People have this weird idea of introversion. In reality, introverts are social just like everyone else, except that they become drained emotionally after extended social interaction.
The introvert relationship experience: 1. Get together from time to time at home. 2. Talk random things. 3. You doing your thing, she does her thing. 4. Play a game or two. 5. Leave. Great experience like being with your best friend and not have a different personality.
As introverts "leave me alone" is like "I need more energy" we need some time alone so we can put our mind together. But I think most of you knew that.
The best way to understand introverts, in my opinion, is like this: they recharge their emotional batteries by being alone. That doesn’t mean they don’t want to be social sometimes, it just means their alone time matters a lot more than to an extrovert.
Yeah, my bestie she’s an extrovert, we are close and she says always complajns me that we talk alot when we are together doing something or going somewhere but not after that I don’t call her that much, little does she know i have recharge after social gathering😅. I can say that this literally every introvert’s problem talking on phone is so hard😔.
Extroverts - social draining energy vampires. Actually some 80% of people are introverts. They are easily mistaken with anti social, which is in fact another category.
not quite. everyone has a certain social energy bar that they need to fill. introverts just fill that bar quicker than extroverts, and eventually that bar overflows and makes them sick. when not performing social activities that bar slowly drops until it needs to be refilled again, but on extroverts it drops a lot quicker
Why am I both??- With certain people it drains me however with a bunch of super close friends or when meeting people near my age I get super excited and energized-
@@Alpaska Most people think that there are only extroverts and introverts. However most of people in the world are ambiverts (it's like in the middle).
@@user-rd6uc2sf6i that's true. It did not worked out for me. She was too clingy like wanting to have video calls and text most of the day. I still need my alone time. 🤣
@@highlowview2780 We want to be alone but we enjoy the presence of certain people. Watching TV in a house all by yourself isn't the same as watching TV with someone in a different room, or even in the same room, just doing something else. Its the company that matters.
@@altoassassin If I got you right, you mean that having someone by your side even if they don't talk you at all, just them being with you is important to men, right?
@@altoassassin oh, I got it) But is it only when you are feeling down or smth? I mean, when would you like a girl to ask how you are doing if you are not well? Sorry for asking lots of questions, but I'm curious)
Y'all just date an introvert as well. Most of our dates are just staying in each other's houses sometimes just cuddling without talking and just recharging because we hate going outside and times where we're just doing our thing just updating each other on what we're doing. It's heaven.
See I like going outside and doing fun things. But for me, it's all about having quality time with quality people, that don't drain my energy. The wrong person can drain your whole day.
That's true af. But also that doesn't mean we can't be around you, it just means being alone together. Let me do my thing while you do yours, I'll game, you read (or whatever). That's been the best relationships I've had so far, the healthiest I mean
Hah, I just wrote down a comment and now I see yours. Exactly what I wrote. Enjoying the presence of eqch other. There's not necessarily a need for talking, just being around each other is very comfortable.
I can agree with this lol. Literally I barely talk but when I do everyone in the friend group listens cause normally it is deep. A lot of people talk to me for advice as well. I just don’t like being seen often. I like blending in and chilling at home.
Me and my husband are both introverts. I thought it would be a bad combo but I love it. We both have our alone time without the other person feeling bad. The bedroom is my safe haven and the couch is his. When we go out, there is no fuss about when it's time to go home.
Sometimes introvert wants to be alone just for a moment to think and appreciate the special person they have in life Spending time alone is a self reflection Thats the way i look at it
My friends never thought I was an introverted; since i'm super bubbly and loved to make friends when I'm out. But when I'm home. I will not pick up calls and the thoughts of stepping out of the door for a party, events, gathering is really draining.
People actually don't understand the concept of being introvert they categorize us with anti-socials , i get u buddy even when i find myself socializing it's draining to be with people all time like i need my own space cause even if socializing gets fun it totally sucks my energy i fish i could date someone like u who can handle both social situations and understand my concept of space
This exactly me, if I’m out I technically you can’t be alone so I prefer to have the company of a familiar face and when I’m home, I don’t want to be disturbed.
Yes, introverts want to be alone. But that's because introverts still want some time to themselves. Whether to clear their mind or get their energy back. Introverts require a romantic partner that understands that they still need time alone, and they shouldn't be offended or think too much about it. So introverts when you need alone time, just let your lover know that they haven't done anything wrong.
Introvert means , they don't want come out from their house , they are uncomfortable outside , if any family even is cancelled they are the happiest , they think if I go out what will other people think , if they are ignored they fell they are lonely , but when thay are in the spotlight I mean if lots of people gives that introvert attention then he/she would not like it .. and etc..
2-3 hours of having a social gathering is actually incredibly fun every now and then. But after I kinda just wanna grab a beer and watch Netflix while dozing off.
I haven't ever dated an introvert before but I've had introverted friends, and from that what I can deduce is to spend quality time when they're energized and let them "recharge" (dopamine, I believe?) so that you can have quality time again when they're ready to socialize.
As an introvert I can confirm that we say this, and the reason is because we are too comfortable alone that we sometimes mentally forget that we also want to hang out with you.
I just need some time to breathe every once in a while. I feel like I'm an unpaid method actor 24/7 Lol I need some time to take the mask off for a while.
That is very relatable I'm an Introvert myself and iv been with someone that was very clingy and wanted constant attention and I was extremely uncomfortable and very nervous and yea the relationship didn't last me long and why I'm not in a relationship now
On the surface, intro and extro are social creatures. Introverts prefers one on one interaction(small groups) and meaningful or deep conversations but because we need to recharge (by being alone) after a relative amount of social gathering, it’s morelikely that we’d try to avoid it if we don’t think the meeting is meaningful or too draining.
why does everyone keep saying this stuff without realizing that there is no one who enjoys small talk more than deep talk, or talking to groups of people instead of one. There's just some people who are better at it than others
@@shigalarson2359 not really. Introverts want deep talk but on small groups. We do want that. Although if the deep talk is too long it drains us. I admire extroverts and how they can talk like it's a marathon but at the same time most of the time people talk excessively and not everything they say is of upmost importance. People want to talk about themselves too much and thats a problem some extroverts have. In other words while it may be fun to some people to talk to largue groups. In most cases quantity sacrifices quality in the terms of the quality of a conversation. (Not everyone in the group wants to hear a monologue about your weekend, just saying) And thats a fact, it's not a criticism on extroverts.
I think the best analogy for an introvert is of a rechargeable battery, when we do something socially, that’s what drains out social battery, and not all draining is considered equal, some things like going to a wedding or large gathering are much more draining than spending the day at a friends house eating snacks and playing video games. For all you people with introverts in your life, make sure to make time so that the introvert you know can recharge ^_^
I have the exact same reaction from women except for the "I want to date you! I wanna hang out and eat junk food and watch bad movies and just open myself up to you emotionally, physically... all of that!" part.
As an introvert I love being around the people that I vibe with. I would not want to date someone who would leave me drained after spending time with them, I'd date someone who'd make me feel alive. I wouldn't really want them to leave me alone tbh
I hate talking to people because I’m not only introverted, I’m shy. But when it comes to meeting people similar to me, I’m extroverted to them as possible! When it comes to dating or relationships in general I love and cherish this person but sometimes we are drained out and prefer alone time.
as an introvert Im actually quite social, but afterwards I lay at home drained and exhausted and some days I avoid meeting people at all. Being an introvert an energy thing, not really an attitude towards people per se.
I don't think introverts would feel uncomfortable with someone they are familiar and alone with. It's mostly crowd and interaction with unfamiliar situations that drain them.
Not really what an introvert is. Introverts lose energy when they’re around more people, extroverts gain energy. Guys in general just wanna be left alone so we can just do whatever and dick around at home lol
There's another definition to introversion: Decreased sensitivity to positive emotion. Which may explain why introverts, typically, don't explode in joy when faced with positive events or good news.
@@WAZZA1235 I mean yea. If an extrovert wins 999999999$ he will most likely scream it to the world while an introvert will most likely be screaming in happiness, in their heads, while they head back home.
Andrew Huberman offers a more scientific response, check out his video on "social connection". It reminded me of social minimalism, seemed pretty similar, not about having no human contact but quality friendships. My summary on his video's that introverts actually get more dopamine in social situations than extroverts. The thing is we fill that cup a bit too much with extra interactions, we need time to reflect which increases serotonin and keeps that dopamine in check. Extroverts have lower levels so they need more social interactions to build up that meter.
"I want to be alone for a bit. But, we can be alone for a bit together. You watch your current Netflix binge, and I'll break out my Switch, and we can both be here, if we need one another."
People treat introversion like it's a character flaw in this society. Dating as an introvert is hard, because by and large people don't understand that social situations are psychologically draining for introverts. It has nothing to do with being shy, which is a character flaw. It's just how we're wired.
Once a person hits the socially exhausted point, the recovery needs begin. This is true also of the extrovert, pushed well past the limits and extent of his energy.
im definitely an introvert but this is not how it works for me. i like being around people 90% of the time, but only family/ close friends. i hate parties and places where i have to talk almost all the time.
Me bf be this way, I’m more extraverted and at first I didn’t understand and thought he didn’t love me, but now I understand he does love me he just needs his space every now and then.
i dated a extraversion social-butterfly girl, and she's clingy, whenever i ask her to leave me alone, she told me she feels like i dont like her and etc. but no, I WANT TO BUT I ALSO NEED TIME ALONE. and when she finally giives me time alone, she told me "this is basically the same as breaking up so lets break up anyway" lmao. help.
Lol ye. Don’t text me. Communication is for when we’re in each other’s presence. Otherwise, don’t message or call and if you do keep it brief. “What’s going on tomorrow” “oh ye we’re still on for that” kinda thing.
This is me right now 😶 I'm working on building my confidence at this point. I've never been with anyone and there are times when yes I want to be with the person, I want the attention, but I don't want it (if that makes sense)
Relatable as hell haha, got myself stuck in this situation rn. Except that i can't bring myself to decline their offer so I keep forcing myself to do things I feel reluctant to do.
Relationship for introverts be like: Can we just skip all that dating stuff and just go straight up to being a married couple spending lazy weekend together watching anime?
I don't think that's what "I want you to leave me alone" means. We can spend time with you. We also have the potential of being clingy if we are extremely comfortable around you. But we need space. Alot of it. And if we are going on a date, the place should be empty so we will book the whole restaurant.
I am an introvert and i actually don’t know anything about dating. But one thing i know for sure is that before getting into a relationship, one thing is a must. And that is 'being honest'. Because I believe your life partner has tge right to know the true you. It is my self developed view.
People have this weird idea of introversion. In reality, introverts are social just like everyone else, except that they become drained emotionally after extended social interaction.
Exactly shy doesn't equal introvert
not everyone else is equally social lol
This is precisely me. Im fine interacting socially, for a while, then my social battery runs out and I just wanna go home and do my own thing lol
That's exactly me. I can't handle too much brightness and noise
I’m introverted and it’s worse because I have social anxiety also 😂😭
I heard one guy say it perfectly "We don't want to be alone we want to be undisturbed".
Yup, that's about right 👍
Exactly 💯
well said.
YES!
This is it! Perfectly
The introvert relationship experience:
1. Get together from time to time at home.
2. Talk random things.
3. You doing your thing, she does her thing.
4. Play a game or two.
5. Leave.
Great experience like being with your best friend and not have a different personality.
How about going to the park or the beach and find quiet place to eat snacks ☺️
@@nikonp5994appsolutely not
perfect :D
Introverts don't like their energy being controlled by others
YES
This.
Perfectly stated 💯
Facts
True mannn
they just Like true people not fake who juat come 😒when they need you 🙄
"Leave me alone" is like the original sentence made for introverts.
for real for real or "I just wanna be lonely"
Yeah..
Seriously
@@Themanwithpower627 yeah🤣
As an introvert myself, I can confirm this is my favorite phrase
As introverts "leave me alone" is like "I need more energy" we need some time alone so we can put our mind together. But I think most of you knew that.
That’s true.
do you seriously think that this doesn't apply to literally everyone else?
@@shigalarson2359 Idk man I still learn but thanks for telling me appreciate ya.
@@shigalarson2359 Well, it sometimes doesn't. What is more common is introverts having LESS social tolerance.
I only have so much energy to pretend I give a shit about mundane meaningless shit.
The best way to understand introverts, in my opinion, is like this: they recharge their emotional batteries by being alone. That doesn’t mean they don’t want to be social sometimes, it just means their alone time matters a lot more than to an extrovert.
Yeah, my bestie she’s an extrovert, we are close and she says always complajns me that we talk alot when we are together doing something or going somewhere but not after that I don’t call her that much, little does she know i have recharge after social gathering😅. I can say that this literally every introvert’s problem talking on phone is so hard😔.
Introverts: spend energy in social interactions
Extroverts: gain energy from social interactions
Hope I clarified some things
Extroverts - social draining energy vampires. Actually some 80% of people are introverts. They are easily mistaken with anti social, which is in fact another category.
not quite. everyone has a certain social energy bar that they need to fill. introverts just fill that bar quicker than extroverts, and eventually that bar overflows and makes them sick.
when not performing social activities that bar slowly drops until it needs to be refilled again, but on extroverts it drops a lot quicker
Why am I both??- With certain people it drains me however with a bunch of super close friends or when meeting people near my age I get super excited and energized-
@@Alpaska that's just called being around people you like vs people u don't🤷
@@Alpaska Most people think that there are only extroverts and introverts. However most of people in the world are ambiverts (it's like in the middle).
Being an introvert that dated an extrovert, this is 100% accurate. 🤣
I think that's the best combination. It evens out in a good way, in my experience at least. I don't think I could be with another introvert lol
Dating an extrovert was hell.
@@user-rd6uc2sf6i that's true. It did not worked out for me. She was too clingy like wanting to have video calls and text most of the day. I still need my alone time. 🤣
@@ralphmagtibay17 that sounds like torture...
@@kaytee7607 it was. Haha
“Men want to be alone but not by ourselves” - Patrice 🐐
How does that work?
@@highlowview2780 We want to be alone but we enjoy the presence of certain people. Watching TV in a house all by yourself isn't the same as watching TV with someone in a different room, or even in the same room, just doing something else. Its the company that matters.
@@altoassassin If I got you right, you mean that having someone by your side even if they don't talk you at all, just them being with you is important to men, right?
@@highlowview2780 Exactly. I think of it as comfortable silence
@@altoassassin oh, I got it)
But is it only when you are feeling down or smth? I mean, when would you like a girl to ask how you are doing if you are not well?
Sorry for asking lots of questions, but I'm curious)
Y'all just date an introvert as well. Most of our dates are just staying in each other's houses sometimes just cuddling without talking and just recharging because we hate going outside and times where we're just doing our thing just updating each other on what we're doing. It's heaven.
Yyyyyup. I get really confused when my wife wants to be taken out on dates because I just love being home with no plans at all.
Boring ash
See I like going outside and doing fun things. But for me, it's all about having quality time with quality people, that don't drain my energy. The wrong person can drain your whole day.
its not easy to find one that financially stablr
Must be nice to find a fellow introvert that you can be introverty with. ❤
In introvert words : I need some alone time to recharge my battery
I am an introvert and partly agree with this. I can talk and be cool, but man, after 20 minutes of it I just want everyone to vanish.
I do that, and then listen to linkin park after
Fr after a good time of talking I just want to sorta daydream and be left alone
mood
That's because you don't really like THOSE people. You won't feel drained around someone you do like.
@jacobtorma2490 lies brother, you could be close still wanna go off 😮💨
That's true af. But also that doesn't mean we can't be around you, it just means being alone together. Let me do my thing while you do yours, I'll game, you read (or whatever). That's been the best relationships I've had so far, the healthiest I mean
Yes, that's absolutely perfect. We just need some time without talking and paying constant attention to each other.
True we introverts just need our space it exhaust me having to deal with someone 24/7 after socialising I need to recharge my social battery
Hah, I just wrote down a comment and now I see yours. Exactly what I wrote. Enjoying the presence of eqch other. There's not necessarily a need for talking, just being around each other is very comfortable.
@@VictorAGDTrades absolutely. We want to be around people, it's just draining for us even if we like/love them
@@Southpaw22 yes its a good feeling isn't it? Knowing that someone can matter but not needing to be all over them.
“But i also want you to leave me alone” 😂😂 that’s the part where only introverts understand
Real introverts be like: *falls asleep after doing all of those things and does nothing for the next three months*
Yes. My bf had a shock when we moved in together and I was like: "Ok, I will go to read now for 2 hours, alone... I love you! See ya!" 🤣
Are you the introvert?
That sounds so ideal to me.
@@chambeet Haha. That's perfect! From time to time we need time just to sit with our thoughts.
@@scorpionwins6378 yes:)
I wonder how it is when Female is very extroverted and male is introverted (not that much) but enough to be alone, women taaalk so much lol
Introverts live more in their mind than others. They are great thinkers.
I can agree with this lol. Literally I barely talk but when I do everyone in the friend group listens cause normally it is deep. A lot of people talk to me for advice as well. I just don’t like being seen often. I like blending in and chilling at home.
Me and my husband are both introverts. I thought it would be a bad combo but I love it. We both have our alone time without the other person feeling bad. The bedroom is my safe haven and the couch is his. When we go out, there is no fuss about when it's time to go home.
Sometimes introvert wants to be alone just for a moment to think and appreciate the special person they have in life
Spending time alone is a self reflection
Thats the way i look at it
My friends never thought I was an introverted; since i'm super bubbly and loved to make friends when I'm out. But when I'm home. I will not pick up calls and the thoughts of stepping out of the door for a party, events, gathering is really draining.
People actually don't understand the concept of being introvert they categorize us with anti-socials , i get u buddy even when i find myself socializing it's draining to be with people all time like i need my own space cause even if socializing gets fun it totally sucks my energy i fish i could date someone like u who can handle both social situations and understand my concept of space
Omg drain gang drain gang
I think you're ambiverted?
This exactly me, if I’m out I technically you can’t be alone so I prefer to have the company of a familiar face and when I’m home, I don’t want to be disturbed.
U and me are the same 😄
I feel called out 😂💀
😭😭😭I feel you 😭😭😭pls just understand 🤣🤣🤣
Well that's how we are
SAMEE
Same here 😔
Lol
Yes, introverts want to be alone. But that's because introverts still want some time to themselves. Whether to clear their mind or get their energy back. Introverts require a romantic partner that understands that they still need time alone, and they shouldn't be offended or think too much about it. So introverts when you need alone time, just let your lover know that they haven't done anything wrong.
The problem is that people confuse being socially inept with being introverted when although sometimes people are both its not always the case.
When Introvert dates Extrovert: 👁👄👁
Yes! Lol
perfect balance? How do they fit lol
100%
The Struggle Is Real
It's exhausting
Yeaa..when we said "Leave me alone" it doesn't mean forever. Sometimes, you need to give us a chance to stay in our
imaginary world.
That’s how I feel most of the time lol
Same as me
Yup, we need time to recharge.
Extroverts are like energy vampires. Introverts are more like regular vampires lol
We sometimes need alone time to keep our sanity high
100% accurate, i need time to recharge and i can't do that surrounded by other people.
I want to be left alone but at the same time, I want to be social but I just can't. Being an introvert is painful at times
Me to
@@JohnDoe-bt9qpwtf u talking about?
@@dereks6276 nothing
Introvert means , they don't want come out from their house , they are uncomfortable outside , if any family even is cancelled they are the happiest , they think if I go out what will other people think , if they are ignored they fell they are lonely , but when thay are in the spotlight I mean if lots of people gives that introvert attention then he/she would not like it .. and etc..
Spot on! 😭
2-3 hours of having a social gathering is actually incredibly fun every now and then. But after I kinda just wanna grab a beer and watch Netflix while dozing off.
I haven't ever dated an introvert before but I've had introverted friends, and from that what I can deduce is to spend quality time when they're energized and let them "recharge" (dopamine, I believe?) so that you can have quality time again when they're ready to socialize.
As an introvert and a man I can co sign this lol
Extrovert+introvert couples tend to fail. But extrovert+introvert friendship is the best
That is 100% accurate😂
"Watch bad movies"
I know what you did there, lol.
2019 me: extrovert. Loves people
2021-2022 me: social anxiety,depression. Introvert
The same for me
As an introvert I can confirm that we say this, and the reason is because we are too comfortable alone that we sometimes mentally forget that we also want to hang out with you.
Haha im an extrovert alpha male
@@mihagames2757 hahahahahaha
I just need some time to breathe every once in a while. I feel like I'm an unpaid method actor 24/7 Lol I need some time to take the mask off for a while.
@@ermacjones4821 i feel like i am the most paid protagonist 24/7
I totally understand this. My man is like that sometimes it's crazy
I love having long conversations with one other person. Three is a crowd.
I'm married. People that are okay with introverts exist. As long as they trust you, you being alone doesn't bother them a bit. 💜
are u really sure they exist?
(asking for a friend :D:D:D)
My husband and I. Lol! I'm more extroverted than him. But I need time to recharge. And he's okay with that. 😊
This is so me 😂 unfortunately its not so easy for some people to understand
Introvert and like being alone, except with my gf. Can be with her all the time. Doesn’t feel like a social interaction. Feels like home to me.
Lucky
That is very relatable I'm an Introvert myself and iv been with someone that was very clingy and wanted constant attention and I was extremely uncomfortable and very nervous and yea the relationship didn't last me long and why I'm not in a relationship now
On the surface, intro and extro are social creatures. Introverts prefers one on one interaction(small groups) and meaningful or deep conversations but because we need to recharge (by being alone) after a relative amount of social gathering, it’s morelikely that we’d try to avoid it if we don’t think the meeting is meaningful or too draining.
why does everyone keep saying this stuff without realizing that there is no one who enjoys small talk more than deep talk, or talking to groups of people instead of one. There's just some people who are better at it than others
@@shigalarson2359 not really. Introverts want deep talk but on small groups. We do want that. Although if the deep talk is too long it drains us. I admire extroverts and how they can talk like it's a marathon but at the same time most of the time people talk excessively and not everything they say is of upmost importance. People want to talk about themselves too much and thats a problem some extroverts have. In other words while it may be fun to some people to talk to largue groups. In most cases quantity sacrifices quality in the terms of the quality of a conversation. (Not everyone in the group wants to hear a monologue about your weekend, just saying) And thats a fact, it's not a criticism on extroverts.
I think the best analogy for an introvert is of a rechargeable battery, when we do something socially, that’s what drains out social battery, and not all draining is considered equal, some things like going to a wedding or large gathering are much more draining than spending the day at a friends house eating snacks and playing video games. For all you people with introverts in your life, make sure to make time so that the introvert you know can recharge ^_^
For something that totally makes sense, i laughed way too much at this.
Hahaha, this face at the end xD
I have the exact same reaction from women except for the "I want to date you! I wanna hang out and eat junk food and watch bad movies and just open myself up to you emotionally, physically... all of that!" part.
pain
Don't we all 😔
This one didn't click right away, but when it did...yeah, that's about right here too.
It's gonna be fine brother
I don't get any reaction from women, since they don't talk to me anyways lol. It's been like this since i was 12. I am now 22. Lol.
As an introvert I love being around the people that I vibe with. I would not want to date someone who would leave me drained after spending time with them, I'd date someone who'd make me feel alive. I wouldn't really want them to leave me alone tbh
Me too!! 🥹🥹
im a introvert and then when i do i presentation im like “THIS PRESENTATION IS ABOUT -🗣️”
I hate talking to people because I’m not only introverted, I’m shy. But when it comes to meeting people similar to me, I’m extroverted to them as possible! When it comes to dating or relationships in general I love and cherish this person but sometimes we are drained out and prefer alone time.
Alone time is important, but so is being able to share interests with your SO.
as an introvert Im actually quite social, but afterwards I lay at home drained and exhausted and some days I avoid meeting people at all. Being an introvert an energy thing, not really an attitude towards people per se.
We hanging out maximum two hours at a time. I need to recharge my introvert batteries. Ha
This is totally accurate!!!
I don't think introverts would feel uncomfortable with someone they are familiar and alone with. It's mostly crowd and interaction with unfamiliar situations that drain them.
Not really what an introvert is. Introverts lose energy when they’re around more people, extroverts gain energy. Guys in general just wanna be left alone so we can just do whatever and dick around at home lol
Not all guys are like that. Some are always trying to hang out.
@@dukeonwheels I’m guessing you can’t read, or at least not the part where I said in general in regards to a specific situation
There's another definition to introversion: Decreased sensitivity to positive emotion. Which may explain why introverts, typically, don't explode in joy when faced with positive events or good news.
@@WAZZA1235 I mean yea. If an extrovert wins 999999999$ he will most likely scream it to the world while an introvert will most likely be screaming in happiness, in their heads, while they head back home.
Andrew Huberman offers a more scientific response, check out his video on "social connection". It reminded me of social minimalism, seemed pretty similar, not about having no human contact but quality friendships.
My summary on his video's that introverts actually get more dopamine in social situations than extroverts. The thing is we fill that cup a bit too much with extra interactions, we need time to reflect which increases serotonin and keeps that dopamine in check. Extroverts have lower levels so they need more social interactions to build up that meter.
Nah if I date someone I just want them to stop talking for a few hours and just cuddle in silence 😂
"I want to be alone for a bit. But, we can be alone for a bit together. You watch your current Netflix binge, and I'll break out my Switch, and we can both be here, if we need one another."
People treat introversion like it's a character flaw in this society. Dating as an introvert is hard, because by and large people don't understand that social situations are psychologically draining for introverts. It has nothing to do with being shy, which is a character flaw. It's just how we're wired.
No it’s not
And God forbid you don't want to talk to extraverts. The audacity.
@@chuusenberg519yes they do i mean look at all the damn videos about introverts
I’m an extrovert 😭
i love how the girl is also the representation of the extrovert in that conversation
My real life is opposite. I want to date but also....I'm like...back off...haha! Sometimes. If I'm getting 24/7 texts ..from men. Which I do! A lot! 😆
I am so introverted my parents think I'm mentally ill 💀
Once a person hits the socially exhausted point, the recovery needs begin. This is true also of the extrovert, pushed well past the limits and extent of his energy.
im definitely an introvert but this is not how it works for me. i like being around people 90% of the time, but only family/ close friends. i hate parties and places where i have to talk almost all the time.
Preach it girl. Some introverts though are more emotional needy so they need to be reminded to give more detached introverts quality alone time.
Me bf be this way, I’m more extraverted and at first I didn’t understand and thought he didn’t love me, but now I understand he does love me he just needs his space every now and then.
i dated a extraversion social-butterfly girl, and she's clingy, whenever i ask her to leave me alone, she told me she feels like i dont like her and etc. but no, I WANT TO BUT I ALSO NEED TIME ALONE. and when she finally giives me time alone, she told me "this is basically the same as breaking up so lets break up anyway" lmao. help.
Yep, I'm definitely an introvert because what she said about breaking up makes me feel sad. Like "No you don't get it!"
Lol ye. Don’t text me. Communication is for when we’re in each other’s presence. Otherwise, don’t message or call and if you do keep it brief. “What’s going on tomorrow” “oh ye we’re still on for that” kinda thing.
Yep as a introvert this is 100% true
As an introvert myself, I can genuinely confirm that this is 100% accurate.
This is me right now 😶 I'm working on building my confidence at this point. I've never been with anyone and there are times when yes I want to be with the person, I want the attention, but I don't want it (if that makes sense)
This is so funny!!😂💜🦋
“…see bad movies. Sneak a beer and watch TV.” 🤧
And now I feel sorry for any girl I might date in the future. 😂
After hanging out: see yall later later.
After 2 weeks: where we going yall?
Relate to this on a emotional damage unstable level
This is true.
We require more ' alone time ' than your typically use too..
Relatable as hell haha, got myself stuck in this situation rn. Except that i can't bring myself to decline their offer so I keep forcing myself to do things I feel reluctant to do.
ON POINT 😭
Relationship for introverts be like: Can we just skip all that dating stuff and just go straight up to being a married couple spending lazy weekend together watching anime?
😂 yes I love you, now please leave me alone
This is very accurate. Only introverts will understand each other.
Earlyyyyy!!!!! And this is so true🤣
the perfect loop doesn’t exi-
We're also selective of who we spend our time with and when, where can be a factor too
This is true
We require more “alone time” then your typically use too
It's me !! 😂😂
This is so me. 😂
Plz help me 😓
80 minutes of social interaction every day at best
and if i'm in a good mood
She explained myself better than me 💀
I'm gonna send this to my girl i dont have confidence to say this offline😅
THE PERFECT LOOP DOESN'T EXIS-... ::
"i needed some lone times sometimes...."
I’d say I get too much alone time, kinda just breaks me mentally
Introverts are negative feedback loops and extroverts are positive feedback loops.
Introverts are extroverts just need more breaks to recgarge
I don't think that's what "I want you to leave me alone" means. We can spend time with you. We also have the potential of being clingy if we are extremely comfortable around you. But we need space. Alot of it. And if we are going on a date, the place should be empty so we will book the whole restaurant.
sure do that but be sure to leave a 1000% tip for all the income youre taking away from the waiters :P
Seems like a win-win. Give introverts a chance!
It’s like when you wanna play video games for 3 hours but you want your partner to be in the same room completely in silence doing their own thing lol
my clingyness would scare them off💀💀
I am an introvert and i actually don’t know anything about dating. But one thing i know for sure is that before getting into a relationship, one thing is a must. And that is 'being honest'. Because I believe your life partner has tge right to know the true you.
It is my self developed view.