Very simple! If someone doesn't like you, take a step back, start detaching yourself on him. Stop giving too much, avoid doing too much effort for him because sometimes men will test you and men will manipulate you even you give you all for him. Stop giving your attention! Stop giving gifts or anything to avoid your ex being confused or annoyed. Start doing the things you love, focus on your self more is very very important. I know it's painful right now, yes i feel you so much. But one day everything will be alright 😊🙏
Starting with a clean slate and marking the old relationship as dead is great. But if you reconcile, don’t acknowledge the past will they feel like they can get away with it I’d be taken for granted without apologies? But if u ask for clarification isn’t that digging up old wounds?
We were together for almost 3 years we have a 2yo and I texted her with a picture of our little family asking if I’ll ever have my family together again? She said no. 😔 she’s already seeing someone and tells me that she’s happy without me in her life.
it’s been a month since I reconnected with him, but since then, he hasn’t reached out to me even once, it's like I'm back in NC... what should be the next step coaches? I’m keeping up working in me but there must be something else I also regret I acted needy back in the days, because now I acknowledge it and I’ve not stopped improving since BUT the image is already there
I asked him if he still cared and he said “Yeah?” As if I should have known. But when I talked about getting back together in the future he avoided the topic
My break up was caused from long distance and his mother! I have been together for 8 years, 2 years of living apart! This does not work! I tried because I love the man! I have been in no contact for 2 months now! I will never be in a long distance relationship again! I brought more to the table than he did! I can’t believe I stuck it out this long!
Can the fact his family keeps reaching out work in my advantage? He does not talk to me, I don't talk to him (NC for 6 weeks now), but his sister and parents do. They say how I've changed and shine and am beautiful, and how we both need time and that I should not count on his words of ,,never ever". And that the break up made us more mature and complex and that if we'd met in this stage before we could have been married within 6 months easily.
Marta Ivanyshina maybe, they see change! Seems like you’re staying strong or making it seem like it. Just keep doing no contact and improve yourself and enjoy life, forget about him to the best of your ability! It may help if they show him what he’s missing out on.
My ex and I are coworkers. All summer we talked and hung out weekly going out on the boat or shooting pool. Early September I broke both feet in a motorcycle accident and she rushed to the ER. Last 2 months we saw each other as more than friends while I was recovering. She started hanging out with a new guy co-worker shortly after his engagement and i was getting jealous of her hanging out with him because I am still wheelchair-bound. She left me a week ago and I made the mistake of texting her the first couple days of the breakup. We didn't date long. Is there anyway I can win her back? I know what my faults are and trying to fix them after watching some of the videos. The stress of being stuck in a wheelchair and her still hanging out with people got to me.
Does anyone have advice for this situation im in. I have an ex who i still have major feelings for. Hes starting to move on w this girl he met 4 days ago, i tried fighting for him for a day and it was my mistake, my feelings overtook me and i pushed him away. Ive known him for 6 years dated him for 2 of those years and not a day goes by where i dont want to just be his girl again. I miss him. He said he had no more romatic feelings and he thinks we should both move on. I dont know if this makes me a bad person but i cant move on. My feelings for him are way too strong. We had ups and downs like every couple but all ive ever wanted was one more chance to show him i can be the best girlfriend, best friend, and give him the whole universe. He meant when he said he lost feelings too - no emotion in his voice or anything. Seriously how do i get him back.
I dated a guy a month after we broke up (rebound) and he says he thinks he lost feelings because everytime he sees me my ex thinks all i want is the rebound guy. Theres obviously more behind it, but i cant keep fighting for him because his new girl is crazy, and hates me. I need genuine advice if anyone has it. How can I win him back when he lost all romantic feelings for 3 months now? (I only fought for him for 2 days, before he caught feelings for this girl he just started seeing) i know that was bad - my emotions overtook me. All ive ever wanted is him.
she say she lost feelings for me and the distance caught up to her and we broke up and i want her back bc she means everything to me and im not letting go i need help
If u will be same like present situation ,she will attract you,ask urself..anyways she is avoiding and she is in the her state..she will not easily change by msgn ,contacting,she becomes more angree due to already she has stress about u...give her time ,she will first relax and then she can think about you in relax state that will be real what she want..if she want she will reach..but i suggest dont waste time...you become like before or more better than before...and that will automatically attract her towords u.
I don't care anymore. Nope. Won't do it He's not worth with it. Because its s lot there we BOTH know it. But he is making the CHOICE to go with what's easier. He KNOWS he's taking the risk of losing me but is still doing what hes doing. Please tell me what kind of behavior is that?? Why would do that? Answer: drum roll please. Because he doesn't feel he WILL!! He is arrogant, cocky and over confident. How do I get him off that high horse?
My husband is insisting on a divorce as he says he’s happier than ever. He did this through text message. He then text asking if I would file for divorce and to lie saying the reason was he abused me which he didn’t. I politely replied that this discussion should be face to face and he agreed. How should I approach this meeting please?
I lost my gf because her mother keeps telling her what to do. Her mother doesn't know me. What do I do how do I stop my now "ex" to stop being brainwashed by her mother?
I think it's even worse when they spent 8+ months with me and then tell me "I dont like you in that way" that hurts alot. Like if you didn't like me that way why spend so much time with me. And its non sexual stuff too like going places and them coming by during non booty call hours and days. Its confusing and awful
I think it still works bro if you do it the "right way." If you think she still has feelings for you, then give it a try and just be positive about it. Don't be threatened by the other guy 'cause if your realtionship with her is truly genuine she could sense thay somehow, you're trying to win her back.
I’ve been dating this girl for a year and 5 days and I miss her so much. We broke up on October 12th..... she said she left me because I was too jealous and I was supposedly controlling her life. She said she wanted time but I thought I’d lose her throughout that time and she might’ve met someone else. I still miss her and I still love her and idk what to do😔. I pushed her away by begging and pleading so idk what to do anymore😔💔
Jesus juarez your still so fresh into it bro don’t make the mistakes I did, I would put up no contact right now for 30 days and allow her to miss you let her see you thriving in social media and in the mean time u focus hard on your self so when no contact is up and it’s time for u to respond to her or you reach out to her your a new man and ready to show her ur good to go
I totally get you bro. Stay in no contact for awhile now. I've been dealing with it too and it really changes you. The whole point of NC is not just about getting back with your EX it's also about getting and feeling good about yourself. You may have lost confidence along the way but you'll get it back and who knows your girl may come back crawling at you. Hope this helps.
Ok yea i'm completely lost on re-creating the spark. I built it the first time on some lies that I didn't know how to keep in the past. Now all I think about is not trying to sound like a liar when I talk to her. Im sure she's not like she used to be and I understand her reasons. I just think now it's her just completely cold now because she called a lot before we got together the first time. Now it doesn't even happen
I see my ex at college everyday...I'm Having fun like normally and enjoying, will that make her feel like I am indifferent after the breakup? When we're around each other I'm totally busy with myself completely forgetting the fact that she was once a very special person for me... Does that make her feel like I don't care?
Mohit Daftuar do you still care and love your ex? My ex and I working in the same office,and I think he acting like you having fun and busy with his own stuff. I wonder if he still care and love me😢
She wants to still do stuff as a family with our son but she looks at me in my eyes and everything and if we hug she says she don't want it to change anything, we've hooked up twice and she says she don't want it to change anything.
hey. Im only 15 but me and this girl been going together for a year. We argued alot over the summer and now its to the point where she doesnt care about anything. Im trying my best to at least change her mind and ask for a chance where she can start caring again but its like nothing is working. I lost myself and found myself but i hate to see her leave and i actually love her. Feelings are still raw and shes so easy to say i dont want you. It dont hurt me but it makes me wonder why... I try to play it cool alot but its really hard when she doesnt care im not used to this. Its hard. We talk about it alot and it just never get anywhere
My ex and i broke up 7months ago. We had a messy break up, but he always came back as just a friend. Whenever im around him, he flirts with me, touches my legs, and gives me hugs. Hes told me too many times that he doesnt want a relationship with me, but hes always chasin after other girls. Is it too late to try to get him back? Or should i move on? Idk what to do, i miss him sm😟
My long distance ex, i have ignored her for 2 days and she was worried about me. She is with another guy but they are not dating but what she told me is that she feels lonely because she had me and now she doesn't have me
How to show an ex girlfriend that there is a future. I did a misstake. I didn’t agree with break up. And I didn’t agree with my ex on being just friends.
I have been gone through this stage we broked up it's been past two months. on first month I begged and pleaded but from second month I applied no contact formula does it work out our relationship was from past five years .
We had a heated fight yesterday n he said he hates me n never want to see me again so I'm in no contact i will never reach out to him again I unfriended him on fb but he hasn't block me yet so idk but for me I think its over from his part
there is a problem in the relationship a religion problem. after a week 3 approached her via text like i have changed . what you think of now like the main problem to be together id gone. but she hesitating to read the message saying i will read it later or i dont know she just read and ignoring to reply it.she said same for the 3 days and finally she put my name on archive she doesnt even seen my last text. she muted my story but still hasnt blocked yet i didnt contacted her 4 days still she hasnt seen or reply to my message whats the problem in her to say will it work not anything is fine but why she not replying to me. or atleast she can say i need some time
Man I know I been on the comments for a hot minute but bro I’m finally at the point where I don’t need her to be happy I’m not sad anymore but yes I still love her and yes I can live without her but the feelings will always be there and at this point It’s just a waiting game for me waiting for her to give me a call or message and if it doesn’t come well this mans will be on the market 🙏🏼... PS thank you love advice tv
I did not know Why?a friend some time told him yes and some times told him no what they do near about 06 months i saw this what they play a game drama and when they play a game automatically a partner in his lose intrest i am a respected person i did not want my home family know this they said who is your friend why his behaviour my family is friendly family.
We had a long distance relationship, it actually worked but then corona came and now we haven’t met in a looong time.. What can I do to make her love me again? She has now told me that she has lost feelings for me
My ex broke up with her rebound a week ago. SHe was with him for 3 weeks. I wished her happy birthday after. I would have wished regardless whether she was in a relationship or not. She did not respond to that. She started hanging out with my friends and she talks to everyone but me. Did I do anything wrong? She seems very ahppy whenever she is with my circle of friends. Is she trying to make me jealous? Can you please help me on what is going on?
What ifmy ex has an exwife. And he still has feelings for her. They have a child. But haven't been living together about 18months. And divorsed. He was beginning to really open up to me. We know eachother for 30 years. And he said to forget about him. We can't find happiness in eachother. He is a "all in or nothing guy", and our situation seems like a half thing. Allthough it was his initiative to keep it at only sex. But then he started saying all kinds of things about future and so on. And now he left.... been in NC for 36 days. But we live in the same apt building. So we met twice. I smiled. Any advice?🙏
Hey guys and people that see this, my ex asked for space 2 weeks ago and she gave in a called last sunday and while talking i mentioned the no talking thing and she said she needs more time and bloody hung up on me! So i left it, it went all through monday to saturday which was lastnight when she called me again and told me something reminded her of me and we talked for an hour or so before she went to bed. Im not sure what to do now? She's reached out a second time i want to talk to her but i dont want to pressure her and make her think im trying too hard or anything, do i take it slow or let her reach out to me or???@! !?!?!!?!??
She broke up with me just 5 days ago and before i stumbled on this channel i focused on doing my job well instead of wallowing and grieving. Is it weird that I had that instinct that quick? I mean it was just yesterday that i was clinging to her leg and today Im already doing these strategies. Is this weird or what?
Thanks coach I already planned out my week so far. These are just the early stages but i think your guidance has been substantial so far. I really hope this would work out but I guess the main focus for now is to improve myself. Thanks a bunch!
What if my ex thought that he was inferior than me in some way(such as career, socialization) and had really low self esteem. The self transformation to be better me will pull hime away far more? Thank you :)
I’ve been trying to reach out to my ex on a monthly or bi-weekly basis since he broke up with me in July. My last msg(just a random photo of a restaurant that reminds me of him) was sent 2 weeks ago, no read no reply, so I decide to go no contact....it sounds a bit late but I decide to focus on my self for a while. My question is...next month is his birthday, should I at least send him some greetings...?
Reimi H My opinion only, ... no. Make him miss you. Make him wonder. He probably will be expecting that. I know I would. I’ve learned the last 5 mos that I that reaching out is only hurting me. Keep working on yourself. That’s what I’ve been doing. I miss her very much but she is moving on. If it was meant to be it will be. Hope that helps.
What about a ex fiancé who left me and constantly confuses me with wanting to sort it then saying she doesnt...... it makes it hard to give space and distance due to having a child together.... how do I go about showing her and making her realise she does want me even if she thinks she doesnt
My ex feelings changed as she found a person who's nature was like as she had dreamt of ... so they both talked and she proposed to him but he didnt valued her at all. All this was not conveyed to me after 2 months she confessed that she had fallen for somebody else and our relationship is over . We had regular fights on this issue. after 1month(in between which we talked) she texted me and said will u accept me now. I said yes but u have to prove your love now and gain trust. But after 1 week she again brokeup and said that she needs time now to analyze as to exactly what all went wrong between both of us earlier. She is still confused about me . what should i do now ? Our relationship was for 2year+ . Moreover she also wants to focus on her studies as they are now her priority.
Hey Lakshay, give her space to figure herself out on her own. Don't put any pressure on her. In the meantime, focus on YOUR OWN priorities and don't give her the impression that you're waiting around for her - Coach Steven
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity Thanku so much for your rply . should i hope that she will come back to me ? As i never thought of all this happening she was very much serious and so i was.
My ex said she's fine and she doesn't want to see me because there is no need hahaha doubt she'll turn around. I neglected her and then won't no contact to give her time and space since she was angry and now she's over me...
its too late, I waited too long, I realized too long, today I found out she's probably with someone else since her profile changed with a person kissing her cheek, and that wasn't long after I gave her an apology letter. its time to move on, I didn't think I would be this hurt and it was all caused by me. at least I learned from this experience, and hopefully am not the same shit that I was before.
Hey my ex broke up with me about 2 or 3 months ago but anyways we had a good relationship but after the break up we us to say hey to each other in class because we have the same class together but now she just gotten cold and unfollowed me on social media’s because I sent her a funny video. I need some advice if I should give her more space or try to reach out or just move on. Thanks 🙏🏽
I dont know if he lost feelings for me but he broke up with me cause his childs mother was keeping her away from him cause we were together and he said he had to make a decision. He called last week saying he still loves me but I dont believe it if he allowed this girl to destroy what we had by using the kid as a pawn. Also we were living together and since he left 6 weeks ago why has he not changed his address?
Hi BeautifulSoul InsideandOut, due to the volume of comments that we get on a daily basis, if you're looking for immediate assistance, please book a coaching session with us by going to the following page www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ It's the best way to get the fast responses you're looking for - Coach Steven
I think that I gave my ex space. My theory on why she called it quits may have been because I was too available. I'd answer her text right away. Another reason was that maybe I didn't act masculine. I am too much of a pushover
No more intimacy because the trust is broken when he cheat on me. And then he did it on the 3rd times but hide his other woman from me... When I found out a month after of guessing, i let him do the last word...
after 2 mos of no contact we met again. but it was a disaster. I was dumped the 2nd time around. he just meet us because of our daughter. and now he is inlove w someone else. HELP ME
What if you worked and were clingy and needy so they blocked you? How can i come back to her and get her back, She is dating another already.. ive worked 5 months to show her my love after I messed up big time. How can i get her back?
Hi good day.. i have a big problema, my ex and I broke up last nov. 5, we ended our 8 year relationship, after our break up he had a girlfriend for a week, I stopped communicating with him however many times that we chat or we saw each other. He already blocked me on facebook but not on his instagram. He always look at my myday on insta. What should i do, i want him back..
Hi. My long distance girlfriend wants space... she's been changing so much lately that it hurts. She seems so uninterested in me lately and honestly I don't know what to do. We're going to Singapore in a couple of weeks to see each other but apparently I've been smothering her. I want to give her the space she needs but I don't want her to completely lose feelings for me more than she already has. She says she still loves me but she doesn't know anymore. She swears she wont leave me but I want to fight for her. Please help me guys, I can't stand the thought of us not being together anymore...
My ex said she does not have feelings for me and said may she doesn't loved me like that way but there was something and now suddenly she is saying I'm not ready for a relationship and I seriously want her back and she also agreed for a breakup sex and saying she doesn't want to loose me and want to become friends what should I do in this situation
Coach Samira and Steven, I did NC for two months but I texted him about a movie I watched and asked him to watch and give some feedback as a way to reopen the conversation. His reply was short and cold. And he start to post on Instagram these days. He even post one photo of his back hiking yesterday. Looks like he's got someone new. How long should I wait to reach out again or should I just wait and see if he would reach out to me? Will there be anything I can do at this stage? Looks like he's enjoying life and exploring new things at least with friends if not new date. Thanks and really looking forward to your reply.
I split up 5 months ago . I did 30 days no contact . He told me he has no felling and its over . I was texting him apx 1 time ever other day for 2 months he doesnt like texting . Than i called him every 3 days he doesnt call me but he will talk on the phone what do i do go cold will he chase me . He know i want him back and that i love him i told him
Coaches but what if I already tried to ignite the flame but then he responds by saying: why are u teasing me? Let's not tease each other HUH?! What kind of response is that and what does this response mean?
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity After 2 months of no contact she reached out to me for my birthday, I said "thanx" and Ive been in no contact for about 3 weeks after she wished me a happy bday
I just spoke to gordon he said he not been with this he mess me about he said knew noing about this at all this hurtful I can't ring you no number I keep asking????
But what if they’re seeing someone else? I tried no contact, he didn’t care because he with her almost everyday. So I’m never on his mind unless I contact him which now he contacts me and checks on me. He did say he been was falling out of love before it ended. They are moving extremely fast in 2mths. She stays there while he’s at work all day. He’s a Taurus and she’s a Leo, which I research to not be compatible, yet they’re going strong. He don’t trust me from one mistake I made and no it wasn’t infidelity but I believe that’s the real reason he’s so adamant on not coming back. Bc he don’t love her but he won’t even cheat on her for me and the sex I know is something we shared that she can’t replace bc he admitted it, but he says he’s at peace. Should I just give up?
What if I was F+ with someone for a year. But after half a year I got feelings for him. I'm sure he sensed that because after that he didn't show so much interest in me as in the past. That really hurt. I got realy clingy and touchy. He said then that he do not want a relationship. I was scared to confess feelings. Two weeks ago he told me per text that he met someone else and wants to to know if this could go serious. But he wanted to stay as friends. I said that I don't want that. It's been 2 weeks. I didn't have any contact with him since then. I don't want to run after him. But if he contacts me and fights for me I would give him a chance. Has anyone tips how to get his interests back? And that he wants to be with me!
Did not plead or beg. It was the stepkid. They chose the kids disrespect and bad behavior over me. Any advice besides to run? Lol. They know it will never change. And they are afraid of eventual confrontation upon his manhood.
What should I do if I am going through a period of no contact but I have a Snapchat streak with her but I’m having my friend do them. Should I end the streak? Also technically, I broke up with her but it was only because our religious leader told us to. I still loved her and I do now. We still cared for each other afterwards and we were a thing but then eventually she said she’s trying to move on and now we are at the same university together and we are part of the same cultural community and I don’t really know what to do or how to act because I am very emotionally attached and I’m afraid I did scare her away but like what should I do now? It’s been no contact for over a month and we were together for almost 2 years
Hi.. quick question... can we tell sn ex we went on a date.. if they asked what we did? Or is it better to be vague and just say i met a friend? ... im trying to get my ex back... but he is being emotionally unavailable.. so he asks to meet up and is hot and cold a lot.. so ive started to date again to stop obsessing.. but can i mention it?
My ex left saying I cheated (I didn’t and would never) and even said she had a video which is impossible because it didn’t happen. I saw the video and I was just sleeping and rolled over and fell back asleep. She said hurtful things as I begged and pleaded that I didn’t. I recently blocked her everywhere because I need time for myself to move forward. Can you make a video on whether or not ex’s should be completely blocked? Thanks in advance your videos helped and continue to help all of us out here!!
Thanks coaches for this video. It's the Same case which I am going through. Bt can u say how to show I have changed and get those feelings back in long distance? She is saying that she is enjoying the single life. What should I do.
Don't push her to be with you right then and there. Gettig back together is a long process and it takes time. Maybe just give her a little more time to reflect on things with you and your relationship. Just act and play it cool.
I do miss him... but christo (ex) is dating someone else..he was cheating on me... i dont wanna disturb him anymore.. i hate him but at the sametime i love him madly....
Hey L Kira, then that is something for you to work on now! Add it to the list of your goals :) And look, you got great advice without even needing to book a 1-on1! Best, Natalie www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ ❤️
My ex bf told me that hes not physically attracted to me but I dont understand if he feels that way why still want to hangout with me and hugs me and kisses me like if we were bk together and still get jealous?
I miss my ex but still we text each other but most of the time he ignores me 😔 it's hurt to loose him he is my first love😔 I don't know what is he thinking of😭suddenly he changes i want our relationship forever I want to marry him😔😔😔😔😔😔😔 i love him very much
Same situation. But you can't control his decision. Move on and learn to love yourself. One day he will realize what he lost and reach out. It can take weeks, months and sometimes years. You'll find someone even better? That's why you shouldn't wait. Don't text him, just go no contact on him. Let the pain in, but don't let it control you. Distract yourself doing what you love. I wish you all the best.
Are you guys able to do a vid about conflict avoidance? Today’s vid is pertinent to me, but in my case my hubby never raised that he had any issues with me or our relationship until after he had already left.... he was so conflict avoidant that he just never raised issues for him, just built up resentments... how can I break thru that to attract him back?
Very simple! If someone doesn't like you, take a step back, start detaching yourself on him. Stop giving too much, avoid doing too much effort for him because sometimes men will test you and men will manipulate you even you give you all for him. Stop giving your attention! Stop giving gifts or anything to avoid your ex being confused or annoyed. Start doing the things you love, focus on your self more is very very important. I know it's painful right now, yes i feel you so much. But one day everything will be alright 😊🙏
This is the best coaching team. Coach Natalie still #1 tho. ☺
My wife knows I want to reconcile and I am working on myself. I am waiting for response from her.
Starting with a clean slate and marking the old relationship as dead is great. But if you reconcile, don’t acknowledge the past will they feel like they can get away with it I’d be taken for granted without apologies? But if u ask for clarification isn’t that digging up old wounds?
We were together for almost 3 years we have a 2yo and I texted her with a picture of our little family asking if I’ll ever have my family together again? She said no. 😔 she’s already seeing someone and tells me that she’s happy without me in her life.
I was neglectful in the relationship and got very needy when she finished with me
I don't believe once they are gone it's done
I miss my boy friend he left me and said he don’t have feels for me any more got a new girlfriend
it’s been a month since I reconnected with him, but since then, he hasn’t reached out to me even once, it's like I'm back in NC... what should be the next step coaches? I’m keeping up working in me but there must be something else
I also regret I acted needy back in the days, because now I acknowledge it and I’ve not stopped improving since BUT the image is already there
I asked him if he still cared and he said “Yeah?” As if I should have known. But when I talked about getting back together in the future he avoided the topic
My break up was caused from long distance and his mother! I have been together for 8 years, 2 years of living apart! This does not work! I tried because I love the man! I have been in no contact for 2 months now! I will never be in a long distance relationship again! I brought more to the table than he did! I can’t believe I stuck it out this long!
Update!?
Best get back with an ex video I've ever viewed
It contains a lot of value
BrUh this girl has the same name as my ex. Had to stop watching the video 😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Can the fact his family keeps reaching out work in my advantage? He does not talk to me, I don't talk to him (NC for 6 weeks now), but his sister and parents do. They say how I've changed and shine and am beautiful, and how we both need time and that I should not count on his words of ,,never ever". And that the break up made us more mature and complex and that if we'd met in this stage before we could have been married within 6 months easily.
Marta Ivanyshina maybe, they see change! Seems like you’re staying strong or making it seem like it. Just keep doing no contact and improve yourself and enjoy life, forget about him to the best of your ability! It may help if they show him what he’s missing out on.
Is this also applies if your ex says that "you will find someone better than them"?
My ex and I are coworkers. All summer we talked and hung out weekly going out on the boat or shooting pool. Early September I broke both feet in a motorcycle accident and she rushed to the ER. Last 2 months we saw each other as more than friends while I was recovering. She started hanging out with a new guy co-worker shortly after his engagement and i was getting jealous of her hanging out with him because I am still wheelchair-bound. She left me a week ago and I made the mistake of texting her the first couple days of the breakup. We didn't date long. Is there anyway I can win her back? I know what my faults are and trying to fix them after watching some of the videos. The stress of being stuck in a wheelchair and her still hanging out with people got to me.
I tried that....didn't work out. I give up
Thanks so much for the video !! Defitnitely get a sense of inner peace love yourself put yourself first
Im agree Ana..
Coach Samira is awesome!
You are funny!!!!!! I am doing what I need to do. This channel is helpful. I love that sentence: if you are not growing, you are dying. SO TRUE!!!!!!
should you ask an ex if they're talking to or seeing someone else?
How to become a love coach or advisor.... Kindly help... What qualifications are required as I would also like to become one to help people 😊
Does anyone have advice for this situation im in. I have an ex who i still have major feelings for. Hes starting to move on w this girl he met 4 days ago, i tried fighting for him for a day and it was my mistake, my feelings overtook me and i pushed him away. Ive known him for 6 years dated him for 2 of those years and not a day goes by where i dont want to just be his girl again. I miss him. He said he had no more romatic feelings and he thinks we should both move on. I dont know if this makes me a bad person but i cant move on. My feelings for him are way too strong. We had ups and downs like every couple but all ive ever wanted was one more chance to show him i can be the best girlfriend, best friend, and give him the whole universe. He meant when he said he lost feelings too - no emotion in his voice or anything. Seriously how do i get him back.
I dated a guy a month after we broke up (rebound) and he says he thinks he lost feelings because everytime he sees me my ex thinks all i want is the rebound guy.
Theres obviously more behind it, but i cant keep fighting for him because his new girl is crazy, and hates me. I need genuine advice if anyone has it. How can I win him back when he lost all romantic feelings for 3 months now? (I only fought for him for 2 days, before he caught feelings for this girl he just started seeing) i know that was bad - my emotions overtook me. All ive ever wanted is him.
she say she lost feelings for me and the distance caught up to her and we broke up and i want her back bc she means everything to me and im not letting go i need help
Fax brudda 😂😂 I can't let her go
Update Patrick? Because I am in same situation
If u will be same like present situation ,she will attract you,ask urself..anyways she is avoiding and she is in the her state..she will not easily change by msgn ,contacting,she becomes more angree due to already she has stress about u...give her time ,she will first relax and then she can think about you in relax state that will be real what she want..if she want she will reach..but i suggest dont waste time...you become like before or more better than before...and that will automatically attract her towords u.
Lonely Guy any update bro I miss my ex and I feel like she’s cutting me out of her life :(
I don't care anymore. Nope. Won't do it He's not worth with it. Because its s lot there we BOTH know it. But he is making the CHOICE to go with what's easier. He KNOWS he's taking the risk of losing me but is still doing what hes doing. Please tell me what kind of behavior is that?? Why would do that? Answer: drum roll please. Because he doesn't feel he WILL!! He is arrogant, cocky and over confident. How do I get him off that high horse?
My husband is insisting on a divorce as he says he’s happier than ever. He did this through text message. He then text asking if I would file for divorce and to lie saying the reason was he abused me which he didn’t. I politely replied that this discussion should be face to face and he agreed. How should I approach this meeting please?
I lost my gf because her mother keeps telling her what to do. Her mother doesn't know me. What do I do how do I stop my now "ex" to stop being brainwashed by her mother?
I think it's even worse when they spent 8+ months with me and then tell me "I dont like you in that way" that hurts alot. Like if you didn't like me that way why spend so much time with me. And its non sexual stuff too like going places and them coming by during non booty call hours and days. Its confusing and awful
That's sad
This specific tip also works if she is now with someone else? What to do in that situation?
I think it still works bro if you do it the "right way." If you think she still has feelings for you, then give it a try and just be positive about it. Don't be threatened by the other guy 'cause if your realtionship with her is truly genuine she could sense thay somehow, you're trying to win her back.
Yes, still applies if they are seeing someone.
Coach Samira
What if they dont even want to talk to me?
Move on and distract yourself
I’ve been dating this girl for a year and 5 days and I miss her so much. We broke up on October 12th..... she said she left me because I was too jealous and I was supposedly controlling her life. She said she wanted time but I thought I’d lose her throughout that time and she might’ve met someone else. I still miss her and I still love her and idk what to do😔. I pushed her away by begging and pleading so idk what to do anymore😔💔
Jesus juarez your still so fresh into it bro don’t make the mistakes I did, I would put up no contact right now for 30 days and allow her to miss you let her see you thriving in social media and in the mean time u focus hard on your self so when no contact is up and it’s time for u to respond to her or you reach out to her your a new man and ready to show her ur good to go
I totally get you bro. Stay in no contact for awhile now. I've been dealing with it too and it really changes you. The whole point of NC is not just about getting back with your EX it's also about getting and feeling good about yourself. You may have lost confidence along the way but you'll get it back and who knows your girl may come back crawling at you. Hope this helps.
Update?
Lonely Guy may god be with you lonely guy you are not lonely my frnd
Ok yea i'm completely lost on re-creating the spark. I built it the first time on some lies that I didn't know how to keep in the past. Now all I think about is not trying to sound like a liar when I talk to her. Im sure she's not like she used to be and I understand her reasons. I just think now it's her just completely cold now because she called a lot before we got together the first time. Now it doesn't even happen
I see my ex at college everyday...I'm Having fun like normally and enjoying, will that make her feel like I am indifferent after the breakup? When we're around each other I'm totally busy with myself completely forgetting the fact that she was once a very special person for me... Does that make her feel like I don't care?
Mohit Daftuar do you still care and love your ex? My ex and I working in the same office,and I think he acting like you having fun and busy with his own stuff. I wonder if he still care and love me😢
She wants to still do stuff as a family with our son but she looks at me in my eyes and everything and if we hug she says she don't want it to change anything, we've hooked up twice and she says she don't want it to change anything.
Swepty lolz 😂
hey. Im only 15 but me and this girl been going together for a year. We argued alot over the summer and now its to the point where she doesnt care about anything. Im trying my best to at least change her mind and ask for a chance where she can start caring again but its like nothing is working. I lost myself and found myself but i hate to see her leave and i actually love her. Feelings are still raw and shes so easy to say i dont want you. It dont hurt me but it makes me wonder why... I try to play it cool alot but its really hard when she doesnt care im not used to this. Its hard. We talk about it alot and it just never get anywhere
Thanks to your advice..
I love her so much but everytime i feel that love its so much pain too..try to understand my english its hurt so much..
My ex and i broke up 7months ago. We had a messy break up, but he always came back as just a friend. Whenever im around him, he flirts with me, touches my legs, and gives me hugs. Hes told me too many times that he doesnt want a relationship with me, but hes always chasin after other girls. Is it too late to try to get him back? Or should i move on? Idk what to do, i miss him sm😟
My long distance ex, i have ignored her for 2 days and she was worried about me. She is with another guy but they are not dating but what she told me is that she feels lonely because she had me and now she doesn't have me
How to show an ex girlfriend that there is a future. I did a misstake. I didn’t agree with break up. And I didn’t agree with my ex on being just friends.
Same situation 😔
Never agree to being just friends, you never made a mistake
@@yeyesvlog3323 worst choice ever now I'm blocked everywhere :'(
I have been gone through this stage we broked up it's been past two months. on first month I begged and pleaded but from second month I applied no contact formula does it work out our relationship was from past five years .
We had a heated fight yesterday n he said he hates me n never want to see me again so I'm in no contact i will never reach out to him again I unfriended him on fb but he hasn't block me yet so idk but for me I think its over from his part
there is a problem in the relationship a religion problem. after a week 3 approached her via text like i have changed . what you think of now like the main problem to be together id gone. but she hesitating to read the message saying i will read it later or i dont know she just read and ignoring to reply it.she said same for the 3 days and finally she put my name on archive she doesnt even seen my last text. she muted my story but still hasnt blocked yet i didnt contacted her 4 days still she hasnt seen or reply to my message
whats the problem in her to say will it work not
anything is fine but why she not replying to me. or atleast she can say i need some time
I pushed my ex to the point to where she moved on what should i do samearia
Man I know I been on the comments for a hot minute but bro I’m finally at the point where I don’t need her to be happy I’m not sad anymore but yes I still love her and yes I can live without her but the feelings will always be there and at this point It’s just a waiting game for me waiting for her to give me a call or message and if it doesn’t come well this mans will be on the market 🙏🏼... PS thank you love advice tv
Alejandro Cortez
That’s exactly what I’m going thru and doing. Keep it up carnal
But we come correct and try to seduce and then they respond with: stop teasing me 🤔 what are ur thoughts?
I mean you can tease me and forget about him LOL
I did not know Why?a friend some time told him yes and some times told him no what they do near about 06 months i saw this what they play a game drama and when they play a game automatically a partner in his lose intrest i am a respected person i did not want my home family know this they said who is your friend why his behaviour my family is friendly family.
We had a long distance relationship, it actually worked but then corona came and now we haven’t met in a looong time.. What can I do to make her love me again? She has now told me that she has lost feelings for me
My ex broke up with her rebound a week ago. SHe was with him for 3 weeks. I wished her happy birthday after. I would have wished regardless whether she was in a relationship or not. She did not respond to that. She started hanging out with my friends and she talks to everyone but me. Did I do anything wrong? She seems very ahppy whenever she is with my circle of friends. Is she trying to make me jealous? Can you please help me on what is going on?
I give up my life is over😔this will be my final goodbye
Don't lose hope...
My ex lost interest on me but we still talk and text and see each other I just want her to feel something for me
update? Did you get back together or nah?
What ifmy ex has an exwife. And he still has feelings for her. They have a child. But haven't been living together about 18months. And divorsed.
He was beginning to really open up to me. We know eachother for 30 years. And he said to forget about him. We can't find happiness in eachother. He is a "all in or nothing guy", and our situation seems like a half thing. Allthough it was his initiative to keep it at only sex. But then he started saying all kinds of things about future and so on. And now he left.... been in NC for 36 days. But we live in the same apt building. So we met twice. I smiled.
Any advice?🙏
i miss her .she lost feelings for me ..pls let me know wht should i do
Move on you cant make someone have feelings for real shit and ik it might hurt but aye more bitches in the sea 💯😌
Hey guys and people that see this, my ex asked for space 2 weeks ago and she gave in a called last sunday and while talking i mentioned the no talking thing and she said she needs more time and bloody hung up on me! So i left it, it went all through monday to saturday which was lastnight when she called me again and told me something reminded her of me and we talked for an hour or so before she went to bed. Im not sure what to do now? She's reached out a second time i want to talk to her but i dont want to pressure her and make her think im trying too hard or anything, do i take it slow or let her reach out to me or???@! !?!?!!?!??
Maltz update? (:
She broke up with me just 5 days ago and before i stumbled on this channel i focused on doing my job well instead of wallowing and grieving. Is it weird that I had that instinct that quick? I mean it was just yesterday that i was clinging to her leg and today Im already doing these strategies. Is this weird or what?
Hey Jamel Gallenero, not weird at all. You snapped out of it. Don't criticize yourself. Pat yourself on the back instead!
Best,
Natalie
Thanks coach I already planned out my week so far. These are just the early stages but i think your guidance has been substantial so far. I really hope this would work out but I guess the main focus for now is to improve myself. Thanks a bunch!
What if my ex thought that he was inferior than me in some way(such as career, socialization) and had really low self esteem. The self transformation to be better me will pull hime away far more? Thank you :)
He said I deserve someone better than him. 😭
I’ve been trying to reach out to my ex on a monthly or bi-weekly basis since he broke up with me in July. My last msg(just a random photo of a restaurant that reminds me of him) was sent 2 weeks ago, no read no reply, so I decide to go no contact....it sounds a bit late but I decide to focus on my self for a while. My question is...next month is his birthday, should I at least send him some greetings...?
Reimi H
My opinion only, ... no. Make him miss you. Make him wonder. He probably will be expecting that. I know I would. I’ve learned the last 5 mos that I that reaching out is only hurting me. Keep working on yourself. That’s what I’ve been doing. I miss her very much but she is moving on. If it was meant to be it will be. Hope that helps.
still hoping...but he's a cheater.
What about a ex fiancé who left me and constantly confuses me with wanting to sort it then saying she doesnt...... it makes it hard to give space and distance due to having a child together.... how do I go about showing her and making her realise she does want me even if she thinks she doesnt
I broke up with him fr no reason but now we are back together and I don't feel the love .For me I know I do love him . please help me
Is going no contact the way to go for this?
Do your rules applied for any age.. I am 47 I just broke up after 13 years..
My ex feelings changed as she found a person who's nature was like as she had dreamt of ... so they both talked and she proposed to him but he didnt valued her at all. All this was not conveyed to me after 2 months she confessed that she had fallen for somebody else and our relationship is over . We had regular fights on this issue. after 1month(in between which we talked) she texted me and said will u accept me now. I said yes but u have to prove your love now and gain trust. But after 1 week she again brokeup and said that she needs time now to analyze as to exactly what all went wrong between both of us earlier. She is still confused about me .
what should i do now ? Our relationship was for 2year+ .
Moreover she also wants to focus on her studies as they are now her priority.
Hey Lakshay, give her space to figure herself out on her own. Don't put any pressure on her. In the meantime, focus on YOUR OWN priorities and don't give her the impression that you're waiting around for her - Coach Steven
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity Thanku so much for your rply .
should i hope that she will come back to me ?
As i never thought of all this happening she was very much serious and so i was.
@Love Advice TV
PLS rply.
My ex said she's fine and she doesn't want to see me because there is no need hahaha doubt she'll turn around. I neglected her and then won't no contact to give her time and space since she was angry and now she's over me...
Update??
its too late, I waited too long, I realized too long, today I found out she's probably with someone else since her profile changed with a person kissing her cheek, and that wasn't long after I gave her an apology letter. its time to move on, I didn't think I would be this hurt and it was all caused by me. at least I learned from this experience, and hopefully am not the same shit that I was before.
Hey my ex broke up with me about 2 or 3 months ago but anyways we had a good relationship but after the break up we us to say hey to each other in class because we have the same class together but now she just gotten cold and unfollowed me on social media’s because I sent her a funny video. I need some advice if I should give her more space or try to reach out or just move on. Thanks 🙏🏽
And another thing is the reason she broke up with me is to focus on her future and this isn’t the first time she to break it off.
How do you start new again and what to do after them loosing feelings
I really like coach Samira
That's a lot of work for very little reward.. I'm so glad I gave up
I dont know if he lost feelings for me but he broke up with me cause his childs mother was keeping her away from him cause we were together and he said he had to make a decision. He called last week saying he still loves me but I dont believe it if he allowed this girl to destroy what we had by using the kid as a pawn. Also we were living together and since he left 6 weeks ago why has he not changed his address?
Hi BeautifulSoul InsideandOut, due to the volume of comments that we get on a daily basis, if you're looking for immediate assistance, please book a coaching session with us by going to the following page www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ It's the best way to get the fast responses you're looking for - Coach Steven
Is it possible to do videos on different attachment styles?
I think that I gave my ex space. My theory on why she called it quits may have been because I was too available. I'd answer her text right away. Another reason was that maybe I didn't act masculine. I am too much of a pushover
No more intimacy because the trust is broken when he cheat on me. And then he did it on the 3rd times but hide his other woman from me... When I found out a month after of guessing, i let him do the last word...
I want my ex girlfriend back in time.
Also I miss her.
Thx for gud guidelines u teach me big up
Your guidelines change my ex now we are going on big up
Now how can I ask him for engagement before marriage lam Justin big up coz we are still in long distance
Yaa now even if lam abroad but he is care after your help u teach me thx
What about if my ex and I have broken up 5-6 times? She always comes to me but this time around I don’t think she wants to work things out
Sameeee
after 2 mos of no contact we met again. but it was a disaster. I was dumped the 2nd time around. he just meet us because of our daughter. and now he is inlove w someone else. HELP ME
What if you worked and were clingy and needy so they blocked you? How can i come back to her and get her back, She is dating another already.. ive worked 5 months to show her my love after I messed up big time. How can i get her back?
Hi good day.. i have a big problema, my ex and I broke up last nov. 5, we ended our 8 year relationship, after our break up he had a girlfriend for a week, I stopped communicating with him however many times that we chat or we saw each other. He already blocked me on facebook but not on his instagram. He always look at my myday on insta. What should i do, i want him back..
Hi. My long distance girlfriend wants space... she's been changing so much lately that it hurts. She seems so uninterested in me lately and honestly I don't know what to do. We're going to Singapore in a couple of weeks to see each other but apparently I've been smothering her. I want to give her the space she needs but I don't want her to completely lose feelings for me more than she already has. She says she still loves me but she doesn't know anymore. She swears she wont leave me but I want to fight for her. Please help me guys, I can't stand the thought of us not being together anymore...
Just give her the space until she contacts you
My ex said she does not have feelings for me and said may she doesn't loved me like that way but there was something and now suddenly she is saying I'm not ready for a relationship and I seriously want her back and she also agreed for a breakup sex and saying she doesn't want to loose me and want to become friends what should I do in this situation
M staying with my ex who we broke up for 3yrs we recently living together..but am having feelings for her back.
Coach Samira and Steven, I did NC for two months but I texted him about a movie I watched and asked him to watch and give some feedback as a way to reopen the conversation. His reply was short and cold. And he start to post on Instagram these days. He even post one photo of his back hiking yesterday. Looks like he's got someone new. How long should I wait to reach out again or should I just wait and see if he would reach out to me? Will there be anything I can do at this stage? Looks like he's enjoying life and exploring new things at least with friends if not new date. Thanks and really looking forward to your reply.
I split up 5 months ago . I did 30 days no contact . He told me he has no felling and its over . I was texting him apx 1 time ever other day for 2 months he doesnt like texting . Than i called him every 3 days he doesnt call me but he will talk on the phone what do i do go cold will he chase me . He know i want him back and that i love him i told him
Stop contacting him until he contacts you
Coaches but what if I already tried to ignite the flame but then he responds by saying: why are u teasing me? Let's not tease each other HUH?! What kind of response is that and what does this response mean?
Christine Negron He wants to do the sex thing
How would you go about the first initial reach out after no contact? Any differently because of the situation?
I suggest a letter, but it depends if they reach out to you. Coach Samira
@@LoveAdviceTVCommunity After 2 months of no contact she reached out to me for my birthday, I said "thanx" and Ive been in no contact for about 3 weeks after she wished me a happy bday
I just spoke to gordon he said he not been with this he mess me about he said knew noing about this at all this hurtful I can't ring you no number I keep asking????
But what if they’re seeing someone else? I tried no contact, he didn’t care because he with her almost everyday. So I’m never on his mind unless I contact him which now he contacts me and checks on me. He did say he been was falling out of love before it ended. They are moving extremely fast in 2mths. She stays there while he’s at work all day. He’s a Taurus and she’s a Leo, which I research to not be compatible, yet they’re going strong. He don’t trust me from one mistake I made and no it wasn’t infidelity but I believe that’s the real reason he’s so adamant on not coming back. Bc he don’t love her but he won’t even cheat on her for me and the sex I know is something we shared that she can’t replace bc he admitted it, but he says he’s at peace. Should I just give up?
What if I was F+ with someone for a year. But after half a year I got feelings for him. I'm sure he sensed that because after that he didn't show so much interest in me as in the past. That really hurt. I got realy clingy and touchy. He said then that he do not want a relationship. I was scared to confess feelings. Two weeks ago he told me per text that he met someone else and wants to to know if this could go serious. But he wanted to stay as friends. I said that I don't want that. It's been 2 weeks. I didn't have any contact with him since then.
I don't want to run after him. But if he contacts me and fights for me I would give him a chance.
Has anyone tips how to get his interests back? And that he wants to be with me!
I really miss her
Did not plead or beg. It was the stepkid. They chose the kids disrespect and bad behavior over me. Any advice besides to run? Lol. They know it will never change. And they are afraid of eventual confrontation upon his manhood.
I like the video..thankyou.❤
What should I do if I am going through a period of no contact but I have a Snapchat streak with her but I’m having my friend do them. Should I end the streak? Also technically, I broke up with her but it was only because our religious leader told us to. I still loved her and I do now. We still cared for each other afterwards and we were a thing but then eventually she said she’s trying to move on and now we are at the same university together and we are part of the same cultural community and I don’t really know what to do or how to act because I am very emotionally attached and I’m afraid I did scare her away but like what should I do now? It’s been no contact for over a month and we were together for almost 2 years
Hi.. quick question... can we tell sn ex we went on a date.. if they asked what we did? Or is it better to be vague and just say i met a friend? ... im trying to get my ex back... but he is being emotionally unavailable.. so he asks to meet up and is hot and cold a lot.. so ive started to date again to stop obsessing.. but can i mention it?
My ex left saying I cheated (I didn’t and would never) and even said she had a video which is impossible because it didn’t happen. I saw the video and I was just sleeping and rolled over and fell back asleep. She said hurtful things as I begged and pleaded that I didn’t. I recently blocked her everywhere because I need time for myself to move forward. Can you make a video on whether or not ex’s should be completely blocked?
Thanks in advance your videos helped and continue to help all of us out here!!
gvigilgem my opinion is unblock her, but don’t contact her. See what goes from there.
Thanks coaches for this video. It's the Same case which I am going through. Bt can u say how to show I have changed and get those feelings back in long distance? She is saying that she is enjoying the single life. What should I do.
Don't push her to be with you right then and there. Gettig back together is a long process and it takes time. Maybe just give her a little more time to reflect on things with you and your relationship. Just act and play it cool.
I do miss him... but christo (ex) is dating someone else..he was cheating on me... i dont wanna disturb him anymore.. i hate him but at the sametime i love him madly....
I wish I could book a 1 on 1 coaching session, but I don’t have any money!
Hey L Kira, then that is something for you to work on now! Add it to the list of your goals :) And look, you got great advice without even needing to book a 1-on1!
Best,
Natalie
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ ❤️
My ex bf told me that hes not physically attracted to me but I dont understand if he feels that way why still want to hangout with me and hugs me and kisses me like if we were bk together and still get jealous?
I miss my ex but still we text each other but most of the time he ignores me 😔 it's hurt to loose him he is my first love😔 I don't know what is he thinking of😭suddenly he changes i want our relationship forever I want to marry him😔😔😔😔😔😔😔 i love him very much
And he told me to turn our relationship into friends but its impossible for me 😔 i love him very much😔😔😔😔
Manda Kongbrailatpam me too. i miss my ex & he's happy with someone else. I wish miracle will happen & he will come back to me
Same situation. But you can't control his decision. Move on and learn to love yourself. One day he will realize what he lost and reach out. It can take weeks, months and sometimes years. You'll find someone even better? That's why you shouldn't wait. Don't text him, just go no contact on him. Let the pain in, but don't let it control you. Distract yourself doing what you love. I wish you all the best.
Manda Kongbrailat he is saying that because he needs u too he fill the same but he dnt knw wt to do to get u back
Are you guys able to do a vid about conflict avoidance? Today’s vid is pertinent to me, but in my case my hubby never raised that he had any issues with me or our relationship until after he had already left.... he was so conflict avoidant that he just never raised issues for him, just built up resentments... how can I break thru that to attract him back?