I tried to 'Cold Approach' girls as an Introvert (Difficulty: Impossible)

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  • @DylanMcKnight
    @DylanMcKnight  ปีที่แล้ว +5957

    W or L rizz?
    10K Likes and I’ll do this again, but with a lot more girls lol. Also saw some comments about my appearance and how I’m looking a bit ‘better’ and how I did it. It’s really a combination of cutting (I’ve lost 20lbs of fat) as well as I’ve gotten into looksmaxxing incase you’ve missed my previous videos. Could also be because I bought a new camera, so the quality and visuals are definitely upgraded! Anyways, thanks for watching and hopefully this inspires at least a couple of you guys to approach a girl or two ❤️
    The book I used to looksmaxx: www.facialgains.com/dylanmcknight
    My workout program: dylansprogram.com
    Please use code ‘DYLAN’ for your Gorilla Mind supplements ❤️

    • @ccsurep
      @ccsurep ปีที่แล้ว +44

      What happend to Aubrey 😯

    • @ccsurep
      @ccsurep ปีที่แล้ว +223

      W rizz

    • @gamtoszinios1336
      @gamtoszinios1336 ปีที่แล้ว

      1di0t watch scott primal

    • @soylentgr33n
      @soylentgr33n ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Just make a connor murphy style video where you pretend to be a nerd and then show girls your abs ahahha

    • @calvn8or543
      @calvn8or543 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Absolute W

  • @rida7757
    @rida7757 ปีที่แล้ว +48254

    brotha absolutely crushed that first approach after just saying he couldn’t walk up to girls at all 🤣🤣🤣

    • @eb_tigers0775
      @eb_tigers0775 ปีที่แล้ว

      m.th-cam.com/video/uZdv-TtiMkg/w-d-xo.html

    • @Lucid132
      @Lucid132 ปีที่แล้ว +992

      Fr making me feel so much more single

    • @digitalsage5636
      @digitalsage5636 ปีที่แล้ว +680

      Bro said our kids would have pythons😂

    • @chickentoucher55
      @chickentoucher55 ปีที่แล้ว +220

      He sounded like a ai

    • @andeemengaming5000
      @andeemengaming5000 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      @@Bocchi347bro no the girls reaction was negligible notice the way he spoke. good face doesnt give you that

  • @freejae3884
    @freejae3884 ปีที่แล้ว +14951

    Bro caught feelings on the first attempt 💀💀

    • @Kqmren
      @Kqmren 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +456

      lmao frl, had to stop the video right then and there

    • @paulo0651
      @paulo0651 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +253

      Yeah and probably surpassed the line when he said "our kids would have pythons" to a teenager💀

    • @StepJoJo
      @StepJoJo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +231

      @@paulo0651 teenager? trying to frame the guy or what?

    • @paulo0651
      @paulo0651 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

      @@StepJoJo I was joking bro, she's 19 and legal ofc

    • @REALGAMING2016
      @REALGAMING2016 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      😂😂😂😂 homie somehow killed the first convo lmao

  • @Worldexplorer2390
    @Worldexplorer2390 ปีที่แล้ว +15268

    Sophie contributed and engaged in the conversation. Not a lot of girls do that.

    • @GlobeofBeauty
      @GlobeofBeauty ปีที่แล้ว +720

      Hardly everrrrr bro. If you get a girl to ask you a question back she a keeper

    • @RaysocialM5
      @RaysocialM5 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      @@GlobeofBeautyidk bout a keeper bruh I will go far to say far from it bruh

    • @Tony-tk4ht
      @Tony-tk4ht ปีที่แล้ว +352

      bro i just cold aproached a girl that i liked at the gym. my inner demons were trying to make me fold but i walked up and said hey and just let the vibe carry through. endend up inviting her to get a smoothie afterwards and she accepted. felt great

    • @wolfeloma
      @wolfeloma ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@RaysocialM5 more like a friend theres not always a chance

    • @nelli5168
      @nelli5168 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      if girls don't contribute to convos w u thats entirely on you bro

  • @ISOUI9
    @ISOUI9 ปีที่แล้ว +5785

    When he said "i rather charge into battle with a sword and shield instead of approaching a girl right now" I felt for him

    • @UgasInk
      @UgasInk ปีที่แล้ว +184

      Nah I felt him. I understood. Infact I agreed.

    • @Zenikai_
      @Zenikai_ ปีที่แล้ว +14

      i thought he was gonna finish that clip by walking up to the people in front of him LOL

    • @Εφταστερος
      @Εφταστερος ปีที่แล้ว +47

      It's always easier for an introvert to have a cause, a serious reason for doing something rather than making small talk and trying to socialize with others. I feel him.

    • @verlax8956
      @verlax8956 ปีที่แล้ว

      @AzureWolf168and anjme

    • @AlbertWesker_GOAT
      @AlbertWesker_GOAT ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@ΕφταστεροςThat's why I haven't had casual sex with women, I don't want to have sex just for the sake of it and I can't lie about it, the day I talk to a girl it will be because I'm dying to be with her and have a real relationship.

  • @eriksniped5111
    @eriksniped5111 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4191

    "I can't get girls"
    Bro if he tried:

    • @realwii.e1
      @realwii.e1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

      me if i tried: x_x

    • @pikd7454
      @pikd7454 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      how do i repost a youtube comment xd

    • @Real6002
      @Real6002 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@realwii.e1 literally me lol

    • @fggfdfg3525
      @fggfdfg3525 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Red pill man sucks, they don’t believe in the astral dimension, that’s why they suck.

    • @Crester_Green411
      @Crester_Green411 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@realwii.e1me not being jacked or good looking if I tried

  • @blushiro29
    @blushiro29 ปีที่แล้ว +10023

    sophie and dylan were a perfect match, that first approach was incredible, who agrees with me

    • @the1337fleet
      @the1337fleet ปีที่แล้ว +240

      I would have liked your comment, but asking for validation and asking who agrees made me not want to
      But I agree with you

    • @suryanshtripathi6249
      @suryanshtripathi6249 ปีที่แล้ว +121

      ​@@the1337fleetdude chill its a like you are not paying him😂

    • @akaTandy
      @akaTandy ปีที่แล้ว +78

      @@the1337fleetbros a menace for no reason 😂

    • @the1337fleet
      @the1337fleet ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@akaTandy 😂

    • @ASTR0TALKSPHILOSOPHY
      @ASTR0TALKSPHILOSOPHY ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Women will never reject a man no matter how shy he is, you need to talk to her more. She will only reject you in private, women are social creatures.

  • @Ouzyman
    @Ouzyman 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2347

    He broke character so fast😂. He was like "fuck acting, she's fine"

    • @yamashita7578
      @yamashita7578 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      lmao

    • @C-64
      @C-64 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      One of us my ass, mf is built

    • @Gir-granat
      @Gir-granat 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Time?

    • @skdhak739
      @skdhak739 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      exactly, felt so un-Introvert

    • @C-64
      @C-64 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Ouzyman he deleted my comment exposing him

  • @HoaQuach-c1k
    @HoaQuach-c1k 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +5095

    There's a book called Flirtosphere Seduction on Vexoner, and it talks from body language and conversation starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal

  • @TheBritishPatriot
    @TheBritishPatriot ปีที่แล้ว +9430

    There’s no way in hell you’re introverted, you were so confident and casual.

    • @williamredpath861
      @williamredpath861 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Exactly, it's all fake nonsense. The man is the embodiment of narcissistic. Introverts don't video themselves working out. Introverts find it hard filming themselves in any capacity. This guy knows he's tall, buff and good looking. It's naivety to believe otherwise.

    • @CHUCKZ2
      @CHUCKZ2 ปีที่แล้ว +1553

      It seems that way. Not all Introverts are bad at socializing People always confuse all introverts with being bad at socializing, but I can tell you he’s using every last piece of mental energy to keep up with the conversation. I speak from experience. I can see through his lines. I can easily come off as a extrovert myself, but I have social anxiety, doesn’t mean I can’t come off casual and not be able to speak.

    • @lalosalamanca8574
      @lalosalamanca8574 ปีที่แล้ว +206

      ​@@CHUCKZ2 it was scripted. She looked like she knew him. I cold approaches thousands it's never that smooth and she was way too comfortable for a stranger

    • @lalosalamanca8574
      @lalosalamanca8574 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@CHUCKZ2you guys are autistic believe everything

    • @P.Aurélien
      @P.Aurélien ปีที่แล้ว +228

      I’m an introvert too and i can handle a conversation but after that, i am extremely tired and need to be lonely

  • @PARCE93
    @PARCE93 ปีที่แล้ว +4525

    Out of all the “cold approaching” videos, this one was the most genuine & best one I’ve seen. No cheesy pickup lines, no forced chatter, no creepy vibes, no over the top gimmicks. It was a genuine interaction. I know it made you uncomfortable, but you killed that. Just remember that you are going to eventually come across someone who will turn you down, so don’t let that break your spirit.

    • @iwantcake7703
      @iwantcake7703 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Very creepy sounding brah 😭

    • @fanatic4747
      @fanatic4747 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@iwantcake7703how?

    • @tyx0x0ty
      @tyx0x0ty ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@iwantcake7703 how dude

    • @iwantcake7703
      @iwantcake7703 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@tyx0x0ty its just so incredibly off-putting how he words things. He directly said "i've been watching you," lmfaoo

    • @McDonaldReagan
      @McDonaldReagan ปีที่แล้ว +73

      @@iwantcake7703 it was clear he was being sarcastic. she even played along and responded that she watched him every single day. You probably haven't talked to many girls though so it's understandable for you to miss things like that.

  • @Patrony762
    @Patrony762 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +501

    >Challenges himself to talk to a hundred girls
    >Do one
    >Succeeds once
    >Gives up
    >returns lifting in the gym

    • @pjplaysgaming367
      @pjplaysgaming367 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      At least he ended on a high note.

    • @chc2650
      @chc2650 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Infield pickup speed run

    • @oliverpyide7748
      @oliverpyide7748 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Absolute chad

  • @jakefitzfitness
    @jakefitzfitness ปีที่แล้ว +4268

    What a wholesome guy. He found a girl he likes and stops pursuing other women. Respect brother ✊🏼

    • @97itachiuchiha
      @97itachiuchiha ปีที่แล้ว +107

      @@dwex8596 Become dwarfpilled

    • @ts6603
      @ts6603 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      over for guys like us@@dwex8596

    • @elpatron7185
      @elpatron7185 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@dwex8596😮😮😮😮😅😅😅😅😊😊😊🎉🎉

    • @keithtorrence2487
      @keithtorrence2487 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Well he actually kept going after but he didn’t have the stones and had to stop.

    • @sxteya
      @sxteya 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      ​@@dwex8596hit the gym then bro even if you are short

  • @liamflynn6929
    @liamflynn6929 ปีที่แล้ว +8594

    Dude that was an INSANE first attempt at cold approach. Seriously, I've never seen one go so well. Keep it up bro.

    • @skirtinbed9923
      @skirtinbed9923 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      My thoughts exactly... He came off perfectly I'd say, pretty genuine and brave

    • @skirtinbed9923
      @skirtinbed9923 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Most I've been able to manage was walking up, asking for a number straight away nervous af, and then getting rejected. Since then been to scared

    • @ricpo8683
      @ricpo8683 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Goes well when you pay the girl to be in your video and give her the script beforehand, how naive are you?

    • @doernbecherr
      @doernbecherr ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Honestly I think her being responsive and being engaged in conversation with him is what really helped it go well. Still good on Dylan’s part cause he was pretty smooth talking to her but it’s always helpful when a girl at least acts enthusiastic, as a guy trying to ask out a girl

    • @Theeelp1
      @Theeelp1 ปีที่แล้ว

      ⁠@@doernbecherrhe was just being himself not particularly smooth I’d say I think in general the initial nerves obstructs us guys from being ourselves when approaching a female.

  • @Frontfight
    @Frontfight ปีที่แล้ว +7287

    Nah that’s awesome Dylan. After seeing that first interaction I thought you’d be insane not to follow through with that girl. What a gem. No shame honestly in cutting the video short.

    • @ZugZug99
      @ZugZug99 ปีที่แล้ว +138

      18 is kinda young for a 23 year old man. As a 24 year old guy I have to be honest I wouldn't really want to go younger than 21-22. Not necessarily an issue with the age itself but more about things like experience and maturity and expectations that come with being a little bit older

    • @JohnHughesTR
      @JohnHughesTR ปีที่แล้ว +332

      ​@@ZugZug9918 is not to young lmao, if both are comfortable with the age gap then no age gap is too big assuming both are above 18 ofc

    • @davidaustin8424
      @davidaustin8424 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      @@ZugZug99I’ve been 29, dated a 19 year old for a year and a half (obviously started dating at 19) and the answer is: IT DEPENDS! Age difference can be a perfectly fine thing but can also have its own set of issues. Just depends on the individuals. I’ve seen 18 year olds that act 30 and vice versa. So it’s very dependent on the individual 🤷‍♂️ regardless, they’re fun in the sack so rearrange those guts and if she’s got the type of personality you wanna keep around then do it 🤷‍♂️

    • @TRENMATO
      @TRENMATO ปีที่แล้ว

      man shut up@@ZugZug99

    • @6ixXxnonymous
      @6ixXxnonymous ปีที่แล้ว

      @@davidaustin8424💀

  • @txrbam
    @txrbam 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

    I’m depressed asf, but watching another guy pull a girl actually put a smile on my face. It’s the ultimate uplift to see another guy actually get a girl bro. Wish it was that easy for me💪.

    • @JugglingJuggalos
      @JugglingJuggalos 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Right? Like a goddamn reality tv show

  • @itsOrba
    @itsOrba ปีที่แล้ว +7332

    Bro found his wife in the first 30 seconds

  • @grumplin
    @grumplin ปีที่แล้ว +2818

    I think the thing holding most guys back from doing this is the fear that some people think this kind of approach isn't socially acceptable. I know that's why I don't.

    • @EthanDBG
      @EthanDBG ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s because it’s scary. It’s our own minds preventing us, not society

    • @mangarwts
      @mangarwts ปีที่แล้ว +146

      I jus think am not good enough, and I think that's the case actually, it's why I want to become the most superior version of myself so everyone will acknowledge me...

    • @TheRealOG007
      @TheRealOG007 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      @@mangarwts Do It for yourself, not for others

    • @Kumari_44
      @Kumari_44 ปีที่แล้ว +153

      @@TheRealOG007lets be honest. we all do it for others to some degree. And thats okay. It’s just that you should do it for yourself more, thats all.

    • @Kumari_44
      @Kumari_44 ปีที่แล้ว

      Its deffo socially acceptable, though the evil feminists and evil media are trying to brainwash our young girls and boys into thinking it isnt, and that rotting their brain away on sad, fake apps like instagram is the new way to connect with people. I’ll always speak to girls in real life nomatter what. We’re human beings, not socially retarded islands who should be distant from one another. As long as theyre respectful. Theres nothing wrong whatsoever with a human being simply talking to another human being.

  • @arshie26
    @arshie26 ปีที่แล้ว +3001

    Wow Sophie feels like a dream. She loves to work out, she seems intelligent, great chemistry, and she loves that he's cold approaching.
    Dylan, I wish that you would have kept approaching. Chunk out the goal, dude! Do 10 approaches per day. It would be seriously inspirational to watch you work through them.

    • @noxlousxsolo9724
      @noxlousxsolo9724 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      And she is a teenager!

    • @k2c534
      @k2c534 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@noxlousxsolo9724Ok?

    • @moonlight-zt7pi
      @moonlight-zt7pi ปีที่แล้ว +117

      @@noxlousxsolo9724you’ve commented a couple times about her age. a little bit odd to focus on it. hopefully you’re not older than mid-late 20s, otherwise this just comes off as creepy…

    • @zura898
      @zura898 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      @@Jk-qx7gm Such a random accusation wtf lol

    • @zura898
      @zura898 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Jk-qx7gm First of all that dude isn't even east asian lol. And you sound like one of those insecure dudes who shit on asian men to make themselves feel superior. Im asian and I'm not like that in the slightest. Plenty of asian changs out there

  • @Ziggle-ky9kv
    @Ziggle-ky9kv 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2481

    There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal

    • @lonestarr1490
      @lonestarr1490 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      Nah, I don't want to "manipulate" them. I'm after smart ones who would see right through this shit anyway.
      I also don't need to manipulate them, since I'm legitimately awesome. All I need is a proper chance to prove that. And since this is a highly situational ordeal, no book will help me with that. Especially not one that promises me to make some kind of deranged puppet master out of me.

    • @leonyarkin8797
      @leonyarkin8797 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You know where i can find it? Theres is no sign of that book in internet.

    • @bilbo_gamers6417
      @bilbo_gamers6417 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      dark mind tricks otherwise known as talking to them and being nice to them while occasionally making a joke at their expense in good fun

    • @eulalawrence1222
      @eulalawrence1222 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Bot

    • @monfrecher9449
      @monfrecher9449 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@leonyarkin8797it doesn't exist

  • @iBrianful
    @iBrianful ปีที่แล้ว +990

    Honestly that first girl made it easy for him, he gained mad confidence after that.

    • @TheCentennial4
      @TheCentennial4 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +91

      Swear down if every girl acted like she did, it would be so easy.

    • @Music_From_Soniva
      @Music_From_Soniva 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

      "the first girl" bro that was the only girl💀

    • @ElsyOO366
      @ElsyOO366 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Music_From_Soniva proof they didn't watch full video

    • @edurangelcastro3671
      @edurangelcastro3671 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Music_From_SonivaxD

    • @dorikin333
      @dorikin333 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      @@TheCentennial4This is kinda why I think having “game” or “rizz” is kind of a myth. Cause when someone is actually interested in talking to you and is contributing to the conversation and is giving u shit to work with, it’s very easy have “rizz” in that type of situation. But when most women you talk to are giving you one word answers it’s very hard to be charming.

  • @djnathaniel2699
    @djnathaniel2699 ปีที่แล้ว +3197

    Introversion doesn't mean social anxiety or being bad in social situations - it just means you need more alone time to recharge your social battery. Never use introversion as an excuse to be bad at socializing, and you can be just as confident as Dylan is in this video.

    • @MrLeeStories
      @MrLeeStories ปีที่แล้ว +110

      Bingo bango you got it. I’m highly introverted, but still do ok in social situations. I 100 percent thrive in my alone time.

    • @zazazaza9693
      @zazazaza9693 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      In my case I have high anxiety issues, I'm always paranoid and I'm a introvert with trust issues. Still do fine with socializing irl and I've grown to have over 200 irl friends.

    • @MrLeeStories
      @MrLeeStories ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@zazazaza9693 you have over 200 friends?

    • @MrLeeStories
      @MrLeeStories ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@zazazaza9693 but you still maintain 200 relationships like that? Me being very-very introverted; I find it impossible to do that. For me that is.

    • @zazazaza9693
      @zazazaza9693 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@MrLeeStories yeah, I became popular at school for being the funny person who does random stuff and always gets in trouble lol plus I'm 6 feet in 7th grade, I just force myself to talk and push myself out of my comfort zone, I have over 200 friends that i normally talk to, girls and boys, I first bacame popular by association bc i knew a lot of popular ppl from my school then I soon became popular and known around the whole school. I'm still a extrovert and rather not talk to anyone and sometimes it slips put for a day or 2 and I just talk and I seem some what depressed but Noone knows about my anxiety and stuff I think.

  • @marigi2013
    @marigi2013 ปีที่แล้ว +2333

    Being attractive is 80% of the battle with talking to women, if not more, and you proved that today. You’re doing great keep going strong

    • @leaflet7738
      @leaflet7738 ปีที่แล้ว +221

      It’s definitely thoughts like this that hold most guys back. If you didn’t notice, Sophie was really engaged and found a common link between them. He even said in the video he tried to approach other women and it didn’t work. If you stop thinking of women as shallow empty heads, then you’ll see that there really isn’t a one size fits all method in dating.

    • @nubu9636
      @nubu9636 ปีที่แล้ว +323

      @@leaflet7738 she literally assumed that he goes to the gym because he looks like he does, so the conversation started due to his appearance and she found him to be her type aswell

    • @nik-q3x
      @nik-q3x ปีที่แล้ว +167

      @@leaflet7738 keep coping looks are one of the most important things

    • @BennDover-x3q
      @BennDover-x3q ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@nubu9636fr bro 😂😂😂

    • @BourdeoixEterno
      @BourdeoixEterno ปีที่แล้ว

      Being funny and confident attracts people bro@@nik-q3x

  • @thepeopleareawake445
    @thepeopleareawake445 ปีที่แล้ว +2273

    to be clear the first approach wasn’t HIM doing the work. Kudos to him for doing the approach but this is what natural compatibility looks like. Notice how it was effortless on both ends bc both parties WANTED to participate and engage in conversation. With the overlap in interests (fitness) it made it even easier, therefore creating attraction.
    You cant hope to have this with every interaction and it’s important to know what actually contributes to an interaction like this.
    So instead of “dude you killed it” its more like “dude you guys are a match”.
    it’s dangerous to contribute the interaction to JUST him or you will think all interactions/results you have with women only have to do with your “game” and that you have some sort of obligation to muster perfect results with EVERY girl you talk to.
    Which i will make clear, is NOT the point of dating and is why so many men end uo unhappy.
    The point is to find who you are most compatible with.
    Side note: this is why even REJECTION is good bc there was clearly an incompatibility somewhere.
    Overall, great video. Appreciate you putting yourself out there despite the discomforts!

    • @ygaaaoo
      @ygaaaoo ปีที่แล้ว +58

      100% correct 🙏🏼. I agree

    • @nicosanchez_music
      @nicosanchez_music ปีที่แล้ว +102

      If I don’t feel that mutual energy from a girl in conversation I just let it go. I hate feeling like I need to get someone’s attention or make them feel something.

    • @ltb1345
      @ltb1345 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Yeah, I've never shared any interests with a girl. Makes it hard to know what to talk about.

    • @thepeopleareawake445
      @thepeopleareawake445 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@nicosanchez_music facts

    • @novanity9611
      @novanity9611 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Preach

  • @Larxy_
    @Larxy_ ปีที่แล้ว +541

    he stopped the video because he got the girl he wanted after 1 approach

    • @gabrielascensotomas
      @gabrielascensotomas ปีที่แล้ว +31

      It's called scarcity.

    • @fighterinmkiwiscience3517
      @fighterinmkiwiscience3517 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​@@gabrielascensotomaswhat that mean?

    • @gabrielascensotomas
      @gabrielascensotomas ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@fighterinmkiwiscience3517 It means that you don't have many options and stick to the first girl that you encounter

    • @MineySim
      @MineySim ปีที่แล้ว +85

      @@gabrielascensotomas my n word really said scarcity after doing one economics lesson

    • @CallMeSlade
      @CallMeSlade ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MineySimsay nigga bruh, you’re an anon on the internet no one cares lmao

  • @mr.d4178
    @mr.d4178 ปีที่แล้ว +347

    I love his authenticity. He said he’s super introverted, goes up to a girl, talks to her, cancels the video and goes into the gym. What a legend.

    • @Cstank5
      @Cstank5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂

    • @-_deploy_-
      @-_deploy_- ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Fr

    • @theplacebeyondthepines4284
      @theplacebeyondthepines4284 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      And you can tell how he talks bruh ain't faking it lol he really is pushing himself

    • @ayushpanchal2053
      @ayushpanchal2053 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      he's not an introvert, he's a chad 🗿

    • @floppafreeze1713
      @floppafreeze1713 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@ayushpanchal2053one thing doesn't cancel the other

  • @smalzio.
    @smalzio. 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    NAAAAH ma man didn't chicken out, he just settled for 1 and was happy about it

  • @jlboss_ps4751
    @jlboss_ps4751 ปีที่แล้ว +277

    Sophia is a keeper 100% most chill person throughout the conversation.

  • @Figrin
    @Figrin ปีที่แล้ว +1210

    I love the part when you said you couldn't approach 100 girls, that was the moment I actually believed this video could motivate me to do something similar, because I saw you're not a superhuman that says he's introverted but actually can effortlessly rizz a hunderd girls and it actually took a lot of energy from you, thank you for including that in a video

    • @BangYongguk-sf8ly
      @BangYongguk-sf8ly ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes man. I could relate.
      For me its crazy to think i will walk up to a girl and talk, like etf

    • @solereeper3955
      @solereeper3955 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ​ Bro fr, talk about what? The weather? The nerdy shit im into? I dont know anything about you what do we talk about.

    • @solereeper3955
      @solereeper3955 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @AzureWolf168 Could you give examples? Im good at talking to people i know and have met before but strangers is like a whole different game.

    • @banaan5416
      @banaan5416 ปีที่แล้ว

      Try to find someting that you both have in common and common interests, thats how you get the first connection with people if it turns out you really feel each other and share way more things it can turn into a friendship or relationship.@@solereeper3955

    • @RainbowGhostOverdrive
      @RainbowGhostOverdrive ปีที่แล้ว

      Ask things, like... hobbies? Whatever, then talk about it as much as you can with interest.

  • @viktorkyncl3011
    @viktorkyncl3011 ปีที่แล้ว +505

    At the start i thought it’s gonna one of THOSE videos but the fact that you actually put your heart to it instead of just checking off 100 girls is way more meaningful and at the end even wholesome

  • @ArthurShotgun
    @ArthurShotgun 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    1st girl is such a MASSIVE GREEN FLAG.
    Holy shit.

  • @CrimsonCutie08
    @CrimsonCutie08 ปีที่แล้ว +1041

    Kindness is attractive. I consider myself an introvert and I struggle with confidence when socializing. I've noticed that if I stay true to my core values and be kind to others, it's so rewarding.

    • @juggerswood
      @juggerswood ปีที่แล้ว

      I bet you drink hot pee from Porta potties

    • @AliasArsonist
      @AliasArsonist ปีที่แล้ว +9

      This sounds like cope

    • @CrimsonCutie08
      @CrimsonCutie08 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      ​@@AliasArsonistmaybe to you it does 😅😊

    • @traattatata7973
      @traattatata7973 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I wouldn't say it's neccessarily attractive, but it's very disarming. Approaching people with kindness in your heart by default makes your attitude towards the whole social interaction positive. Much less of the bad thoughts like "but what if they hate you, but what if they tell you to go a hike" and so on and so on. Why would anyone respond to kindness with negativity if they are a normal human being? If they respond with negativity, something is wrong with them or at least their day, and so nobody would have had a chance that day.

    • @juggerswood
      @juggerswood ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@traattatata7973 True I totally agree.

  • @Marco_My_Words
    @Marco_My_Words ปีที่แล้ว +900

    Sophie is a keeper, the chemistry between you guys is great, you should really keep getting to know each other!

    • @truedepthaquaponics7118
      @truedepthaquaponics7118 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      100%

    • @fggfdfg3525
      @fggfdfg3525 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stop saying this keeper thing, this doesn’t exist

    • @Marco_My_Words
      @Marco_My_Words 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@fggfdfg3525 A keeper doesn't exist? How do you procreate?

    • @fggfdfg3525
      @fggfdfg3525 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Marco_My_Words no need to be a “keeper” to do that. And also not everyone on earth is willing to proceate.

    • @hotmcfly9247
      @hotmcfly9247 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@fggfdfg3525no they aren’t

  • @StevenFPatten
    @StevenFPatten ปีที่แล้ว +574

    Fair play to the dude. Props to Sophie for being a good sport. Dylan ending the video after speaking with her shows a real man, you could see he liked her and wanted to pursue it.

    • @Sauczi
      @Sauczi ปีที่แล้ว +8

      its fake bro

    • @kiwikiwikilian
      @kiwikiwikilian ปีที่แล้ว +17

      He did also say that he approached several other girls after Sophie but those interactions were all not very good. So… 😅

  • @takitukFNR
    @takitukFNR 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +92

    3:21 bro u aint no introvert thats w rizz

  • @Kumari_44
    @Kumari_44 ปีที่แล้ว +1316

    As someone who used to be socially akward as a teen, that was an *excellent* first approach. You smashed that out of the park.

    • @MikhailFederov
      @MikhailFederov ปีที่แล้ว +18

      He's tall and white. It's easy when you're accepted by default. He can only talk his way out of the box, meanwhile if you're not tall and white you're fighting an uphill battle to break the creep barrier

    • @mez9673
      @mez9673 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      @@MikhailFederovnot just tall and white. Hes young and extremely attractive. He can literally say nothing and pulls girls. Lol

    • @MikhailFederov
      @MikhailFederov ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mez9673 The tall and white is what makes him extremely attractive

    • @minutebyminute01
      @minutebyminute01 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      ​@@MikhailFederovwhat does the race has to do with attractiveness?

    • @daddytachanka8076
      @daddytachanka8076 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@minutebyminute01it’s true that many brown guys are gonna struggle more to get girls. This is just a truth. But to pretend like black guys or really anyone else doesn’t/can’t because of some shit like race is astronomical cope, even brown guys.
      1. They’re pretending that the years of lifting and consistent effort Dylan has given doesn’t exist. If anyone else did the same thing and worked on themselves it would become very very easy to get attraction, for anyone. But who’s put in the years?
      2. Anyone saying that is just coping and ignoring the vast majority of things that are in their control and they just don’t want to take the responsibility.

  • @heatherflynn
    @heatherflynn ปีที่แล้ว +1111

    Fair play Dylan. Love that you are not afraid to stop the vid midway through and just be like "Nah I don't want to continue". You do you. Your interaction with Sophie was cute, you are deffo not nearly as bad as you think with talking to people!

    • @eb_tigers0775
      @eb_tigers0775 ปีที่แล้ว

      m.th-cam.com/video/uZdv-TtiMkg/w-d-xo.html

    • @azziek3246
      @azziek3246 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Not bad? The Bro aced it and also got the girls number! :P

    • @FreeJidion6969
      @FreeJidion6969 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@azziek3246 i mean it was def good but u could tell there was still some nerves. the fact that was his first could approach is wild tho

    • @azziek3246
      @azziek3246 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@FreeJidion6969 for sure

    • @cix9420
      @cix9420 ปีที่แล้ว

      yeah me personally usually i just act super nervous and end up having to get rid of them@@FreeJidion6969

  • @ermesgasparine
    @ermesgasparine ปีที่แล้ว +694

    A training video with Sophie would be insane, don't approach other girls, that was the best interaction possible, soul mate interation tipe shit!🔥🔥🔥

    • @pyro4327
      @pyro4327 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      wild @DehaOynuyor

    • @-SPECTRE-
      @-SPECTRE- ปีที่แล้ว +9

      ​@DehaOynuyorouch.

    • @antenna7002
      @antenna7002 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Don’t get to attached early

    • @jr5993
      @jr5993 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@DehaOynuyor what's with the random negativity?

    • @jr5993
      @jr5993 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@AzureWolf168 guys aswell. Its the nature of the modern age. Abundance of choice. I'll message a lot of girls but not commit wholly to one and I know some of them do the same.

  • @bhanusairam1534
    @bhanusairam1534 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    as a certified introvert , this man is definitely not an introvert yall

    • @SVAgxlxxi
      @SVAgxlxxi 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      i think we all know that… he has muscles

    • @Us3r739
      @Us3r739 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Nah he definitely is, tense face and body movements and he’s super serious which is another sign of being tense. These all relate to anxiety.

    • @Grogman9868
      @Grogman9868 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He so obviously is

    • @leonard5654
      @leonard5654 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nah​@@Us3r739

    • @оалатвлвд
      @оалатвлвд 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      introvert is more of a social battery rather than being shy

  • @SlinkyJosh
    @SlinkyJosh ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Bro that went INSANELY good. I can't even believe that was your first cold approach, you're a natural

  • @lilpanini1351
    @lilpanini1351 ปีที่แล้ว +450

    I used to cold approach people as an introvert just to get out of my comfort zone, this is just exposure therapy and teaches you that you're not your thoughts. Blessings Dylan ! love these kinda messages brother they help alot of people.

    • @jr5993
      @jr5993 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      This one was good cause she was working. Most natural cold approach I've ever seen.
      I wouldn't do it like thse pick up artists do where they go up to girls clearly walking somewhere or with friends. Flirting with girls who are working is way more accessible and natural.

    • @lilpanini1351
      @lilpanini1351 ปีที่แล้ว

      W rizz my g
      @@jr5993

    • @TaylorPhase
      @TaylorPhase ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@jr5993they are also paid to be nice to you. They say hitting on a girl working is the least acceptable thing

    • @MrSipho1
      @MrSipho1 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@@jr5993The real test is girls that are not at work 😅

    • @TheSecondFlock
      @TheSecondFlock ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I heard it's a terrible idea to approach girls while their working. They have to be there and can't leave if they're not into it.

  • @jestahead
    @jestahead ปีที่แล้ว +138

    It's amazing what a difference it makes when she actually wants to talk to you. That nonverbal positive feedback boosts your own confidence in the moment and it's this self sustaining loop of feeling bolder which makes her more interested which makes you feel even more bold and increases the options you have in the conversation that you think will be received positively. It's great to see that in action.

    • @mcpartridgeboy
      @mcpartridgeboy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Makes zero difference if your not good at pick up ! im very good looking and loads of women drool over me but when i aproach im nervous and underconfident and bad at pick up and not one ever has ever said yes, so no it doesnt make any difference if she wants you ! you have to be good at pick up like this guy !

  • @loganphillips5471
    @loganphillips5471 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm crying at the first interaction why was it such a perfect exchange

  • @TheTonyD
    @TheTonyD ปีที่แล้ว +867

    Dylan actually came in super smooth. I'm a super social guy and although he did come across as SLIGHTLY awkward at some points & he could smile more/laugh at himself more, he still did very very good especially for someone who says hes introverted. If you're extroverted you just tend to cold approach naturally & just say passing comments as a natural state.

    • @cryptojuicer
      @cryptojuicer ปีที่แล้ว +36

      being slightly awkward is real tho. girls like real

    • @RizZRizZ-
      @RizZRizZ- ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He’s completely okay
      I’d like to see you

    • @prodbystorik
      @prodbystorik ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Ok mr social coach lmao

    • @ExploreWithEthan
      @ExploreWithEthan ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Being extroverted is definitely not normal nor nice

    • @TheTonyD
      @TheTonyD ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@prodbystorik is this one of those sarcastic comments made by incels? That's funny dude

  • @danielgisborne3469
    @danielgisborne3469 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    Like many others, i respect the authenticity in being able to say youre uncomfortable as opposed to some bullshit video where you just play the role you think we wanna see. Really refreshing approach, keep it up

    • @danielgisborne3469
      @danielgisborne3469 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @AzureWolf168 Yeah me personally those ones make me feel even shittier about myself cause Im like damn if its that easy then what the hell is wrong with me? lol

  • @brandonbell1854
    @brandonbell1854 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    “I met a girl, conversation went well, and now I’m going to pursue her and not talk to the other girls”
    That hit home 😂

    • @HellGod67
      @HellGod67 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      He knew she will check his vids and find the one with herself in it, "of course" he wanted to make an impression he didn't do any other approaches to look more genuine. I bet it was not his first or last.

  • @NightOfCrystals
    @NightOfCrystals 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Okay you were big time vibing with Sophie and she was flirting with you! Major success!

  • @bobbywatto
    @bobbywatto ปีที่แล้ว +93

    actually one of the most entertaining vids ive seen in a long time

  • @FaithhMe
    @FaithhMe ปีที่แล้ว +448

    The first step is understanding these girls are humans just like us, as men we pedestalize these females as goddesses we are not equal to. But in reality she is just as nervous as you are when you approach her.

    • @cwavv
      @cwavv ปีที่แล้ว

      They also take shits everyday and have to spray for the smell so there’s another one to think about

    • @prod.kashkari3075
      @prod.kashkari3075 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      This comment should be the top comment. Most girls are just as if not more nervous of the guy. When the guy is just confident and masculine the girl finds it very comforting.

    • @fotis3v480
      @fotis3v480 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Humans? The devil incarnate and I'm not even religious 😂.
      They will all backstab you .

    • @michaelrobson7005
      @michaelrobson7005 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      ​@@prod.kashkari3075Not really. They get approached non-stop so they aren't nervous at all

    • @prod.kashkari3075
      @prod.kashkari3075 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@michaelrobson7005 they don’t get approached nonstop. Most hot girls don’t cause guys are afraid of them

  • @AntiiiG
    @AntiiiG ปีที่แล้ว +96

    Honestly I'm impressed how vulnerable you are willing to be in your videos

  • @imsocentral2872
    @imsocentral2872 ปีที่แล้ว +9729

    As a introvert I can tell he was literally DYING while talking to Sophie😭

    • @bnkz
      @bnkz ปีที่แล้ว +1186

      ​@AzureWolf168bro he was awkwardly laughing 💀

    • @AdamTravelsTheWorld
      @AdamTravelsTheWorld ปีที่แล้ว +564

      Only introverts understand this comment LOL. I can relate, interactions with people when you value peace and being alone is harrrrrd, even if you want to get with a woman.

    • @imsocentral2872
      @imsocentral2872 ปีที่แล้ว +425

      @AzureWolf168 His voice was a little shaky, he struggled to keep eye contact, he couldn’t stand still, and he kept making awkward jokes (that somehow worked).

    • @cender4357
      @cender4357 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      You show yourself confident but inside your heart is about to break 😂

    • @jugger6228
      @jugger6228 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @imsocentral2872 awkward jokes work always and show humor / sympathy if the person is into you

  • @ModernDatingMastery
    @ModernDatingMastery 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    *Approaching girls as an introvert is definitely tough, but this video shows that even though it feels impossible, it’s totally doable with patience and practice. It’s all about pushing those boundaries and growing from each interaction - great job for taking that leap!*

  • @MisanthropeGains
    @MisanthropeGains ปีที่แล้ว +144

    You crushed it. Takes a lot of balls to put yourself out there. It does help that you’re a fit and somewhat goodlooking dude.

    • @sk8ingthemystery
      @sk8ingthemystery ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Somewhat good-looking? This dude is a Chad

    • @ltb1345
      @ltb1345 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      This guy literally has my dream physique.

    • @theRPGmaster
      @theRPGmaster ปีที่แล้ว +7

      "Somewhat" is the biggest understatement of all time

    • @Us3r739
      @Us3r739 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sk8ingthemysteryngl has got an average face but the height n muscles help

    • @Brendan99349
      @Brendan99349 ปีที่แล้ว

      Looks don't matter all that matters is approach. I know plenty of short skinny guys with amazing results, these are just limiting beleifs.

  • @dingusrevolver
    @dingusrevolver ปีที่แล้ว +84

    That's so funny she immediately referenced the 1 subject that would make him feel the most comfortable

    • @songsforpantstowearl
      @songsforpantstowearl ปีที่แล้ว +9

      That’s a sign of an emotionally intelligent person for sure. Trying to make the other person comfortable

    • @ShortFuseFun
      @ShortFuseFun ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@songsforpantstowearl Everyone can be that way if they want, it's a sign of someone who cares about the interaction. And she cared because he was attractive, so she tried her best to make it go well.

    • @jfo1740
      @jfo1740 ปีที่แล้ว

      He picked someone he has seen before and has seen him before. It's a setup in that sense even if the rest of it is genuine.

    • @aristotle9243
      @aristotle9243 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jfo1740the whole ive watched u work out before was a joke dude.

    • @dobridjordje
      @dobridjordje ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@jfo1740Probably picked the good looking girl he saw couple of times at the mall. That way it would be way less uncomfortable and creepy lmao

  • @Astranoire
    @Astranoire ปีที่แล้ว +97

    As a socially anxious gym goer I tried appoaching girls multiple times in public, it really made me uncomfortable at first but once I realize that I'm not undesirable as an awkward person, it really helped with my confidence.

  • @thevapiddrolls4339
    @thevapiddrolls4339 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    The fact that you felt bad trying on multiple girls when you clicked with the first shows you got some character, keep up the good work.

  • @33rdGemini
    @33rdGemini ปีที่แล้ว +47

    You can tell from his red eyes that the ones after Sophie broke him. Stay strong King. I hope to see videos with you and Sophie together in the future.

  • @kilo4848
    @kilo4848 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    It just goes to show how important your self confidence is to be honest. He’s amazingly built but still gets anxiety about approaching girls. I’m currently a college student and face a lot of the same but I’ve push past a lot of the nervousnesses and to anyone who doesn’t push themselves out to the their condor zones you have to try it it’s amazing

    • @tfiggs4312
      @tfiggs4312 ปีที่แล้ว

      accept the worst possible outcome and realize it's very unlikely you get the worst possible outcome@AzureWolf168

    • @lando8981
      @lando8981 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How? 😢

    • @blueleafy7167
      @blueleafy7167 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      If I tried that I would most definitely get laughed at cause my social skills are at rock bottom

    • @pep1679
      @pep1679 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Looks*

    • @alexpivniouk8421
      @alexpivniouk8421 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      100% agreed. Confidence is fake it til you make it, and I found this out by trying to approach girls. Most of the time you will fail, but sometimes you'll be able to click with someone and those moments are so magical and fun.

  • @DTRONBEATZ
    @DTRONBEATZ ปีที่แล้ว +106

    Dude the chemistry with Sophie is amazing 👏 glad you were able to go up to her and have a good conversation with her

  • @williamsporing1500
    @williamsporing1500 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He reminds me of myself when I was young, so I dove headfirst into becoming a musician because I didn’t fit in, anywhere.
    Keep up the good work brother.

  • @ChrisMalki
    @ChrisMalki ปีที่แล้ว +41

    the pain of regret would be worse so its good that u tried

  • @TheFluxTube
    @TheFluxTube ปีที่แล้ว +126

    Nah this content better than the gym content ngl

  • @NJ-500
    @NJ-500 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    First approach started off awkward but once the conversation started flowing you killed that

    • @jr5993
      @jr5993 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Not really. If you watch pick up artists then u realise this is one of the most natural cold aporoaches youll see. No creepy intentions or gimmicks, just honesty and relatability. Even the start wasn't awkward.

    • @NJ-500
      @NJ-500 ปีที่แล้ว

      @jr5993 nah the start was awkward, and you sound like a nerd

    • @karlisd2870
      @karlisd2870 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jr5993 Agree, didn't seem awkward at all, dude could pull many ladies

  • @eliashikotaunoa4028
    @eliashikotaunoa4028 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    hes introverted but thrives under pressure, i hope hes proud of himself cos that was really goodd

  • @TheMediaKnights
    @TheMediaKnights ปีที่แล้ว +642

    Step 1: Be in the top 1% of looks
    Step 2: Be in the top 1% of physique
    Easy as pie, right guys?!

    • @nawbgohdawjd
      @nawbgohdawjd ปีที่แล้ว +27

      play in your league i would say

    • @SimonR141
      @SimonR141 ปีที่แล้ว +139

      @@nawbgohdawjd Dude I tried women in my league but their standard is high to the fucking moon.

    • @DriveLikeIDid
      @DriveLikeIDid ปีที่แล้ว

      Boo hoo. Poor little baby. That’s okay. Sit around feeling sorry for yourself. More pussy for the rest of us

    • @zdaito10
      @zdaito10 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SimonR141 thats called female delusion, even a 1/10 woman would never go for a sub 5/10 dude

    • @winston7055
      @winston7055 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      lol its not about looks my guy.. just be confident it will get you far

  • @youwouldntbelieveit89
    @youwouldntbelieveit89 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    When you are good looking and fit every girl will be intrigued and interested

  • @karlisd2870
    @karlisd2870 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    For an introvert , you seem very confident. Respect dude.

  • @fredz91
    @fredz91 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Dylan you're a real one for this. Really motivated me to do more of this to be honest.

    • @eb_tigers0775
      @eb_tigers0775 ปีที่แล้ว

      m.th-cam.com/video/uZdv-TtiMkg/w-d-xo.html

  • @douglas5097
    @douglas5097 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It feels great when she is that responsive/talkative. The panic begins when the person you approach is dead silent waiting for you to conduct the conversation 100%.

    • @chc2650
      @chc2650 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Also very impressive how engaged she was in the convo considering she was at work. Most women act like they dont want to be bothered while on the clock.

  • @CoolCreepz
    @CoolCreepz ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Huge respects bro. I used to be an introvert and I know how hard it can be to have the courage to approach girls. It feels like you are dying because of being so nervous around them. But trust me bro through experience and time, it becomes second nature. Have a great day/night brother!

    • @SenszR
      @SenszR ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You can’t change from introvert to extrovert it’s just naturally how you are

    • @CoolCreepz
      @CoolCreepz ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SenszR lmao ppl say i am extrovert after i became outgoing

    • @alangarcia3531
      @alangarcia3531 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@CoolCreepzthe video is fake

    • @GodofGears
      @GodofGears 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@SenszRYes you can. It's actually possible.

    • @SenszR
      @SenszR 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@GodofGears it’s no possible it’s a personality type you can’t just choose to change it

  • @johannduplessis3467
    @johannduplessis3467 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Well done in not making it weird. Solid way to let introverted people see how to talk to people without coming off as creepy

  • @jakpodcast
    @jakpodcast ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Dude came in and crushed it by being natural right from the start! This is like such a perfect example to me.

    • @dozadog
      @dozadog ปีที่แล้ว +5

      His looks crushed it

  • @paulm3079
    @paulm3079 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    As an introvert, I don't think people understand how much mental energy it takes to do this. It isn't even a nervousness or anxiety thing, it's literally draining. I don't often go out myself, and when I do, after not so much time, I want to be home to relax my nerves. Did great with the first conversation.

  • @DS-hh3yc
    @DS-hh3yc ปีที่แล้ว +113

    Bro MAD respect for doing this. Always respected you big time anyway for your content, but so proud of you for having the sack to do it. Most people would never try

  • @hiokeaim
    @hiokeaim ปีที่แล้ว +45

    bro u say u are introverted but u handled that so well. I wish i could even hold a convo like that :((

    • @breathebih4321
      @breathebih4321 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Being introverted doesn’t mean not knowing how to talk to ppl

    • @idrinkmilk282
      @idrinkmilk282 ปีที่แล้ว

      He's full of shit. Dudes career is literally putting himself out there, pouting at cameras, clenching his jaw, and being topless as much as he possibly can, for hundreds of thousands of people 😅😅😅 and you guys are buying this "I'm introverted" bs.

    • @CargoRemover
      @CargoRemover ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He’s def an introvert lmao

    • @Sam-ve9sv
      @Sam-ve9sv ปีที่แล้ว

      he can be charming and funny and not akward but still be introverted and prefer isolation

    • @SurfyStories
      @SurfyStories ปีที่แล้ว

      He may be introverted that doesn't mean someone is socially retarded

  • @BourdeoixEterno
    @BourdeoixEterno ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Dylan just wanted to say that you have been one of my biggest inspirations since the moment I first started watching your videos. I'm not sure if you're gonna see this haha, but the positive affect you've had on me to improve myself physically has changed my life. It's crazy knowing that you get nervous just like me in public, love your content and a huge fan thanks for everything Dylan!

  • @_nuance
    @_nuance 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Bro, tall, fit, superman neck, and handsome enough, and you're saying you're gonna have problem with girls.

  • @ryandeffley7652
    @ryandeffley7652 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    You're actually better at approach than you let on when it came to Sophie.
    1) Strong open which set the frame of making her think of you with other girls who weren't her.
    2) Made her qualify/seek your approval.
    3) Got her to break the touch barrier.
    4) You even knew to do a take-away suggesting she could be just a "gym bro" instead to make her chase even harder.

    • @moneymakinmitch8130
      @moneymakinmitch8130 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      you wanna elaborate on the strong open part

    • @mustsee715
      @mustsee715 ปีที่แล้ว

      ⁠@@moneymakinmitch8130yes I also need some elaboration

    • @coovaydafinest
      @coovaydafinest 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      this was a great breakdown

    • @kacelewen88
      @kacelewen88 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      As an ex-introvert I'll set you straight. He said let's be gym bros because he couldn't think of a valid way to suggest anything else that indicated dating. He was nervous the entire time which I think was the biggest obstacle but he did well.

    • @volbrenYT
      @volbrenYT 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      *takes notes* so we're speaking rizziphonics I see.

  • @TheApplesaw
    @TheApplesaw ปีที่แล้ว +112

    As an introvert myself and seeing you afterwards with red bloodshot eyes, just shows how draining that was. Cheer brother! Most extroverts or wannabes ("ambiverts, what they call themselves") wouldn't understand.

    • @Cart_Art_Tart
      @Cart_Art_Tart ปีที่แล้ว +5

      As an ambivert myself, you are aware that being one means you have traits of both intro and extro right? Also, what do you mean by "wannabes"? They are simply ambiverts, some are able to do what he did, some can't. Simple as that really. Which is to say, ambiverts have traits of both, those traits most of the time being different then other ambiverts themselves

    • @brandonheflin06
      @brandonheflin06 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Im pretty sure the OP was just referring to the people who claim to be introverts/ambiverts because its, for some reason, cool to be one nowadays.
      @@Cart_Art_Tart

    • @Cart_Art_Tart
      @Cart_Art_Tart ปีที่แล้ว

      @@brandonheflin06 oh, my sincere apologies then, I don't label myself as one to be cool, but rather to understand myself better, because currently I am working on self improvement, and would honestly like to transfer over to an extrovert or maybe even just an ambivert with more extro qualities 😭 basically my socialising is dog water and should probably honestly be better since I'm 20

    • @richard38618
      @richard38618 ปีที่แล้ว

      im an extrovert now

    • @christopherstein2024
      @christopherstein2024 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Cart_Art_Tart We shouldn't take the terminology too seriously. People aren't really any type of -vert

  • @the.rogue.roman.77
    @the.rogue.roman.77 ปีที่แล้ว +322

    The way you talked to Sophie, you looked like a natural. Well done. And thank you for all your encouraging videos.
    The last hot Saturday this summer, I did about a dozen cold approaches at the beach near my town. Of all of those, maybe two or three became meaningful interactions, and none of them went anywhere. I still felt amazing afterwards.

    • @eb_tigers0775
      @eb_tigers0775 ปีที่แล้ว

      m.th-cam.com/video/uZdv-TtiMkg/w-d-xo.html

    • @Kumari_44
      @Kumari_44 ปีที่แล้ว

      Its a numbers game bro. Glad you met some cool people though.

  •  ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mentioning other girls, grading her by numbers, playing the guessing game, and acting surprised when she knows basic stuff... Honestly, it seems like the girl responded mainly because she was physically attracted to him. She's trying to make him feel like a rockstar just because girls want to have fun too.

  • @montana3918
    @montana3918 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    The first interaction was better and more authentic than what I've ever seen on any "dating guru" plattform. Great job dude.

  • @gizzyIizzy
    @gizzyIizzy ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Probably the most relatable and honest influencers out there. I love you and keep strong man !

  • @dreamsaresharedhere_
    @dreamsaresharedhere_ ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This is shockingly impressive. I was expecting a mess. You couldnt have been more smooth imo

  • @martinlovegoodie
    @martinlovegoodie 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What helps me with confidence is I pretend I'm lucid dreaming and no one really exists. He pulls it off naturally.
    Bro you're a solid 10 no problems when someone asks how old you are just say.

  • @haveyouseengeorgehennen
    @haveyouseengeorgehennen ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Bro might be an introvert but he's for sure confident and well spoken, that just shows that if you work on improving yourself physically and mentally first, you'll be able to get not only a girl but achieve way much more, keep grinding yall 💪🏽

  • @DAKiDDiOE
    @DAKiDDiOE ปีที่แล้ว +27

    The like to view ratio on this video is amazing! Shows what people are really interested in brother. Thank you for doing this for all the men out there who have missed potential opportunities of a lifetime because of the the paralyzing fear many get from the thought of approaching a lady only to look back and regret that moment. Keep it up!

    • @alangarcia3531
      @alangarcia3531 ปีที่แล้ว

      the video is fake

    • @alangarcia3531
      @alangarcia3531 ปีที่แล้ว

      And besides, he is a tall boy with blue eyes. If he were ugly, they would reject him immediately.

    • @goldenpersonwhoexists8834
      @goldenpersonwhoexists8834 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don't forget that women are human beings who like looking at things, and could, should, and will reject you if they don't like looking at you. The girl being attracted to him makes it a whole lot easier because 75% of the pressure dissipates right there.

    • @mcpartridgeboy
      @mcpartridgeboy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@goldenpersonwhoexists8834 Incorect im way better looking than him but im autistic and i have never had a gf and ive been rejected by women flirting with me all my life , ive even bneen rejected by women who aproach me ! dont assume looks will get the woman, you still have to be good at pickl nup at get ANY woman, even the love of your life !!

  • @IvanRecio-e5n
    @IvanRecio-e5n 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i came to this vid to see if i could get some introvert tips but instead i left with a cold reminder to get my ass on the gym, thanks Dylan you crushed it with that girl.

  • @pavellyulin5470
    @pavellyulin5470 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Bro do this not only for yourself, but for everyone watching. Imagine how much you could inspire everyone

  • @Deutritium93
    @Deutritium93 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    They key is finding something relatable to talk with the stranger about. The first young lady was a prime example of this. They both workout and frequent the gym a lot.

  • @LiamR90
    @LiamR90 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    18 is not young for a 23 year old, depending on how mature she is. That girl was working, going to the gym on her own and can hold a conversation.
    My wife was 19 when I met her at 25.
    I was on a work training course recently and there was this gorgeous 18 year old. My friend was 22 and asked for her number then rejected her because she was 18, I thought it was wild. He said the only reason was because he couldn't introduce and 18 year old to his friends.

    • @jr5993
      @jr5993 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It depends who you are but ive had it both ways. A girl was uncomfortable when she was 21 and I was 18 and I felt weird when I was 18 and a girl was 16. I prefer older though. A lot of these 16 year old are hard to relate to with all the tik tok bs. I'm 19 now and ideally I'd go for 23-25.

    • @kg7148
      @kg7148 ปีที่แล้ว

      Where did you meet your wife if you were 25 and she was 19?

    • @LiamR90
      @LiamR90 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kg7148 Tinder.
      I was at home for a few days on compassionate leave from the Army because my grandma had passed away.
      She was a student nurse studying in Manchester.
      Before I met her age wasn't really an issue with me though. I'd met woman older and younger than me. Widows, single mothers, students etc. Obviously as long as they were of legal age.

    • @TaylorPhase
      @TaylorPhase ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kg7148when I was 25 I met my ex fiancé who was 18 then turned 19 after a month of meeting. Tinder in a small town lol

    • @TaylorPhase
      @TaylorPhase ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yeah younger people make a huge deal about age gaps. Like 19 vs 22 is bigger In their minds. But you’d never hear a 34 and 31 year old making a big deal about the 3 year gap

  • @JlyfeZ
    @JlyfeZ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    "im an introvert" *proceeds to have the most perfect conversation with a female any man could dream about*

  • @westonryker6403
    @westonryker6403 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My guy has it easy with the ladies. My only advice is to be less self-defeating. You got this.

  • @Jay123-m9f
    @Jay123-m9f ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Respect man did my first cold approach a few months, really well done man as a fellow introvert I am proud of you 👏

  • @Tolya1979
    @Tolya1979 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thanks for being honest, and showing people this is totally normal.

  • @-Meme-Central
    @-Meme-Central 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Don’t worry bro you did good for the first girl you pulled w rizz, and as a fellow introvert that first and last convo felt tiring even tho I was not talking 😂and introverts need to recharge after such conversations, keep it up too 💪🏼

  • @Cntrl_Vibes
    @Cntrl_Vibes ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Bro why does the subscribe button glow up when the girl says, "Can i subscribe?" If yall dont believe me , just rewind it back every time she asks the question (5:43)

  • @ZsmZer0
    @ZsmZer0 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    1:55 the laugh was so strange hahaha, keep up the good work man

  • @starks464
    @starks464 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    You did great! It will absolutely feel awkward and very forced at first, but at a certain point, it will be a lot easier. Keep going!

  • @42venom25
    @42venom25 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    bro that was a crazy first approach
    bro built the emotional connection on the first try and everything