Why We Fear And Hold Back From What We Want | Stuti Singh | TEDxSevenoaks

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  • @ObjectiveObserver00
    @ObjectiveObserver00 3 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    "Courage is not the absence of fear, it is the presence of a love that is stronger."
    That hits hard today. 🥰✊

  • @JoDo777
    @JoDo777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    It stems from how we're raised. If one or both parents were narcissistic then child learns FEAR and manipulation

    • @rajukhubchandani4841
      @rajukhubchandani4841 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Unfortunately, so true. One tends to give back to the world what one receives. As Hilary Clinton said, "It takes a village to raise a child".

  • @JohannesBerlinTU
    @JohannesBerlinTU 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Beautiful message: Choosing the higher (love) over the lower (fear). It really takes awareness to see your own "stuff", choose what we really would love, and taking the bridge through courage. Thanks for sharing this message with all of us, Stuti! ♥

    • @stutisingh8271
      @stutisingh8271 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for this beautiful summary

  • @genicap.valencia6223
    @genicap.valencia6223 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Fear leads us not to do the things we needed and wanted to do, yet this talk reminds us that there's a place for us because we are bigger than our fears.

    • @stutisingh8271
      @stutisingh8271 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      So very true. Thank you for sharing this Genica

  • @monicapatel8098
    @monicapatel8098 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Such a simple and yet powerful talk. The ease, humility and charm of the speaker makes you want to go on. It is almost therapeutic to listen to this gentle yet convincing voice.
    What talent the speaker possesses to make a simple topic sound so good. Thank you!

    • @stutisingh8271
      @stutisingh8271 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Monica, your words nearly brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for this kind review.

    • @monicapatel8098
      @monicapatel8098 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@stutisingh8271 I could hug you, dear as a kindred spirit. I could relate with your words.

    • @ellenkreshpane6419
      @ellenkreshpane6419 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@monicapatel8098 thank you for inspiring words 😀

    • @monicapatel8098
      @monicapatel8098 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ellenkreshpane6419 words are healing if used with heart.💓

  • @teagoldleaf4137
    @teagoldleaf4137 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I like the way you being brave enough to be forthright and share your vulnerability (the same vulnerability we each have but rather not think about) has made your message more real, more inspiring, more penetrating.

    • @stutisingh8271
      @stutisingh8271 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you, Tea. Indeed, vulnerability is a skill I have had to learn, a hidden strength we are usually afraid to discover. But one that brings us closer to all that we love. Thank you for sharing your comment.

  • @saradyer9124
    @saradyer9124 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Thank you - such perfect timing to listen to your insight - as I currently confront a situation where I need to find courage. 🤗

    • @Amey420ify
      @Amey420ify 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Be strong Sara. May you find the courage 🙏🏻

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      @jinumolkuruvilla1910 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

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  • @jofilaalmeida7715
    @jofilaalmeida7715 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you for inspiring me. My first time to watch your video here as I was searching for courses in encouraging myself and making sound decisions without fear... I was feeling alone and scared. Looking for validation from others is destroying me deeply. Following you from now on... great message. 🙏💌

    • @stutisingh8271
      @stutisingh8271 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing this so vulnerably and fearlessly, Jofila. I hope you are finding the courage every day.

  • @rosnelrodriguez4028
    @rosnelrodriguez4028 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Dear Stuti; You dare to expose your vulnerability and courage, with a powerful message. Thank you!!!

    • @stutisingh8271
      @stutisingh8271 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much, dear Rosnel 🙏

  • @RajendraPSingh
    @RajendraPSingh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Candid talk. Very illuminating and forces one to think for ourselves, why we do what we do, and why we don’t do what we like!
    Great talk. Thank you Stuti for sharing and helping us.
    Good job. Keep going!

  • @jayk2912
    @jayk2912 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What an open & encouraging speech and beautiful message!

    • @stutisingh8271
      @stutisingh8271 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so very much, Jakob 🙏❤️

  • @rickyspiers6497
    @rickyspiers6497 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Such a great message, so simple but very eye opening.

    • @stutisingh8271
      @stutisingh8271 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your kind words

  • @thespacengo6254
    @thespacengo6254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Welove Stuti Singh and her talks so much. We are also proud of you. Fantastic talk. So relatable...

  • @mrutyunjayasahoo971
    @mrutyunjayasahoo971 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Her voice is very sweet. 🤗🤗🤗

  • @zbruno1108
    @zbruno1108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gently powerful!

  • @rajivbatra5897
    @rajivbatra5897 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Stuti , u raised a point to ponder & must add that u know ur subject as a palm of ur hand and the best way u did was to establish your values and ur talk reflected those. values. Thank you

  • @medmar930
    @medmar930 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love this ted talk! she is amazing! I am so thankful for listening to this today

    • @stutisingh8271
      @stutisingh8271 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you kindly, Med & Maryam

  • @socialfireworks
    @socialfireworks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Heart-warming, relatable story and a reminder that we all feel fear and what to do about it!

    • @stutisingh8271
      @stutisingh8271 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your kind feedback

  • @patriciaralston6942
    @patriciaralston6942 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks Stuti, a clear and powerful message. Courage, love and passion are needed to overcome our fears and go for our dreams and desires. Looking forward to see you soon!

    • @thomashanks1033
      @thomashanks1033 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hello Patricia, how are you doing. I believe you are having a nice weather where you are?

  • @NidhiYasharth
    @NidhiYasharth 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Never knew this gal was doing so good and inspiring people to be just themselves 😍 Good going!!! So proud of you!!

    • @stutisingh8271
      @stutisingh8271 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your kind words, Nidhi 🙏

  • @drkhurramsadiq8899
    @drkhurramsadiq8899 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    ‘Speak before you leak’ ….. brilliant …

  • @sophieking-hill3324
    @sophieking-hill3324 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This woman is inspirational - with her gentle and intelligent manner. A key lesson for all of us ❤

    • @marymaher4036
      @marymaher4036 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very insightful and inspiring thought's to help me with personal needs in life.Very much feeling better equipped to handle "triggered fears".Thank You So Much. 😄

  • @meherunnessa457
    @meherunnessa457 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks. Very much appreciated for your thoughtful insight

  • @charlenewhite5812
    @charlenewhite5812 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I enjoyed your talk thank you for sharing. It touched my heart dearly 🥰🤗🤗

    • @stutisingh8271
      @stutisingh8271 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you, Charlene! ❤️

  • @sabrinamehereen
    @sabrinamehereen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    she has the sweetest voice. very good talk

  • @positiveandhealthy2728
    @positiveandhealthy2728 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sending love, abundance, connection, and tranquility to those in need. ✌🏻

  • @dankeeley9290
    @dankeeley9290 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Amazing amazing amazing. Warm, compassionate, funny, calming, reassuring & empowering with such a beautiful message. YES Stuti!! x

  • @mahnazchegini5950
    @mahnazchegini5950 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Such a nice voice and valuable message. Thanks

  • @eszterkonya8179
    @eszterkonya8179 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love is stronger than fear! Thx for sharing and being so sincere!

  • @JawaharAhamedDawoodKhan
    @JawaharAhamedDawoodKhan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Valuable lessons for professional and personnel life . Simple language ends with huge motivation .

  • @NitinKumar-ur6by
    @NitinKumar-ur6by 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi, maasi ! It's a very glad moment for me to watch and listen you how you address such a huge audience ..wonderfully expressed 👍

  • @seemabarot6048
    @seemabarot6048 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Bravo Stuti for sharing with us this talk . You so eloquently managed to put your inspirational message across with clarity , simplicity and honesty . Thank you !

    • @stutisingh8271
      @stutisingh8271 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for your very kind feedback, Seema. I’m glad you enjoyed the talk. ❤️

  • @akbaralimajeed
    @akbaralimajeed 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for your excellent message, drive yourself towards love which will provide you the courage 👍

  • @sohyoung137
    @sohyoung137 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    So funny, so clever, so beautifully put together, but, most of all, absolutely penetrating because of the truth and compassion in every nook and cranny of the speaker as well as the content! Really enjoyed and appreciate it!

  • @lantan35
    @lantan35 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you very much. 💎💞⚘⚘⚘

  • @ajas105
    @ajas105 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It is very courageous of you to share your story. Very courageous of you to share this message. Very courageous of you to go up on stage and address the audience.

  • @ashutoshkhanna5807
    @ashutoshkhanna5807 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lovely message & talk Stuti. Thank you. Stay blessed 👍👍👍💓

  • @fatmatasesay7467
    @fatmatasesay7467 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great speech thank you so much dear.

  • @harshalimore2938
    @harshalimore2938 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Such a gentle yet powerful message by a lovely speaker ♥️
    Amazingly put!
    Absolutely loved it 🌸

    • @stutisingh8271
      @stutisingh8271 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing this kind feedback, Harshali

  • @claudetteboudreau8251
    @claudetteboudreau8251 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am touched and truly inspired! Thanks!

  • @sagarshiralakar6256
    @sagarshiralakar6256 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you 🙏

  • @archanathakur9743
    @archanathakur9743 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I watched this video and then i was looking for this video to watch again but i forgot the thumbnail title i tried every title i could guess girl in green dress on ted x talk etc. Etc. but in vain and here 2 years later found it in my feed . I hope god grant me the same patience to wait for the right moment to let things happen on their own ❤

  • @henrychang340
    @henrychang340 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Beautiful messages ❤️
    When all else fails, just share what you have to give.

    • @stutisingh8271
      @stutisingh8271 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you, Henry

    • @henrychang340
      @henrychang340 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@stutisingh8271 Oh my goodness, I didn't expect this at all! You're most welcome :)

  • @ravindraar5492
    @ravindraar5492 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Extremely Inspiring and true to the last word. Your expression and body language further elaborated every word utter by you,. Very impressive and we wish all the best.

  • @ravishaparami3592
    @ravishaparami3592 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful message ❤️
    And also her voice speaks a lot. It’s beautiful…

  • @louiseforde5502
    @louiseforde5502 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so very much. I'm grateful you turned up today.

  • @prabhroop9940
    @prabhroop9940 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Valuale lessons.....also motivate me to don't hold back from what i want....seriously such a great speaker🙂🙂

  • @sidydioum778
    @sidydioum778 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is so inspirational. Thank you for sharing this wonderful message.

  • @Poetry4Peace
    @Poetry4Peace 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    tis is big and WILL GET A GOOD amount of views and coverage its just so good.

  • @vijaykumar-vg8tt
    @vijaykumar-vg8tt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you very much to simplify the formula, how to overcome from fear... 🙏🙏🙏

  • @taska9510
    @taska9510 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I really felt so moved
    Thank you much for this speech

  • @espritmagique
    @espritmagique 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    That’s amazing, Stuti! I just love the way you delivered the priceless message! 💗

  • @Julialanis1
    @Julialanis1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    "There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love." 1 John 4:18

  • @lets.7860
    @lets.7860 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love it! Speaking from authentic and venerable place! Thankful.💕

  • @doaafakheraldeen8945
    @doaafakheraldeen8945 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing ❤️

  • @Boss-gx6rz
    @Boss-gx6rz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    🤗🤗🤗🤭❣️❤️ขอบ Thank you everyone for understanding me and giving me the time to wait when the unexpected happens. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

  • @cindylegrand6226
    @cindylegrand6226 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Inspiring and beautiful message.Thank you for being you🙏

  • @dityasingh1836
    @dityasingh1836 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    thank you soo much mam for this beautiful message...🤗🤗

  • @marthaolubayo1502
    @marthaolubayo1502 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Well Articulated and gracefully presented facts. I learnt

  • @ritikarishi3916
    @ritikarishi3916 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing. Thanks a lot for sharing 🙏

  • @Ucarn777
    @Ucarn777 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It was very nice, I shall share the message. Thank you!

  • @aanchalchaudhry3772
    @aanchalchaudhry3772 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thankyou so much. Great sharing

  • @tanjavonwalter-carr9263
    @tanjavonwalter-carr9263 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just loved it. Brilliantly done! Thank you for sharing.

  • @sandhyasingh4346
    @sandhyasingh4346 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Brilliant Stuti, very meaningful and well presented, it’s very motivational and courageous, simply superb. The examples from day today life relates to us naturally. Proud of you.

    • @stutisingh8271
      @stutisingh8271 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so very much for these kind words ❤️

  • @anwaaralrigheewhuy8585
    @anwaaralrigheewhuy8585 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great talking.

  • @arifali6762
    @arifali6762 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great message. 🙏

  • @yukti5044
    @yukti5044 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you maa'm...this is so motivating🌸🌸

  • @magdalenech7599
    @magdalenech7599 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amazing speach!!! Thank you for finding the courage to share this message with us!!! Also, I always find sharing vulnerable moments sooo inspiring!!!

  • @doneralph560
    @doneralph560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice display of human art !

  • @shehaniwijayatunga2667
    @shehaniwijayatunga2667 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanx a lot Stuti for such a great message. You inspired me a lot and thank you so so much❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @houseofgenius5156
    @houseofgenius5156 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Brilliant Stuti 🙌 love your message and the authentic way you deliver it. Love is the bridge💜 well done. X

  • @ladyzakari2342
    @ladyzakari2342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much, this is so profound

  • @fabiankochem8873
    @fabiankochem8873 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That was a fantastic talk, the connection you build up with the audience I also felt watching here on TH-cam. Perfect delivery and such an important message. Thank you so much for sharing, Stuti!

  • @itsswatisaini
    @itsswatisaini 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Simply wow! Thank you for this ❤️

    • @stutisingh8271
      @stutisingh8271 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you kindly, Swati. Glad to know this served you ❤️

  • @charlesegbulefu7709
    @charlesegbulefu7709 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you

  • @paranjothijothi935
    @paranjothijothi935 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Teddsystem excellent speech Mum

  • @jakebicknell9336
    @jakebicknell9336 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A simple and important message for all of us

  • @sexydiva7636
    @sexydiva7636 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for sharing this inspiring talk with us Stuti ❤️

  • @saumya1985
    @saumya1985 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Absolutely loved listening to this, Stuti! Courage ❤️❤️ loved it!

  • @matgeos1
    @matgeos1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A frank and fearless talk with such a joyful communicative style. Greatly enjoyed listening to the concepts of Fear, Courage and the greatest trump card that one has in ones control - Love. Great talk Stuti. Really important to ponder on why we do what we do, and how we can be happier doing things we love and serve us and others. Life is certainly in the every day moments. Its all about the journey.....have fun on the way.

  • @komugishakristen5744
    @komugishakristen5744 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very well said..Thank you for sharing this

  • @akiranora11
    @akiranora11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved it!

  • @shaivyaharit1268
    @shaivyaharit1268 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is beautiful. Thank you!

  • @feralkat9370
    @feralkat9370 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Powerful message!
    Gains steam in the second half tho.

  • @sonyamujeeb1633
    @sonyamujeeb1633 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved it!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @vidyas1044
    @vidyas1044 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing talk !
    Proud that I have met you :)

  • @NhungTruong-rv5qn
    @NhungTruong-rv5qn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It’s actually a valuable message that inspires me a lot. With simple languages and your strong voice, you helped me be more confident and urged me to stand up to speak up my mind “Speak before you leak”. Thank you for your motivation

    • @stutisingh8271
      @stutisingh8271 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you, Nhung Truong. I’m so glad this helped you

  • @Meandgenevieve
    @Meandgenevieve 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    A cute story you chose to illustrate your ideas Stuti, but it worked very well. Lots of food for thought about why we do what we do. Thank you.

  • @raresman6185
    @raresman6185 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Well done, Stuti! Fabulous talk :)

  • @anshahluwalia8464
    @anshahluwalia8464 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Well done stuti, it's amazing 👏

  • @duonglequach7966
    @duonglequach7966 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really love her presentation. This is fantastic topic, so I love something new .speak before you leak .

  • @coscomosco4388
    @coscomosco4388 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love is the one which is alll pervading.

  • @chriswharton2230
    @chriswharton2230 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Fantastic Stuti 👏👍x

  • @jennbisnar9409
    @jennbisnar9409 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So inspiring ❤️

  • @vilayattu682
    @vilayattu682 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great presentation

  • @ayeshabellepatches8403
    @ayeshabellepatches8403 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think this only applies to empathetic people. To those who are insensitive- the ones who get want they want regardless, no amount of fear can stop them.

    • @rubabkazmi-mentalhealthcou3970
      @rubabkazmi-mentalhealthcou3970 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have recently started a Mental Health awareness series on my channel where i have talked about Anxiety, I hope you will find it useful☺

  • @thkfiwa
    @thkfiwa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well done Stuti great message 😊

  • @stellapark6893
    @stellapark6893 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Favorite part starts at 15:20

  • @lisanemirova2912
    @lisanemirova2912 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You have such a lovely voice

  • @ahmedmustafa1559
    @ahmedmustafa1559 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So inspiring