These things are true, my ex left me for someone else. I followed every video of love advice tv. 2 months from no contact my ex contacted me, but i did not gave in, i ignored her calls and chats. 7 months into no contact he begged for me to come back and she admits she regrets leaving me for someone else, u know what i did? I focused on myself and my goals on those 7 months from no contact. I focused on my career and physical aspect of my life, i learned new hobbies. When she saw i was not the man when i was on our rel she came back. Dont misunderstand me, all those months i realized she doesnt deserve me. I dont want her back.
I'm in NC in 2 months already and I blocked him in every possible SM and blocked his # ... I'm patiently waiting to that stage when(if) he comes back I'll be he best version of me and he no longer deserves this new version of me :)
After two months of not seeing each other and having very low communication, we finally got to hang out. She told me I looked more handsome (I lost 40lbs, changed hairstyle, new glasses, better facial care, way much better fashion), had said she was able to see and feel something different about me (I learned to be a much better listener and more careful with my words) and at the end of night, she was amazed how much benefit I was getting from finally focusing on myself. I NEEDED to love myself more! Things are still confusing but I am still trying to be the best person I can! It ain’t easy!! But we do have a second date coming up in a week, so we’ll see.
These videos have really helped me get through a tough time, whether we get back together or not i feel like a completely new person. Thank you love advice tv
Be proud of what u see in a mirror as its what you can control. See what really went wrong and improve yourself, to be betterment of yourself. Set goals and actually fulfill them. Complete a true process of personal transformation.
My ex broke up with me once. I worked on myself during nc. He did not. Now he broke up with me again because of the same things that caused problems in our relationship in the first place that he needed to change. But he blames me. How do I get him to realize that he needs to change now? I’m in nc again now. I love who I am and am proud of the changes that I have made for the better. Everyone around me even sees it. I just wish that my ex would appreciate it. I’ve always treated him extremely well and have accepted him for who he is. He says that he doesn’t want a relationship after our 3 1/2 year relationship but doesn’t seem to be able to let go. His patterns keep repeating themself and i really just don’t know what to do anymore. I love this man with all of my heart and soul.
I went to my ex’s house and told her I wanted to work things out, she said it’s too soon and the timing it’s not right, she said if we’re meant to be we’ll find a way back after we just talked and laughed around like we were still together. She also wants to stay friends and hangout. At this time I’m just letting time take control and hope we find a way back
2 months of no contact and these days I'm thinking about her. I will text her when I'm feeling better, to see how she's doing and built the same attraction like the first time we talked.
What if it takes a long time to become empowered and really make those life changes? I feel like it will take a while and by then is it even possible to get them back?
Please my ex just changed her behaviour like over night broke up with me,i still can't figure out what went wrong and it's been months now and she is dating another guy.please make a video on how you can identify what went wrong when it seems like everything was right.
The first time he left, I thought He was a drama queen bc I didn't like every show & song he liked, but no big deal on my part; I am easy going, thought we could compromise! He said love & attraction was not enough to keep us together in the long run. After 3 months, he returned, but only 1 month, we had a disagreement, he was not willing to discuss it; no open communication on his part. Was very hurtful and has ignored me for the last 4 months, But truely, I DON"T understand or know why he left?
My ex gf and I had a mutual break up yesterday. 3 months ago we broke up I did 1 month of no contact and she contacted me after that, afterwards 2 months later she told me she couldn't do it with me anymore since she can't forget about what I've done in the past. I'm back here again and this time I feel like it's a final break up since it was a mutual agreement and I didn't want to see her hurting anymore but I'm just so torn and sad
breaking up does only mean there is something wrong with one person what if the other person changed but the other person does not change. I mean on my part i did what should be done but in the process he did not change at all.how can you make the relationship last if only one partner changed.
My ex told me that we should be friends and that he doesn’t think things will go back to how they used to be. I told him that I can’t offer him a friendship right now and wished him the best, he never responded. He broke up with me a month ago. Was that the right thing to do??
Amber Honey Hard choice because I am in similar situation with my ex fiance of 11 years and we been separated for 6 months now she offered friendship and I agreed too it because we have alot of history Together and I still love her with all my heart and soul and she's my Bestfriend and Soulmate I can feel it inside my heart that she's the one for me she texted me today and we talked on text for about 4 hours I think this points towards a good sign because usually we talk 30 minutes at tops a day and that's it I am hoping our friendship turns into loving Realionship again anything is possible
Andrew Bunch I hope everything works out with you two! It seems like a good sign that you were able to communicate that long! Keep praying on it and don’t lose faith!
In a relationship, you should be accepting the other person for who they are. I do appreciate it that she’s being herself. However, she’s flirting with other guys and that really bothers me. Another thing is that she flirted even before we dated, so this is kinda a personality of her. She usually compliment them on their looks, saying ‘I love you’ out of habit to them. It hurts me and I’ve talked to her about it. However, she still continue to flirt after that. Is this disrespectful? What should I do?
Absolutely disrespectful! Complimenting another man other than you is a “No-No” (gut punch- saying it in front of you) then saying “I love you” to them???😲🤭Wow! She does NOT deserve you…… runnnn!
Ex gf broke up with me 3 months ago, since we lived together we had to split up our assets like a divorce. I did no contact for the last month, during that time I found out someone started talking to her the day of the break up, 3 weeks after the break up the calls stopped. I got a feeling she is seeing someone now, not sure if it's the same person as the calls. We basically live next to each other, saw another car there this weekend that I have never seen before, anxiety went thru the roof. We workout at the same gym, I had lost 30 pounds since the break up. That's been my life for the last 3 months. Not sure what to do next, everyone says move on. Still love her tho.
He told that "you are over possessive. You are the reason for break up. You are spoiling my carrier. You are suffocating i will never come back to you. I don't love you."...trust me i hv requested him a lot not to leave me.. Bt he left... Am felling like lost... I can't tolerate the pain... I want him... I love him unconditionally... We hv stopped contacting.. Isn't it toooo difficult to tolerate the pain not to talk soneone u miss badly.. Even if you have no right to call him or text him.....
my situation is a little complex even for me to comprehend anymore ...I broke up with him in June after so much hustle to restore the relationship , and gave him no contact after which he tried to come back and I think I over rushed and asked him too quick ...he has since then pushed away from anything like a relationship with me but can text , pick up wen I call etc but just doesn't want anything to do with a relationship ...I decided to keep off mysteriously but this obsession for him is really hard to get over ....and I need him bak ....please help me out .....pleaaaaaaaase
After 4 months I met him, he came to receive me from bus stop due to some issues going on in my current area.... I just messaged him about current situation.. He arrived their before me, and then I asked him did u missed me like that.... he said that, he is not missing or thinking about me... And then he said u only not having faith in me ...n also he told that am not constant
What if me and my partner got on a “break” and how can we work that out? My bf and i have been together for 20 mths but we havent talked in 2 weeks and i dont know what we are anymore
great channel. I love u guys very much and I really love what you guys are doing to help us get back together with our ex. I have begged and pleaded with my ex for him to give me the second chance but it's pushing him further away so I decided to do the no contact rule and I have come to realized its importance. my ex is dating someone now and it's difficult for me but I'm doing things to better up myself. He view my stories n I have confidence he will come back together. please coach Alex what should I do now
Yes you are right. Empowering us is really a great job you're doing and these steps are perfect which you are suggesting will keep them in mind 1. Goal setting n inspiring 2. Not considering love as a routine and 3. Change in patterns and behaviors. And no thinking about them always is like the cherry on the cake. Thank you for developing my confidence and inspiring me through your awesome content. Love advice TV is the best channel will surely be recommending this to all around who need such support. 😇😇🙃😘😊😊😊
The thing is.. I don't really know what went wrong. He broke up and said he couldn't imagine a future with me, but doesn't know why, because he is happy. And we didn't fight, like I never thought he would break up. Everything was so perfect I thought? Like.. it's hard to understand? I know I was very needy and talked a lot about future plans and stuff... but I still don't know if those really were the reasons? It's driving me crazy. :(
Hey Britta, If he said he couldn't see a future with you then I would let it go. Find someone who appreciates you and how amazing you are. Coach Samira
This is a fantastic video! So timely for things that are occurring in y life right now. Very reassuring and empowering because, following your advice, everything is working just the way you describe. You don't always see it as you go forward, them you look back and see the progress. Its amazing
Thanks coaches... yesterday my ex told me he is missing me but today he is very cold I tried to talk to him as a friend but he is just cold not excited It seems like he is not interested What should I do???
Sash - my ex did the same thing and still doing it . It been 10 months now we been separated and i pulled awAy and since then he been reaching out . Pull away do not initiate anything , you have to be strong ...
Hi coach, But what if an ex is saying and showing that he will never be affected by anything which is related to me? There is no any kind of communication between us and I don't think so it can happen in future. Please help coach.
Hi Swati, If he is not being open to you then do not contact your ex. He is trying to act as if he is cutoff emotionally. Focus on you right now. Coach Samira
Hey coaches! I'm Ayesha and having the same problem as everyone out there has ... I'm currently on 26th Day of NC period and there are not good signs! We study in a same institute so we often see each other! During this NC rule I've worked on myself I've changed my dressing style my hair style even everyone praise me for my new look but there are no green signals from his side... Should I continue or just move on and leave things behind?
Just continue being the great person that you are, don’t stop. just move on and if he doesn’t appreciate/miss you than he doesn’t deserve you and if he does reappear let him earn your new and improved self. Any updates??
I luv this video.Thank you guys you are great! I like your personalities alot and it's true what you say.Thank you Alex for adding that last part that it's "not your fault" because I carry alot of guilt that I made so many mistakes.Take care- Johana
My ex said many times that i was the best thing in her in the last 3 years sence her divorce she was single for those years till I showed up now she has left and has not talk to me so will she ever come back or no what should I do I thought i was doing all the right things but I guess not we were together 7 months
Hi coaches, it has been more than a year since my ex broke up with me, I fell into the trap of being friends with benefits him then I begged and pleaded but he doesn’t want to be emotionally involved with me. He just want to be my friend. I cut off contact a week ago but I feel really bad. What are Your thaughts and what should i do? Thank you...
do i still have a chance if my ex is being very harsh and tells me he feels “numb” towards me. we fought a lot and i was clingy during the relationship. is there anyway he can be “un-numbed”?
My ex told me he wants space and needs time to focus on himself. Almost two months have passed in NC. I don't want to reach out first because he asked for space and I respect that. I was very clingy and needy in our relationship and I think that's the best I can do. I've changed. I have depression for 5 years but now I started to fight it. I want to be a better person for him but first of all for myself. I found a new passion, I've started seing friends I'm motivated more than ever. But I don't know if I'm doing the right thing not reaching out. Few weeks ago I found out that I have 2 years to have a children. I determined that I would wait another month and if he doesn't reach out I will have to let it go. Do you think I'm doing the right thing?
Kasia Bast you should get the audio mp3 that the coaches offer on their website about get him back. I think they talk about this exact thing. It’s like $30 I think
Ka bacjak, I think you should wait more 2 months hardly if you really love him. And go on your self development process as well. If he doesn’t show up within this time, just move on. Additionally, you can send him a brief hand written letter that he is gonna lose you. And move on and go for making a family of your own. Time is very crucial thing for women.
What do you do if it’s not about you as a person it’s about them and the way they see themselves? I ex says he can’t be in a relationship because he’s not in the right head space ..!?!??
Whats up, if you desire your ex back, that's cool. But if you want to get to know yourself and naturally end up being the charming person you should be, look for Treitan Mellory. Look, he or she, will want you back once again, nevertheless for a better explanation, you might need to read the whole thing.
So my ex and I we're in the friends with benefit loop for two months after we broke up and we were on the page to getting back together ...until out of nowhere he said he is dating someone and trying to move on and just want to be friends ..what should I do ? Leave him alone or continue to text normal like 'friends '
hi, off topic. I'm an artist and i post my drawings almost daily. Should i hold off on posting cute couple drawings even though my boyfriend just broke up with me, about a week ago? And if so, for how long? thanks!
we dated one year but we start to have problems because she was not invested in the relationship as i was. we broke up 3 months ago. First 5 days of no contact and she text me. But one week lather we broke up again. 20 days later i text her and we had sex but we didnt go back in the relationship. i told her that maybe we had to stop seing each other and she didnt stop me. That was the last time we saw or talk each other. Now we are already in one month and a half of no contact and i dont know if its all over or we still have a chance to fix things up. What do you think? its possible that she reachs out to me if we still in no contact?
Hello I’m Joy Armenta from philippines. :) Coach Natalie, Coach adrian, Coach Alex and Coach Samira. I just need your help I’m so devastated and panicking. :( My ex and I having 4 years Relationship. My ex is Lesbian. Yes, a lesbian. We broke up because she find a new girl in facebook and she left me. She jumped into a new relationship 6 days after we broke up. I don’t know what to do? Help me to win her back. I love her so much. Are we over ? :(
Just speaking generally because I know specific advice is only available through coaching, but since I can't afford that at the moment, what steps should I take for my situation where my ex broke up with me 3 months ago, started dating a coworker a few weeks ago, and doesn't talk to me after no contact but we aren't on bad terms? Edit: Or maybe you could make a video on what to do if you aren't talking but there aren't any negative feelings and it's only so that it doesn't create any conflict in the new relationship? Thank you
How do we show our Ex that we became a differnt person do we try to set up something to see each other? Do I pop up out of no where. I jst broken up with girl last Saturday and I been working on me to improve my self. I know what I had to do change where messed up in my self. But dont know exactly when to see my ex to show it
After following everything u guys said. My ex and I did get back together. After two days of getting back together I found out that he almost had sex with another woman but stopped cuz he realized he didn't want to and wasn't into it. It still hurt me a lot because it was just two weeks later and also that what if he did end up doing it and didn't stop ? He said he is Gonna change and realizes he hurt me and did me wrong. Should I take him back or no. Pls help me cuz I don't wanna set my self up for the type that will take him back no matter what ? I follow ur advice without hesitation. Please do answer. Thank you so much.
Its been 2.5years after our breakup. My bday is before hers and the first year she wished me happy bday. i did not reply and i did not wish her on hers. this year she was quite and i have not heard from her. she is in a relationship after the breakup (about a monthafter). i really want to wish her this year as i feel strong about myself. i aslo would like to reconnect and meet her. i dont want to cause problems whith what she has but should it not work out in the future or whatever, i would like to try again. i want to become her friend again after this long and make sure that it is what i want. if not then i am ok with it but i want to know if we can still stand a chance. please give me some advise on this as i dont want to send her off running too.
Please am in a deep shit and i seriousely need help before i loose it.My girlfrd said she is no longer in love with me that she wants her ex back.she said she's more compactable with him than me and every now and then they are always in contact. that she can never be happy with me.And now she has ask me to pack out of her house and get a place of my own.she has been doing this numerous times and later she will come apologising that she doesn't know what came over her and the next day she will repeat the same thing again.she boost of her ex over me every time and this is pissing me up.Now am about moving out of the house.WHAT SHOULD I DO PLEASE COACH AM DEPRESSED.HELP ME.
Real SportTv you seem like a great man and just focus on youself and use no contact because you should be bettering your life and I know it’s hard, I’m going through similar stuff now and if she loves you she’ll comeback especially if your empathetic
Your right coaches be proud and more confidence thats what i did i really love much myself right now and proud coz i make it and ive change thank u coaches more videos and advices more power god bless u all 😇☺️👍
Dear Alex . Hello Dear my person left me in cold . He is often off and on . From past three days he is messaging again. Now tell me how I will handle this situation. I go through ur video u advised to post joyful pic .I do the same 😂now help me to bring him back
Heyy i have a question i meet my ex by accident during no contact days but we spent really good time togther . My question should i stike and continue to no contact days or just stop the contact days and text her ?
I’m doing the no contact rule literally I saw your video and I decided to leave it alone . Because I have pushed him away slot. Beg and cried and cried and I put him in pedestal . But I want to back off so he can see what his done but I do want him back. But I do feel he has someone else . But doesn’t say the truth
Plsss help mee!!! So my ex texted me that he stopped reaching out bc he thinks it leads to dirty thoughts....we ate both young christians,so we want to wait,we are living in different countries,he didnt wanted long distance...he also texted me he doesnt know if he just feels lust or love for me...i am doing the no contact too.. but i feel like if he really loved me he would come to my country..idk is there a chance?:( i always try to move on then he comes back to me and i am falling back
Hi, i’ve hurt my ex husband and now he dosent want to talk with me, the day when he left i Said ugly Words to his mother and dead syster, now he doesnt want to hear my name, what should i do, we are not divorced yet and i want him back! Sorry for my english but im from Europa thanks
Hi Gabby Gabs, Give him some time to cool down from being upset. You have to give him time and think about writing him a letter or communicate your apology. Coach Samira
I reached out to my ex a few days ago after not seeing him in 5 weeks and responding briefly to only 2 messages from him. The correspondence I initiated seemed positive. I told him about a little video I created and posted on fb and he responded with "That's very good". I said thank you and that I valued his opinion. That was the extent of it. Now what?t
Hello! My ex broke up with me months ago.. somehow he still messages me and watches my social media everyday. What does this mean? We already said we wouldn’t see eachother and just continue on with our lives but why does he ask me “are you at school?” “You want to catch a coffee?” I don’t understand
Hey Mohit Chand, if she is in a new relationship, you have to accept that she is currently unavailable and you need to focus more on improving your own life. To get the girl, you have to turn away from her - Coach Adrian
i’ve had no contact and my first meet up yesterday, however my ex still believes he not good for me. he cried and told me he hates to think of me meeting someone new but he’s not good, i think i’ve made him think this with my high expectations previously. do you think this means i should stop? we kissed but i left before it could go any further!
Hi Venus, If he thinks he feels not good enough for you then you should find someone who holds you in the highest regard. If he feels that way then you may not feel that your needs will be met. Coach Samira
Me an the mother of my child have been together almost 10 years she recently told me she needed her space i gave her that its been 5 months and she stated that we need to move on what should i do
Means just what she says...move on it's a high chance another man has slept with her. Women are really always looking to look for the comfort of a man and need reassurance. The guy shes probably been taking up her time for 5 months is going to be your biggest issue. She will compare his innocence to every issue you guys had and she will most likely make you feel like you were never for her. I'm dealing with something similar right this moment. Be strong brother God knows and sees it all he has your back
Very well but what happens if she left you due to life pressures that made me feel needy and she does not approach me? That means that I have to approach her which can also be perceived as neediness
Hi Jack, Neediness will push people away. If she has life pressures and she feels more pressure from you she won't want to handle it. You have to begin no contact and focus on you right now. Coach Samira
Love Advice TV yes. That’s it. This is my fourth week but it all depends ion her reaching out. Not much I can do for her to want to reach out to find the improved version of me
I would say,"oh,good for you im happy that we can find happiness in our respective paths(with a smile)"it'll leave her confused and wonder if you have a new partner
Amazing video coach Alex coach adrian.My ex is back to me 5 months back...after 2 months no contact period...now at present...why do I constantly feel...he doesn't love me or he doesn't care any more..I dont know wats wrong....constantly I feel sad nd sad..no signs of happiness...(onli partial time being happiness)...please make a video explaining...wat shall i do
Hey Deepti, perhaps you are placing your happiness on how your ex treats you. You can't determine your level of happiness based on someone else's treatment of you. That gives the other person too much control and takes your own happiness out of your own hands - Coach Adrian
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity yes coach Adrian...I felt that...entire control is in his hands..and I feel he wants me to chase him...nd I feel he wants me to follow him...watever he says...I dont know what to do...I have started feeling that if he talks to me m happy otherwise m sad...what shall I do now??
hi coach samira my ex has not been communicating with me since our break up but she looks at me with a mean look on her face what does this mean I’m just so scared
Me n my ex broke up 4 months back he loved me but never willing to commit. He wanted everything on jus fun level nothing serious.I cut off completely coz I wanted somethin for Long run. I couldn't move on in mean while he seem completely. Idk this would make him fall back nd willing to be serious?!
what should i do if my husband is come back after 3 years no contact but he still talk about his ex and sometime he compare me with the ex..pls help me..
Soumya Srivastava me too, and the worst part is...I’m 6weeks pregnant. My ex wants be together but I can’t trust him. So I had to walk away. Which sucks because I need his support during this pregnancy
Hi Soumya, I'm so sorry to hear you are going through a hard time. Please don't hesitate to book a session with one of our awesome coaches here: www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Coach Samira
Melanie Castillo hey I’m in high school too! I’m a junior, And I can tell you that they apply too from personal experience! After over almost a year my ex came back this past weekend and wants to repair our bond! This stuff can apply to you too as long as you trust them and the process!
i was in a long distance relationship...8 months old...and i broke up and regrating about if...i am alrdy in 33rd day of no contact!! wht should i doo...i want him back...pls suggest!
Hi Rupanski, Day 33 of NC is great! I would need to know more context of what happened to guide you. Please don't hesitate to book a session here: www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Coach Samira
Love these videos man. I don’t even care to get my ex back anymore. I just love the videos, so empowering and well approached.
Mitchy Williams lol same her I care about loving my self more now !
Absolutely the coolest comment Mitchy 😂
Same here. 😊
Me too!
Same feeling here 😁👌🏾
Be proud of the person you see in the mirror, great advice coach!
Thanks Paul!
Coach Samira
These things are true, my ex left me for someone else. I followed every video of love advice tv. 2 months from no contact my ex contacted me, but i did not gave in, i ignored her calls and chats. 7 months into no contact he begged for me to come back and she admits she regrets leaving me for someone else, u know what i did? I focused on myself and my goals on those 7 months from no contact. I focused on my career and physical aspect of my life, i learned new hobbies. When she saw i was not the man when i was on our rel she came back. Dont misunderstand me, all those months i realized she doesnt deserve me. I dont want her back.
I'm in NC in 2 months already and I blocked him in every possible SM and blocked his # ... I'm patiently waiting to that stage when(if) he comes back I'll be he best version of me and he no longer deserves this new version of me :)
Focus on yourself. Do things that make you happy. If you are meant to get back together with your ex, it will happen.
Do you really believe that? If its meant to be it will?
Steven Sigala if it’s meant to be it’ll happen. That’s what I keep telling myself
If you love something let it go. If its ment to be, they'll come back.
I agree..
Love2 Laugh thanks bc I completely missed the whole point of the video I think their voices are too low
After two months of not seeing each other and having very low communication, we finally got to hang out. She told me I looked more handsome (I lost 40lbs, changed hairstyle, new glasses, better facial care, way much better fashion), had said she was able to see and feel something different about me (I learned to be a much better listener and more careful with my words) and at the end of night, she was amazed how much benefit I was getting from finally focusing on myself. I NEEDED to love myself more! Things are still confusing but I am still trying to be the best person I can! It ain’t easy!! But we do have a second date coming up in a week, so we’ll see.
So whats the scenario now mate?
These videos have really helped me get through a tough time, whether we get back together or not i feel like a completely new person.
Thank you love advice tv
But no matter how amazing I am now, if they have found someone else and fell in love with them, there is nothing I can do...
My best Channel, I love you all.
Can you talk about the infamous line “I don’t love you, I never did”
Why people say that.
Just to be ugly and make themselves feel better
Because they are angry on you and still loves you
Be proud of what u see in a mirror as its what you can control. See what really went wrong and improve yourself, to be betterment of yourself. Set goals and actually fulfill them. Complete a true process of personal transformation.
Great advice coaches. In my situation I feel that I lost her for good. She is in a new relationship and she seems that she loves this guy 💔
I'm sorry. Hope you are happy now
My ex broke up with me once. I worked on myself during nc. He did not. Now he broke up with me again because of the same things that caused problems in our relationship in the first place that he needed to change. But he blames me. How do I get him to realize that he needs to change now? I’m in nc again now.
I love who I am and am proud of the changes that I have made for the better. Everyone around me even sees it. I just wish that my ex would appreciate it. I’ve always treated him extremely well and have accepted him for who he is.
He says that he doesn’t want a relationship after our 3 1/2 year relationship but doesn’t seem to be able to let go. His patterns keep repeating themself and i really just don’t know what to do anymore. I love this man with all of my heart and soul.
Hello, I'm currently in the same boat. Can you give me any advice?
I went to my ex’s house and told her I wanted to work things out, she said it’s too soon and the timing it’s not right, she said if we’re meant to be we’ll find a way back after we just talked and laughed around like we were still together. She also wants to stay friends and hangout. At this time I’m just letting time take control and hope we find a way back
Update, I moved on.
ASTRO good for you man
2 months of no contact and these days I'm thinking about her. I will text her when I'm feeling better, to see how she's doing and built the same attraction like the first time we talked.
What if it takes a long time to become empowered and really make those life changes? I feel like it will take a while and by then is it even possible to get them back?
Please my ex just changed her behaviour like over night broke up with me,i still can't figure out what went wrong and it's been months now and she is dating another guy.please make a video on how you can identify what went wrong when it seems like everything was right.
The first time he left, I thought He was a drama queen bc I didn't like every show & song he liked, but no big deal on my part; I am easy going, thought we could compromise! He said love & attraction was not enough to keep us together in the long run. After 3 months, he returned, but only 1 month, we had a disagreement, he was not willing to discuss it; no open communication on his part. Was very hurtful and has ignored me for the last 4 months, But truely, I DON"T understand or know why he left?
We realise once we hear what we already know being reiterated by the love advice crew it always makes sense.
I'm glad we are able to frame it in a way that is easily digestible for you :) - Coach Adrian
My ex gf and I had a mutual break up yesterday. 3 months ago we broke up I did 1 month of no contact and she contacted me after that, afterwards 2 months later she told me she couldn't do it with me anymore since she can't forget about what I've done in the past. I'm back here again and this time I feel like it's a final break up since it was a mutual agreement and I didn't want to see her hurting anymore but I'm just so torn and sad
breaking up does only mean there is something wrong with one person what if the other person changed but the other person does not change. I mean on my part i did what should be done but in the process he did not change at all.how can you make the relationship last if only one partner changed.
At least it means you are now nore desirable for others
How do you understand what went wrong if they ghosted you?
My ex told me that we should be friends and that he doesn’t think things will go back to how they used to be. I told him that I can’t offer him a friendship right now and wished him the best, he never responded. He broke up with me a month ago. Was that the right thing to do??
Yes, it was the right thing to do. Agreeing to friendship is the worst thing you can do.
Amber Honey he wanted to keep you as a just Incase holla back situation. Meaning if his current doesn’t work out he runs back to you.
Amber Honey
Hard choice because I am in similar situation with my ex fiance of 11 years and we been separated for 6 months now she offered friendship and I agreed too it because we have alot of history Together and I still love her with all my heart and soul and she's my Bestfriend and Soulmate I can feel it inside my heart that she's the one for me she texted me today and we talked on text for about 4 hours I think this points towards a good sign because usually we talk 30 minutes at tops a day and that's it I am hoping our friendship turns into loving Realionship again anything is possible
Hi Amber,
Yes, you did the right thing. You have to remember how wonderful you are!
Coach Samira
Andrew Bunch I hope everything works out with you two! It seems like a good sign that you were able to communicate that long! Keep praying on it and don’t lose faith!
In a relationship, you should be accepting the other person for who they are. I do appreciate it that she’s being herself. However, she’s flirting with other guys and that really bothers me. Another thing is that she flirted even before we dated, so this is kinda a personality of her. She usually compliment them on their looks, saying ‘I love you’ out of habit to them. It hurts me and I’ve talked to her about it. However, she still continue to flirt after that. Is this disrespectful? What should I do?
BronzeBobCat is she a libra lol cuz libras are naturally flirty
It is disrespectful, you should tell her that she needs to set boundaries and if she doesn't want to do that, she's not worth your time
Absolutely disrespectful! Complimenting another man other than you is a “No-No” (gut punch- saying it in front of you) then saying “I love you” to them???😲🤭Wow! She does NOT deserve you…… runnnn!
Ex gf broke up with me 3 months ago, since we lived together we had to split up our assets like a divorce. I did no contact for the last month, during that time I found out someone started talking to her the day of the break up, 3 weeks after the break up the calls stopped. I got a feeling she is seeing someone now, not sure if it's the same person as the calls. We basically live next to each other, saw another car there this weekend that I have never seen before, anxiety went thru the roof. We workout at the same gym, I had lost 30 pounds since the break up. That's been my life for the last 3 months. Not sure what to do next, everyone says move on. Still love her tho.
Hey Jay,
Give her some time. It sounds like rebound. If it's been 3 months it may be time to initiate contact with her.
Coach Samira
He told that "you are over possessive. You are the reason for break up. You are spoiling my carrier. You are suffocating i will never come back to you. I don't love you."...trust me i hv requested him a lot not to leave me.. Bt he left... Am felling like lost... I can't tolerate the pain... I want him... I love him unconditionally... We hv stopped contacting.. Isn't it toooo difficult to tolerate the pain not to talk soneone u miss badly.. Even if you have no right to call him or text him.....
my situation is a little complex even for me to comprehend anymore ...I broke up with him in June after so much hustle to restore the relationship , and gave him no contact after which he tried to come back and I think I over rushed and asked him too quick ...he has since then pushed away from anything like a relationship with me but can text , pick up wen I call etc but just doesn't want anything to do with a relationship ...I decided to keep off mysteriously but this obsession for him is really hard to get over ....and I need him bak ....please help me out .....pleaaaaaaaase
Nothing more attractive to see like real men who are so smart and good people 💖keep up the good work guys...great tips
Thank you very much Julia 😊- Alex
Excellent version 👍 Alex and Adrian.ur just superb
After 4 months I met him, he came to receive me from bus stop due to some issues going on in my current area.... I just messaged him about current situation.. He arrived their before me, and then I asked him did u missed me like that....
he said that, he is not missing or thinking about me... And then he said u only not having faith in me ...n also he told that am not constant
I no need anymore to listen those advices 🤣,becouse once I sow the handsome face of Alex i directly forget my ex 🤣❤️😍, you ar so nice
What if me and my partner got on a “break” and how can we work that out? My bf and i have been together for 20 mths but we havent talked in 2 weeks and i dont know what we are anymore
great channel. I love u guys very much and I really love what you guys are doing to help us get back together with our ex. I have begged and pleaded with my ex for him to give me the second chance but it's pushing him further away so I decided to do the no contact rule and I have come to realized its importance. my ex is dating someone now and it's difficult for me but I'm doing things to better up myself. He view my stories n I have confidence he will come back together. please coach Alex what should I do now
Yes you are right. Empowering us is really a great job you're doing and these steps are perfect which you are suggesting will keep them in mind 1. Goal setting n inspiring 2. Not considering love as a routine and 3. Change in patterns and behaviors. And no thinking about them always is like the cherry on the cake. Thank you for developing my confidence and inspiring me through your awesome content. Love advice TV is the best channel will surely be recommending this to all around who need such support. 😇😇🙃😘😊😊😊
Hi Deepika,
Anytime! I'm so happy to hear you found this helpful! Stay strong!
Coach Samira
Love Advice TV please help me I don’t know what to do :(
I’m scared :(
The thing is.. I don't really know what went wrong. He broke up and said he couldn't imagine a future with me, but doesn't know why, because he is happy. And we didn't fight, like I never thought he would break up. Everything was so perfect I thought? Like.. it's hard to understand? I know I was very needy and talked a lot about future plans and stuff... but I still don't know if those really were the reasons? It's driving me crazy. :(
Hey Britta,
If he said he couldn't see a future with you then I would let it go. Find someone who appreciates you and how amazing you are.
Coach Samira
100% Agree. You were needy for him... He needs to be attracted to you.
Awesome information ....
Love it. Very good advice!!
This is a fantastic video! So timely for things that are occurring in y life right now. Very reassuring and empowering because, following your advice, everything is working just the way you describe. You don't always see it as you go forward, them you look back and see the progress. Its amazing
Hey Mike,
So happy to hear this! You are inspiring!
Coach Samira
Thanks coaches... yesterday my ex told me he is missing me but today he is very cold
I tried to talk to him as a friend but he is just cold not excited
It seems like he is not interested
What should I do???
sush prajapat sameee i need help too:((
sush prajapat and why would you want to be with someone like that? Geez
Hey Sush,
If your ex is being cold then do not initiate contact anymore. Let him come to you.
Coach Samira
Sash - my ex did the same thing and still doing it . It been 10 months now we been separated and i pulled awAy and since then he been reaching out . Pull away do not initiate anything , you have to be strong ...
Love Advice TV thanks coach Samira
What if it’s long distance? How to do then?
there there bro, ik how you feel... i've been dumped after being together for 6 years
En i feel yuu Yoshi😂
Hi coach,
But what if an ex is saying and showing that he will never be affected by anything which is related to me? There is no any kind of communication between us and I don't think so it can happen in future. Please help coach.
Hi Swati,
If he is not being open to you then do not contact your ex. He is trying to act as if he is cutoff emotionally. Focus on you right now.
Coach Samira
What about if children are involved? And co parenting?
Yes. I want to hear more about those situations as well
Me too
Hey coaches! I'm Ayesha and having the same problem as everyone out there has ... I'm currently on 26th Day of NC period and there are not good signs! We study in a same institute so we often see each other! During this NC rule I've worked on myself I've changed my dressing style my hair style even everyone praise me for my new look but there are no green signals from his side... Should I continue or just move on and leave things behind?
Just continue being the great person that you are, don’t stop. just move on and if he doesn’t appreciate/miss you than he doesn’t deserve you and if he does reappear let him earn your new and improved self. Any updates??
I luv this video.Thank you guys you are great! I like your personalities alot and it's true what you say.Thank you Alex for adding that last part that it's "not your fault" because I carry alot of guilt that I made so many mistakes.Take care- Johana
My ex said many times that i was the best thing in her in the last 3 years sence her divorce she was single for those years till I showed up now she has left and has not talk to me so will she ever come back or no what should I do I thought i was doing all the right things but I guess not we were together 7 months
Could you tell me during no contact rule, if ex calls or sms for his bday party, should I go there
Hi coaches, it has been more than a year since my ex broke up with me, I fell into the trap of being friends with benefits him then I begged and pleaded but he doesn’t want to be emotionally involved with me. He just want to be my friend. I cut off contact a week ago but I feel really bad.
What are Your thaughts and what should i do?
Thank you...
Syr Rys. It’s time to find a man that really wants you.
Hey Syr Rys,
You did the right thing. Continue NC and let him come to you. Let him miss you.
Coach Samira
do i still have a chance if my ex is being very harsh and tells me he feels “numb” towards me. we fought a lot and i was clingy during the relationship. is there anyway he can be “un-numbed”?
My ex told me he wants space and needs time to focus on himself. Almost two months have passed in NC. I don't want to reach out first because he asked for space and I respect that. I was very clingy and needy in our relationship and I think that's the best I can do. I've changed. I have depression for 5 years but now I started to fight it. I want to be a better person for him but first of all for myself. I found a new passion, I've started seing friends I'm motivated more than ever. But I don't know if I'm doing the right thing not reaching out. Few weeks ago I found out that I have 2 years to have a children. I determined that I would wait another month and if he doesn't reach out I will have to let it go. Do you think I'm doing the right thing?
Kasia Bast you should get the audio mp3 that the coaches offer on their website about get him back. I think they talk about this exact thing. It’s like $30 I think
Ka bacjak, I think you should wait more 2 months hardly if you really love him. And go on your self development process as well. If he doesn’t show up within this time, just move on. Additionally, you can send him a brief hand written letter that he is gonna lose you. And move on and go for making a family of your own. Time is very crucial thing for women.
Oh my God.. those words are so touching
What if she has a new guy, who is her childhood friend and she liked him before as a child.
Why would a woman want an ex to obsess over her ?????
What do you do if it’s not about you as a person it’s about them and the way they see themselves? I ex says he can’t be in a relationship because he’s not in the right head space ..!?!??
Whats up, if you desire your ex back, that's cool. But if you want to get to know yourself and naturally end up being the charming person you should be, look for Treitan Mellory. Look, he or she, will want you back once again, nevertheless for a better explanation, you might need to read the whole thing.
Your video are making improvements in my life
So my ex and I we're in the friends with benefit loop for two months after we broke up and we were on the page to getting back together ...until out of nowhere he said he is dating someone and trying to move on and just want to be friends ..what should I do ? Leave him alone or continue to text normal like 'friends '
jellisa ragbasingh hooking up is a bad idea. We hooked up twice and then things became weird so I just cut off contact and let destiny take its course
Hi, how to tell if your ex is not ready for a relationship back with you?
Valerie Tay because they're not with you
Hey Valerie,
You can tell if they are being hot and cold with you and if they are not responding to your messages.
Coach Samira
What do you mean by discover new emotions?
nice advice,,,,i will do that
How you do this if is in a long distance relationship?
hi, off topic. I'm an artist and i post my drawings almost daily. Should i hold off on posting cute couple drawings even though my boyfriend just broke up with me, about a week ago? And if so, for how long? thanks!
we dated one year but we start to have problems because she was not invested in the relationship as i was.
we broke up 3 months ago. First 5 days of no contact and she text me. But one week lather we broke up again. 20 days later i text her and we had sex but
we didnt go back in the relationship. i told her that maybe we had to stop seing each other and she didnt stop me. That was the last time we saw or talk each other.
Now we are already in one month and a half of no contact and i dont know if its all over or we still have a chance to fix things up. What do you think? its possible that she reachs out to me if we still in no contact?
Hello I’m Joy Armenta from philippines. :) Coach Natalie, Coach adrian, Coach Alex and Coach Samira. I just need your help I’m so devastated and panicking. :(
My ex and I having 4 years Relationship. My ex is Lesbian. Yes, a lesbian. We broke up because she find a new girl in facebook and she left me. She jumped into a new relationship 6 days after we broke up. I don’t know what to do? Help me to win her back. I love her so much. Are we over ? :(
Just speaking generally because I know specific advice is only available through coaching, but since I can't afford that at the moment, what steps should I take for my situation where my ex broke up with me 3 months ago, started dating a coworker a few weeks ago, and doesn't talk to me after no contact but we aren't on bad terms?
Edit: Or maybe you could make a video on what to do if you aren't talking but there aren't any negative feelings and it's only so that it doesn't create any conflict in the new relationship? Thank you
How do we show our Ex that we became a differnt person do we try to set up something to see each other? Do I pop up out of no where. I jst broken up with girl last Saturday and I been working on me to improve my self. I know what I had to do change where messed up in my self. But dont know exactly when to see my ex to show it
My ex was blocked me but then he ublocked me..then he block me again..what is happining?
You guy's are awesome, THANKS 💕👍🙌
My ex came back after a no contact. But in just a week he went cold on me as again. Should I block him
My ex dumped a lot of time is there is any chance he’ll be back again?
After following everything u guys said. My ex and I did get back together. After two days of getting back together I found out that he almost had sex with another woman but stopped cuz he realized he didn't want to and wasn't into it. It still hurt me a lot because it was just two weeks later and also that what if he did end up doing it and didn't stop ? He said he is Gonna change and realizes he hurt me and did me wrong. Should I take him back or no. Pls help me cuz I don't wanna set my self up for the type that will take him back no matter what ? I follow ur advice without hesitation. Please do answer. Thank you so much.
Can I like my ex girlfriends post on social media?? We ended mutually and she says she wants to remain friends.
Its been 2.5years after our breakup. My bday is before hers and the first year she wished me happy bday. i did not reply and i did not wish her on hers. this year she was quite and i have not heard from her. she is in a relationship after the breakup (about a monthafter). i really want to wish her this year as i feel strong about myself. i aslo would like to reconnect and meet her. i dont want to cause problems whith what she has but should it not work out in the future or whatever, i would like to try again. i want to become her friend again after this long and make sure that it is what i want. if not then i am ok with it but i want to know if we can still stand a chance. please give me some advise on this as i dont want to send her off running too.
Jacques Jordaan just say happy birthday and be prepared for the worst answer
Please am in a deep shit and i seriousely need help before i loose it.My girlfrd said she is no longer in love with me that she wants her ex back.she said she's more compactable with him than me and every now and then they are always in contact. that she can never be happy with me.And now she has ask me to pack out of her house and get a place of my own.she has been doing this numerous times and later she will come apologising that she doesn't know what came over her and the next day she will repeat the same thing again.she boost of her ex over me every time and this is pissing me up.Now am about moving out of the house.WHAT SHOULD I DO PLEASE COACH AM DEPRESSED.HELP ME.
Real SportTv you seem like a great man and just focus on youself and use no contact because you should be bettering your life and I know it’s hard, I’m going through similar stuff now and if she loves you she’ll comeback especially if your empathetic
Don’t focus on getting her back, focus on bettering your life
Thank you for this video.
Your right coaches be proud and more confidence thats what i did i really love much myself right now and proud coz i make it and ive change thank u coaches more videos and advices more power god bless u all 😇☺️👍
My fav coaches😘😘
Thanks for sharing
Thnx Alex thnx Adrian really u guys r great
I’m listening in from New Zealand. Love your wise council...have a prosperous New Year 🎊🎉😘
Dear Alex .
Hello
Dear my person left me in cold . He is often off and on . From past three days he is messaging again. Now tell me how I will handle this situation. I go through ur video u advised to post joyful pic .I do the same 😂now help me to bring him back
Heyy i have a question i meet my ex by accident during no contact days but we spent really good time togther . My question should i stike and continue to no contact days or just stop the contact days and text her ?
Thank you so much I'm listening now i love to listen love self first before another 😘😘😘
I’m doing the no contact rule literally I saw your video and I decided to leave it alone . Because I have pushed him away slot. Beg and cried and cried and I put him in pedestal . But I want to back off so he can see what his done but I do want him back. But I do feel he has someone else . But doesn’t say the truth
Update?
Plsss help mee!!! So my ex texted me that he stopped reaching out bc he thinks it leads to dirty thoughts....we ate both young christians,so we want to wait,we are living in different countries,he didnt wanted long distance...he also texted me he doesnt know if he just feels lust or love for me...i am doing the no contact too.. but i feel like if he really loved me he would come to my country..idk is there a chance?:( i always try to move on then he comes back to me and i am falling back
Hi Zooey,
Continue NC and let him come to you. If he is coming back to you it means he still has feelings for you.
Coach Samira
Dude!!! My situation is so similar to yours.
meow meow whats your story?
Hi, i’ve hurt my ex husband and now he dosent want to talk with me, the day when he left i Said ugly Words to his mother and dead syster, now he doesnt want to hear my name, what should i do, we are not divorced yet and i want him back! Sorry for my english but im from Europa thanks
Hi Gabby Gabs,
Give him some time to cool down from being upset. You have to give him time and think about writing him a letter or communicate your apology.
Coach Samira
I reached out to my ex a few days ago after not seeing him in 5 weeks and responding briefly to only 2 messages from him. The correspondence I initiated seemed positive. I told him about a little video I created and posted on fb and he responded with "That's very good". I said thank you and that I valued his opinion. That was the extent of it. Now what?t
thetunethetubaplayed now you do more you, and nothing I regards to him 💜
Hello! My ex broke up with me months ago.. somehow he still messages me and watches my social media everyday. What does this mean? We already said we wouldn’t see eachother and just continue on with our lives but why does he ask me “are you at school?” “You want to catch a coffee?” I don’t understand
He sounds clingy dosent look like he’s focusing on himself.
How to get her if she is in new relationship and didn't even talking to me staying bzy with his boyfriend without having any social network contact
Hey Mohit Chand, if she is in a new relationship, you have to accept that she is currently unavailable and you need to focus more on improving your own life. To get the girl, you have to turn away from her - Coach Adrian
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i’ve had no contact and my first meet up yesterday, however my ex still believes he not good for me. he cried and told me he hates to think of me meeting someone new but he’s not good, i think i’ve made him think this with my high expectations previously. do you think this means i should stop? we kissed but i left before it could go any further!
Hi Venus,
If he thinks he feels not good enough for you then you should find someone who holds you in the highest regard. If he feels that way then you may not feel that your needs will be met.
Coach Samira
Me an the mother of my child have been together almost 10 years she recently told me she needed her space i gave her that its been 5 months and she stated that we need to move on what should i do
Means just what she says...move on it's a high chance another man has slept with her. Women are really always looking to look for the comfort of a man and need reassurance. The guy shes probably been taking up her time for 5 months is going to be your biggest issue. She will compare his innocence to every issue you guys had and she will most likely make you feel like you were never for her. I'm dealing with something similar right this moment. Be strong brother God knows and sees it all he has your back
Very well but what happens if she left you due to life pressures that made me feel needy and she does not approach me? That means that I have to approach her which can also be perceived as neediness
Hi Jack,
Neediness will push people away. If she has life pressures and she feels more pressure from you she won't want to handle it. You have to begin no contact and focus on you right now.
Coach Samira
Love Advice TV yes. That’s it. This is my fourth week but it all depends ion her reaching out. Not much I can do for her to want to reach out to find the improved version of me
Hey guys!
What should I say and how should I react if my ex says she has a boyfriend, and particularly if I know that guy?
I would say,"oh,good for you im happy that we can find happiness in our respective paths(with a smile)"it'll leave her confused and wonder if you have a new partner
Hey Marko,
It depends on how long has it been. It's possible it's a rebound.
Coach Samira
Thanks for all of the advice I need!!
Amazing video coach Alex coach adrian.My ex is back to me 5 months back...after 2 months no contact period...now at present...why do I constantly feel...he doesn't love me or he doesn't care any more..I dont know wats wrong....constantly I feel sad nd sad..no signs of happiness...(onli partial time being happiness)...please make a video explaining...wat shall i do
Hey Deepti, perhaps you are placing your happiness on how your ex treats you. You can't determine your level of happiness based on someone else's treatment of you. That gives the other person too much control and takes your own happiness out of your own hands - Coach Adrian
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity yes coach Adrian...I felt that...entire control is in his hands..and I feel he wants me to chase him...nd I feel he wants me to follow him...watever he says...I dont know what to do...I have started feeling that if he talks to me m happy otherwise m sad...what shall I do now??
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity thank you coach Adrain for your reply nd ur valuable advice
hi coach samira my ex has not been communicating with me since our break up but she looks at me with a mean look on her face what does this mean I’m just so scared
Hi Andrew,
It sounds like she is still upset about things. Give her some time to cool down.
Coach Samira
Me n my ex broke up 4 months back he loved me but never willing to commit. He wanted everything on jus fun level nothing serious.I cut off completely coz I wanted somethin for Long run. I couldn't move on in mean while he seem completely. Idk this would make him fall back nd willing to be serious?!
Hey Chhavi Kapuria, you did the right thing. Is he still reaching out to you? - Coach Adrian
what should i do if my husband is come back after 3 years no contact but he still talk about his ex and sometime he compare me with the ex..pls help me..
He's not worth your time.
I am mentally and emotionally broken. To be honest I am heartbroken!!!!!
I know how u feel I been there in time it will be easier stay strong
Soumya Srivastava me too, and the worst part is...I’m 6weeks pregnant. My ex wants be together but I can’t trust him. So I had to walk away. Which sucks because I need his support during this pregnancy
Hi Soumya,
I'm so sorry to hear you are going through a hard time. Please don't hesitate to book a session with one of our awesome coaches here: www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Coach Samira
Do these advice/techniques/videos apply to serious high school relationships too? or just adult ones?
Melanie Castillo hey I’m in high school too! I’m a junior, And I can tell you that they apply too from personal experience! After over almost a year my ex came back this past weekend and wants to repair our bond! This stuff can apply to you too as long as you trust them and the process!
Hi Melanie,
Yes, applicable to all!
Coach Samira
i was in a long distance relationship...8 months old...and i broke up and regrating about if...i am alrdy in 33rd day of no contact!! wht should i doo...i want him back...pls suggest!
Hi Rupanski,
Day 33 of NC is great! I would need to know more context of what happened to guide you. Please don't hesitate to book a session here: www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Coach Samira
Give him space if he didnt come back to you let him go
You broke up with him so you should contact him. Why are you the one doing no contact?