The Tipping Point In Breakup Recovery (And Signs Ex Wants You Back!)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 มี.ค. 2018
- The Tipping Point In Breakup Recovery (And Signs Ex Wants You Back!)
People often ask me when will I know or what is the tipping point in breakup recovery…
If you are also hoping to get back with someone you love and lost, I’m sure that you also want to know more about the signs when an ex wants you back.
More than anything else, we want to empower you to take control of your emotional destiny. We want you to be able to read the signs and to know exactly what to do every step of the way, to ensure that you’ll get back with the one you love.
Coach Alexandre Cormont, the world’s #1 expert when it comes to breakup recovery joins us for another epic video… enjoy!
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„The tipping point is usually when you realize that you don’t need your Ex validation....when you realize that you don’t need them to be happy“...this Part helped me a lot...thank you for that
tysler durden totally agree!!! 🙌💪👍
I did six weeks and he's now back. He called me last evening to pick up my stuff because he couldn't bare having them until valentines. I got there, found candles, romantic music. We talked and made up. He got me a valentine's present. Shoes. But I Want to take it slow. Thank you guys so much
Hope Cayenne this is beautiful wow!
Did he stick around?
breaking up with my gf is the best thing that ever happen to me..it force me to be a better person in so many ways😁,thank you breakup .
Whenever I feel like losing hope.. I always watch your videos.. I don't know if that tipping point would come true.. but i damn wish it will..
Mademoiselle Mia it will! I'm 6 months in this process. And since some weeks I am happy. Happy without my ex. I've been in the dumps too. But once you are further down in this process, all the videos will make sense to you. Take care, you can do this!
You're both beautiful women. Shiiieeetttt wouldn't be single long if you were in my area haha.
Mademoiselle Mia what ever guy left you must be crazy you are a beautiful woman and seem very sweet and caring
Maria, I'm so happy for you and so proud of you. You've gone a long way. My ex of two years broke up with me less than a month ago so it's still fresh and the pain is indescribable but this video sent a spark of light in my heart. My goal is to be happy on my own and stop seeking his validation. Guys, please send me your best wishes. I'm scared, I feel weak now, but I will do my best.
Piscean Krystle you will be just fine. Just believe in the process! I know how much it hurts. Do follow their advice. Do get a coaching session. It really helped me.
I fucking love you guys, I have to be honest a part of me was ashamed to be seeking advice at all. But the reality is it's so beneficial to listen to intelligent people give you advice about emotions that you just can't understand on your own. Thank you
Someone once said why do you desire someone that doesn’t desire you...We are use to get validation from the day we were born till the day we will die. That’s how society works. Parents say you do this you are a good girl/boy. School you have to pass the exam so you are good enough to move forward. And when breakups happen it’s like we don’t have the validation anymore we think we are not good enough.
I absolutely agree with the fact that crisis is opportunity. For me I’ve only been single for a week and at first I cried all day, threw up, and could not be alone because I’d fall into this deep depression. When I finally let go and decided to grow it seems as though he’s been more interested in me. I let go of the thought that he would ever want me back because I just wanted to grow for ME. I’ve been happy everyday and genuinely growing. It happened so fast and not because I love him any less because I quickly learned to love me and God’s plan for me over everything.
I enjoyed the pain,begging and pleading,after 3months im already okay. Everytime I do NC he reach me out. BUt Im in my 3days again now..I feel better since im focusing in mtself.Exercising enjoying life...
I must say, this is one of the top, if not the best video you've created so far! It's very transparent how much you love what you do, and that energy is very infectious. I really enjoy the videos where you're two coaches together, as the message become more of a discussion and where you're able to go deeper into the topic at hand, colored by the different shades of your individual views and experiences. Thank you Adrian, Alexandre and Natalie for your amazing work!
Coaches! Have you thought about making a video on: NO CONTACT WHILE YOUR EX IS SEEING SOMEONE RIGHT AFTER YOUR BREAK-UP? Will it work to my advantage or against it? I have watched so many of your videos, but I haven't been able to find an answer to this! It would definitly clear a lot up.
Mia Smiljanich I would really appreciate this..
Coach Adrian is amazing. I have been this incredibly happy client. Thanks so much for everything!!
This is refreshing, wanting our ex back feels like pushing a triangle in a circle. It's becoming tedious but we still want to push it through. This video though is pushing us to see the other side of the world which is also comforting to know that there's "afterlife" in a good way
Only video I don’t skip on TH-cam! Very interesting and I hope me and my ex can achieve this
I've come from crying hours a day to being my confident self again. That took me months. Happened during my no contact. It really helps for your healing to detach yourself. I even blocked him to do this. Me and him are in contact again and when we talk it is fun. He is acting a little hot and cold so that's still a little bit of a struggle. But with all these videos here I know what to do :)
Maria Soeters best f luck
That's great! How did he initiate the contact if you've blocked him? I used to cry in my sleep after the break-up. I blocked him not because I hate him. I just wanted to concentrate on myself. A month of no contact had gone with my ex. I thought if he really wanted to reach out, he will find another way to contact me other than. The 'no contact' rule is very empowering when done right, in my experience. I'm happier and like what Coach Adrian had said, I no longer need his validation. I no longer need him to be happy and I'm okay with that.
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Loving the advice. Its helping me see the larger picture. I'm doing a lot of what is suggested. Getting a hobby, working on myself etc. I want our relationship to be better and stronger. Thank you for loving what you do.
You guys saved a lot of lives with these videos. Thank you
Thanks guy's every time I'm at a breaking point I just have to listen to you guy's
This video is the goldest of all gold. Really great! "We're here to pump you up" should be a whole series of videos, just showcasing the fact that you really should believe in yourself. "You're amazing! You have value!". Yet another insight into human behavior! Thank you so much, gentlemen!
All of your coaches are absolutely amazing! I recently was broken up with and I implemented everything you guys talk about. I've binge watched you every day and every time I felt weakness. You've given me strength and already I feel a power shift in myself
Thank you for your kind words. Glad to be helpful!
Coach Alex
God bless your team Love Advice TV, if it wasn't for all your advice I would not be where I am today ❤️
i love your team!! your videos have motivated me to follow the process through this break up and i really can’t wait to share my success story one day 🥰 Thank you , i believe in this process wherever i end up is where i was meant to always be❤️
There is time for everything not now but soon im on the process of healing thank you guys
One if the most insightful vids on subject of breakups.
Excellent advice! It's been 3 days since no contact, idk if he'll come back into my life or not, I hope so, we have a beautiful connection but I do need to use this time to work on myself and more time with my son. Make yourself happy and everything else will connect perfectly!
These videos empower me to stay strong..
Most excellent perspective, Gentlemen!
I absolutely adored this video. I found it helpful and inspiring.
My tipping point happened when she randomly texted me giving me her new number and texting and calling me first!!! This happened after I started using the radio silence technique and working on myself and filling my life with activities and a new job. I also don’t jump to answer her text and calls!!
Dexter Howard if u want her just go fr it.human makes mistakes but learning is impt
sara shabi thanks a ton!!
Dexter Howard great man
Dexter Howard you don’t have to answer the calls but it’s will be nice if you text her 🙂
@@OfficialYOUNGgODREX update??
very true.... happened with me...... love you alex
Hopefully there will a tipping point in my ex:s life as well. Damn I have learned so much from my 2 last breaks ups. I am like another person when it comes to relationships. This stuff should be taught in schools as it is such a valuable thing for basically every human in the world.
I wish the best will happen and concentrate on improving myself and being a better version of myself.
My story is to go from being too clingy in relationships to being too distant. I used to be such a needy person. Must have horrible to date with. Then again I decided I get rid of my insecurities and needyness and I manage to over do it. Now I am aiming for the sweet balance between cold and warm.
Thank you for making this 🙏🏾
It's crazy that I relate to every word they just said. I feel as though I've changed and it is relatable to a family members death.
Your team is so amazing. Thank you for the great info your team provides.
You're welcome! It's our pleasure :) - Coach Adrian
I would like to see some videos of the individuals that are facing the break up and the EX make up her decision of moving forward without you. I’m facing this situation and I know there is no hope but I want to get better fast and with the less pain possible.
We speak nice , interesting and with points and make some one who wach stay focus , good job 👏
This channel changed my life.
That fuels our fire and we're glad that it did change your life for the better :) - Coach Steven
Love it! ❤
Coach Adrian
You motivate me so much
Thank you
My life has change since i Started watching love advance tv thanks.
Sorry for you loss Alex! You are a great person. Love always xoxox
Iam almost there iam ready to walk away I still but on my wedding ring but thinking about not anymore I have goals and purpose thank you for all the great content
I your message in this video. It's very heartfelt.
They always come back for sure, but sadly when i dont want them anymore. And its frustrating like WHY THEY DUMPED ME WHEN I NEED THEM THE MOST?!
My ex gf reached out to me in person out of the blue. She used a silly excuse to speak to me but of course I went along with it. It was great. We joked and lightly flirted. I hope this communication continues and that I don't say anything dumb to mess it up. TY gentlemen for your advice, it really works.
Thank you brothers so much
Encourage words♡
Thank you so much for the tips, your advice help me to survive this no contact hard time
You're welcome Amy. I'm glad to hear the video was helpful for you.
Coach Adrian
I'm in love with his accent 😍
Don't say that. He'll use the no contact rule on you!
you guys are amaziiinggg. I just booked a session
How much is a session
What about trust? When an ex destroys trust, especially out of the blue, I don't see how trust can be fully restored - ever.
It's been 2 years since our break up we was together for 6 years been working out , making more money and having big social circle. I'm better In every aspect of my life after our break up , but I still break down and feel cold , she has reached out to me but never once asked about me or talked about being together as she is with her bf the past 2 years. I think about her till this day..
u both guys rocked the video super
What to do when “no contact” is being applied to you, like how is it from the receiving end.
My ex reached out to me recently after a long no contact. He simply checked in on me to see how I was doing. It was very brief. I'm so in love with this man & I also watched your video about writing a letter. I've written a rough draft.. Just laying everything out on the table, being super honest & vulnerable. It is not ready to be sent but I'm wondering if I should wait to send it or just do it when I feel the letter is as good as it can get. I'd appreciate any insight! So glad I came across your videos. But I'm torn between what the right thing to do is.
Hi I really found ur videos very motivating and helpful.hope wat u say really works.
This answers alot of questions I been asking myself. After 30 days he broke during my NC process. I haven't responded. Checked to see if I was ok. It's been 4 days now since the text. I'm not 100% mentally since the breakup but I have been trying to train my brain to heal myself. Working out etc. I thought about responding but I think I should continue to work on myself first. Before I do anything else.
Love it coach😎
I understand that i need to become the person she loved. And i know who she loved i know who i was. And i understand i have to take control of my emotions. It will take time and i don't know if we wiill be together but i will be happy again one day. Because of me.
All this stuff is not easy when you live with your ex and you can’t get away from the house as much because the schedule with our child is crazy so me and her are home together a lot during the day
Listening and watching you makes me stronger and I feel not to give up that one day my ex will come back with me, thanks to both of you.
Exactly what happened to my ex and later found out he was dating another person so everything just took a turn lol
The tipping point will arrive!!!!
waltervila33 hopefully rlly miss her
waltervila33 hopefully! 🤝
It's never gonna happen. I know that for sure. I know I don't need him. But every time I see him it hurts. It's been two years.
Hey 9th Cup, why does it hurt after 2 years? What did he do? - Coach Adrian
Well it’s like this I’m head over heels in love with here yeah I made mistakes but I want to show her that I love her with everything in me.she gave me a second chance but she didn’t give me 💯in that chance. She lost her farther during this time. I stuck by her the hole time. She is still hurting and now she giving up on me. What should I do keep fighting for her love or let go? She the love of my life I’ll fight till the death for her.
My ex has taken a break from his new girlfriend, and is spending time with me, but she doesn't know I'm still in the picture. I go running and that makes me feel good, for our interactions. I wish he'd be honest with her.
U guys are amazing
Hey Guys, i did no contact rule for about 2 weeks. She texted me saying like hi what's up, and started text me everyday on Facebook and to phone i ignored all of that. She were very desperate and needy for my attention. So until she texted me very long text that she wanna start over and again experience those awesome days that we gone through. I waited day or two after that long text. Then i responded i don't know what to say i think we need to meet up and talk it out first. So we did. and she suddenly started saying that she want's to be a friends for a while and start over again later when she will move out. she is my neighbor and she is moving out with her parents to another house and she saying after she will move we can maybe we can be together normally again. So got kinda angry and overemotional said it's i don't really need friends now i think it's bad idea and it would be better if we block each other and forget everything. She started crying and after few minutes said if i'd be better for you we can do this and started leaving crying very badly i felt kinda bad and hugged her she hugged me back. So we somehow forgot that conversation and start messing and joking around and at the end we had sex. After a while she left very happy and it's been few days she doesn't text me or not trying to contact me at all what do i do now to get her back? (By the way she is still with her's rebound boyfriend but she says that she don't love him)
I live with my ex and he wants to be friends.up until yesterday we did everything like a couple minus the intimacy. How do I get him back? I'm in NC until Saturday. Help.
Best idea
I wish to meet my ex.gf the coming week after many years.dont know what will happen.thank u for your advice.
I hope it all goes well. Best of Luck
My ex is stubborn because he’s in the military. He keeps reaching out but is not interested in getting back with me. What’s going on?!
My ex broke up with me because I kept telling him to bc he was acting distant and i was feeling insecure. He basically took me up on it. I instantly regretted it. It’s now been 4 weeks and we see each other all the time. We’re intimate. It’s like we’re still together... but when I ask him, he says “we’re not”. I don’t know what to think.
Also, the no contact rule can backfire bc they can think you have moved on and they can’t do anything about it so they decide they just have to move on too. He has done the no contact to me and it has just put me off him, believing he has truly moved on...... what’s your thoughts on this also?
It backfires when “no contact” was the thing that ended your relationship in the first place. By that I mean if your connection became weak and you had trouble communicating. In that case “cutting the cord” goes as validation to the fact that your fire went out. Hope I explained it well enough
Love u both😘😘
I am currently working on self development and was involved in long distance breakup involving my ex girlfriend who is a foreign from Nepal student she says we can not be together due to the distance between the state of where she studies to my state and her parents only want her involved in a prearranged marriage. Any advice. I apreciate your guys content and watch it daily.
Hello coach Alex and coach Adrian,
I have been watching your videos since so many months. I have a question. My partner is too stubborn and egoistic to approach me even if I dont talk to him for some more months. So what can we do in such cases? Their basic nature also has the major role while dealing with them. So I think radio silence can backfire in such cases. Please put some light onto this issue.
We broke up three months ago but she reaches out every 3-5 days.It felt like we were getting closer in March.We even kissed one day.Once Caronavirus started I haven't seen her as much.She will randomly drop by to have me come outside to get it,it's usually a burger or burrito or something but hasn't come in.I don't know if she's afraid of things going too fast or something but that's what's happening.She will say in her texts that some days she seems ok but that other days suck and will send me songs about missing someone.
My ex sometimes is very hot and cold, one day she is nice to me and we talk like things are getting better then the other day she will be very cold towards time and make excuses on not to see me I dont know what to do
Hey my ex says that we cant be in a relationship.... but yet they wanna be friends.... and its like we do almost everything we use to do as a couple......
How and what can i do as to know what they really want ?
I know I have to pay for a one on one session. But how does booking the session work? I need professional relationship advice, please.
My husband still message me but he wont comeback with me anymore he just said he still care about me thats why he still message me how to stop repying him i want him to miss me and and to love me again i can feel that he just feel sorry to me bcoz his the one who broke up with me and i was pleading and begging
Watching from phillines
hey coach Natalie ALEX and ADRAIN My ex gf broken up last 3 months ago... I chased her and begged her around 15 days... after that I started no contact .... in between NC I saw my ex blocked me on Facebook then later she unblocked too ... after completing NC first I done with message to reach her... she talked me of 2-3 text and then she started ignoring my text later I disappeared for 10-15 days and once again i texted her and apologized my mistake over text to her .... and finally she said she dont want to be in relastionship with me .... and blocked me on fb .... and i noticed day before yesterday once again she unblocked me on fb...... and when I saw I finally blocked her, where she used to block me ( Fb) ... am not able to understand why she behaving like this .... blocking and unblocking, ignoring my text and all please help me please coach ADRAIN ALEX
What happens if we are both doing this and not ever come back together
My ex says “she doesn’t know if she wants to be with me” but then says “I’m not seeing anyone right now, but I’m not closing myself off either”.
She is leaving her option for you open.
Coach Samira
Just work on ur self almighty will send u a good man.... An ex if destined will cm back n if not he is worthless.... So focus on u... Living alone is best than living with a person who makes u feel alone
coach adrian if i am doing no contact / radio silence but i'm still seeing my ex in the gym (he was my trainer) we don't workout but like i walk past him and still see him and stuff. we dated for a year and half and we are friends with everybody in the gym so it's a little awkward. my question is if in giving him space will he still miss me even if he sees me in the gym or do i need to give him space and make sure i don't see him in the gym?
Signs i probably don't want to get back together.
My ex told me on 2 separate occasions to message him if I ever want to link up and I'm so confused what does it mean?
I'm stuck in the same house as my ex due to quarentine. No contact is basically impossible and I've shown him how I've changed... any further advice?
i forgot i wrote to me in the eveningthat he had have a great day and how much he have enjoed it and i have not heard from him since
What if ex is also thinking like that...ex is also waiting for us or waiting of our tipping point
Hi, love your content but I am confused with the growing and evolving part of things..... if we concentrate on ourselves so much, grow, develop, evolve we will inevitably not want our exes back ..... we will outgrow them and move on, we will start living our own lives and leave them behind...... we will not want to be with them again ...... this is how I am feeling at the moment, i am still in love with him but I have grown so much and created my own new life I don’t think we can be together again ...... what’s your thoughts on this?? Have I outgrown my ex now??
if it i the case so that is good for you 'cause you know now (a year ago :P) that he wasn't worth tho better version of you .. otherwise you would still love him if he was a better/good person from the start .. i don't know if you get it what i am saying :P
Hi coach during no contact rule my ex contact me and asking for a coffee just a small talk but what if during the date she ask for a closure?? we end our 5yrs relationship a month ago and I just started no contact rule 2wks ago what do you think coaches? does she miss me? or she want a closure? if she ask a closure do I still have a chance? the only reason of our breakup was as she said before she was already tired and didn't love me anymore, she was really confuse that time
Iv been married to my husband for almost 7 years, we argued through the years some were bad but we always made up in deep love. Once I got pregnant I was alone while my husband went to relocate us once our daughter was born I neglected him I became cold and horrible for almost a year I was just angry and took it out on him daily. He left me we live together but he said we will never be again I'm pregnant too he feels like I'll never change that I'm not motivated I got complacent and treated him like shit. I was to dumb to stop I had excuses he told family friends before I knew I want to save my marriage what do I do?! When he comes close (our chemistry is strong) he forces himself to pull away. He kissed me days ago for the first time in weeks once we play like we did as best friends he thinks I'm manipulating him. I can barely eat sleep please help me.
i did everything you teached and we meet up 10 days ago. And it was a really nice day we have together. But what to do now should i go back to no contact again. i think this point is harder than going no contact efter he broke up. could i write to him asking him if he want to meet up again. And if he answer no i cuold deal whit that. This limbo not nowing whats going to happend is killing me. Or should i still let him go after me
My ex wants to stay friends but I can't what to do?
Is 3 weeks not worth trying to get back when she clearly said she has no feelings to give and we went too fast too quick? Should I just move on or should I attempt down the road, because this is the first girl I actually cared about in my life
He broke up with me and I didn't no contact, he text me after 2 weeks saying he thinks we can still have something special and I said we should talk in person about this and he said I agree, then he didn't reach out at all....I was waiting for him to come forward and take action. Few days after I text him asking if he still wants to talk and he said because I didn't reach out to him that he came to think that I'm moving on and that as much as it hurts we made the right decision and then he said he loves me so much and all that. Did I miss the opportunity? What should I do now?
My ex wife told me she loves me, misses me and misses our family. We separated about a year ago and divorced in December of 2017. We were together for 20 years and have two kids 3 and 4 years old. Not sure what that means...
Update?
Hey guys, I have a situation, my ex broke up with me a month a go, said she wasnt happy, after applying no contact and radio silence she reached out to me to return something of mine, came over and looked really happy to see me, of course I worked on myself and lost weight even my hair is different, I was very cordial in the meeting and talked for a couple minutes then she left. is this a sign of a tipping point? What should I do?
We met through parents n started talking to each other, it’s a long distance one he’s there in australia nd me in India but somehow things went some other way and our parents decided to break our relation. But we still love each other being so apart also. Problem is that he isn’t ready to confront his family inorder to marry me. He loves me but doesn’t wants to take a stand for me. Please suggest what should i do