@@luukbrugge Exactly. They don't register that on their minds. They don't wander around asking themselves if they're gonna be liked. They're just... themselves, and it works, because they're often good looking.
Jesus Christ Truly Loves you all. At the end of the day, ONLY worry about what God thinks of you. Do not be worried of what man thinks of you, only fear God’s judgement. Jesus Christ is always with you, and always loves you all, AMEN!!! ✝️❤️♾️🕊️
@@Snowaxe3D you’re already on the right track by asking this question. loving yourself isnt about putting up a facade…it’s actually the opposite: once you can name your differences, your strengths, and your weaknesses, and understand that EVERYONE has their own strengths and weaknesses, you can start living with more confidence and acceptance of your unique self! if you feel like being your true self puts you out of place, it’s possible that you just haven’t found the right community of people for you yet. tap your strengths, try to work on your weaknesses, and accept your ultimate differences as a unique individual, and with time you’ll love yourself and the people around you!
I'm so glad you mentioned that being introverted isn't the same as being shy or antisocial. I don't like talking to strangers (I don't know many people who do, tbh), but I love socializing with my friends & loved ones and can do it for hours, but I'm still an introvert because I need to be alone for a while after tiring out and I love being by myself.
I do remember people brave enough to talk to me or too make a small simple comment as a friendly person. Something I would get super nervous just thinking about it but good for them.
I know tons of people that just like coming up to and speaking with you for no reason. They just sort of try to adopt you and bring you into their friend group. It’s odd
Be a Confident introvert 🖤 1.Change ur mindset : if ur introvert u must be confident with urself 2.Learn social game: its a skill to learn ... Maintain networks Give compliments Become a good listener (its easy for introverts) Guard ur attention: be paricular about where u're giving ur energy & time cz they are limited ⏳ 3. Be real & authentic 4. Fix ur body language Chill & non reactive Control sense of emotions With shoulders being straight Walk like u're the man/woman Speak clearly , a little bit slower 5. Abundance +Mastery Compitence= confidence u dont need fake confidence confidence should be real it should radiate from u for real (OMG i loved this part 4:09 🤩 ) Build the real confidence (maybe ur good grades, having amazing physique, or accomplishing ur tasks, getting urself into discipline) When u build one are for confidence, u have confidence in other areas too. efforts ,works and small wins everyday will ripple ur confidence in every single area of ur life Bye bye ~.~ 🌸
Networking is important but friendships is just waste of time I believe in just building network based on official requirement don't wanna build personal relationships in professional settings
As a pure introvert, I can say this is true If people don't like me or don't want to approach me its a win win, and if they approach me or like me, Its a double win
True words. A confident introvert is open to compliments and people, who doesn't like to be appreciated? When we need to recharge our energies, we can simply be ourselves and withdraw. Meanwhile, having a closed mentality is a sign of a disorder that has not been overcome.
yo im a girl and maybe not your target audience, but bro this channel helps me so sooo much to understand myself and how to better myself. Thank you so much for another great vid. I really appreciate the effort you put in to making these videos. ill def be back on this channel often
I've been like this for years now and I can say it really works, it didn't took long for me to become probably one of the most loved people in my school just by being confident in myself. Confidence really is everything.
Something you came close to saying: Being an extrovert doesn't mean you actually have good social skills...Being an introvert doesn't mean that you don't
This is absolutely true. I am on self improvement for 5 years now and the way I changed everything about myself was by listening and learning from multiple perspective. Trust this man, his points are 100% true. Now that I gained true confidence, made my actions back up my words, started talking less and being way more mysterious I am attracting people left and right. Walking straight, speaking slower and living the life of abundance, made me attractive. Now it's easy to steer from the way and build yourself a huge ego. It's ok to have it but it's also important to not dismiss other people and only compete with yourself. Helping people helped me build myself up so much. Once you get all these things right, you become the most wanted person in the room by all means
I've been nice to people overly polite and helpful but I only got hurt in the process now when I don't care about people don't help them or don't even talk to them without ulterior motive I'm more happy
@@saloni2244 Same here -- there is ONE person in the world for whom I would do anything, but as far as everyone else I won't even interact with them except on a purely transactional level!
The method about "Changing your mindset about being an introvert" was the best part and it hit me really hard . And also giving compliments immediately worked out 😁
This video really nails the points. I’ve been talkative my whole life but I had to learn to appreciate silence, and with the years I’ve become more introvert and confident. Perhaps if I may add to this excellent video is working on the style, having a sober yet, elegant style also makes a great difference. Real confidence and self-validation comes inside out, a confident man doesn’t need to get validated as he knows he is good at what he does. Keep up the good work young man,
@@IntellectualChad great videos man! Subscribed now! Thoughtful Young guys like you are needed to boost young generations, Greets from a 40-y.o. fellow from Mexico
1)compliment people genuinely and without wanting anything in return 2)ask questions and listen more in conversations 3)guard your attention. you dont have to continue a conversation if its a waste of time, be authentic. 4) change body language. be relaxed, stand up straight, speak clearly and slower. 5) build abundance and mastery in a skill. you have to have something to back up your claims that youre cool by being good at something and building confidence in an area of your life.
I'm 55 and just now realizing I am an introvert. My socializing is mainly at the gym which is where there are others who share my interests. I also don't enjoy "superficial " conversations, yet when engaged in a super subject I am vocal and interact alot. But need my space to recharge. Great video❤
I'm about to turn 68 and your presentation is spot-on. You know of what you speak. Nice job Yalie. Stanford, Class of '78. Major: American Studies. Occupation: journalist/documentary filmmaker. I wish you well in all endeavors.
I think this is exactly what I needed to hear. I’ve watched so many videos on how to be confident and not trash talk myself for being an introvert but this really gave me the tips that can easily be followed. Thank you :)
Would be lovely to get a video on how to read effectively and take out as much as you can from self help books.. cuz there is so much content when you read and it’s hard to apply everything when you have a lot of books on your reading list
Im not an expert but just go one by one for example i just bought my first self help book atomic habits and when i implement most of it in my life i will buy another one
What I personally learned from reading books for a long time and even finishing even long ass fiction books with 600 pages and stuff and actually fell in love with reading , the best thing is to focus on a single book so it’s just easier for your brain to just pick it up on the go whenever I try to read for example a fiction and self help kinda book, sometimes I notice it’s very hard even to start reading hence I take way long time to finish both of them. However it’s not about finishing in the case of self help books, they are meant to be used in like a text book type manner cuz u need to really think,figure out how to apply the stuff in real life and you may need to come back to that book sometimes.
@@Abrhm77 "I'm a 2nd-year college student. I don't have any friends in college, and I'm okay with that. I don't want to make friends in college either. But I do want to make friends outside of college, and I have many friends who aren't my classmates. I still talk to my school friends over the phone, and I have a good bond with my best friend from school. I don't talk to my college friends or try to make new friends in college, but that's okay with me. I chat with Facebook friends online, talk to family members regularly, and have good bonding with seniors and juniors in college. I also have great bonding with family and neighbors. but I don't want to make friends in college. Not having college friends doesn't bother me. So, am i emotionally and socially isolate?
Of course you can be You can be both introvert and extrovert The term is called "Ambivert" which means that you both have the qualities of introvert and extrovert
Thank you so much for spreading your knowledge, it has helped me a lot throughout the years to become a better version of myself. I'll be waiting for your next video, and again thank you so much for your help!
this 5 minute video was really an eye opener.. unlike other vids..it emphasises on the need of daily work.. and being competent.. wish you more power bro
great video brother, you kept it short, and informative. i usually don’t fully understand things when they going over them fast but you know how to get it done. respect bro
as an introvert, i think its nice to say in here. ive made great and trustworthy friends, so because of that, i become way more talkative when im around them and its AMAZING, to be able to say everything in your mind without fear, be able to laugh loudly, its just such a good feeling, i highly recommend finding those people in your life
3:33 Adding onto body language. Its very attractive to be chill and non-reactive, but you also need to let yourself show emotion and show some reactiveness at times. If someone tells a joke that you genuinely would've laughed at but you hold your laughter then you'll just be holding yourself back. Let yourself feel your emotions when it is appropriate to do so. You can be cool and be human at the same time
A real valuable video,highly appreciate you for articulating such good points.I m grateful that someone is trying to really understand what introverts are and how they think.
Total agree. I consider myself a friendly introvert. My grandma was super extroverted so she would push me, like any Asian granny, to be more social. During my highschool days and trying to look for my first job I realized how important I had to learn to socialize. The type of job you'll get, the payrise you could miss etc. I had to force myself into a retail position so I could learn the social skills. But deeply I'm still very introverted. I prefer to listen and analyze. I prefer to be in the same room in silence. Very good video Collin
This is exactly how iam especially being around my grandma . I prefer my own quiet space . I’m more open to deeper conversations but I thrive better in my own setting . I don’t like big crowds of people I happy doing my own thing . People think introverts are weird smh
Man I literally hit this point where I can hear success and my journey SHOUTING at me. I just very very VERY recently got abused by someone. But I didn't let them get to me. I exuded the confidence I needed to get rid of the controversy, through introversion. Through being confident in my dark side, the side of me that isn't full of light and cheer, but mystery and inner devotion, I see myself feeling grounded. I feel deeper in who I am. I'm ambiverted, so lately, my golden-retriever side is out. She's done being woof woof and now, the black cat in me is ready to chill. I just wanna go deeper in myself, work on my goals, and finally feel deep within. To feel all that I am. This video taught me that. It helped me realize I'm already on the right path. I'm already there.
That last one of a small W will ripple throughout your other parts of you is something I had happen to me when I got into standup and got decent laughs out of someone in the crowd. They came up to me reassuring my set was good, just needed practice and refinement. Introverts know when something performance wise can go shit but that to me was so meh and someone came out knowing and laughing on my niche jokes. That in turn helped me feel better about everything else around me since it is something I've always wanted to pursue.
I was just randomly scrolling on the TH-cam and then I saw your video and title. When I saw full video of yours!! You are not gonna believe my mindset just changed and I subscribe to your channel i like the u make the video ✨ I'm a girl keep going :) it helps me a lot. Thanks ❤
Going through a tough time in my life and this video is pure gold for me. Thanks man, really appriciate your work as an introvert who lost a lot ! Keep doing your stuff and stay safe bro !!
As a mega-introvert, I've been struggling with human interaction in general - so thanks much for short, simple, to-the-point advices. I heavily struggle at the last part though, I'm not sure how to be confident when I'm painfully aware I'm not perfect. I know, no one is. But even though I come from a good University with good grades, I'm so aware that there is 100% someone with better academic achievements than me. I have a very high paying job at a world renowned corporation, but I'm not the CEO nor am I the highest earner in that building let alone my country or the world. I have other qualities that get me compliments (very grateful of it) but every time I think of anything I have or can do, I can't help but be anxious that I don't deserve that compliment or confidence because I might bump into someone more deserving of it than I do. I feel like I'm being arrogant if I feel confident. I don't know how to get out of this and it makes me very uncomfortable when I receive praise or attention. Any advice...?
really great video the points are head on and you probably gave the ideas alot of thought it's evident but at the end of the day I'd hope it catches the eyes of the right person who needs this
I am the definition of introvert, even all my hobbies are geared towards my inner world (especially music and painting) I can socialize but my social battery is always on 1.
Collin, thank you for such an amazing video, your pieces of advice definitely help me a lot and remind me that actions always speak louder than words. Let's win together!
I am an introvert and I watched your video from the beginning to the end. I am quickly going to apply a skill to that I learned be in that video that I should give genuine compliments. Your video is cool. Congrats bro!
I love the Laws of Power, i used to go to the library just for that book and i remember my dad telling my 13 teen year old brother that if he ever wants to get anywhere in life he should humble himself but know his worth..back then i was only 9 so i didn't know how important it is to KNOW you earned something and to have a good, healthy mindset...i'm 13 now and my dad doesn't talk to be about these things because his very traditional and often thinks negatively about my abilities and look down at me because of my gender and constantly doubt me because i'm a girl and that never applied to my younger sister because, god i couldn't tell why....i get better grades than my brother and sister get COMBINED....every year at the award ceremony i get called up for academics, sport and music WITHOUT fail...i do sport, music and i work hard yet i'm always looked down on by my ENTIRE family...Since the age of 8 i had my mind set on ONE thing....i get bullied for taking school "too seriously" i get bullied for not wearing name brands and hanging out with friends and all that...i genuinely was going to cave in to the comments until i found youtubers that made it big and proved everyone wrong starting with nothing, youtubers who give valuable tips on how to spend my youth, youtubers who actually know what their talking about and i WILL make it my dream i come true i am ABSOLUTELY CONFIDENT that i will make it.. i won't sit here and be like i've never made a mistake, of course i have and i will keep making mistakes because without them how will we fully invent a new and improved version of ourselves...mistakes are what guide you through your entire life... what you make of that mistakes and who you become after the fact depends on your view and definition of the word 'mistake' if theres one thing i can say its that no ones opinion matters more than GODs opinion.. prove people wrong over and over again but remember you DON'T ALWAYS HAVE TO BE RIGHT, if you're never wrong then how do you learn...if you never question how do you know the value of something? may be young, but gotta respect the passion..
Hey guyss! I rlly want to see if anyone is just like me; and if this is a 100% introvert typo? - Friendly to everyone interact, you are the one who ask alot of question and just try to keep the conversation going til it reach a good end; it would be awkward feelin often. - A really good person in people's mind, but you are not really the important role in a friend group. You are not respected and care enough when ur talkin or hangin out. - Interacting feels good but it always took up alot of energy, and after all weeks you just want to be by urself. - Very nervous and worried about friendzone, scared of being isolated and even if you rlly tried to be fun to interact with. __> I still considered myself as an really extrovert guy when socialising, but it just doesnt feels right. These are some real struggles for me, and I would like to know what u guys think on improving my life and skills
Yeah, I admit that these things you said are true because I got an introvert friend and he still got close to everyone by doing these. Your vids are helping me too! Respect👍
I was just thinking about your video and then saw the notification. Thanks a lot man.. You are really helping us to make ourselves as better as we can❤.
Sometimes I find it challenging to 'appreciate it without a hidden ask,' as you mentioned. Even with my closest friends.Your video has inspired me to work on expressing my appreciation more openly！
I've always put myself in the extroverted introvert box. I am comfortable around people of all ages, but I am capable by myself. This is a wonderful video. Thank you for making such a big impact on my life.
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Hope you guys enjoyed this video! Let's win together ;)
Jesus loves yall and died for us! Jesus calls for all of us to repent!!!!!! !!!! !
Am an introvert and did international relation😢 should have listened to ma
Jesus Christ Loves you all!!! ✝️❤️♾️❤️🩹🕊️
@@highestpeeqs9532AMEN!! 😊❤ God bless you, Jesus Christ Loves you too. ✝️🕊️🤍
@@highestpeeqs9532Allah ☝️
"Confidence isn't 'I know they'll like me' it's, 'it's okay if they don't.'"
I think, the actually confident person does not even think it.
yes thats what he said, i saw the video
@@luukbrugge Exactly. They don't register that on their minds.
They don't wander around asking themselves if they're gonna be liked. They're just... themselves, and it works, because they're often good looking.
Jesus Christ Truly Loves you all. At the end of the day, ONLY worry about what God thinks of you. Do not be worried of what man thinks of you, only fear God’s judgement. Jesus Christ is always with you, and always loves you all, AMEN!!! ✝️❤️♾️🕊️
@@daughteroftheHighest. Amen!
Competence = confidence 🤝
I can get it by computing confidence intervals.
This
So incompetence or dumb = low self esteem of lack of confidence?
@@Uteria_888could be.
Not at all, very competent people can be extremely anxious and vice-versa, complete imbecile can think of themselves as a god
To all the fellow introverts: love yourself!!!! If you love yourself, then you can show and receive love from others.
WORD
But how does one Love themself?
I mean, I am trying to Love myself, but isn't that mean that I am now putting up a fake facade,
@@Snowaxe3D you’re already on the right track by asking this question. loving yourself isnt about putting up a facade…it’s actually the opposite: once you can name your differences, your strengths, and your weaknesses, and understand that EVERYONE has their own strengths and weaknesses, you can start living with more confidence and acceptance of your unique self! if you feel like being your true self puts you out of place, it’s possible that you just haven’t found the right community of people for you yet. tap your strengths, try to work on your weaknesses, and accept your ultimate differences as a unique individual, and with time you’ll love yourself and the people around you!
@@j.r.chen30perfect response 👌🏻 😊
Fuck people, I just want my money and GTFO.
I'm so glad you mentioned that being introverted isn't the same as being shy or antisocial. I don't like talking to strangers (I don't know many people who do, tbh), but I love socializing with my friends & loved ones and can do it for hours, but I'm still an introvert because I need to be alone for a while after tiring out and I love being by myself.
I do remember people brave enough to talk to me or too make a small simple comment as a friendly person. Something I would get super nervous just thinking about it but good for them.
@birbamour6 Well said ! I feel the same way
No one is forever quiet I don't have friends and I don't want but I talk to my family for hours
I know tons of people that just like coming up to and speaking with you for no reason. They just sort of try to adopt you and bring you into their friend group. It’s odd
Same fr, I need to be alone for some time to recharge
Be a Confident introvert 🖤
1.Change ur mindset : if ur introvert u must be confident with urself
2.Learn social game: its a skill to learn ... Maintain networks
Give compliments
Become a good listener (its easy for introverts)
Guard ur attention: be paricular about where u're giving ur energy & time cz they are limited ⏳
3. Be real & authentic
4. Fix ur body language
Chill & non reactive
Control sense of emotions
With shoulders being straight
Walk like u're the man/woman
Speak clearly , a little bit slower
5. Abundance +Mastery
Compitence= confidence
u dont need fake confidence
confidence should be real
it should radiate from u for real (OMG i loved this part 4:09 🤩 )
Build the real confidence (maybe ur good grades, having amazing physique, or accomplishing ur tasks, getting urself into discipline)
When u build one are for confidence, u have confidence in other areas too.
efforts ,works and small wins everyday will ripple ur confidence in every single area of ur life
Bye bye ~.~ 🌸
W summary
@@IntellectualChad i forgot everything after watching the full video. This guy's summary helped me 😂
Networking is important but friendships is just waste of time I believe in just building network based on official requirement don't wanna build personal relationships in professional settings
Genuine friendship is worth to keep ❤@@saloni2244
@@saloni2244 right
My man, No Distracting Edits, Transitions amazing.
Who else thinks this is giving Dark Academia vibes!
Great video, Chad! You had me at changing your mindset.
Much love G
Omo, you're here!!! 🙀😻
i'm a girl and i really enjoy watching your videos you have certain and special style in them just continue posting that's so helpful
That's Gold right here
yes same here! Girl, let's do this
Same here
Same
bro's cookin
As a pure introvert, I can say this is true
If people don't like me or don't want to approach me its a win win, and if they approach me or like me, Its a double win
True words. A confident introvert is open to compliments and people, who doesn't like to be appreciated? When we need to recharge our energies, we can simply be ourselves and withdraw.
Meanwhile, having a closed mentality is a sign of a disorder that has not been overcome.
yo im a girl and maybe not your target audience, but bro this channel helps me so sooo much to understand myself and how to better myself. Thank you so much for another great vid. I really appreciate the effort you put in to making these videos. ill def be back on this channel often
Women ☕
@@jsk4412 here comes the immature mama's boy .
@@jsk4412eww you’re one of those men 🤢
Girl same!
@@jsk4412 men ☕ (jk)
commitment and believing in your abilities will build your confidence (unlimited power🌟)
I've been like this for years now and I can say it really works, it didn't took long for me to become probably one of the most loved people in my school just by being confident in myself.
Confidence really is everything.
Thank you for sharing this!🙏🏼 as a person who doesn’t have that much hope about confidence this sure gets me motivated 😄
Something you came close to saying: Being an extrovert doesn't mean you actually have good social skills...Being an introvert doesn't mean that you don't
Almost all extroverts I have met have zero social skills. They are usually more interactive, enthusiastic and curious like a child
@@janakgohil3181 interesting observation
This is absolutely true.
I am on self improvement for 5 years now and the way I changed everything about myself was by listening and learning from multiple perspective. Trust this man, his points are 100% true. Now that I gained true confidence, made my actions back up my words, started talking less and being way more mysterious I am attracting people left and right. Walking straight, speaking slower and living the life of abundance, made me attractive. Now it's easy to steer from the way and build yourself a huge ego. It's ok to have it but it's also important to not dismiss other people and only compete with yourself.
Helping people helped me build myself up so much.
Once you get all these things right, you become the most wanted person in the room by all means
I've been nice to people overly polite and helpful but I only got hurt in the process now when I don't care about people don't help them or don't even talk to them without ulterior motive I'm more happy
@@saloni2244 Same here -- there is ONE person in the world for whom I would do anything, but as far as everyone else I won't even interact with them except on a purely transactional level!
The method about "Changing your mindset about being an introvert" was the best part and it hit me really hard .
And also giving compliments immediately worked out 😁
Telling introvert to become social to be happy is dumbest thing
You need to watch the video, i am introvert myself.
This single video is far more informative and concentrated than half of the other videos about this topic.
you got a sub buddy.❤
This video really nails the points. I’ve been talkative my whole life but I had to learn to appreciate silence, and with the years I’ve become more introvert and confident.
Perhaps if I may add to this excellent video is working on the style, having a sober yet, elegant style also makes a great difference.
Real confidence and self-validation comes inside out, a confident man doesn’t need to get validated as he knows he is good at what he does.
Keep up the good work young man,
Much love
@@IntellectualChad great videos man! Subscribed now! Thoughtful Young guys like you are needed to boost young generations,
Greets from a 40-y.o. fellow from Mexico
As a woman, I feel very confident knowing that this video is already part of my personality… hehe
surely one of the best and clearest videos about confidence i've seen so far, good work.
Thank you for being a reminder of the strengths of being an introvert. Keep doing what you do
1)compliment people genuinely and without wanting anything in return
2)ask questions and listen more in conversations
3)guard your attention. you dont have to continue a conversation if its a waste of time, be authentic.
4) change body language. be relaxed, stand up straight, speak clearly and slower.
5) build abundance and mastery in a skill. you have to have something to back up your claims that youre cool by being good at something and building confidence in an area of your life.
0:42 exactlyyyy. That's such a big misunderstanding. I am fed up with people saying why are you shy?? I am just not as loud as you....
Bingo
All what I've to say is thank you for being in this world Collin 🙏❤
Most important video for introverts to be successfull ❤
I'm 55 and just now realizing I am an introvert. My socializing is mainly at the gym which is where there are others who share my interests. I also don't enjoy "superficial " conversations, yet when engaged in a super subject I am vocal and interact alot. But need my space to recharge. Great video❤
I'm about to turn 68 and your presentation is spot-on. You know of what you speak. Nice job Yalie. Stanford, Class of '78. Major: American Studies. Occupation: journalist/documentary filmmaker. I wish you well in all endeavors.
I think this is exactly what I needed to hear. I’ve watched so many videos on how to be confident and not trash talk myself for being an introvert but this really gave me the tips that can easily be followed. Thank you :)
Would be lovely to get a video on how to read effectively and take out as much as you can from self help books.. cuz there is so much content when you read and it’s hard to apply everything when you have a lot of books on your reading list
Im not an expert but just go one by one for example i just bought my first self help book atomic habits and when i implement most of it in my life i will buy another one
What I personally learned from reading books for a long time and even finishing even long ass fiction books with 600 pages and stuff and actually fell in love with reading , the best thing is to focus on a single book so it’s just easier for your brain to just pick it up on the go whenever I try to read for example a fiction and self help kinda book, sometimes I notice it’s very hard even to start reading hence I take way long time to finish both of them. However it’s not about finishing in the case of self help books, they are meant to be used in like a text book type manner cuz u need to really think,figure out how to apply the stuff in real life and you may need to come back to that book sometimes.
@@Abrhm77 That's a pretty good advice! Thank you for your wisdom ⸜(｡˃ ᵕ ˂ )⸝♡
ur welcome@@edution2191
@@Abrhm77 "I'm a 2nd-year college student. I don't have any friends in college, and I'm okay with that. I don't want to make friends in college either. But I do want to make friends outside of college, and I have many friends who aren't my classmates. I still talk to my school friends over the phone, and I have a good bond with my best friend from school. I don't talk to my college friends or try to make new friends in college, but that's okay with me. I chat with Facebook friends online, talk to family members regularly, and have good bonding with seniors and juniors in college. I also have great bonding with family and neighbors. but I don't want to make friends in college. Not having college friends doesn't bother me. So, am i emotionally and socially isolate?
I'm half introvert and half extrovert
You're normal
You say that you didn't grasp the meaning of introvert and extrovert, because you cannot be the two opposites
Exacly
Of course you can be
You can be both introvert and extrovert
The term is called "Ambivert" which means that you both have the qualities of introvert and extrovert
Its ambivert!
The video is a gem!! No BS, straight to the point. Appreciate it man 🤍
This really helped me Collin, I loved the way how everything was straight to the point avoiding any BS. Lookiing forward to more such videos!
Jesus loves yall and died for us! Jesus calls for all of us to repent!!!!!! !!!! !
@@highestpeeqs9532 As an American patriot who has been 100% loyal to my country for more than 20 yeas now, I have NOTHING to repent for!
Honestly this video gave me a confident boost! Thanks a lot
Self mastery is attractive and key to confidence ❤
Thank you so much for spreading your knowledge, it has helped me a lot throughout the years to become a better version of myself. I'll be waiting for your next video, and again thank you so much for your help!
Much love
Jesus loves you so much more than you think repent and stay blessed
this 5 minute video was really an eye opener.. unlike other vids..it emphasises on the need of daily work.. and being competent.. wish you more power bro
🤞🤞
Don’t always go in their ways to compliment them. Receive compliments, not give.
That was a great reminder for me, thank you!
compliment whenever you feel it! be good listener, keep your frame, and fix ur body language!
you cant fake confidence, invest in yourself and build genuine confidence
Fuck is fuck
great video brother, you kept it short, and informative. i usually don’t fully understand things when they going over them fast but you know how to get it done. respect bro
I’m glad this video exists, it confirms how I’ve grown my introverted personality and has even showed me some tips to make it better. 👍
as an introvert, i think its nice to say in here. ive made great and trustworthy friends, so because of that, i become way more talkative when im around them and its AMAZING, to be able to say everything in your mind without fear, be able to laugh loudly, its just such a good feeling, i highly recommend finding those people in your life
So true!
Man...thanks Collin for the piece of advice..."don't try to please EVERYone"...salute bro😌
wow I'm an introvert and I've never heard of “dark confidence” before, thank you so much for making a video about it!
3:33 Adding onto body language. Its very attractive to be chill and non-reactive, but you also need to let yourself show emotion and show some reactiveness at times. If someone tells a joke that you genuinely would've laughed at but you hold your laughter then you'll just be holding yourself back. Let yourself feel your emotions when it is appropriate to do so. You can be cool and be human at the same time
A real valuable video,highly appreciate you for articulating such good points.I m grateful that someone is trying to really understand what introverts are and how they think.
"I really appreciate" it create new things on my mind. I will try to do that.sechely i keep it on my daily for remember.
Total agree. I consider myself a friendly introvert. My grandma was super extroverted so she would push me, like any Asian granny, to be more social. During my highschool days and trying to look for my first job I realized how important I had to learn to socialize. The type of job you'll get, the payrise you could miss etc. I had to force myself into a retail position so I could learn the social skills. But deeply I'm still very introverted. I prefer to listen and analyze. I prefer to be in the same room in silence.
Very good video Collin
This is exactly how iam especially being around my grandma . I prefer my own quiet space . I’m more open to deeper conversations but I thrive better in my own setting . I don’t like big crowds of people I happy doing my own thing . People think introverts are weird smh
@@rastafit23 hugs. I agree and understand.
Dude you're so likable. Your voicee and the way you explain things.. astounding! Nice!
Enjoyed the video, thanks for sharing this, most people usually keep it to themselves unless asked about. Keep making great videos
I appreciate how each video of yours is to the point with clarity in what you want to convey. Keep up the good work👍🏻👍🏻
Much love
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I almost forgot to subscribe
I like how aesthetic you made it look
Thanks, and by the way , your shirt matching your eyes and hair color is unique!
are you acoustic?
Thank for sharing this with us ,it really opened my eyes
Man I literally hit this point where I can hear success and my journey SHOUTING at me. I just very very VERY recently got abused by someone. But I didn't let them get to me. I exuded the confidence I needed to get rid of the controversy, through introversion. Through being confident in my dark side, the side of me that isn't full of light and cheer, but mystery and inner devotion, I see myself feeling grounded. I feel deeper in who I am. I'm ambiverted, so lately, my golden-retriever side is out. She's done being woof woof and now, the black cat in me is ready to chill. I just wanna go deeper in myself, work on my goals, and finally feel deep within. To feel all that I am. This video taught me that. It helped me realize I'm already on the right path. I'm already there.
Thank you so much. You are the reason I am more successful then ever, you are the reason I am now top of my class
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Best video I even found for introvert people, I want to thanks you from the bottom of my heart ❤️
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This is the most valuable information I’ve ever received in 5 and a half minutes
That last one of a small W will ripple throughout your other parts of you is something I had happen to me when I got into standup and got decent laughs out of someone in the crowd. They came up to me reassuring my set was good, just needed practice and refinement. Introverts know when something performance wise can go shit but that to me was so meh and someone came out knowing and laughing on my niche jokes. That in turn helped me feel better about everything else around me since it is something I've always wanted to pursue.
Honestly, thanks man! I really learnt a lot today
Much love
Amazing work keep it going and your definitely changing my life a true "Social Media Influencer"
I was just randomly scrolling on the TH-cam and then I saw your video and title. When I saw full video of yours!!
You are not gonna believe my mindset just changed and I subscribe to your channel i like the u make the video ✨ I'm a girl keep going :) it helps me a lot.
Thanks ❤
Going through a tough time in my life and this video is pure gold for me. Thanks man, really appriciate your work as an introvert who lost a lot ! Keep doing your stuff and stay safe bro !!
Great video! Really love your vibe! The video edit was perfect, minimalist yet powerful. And everything you said was on point. Thanks very much!
As a mega-introvert, I've been struggling with human interaction in general - so thanks much for short, simple, to-the-point advices. I heavily struggle at the last part though, I'm not sure how to be confident when I'm painfully aware I'm not perfect.
I know, no one is. But even though I come from a good University with good grades, I'm so aware that there is 100% someone with better academic achievements than me.
I have a very high paying job at a world renowned corporation, but I'm not the CEO nor am I the highest earner in that building let alone my country or the world.
I have other qualities that get me compliments (very grateful of it) but every time I think of anything I have or can do, I can't help but be anxious that I don't deserve that compliment or confidence because I might bump into someone more deserving of it than I do.
I feel like I'm being arrogant if I feel confident. I don't know how to get out of this and it makes me very uncomfortable when I receive praise or attention.
Any advice...?
The term dark confidence made me feel kinda cool
So, here I began to appreciate you firstly, it was worth it ❤
0:18 and also they all are fictitional
Ryan is a real person
@@AntolaResno? Ryan Reynolds is just a rubber suit controlled by three monkeys stacked on eachother
@@stoneparadox7624 no shit, we all knew this. I was being sarcastic.
Bro has done a great job for introvert.
Might this 5 min will change someone's life 🤠
really great video
the points are head on and you probably gave the ideas alot of thought it's evident but at the end of the day I'd hope it catches the eyes of the right person who needs this
Being a girl who is introvert it is very helpful to me thanks so much bro ❤
lots of love from India
Best Video ever for INTROVERTS
Thanks!
I am the definition of introvert, even all my hobbies are geared towards my inner world (especially music and painting) I can socialize but my social battery is always on 1.
Collin, thank you for such an amazing video, your pieces of advice definitely help me a lot and remind me that actions always speak louder than words. Let's win together!
I am an introvert and I watched your video from the beginning to the end. I am quickly going to apply a skill to that I learned be in that video that I should give genuine compliments. Your video is cool. Congrats bro!
What a good video, wow you absolutely smashed it mate
Thank you so much. This video has already built my confidence😇. God Bless you all🙏
Thanks bro its been long looking for this
As a girl i really enjoyed your videos because your explaining way is so amazing and understandable !
Be a confident introvert 😎🖤
I love the Laws of Power, i used to go to the library just for that book and i remember my dad telling my 13 teen year old brother that if he ever wants to get anywhere in life he should humble himself but know his worth..back then i was only 9 so i didn't know how important it is to KNOW you earned something and to have a good, healthy mindset...i'm 13 now and my dad doesn't talk to be about these things because his very traditional and often thinks negatively about my abilities and look down at me because of my gender and constantly
doubt me because i'm a girl and that never applied to my younger sister because, god i couldn't tell why....i get better grades than my brother and sister get COMBINED....every year at the award ceremony i get called up for academics, sport and music WITHOUT fail...i do sport, music and i work hard yet i'm always looked down on by my ENTIRE family...Since the age of 8 i had my mind set on ONE thing....i get bullied for taking school "too seriously" i get bullied for not wearing name brands and hanging out with friends and all that...i genuinely was going to cave in to the comments until i found youtubers that made it big and proved everyone wrong starting with nothing, youtubers who give valuable tips on how to spend my youth, youtubers who actually know what their talking about and i WILL make it my dream i come true i am ABSOLUTELY CONFIDENT that i will make it..
i won't sit here and be like i've never made a mistake, of course i have and i will keep making mistakes because without them how will we fully invent a new and improved version of ourselves...mistakes are what guide you through your entire life... what you make of that mistakes and who you become after the fact depends on your view and definition of the word 'mistake'
if theres one thing i can say its that no ones opinion matters more than GODs opinion..
prove people wrong over and over again but remember you DON'T ALWAYS HAVE TO BE RIGHT, if you're never wrong then how do you learn...if you never question how do you know the value of something?
may be young, but gotta respect the passion..
Fantastic! This chanel realy helps me to develop myself. I'm searching for purpose and you're really helpful with all your advice man, keep it up.
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Hey guyss! I rlly want to see if anyone is just like me; and if this is a 100% introvert typo?
- Friendly to everyone interact, you are the one who ask alot of question and just try to keep the conversation going til it reach a good end; it would be awkward feelin often.
- A really good person in people's mind, but you are not really the important role in a friend group. You are not respected and care enough when ur talkin or hangin out.
- Interacting feels good but it always took up alot of energy, and after all weeks you just want to be by urself.
- Very nervous and worried about friendzone, scared of being isolated and even if you rlly tried to be fun to interact with.
__> I still considered myself as an really extrovert guy when socialising, but it just doesnt feels right. These are some real struggles for me, and I would like to know what u guys think on improving my life and skills
Thankyou for making this video🤝🏻
同意，社交技巧是可以被學習的。每個群體內都有獨特的社交禮儀共識，在開始時保持禮貌與尊重，並誠實表達自己的心意，可以幫助你交到一輩子的朋友
Thanks collin, i was needing some tips and values about being confident.
This video reminds me of myself growing through the years 💀
Would of been useful for younger me so I'm sure it will help tons of other people
Awesome video, thanks for the advice!
Yeah, I admit that these things you said are true because I got an introvert friend and he still got close to everyone by doing these. Your vids are helping me too! Respect👍
bro nice video really motivate the introverts like me
Great job
I am not used to casually compliment anyone. This is my first-ever comment on a video.
I loved the advice you gave me ❤
I was just thinking about your video and then saw the notification. Thanks a lot man.. You are really helping us to make ourselves as better as we can❤.
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I found your channel a few days ago and I love your videos because they are videos that will help irl
Bruce Wayne's confidence-" im rich "😂
confidence isnt 'i know the'll like me but im oky if they dont''
just love this line a lot
Sometimes I find it challenging to 'appreciate it without a hidden ask,' as you mentioned. Even with my closest friends.Your video has inspired me to work on expressing my appreciation more openly！
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I've always put myself in the extroverted introvert box. I am comfortable around people of all ages, but I am capable by myself. This is a wonderful video. Thank you for making such a big impact on my life.
Bro said dark confidence but all I could think of was our president dark brandon 💀
Collin how could I have the right mindset, and be the man I want to become.