Really needed to hear this. Being a shy kind of girl, I think people often mistake my shyness for disinterest/bitchiness. I definitely need to work on exuding more approachable energy haha!
10 reasons why you don’t get approached: 1. You are not looking at them. (You do not pay attention to men showing interest/ looking at you). 2. You look taken. (You look oblivious at men/carry yourself in a way that you look like you are in a relationship) 3. You do not smile. (You have a put on serious face). 4. You hang out around groups too much. (It can be very intimidating for them and friends can cockblock). 5. You don’t look like you are interested. (Your attitude may come off as bored/ rude) 6. You don’t look like you are available. (Giving off an unavailable energy). 7. You look busy all the time. (You are always preoccupied/ on your phone etc). 8. You give off homegirl vibes (Make it hard for men to see you romantically. 9. You put in no effort or thought in the way you present yourself. 10. You look overdone. (Looking too much like a diva and giving out that aura). Thanks for a great video💖 Keep up the fab content.
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I got my now-husband by intentionally running into him while I was alone so he could talk to me lol. Towards the end of our convo I playfully told him to add me on Snapchat. And when he did and messaged me the next day, I also made an effort to message him FIRST the day after instead of waiting for him to keep reaching out. This was HUGE for me because normally I’m the passive type but I learned that if you want something, you got to take the initiative to get it. My point is, sometimes you gotta create an opportunity that allows a man to approach you. You gotta be strategic lol.
@@ndube4589 lol honestly it took me a LONGGGGG time to realize this. And I remember reading an article written by a man (I don't remember what the article was, sorry) that stressed this, and it began to make sense to me because running away and being passive didn't result in anything. Also, I feel like women are taught that "if a man wants you, he'll move mountains to get you" but we have to understand that a man will move mountains for a woman he KNOWS he WANTS. In the beginning, the guy doesn't really know you, so why would he keep chasing? We def gotta make it easier and more obvious in the beginning so men feel comfortable enough to talk to us. Thankfully the first time I tried being more open and upfront got me a husband lol
You need to start a youtube channel to teach women . What you said is exactly what a woman needs to do if she wants a man. Women need to stop having this fantasy that a perfect man is going to come out of nowhere and fall in their lap. Also that it's a man's job to make the relationship work and all the focus should be on the woman is another reason why a lot of women are single.
@@intothebeyond8763 you just spelt it out, Bro. That has been the message that our brothers on the #manosphere has been propagating for over a decade now
This will probably the only viable way to get into a relationship (asides from online dating) especially given how much criticism men receive on a day to day basis.
3 guys already told me “I Act like I am in a relationship “... even if I say that I am not in a relationship they do not believe me... I don’t understand
This may be a new thing for me. I have spent my whole life chasing women and I'm getting to this place of...What am I doing? I need peace in my life and chasing women is not the way to it.
The dressing down tip is actually so true. When I'd go to the bar or club and I'd tried hard to be done up in a way that wasn't even true to me, men would feel that energy and I wouldn't get so much as a glance. When I gave up on that and went to the bar in jeans, a cute top that felt very 'me' and my glasses, men wouldn't leave me alone! It's all about putting in some effort, but being authentic to what makes you feel sexy even if that isn't the 'typical' outfit.
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If you want to meet a good guy. Open your eyes. Look for the guy working on a car or a motorcycle on a weekend. The guy mowing his yard ,painting his home. He is the keeper. The guy going out to party is not what you want. See a nice looking guy at the car wash. Raise the hood of your car. When younger. I would walk up to a beautiful woman and just say. Hello my name is. I can see the future. Would you like to know what I see. If they say yes. Then I would say. I see in our future is this. It is a Saturday morning and you are sleeping in. I awaken you with breakfast and coffee while placing it on your nightstand. Then I would say would you like to know more. If they said yes. They were hooked and I would tell them we are at a beach I’m building a sand castle for our two daughters. And our son you are holding in your arms. Now after 25 + years I’m living with my two red Heelers. I own a farm. Retired and now the wife is gone. Time to get back to my roots from when I was in my 20s . My mourning time is at a end. Time to live again. FYI that story was no story. I’ll see you out there ladies .
I think guys have a perception that if you are done up too much you might be high maintenance. Most guys can’t afford certain women and wouldn’t even entertain them. So obviously if you are dressed down you are a little more approachable to them. But I agree be authentically you, but you want to make sure if aren’t giving off the impression that it doesn’t require much work to keep you. Men know women who keep up with themselves require more from him to keep them.
Something I can take ownership for is that I don't actually put myself in situations that could get me approached. I'm a homebody, and it's worse now during this pandemic. I don't go out much but when I do, I'm literally in my head and don't notice anyone because I'm thinking to myself "no one is looking for you girl". I don't like dating apps either so if my boo is not at the grocery store, I might never meet him 😂😭
Do you have hobbies or do any outdoors activity? My mom doesnt use dating apps, she goes a lot to the gym and says 'hi' to the people there even if she doesnt know them. She is 50 and keeps getting approached and invited to dates. Any activity works. Anime conventions, running in the park with your dog, yoga classes, going to the pool. If its an activity you enjoy others will notice and if you have a friendly energy you are really unlikely to fail.
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The right man will approach you at the right time. It doesn’t matter if you’re frowning or whatever. Ladies focus on yourselves and remember your self worth don’t settle for mediocrity!
that really depends on whether you are a mediocre woman. If you are a mediocre woman, why would a non-mediocre guy approach you? If you are not mediocre, what separates you from the rest? Most people are mediocre, that's what mediocre means.
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@@robynm.7950 Then why do we hear complaints of women HATING getting approached. So many videos of women saying they feeling scared when guys approaches her.
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That first part is true. I may catch some here and there when I turn around quick to check something I forgot but other than that I just look straight forward.
I stopped caring about if I get noticed by others and instead started focusing on what's more important, like my job, being financially secure, improving my health holistically, and in general I was a lot more happier. And this is when people started to notice and approach me. But I just be nice to all of them and help out if I can (as long as it doesn't hurt me!), and in general, things are really good. I learned how true it is when they say "happiness comes from within" and "it all starts with you". ❤🌸
@@gbjanuary😊🙏🏼❤ It will happen if it is meant to happen, and when it does, I'll be taking a great amount of time and observation to see if he is actually worth adding to my life 👍🏼
@@sierratana1686 i don’t think self love is a bad thing. If you want to find a man while doing that that’s cool, as long as one doesn’t self love TOO MUCH. For me, I want to love myself for a good amount of years due to issues in my life.
I found this to be the opposite for me. I got approached so many times, I even got approached on dates while I was on my way to meet guys. I think because I was giving off available, happy and put together attitude and that's what attracted guys to me. I continue to smile and be polite and still do me and be happily single :)
@@tharakir1328 I don't maybe upset because if she pulled that many then she doesn't have much tread on the tires anymore, so she doesn't really have any value left 🤷🏼♂️
@Aces never here the ones that get all the attention and use it to look for a decent man. Nor quiet ignored ones that prefer it that way, they always want the opposite of what they portray
Sunday nights aren’t complete until queen Breeny posts 🙌🏼 I can relate to a lot of what you said in this video: I’m always looking busy when I’m out doing errands/shopping etc, and when I do get approached it’s by boys in their 20’s...I’m in my 30’s 🤦🏻♀️
Most of the time this is what people think of me”You look too expensive, you look too confidant, you look inapprochable, you scare guys...” and the list can goes on🤦🏾♀️😩I’m working on my feminine energy, I’m a strong single independent woman and feel good about it I’m my own provider my masculine energy can scares man I get it, trying to let go that out of my work place! I was aware about what you said let’s work on it! Thank you🙏🏽Btw you are ridiculously gorgeous I have to say it🤩🔥 new subscriber 🙋🏽♀️
A lot of guys just mind their own business when out and about. We're not always looking to talk to random girls. I know I'm not. I'm single but I'm not desperate lol.
In the end sometimes meeting women is too much stress and in most cases the level of stress is just not worth it. Sometimes it’s better to be on your own. I’m not a fan of being desperate either. I don’t feel like bothering people.
Same, women are everywhere... I'm not thinking of trying to get a # or meet a female when they are literally everywhere. I might meet a girl dressed down with no make up on and be impressed by the way she carries herself than a Instagram model making moves
Exactly. And also girls have a long list of guys to choose from. When you realize this you see how pointless it is. Girls literally get hundreds or thousands of messages a day. And that's just from 1 app. Lol...
Literally 80% of these reasons are me. It's mainly because I use it as a defense mechanism to not get rejected by guys. All my life I've always had this mind set that guys will always reject me because I'm not like pretty enough. So I kind of have grown into the habit of self-sabotaging, so I basically reject myself before a guys gets the chance to do that, as a way to protect myself. I'm also extremely awkward and shy around guys, particularly those who I find attractive like I struggle to make eye contact and smile because I always assume they will think some weird girl is looking at them. All my life I've had this automatic program in my mind whereby everytime I see a boy( my type or not) I avoid making eye contact everytime I see a boy in my sight I look down or just subconsciously tell myself to not look So yeah basically I'm the reason I've been single my whole life 🙃
I think for a long time I was afraid of male attention because I didn't know how to handle it. I was very introverted and anxious and I think men could see it.
@@Crystalthe1st is your neighbour in an age range and gender you would like to date? Babyface actually attracts many men, kinda suggests you got good genes. So stop with that BS that your babyface is putting men away
At this point, it has been over a decade since I learned not to approach women. I was out at a local dive bar, and there was a young lady sitting by herself for quite some time. (I was in my early 20s) I approached her, saying hello and complimented her outfit. She said she had a boyfriend, so I just went back to my friends. About an hour later, a guy I had never seen before walked up and punched me in the face. Ladies, we have no idea if you're single by looking at you. But given the kind of guys the majority of women prefer, I am never making the mistake of approaching a woman in public again.
Just don’t be afraid to approach men or get rejected. In reality, gentle touching a men while talking with him will do it every time. It’s literally so easy if your a women
I mean it's pretty simple: Most women look angry, annoyed, frustrated and are generally unapproachable. They just do not look like they want men to talk to them a lot of the time. Men are generally tired of getting "I have a boyfriend" or getting rude dismissals...women often put zero effort in to show interest and it just gets tiresome.
I know right!! But for us girls, it can also be hard to flirt bc some of us are shy, for example, I am too shy to look at a man in a playful way, so I just prefer meeting them through mutual company, conversatiins are easier.
Wow I really needed this video. I always say I’m pretty but guys don’t find me attractive and why do guys talk to my friends and not me. I’m so happy to see someone I can relate to talking about this topic! I’m gonna use all these tips and pray to god🥺 I definitely have bad rbf and a very dominant personality. I feel like guys don’t approach because they’re intimidated or feel like I’m out of there league 😭😭
"Creepy guys" lol. All the responses on here indicate you are ALL after the "non creepy" Alpha types. Maybe the "creepy guys" are really your matches, but since ALL of you go after the top 10%, then 90% of you will be disappointed and alone. Don't worry, though, by 30 not even "creepy guys" will approach you. And by 35, it's game over for LTR. 30 is not the new 20, 30 is where your real appeal to men starts to run out.
@@spiritquests3970 Lmfao Chris Hemsworth of all people settled for a woman 7 years older than him, out of her reproductive prime years...i’m pretty sure we’re out of the Stone Age sweetheart 😂 if you can’t get laid just say so
I resonate so much with quite a few of these. One I've gotten as of late is that the guy felt intimidated by me (quite a few have actually told me). I've asked different friends in my life and got different responses ---one said I'm operating in my masculine energy more and thats what guys see , a couple others think I'm not intimidating at all (guarded, yes, but not totally unapproachable). I seldom get approached as is, but when I do, I'm usually in sweatpants 😹😹 but when I try to dress a little cuter and more girly, I get CRICKETS . That's a big reason why I don't really put effort into looking cute, bc I'm like what's the real point if no quality guy notices anyway?? If a guy does check me out, I never get told that while I'm out. I don't go out a lot, but when I did pre pandemic, I wouldn't be around a huge group . And STILL would get nothing. I hate that my comments are always super long, but I seriously resonate with so much of what you say. You like the cool auntie or big sister I wanted to always have 💕
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Alooot of guys who get to know me are shocked when they see how down to earth I am they always say at first sight I look too high maintenance and have attitude I don't get how you can assume someone has attitude just by looking at them 😌.. And I think another reason is some men judge the book by its cover.
Don’t forget men have built up experiences. I would consider myself a veteran at talking to n meeting women, but many woman would consider me something of a player because of how many women I’ve dated, but most men aren’t as determined as me. I said that to say, men jhave been rejected ALOT, after awhile you get tired of rejection n try to be better at reading women instead of talking to everyone that’s pretty. I’ve met a number of women who a PRINCESS n I don’t have time for that shit. So if a person can see it ahead of time, they can save themself some time, energy n maybe even public rejection.
Why would anyone want to hear about a man’s behaviour or motives from a woman? I’ll tell you all straight up why women are not approached. 1. Shyness/ fear of rejection. 2. Men do not want to be financially ruined by a woman. 3. Men don’t want to be accused of rape or sexual harassment
#2 is a bit of a leap as that assumes she already knows you prior to the initial approach. I think number one is valid. I’d also piggyback on that and not that I think some men are cautious more so than afraid and are protecting their hearts from being hurt.
I always wanted to know why guys NEVER approach me, and for a while I thought I was the problem. But, now i'm just more comfortable of being or not being approached. I don't stress on it anymore, thank God lol.
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I'm currently in the 'single but unavailable' phase. I gotta do some inner work before thinking about another relationship. However, this is excellent information for the future. Thanks girl! 💖💛💖💛
Another reason is that most men get rejected on a daily so they stop approach women. I consider myself as a good looking dude n sometimes I get rejected too so ion really approach women anymore. I just love myself Nd take care of myself and do what makes me happy.
Never ever have I encountered a woman with such intuition and sensitivity as you!!! You have earned yourself one more male subscriber!!! LORD JESUS CHRIST ON HIGH!!! Bless you, dear!! Whoever ends up with you is one lucky man!! Thank you for understanding!!!
Thank you Breeny ✨💗 I think I don’t get approached because I don’t have female friends to go out with 🤦🏻♀️ it’s always when I’m with a guy that someone better looks my way and they always look disappointed that I’m with someone 😂
So on point. Especially looking like you could care less or as if you have no interest in the opposite sex. Men assume that you're probably in a very happy committed relationship and or you're so tired of guys coming up to you shooting their shot. Not saying that a women has to be overly nice but any grown man knows that a woman is very aware of her surroundings so if a man that she might be interested in being approached by enters the space and she totally ignores him he's gonna assume there's a reason why.
i just watched a video like this, except is backwards alot of women act stock up when you talk to them even when you're nice to them. that's why alot of men dont, besides some men with low confidense /shy/scared
I feel like I give off unavailable energy, and living in New York I really to just mind my business so definitely might be giving off a please don’t talk to me vibe.
I’ve been told by a friend recently that I have a flat affect most of the time, and I was like what’s that? And she was like imagine your entire face got Botox and your voice sounds like you’re talking about a math equation! I think it’s part of depression. But I guess I’ll make more eye contact and look happier than I feel
Okay one reason why I don't get approach is because I look clueless, one reason why guys don't approach me is because I look 14 (when I'm actually on my 20s)☠️🤣🤣🤣
The last one is on point...most men love the natural look, no crazy make-up because that's a natural beauty. Women's looks are completely different without makeup. Makeup is supposed to enhance your beauty not change how you naturally look.
@@karleek1202 A woman’s indirect verbal or visual cues that she likes you and is inviting you to approach or start a conversation with her. Many guys can’t interpret choosing signals properly its almost a science.
@@karleek1202 it’s just instinctual behaviors and traits in demeanor that can’t really be reproduced consciously. Girls send choosing signals without even being aware of it themselves and some guys have learned to pick up on them.
I tell you one thing, you Outsiders sure make things complicated. I and my late wife's marriage was arranged by our parents back in 1978. And we were together until she passed away in 2017. Now I travel the roads of America by myself and I am good with that. I am glad I don't have to deal with that anymore. I am a widower and happy now with that.
There are a few women at the gym I'd like to approach, but they all wear headphones the whole time! I understand they may be wearing them because they don't want to be bothered, but the gym is a great place to have a quick chat with someone you already have something in common with.
I'm a shy girl so you could imagine how awkward it is when some guy is looking at me. I don't want to do so they just stop looking or try approaching me
Also, one very important thing is for you ladies stop dishing it out too freely. When men can get it super free why commit only to deal with the headaches that come with it?
I’ve been told a lot that I come across as very intimidating and high maintenance when in fact I’m very down to earth, introverted and wear hoodies n sweats most of the time...
I grew up around guys, I'm very masculine. I don't look like a typical girl, and have a hard time determining if the guy I like thinks of me as the homegirl. I'd love to see a video on how to be nice without being too nice. Just found you today, this is the content I've been craving! Thank you!
I would say I don't get approached because 1. I am ALWAYS on my phone and my earphones are practically glued to my ears whenever I am out😂 2. I don't put as much effort into my appearance because I can be lazy 3. I don't know if anyone else feels this but when I am 'done up' i feel more self conscious because people are looking at me lol😂😭 So yeah you can see why I need help😩
More men will approach you if you don't over do your makeup because social norms have psychologically grasped men into thinking "ton of make up and exuberant clothing" = "stuck up high maintenance" and gives off a "too much or too good for me" vibe. Self conscious thing with men. Dressing down and minimal makeup gives a guy the false sense of confidence they may need to approach you. They will believe you're the real you and being yourself and all that make up is not a mask hiding insecurities. Coming from a man who knows men. Addressing 1 and 2 will be your difference maker.
Women always wearing airpods in their ears are not too bright, especially in public! We need to be hyper-aware of our surroundings. It's much harder to hear if someone is trying to run up on us.
Please do a video on giving off too "homegirl" of vibes. I try to be super casual around all guys I meet and genuinely like being "one of the guys," or "chilling with the homies' status with guys, but I know I step into that too much and need to cut it back if I want someone to express interest
i love this, be more exclusive with yourself. play the game, turn their words into flirt. Second you do that she’s “one of the guys” status his thoughts will automatically switch. i feel like when guys hold you on a certain level there will always be a ‘what if’ situation somewhere floating in the relationship he thinks he has with you. all it is, is for you to show him that it’s in there and it’s okay to express your interest in me. try it. flirt.
Didn't realize how much guys dislike the whole mandem vibes/masculinity vibes from a woman until i watched Ready for love. That really gets women friend zoned lol
Is this a movie? Because I am a tomboy. I've become more feminine and dress in skirts now. But, I feel that I am still very tomboyish in my body language an way of speaking. I call guys "man." Hard habit to get rid of. I am curious and want to watch it. I've been watching femininity and etiquette videos and become more "ladylike." Thank you.
Linda Vel it’s an American dating show. Which I’m hooked on atm! I like how it’s got a mature group on there rather than young people. This is the first episode, they eliminated a woman in the first round because they thought she was masculine. There’s more episodes on TH-cam. Enjoy. th-cam.com/video/2k18MKCO3h0/w-d-xo.html
@@lindavel43 Men love tomboys. Every channel that has a woman doing construction is saying "how do I get me one of those!" Being feminine has nothing to do with it. Sexual vitality matters. Being a people person that focuses on being win-win, matters. That woman was just a jerk.
Thanks for the message Breeny. Would like to add a few things here. Intimidation usually means respect for the woman and that the man is not a player. Women also shouldn’t expect a man to turn up and talk to them immediately after a signal has been given/taken because this was taught to him by his mother that women take time and therefore he’s just mirroring the energy. All said the truth is that most women fall for players. The genuine part in me could never get ladies till the time a player was turned ‘on’. After that there’s always been a waiting line.....There are some special women who understand the wait and they are the keepers. Thanks again 🎉
@RO Dizzle I'm pretty and tall girl. I noticed that average looking short girls have more opportunities than me and other beautiful tall girls. Tall girls are only loved when they're famous models 😭
@@epiphanygeorgia omg finally found this conversation....im 5'9 and not very small framed and i feel tha meb want short petite women mostly....nothibg wrong with that but i think it makes them feel more masculine and they are intimidated by me and its one of the things that always made me feel unattractive and insecure....:/
Omggg!! We truly are birthday twins!! I would ALWAYS get told that I look like I’m on a mission and NEVER notice the guys around me. I can be super oblivious! If you don’t walk up to me and make it plain, I would not know lol I keep a purity ring on, but I keep it on my right hand, so I still don’t understand how that’s mistaken for being married or something. I truly mind my business lol
PLEASE do a video on your opinion of dating apps! I am on/off of them all of the time (in part bc I fear that I won't meet anybody if I'm not on the apps) However, most of the apps don't result in a long term boyfriend anyway, even though a lot of these dating apps market themselves as if that's what will happen.
Really needed to hear this. Being a shy kind of girl, I think people often mistake my shyness for disinterest/bitchiness. I definitely need to work on exuding more approachable energy haha!
Exactly I know the feeling
I totally relate
Yea i was shy at one point in my life.
I can totally relate i have felt this way in the past
yea you will think people would get it but they dont.
10 reasons why you don’t get approached:
1. You are not looking at them. (You do not pay attention to men showing interest/ looking at you).
2. You look taken. (You look oblivious at men/carry yourself in a way that you look like you are in a relationship)
3. You do not smile. (You have a put on serious face).
4. You hang out around groups too much.
(It can be very intimidating for them and friends can cockblock).
5. You don’t look like you are interested. (Your attitude may come off as bored/ rude)
6. You don’t look like you are available. (Giving off an unavailable energy).
7. You look busy all the time. (You are always preoccupied/ on your phone etc).
8. You give off homegirl vibes (Make it hard for men to see you romantically.
9. You put in no effort or thought in the way you present yourself.
10. You look overdone. (Looking too much like a diva and giving out that aura).
Thanks for a great video💖
Keep up the fab content.
Hey babyyyy😭!!!!!!
Oh my God everything but the homegirl vibes 😭😭
@@octaviaactive8257 😂🥺💖
3,5, and 10 are me.
I have a natural serious looking face, been told this a couple of times
I don’t really want or care for attention right now, but you look gorgeous.
Hahaha ♥️
Lol period
Same
Untill the "Right" man shows up.
Exactly me too
I have resting B---- face. I don’t even realize it unless someone tells me...
same, someone just told me this yesterday lol. i’m not changing it tho 🤷🏽♂️
Yea my sis says i will never get a man because i look mean; but if i see something i like i want look mean no more. Lol
How are we so suppose to change this though😭
Me too! And I’m happily married / the right one will find y’all!!! Rbf and all 🤣
Swears
“You may be blocking your own blessings”
Facts.
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Am sure I have blocked many😅
@@Jenniferspace sad🤦
I got my now-husband by intentionally running into him while I was alone so he could talk to me lol. Towards the end of our convo I playfully told him to add me on Snapchat. And when he did and messaged me the next day, I also made an effort to message him FIRST the day after instead of waiting for him to keep reaching out. This was HUGE for me because normally I’m the passive type but I learned that if you want something, you got to take the initiative to get it. My point is, sometimes you gotta create an opportunity that allows a man to approach you. You gotta be strategic lol.
Can you teach all women to think like this....i keep telling them u have to have the same attitude as you do with anything you want in life
@@ndube4589 lol honestly it took me a LONGGGGG time to realize this. And I remember reading an article written by a man (I don't remember what the article was, sorry) that stressed this, and it began to make sense to me because running away and being passive didn't result in anything. Also, I feel like women are taught that "if a man wants you, he'll move mountains to get you" but we have to understand that a man will move mountains for a woman he KNOWS he WANTS. In the beginning, the guy doesn't really know you, so why would he keep chasing? We def gotta make it easier and more obvious in the beginning so men feel comfortable enough to talk to us. Thankfully the first time I tried being more open and upfront got me a husband lol
You need to start a youtube channel to teach women . What you said is exactly what a woman needs to do if she wants a man. Women need to stop having this fantasy that a perfect man is going to come out of nowhere and fall in their lap. Also that it's a man's job to make the relationship work and all the focus should be on the woman is another reason why a lot of women are single.
@@intothebeyond8763 you just spelt it out, Bro. That has been the message that our brothers on the #manosphere has been propagating for over a decade now
This will probably the only viable way to get into a relationship (asides from online dating) especially given how much criticism men receive on a day to day basis.
Having to wear these masks like 24/7 ain’t making it easier either.
True!
Facts
Eye contact, eye energy sis.
Gurl! And I also want to see what your face looks like before giving you my number 🤣
@@dorothyaboagye3363 for real!!
3 guys already told me “I Act like I am in a relationship “... even if I say that I am not in a relationship they do not believe me... I don’t understand
Sometimes you're too charismatic and some people think you're too good for them!
Probably your confidence and you because u know who you are in Christ.
@C. 😂 I’m a French speaker it’s might be why😅 I mean by that you look good so they are afraid by you!
ask them what they mean specifically
@@alexk7037 I’m a native English speaker and that still didn’t make sense to me lol. What does charisma have to do with not being approachable?
Been living alone for 4 years now i love its relaxing i dont care anymore for chasing woman im free to do what i want its the best life
This may be a new thing for me. I have spent my whole life chasing women and I'm getting to this place of...What am I doing? I need peace in my life and chasing women is not the way to it.
The dressing down tip is actually so true. When I'd go to the bar or club and I'd tried hard to be done up in a way that wasn't even true to me, men would feel that energy and I wouldn't get so much as a glance. When I gave up on that and went to the bar in jeans, a cute top that felt very 'me' and my glasses, men wouldn't leave me alone! It's all about putting in some effort, but being authentic to what makes you feel sexy even if that isn't the 'typical' outfit.
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If you want to meet a good guy. Open your eyes. Look for the guy working on a car or a motorcycle on a weekend.
The guy mowing his yard ,painting his home. He is the keeper.
The guy going out to party is not what you want.
See a nice looking guy at the car wash. Raise the hood of your car.
When younger. I would walk up to a beautiful woman and just say. Hello my name is. I can see the future. Would you like to know what I see.
If they say yes. Then I would say. I see in our future is this. It is a Saturday morning and you are sleeping in. I awaken you with breakfast and coffee while placing it on your nightstand.
Then I would say would you like to know more. If they said yes. They were hooked and I would tell them we are at a beach I’m building a sand castle for our two daughters. And our son you are holding in your arms.
Now after 25 + years I’m living with my two red Heelers. I own a farm. Retired and now the wife is gone.
Time to get back to my roots from when I was in my 20s . My mourning time is at a end. Time to live again.
FYI that story was no story.
I’ll see you out there ladies .
I think guys have a perception that if you are done up too much you might be high maintenance. Most guys can’t afford certain women and wouldn’t even entertain them. So obviously if you are dressed down you are a little more approachable to them. But I agree be authentically you, but you want to make sure if aren’t giving off the impression that it doesn’t require much work to keep you. Men know women who keep up with themselves require more from him to keep them.
Something I can take ownership for is that I don't actually put myself in situations that could get me approached. I'm a homebody, and it's worse now during this pandemic. I don't go out much but when I do, I'm literally in my head and don't notice anyone because I'm thinking to myself "no one is looking for you girl". I don't like dating apps either so if my boo is not at the grocery store, I might never meet him 😂😭
Ditto
Do you have hobbies or do any outdoors activity?
My mom doesnt use dating apps, she goes a lot to the gym and says 'hi' to the people there even if she doesnt know them. She is 50 and keeps getting approached and invited to dates.
Any activity works. Anime conventions, running in the park with your dog, yoga classes, going to the pool. If its an activity you enjoy others will notice and if you have a friendly energy you are really unlikely to fail.
we're the exact same person lmao
I screamed this is me
LMAO
The SMILING one is sooo true. Like I wouldn't even approach a girl who doesn't smile - it comes across as moody, negative and unapproachable.
I need to stop the friend energy. But like you said, what's meant for us won't pass us. So that's where I'm keeping my mind. ❤️
This isn't true. Ending up alone is a very real possibility men don't fall in your lap you need to work for things you want.
@@qlasalle Facts women think they don’t need to self improve they think it’s only the mans responsibility the Bible say faith without works is dead
lolllll
bye
As a guy I say don't be as unapproachable as possible.
The last thing guys need these days is a false harassment case .
We all know the game by now .
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Good one
11th Reason He Don't Approach You 👇🏾
Maybe God is hiding you for the right one. Be patients sis. Who is for you will be for you.
🙌🏽💖
Like Breeny said, who is for you will be for you and will not pass you by.
Thank you!!!
This 👌🏾
This is a big possibility and something I whole heartedly believed when I was single 😊
The right man will approach you at the right time. It doesn’t matter if you’re frowning or whatever. Ladies focus on yourselves and remember your self worth don’t settle for mediocrity!
that really depends on whether you are a mediocre woman. If you are a mediocre woman, why would a non-mediocre guy approach you? If you are not mediocre, what separates you from the rest? Most people are mediocre, that's what mediocre means.
*Horrible advice LMAO*
Thats unrealistic theirs a lot of single women
Translation " avoid most men"
@@debasishraychawdhuri What is a mediocre woman in a man's eyes?
Yes do a video on ‘spouse’ or ‘homegirl’ energy please ♥️
Im such a homebody I would like to see that vid too😊
Please!
yes... please!
Yesss
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Why do the ones you dont want approaching you, always approaching you though.... LOL
because you are entitled to nothing.. if you want something in life go get it like everyone else..
@@David-ej1ps It's the disney princess syndrom. And it's rampant.
Cause we are not mind readers of strangers
David Women are not supposed to approach men. Why don’t y’all understand that.
@@robynm.7950 Then why do we hear complaints of women HATING getting approached. So many videos of women saying they feeling scared when guys approaches her.
Thank you for existing Breeny.
I'm DEFINITELY too oblivious, especially if I'm not wearing my glasses. Sometimes I don't even see friends or family members who wave at me😖
You are me, I am you. 🥴
Me too lol
Lol girlll
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stay that way....good luck
That first part is true. I may catch some here and there when I turn around quick to check something I forgot but other than that I just look straight forward.
I stopped caring about if I get noticed by others and instead started focusing on what's more important, like my job, being financially secure, improving my health holistically, and in general I was a lot more happier. And this is when people started to notice and approach me. But I just be nice to all of them and help out if I can (as long as it doesn't hurt me!), and in general, things are really good. I learned how true it is when they say "happiness comes from within" and "it all starts with you". ❤🌸
That shouldn’t stop you finding a soulmate if you want one.
@@gbjanuary😊🙏🏼❤ It will happen if it is meant to happen, and when it does, I'll be taking a great amount of time and observation to see if he is actually worth adding to my life 👍🏼
Im focusing. on me. and my career right now.Tunnel vision! I NOTICE GUYS APPROACH ME WHEN IM NOT LOOKING SO YEAH LMAOOO
I AGREE OMG
@Thelma Thomas yeah, pretty much
Every single time I make the decision to only focus on myself, school, and my career a man just pops up. EVERY. SINGLE. TIME. 😂
@@sierratana1686 i don’t think self love is a bad thing. If you want to find a man while doing that that’s cool, as long as one doesn’t self love TOO MUCH. For me, I want to love myself for a good amount of years due to issues in my life.
@@sierratana1686 GIRLLLLL I FEEL YOUUUU!
I found this to be the opposite for me. I got approached so many times, I even got approached on dates while I was on my way to meet guys. I think because I was giving off available, happy and put together attitude and that's what attracted guys to me.
I continue to smile and be polite and still do me and be happily single :)
@Aces u mad because she pulls many guys and ur still a virgin ?
@@tharakir1328 I don't maybe upset because if she pulled that many then she doesn't have much tread on the tires anymore, so she doesn't really have any value left 🤷🏼♂️
@Aces never here the ones that get all the attention and use it to look for a decent man. Nor quiet ignored ones that prefer it that way, they always want the opposite of what they portray
@@LadyStephanieArtist thank u 💓
Happily single? Lmao stop lying.
Sunday nights aren’t complete until queen Breeny posts 🙌🏼
I can relate to a lot of what you said in this video: I’m always looking busy when I’m out doing errands/shopping etc, and when I do get approached it’s by boys in their 20’s...I’m in my 30’s 🤦🏻♀️
Most of the time this is what people think of me”You look too expensive, you look too confidant, you look inapprochable, you scare guys...” and the list can goes on🤦🏾♀️😩I’m working on my feminine energy, I’m a strong single independent woman and feel good about it I’m my own provider my masculine energy can scares man I get it, trying to let go that out of my work place! I was aware about what you said let’s work on it! Thank you🙏🏽Btw you are ridiculously gorgeous I have to say it🤩🔥 new subscriber 🙋🏽♀️
Hair looks great
I've met the worst that society has to offer online. No thanks and hell no.
'Hey empress!' Can tell is a Caribbean man
Yes!👍😁 I thought the same thing!😂 That's something some Caribbean men would say😏, I know this being from Barbados!😎
Has 👏🏽to👏🏽 be!👏🏽 They're a special kind 😄 I'm from St. Lucia! Heyyy Caribbean fam! 🤗
@@alkelangaspard hey from Jamaica
Of course 😂
Giiirl yes😂🤣
A lot of guys just mind their own business when out and about. We're not always looking to talk to random girls. I know I'm not. I'm single but I'm not desperate lol.
Right. No need for the chase.
In the end sometimes meeting women is too much stress and in most cases the level of stress is just not worth it. Sometimes it’s better to be on your own. I’m not a fan of being desperate either. I don’t feel like bothering people.
Same, women are everywhere... I'm not thinking of trying to get a # or meet a female when they are literally everywhere. I might meet a girl dressed down with no make up on and be impressed by the way she carries herself than a Instagram model making moves
Exactly. And also girls have a long list of guys to choose from. When you realize this you see how pointless it is.
Girls literally get hundreds or thousands of messages a day. And that's just from 1 app. Lol...
Exactly.
Literally 80% of these reasons are me. It's mainly because I use it as a defense mechanism to not get rejected by guys. All my life I've always had this mind set that guys will always reject me because I'm not like pretty enough. So I kind of have grown into the habit of self-sabotaging, so I basically reject myself before a guys gets the chance to do that, as a way to protect myself. I'm also extremely awkward and shy around guys, particularly those who I find attractive like I struggle to make eye contact and smile because I always assume they will think some weird girl is looking at them. All my life I've had this automatic program in my mind whereby everytime I see a boy( my type or not) I avoid making eye contact everytime I see a boy in my sight I look down or just subconsciously tell myself to not look
So yeah basically I'm the reason I've been single my whole life 🙃
I think for a long time I was afraid of male attention because I didn't know how to handle it. I was very introverted and anxious and I think men could see it.
introverts hate small talk. its so shallow
Why I don’t get approached: I look too young.
That’s BS. Only you believe that.
@@kojoboateng1017 my neighbor told me she thought I was 14 the other day. I’m 24. Being 5’2 doesn’t help.
@@Crystalthe1st is your neighbour in an age range and gender you would like to date? Babyface actually attracts many men, kinda suggests you got good genes. So stop with that BS that your babyface is putting men away
Same smh
Same😐
At this point, it has been over a decade since I learned not to approach women.
I was out at a local dive bar, and there was a young lady sitting by herself for quite some time. (I was in my early 20s) I approached her, saying hello and complimented her outfit. She said she had a boyfriend, so I just went back to my friends. About an hour later, a guy I had never seen before walked up and punched me in the face.
Ladies, we have no idea if you're single by looking at you. But given the kind of guys the majority of women prefer, I am never making the mistake of approaching a woman in public again.
Poor baby 😂 sorry for that
I've been told a few times that I look unaproachable and cold and I dont even do it on purpose.
Same 😩
Same
Ladies do something different like smile and look simple! That sets the tone!
Same
Just don’t be afraid to approach men or get rejected. In reality, gentle touching a men while talking with him will do it every time. It’s literally so easy if your a women
He doesn’t wanna get accused of something he didn’t do. 🤷🏽♂️
I mean it's pretty simple: Most women look angry, annoyed, frustrated and are generally unapproachable. They just do not look like they want men to talk to them a lot of the time. Men are generally tired of getting "I have a boyfriend" or getting rude dismissals...women often put zero effort in to show interest and it just gets tiresome.
I know right!! But for us girls, it can also be hard to flirt bc some of us are shy, for example, I am too shy to look at a man in a playful way, so I just prefer meeting them through mutual company, conversatiins are easier.
Bless you sister. About the last point: What kind of men were approaching tho? Its not about how many, but the type of.
Wow I really needed this video. I always say I’m pretty but guys don’t find me attractive and why do guys talk to my friends and not me. I’m so happy to see someone I can relate to talking about this topic! I’m gonna use all these tips and pray to god🥺
I definitely have bad rbf and a very dominant personality. I feel like guys don’t approach because they’re intimidated or feel like I’m out of there league 😭😭
The whole RBF is so hard to stop lol. I’m so used to having that face when around creepy dudes and ended up doing it everyday ugh
Girl, exactlyyyyy
"Creepy guys" lol. All the responses on here indicate you are ALL after the "non creepy" Alpha types. Maybe the "creepy guys" are really your matches, but since ALL of you go after the top 10%, then 90% of you will be disappointed and alone.
Don't worry, though, by 30 not even "creepy guys" will approach you. And by 35, it's game over for LTR.
30 is not the new 20, 30 is where your real appeal to men starts to run out.
@@spiritquests3970 by creepy I was talking about shady dudes on the street that would catcall and stalk late at night...
@@spiritquests3970 Lmfao Chris Hemsworth of all people settled for a woman 7 years older than him, out of her reproductive prime years...i’m pretty sure we’re out of the Stone Age sweetheart 😂 if you can’t get laid just say so
😂😂😂😂😂
I resonate so much with quite a few of these. One I've gotten as of late is that the guy felt intimidated by me (quite a few have actually told me). I've asked different friends in my life and got different responses ---one said I'm operating in my masculine energy more and thats what guys see , a couple others think I'm not intimidating at all (guarded, yes, but not totally unapproachable).
I seldom get approached as is, but when I do, I'm usually in sweatpants 😹😹 but when I try to dress a little cuter and more girly, I get CRICKETS . That's a big reason why I don't really put effort into looking cute, bc I'm like what's the real point if no quality guy notices anyway??
If a guy does check me out, I never get told that while I'm out. I don't go out a lot, but when I did pre pandemic, I wouldn't be around a huge group . And STILL would get nothing. I hate that my comments are always super long, but I seriously resonate with so much of what you say. You like the cool auntie or big sister I wanted to always have 💕
Not "masculine energy", but a "Masculady"!!
@@sheylaross a masculady??
When you smile and make eye contact they will approach--- all day long, many and many of the ones you want nothing to do with😂😂
😂😂facttttttt
OMG don't do that to the men your not attracted to it's very simple.
@@intothebeyond8763 😸sometimes I’m just spacing out we can’t help it
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Buy a dog
Alooot of guys who get to know me are shocked when they see how down to earth I am they always say at first sight I look too high maintenance and have attitude I don't get how you can assume someone has attitude just by looking at them 😌..
And I think another reason is some men judge the book by its cover.
Don’t forget men have built up experiences. I would consider myself a veteran at talking to n meeting women, but many woman would consider me something of a player because of how many women I’ve dated, but most men aren’t as determined as me.
I said that to say, men jhave been rejected ALOT, after awhile you get tired of rejection n try to be better at reading women instead of talking to everyone that’s pretty. I’ve met a number of women who a PRINCESS n I don’t have time for that shit. So if a person can see it ahead of time, they can save themself some time, energy n maybe even public rejection.
come off it, women judge men by their cover too. You must be dillusional to not think that.
Why would anyone want to hear about a man’s behaviour or motives from a woman? I’ll tell you all straight up why women are not approached. 1. Shyness/ fear of rejection. 2. Men do not want to be financially ruined by a woman. 3. Men don’t want to be accused of rape or sexual harassment
#2 is a bit of a leap as that assumes she already knows you prior to the initial approach. I think number one is valid. I’d also piggyback on that and not that I think some men are cautious more so than afraid and are protecting their hearts from being hurt.
I personally would like to give off homegirl energy more often. Guys always try to be more than friends when all I want is a platonic relationship
More like “those guys just wanna smash” and keep it moving
@@kojoboateng1017 I have to disagree with that statement. Respectfully.
Sorry but the only way you can be friends with a guy is if he's gay, otherwise don't waste either of our time.
@Decade Updates nah, he got a point, if you're an average to above average looking woman, no straight man wants to be friends with you...
Loool same
I always wanted to know why guys NEVER approach me, and for a while I thought I was the problem. But, now i'm just more comfortable of being or not being approached. I don't stress on it anymore, thank God lol.
can you please do a video on how to reject politely? I also would love to see the video on how to not be the homegirl
Just say "sorry I have a boyfriend", they'll take the hint. Or you could even say you're into girls.
@Decade Updates Exactly, that would be the perfect response. She's being adult and honest and he can move on.
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@Decade Updates exactly
@Decade Updates We are grown ass adults. We are just fine with a I'm not available. No further explanations are necessary.
You've been uploading so much lately Breeny it literally makes my day 💝
I'm currently in the 'single but unavailable' phase. I gotta do some inner work before thinking about another relationship.
However, this is excellent information for the future. Thanks girl! 💖💛💖💛
Another reason is that most men get rejected on a daily so they stop approach women. I consider myself as a good looking dude n sometimes I get rejected too so ion really approach women anymore. I just love myself Nd take care of myself and do what makes me happy.
Your energy is sweetly contagious and elegantly gracious! Gosh😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Never ever have I encountered a woman with such intuition and sensitivity as you!!! You have earned yourself one more male subscriber!!! LORD JESUS CHRIST ON HIGH!!! Bless you, dear!! Whoever ends up with you is one lucky man!! Thank you for understanding!!!
I believe she’s engaged to be married 😊
Thank you Breeny ✨💗 I think I don’t get approached because I don’t have female friends to go out with 🤦🏻♀️ it’s always when I’m with a guy that someone better looks my way and they always look disappointed that I’m with someone 😂
So on point. Especially looking like you could care less or as if you have no interest in the opposite sex. Men assume that you're probably in a very happy committed relationship and or you're so tired of guys coming up to you shooting their shot. Not saying that a women has to be overly nice but any grown man knows that a woman is very aware of her surroundings so if a man that she might be interested in being approached by enters the space and she totally ignores him he's gonna assume there's a reason why.
You definitely need your own column in a magazine/paper so people can ask aunt Breeny for advice lol
Men respect other men because they prioritize respect. They empower each other thats why their camaraderie is very good.
Definitely want your take on giving off home girl vibes!
i just watched a video like this, except is backwards
alot of women act stock up when you talk to them even when you're nice to them. that's why alot of men dont, besides some men with low confidense /shy/scared
I Hate those type of women
Breeny you're so beauuutiful!! 😍❤
The homegirl one hit!!! That's been my defense mechanism. Breeny please do make a video on that, I really hope you see my comment!
Many men tread lightly these days. We are told constantly that showing interest and approaching the wrong women could spell trouble for us.
We won't approach any more because it's not worth it any more.
I feel like I give off unavailable energy, and living in New York I really to just mind my business so definitely might be giving off a please don’t talk to me vibe.
I love how you put everything on point EVERY time!🥰
Thank you Breeny for this amazing content
It's been 5 years since i've been approched by a guy I started to think that I got a problem.
*Oh you definitely have a problem*
When you drop us your latest skin care routine and makeup routine I KNOW that the men will come running 😩❤
The “Home Girl Vibes” and the Defensive Mechanism videos 🙌🙏❤️
I’ve been told by a friend recently that I have a flat affect most of the time, and I was like what’s that? And she was like imagine your entire face got Botox and your voice sounds like you’re talking about a math equation! I think it’s part of depression. But I guess I’ll make more eye contact and look happier than I feel
I need the “homegirl energy” video ASAP
What is home girl energy?
??? he notices you...he is not interested and so he goes on with his life...if he is interested, he will approach you, there is nothing you can do
The last tip is the same for me😂😩…I never look my best when I’m approached
Who else likes Breeny’s videos before watching??
Okay one reason why I don't get approach is because I look clueless, one reason why guys don't approach me is because I look 14 (when I'm actually on my 20s)☠️🤣🤣🤣
The last one is on point...most men love the natural look, no crazy make-up because that's a natural beauty. Women's looks are completely different without makeup. Makeup is supposed to enhance your beauty not change how you naturally look.
I feel am begin hidding by my Heavenly FATHER before the right person comes 😊
We are all equal in modern world. Women need relationship more. So they must approach
I approach women who I find attractive and also send me choosing signals. If I don't get signals I don't waste my time
💯💯💯💯
what is a choosing signal?
@@karleek1202 A woman’s indirect verbal or visual cues that she likes you and is inviting you to approach or start a conversation with her. Many guys can’t interpret choosing signals properly its almost a science.
@@salasrcp90 example? idk how to send choosing signals lol
@@karleek1202 it’s just instinctual behaviors and traits in demeanor that can’t really be reproduced consciously. Girls send choosing signals without even being aware of it themselves and some guys have learned to pick up on them.
I tell you one thing, you Outsiders sure make things complicated. I and my late wife's marriage was arranged by our parents back in 1978. And we were together until she passed away in 2017. Now I travel the roads of America by myself and I am good with that. I am glad I don't have to deal with that anymore. I am a widower and happy now with that.
Women should just approach men and tell us what you want instead of playing all these games because we're over it. 💯
*I wouldn't trust a thing she said*
@@romanhoax9014 what she said was facts though
@@kesavvzD For women's perspective that's facts but not really ..
They only want 6 foot tall 6 figure earners to approach them every other guy is a creep or a hook up at best.
@@poophayd I believe that’s what people call a preference 💀some like that others like different.
The smilling thing definitely helps
There are a few women at the gym I'd like to approach, but they all wear headphones the whole time! I understand they may be wearing them because they don't want to be bothered, but the gym is a great place to have a quick chat with someone you already have something in common with.
Maybe too many guys at the gym.
The truth never hit so deep, I'm my own worst enemy
My gosh, Breeny... girl, give me a second to catch up with all this knowledge you droppppiinnggg ✨✨✨
lol
Hope all is well!
I'm a shy girl so you could imagine how awkward it is when some guy is looking at me. I don't want to do so they just stop looking or try approaching me
After this pandemic, I will definitely apply all the advice above! It's a whole struggle nowadays!!!1
Also, one very important thing is for you ladies stop dishing it out too freely. When men can get it super free why commit only to deal with the headaches that come with it?
I’ve been told a lot that I come across as very intimidating and high maintenance when in fact I’m very down to earth, introverted and wear hoodies n sweats most of the time...
no self reflection, people telling you direct feedback and ignoring that for own view through ego. cat lady alert
*Hoodies n sweats, so feminine*
I grew up around guys, I'm very masculine. I don't look like a typical girl, and have a hard time determining if the guy I like thinks of me as the homegirl. I'd love to see a video on how to be nice without being too nice. Just found you today, this is the content I've been craving! Thank you!
Happy Sunday, Breeny!! ✨❤️
I would say I don't get approached because
1. I am ALWAYS on my phone and my earphones are practically glued to my ears whenever I am out😂
2. I don't put as much effort into my appearance because I can be lazy
3. I don't know if anyone else feels this but when I am 'done up' i feel more self conscious because people are looking at me lol😂😭
So yeah you can see why I need help😩
Same, I feel like a hoe when I’m wearing makeup cause everyone is looking at me 😭
Aw
More men will approach you if you don't over do your makeup because social norms have psychologically grasped men into thinking "ton of make up and exuberant clothing" = "stuck up high maintenance" and gives off a "too much or too good for me" vibe. Self conscious thing with men. Dressing down and minimal makeup gives a guy the false sense of confidence they may need to approach you. They will believe you're the real you and being yourself and all that make up is not a mask hiding insecurities. Coming from a man who knows men. Addressing 1 and 2 will be your difference maker.
Women always wearing airpods in their ears are not too bright, especially in public! We need to be hyper-aware of our surroundings. It's much harder to hear if someone is trying to run up on us.
Please do a video on giving off too "homegirl" of vibes. I try to be super casual around all guys I meet and genuinely like being "one of the guys," or "chilling with the homies' status with guys, but I know I step into that too much and need to cut it back if I want someone to express interest
i love this, be more exclusive with yourself. play the game, turn their words into flirt. Second you do that she’s “one of the guys” status his thoughts will automatically switch. i feel like when guys hold you on a certain level there will always be a ‘what if’ situation somewhere floating in the relationship he thinks he has with you. all it is, is for you to show him that it’s in there and it’s okay to express your interest in me. try it. flirt.
Some guys just simply don't want to be bothered.
i walk around with headphones and dont even answer anyone who tries to talk to me lol
Didn't realize how much guys dislike the whole mandem vibes/masculinity vibes from a woman until i watched Ready for love. That really gets women friend zoned lol
Is this a movie? Because I am a tomboy. I've become more feminine and dress in skirts now. But, I feel that I am still very tomboyish in my body language an way of speaking. I call guys "man." Hard habit to get rid of. I am curious and want to watch it. I've been watching femininity and etiquette videos and become more "ladylike." Thank you.
Linda Vel it’s an American dating show. Which I’m hooked on atm! I like how it’s got a mature group on there rather than young people. This is the first episode, they eliminated a woman in the first round because they thought she was masculine. There’s more episodes on TH-cam. Enjoy. th-cam.com/video/2k18MKCO3h0/w-d-xo.html
@@lindavel43 Men love tomboys. Every channel that has a woman doing construction is saying "how do I get me one of those!" Being feminine has nothing to do with it. Sexual vitality matters. Being a people person that focuses on being win-win, matters. That woman was just a jerk.
*Imagine being surprised that MEN like feminine women, some of you women might be lost forever*
@@romanhoax9014 oh shut up lol.
Thanks for the message Breeny. Would like to add a few things here. Intimidation usually means respect for the woman and that the man is not a player. Women also shouldn’t expect a man to turn up and talk to them immediately after a signal has been given/taken because this was taught to him by his mother that women take time and therefore he’s just mirroring the energy. All said the truth is that most women fall for players. The genuine part in me could never get ladies till the time a player was turned ‘on’. After that there’s always been a waiting line.....There are some special women who understand the wait and they are the keepers. Thanks again 🎉
Men dont approach me because I'm 5'10 and they're intimidated
@RO Dizzle I'm pretty and tall girl. I noticed that average looking short girls have more opportunities than me and other beautiful tall girls. Tall girls are only loved when they're famous models 😭
@@epiphanygeorgia omg finally found this conversation....im 5'9 and not very small framed and i feel tha meb want short petite women mostly....nothibg wrong with that but i think it makes them feel more masculine and they are intimidated by me and its one of the things that always made me feel unattractive and insecure....:/
@@kallias.3503 now you know how short men feel. Congratulations
*Men aren't trying to be with women who are taller than them, you'd end up leaving anyway LOL*
Our Soul Sista Breeny looking beautiful as usual 😍 & dropping gems 💎
Omggg!! We truly are birthday twins!! I would ALWAYS get told that I look like I’m on a mission and NEVER notice the guys around me. I can be super oblivious! If you don’t walk up to me and make it plain, I would not know lol
I keep a purity ring on, but I keep it on my right hand, so I still don’t understand how that’s mistaken for being married or something. I truly mind my business lol
If a Man is not going to like me for me then he is not needed. You lot are giving these Misogynistic People more ground.
PLEASE do a video on your opinion of dating apps! I am on/off of them all of the time (in part bc I fear that I won't meet anybody if I'm not on the apps) However, most of the apps don't result in a long term boyfriend anyway, even though a lot of these dating apps market themselves as if that's what will happen.
I agree
Dating apps tend to be for hookups not LTR 👀
your like the sister i never had thank you for your inspirational videos God bless ❤️🥺