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came back initiating contact after 3 months . Came back with strong interest So hot then went warm .No date initiated . Few conversations few texts. Inconsistency took place. Now complete silence 🥲He’s avoidant. Any advice? Please
I relate sooooo much. First no contact, didn't contact him but was miserable thinking about him all the time. He called, we went on a date, he realized I didn't improve anything on myself since my focus was him and not me. I'm in second no contact, started dating other guys, meeting my friends again, will soon join dance classes, started yoga and I feel soooo much better. If he comes back I will figure it out but if he doesn't, no problemo, todo bueno ☮️
This is my 2nd No Contact, I’m about 3 1/2 weeks into it. Last year, I tried No Contact right before I had a string of tragic events; I lost my grandpa & my dog within a week of each other and had difficulties finding a job. I caved, I was so depressed. I needed to talk and grieve to him. I can feel it’s going to have a better outcome this time because I’m in a much better place! I got a new job AND I’m buying my grandpa’s house in 3 weeks! On Facebook, my guy is reacting to all my posts and loves ❤ my pictures! I know we’ll meet soon because a mutual friend is visiting our area. I’ve watched a lot of your videos and I have a plan! I think the advice you’re giving is empowering!
I honestly don't think I've made any mistakes as such, I've gone no contact again as we got back together and within 3 days he went back to his old ways that caused the breakup in the first place. This was after a really painful 2 months of no contact. That's how long it took for him to apologise for his arrogant behaviour. Hopefully it's not that long again as it's such a terrible waste of time when we could be together. Sorry really does seem to be the hardest word for many.
I have went back in to no contact again with my ex yesterday (we’ve been split for 4 1/2 months) he came back 2 1/2 weeks ago and asked for another chance except it was out of fear/ desire for comfort not because he genuinely misses me so I rejected him. Because he reached out/ apologised/ started to work on himself we’ve been friendly but he says he is unsure about what he actually wants and I can’t be around him as I feel stuck I need space again to figure out what I want or to move on.
Sir i just wanna ask.. I've been doing no contact since feb9 cause she say she don't want me no more and says goodbye.. and then my ex contacted me again and says goodbye again today and says no hard feeling .. i repleid: thank you for the memories and i wish you well.. did i say the right words?
I did the no contact , my ex called me and said she wanted to see me . She came to my house and said she has seen physically changes on me . But she is already in a relationship but she said it’s kinda not good . She said she misses me everywhere she goes with this person or places . I didn’t ask her to come back to me I just said “ do what your heart wants not what you mind wants “ . She then text me the next day but I answered dry and she was dry so I left her on seen . I’m confused on what she wants . I don’t want to be no plan B here . I really want her back so I’m planning on doing the no contact again . Also she said she wants to go back with me but she is afraid . She seem confused . What do I do now ?
Hi Coach, I work with my ex (7 weeks limited contact) and she already called me once to tell me about why she is frustrated with me and how i should of changed during the relationship but she notices my changes now. I already verbally took accountability for my actions and she is does not believe I changed for real. This is the second time we broke up, I am not sure what to do next. I know this is a good sign she is frustrated with me rather then indifferent. (I can't afford 1on1 sessions)
I dont think it will work for me i begged to much she even calls the cops on me and came to the police station to let them know.. im scarred i dont want her to lose but i need to move on.. i dont know what to do
Second time no contact. 4 months in. Ex unblocked me on Instagram and opened her profile as open and public just as I had done mine before her. To me she is looking and there's certainly progress being made, and I know that within myself. Where do I stand on this you reckon?
My ex blocked me immediately at the breakup almost like she was just putting up a wall to protect her own emotions and keep me from contacting her. I didn't do anything needy or pushy for her to do this. What is the reason for this? She said I was a good boyfriend and we had a good relationship but there was just alot of habitual bickering. I don't understand this block. Could you explain. She was extremely attached to me. Texting me and calling me all the time and we share 2 years and 3 months of amazing and loving experiences together. This doesn't make sense. It's been more than2 months of now and I still haven't heard from her. Where do I get that second chance for me and her to speak to and see eachother again? Do I have to initiate contact with her
He left after 7years for 2nd time.first time for a colleague.talked,forgave after 2months.We’re engaged the last 1 1/2, then he said he’s unsure if he’ll change his mind in 3,5,10 years when we’re married,have children&thinking of me.says loves me.and now:he’s adding bitches on insta,liking their nudes.partying,drinking.was normal 2months ago.due to his work(Bar) with dancers,girls,fakefriends he changed.says:I’m always there for you,if you need me.3weeks i don’t contact,but he stalks my status always.what now?
Hi there, Thanks so much for reaching out to us about this. I know our coaches would love to help you with your situation but I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with them so they can come to a complete understanding of your situation before giving you advice. You can book a coaching session as well as view the coaching rates of all of our coaches using this link: www.withmyexagain.com/ -LATV Team
Yea I messed it up last night the mother of my daughter texted me and we actually had a decent conversation I was drinking and I should’ve ended the conversation but she would put a ? On some of my texts like she didn’t understand so I blew it and spazzed out with heavy emotion smh we been separated since Nov. 4 this our 2nd big break up last time we was separated almost 5 months then got bacc together. So how do I restart No Contact with a 2 year old baby and tbh I think she doing the NC too to me.
Hello Coach Adrian and Coach Alex We were dating for almost a year Suddenly he changed and we broke up became rude ignored me was very rude. He friendzoned me and now he wants me back but I find him hot and cold Im doing no contact after running behind him begging , but how to respond to his calls or texts ? He can also show up at my place how to respond or react without ruining my chances
I broke NC once after 9days because I saw my ex was posting sad posts then she wanted to get back but then said she's not ready then I started NC now for 2nd time is she going to go through those sad and curiosity stages again, like is very likely
Should you do no contact if the break up was 6 months ago and we are now friends but she is still stand offish and doesn’t seem to want much contact from me
Did no contact. It worked she reached out and missed me and asked if i missed her. Only to find out that the entire time we reconnected she was in a rebound relationship. Her rebound lasted 2 weeks after we reconnected. Only for her to continue to want to be friends. I dont want to seem weak so i didnt let it bother me. Was it wrong for her to seek my friendship during her rebound and should i do no contact again by surprise or let her know i need space? I thought she was opening up to me and now realized she only was because she got played by her rebound who used her as a rebound. I will continue to move forward no matter what, clearly she feels guilty and thats why she is not trying to lose our "new" friendship?
We broke up on and off for years I m the one that wants to go back once we start dating I maybe question about the relationship too much he says I m too pushy and leaves I m not sure if it's toxic I dated other people but he is the only one I have these strong feelings about its tireding I have no clue how he feels about me
I'm in ldr I sent long love texts to my ex but now I'm blocked although I can reach out in some platforms I was an avoidant she was anxious. so do you think no contact is good for me note she said yes to marry me before the breakup
I accidentally clicked on her tiktok page and it gave her the "this person viewed your page" pop up. Did i mess up? its been one month since i stopped contacting her and im moving on but i want to see if this will make her miss me T^T
Adrian I want to know if he is toxic and comes daily to check pet is it possible to get him back we don't share any feelings yet my pet is link between
Hello Thank your for sharing your story It seems your ex might be still trying to keep you around when they come daily to check on pet. It would depend on how long you both been together and how you and person ended up towards a break up. Thanks Coach Adrian
We were together for 20 years where he cheated on me for money now also he is trying to be around making excuses of pet but is not interested in any emotional sharing and physical contact does it mean he is just fooling or he moved on what should be my actions
ex wants to see other people... it is hurting me a lot knowing that I think she will meet a new guy and being it's all new and exciting and forget about me
Thank you Laurence I know it can be hard, but doing no contact can help and help them see what life is like without you. We can help strategize Thanks Coach Adrian
Can no contact work with a narcissist? I did and it didnt work the first time. Its my second no contact, he blocked me on whatsapp, but not on instagram.. my last message he just read and no reply.
In some instances it can work however you have to think about what is most important to you and also understanding if the narcissist behavior is something that continues in the relationship. We are here to help and analyze, please consider to book a session 1:1 using link below www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Thanks Coach Alex
Question, My ex randomly brings up guys in the middle of our conversations that has nothing to do with the conversation but acts like she doesn’t wanna hear me talk about other people i interact with, what does this mean?
She’s testing you to see if you lose your emotional center and become jealous. Don’t react to it at all or show you’re upset. Take space and allow her to come to you
Hello If it is a repetitive issue more than twice we have to consider the underlying issues and what else might be happening, please consider 1:1 session www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Thanks Coach Alex
Me and my ex split on 2nd Dec 2022. She said she wants to be friends and I agreed and told her on the basis we can try and get back together at some point. We’ve met every 2 weeks since going to the cinema, meals and coffee shop etc. I go into no contact a few days after we meet up until we arrange new dates, and we call them dates. Can I turn friendship back into a relationship as we tell each other how much we enjoy each others company still?
Hello Robert In order for us to further help you, we would need to learn more about the situation and background, please consider 1:1 session so we can personalize the advice. www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ Thanks Coach Adrian
It's better to be alone for a while. because a person needs space in the mind and heart for a few weeks or months. She has to start loving herself before she is able to love someone else he also needs to first love himself before giving love to someone else. the woman doesn't want someone who doesn't love himself. eating healthy food, and having healthy habits that are good for your body and mind. self-pleasure isn't the same as self-love self-pleasure is a short-term feeling self-love is a long-term feeling meditation creates self-love.
This time she says she’s done done. I’m still wanting her back though. I’ve started no contact and ended up in the hospital yesterday and she reached out seeing how I was doing and now we’ve been texting about the hospital situation. How can I tell she still wants to be done and is not just being nice
My ex obsessed with me because of x. He always want to have x with me. (We officially brokeup 2021. But had x time to time.) That is so frustrating. Because i love him sm and i want him to love me as i do. I didn’t contact him for while but i did last month to ask him to have lunch with me or go out and eat. But he told me that he’ll come if i offer x too. I was so disappointed. How can i change this situation. I told him i can’t and tell me if you can just meet. And he didn’t contact me again. And I also didn’t contact him. 😢💔
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If you're trying to rekindle a flame with your ex, we have the thing for you! Our private coaching session is an opportunity to hear all about what happened between the two of you, and help guide you in finding out which steps are best suited to winning them back. We'll also let you know how long should remain apart before making contact again - so don't wait any longer, book now! withmyexagain.com/coaching
came back initiating contact after 3 months . Came back with strong interest So hot then went warm .No date initiated . Few conversations few texts. Inconsistency took place. Now complete silence 🥲He’s avoidant. Any advice? Please
I relate sooooo much. First no contact, didn't contact him but was miserable thinking about him all the time. He called, we went on a date, he realized I didn't improve anything on myself since my focus was him and not me. I'm in second no contact, started dating other guys, meeting my friends again, will soon join dance classes, started yoga and I feel soooo much better. If he comes back I will figure it out but if he doesn't, no problemo, todo bueno ☮️
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and story
I am glad you are doing better and have started to really work on yourself!
Thanks
Coach Alex
Did he come back?
This is my 2nd No Contact, I’m about 3 1/2 weeks into it. Last year, I tried No Contact right before I had a string of tragic events; I lost my grandpa & my dog within a week of each other and had difficulties finding a job. I caved, I was so depressed. I needed to talk and grieve to him. I can feel it’s going to have a better outcome this time because I’m in a much better place! I got a new job AND I’m buying my grandpa’s house in 3 weeks! On Facebook, my guy is reacting to all my posts and loves ❤ my pictures! I know we’ll meet soon because a mutual friend is visiting our area. I’ve watched a lot of your videos and I have a plan! I think the advice you’re giving is empowering!
Thank you so much for watching our videos and for your support! We really appreciate this!
So what should you do long distance?
I honestly don't think I've made any mistakes as such, I've gone no contact again as we got back together and within 3 days he went back to his old ways that caused the breakup in the first place. This was after a really painful 2 months of no contact. That's how long it took for him to apologise for his arrogant behaviour. Hopefully it's not that long again as it's such a terrible waste of time when we could be together. Sorry really does seem to be the hardest word for many.
I have went back in to no contact again with my ex yesterday (we’ve been split for 4 1/2 months) he came back 2 1/2 weeks ago and asked for another chance except it was out of fear/ desire for comfort not because he genuinely misses me so I rejected him. Because he reached out/ apologised/ started to work on himself we’ve been friendly but he says he is unsure about what he actually wants and I can’t be around him as I feel stuck I need space again to figure out what I want or to move on.
Thank you so much coaches for touching on this topic!!!!!
Thank you!
Coach Adrian
Sir i just wanna ask.. I've been doing no contact since feb9 cause she say she don't want me no more and says goodbye.. and then my ex contacted me again and says goodbye again today and says no hard feeling .. i repleid: thank you for the memories and i wish you well.. did i say the right words?
Much love gentlemen
I did the no contact , my ex called me and said she wanted to see me . She came to my house and said she has seen physically changes on me . But she is already in a relationship but she said it’s kinda not good . She said she misses me everywhere she goes with this person or places . I didn’t ask her to come back to me I just said “ do what your heart wants not what you mind wants “ . She then text me the next day but I answered dry and she was dry so I left her on seen . I’m confused on what she wants . I don’t want to be no plan B here . I really want her back so I’m planning on doing the no contact again . Also she said she wants to go back with me but she is afraid . She seem confused . What do I do now ?
Hi Coach, I work with my ex (7 weeks limited contact) and she already called me once to tell me about why she is frustrated with me and how i should of changed during the relationship but she notices my changes now. I already verbally took accountability for my actions and she is does not believe I changed for real. This is the second time we broke up, I am not sure what to do next. I know this is a good sign she is frustrated with me rather then indifferent. (I can't afford 1on1 sessions)
Thank you
It is a good sign she is communicating and saying she is frustrated.
Do you believe her frustrations are valid?
Coach Adrian
Question, my ex asks me if I have a girlfriend every now and then and try’s to play it off as if she had a reason to ask, what does this mean?
That question was asked just to see if you still have love for them.
I dont think it will work for me i begged to much she even calls the cops on me and came to the police station to let them know..
im scarred i dont want her to lose but i need to move on.. i dont know what to do
Second time no contact. 4 months in. Ex unblocked me on Instagram and opened her profile as open and public just as I had done mine before her. To me she is looking and there's certainly progress being made, and I know that within myself. Where do I stand on this you reckon?
Hi coach alex and coach aldrian..what can i do my ex he doest want me anymore..is it posible to change here mind?
Hello
It is possible but we have to analyze multiple different issues to determine what happened.
Thank you
Coach Alex
My ex blocked me immediately at the breakup almost like she was just putting up a wall to protect her own emotions and keep me from contacting her. I didn't do anything needy or pushy for her to do this. What is the reason for this? She said I was a good boyfriend and we had a good relationship but there was just alot of habitual bickering. I don't understand this block. Could you explain. She was extremely attached to me. Texting me and calling me all the time and we share 2 years and 3 months of amazing and loving experiences together. This doesn't make sense. It's been more than2 months of now and I still haven't heard from her. Where do I get that second chance for me and her to speak to and see eachother again? Do I have to initiate contact with her
Have you heard from her now??
How about now?
He left after 7years for 2nd time.first time for a colleague.talked,forgave after 2months.We’re engaged the last 1 1/2, then he said he’s unsure if he’ll change his mind in 3,5,10 years when we’re married,have children&thinking of me.says loves me.and now:he’s adding bitches on insta,liking their nudes.partying,drinking.was normal 2months ago.due to his work(Bar) with dancers,girls,fakefriends he changed.says:I’m always there for you,if you need me.3weeks i don’t contact,but he stalks my status always.what now?
Hi there,
Thanks so much for reaching out to us about this. I know our coaches would love to help you with your situation but I would highly suggest you book a coaching session with them so they can come to a complete understanding of your situation before giving you advice. You can book a coaching session as well as view the coaching rates of all of our coaches using this link: www.withmyexagain.com/
-LATV Team
Yea I messed it up last night the mother of my daughter texted me and we actually had a decent conversation I was drinking and I should’ve ended the conversation but she would put a ? On some of my texts like she didn’t understand so I blew it and spazzed out with heavy emotion smh we been separated since Nov. 4 this our 2nd big break up last time we was separated almost 5 months then got bacc together. So how do I restart No Contact with a 2 year old baby and tbh I think she doing the NC too to me.
What if you haven't been doing no contact And you want to start doing it now Will it still work???
Hello Coach Adrian and Coach Alex
We were dating for almost a year
Suddenly he changed and we broke up became rude ignored me was very rude. He friendzoned me and now he wants me back but I find him hot and cold Im doing no contact after running behind him begging , but how to respond to his calls or texts ?
He can also show up at my place how to respond or react without ruining my chances
I broke NC once after 9days because I saw my ex was posting sad posts then she wanted to get back but then said she's not ready then I started NC now for 2nd time is she going to go through those sad and curiosity stages again, like is very likely
Should you do no contact if the break up was 6 months ago and we are now friends but she is still stand offish and doesn’t seem to want much contact from me
Did no contact. It worked she reached out and missed me and asked if i missed her. Only to find out that the entire time we reconnected she was in a rebound relationship. Her rebound lasted 2 weeks after we reconnected. Only for her to continue to want to be friends. I dont want to seem weak so i didnt let it bother me. Was it wrong for her to seek my friendship during her rebound and should i do no contact again by surprise or let her know i need space? I thought she was opening up to me and now realized she only was because she got played by her rebound who used her as a rebound. I will continue to move forward no matter what, clearly she feels guilty and thats why she is not trying to lose our "new" friendship?
We broke up on and off for years I m the one that wants to go back once we start dating I maybe question about the relationship too much he says I m too pushy and leaves
I m not sure if it's toxic I dated other people but he is the only one I have these strong feelings about its tireding
I have no clue how he feels about me
You don't have a choice. I like it.
Thanks for sharing
Coach Adrian
I'm in ldr I sent long love texts to my ex but now I'm blocked although I can reach out in some platforms I was an avoidant she was anxious. so do you think no contact is good for me note she said yes to marry me before the breakup
I accidentally clicked on her tiktok page and it gave her the "this person viewed your page" pop up. Did i mess up? its been one month since i stopped contacting her and im moving on but i want to see if this will make her miss me T^T
Adrian I want to know if he is toxic and comes daily to check pet is it possible to get him back we don't share any feelings yet my pet is link between
Hello
Thank your for sharing your story
It seems your ex might be still trying to keep you around when they come daily to check on pet. It would depend on how long you both been together and how you and person ended up towards a break up.
Thanks
Coach Adrian
We were together for 20 years where he cheated on me for money now also he is trying to be around making excuses of pet but is not interested in any emotional sharing and physical contact does it mean he is just fooling or he moved on what should be my actions
ex wants to see other people... it is hurting me a lot knowing that I think she will meet a new guy and being it's all new and exciting and forget about me
Thank you Laurence
I know it can be hard, but doing no contact can help and help them see what life is like without you. We can help strategize
Thanks
Coach Adrian
Can no contact work with a narcissist? I did and it didnt work the first time. Its my second no contact, he blocked me on whatsapp, but not on instagram.. my last message he just read and no reply.
In some instances it can work however you have to think about what is most important to you and also understanding if the narcissist behavior is something that continues in the relationship. We are here to help and analyze, please consider to book a session 1:1 using link below
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Thanks
Coach Alex
In no contact he does not call me
Question, My ex randomly brings up guys in the middle of our conversations that has nothing to do with the conversation but acts like she doesn’t wanna hear me talk about other people i interact with, what does this mean?
Thank you
Have you considered the no contact and if so for how long did it happen before these conversations started?
Coach Alex
She’s testing you to see if you lose your emotional center and become jealous. Don’t react to it at all or show you’re upset. Take space and allow her to come to you
It definitely works about 5 times.. but what happens after the tenth time he says never ever will it work. Can it still work 😩
Hello
If it is a repetitive issue more than twice we have to consider the underlying issues and what else might be happening, please consider 1:1 session
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Thanks
Coach Alex
For me it's the 4th time hahah, avoidant ex
Sorry to hear that!
If you read between the lines, these videos are to help you move on. They are an ex for a reason. Close that chapter and find someone more compatible.
Me and my ex split on 2nd Dec 2022. She said she wants to be friends and I agreed and told her on the basis we can try and get back together at some point. We’ve met every 2 weeks since going to the cinema, meals and coffee shop etc. I go into no contact a few days after we meet up until we arrange new dates, and we call them dates. Can I turn friendship back into a relationship as we tell each other how much we enjoy each others company still?
Hello Robert
In order for us to further help you, we would need to learn more about the situation and background, please consider 1:1 session so we can personalize the advice.
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Thanks
Coach Adrian
Seem she puting you on friendzone
We kept breaking no contact but she finally hasn’t responded. I maybe was overwhelming. Will she comeback?
Hello
It really depends on the conversations that you and her were having prior and reason for break up. We can help strategize with you,
Coach Adrian
It's better to be alone for a while.
because a person needs space in the mind and heart for a few weeks or months.
She has to start loving herself
before she is able to love someone else
he also needs to first love himself
before giving love to someone else.
the woman doesn't want someone who doesn't love himself.
eating healthy food, and having healthy habits that are good for your body and mind.
self-pleasure isn't the same as self-love
self-pleasure is a short-term feeling
self-love is a long-term feeling
meditation creates self-love.
This time she says she’s done done. I’m still wanting her back though. I’ve started no contact and ended up in the hospital yesterday and she reached out seeing how I was doing and now we’ve been texting about the hospital situation. How can I tell she still wants to be done and is not just being nice
Thank you Clifton
Please consider 1:1 session, using link below
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Thanks
Coach Adrian
My ex obsessed with me because of x. He always want to have x with me. (We officially brokeup 2021. But had x time to time.)
That is so frustrating. Because i love him sm and i want him to love me as i do. I didn’t contact him for while but i did last month to ask him to have lunch with me or go out and eat. But he told me that he’ll come if i offer x too. I was so disappointed. How can i change this situation. I told him i can’t and tell me if you can just meet. And he didn’t contact me again. And I also didn’t contact him. 😢💔
Adrian can I get your email id ? I need to ask you something...i can't take online classes as I'm a student i can't afford ..can I get your email id ?
Hello
Please email contact@withmyexagain.com to learn about our specials!!
Coach Adrian
Adrian pls share your email id if possible.