down. The music!
I think they're so used to it, they even imagine they're friend zoned when they'r3 not. Happened once. The INFJ guy was convinced I "played the field" when in fact I was waiting for him to get back on his feet and make a move.. 🤦♀️
As an ISTJ with an ISFJ wife i can confirm how accurate this is and how utterly hopeless we both were at the start of our relationship... 😅😂
Any advice? 😂 I’m ISFJ woman
istj x isfj " Perfect match! Simple couple.
As an INFJ, I'm glad to say that I've helped many of my crushes find their one true loves...🙂
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Oh, dear.. I feel U 🥲
One day you’ll find yours, I’m sure…
-_____- people suck sometimes. I've done something similar. I am an INFP. I'd say when I dated an infj, I just felt like he didn't understand my depressed moods like my sociopath next boyfriend did. Sociopaths can read my mixed messages. My istj (?) Bf was cold and quick to judge bc I don't follow his rules. My ENTP bf won't commit admittedly, but he reads me and is attentive and an adventurous leader. Infj was creative, always committed (I think), always loved me, but I have always been just a very unhappy infp. I just couldn't feel understood because I overthink and he was carefree. ironically, the guy I really like that won't commit is supposed to be best matched with an... INFJ! I'm sure you'd find a guy like him in a sales job. He'd be the nicest salesman with the most logical information, and an extraverted, sharp wit. Probably techy too. Pretty sure my bf's best friend is also an infj. Just a weird thought I had about what you said.
Me too, I remembered those days, huhuhu
Shit...sorry. Fellow INFJ here. My case:I intentionally stopped 5 different relationships because "it wasn't right yet". Ahhh...
Extrovert Types: "I really like you."
Introvert types: "It's nice to hang out with you."
INFP's: "Hey i've heard this very cool song, i think you should listen to it"
Exactly! Tell your feelings through the power of music! I'm always sending my boyfriend songs with a text saying THIS is how I feel...appreciate the beautiful lyrics or all my romantic dreams will crushed...(the last part would be in my head)
@@ritaruggerone4434 Poor Us !
Man I do this to all my friends, not only to crushes
- ISFP
Goshdarnit!
Hahhahamood
Poor INFJ. 💔
Happened to me once
happened to me too many times
Definitely real.
I had two exes talking to me about problems with their actual girlfriends... True story...
Honestly it hurt me and I'm ENTJ?!?
Nobody deserves their time wasted 🙅🏾♂️
This is so real on INTP, I really just script and prepare every line I say before saying it, and just hoping people won't go off the script
I’m an INTJ and literally every face to face conversation I’ve ever had involves at least one “is this enough eye contact” thought.
Exactly!
Same!
Same here. Lol
I'm INTJ and yes. I actually wish eye contact wasn't a social expectation, it would be so much easier to not think about it.
Kinda hate that I do that. Sometimes it leads to them misunderstanding me as having a crush on them or that I'm totally into them.
INTJ: Am I making enough eye contact? - proceeds to make a death stare
*crush evaporates under our gaze**
😂😂😂😂
Internal monologue:
Okay, so am I making too much eye contact? ... I have no clue
Well, people get anxious when I stare them down so if I look for signs of anxiety and I find it then I'll know to manually change my facial expressions.
But what if they are anxious for different reasons?
No, people are scared of you there's no getting around that
What if they can tell I'm not looking at their eyes, and trying to figure out their emotional state. Being stared down is probably better than analyzed...
But how would I know if it's better for _them??_
What if I just asked her if I'm staring her down...
No, no that's not question people ask, and I should act like a person maybe.
But I'm eccentric as fuck and I don't plan on changing that for anybody. So, would it better to come off that way now and not have that jarring change at sometime later.
Well I've probably already come off as eccentric... *fuck it*
"Yea, have I been staring you down this entire time? I've been told I do that, and if I have I'm sorry it just means you make interesting conversation"
"Haha yea it's fine, I noticed it but didn't think much about it"
My brain still fucking steeped in anxiety juice: *How do we know if they were just being polite or if that's fully honest*
I just do that when people stare at me. They stop pretty fast.
Everyone always tells me (an INTJ) I constantely look like I am going to kill someone😭
me when I have a crush, trying to send brain waves in their direction so they can read my mind and know that I have a crush on them
So, I'm not the only one ? 😅
@@Lorenzaccia HAHAH nope!!! unfortunately, none of my crushes have gotten my brain messages :(
Same lol
@@laziness852 has it worked for you? LOOOL
For me it worked😂😂👁👄👁
As an ENFJ, this is so real. I end up talking about love and unnecessarily awkward topics even when I know it'll go down pretty awkward HAHA
Atleast you talk 💔
Infp: don't show that you're fond of him it would be creepy...
Him: wow this girl is so cold with me...
Infp : good job...
TRUUUEE
I can relate so much
ugh
that's right
I'm in this comment and I don't like it 👁️👄👁️
tbh I either insult the hell out of my crushes or I can't even talk to them properly ;d
as an INFP I can confirm that I’ve literally sat outside at night imagining my potential life with my crush… on multiple occasions. oh and I’m really not good at listening to people ramble so that’s also accurate
OMG IKR, ill literally imagine everything with them lmaooo
same lmaooo
Can not relate to having a crush but I have imagined my life with fictional characters and I do talk to myself in my head.
When Im with my crush, I'll daydream when hes smiling and forgot what were talking about *signs* THE LAST THING I CAN DO IS NOTICE IF WERE AROUND PEOPLE! AND we are :')
This is me literally. When people are rambling, I practically zone out for like a couple of seconds before rejoining the conversation with successive nods.
I’m an INFP and all I can tell you...
That is 100% accurate
I'm like that with a lot of people, not just my crush. I end up getting so lost in my thoughts that I end up saying "what" a lot because I wasn't paying attention.
@@theresachacon1122 i'm an infp and i'm like that with *everyone* especially in class, i just start thinking about the world and the universe and then realize the teacher is talking 😂
I met american infp before and was 1000% same
Before he put infp i already kneww likeee “omg bet that’s meeee” HAHAHAHAA
As an ENTP, this is SO true. I don't care whatever my crush said, I either tell them I have no quacking idea what they said, or I crack the lamest joke on earth 💀
me laughing at INFJ cuz he got friendzoned, realises im INFJ too.
the pain is too real..
Same. F.
Women don't get friend-zoned
@@noo343 I can't enter your logic in my brain. 😶
@@-_..... if you get friend-zoned just date someone else you're a woman in the time of the internet dating is not hard for you liking who you date is hard but you can get someone to stand by you physically
If he means that ENFP ramble in front of their crush then yes that’s very accurate for me
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as an enfp I can safely say that I can’t shut up around people I like sometimes because they get me so excited
@@a.i.8813 , you get so excited and happy to be around them huh?😊
I hope we never grow old then...
Since our souls resemble a toddler’s when it comes to these things 😂
God let us be youthful for a very long time 🙇♀️
@@memealicious787 oh, we’ll grow old, but i don’t think that our youthful and enthusiastic souls can ever change 😅 so i think it’s safe to say that we’ll still light up whenever our crushes are around even when we’re 50 🥰😂
I’m an enfp and I can’t even look in the direction of my crush, let alone speak to them 😪
@@a.i.8813, omfg I just envisioned that...😂😂😂
That’s hilarious. In all honestly, I think we’re entertaining individuals 🥰
"What?" -Every INFP ever, everyday, all days of the week.
😂😂😂😂
I'm an ENFP and I feel so called out. XD
I'm always like "sorry I stopped listening for a while but you were talking about .... and I really want to hear more." lol
I'm being attacked.
I've been day dreaming these past 17 years and all I can say is "What??"
As an INTJ the eye contact is HUGE!
The “am I making enough eye-contact?” “Am I making too much eye contact?” and I even get into body language/posture “Am I mirroring them enough, or too much? Am I coming off creepy?-ahh CRAAP what did they just say?!-just nod and say ‘mm-hmm’ or ‘yeah’ maybe they won’t be able to tell that I got distracted…”
Person: talking about their dog
INFP: *in their head* what would our second child’s hair color be I wonder...
BWAHAHAH 😭💀
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Dead. 🤣
Lol relatable
INFP: *dreaming about crush, and planning a life together*
crush: hey, i like you
INFP: what?
crush: i like you
INFP: I never imagined it would happen in real life, I'm sorry, but I don't like you (only in my dreams)
Something similar to this happened to me-- My crush said he likes me and I said "Really?" like 10 times and he got annoyed and said "If you don't want to believe, okay"
don't do that, don't give me hope
That kinda happened to me too. When my crush told me that she likes me, I thought she was just joking because I never expected her to like me back. 💀
I’m an INTJ and I was told the same thing without warning or hint and my brains just smashed that overthinking button like crazy and I reply the word “Nice”. I cringe deep down inside 😂
Ok, what? How- Damn, alright you got me. This is so accurate it's not even funny... Well ok maybe a little bit