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  • @Johnjackjack
    @Johnjackjack 3 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    Honestly break ups are the craziest, most trajic, but growing experience of my life

  • @timelesswords6826
    @timelesswords6826 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Bad times don't last forever, always remember that. Do the things that makes you happy. Enjoy your life! Smile and stay happy😃

    • @aiden_zae
      @aiden_zae 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      i love this words. thanks for writing it. i needed this.

  • @karlashmeedavlasta6365
    @karlashmeedavlasta6365 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    My ex doesnt want to lose walking my dog. Crazy but true.

  • @RoopaDudleyPaintings
    @RoopaDudleyPaintings 4 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    Putting all the focus on bettering myself. Beautiful Advice.

  • @annama2680
    @annama2680 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Nice advice. But we also be honest about why we want our ex back and be honest with our true feelings instead of just keeping him around. Otherwise, we would be like them and try to keep them while we might not see a future with them as well.

  • @gvillepoet
    @gvillepoet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Or if they feel like they aren't worthy of a great person like you you can't win it over no matter what. If their self love and confidence isn't high as yours and go through their own struggles,, they have to work on that, you can't fix them no matter what or understanding you are.

  • @rebeccajeffery274
    @rebeccajeffery274 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Have u considered that one of the partners may be on the narcissist spectrum, and u they want to keep their exes as a friends for control? Btw it’s not a power game, a healthy relationship is balanced give and take. If it’s a power struggle for control, it’s not the right relationship for u and not true love. Someone can only love u as much as they love themselves and vice versa.

  • @staceymariethomson
    @staceymariethomson 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I found this video really helpful. I'm like Jessica losing hope but I'm going to do what Alex said and have a better life for me and my kids 😁 thanks Alex xx

  • @susantmejaritomejarito2826
    @susantmejaritomejarito2826 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    LDR need patience, and keep trust each other,
    And take care your relationship. I hope some day i have LDR.

  • @zebokamalova3724
    @zebokamalova3724 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Thank you Alex! Your advice about no contact worked with my ex!
    I did everything what you suggest...I stopped thinking about him, concentrate on my personal growth. As a result, he suddenly called , said he missed me so much but I changed my mind totally that I won't him back with me.
    I don't know how to express my gratitude!😄

    • @edsonjavier5243
      @edsonjavier5243 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Are y’all still dating

  • @imwatching2960
    @imwatching2960 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Great advice, Alex! I like how you break down almost any situation like this to the importance of investing in ourselves and not the other person!

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

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  • @mashiandlovu4519
    @mashiandlovu4519 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    U're so experience in this issue this man uses your happiness to make him happy to love the person he love

  • @natce.s.87
    @natce.s.87 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    My baby daddy says he won’t be in a relationship with me yet he sleeps over a few times a week and comes to me whenever he needs someone to be there for him. He knows I love him and that’s probably why he does it. I want a family for my children but that doesn’t seem to be a priority to him. I keep having hope because he’s around and I think if I can show him how much I care he will want to be with me but that doesn’t work. I have forgiven so much but never seems anything is good enough and I can’t figure out why

  • @paulinalewismcmurray4434
    @paulinalewismcmurray4434 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi I am Irma from Florida,love this message it's just what I am going through

  • @nathalie5238
    @nathalie5238 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Ooo I had the same... he really likes me he said. We should remain friends, then he said we should have been friends from the beginning instead of lovers... yeah right but he was chasing me to start with...
    I cutted all contact, telling him a friendship is not an option for me.
    Bye bye... it has been a week now... curious of what will happen... I am moving on and fucussing on my own.
    I have amazing time now and healing, miss him less and less every day 🥰

    • @enrobotics
      @enrobotics 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What happened next? Any update?

    • @kristenfuller9168
      @kristenfuller9168 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I healed as well he hasn't though. I don't think cuz he keeps messaging me saying hi can we please chat he keeps sending me friend request on Facebook and I don't trust adding him back cuz he hurt me in the past he blocked me while he was in a relationship with me and I'm scared he'll do it again I'm scared he's going to hurt me again all over again. Can't trust him yet my trust is broken still from his actions he did to me my trust hasn't healed

  • @srinu687
    @srinu687 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    On that time I have hope but now I don't have any hope.... just blocked again and again

  • @ednasharma4497
    @ednasharma4497 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just like my bf we dont have closure but because i found out his cheating im pulling away with silence , he already tired keep calling me , we sometimes talk normslly and he said he will set time for us to meet and talk out things , and im doing myself to be busy at work , fitness now ive been healed into desperation of him and i decided to just move on , i told him that i cant go bk anymore as far as im concern i dont wish things keep repeating again .. and now he stop calling , messeging and im ok for it ..this the time im learning to focus on myself , my career and to do discover more things i want to enjoy more

  • @jacklynenimo
    @jacklynenimo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Following you from Kenya he's talking but the spark is not the same

  • @Sahdemir94
    @Sahdemir94 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You guys know what you talking about. And unfortunately I don’t have the money to buy a coach session. It is a really hard time for almost 1.5 years and the last 5 or 6 months some times i wish that god take my soul. She is so hard mens and is in charge I really don’t know what to do.

  • @ednasharma4497
    @ednasharma4497 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love you mentor wish to see more of your videos in the near future,lovelots Jed from hongkong

  • @reneever729
    @reneever729 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    They do that to check on you and if you are doing bad your ex confirm she made right decisions if you do well your ex will regret to see you thrive!!!💯👌🏻

  • @droflivelife
    @droflivelife ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My ex just left me. I was very needy and she is pushing me away and saying definitely no chance of getting back. I'm hurting and can't discipline myself with no contact. She is happy to see me or talk to me but as long as I don't try get back with her.

  • @Vivi-jc4br
    @Vivi-jc4br 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hello Alex thanks for the advice

  • @waleedantulay3419
    @waleedantulay3419 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome stuff .....Waleed from South Africa

  • @elizabethlake4665
    @elizabethlake4665 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello Coach Alex!! 😍😍😍

  • @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
    @mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have a question why does they don't have nothing going on with their life such they don't have no job no education going on with their life or nor they don't no hobbies in their life .. ?? Especially the ones are very codependent ?? They always think someone needs to take care of them ?? Why is this ??

  • @isidroaumada4945
    @isidroaumada4945 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Bro you are awesome perfect motivation right on point

  • @nancynavarro4537
    @nancynavarro4537 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    No contact & My ex is telling his family he’s sad and doesn’t know what he’s done and he’s very bummed out but hasn’t contacted me ??? Why..

  • @dgnl4324
    @dgnl4324 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Alex, my ex still talks to me and I feel she wants to come back but as you stated I don’t want her to be in control which I understand your point. What if she seems to be flirting more with others in front of me? These others I’m speaking of are somewhat mutual friends of ours. Is what she’s doing to see how I would react? I’m sure she wouldn’t seriously do anything but how should I react? I don’t want her to feel like that I don’t care or that it didn’t bother me. Please advise...

  • @29PalmsPublish
    @29PalmsPublish 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    You have hit the nail on the head. Stop being co-defendant. Reinvent yourself. Step your game up!
    Great channel!!!

  • @akirajahanna
    @akirajahanna ปีที่แล้ว

    Alex your advise to Jessica was amazing my ex & I have a child together and he’s been hot and cold also

  • @mushkamishka
    @mushkamishka 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love your accent.

  • @mantoasephiri4792
    @mantoasephiri4792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    At the same time. He put my thing's at her place but he doesn't want to see me

  • @ravirajsingh500
    @ravirajsingh500 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Alex! Really need your advice.
    So we were best friends from school days and then we entered into relationship it was like very filmy and romantic and fights started frequently but we were very close. After 2 years when my higher studies started I couldnt give her time and fighting became very regular.
    Suddenly after one months break she said I dont feel the same for you and now she is completely disinterested in me. What should I do to impress her again. Please help

  • @katarina9168
    @katarina9168 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My position is the same with no contact then letter that touched him and he was texting with me but stopped answering after 3 weeks of texting and now it’s been almost a month since he didn’t open my message. We were in a long distance and after a break up when we talked on the phone he would talk to me about the things we’d do once I’m in his country which will be in 2022 bc that’s when I’m moving there. Before we thought we’ll stay long distance until then and meet when we travel to each other but corona ruined it and split us apart. Now he’s talking to others and I feel like he’s manipulating me specially bc he is ignoring me like I said. Idk what to do

  • @cyndemaegentapa467
    @cyndemaegentapa467 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My Ex Is Also doing this, He's giving me Hot and Cold behavior. One day, He's Very happy to Hear from me, and suggest that we should Meet Up. Then days Go by and I don't hear a Single word from him. We were together for a Year and a Half, broken up for A Month now... I Guess I should just move on with my Life :(

  • @wordscanchangetheworld9335
    @wordscanchangetheworld9335 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He says he doesn't want to lose me, or see another man love me but he doesn't want to be in A relationship with me bc he is confused and going through personal things, I seen that he made a dating profile looking for a relationship and we haven't even been going through this trouble not even 2 months and we have been together 10 years. He says he wants to be with me and can't see himself settling with anyone and that he knows he is messing up the best thing yet he is still out there talking to other ppl while wanting to still see me and my son that he raised since 6 months, I feel like I'm holding on to a hope for him to change his mind and I'm scared to completely leave and he'll forget me and meet someone else and I hate the thought that I was so easily replaceable and like our beautiful years together were so Easy for him to forget and start a whole new relationship. He just says the word confused all the time. And I find myself trying to change his mind or trying to show him my worth and It just makes me feel incredibly dumb afterwards 😞how did he just change his mind overnight

  • @h3arty
    @h3arty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Omg you're absolutely fantastic in your advice and experience. I love it! Cool accent too. Omg this is what I'm going through.

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I appreciate your kind words, thank you for watching!
      Coach Alex

  • @gilliansanderson4830
    @gilliansanderson4830 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Alex could you please warn others about covert ( fragile) narcissists. Your advice is brilliant but could be ambiguous to some as they may not be aware of such cluster B types. Thank you Alex.
    I truly hope you & yours are safe healthy and happy :)

  • @vccarter2003
    @vccarter2003 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi Coach, me and my gf broke up a week ago and she wants to chill we me as friends. She said "we can't go back together because if we do we need to be very serious and probably get married but we can't go there anymore. So as friends ok?" and I said yes at the time.
    I want to get back with her but it doesn't seem like she's on the same page. Would it be a mistake if I meet her this week and I am afraid I will be friend-zoned and emotion support until she find another boyfriend which I cannot accept this.
    Please advise!

  • @heathersantos260
    @heathersantos260 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Heather from Connecticut

  • @evelynsantos8206
    @evelynsantos8206 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    My ex sometimes calls me and says he misses me but he doesn't want to comeback . He cheated on me after 4 years relationship and he's on a relationship now with that girl.

  • @620annika
    @620annika 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I was in a relationship with for 5 years. I broke up with him 9 months ago to learn to be alone/autonomous/healthy. I haven't dated and tried reconciling after 6 months of separation - the past 3 months have been a wave of mixed messages from him (e.g. wanting to try again, then not wanting to and only friends, then not wanting to be friends, to time and space, to wanting to be friendly and in contact). He said he sees that I've changed, am attractive and shining - and that it's inspired him to now grow himself. But he wants to do it for him, not us. I respect this. I have rebuilt my life and he sees my growth - he wants to stay in contact on the phone but not dating. It seems friendly. No flirting. Where do I go from here? How do I rebuild without pursuing him? As of now, all he knows it that I want him in my life but I don't want to be in a relationship because I'm learning how to be emotionally resilient. I was very emotionally dependent on him and scared of that happening again.

    • @omarramirez8776
      @omarramirez8776 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      AAJ any update on this?

    • @mistergoodcitizen9914
      @mistergoodcitizen9914 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Leave him alone you broke up with him. If you truly loved him you would have never left him.

  • @michellebrown3107
    @michellebrown3107 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    can you give a clearer clarification in words on what to do if like you said, your ex just wants control. Like how/what to change, create tempo, create balance of power. By no contact? Or like how what to do to reverse to reattach. I’ve been needing this, thanks

    • @GoLiveJeez
      @GoLiveJeez 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tell clear your wants and what you're goin'tolerate if she behave like that. Casually. Not violently nor bitter.

  • @jaf__7513
    @jaf__7513 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She told me she still loves me but she doesn’t wanna come back together

  • @outroseok
    @outroseok 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    he talks to me on a friendly level only and despite him initiating the last 2 times we've contacted he still acts distant.

  • @hereonlyculturally6334
    @hereonlyculturally6334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    @Love advice Tv or anyone who can answer me,when a guy after a misunderstanding after we offended him deeply for a misunderstanding turn cruel to us it can mean he is still very hurt by us and he needs time?

  • @kristinewashington4242
    @kristinewashington4242 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you coach Alex for all your advice. What happen my boyfriend has a woman on the side. But don’t have the face to tell the truth. I just love him so much. What can i do?

  • @autumnself2713
    @autumnself2713 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have been with my husband for a little over 8 years. We have Hitchhiked across the country together. I stayed with him even though I knew he had no home of his own except for an overhead camper in a friend's yard and no job. That didn't matter to me I Loved him for him. Over the eight plus years it has been off and on again seeing no one else he just needed and wanted space when he would get mad at me for one reason or, another. This last time he now has been gone for 4 weeks and finally reached out to me in the last two days but, still saying there isn't a "we" anymore and he wants a Divorce but, can't financially afford to pay the costs for one. If he really didn't want to be with me wouldn't he stop communicating altogether and do you think I can still Save Our Marriage

  • @tamekaallen7023
    @tamekaallen7023 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My ex and I were together six years. We broke up five months ago. I’ve improved my appearance and tried to take interest in things that he likes. However, he maintains that there’s a possibility for us in the future but he still wants to date and see what else is out there for him. I met a great guy a couple weeks ago that I’m seeing but I’m not yet ready to move on from him because he’s a great guy and my kids are attached to him too.

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hey Crystal Clear, just because you're not ready to move on doesn't mean you can't continue to "entertain" yourself with the platonic, gentlemanly company of other men. The WORST thing you can is wait around and keep yourself open as an option for your ex-boyfriend. He won't value you if you do so - Adrian

    • @tamekaallen7023
      @tamekaallen7023 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Love Advice TV Thanks

    • @artcloudd
      @artcloudd 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      you know what’s funny lol looking at your picture you look beautiful and like a nice person as someone on the outside looking in my thoughts are why would this beautiful be wasting her time with a guy that doesn’t want her.. it’s just so weird to me the way other people think of us and the way we think of ourselves and our situations lol

  • @harrymccarthy936
    @harrymccarthy936 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I always think I make progress but it’s so up and down my ex I’m so confused , I’m trying to get better in myself and I made some progress but I have to relax I want her so much that’s problem

    • @emanuelmercado2893
      @emanuelmercado2893 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s okay man remember getting her back is a marathon not a sprint! Plus if she’s initiating contact that’s a great sign

  • @sammcloughlin2639
    @sammcloughlin2639 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi, I would like to book a private coaching session can you send me the link?

  • @monicat.2342
    @monicat.2342 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I have completely gone silent on him- zero calls, zero texts.... but we work together so unfortunately I can’t completely disappear as much as I would like to. We broke up and 2 weeks later he was dating someone else. We never had a big fight or big blow up and when we did break up, I never chased him. My problem is, not knowing if I am doing the right thing at work when i do interact with him. I don’t go out of my way to look for him, but when he does initiate communication or interaction, I’ve always been very nice, polite and never show him how upset I am. I just don’t know if by me doing that, gives him the impression I never really cared and instead, reassures him of his decision to be with the new girl.

    • @mzaragoza014
      @mzaragoza014 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm on the same position, but I think it's better your way. If my ex tries to talk to me, I end up crying and walking away!!! I can't help it!!! It driving crazy. I'm trying to transfer I can't stand this situation anymore.

    • @monicat.2342
      @monicat.2342 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      mzaragoza014 I’m so sorry you’re feeling this way. I honestly just try to get into a specific energy when I’m around him. I tell myself “I got this. I’m okay. I’m strong” and I even sometimes snap my fingers- as crazzzzzyyyyy as that sounds. It helps me get out of that negative energy and what I have found, is that instead of his energy affecting me, my energy is felt by him. I get the power back. It’s a matter of energy- literally- what you put out into the situation is what you will get back. If you start crying and thinking “I hate this situation”, guess what? The situation will continue to stay the same so you can keep hating it because it’s what you keep calling into your space.
      Snap your little fingers away. Talk positively to yourself. You define the situation, the situation does NOT define you, darling. Chin up.

    • @mzaragoza014
      @mzaragoza014 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you . I'll start doing that from now on . Sometimes it's harder though.... he is dating a coworker too. She is 14 years older then him and it's even getting a divorce because of him. To make it even worst he was my fiance 🤣. I guess life is funny that way.... . Thank you for your reply, I'll do that from now on, I hate feeling weak around him.

    • @monicat.2342
      @monicat.2342 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      mzaragoza014 dont communicate with him, give him space, but ALWAYS remain nice, polite and FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT!!!!! Be as happy as you can be around him.... he went with someone completely opposite to you. That says a lot. Give him that space he is requiring, but also so he can see you’re still your great self and he didn’t break you. Again, fake it till you make it. My SO divorced someone 17 yrs his senior and he flat out says that marriage was the worst mistake of his life because the age difference became very apparent very early on but he never wanted to see the signs. Let your man see them. Feel them. And miss you all at the same time.

    • @mzaragoza014
      @mzaragoza014 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@monicat.2342 thank you

  • @schuylerwednesday4679
    @schuylerwednesday4679 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My ldr ex still talk but I implemented radio silence so I'm not reaching out first.I'm currently going through a health problem and I don't know if it's coincidence but this started a day or two after he broke up with me.So I'm healing from this breakup and at the same time from this health issue.he's currently busy pursuing his studies in another continent and sends a how are message. At the beginning of the breakup I didn't have any form of negativity towards him.I still don't want..it's not a good way to heal.but I feel he's only checking up on me when it's convenient for him.so I'm starting to be angry at him.I really don't want to harbor any negative emotion towards him even if he hurt me.the last call we had he was starting to be like his usual sweet self..calling me by our petname and making plans for the future and yet never asked me if I want to get back with him.the freak...I didn't know he's capable of playing this mind games.I'm just focusing on getting my health back and healing all aspects of myself.I'm praying hard everyday for strength.

  • @tajninfatama7487
    @tajninfatama7487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He chased me but not doing anything. He wants to talk with me that's it.

  • @ingridaccount
    @ingridaccount 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don’t have a crazy better life! It’s a pandemic. What to do? I’m
    Housewife and I don’t have crazy friends?

  • @venus_2023
    @venus_2023 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I sent him a package before we broke up I'm thinking what he gonna do after he received it? I told him to keep it he just said ok but at the back of my mind he might throw it I hope it's not

  • @breanna7292
    @breanna7292 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Hi Coaches, can you make a video on fostering trust with an ex?

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi Breanna Oliveros, have you looked through our video library to see if already have one? :) - Adrian

  • @v.89G
    @v.89G 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why would he start small talk, joking n asking me nonsense questions in gym.. But told me before over text tht he want his peace n silence n ain't no longer interested? We had a crush on the other last August but had to stop dating bcauze he is a commander.
    A other guy told me tht he acted kinda flirty with me.. But I'm sure he would say he is only polite

  • @georginaw.2055
    @georginaw.2055 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My ex of two years just left after we moved from Florida to Nevada a year ago. We've had many ups and downs. He's more of an introvert and I am an extrovert. Will going out and doing more things, having fun and becoming more dependent intimidate him or push him away further?

    • @wread1982
      @wread1982 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m an introvert, he doesn’t want to think of you out dancing and bar hopping, he wants you at home with him

  • @benhartart9487
    @benhartart9487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ben from Australia, 12 year relationship ended 5 months ago, she’s seeing someone new, I’m dating, improving all aspects of my life,so I really have to thank her ✌️

  • @angelbatlle3785
    @angelbatlle3785 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nj What do u do if ur partner left but u have an event coming up and u already paid for it and cnt get refund and they want to be friends but want to work on their self and tellin u later on maybe things will change

  • @thandiwemamkele7583
    @thandiwemamkele7583 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for your advices, pls help me out it is a good idea to delete his contacts so that I don't see his posts? The problem again is that he has contact with my daughter they are chatting what must I do about this pls help

  • @gilliansanderson4830
    @gilliansanderson4830 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You are spot on Alex . Balance of power!!!
    Not only great coach but incredibly sexy !!!
    Sent from UK

  • @MYJESUS944
    @MYJESUS944 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It a good game plan for myself

  • @ashleyyy543
    @ashleyyy543 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi. Hope your still available. My ex and I broke up cuz it was slot of drama. I’ve been doing no contact he just mess me that it bothers him that I think he doesn’t want me and I’m worth but what happened between isn’t worth it. What does that mean???

  • @cuddle2451
    @cuddle2451 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It’s been over a year. I’m planning on reaching out possibly next month. He hasn’t reached out within that time, but I know when he’s hurt he throws himself into work and tries to avoid thinking about the painful thing. It was long distance and was going into the military after graduation college so there was a lot of uncertainty around what would happen to us and that’s why he ended it. I’d like to have him in my life, but I’m also afraid it might be very painful if I reach out. I believe he still has feelings for me, but wants to avoid feeling them because he feels he can’t do much about the situation. Should I just go ahead and send the accountability letter? Or should I wait for him to make the first move

    • @wread1982
      @wread1982 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He’s banging someone else, he’s a guy, testosterone and biology

  • @rheamag1805
    @rheamag1805 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks for the video..
    My french ex dumped me, he ask me to not blocking him, to still keep n touch..
    But i did no contact for 2 weeks...
    After 2 week i reach out but still so early to reach out, my heart still hoping...
    So i called him and ask him if we can still hold the relationship..
    But he said no its impossible specially we live in different country...
    So i do go back to no contact again.. After 3 weeks he reach out to me..we talks now like a friends.....
    I can control now my emotions.....
    I will updates about my relationship to him.. .
    Thanks a lot

  • @doreenmusheke3755
    @doreenmusheke3755 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello Alex,, thanks so much you have really changed my life.... but I have one problem my Ex is complaining that have changed and that he will not calling me what should I do

  • @graciefox9135
    @graciefox9135 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    after 2 1/2 months my ex reach out to me just to tell he will work abroad and thats it. but after a sort of conversation he said he love me but not the same as before, and he doesnt want to get back together, i think he fall in love with someone new

  • @ChromeFusion
    @ChromeFusion 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My ex still talks to me but doesn't seem interested in making a convo. She will message me good morning and goodnight and sometimes debts voicenotes telling me how her day is but then other times she'll not speak for hours. I'm so confused

  • @PraveenKumar-ne1wt
    @PraveenKumar-ne1wt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve been going through no contact ..My ex reaching out to me ..I’ve been not at all responding to her calls and texts ,One day she texted me that -She got hurt by my unanswered calls and texts..She says that the decision which she took to get seperated is good on our relationship and she doesn’t want to come back to me but approaching me ??This is haunting me daily😢Does she never come back,Did I made anything wrong without answering her call and text 😣..?

  • @dreed4204
    @dreed4204 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have a similar issue my gf is 22 years older than me she let a ex from 30 years ago live with her that’s a break up able offense right? They don’t have kids together and used them both losing past lovers as a reason it’s so much more to it we were supposed to live together but when that happened I said hell naw I don’t even want to be around am I wrong?

  • @karolkozak64
    @karolkozak64 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jesus.. i just looked at the comments. So many of us are in such similar situations. My ex is moving out this weekend. I am ready to stop all contact. Can't be the one who had been trying for 4 months (3.5 relationship). I am ready to focus on myself. You cannot pull someone into loving you, don't ever let them make you their safe haven second option. We're all worth more than that. I keep asking myself - why would I want to be with someone who isnt equally invested? I cant. I would not want to stay with me if she would keep acting distant for a day longer. Also try to perceive them as a stranger because thats what they are. Their character, nature, feelings, posture, words - all changed. Is it the same person you are convincing yourself you love so much or a memory of good old times?

  • @Bissie_10
    @Bissie_10 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hello choach,My ex of 3 am half cheated and left me dated that person and now he is saying they broke up and he wants me back. I thinks he only wants me as rebound or for power. Please help me with this actions .what does it mean

  • @richardgraden5082
    @richardgraden5082 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi I finished with my ex girlfriend as she whent off with my best mate but it’s now got to the point where she has ended it with my ex best m8 and we are talking and she has given her spare set of house keys and she wanting to be civil for the hour daughter Lilly it’s nice but I don’t know what to do now as she is saying sorry to me when he turns up and it stops us talking to each other what can I do to solve this problem many thanks rick

  • @lukestraw7482
    @lukestraw7482 ปีที่แล้ว

    Finally letting go after 3 months, didn't do no contact but she kept reaching out hospital appointments, help in the house, meals etc. Just found out she's slept with 1 person and found a person who she has the best connection with after spending 2 days together she told me over text she's meeting him in my old house at the weekend 😂 even after getting me to do stuff for her
    Just let go guys focus on yourself

  • @DorisAgholor-hk9yl
    @DorisAgholor-hk9yl 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Alex thanks

  • @pedrovega358
    @pedrovega358 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Philadelphia.
    My ex left me and not really talking to me and want to be friends. What should i do.

  • @melaniehamilton5001
    @melaniehamilton5001 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    After a month of no contact. I went to my ex’s to pick up some things. He told me he really missed me, hugged and kissed me. I told him to reach out anytime he wants to talk and that I care about him. And I left…. Sooooo confused? He dumped me. Does he want me back?

  • @delfitampubolon3366
    @delfitampubolon3366 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Im doing a no contact and then suddenly he contact me, but he just ask me how iam doing,, it confuse me and didn't know what he want from me, when I ask,,, he said 'he just trying to be nice and be friend with me" :) thanks now I don't know how to move on.. I can't be friend with someone I still in love.

    • @Morthwyl
      @Morthwyl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Block him on everything and don’t look at his social media and move on. He’s just not the right person for you and will dump you again if you get back together.

  • @sophiax7897
    @sophiax7897 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What if the reason of the break up is something as serious as ur different culture and faiths ???? What do u do?

  • @OnlineWorldStoryWithLeilaAfraz
    @OnlineWorldStoryWithLeilaAfraz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please make a video about what both parts don't keep no contact and they are still seeing each other and have sex but the guy saying doesn't work in the future!

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for reaching out. We will definitely keep that in mind in our upcoming videos.
      Coach Alex

  • @Phazebotc
    @Phazebotc 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What does it mean when my ex tells me she wants to be friends? We haven't stopped talking since we broke up she even sent me a card when I was in trouble. Idk what she wants we been broken up for a while

  • @lilyedwards5407
    @lilyedwards5407 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    What if my ex started talking again but then momentum stopped and went back into no contact? Should I continue no contact again? Part of me thinks he does miss me but I don't really like being kept on the side. The other part of me thinks that maybe when we started communicating again, my responses were too short and he thought I wasn't interested

    • @katarina9168
      @katarina9168 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Did he reach out later??
      Because I’m in exactly the same problem rn. I feel like he lost interest when we talked for a few weeks after a no contact and then stopped responding.

  • @LeeBoyt1
    @LeeBoyt1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Could you do a video about girlfriends being in love with there ex still my story is that after being with my girlfriend for 5 months we broke up and she told me she still had feelings for him once he said he didn’t want her back 2 weeks later she contacted me saying she wanted me back after no contact I’ve spoke to her and she said she was confused and needed closure but now she knows she really loves me and I’m the one she wants I’m confused how’s she could say she loved me greatly the whole relationship but I find it hard to believe please help was I the back up plan cause she got rejected

    • @ssawan23
      @ssawan23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You’re backup plan my friend.. and when situation will change she will leave you again. Don’t trust and don’t go for it again no matter how hard it is. I have stucked in this game from past 10 years. I beg you don’t give her a chance. You’ll be stuck. Just accept she’s gone.

  • @user-ez5be6qj6h
    @user-ez5be6qj6h 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How can i be happy when my ex have our son now in his life, he does not want me to get in touch with my son , actually I don't know what he wants from me , he broke up with me and he is now dating another lady ,i have no problem about that but it seem he has problem with me please what should I do , should i be happy when it to hard for me to see my son or should I beg him please help me

  • @blackhorse1374
    @blackhorse1374 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It's almost months we are going through problems in our relationship and my gf is not ready to come back again.
    Pls Help Me😥

  • @vgylsen
    @vgylsen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I wish I saw this one month ago

  • @pakomodibele6222
    @pakomodibele6222 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello I did no contact in my 2nd week my mothers bf contacted me that he was sick and that I should call him. I fall for the trap and went back to no contact again, he reached out again this time and I fell for the trap and started being needy and desperate again and asking him to come back now it’s a month I don’t know whether to start no contact or what

  • @michellebrown3107
    @michellebrown3107 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What if it’s because of long distance? Can that be another reason or should I loose hope!

  • @mantoasephiri4792
    @mantoasephiri4792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Alex..... The father of my child is angry with me. It's being a year now during no contact he wants me to phone her......., last time i did phone her, he was so surprised.... Then after he ask me to give him money........ So Alex what does that mean

  • @shubhamgahlot
    @shubhamgahlot 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thankx

  • @noragomez2421
    @noragomez2421 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hi m ex divorced me but he still around we were together for 21 years but I don't understand what is going on.

  • @michiebb.3114
    @michiebb.3114 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have. A question. My husband and I are still married but are separated for 10moths now we have two kids together. We broke up because of my family and such We've been married for 11years do you think he's still loves me? And recently I told him that we need to stop talking to each (fyi months after the breakup i stop talking to him and thats when he initiated messanging and stuff) but yeah for a year and if after a year we still love each I said that I suggested that we work it out. And he said that he's trying to move on from me. What is that mean.

  • @dessybaby
    @dessybaby 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can someone help me. We was together for 2 years almost three. Say I was controlling well was trust issues and I told him I did trust him but I kept asking a lot of question because I am cautious of the other woman. First year we had problem but we talked about it and settle down. Like 2nd year I got better but when everything goes good some how I make it bad. Said we are done because of pattern of my behavior. I want to change it. I don’t know if he want me back cause he said he done with relationships and don’t want me.

  • @drmichaelpanthony9798
    @drmichaelpanthony9798 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you

  • @sandaliranawaka1933
    @sandaliranawaka1933 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I did block him because he always calling and telling me that we are not compatible because of that we can't be together. By blocking him did i do the right thing

  • @patriciachristinaperreire8990
    @patriciachristinaperreire8990 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Alex.. really enjoyed listening to you.. thanks for the advice..
    A little bit of update from my side.. my Ex n I met in Highschool n broke up after 5 yrs of a wonderful intimate relationship.. I then cut off any contact with Him.
    So I married another and moved on.. Last year, my Dear Husband passed away.. I was devastated and just drifted into loneliness.. Then, my Ex, who never married.. got my number from a friend.. We chatted on WhatsApp, We met for the first time after 40 long years.. and now We remain just good Friends . At this point, being in my early 60s.. I realized that I am falling in love again.. and I can't stop thinking about Him..
    He has mentioned that he's given up on relationships as he had bad experiences..
    Alex, I do hope I could rekindle our love and open a new page in our lives.. What should I do?..
    Best Regards.. from Malaysia..
    Pat.. 🤗🌹

  • @loveExpertTv2023
    @loveExpertTv2023 ปีที่แล้ว

    My wife told that she have another one but when I do my investigation I found none she had what can I do she have left me last 4 months ,she told me that she will give forgiveness but she will never returned to me what can I do? Arleady blocked me everywhere