The Other Side of Ego | Jonathan Gravenor | TEDxOcala

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  • @collerdgreens
    @collerdgreens 4 ปีที่แล้ว +944

    "I started to realize that I wasn't so scared of dying I had just been scared my whole life of living" that hit hard man

    • @theothersideofego
      @theothersideofego 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thanks Colin, much appreciated that you felt it too.

    • @mervobak
      @mervobak 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      got me too...

    • @fenglov9111
      @fenglov9111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      wow yes

    • @eliseseveniegn
      @eliseseveniegn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That part hit me so deep, I realized what I had been missing.

    • @JD-fx1np
      @JD-fx1np 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes. I teared up

  • @novaquestriune
    @novaquestriune 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +362

    Being humble is the realization that you aren’t more significant or better than others. It’s the awareness that you are equally important to everyone else. It means you have personal boundaries in place, so no one takes advantage of you, but you acknowledge the differences that make each person authentic. And it’s the knowledge that every person is equally valuable and that your value is neither greater nor lesser than anyone else's.

    • @VirginiaSheperd
      @VirginiaSheperd 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of yourself less: C.S. Lewis

    • @MaryMurphyinp9oh
      @MaryMurphyinp9oh 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      'Tis a gift to be simple, tis a gift to be free...The Shakers knew. I agree completely.

    • @JohnnieMiceli
      @JohnnieMiceli 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I've been studying the Bhagavad Gita and the message is the same - joy comes from selfless service to others and action with no expectation of reward. The ego is nowhere to be seen - but humility is.

    • @ShantaySmart-jw4im
      @ShantaySmart-jw4im 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Buddhism, especially the Mahayana, teaches the same. It is through compassion for others and ourselves that we find true happiness and fulfillment in this life.

    • @KathyShortt
      @KathyShortt 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's a good reminder, especially in the midst of all the posts asking about how to stop comparing oneself with others!

  • @capitalspork
    @capitalspork 3 ปีที่แล้ว +286

    "And suddenly I realized the cancer was a lot deeper than my throat" wow. That is so powerful, it made me tear up. Thank you for your words

    • @shayneb226
      @shayneb226 ปีที่แล้ว

      The lessons he learned during his road to redemption are a valuable lesson for us all.

    • @DrishtiRaval17
      @DrishtiRaval17 ปีที่แล้ว

      The transformation he underwent is a testament to the power of the human spirit.

    • @yaboimike940
      @yaboimike940 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jonathan's story serves as a reminder to never give up hope.

    • @nestermaratos1070
      @nestermaratos1070 ปีที่แล้ว

      This statement holds so much truth and vulnerability. Your words have touched my heart. 😄

    • @Benjamin-yh9mr
      @Benjamin-yh9mr ปีที่แล้ว

      The metaphor of the cancer being deeper than just the throat is so poignant, it left me in awe.

  • @hubert-olszewski
    @hubert-olszewski 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +235

    The ego is destructive. But having no ego makes you a target.

    • @SallyRodriquez-ey5ov
      @SallyRodriquez-ey5ov 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is a good point. I think my ADD and learning disability plays into my insecurity because I always felt less than.

    • @TheresaGothard
      @TheresaGothard 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Most things in life work best when they're in balance.

    • @JerryElkins-go4tl
      @JerryElkins-go4tl 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      By being confident but also willing to listen and learn. Be respectful of others and but say something if someone is trying to walk over you.

    • @GaryDonelson
      @GaryDonelson 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      People with an inflated ego usually don't know it. The fact that it concerns you probably means, you don't. Other people's opinions of you are none of your business. Treat them that way.

    • @DominicMontes-em5dy
      @DominicMontes-em5dy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ego is just a word for the self. It just is. It's your unique way of seeing the world, the bit of you that makes you yourself.

  • @ps6332
    @ps6332 5 ปีที่แล้ว +797

    "The best things are said when we don't exchange words, we just exchange space".... Thank u sir for ur wonderful words

    • @theothersideofego
      @theothersideofego 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Thank you for watching ...

    • @tarasuppleton
      @tarasuppleton 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      that is so true, loved this

    • @Micscience
      @Micscience 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That was an awesome comment.

    • @theothersideofego
      @theothersideofego 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Micscience thanks

    • @craigsamson3354
      @craigsamson3354 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@theothersideofego "only one Life that soon is past only what is done with love will last"

  • @sarahbetts5541
    @sarahbetts5541 5 ปีที่แล้ว +900

    "... we can all die in just one minute, but we can all live a million amazing moments"
    Beautiful

    • @theothersideofego
      @theothersideofego 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I have it written atop my notebook and each new one I get - so that I see, or at least open my eyes to try and glimpse the "Amazing".

    • @queunlimited4779
      @queunlimited4779 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen 🙏

    • @F11994
      @F11994 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@theothersideofego amazing talk thank you!

    • @theothersideofego
      @theothersideofego 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@F11994 thank uou

    • @suebakernottly
      @suebakernottly 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      that was so important to me also

  • @arjunchana2134
    @arjunchana2134 4 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    This is not like Ted talks I have seen before, this one really made me feel.

    • @pointa2b388
      @pointa2b388 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I shed a tear

    • @thomas-meyer
      @thomas-meyer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      this is so amazing!

  • @opheliaollogtren
    @opheliaollogtren 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +257

    Your true self is the observer, observing your thought processes, words, and actions. That’s not your ego/personality. It’s healthy to separate your true observing self from your personality because once you start believing you ARE your personality, it’s kind of an unhealthy attachment? it’s healthy to remember you’re just observing how your mind intakes the things you experience in life. Helps you take life less seriously and become less stressed the more you remind yourself you are simply observing life unfolding. You are the universe experiencing itself basically. Every living thing has its own perception and personality (ego), but at the same time every living thing at the core is JUST the observer.

    • @MarinaCarita
      @MarinaCarita 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Simply a great message to hear today, thanks for sharing it.

    • @IreenaGlover
      @IreenaGlover 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You know I heard about this talk last year on a Jay Shetty podcast!

    • @CynthisDorsey
      @CynthisDorsey 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Perfect Ophilia, just perfect lovely share.

    • @JeimyPatrick
      @JeimyPatrick 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not sure I agree, I believe we must be able to see ourselves and not just observe ourselves.

    • @JoynishaMoore
      @JoynishaMoore 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I love everything he said, and what you added.

  • @gizellelandong1251
    @gizellelandong1251 4 ปีที่แล้ว +212

    This could be the most heartbreaking and most inspirational TED talk ever, personally.

  • @theothersideofego
    @theothersideofego 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +213

    I want to thank everyone who took the time to watch this talk and comment. I have never found Doug. I have been told that often, people who are deemed to live on the edge of society move back home if they can connect with family again. I hope and wish for that to be true. I hope, if nothing else, my talk has moved you to connect with ALL people more. I know that in my life, I have tried to connect with people who I thought would give me something because they had so much. Most times, I was disappointed. Yet, the times I connected with those who had less, they seemed willing to give everything.

    • @JasonMiller-on6iv
      @JasonMiller-on6iv 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you, amazing talk.

    • @LyndaeTaylor
      @LyndaeTaylor 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I hope you are right about the man, I hope he is with people who love him...

    • @KathyeChan105
      @KathyeChan105 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I googled you, and found your book, I have bought it.

    • @6215..
      @6215.. 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you ❤

    • @alanpotsypotts
      @alanpotsypotts 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for telling us about Doug, I hope he is okay too.

  • @motazksa4506
    @motazksa4506 7 ปีที่แล้ว +531

    This definitely is one of the greatest stories/speeches I have ever heard, I was holding my tears the whole time 😢

    • @danielaspassova781
      @danielaspassova781 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Why were you holding them?

    • @StillnessManifesto
      @StillnessManifesto 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@danielaspassova781 That's how social conditioning works.
      There's a whole crowd telling men "to be men", not showing their "weak" side (i.e. emotions) and to toughen up if there's something going not so great in their life.
      But I guess you already knew the answer 🙂

    • @theothersideofego
      @theothersideofego 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@StillnessManifesto I think maybe we need to contemplate that vulnerability is a strength and not a weakness ...

    • @StillnessManifesto
      @StillnessManifesto 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      And by the way, funny enough... most of my Instagram followers are women, but TH-cam Analytics shows 86% of my listeners are men 🙂 so yeah... About time to let down the fake fronts we put on ourselves every day and start looking deeper into our souls.

    • @theothersideofego
      @theothersideofego 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@StillnessManifesto Just a stab - but maybe the shaming and negative opinions is caused by their fear and not malice.
      And it's way more humbling for me that people share to me and can feel what I felt when I went through my struggle. Makes me realize I am never alone.

  • @lesliecrossI
    @lesliecrossI ปีที่แล้ว +184

    What a beautiful wonderful talk, if only all men could open up like this and see the folly of their ways of thinking they have to be tough all the time. I see why this talk has been seen so many times, it is moving.

    • @AmberleGlenn
      @AmberleGlenn ปีที่แล้ว

      What an extraordinary human

    • @OsheenaKnox
      @OsheenaKnox ปีที่แล้ว

      I loved this, I loved them.. What a brilliant teaching.

    • @KennishaManning
      @KennishaManning ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for emailing me this, wow wow wow

    • @AfraBenson
      @AfraBenson ปีที่แล้ว

      This talk brought me tears.

    • @LorraineNeal-cg7gy
      @LorraineNeal-cg7gy ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for this amazing presentation, real eye opener

  • @dpesca
    @dpesca 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +136

    This talk reminds me of some study I did. Performing acts of kindness and helping other people can be good for people’s health and well-being, according to research. But not all good-hearted behavior is equally beneficial to the giver. The strength depends on many factors.

    • @AndreaPeck-el5ds
      @AndreaPeck-el5ds 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I totally get this.

    • @ClaudeBeachum
      @ClaudeBeachum 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It can become ego-centered, like wealthy bragging their "charity and volunteering."

    • @CraigChambliss
      @CraigChambliss 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      not gonna complain about what form of giving back people are doing

    • @DominicMontes-em5dy
      @DominicMontes-em5dy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don't know if you can really force yourself show some kind oflove like this...

    • @JamesMonroe-tr9zs
      @JamesMonroe-tr9zs 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      so the idea is to try work towards showing genuine love towards others.

  • @darkrathma
    @darkrathma 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +158

    Yes. The ego can be such a trap when we let ourselves make decisions that serve only it

    • @BridgetHayes-mb1rh
      @BridgetHayes-mb1rh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Learn to give compassion to that part of you that is judgeful, the part of you that doesn’t understand and the part of you that isn’t as ‘spiritual’ as it desires to be.

    • @IreneHouse-bg1we
      @IreneHouse-bg1we 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s a big trip to think there is an ego to get rid of, the ego is an illusion, and an illusion is and never was real. You were never anything but the All.

    • @SallyRodriquez-ey5ov
      @SallyRodriquez-ey5ov 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think this stuff just proceeds in cycles; contract, expand, contract, expand, and so on.

    • @TammySelf-oc2md
      @TammySelf-oc2md 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If you are Aware of falling into an ego trap, then you as Awareness, are not trapped.

    • @MaryMurphyinp9oh
      @MaryMurphyinp9oh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But if you believe that you are the person, and not the Awareness, which is trapped. That will be your experience. And you will suffer.

  • @walet6972
    @walet6972 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +141

    I heard this somewhere recently- “ When you treat yourself like a king, that is self-respect. When you want everyone around to treat you like a king, that’s ego.”
    It doesn’t get better than this.

    • @BarbaraPerry-mu1qm
      @BarbaraPerry-mu1qm 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So much truth to this!!!

    • @MichellerBezanson
      @MichellerBezanson 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We are nothing and yet we are everything when we let go of all of it

    • @DeborahBravo-eu5uf
      @DeborahBravo-eu5uf 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It doesnt get better than this for sure.

    • @GloriaCollado-iy7fj
      @GloriaCollado-iy7fj 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is amazing thank you for your insight.

    • @BetsyYoung-oi9vs
      @BetsyYoung-oi9vs 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is a treasure and the speaker is amazing.

  • @jaymoneyDollaHolla
    @jaymoneyDollaHolla 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +105

    I have just understood what is consciousness - THIS!

    • @DellaGarcia-mx8gl
      @DellaGarcia-mx8gl 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not a bad concept. I like it.

    • @JosephMateo-sr6lv
      @JosephMateo-sr6lv 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’d like to think of it as the warmth coming from transforming information; the ‘pull’ of its patterning, almost like a gravity.

    • @MaryBrown-tn4to
      @MaryBrown-tn4to 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The Vedantha philosophy has considered mind as the subtle form of matter where in the body and its components are considered the grossest forms.

    • @StevenSeldon-hf6gu
      @StevenSeldon-hf6gu 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So, it's sort of like, reality is information. Consciousness is the processing of that information, or "attention is all you need."

    • @RodneyMarquez246
      @RodneyMarquez246 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I agree that symbolic thinking is probably very important

  • @dorjiwangchuk5453
    @dorjiwangchuk5453 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    “We can die in just one minute. But we can live a million amazing moments. “ Thanks, man. You are a hero

    • @marishka5737
      @marishka5737 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What a statement. So true

    • @osciltemusoni4928
      @osciltemusoni4928 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      What he said is the truth, I admire him.

  • @thesteeltitan
    @thesteeltitan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +611

    Oh wow I teared up so many times and laughed so hard at moments, I am filled with so many things right now. This is not the ted talk I expected, but it is the ted talk I needed right now in my life.

    • @rakeshrai723
      @rakeshrai723 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      i really got to get it dude thanks

    • @mariaantoniamagallanesmend9447
      @mariaantoniamagallanesmend9447 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It was a talk that left me many teachings, the ego is like a psychic structure, the result of our experiences and experiences from the earliest childhood, which progressively shape our idea of the self, the image we have of ourselves, many would appreciate seeing it too, I recommend it

    • @sayantanisaha7698
      @sayantanisaha7698 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Really, I heard his talk. I can understand perfectly your emotions. He is really a witty man with some serious sense of humour, but with his laugh his tears became more and more visible. His voice was literally shaking at times. But also it brought a shred of smile at moments. It is really a very heart touching pep talk.

    • @chandraroy2844
      @chandraroy2844 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      OMG, this made me cry so many times. I have to know did he find the man and his dog, and OMG that poor little girl. This will stay with me a long time.

    • @richardjames8808
      @richardjames8808 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Excellent Words Continue this way, My friend, more than these useful videos

  • @jackcryner
    @jackcryner 2 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    I am crying so much, wondering about the man and his dog, and sad for the baby girl, omg this is powerful...

    • @darrellrussell7259
      @darrellrussell7259 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      very emotional to say the least

    • @kenoxfps8598
      @kenoxfps8598 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      same here buddy, very emotional

    • @kenanxo7384
      @kenanxo7384 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      it truly is powerful

    • @diywithderby6069
      @diywithderby6069 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fear of dying or losing someone you love. Facing the idea of dying can be difficult. Feeling fear is natural when you think about dying or losing someone you love. It’s normal to struggle with a fear of death. Yet, if these feelings become stronger, talk with your health care team about resources to help you cope.

    • @juliosester281
      @juliosester281 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Recognize that there are situations you can control and those you cannot. As hard as it sounds, many people find it helpful to let go of those things that they cannot change and focus on their reaction to events.

  • @arnaudesalmons886
    @arnaudesalmons886 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I have never been more moved than I was watching this talk; this is a must-share.

  • @amf_2171
    @amf_2171 5 ปีที่แล้ว +402

    This was by far the BEST Ted Talk I have ever watched. I've gained far more than I would've imagined from a video I was hesitant to watch. I'm so glad I did!

  • @buddabuxby
    @buddabuxby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    “For love to flourish, the light of your presence needs to be strong enough so that you no longer get taken over by the thinker or the pain-body and mistake them for who you are. To know yourself as the Being underneath the thinker, the stillness underneath the mental noise, the love and joy underneath the pain, is freedom, salvation, enlightenment.”
    ― Eckhart Tolle

  • @candyengelhardt
    @candyengelhardt ปีที่แล้ว +74

    What a beautiful man, he is so genuine and authentic. I feel his pain and his discoveries of what's true for all of us. Just to simply be and love. Thank you for this.

    • @miawilliamson1082
      @miawilliamson1082 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just one of the best, what a find thanks for sending.

    • @gilbertlancaster4793
      @gilbertlancaster4793 ปีที่แล้ว

      I wonder what became of the man and his dog...

    • @judygeorge5739
      @judygeorge5739 ปีที่แล้ว

      The little girl bit really made me cry a lot

    • @peterashton391
      @peterashton391 ปีที่แล้ว

      I would love to learn where he is now?

    • @cameronwoodward2026
      @cameronwoodward2026 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great man and a great talk.

  • @daryyldavys
    @daryyldavys ปีที่แล้ว +67

    those words were really deep. especially the one where he told about his relationship with his daughter, that is so raw and honest. just wow

    • @destinyscroggs9291
      @destinyscroggs9291 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wishing you all the inspiration and growth from this talk

    • @joelschofield7357
      @joelschofield7357 ปีที่แล้ว

      May this journey to redemption bring us all closer to our best selves.

    • @KishanaFreeman
      @KishanaFreeman ปีที่แล้ว

      A real gem of a talk. Grateful you sent it.

    • @williamgardiner5469
      @williamgardiner5469 ปีที่แล้ว

      This journey reminds us it's never too late to evolve and grow.

    • @jaborahwade2498
      @jaborahwade2498 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope it's brought positive change into your life as well.

  • @robertdunham8237
    @robertdunham8237 5 ปีที่แล้ว +336

    Takes a real man to drop his ego and still hold his head

    • @theothersideofego
      @theothersideofego 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I am not sure I can ever drop it - it is a practice to remain aware of its appetite and to work to not let it get the best of me. Thank you

    • @shitlista4283
      @shitlista4283 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@theothersideofego How is your father doing?

    • @LoseControlForDeath
      @LoseControlForDeath 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@theothersideofego no matter the age we can always change into a better person, and you proved it

    • @iamaspacefreak
      @iamaspacefreak 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      this guy is amazing.

    • @dugansteward5127
      @dugansteward5127 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This guy is what men should be, open raw and vulnerable

  • @ben-basi
    @ben-basi 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +171

    I found out that the solution to the ego isn't trying to get in our heads and fix the problem. When you tell people "Be more confident!" "Fix your ego problems!" they continue going inside their head.
    The solution is just being active, vulnerable and being very honest with yourself. I had a very difficult childhood. I was bullied, emotionally abused by my brother, neglected by my parents and effects of these continued to create more destruction in my social life. My high school social life was terrible because I was the quite kid with issues. I couldn't connect with other kids, I even could have a girlfriend but I didn't go for it because I hated myself.

    • @MelahHolland
      @MelahHolland 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Perfect thing to share, loved it

    • @SteevieMatthews
      @SteevieMatthews 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Basi - chill man, its not that deep

    • @ZarinaGonzalez-mp1rh
      @ZarinaGonzalez-mp1rh 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      amazing BB thanks for the share

    • @JushawnHarper
      @JushawnHarper 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      As soon as I look how end ego I am recognizing how important it is

    • @IreenaGlover
      @IreenaGlover 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ben kind of agree but I think you overthink this ego thing

  • @cadance779
    @cadance779 4 ปีที่แล้ว +687

    I thought I was gonna hear about a cool dmt trip but now I’m crying

  • @simaobitencourt
    @simaobitencourt ปีที่แล้ว +123

    I saw this in 2020, and then heard it on a Jat Shetty podcast, and it reminded me how it made me feel so deeply, so here I am again today listening and crying.

    • @NerriahRose
      @NerriahRose 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      TEDx talks can serve as beacons of hope, reminding us that resilience and hope can prevail even in the most challenging circumstances.

    • @DeriviaGraham
      @DeriviaGraham 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Indeed, the power of words should never be underestimated. A well-delivered TEDx talk has the potential to ignite inspiration and drive change.

    • @OsheenaKnox
      @OsheenaKnox 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The talk left me feeling inspired and motivated. It's amazing how a single speech can have such a profound impact.

    • @JushawnHarper
      @JushawnHarper 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Calls to action in TEDx talks can be incredibly empowering. They inspire us to channel our emotions into tangible steps towards making a difference.

    • @AfraBenson
      @AfraBenson 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I was moved by the speaker's call to action. It made me realize that I have the power to create positive change in my own life and the world.

  • @SamMatheson
    @SamMatheson 7 ปีที่แล้ว +505

    I have personally known Jonathan for many years as he was a member of my local golf club in Sydney, but never really knew the full extent of his cancer. Having my mother going through cancer right now I have so much respect and admiration for him. Jono if you reading this everyone at Warringah Is so proud of how far you have come.

    • @theothersideofego
      @theothersideofego 7 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      Sam thanks for the kind words - and connect with me on facebook

    • @joec1212
      @joec1212 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@theothersideofego so you said praying to a God you didnt believe in...do you now?

    • @theothersideofego
      @theothersideofego 5 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      @@joec1212 I have a spiritual belief - but I am not religious

    • @janicef6988
      @janicef6988 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I wish it would be known out in the public that panacur c cures cancer it has done so for over 30 years but no one wants to say that please research it because all these people that are dying and can be saved with such a small amount have money and no side effects it's just amazing because they can't make money on it they won't tell us

    • @gastonmera7332
      @gastonmera7332 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@theothersideofego thanks for sharing Jonathan, it was a nice story to connect with.

  • @julestempest
    @julestempest 3 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    I did not expect a talk on Ego on TED to be so emotional and real. This is just so beautiful, a must watch!

    • @scottvboland
      @scottvboland 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I didnt either

    • @phillipnorris3rd
      @phillipnorris3rd 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      i know.

    • @shaellywork
      @shaellywork 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Incredible information thanks to this video now I know more about the subject, without a doubt very important, thanks I will share it with all my friends

    • @gsusmakama
      @gsusmakama 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      good comment, i agree

    • @alain451
      @alain451 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree with it!

  • @lovelanguagecoach
    @lovelanguagecoach 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +123

    How do I become more humble and diminish my ego.

    • @TammySelf-oc2md
      @TammySelf-oc2md 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Basically it comes down to being quiet. Don't brag about things you've done.

    • @MarvinAguirre-gt1gd
      @MarvinAguirre-gt1gd 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No need to lie. But it's, in my opinion, about not crowing your own awesomeness to make sure everyone knows. Keep stuff to yourself. You know how awesome you are, show people how awesome you are, don't tell them. Let them come to their own conclusion about your awesomeness. I think that helps keep ego in check and at least the appearance of humility.

    • @KathyFrazier-mb3bh
      @KathyFrazier-mb3bh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Work at a soup kitchen. Not once or twice, but for weeks. It will humble you. A wise man one told me, "I complained because I didn't have any shoes, until I met the man who had no feet."

    • @SheilaBradberiry
      @SheilaBradberiry 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Diminishing ego and being humble isn't about thinking lowly, or less of yourself, it is about thinking about yourself less.

    • @LorieMcCoy
      @LorieMcCoy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There is nothing more humbling than volunteering at a hospital. I recommend starting with adults. I play games at a kids hospital about twice a month. It puts things into perspective.

  • @Tell-Us-Now
    @Tell-Us-Now ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Here's an empowering belief. A person's belief and a person's nature go hand in hand as do a person's nature and will, but most importantly the beliefs, nature and will of the collective generate the very reality in which we live. Only correct beliefs can set us free.

  • @janetsplace1953
    @janetsplace1953 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    I have seen this talk several times, I still cry each time and still get something new each time. If you want to feel your heart, watch this...

  • @IAmTheCuddlyBeast
    @IAmTheCuddlyBeast ปีที่แล้ว +97

    What an extraordinary man, with an extraordinary message. Thank you for your brilliance and your wisdom and reminding me of mine. xxx

    • @AlyssaBrown-dj6zz
      @AlyssaBrown-dj6zz 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "He reminds us of the power of love and its ability to transform individuals and societies."

    • @IsabelPereira-qj3vm
      @IsabelPereira-qj3vm 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "His extraordinary message encourages us to live in harmony with nature and the world around us."

    • @AshleyBianco-mp2dt
      @AshleyBianco-mp2dt 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "He reminds us that true happiness comes from within and is not dependent on external circumstances."

    • @SandraWaller-rc9gc
      @SandraWaller-rc9gc 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "His words have the power to shift our perspective and inspire positive change."

    • @JaniceBurgess-gf9my
      @JaniceBurgess-gf9my 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "His message challenges us to let go of attachments and find freedom in the present moment."

  • @1ElementalTeam1
    @1ElementalTeam1 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    “You’re not what you have and you’re not what you do.” Just a reminder for everyone out here still watching this video.

    • @keefeaydlett8127
      @keefeaydlett8127 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your comment beautifully captures the heart of the video's message.

    • @germainehaldane4917
      @germainehaldane4917 ปีที่แล้ว

      This quote encourages us to nurture our internal richness.

    • @fortunaterbush8607
      @fortunaterbush8607 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your comment echoes the wisdom shared in the video about the true nature of identity.!👍

    • @yaboimike940
      @yaboimike940 ปีที่แล้ว

      True words, our identity isn't defined by possessions or actions.

    • @Benjamin-yh9mr
      @Benjamin-yh9mr ปีที่แล้ว

      A much-needed perspective shift in today's materialistic culture.

  • @ЛеонтьеваПолинаКирилловна
    @ЛеонтьеваПолинаКирилловна 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jonathan Gravenor, gifted, authentic, and mindful.

  • @suehawke
    @suehawke 2 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    My heart is aching after watching this, so much truth and raw honesty. Bless you Jonathan!

    • @NerriahRose
      @NerriahRose 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm grateful for Jonathan's willingness to be vulnerable and share his truth. His talk was a reminder that our stories matter and can make a difference.

    • @DeriviaGraham
      @DeriviaGraham 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sending love and support to Jonathan. His talk was a reminder that sharing our stories can bring healing and connection to others.

    • @JushawnHarper
      @JushawnHarper 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jonathan's talk was a testament to the power of authenticity and speaking from the heart. It left me feeling both moved and inspired.

    • @AfraBenson
      @AfraBenson 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Blessings to Jonathan for his courage in sharing his truth. His talk touched my heart and reminded me of the power of vulnerability.

    • @CheakinaCopeland
      @CheakinaCopeland 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jonathan's words had a profound impact on me. His talk was a catalyst for self-reflection and a deeper understanding of my own emotions.

  • @thereallybigdog
    @thereallybigdog ปีที่แล้ว +52

    This human being!!!!!!! I loved everything about what he had to say and how he delivered it, incredible

    • @williamgardiner5469
      @williamgardiner5469 ปีที่แล้ว

      The way in which someone delivers their message can make it more engaging, memorable, and impactful.

    • @cameronwoodward2026
      @cameronwoodward2026 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's incredible how the delivery of a message can make it more relatable and meaningful, leaving a lasting impression on the listener.

    • @miawilliamson1082
      @miawilliamson1082 ปีที่แล้ว

      The impact of effective communication can be seen in how it influences our thoughts, perspectives, and actions.

    • @louishiggins5817
      @louishiggins5817 ปีที่แล้ว

      The impact of effective communication can be seen in how it influences our thoughts, perspectives, and actions.

    • @peterashton391
      @peterashton391 ปีที่แล้ว

      The ability to communicate effectively is a valuable skill that can inspire and empower others.

  • @kalicorkery8274
    @kalicorkery8274 6 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    Kindness matters. Love for others matters. The truth matters.

    • @19Marc79
      @19Marc79 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes. I wish it wasn´t so difficult to live that in one´s life...

    • @theothersideofego
      @theothersideofego 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@19Marc79 it isnt

  • @eduardagoncalvessouza9287
    @eduardagoncalvessouza9287 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Jonathan’s encounter with Doug really illustrates the power of empathy and human connection. Sometimes the people we least expect teach us the most important lessons.

  • @lpatterson1968
    @lpatterson1968 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    The most insightful talk I've heard! To be shown that the smallest gesture to another person can mean so much. We all can make our lives better by making someone else's day better! What a lesson for life!!!!

  • @ruperttheprince
    @ruperttheprince ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Wow, this is so emotional; the discovery of one's true purpose can provide a sense of purpose and meaning in even the most difficult of circumstances. And also leaves you in such a vulnerable state.

    • @TRIGO_ALLINE
      @TRIGO_ALLINE ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This man is a legend. 5 years ago published this talk, and still everything applies as we're speaking about it today. Great job! This will live forever. True legend!

    • @juliosester281
      @juliosester281 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true! It's a beautiful journey of self-discovery. 🌺

    • @Benjamin-yh9mr
      @Benjamin-yh9mr ปีที่แล้ว

      It's true that discovering your purpose can leave you in a vulnerable state. When you are exploring your deepest desires and passions, it can feel like you are exposing a part of yourself that you've kept hidden for a long time. But vulnerability can also be a source of strength and resilience. When you are willing to be vulnerable, you open yourself up to new possibilities and opportunities that you may have never considered before. And ultimately, this vulnerability can lead you to discover your true purpose and live a more fulfilling life.

    • @shayneb226
      @shayneb226 ปีที่แล้ว

      Finding your purpose can be a source of strength and resilience in times of adversity.

    • @riciphariss107
      @riciphariss107 ปีที่แล้ว

      he journey of discovering your purpose can be full of surprises and unexpected twists. 🤩

  • @olanik2061
    @olanik2061 2 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Deeply moving truths and raw emotions, this is without a doubt one of the best Teds I have ever witnessed. I am left with questions, but also answers, and maybe that is life, we keep asking questions, and when we ask the right ones, the answers appear. Bravo Mr Gravenor

    • @CelesteGayoso-qr2qg
      @CelesteGayoso-qr2qg 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "Thank you for sharing this talk! It's a great reminder that ego isn't always a negative thing."

    • @CatarinaLain
      @CatarinaLain 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "I appreciate how the speaker emphasized the importance of balancing ego with humility. It's a delicate dance."

    • @ImeldaPiana
      @ImeldaPiana 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "This talk made me reflect on my own ego and how it impacts my relationships. Very thought-provoking."

    • @AnteaTamburino
      @AnteaTamburino 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "I found the speaker's personal anecdotes to be incredibly relatable. It's comforting to know I'm not alone in my ego struggles."

    • @MafaldaStella
      @MafaldaStella 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "Ego can be such a destructive force, but this talk shows that it can also be a catalyst for personal growth."

  • @thereallyfatcat
    @thereallyfatcat ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video should be mandatory for everyone to watch before the age of 19

  • @jordanbaslier
    @jordanbaslier 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +101

    So I stumbled over the word "ego" a lot in the form of "let go of your ego", "healthy vs unhealthy ego", "the ego is important to function as an individual", etc. A lot of people here seem to get that there is an ego and that it can be unhelpful and give us unsatisfying emotions, thoughts or drag us in our growth. It seems all agreed that it is good to overcome your ego (temporarily) if it is not helpful in the moment.

    • @JeimyPatrick
      @JeimyPatrick 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stumble over ego? Is it a physical thing?

    • @MarinaCarita
      @MarinaCarita 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amazing JB, love that you found this.........

    • @TerriBrown-ty8hw
      @TerriBrown-ty8hw 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This guys talk is really good though.

    • @CynthisDorsey
      @CynthisDorsey 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Great work Jordan thanks for posting this.

    • @SoletteHarper
      @SoletteHarper 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Keep finding these gems, I really like them

  • @kevinkun2052
    @kevinkun2052 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I cried man, I can really feel his words by the way he speaks. 😭 Im glad ive learned so much from this man

  • @sheryldabose1988
    @sheryldabose1988 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    This was so hard to listen too, but also impossible to turn off. The best talk I have ever heard and it will stay with me a long time. Bless you Jonathan.

    • @gracefairbank
      @gracefairbank 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh I agree Sheryl so much!

    • @sherrieglewis
      @sherrieglewis 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree.

    • @laurenstynes
      @laurenstynes 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes it was, but worth every second.

    • @marishka5737
      @marishka5737 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great description, and a reality we all must face one day

    • @caroldendy851
      @caroldendy851 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      exactly!

  • @janinaschulze9820
    @janinaschulze9820 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What an incredibly beautiful man.

  • @piamirra
    @piamirra ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Jonathan's message and delivery was absolutely beautiful. It was a pleasure to hear what he had to say and I think more so it was important to hear. What a fantastic motivational speaker. What a fantastic and kind man.

    • @JoynishaMoore
      @JoynishaMoore 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This talk resonated with me on a profound level. It's a reminder that our struggles can shape us and lead us to meaningful growth. Thank you for sharing your emotional and inspiring story.

    • @NerriahRose
      @NerriahRose 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      what a powerful reminder of the resilience and strength of the human spirit. It's amazing how someone's personal story can have such a universal impact. Thank you for sharing your journey.

    • @CaydenTaylor-nv3he
      @CaydenTaylor-nv3he 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I was deeply touched by this talk. It's a reminder that our emotions connect us as humans and that we can find strength in vulnerability. Thank you for sharing your story and inspiring us all.

    • @TembiClark
      @TembiClark 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This talk reminded me of the power of storytelling. It's through sharing our experiences that we can inspire others and create positive change. Thank you for sharing your emotional journey.

    • @JeimyPatrick
      @JeimyPatrick 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I couldn't help but be moved by this talk. It's incredible how a speaker's vulnerability can create such a deep impact on the audience. Thank you for sharing your story and touching our hearts.

  • @todydn
    @todydn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Dude this is the deepest Ted talk ever I've got so mutch more work to do in my life and none of it is earning money

    • @theothersideofego
      @theothersideofego 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      thank you, and thank you for doing good work

    • @iloverussia111
      @iloverussia111 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@theothersideofego is this really you? Because if it is I just want to tell you that I had a pretty bad day today, started distancing from the people that are the ones that love me, but this speech gave me another perspective to life I was forgetting and lacking. Thank you sir, this was beautiful. May God bless you.

    • @theothersideofego
      @theothersideofego 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@iloverussia111 hi you are kind, sorry I dont monitor my account that much, yes learning that the best love is what we give and not what we get helped me a lot.

  • @effierose5391
    @effierose5391 2 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    OMG, this made me cry so many times. I have to know did he find the man and his dog, and OMG that poor little girl. This will stay with me a long time.

    • @marlonpruna304
      @marlonpruna304 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very good comment my friend, amazing!!

    • @bryanahaya3628
      @bryanahaya3628 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree with you this video also made me emotional

    • @Raul_Godan
      @Raul_Godan 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here. This is amazing, indeed.

    • @bettytaylor945
      @bettytaylor945 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too, OMG I can't stop thinking about that poor little girl.

    • @fabridelvalle8996
      @fabridelvalle8996 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      These words really touched my soul, the wisdom that this man has is very great.

  • @DuncanY.Madrid
    @DuncanY.Madrid ปีที่แล้ว

    This man's interior is full of pearls of wisdom coming out of his mouth non stop. I'm stunned.

  • @sglashes
    @sglashes 5 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    I cried while listening to this talk.. what a story.. thank you!

  • @azuzaur
    @azuzaur 5 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    I cme here for learning and din't expect I'm gonna cry. But I guess it's the best way to learn. Amazing talk.

    • @theothersideofego
      @theothersideofego 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      thank you for your kind words - I learned through Doug and Molly and the little girl and I cried - I discovered that I don't want to follow the man who teaches me with books, and lectures - I want to learn from the men (or woman) that teaches me by living the life I want to live...

  • @carlajaffe
    @carlajaffe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I remember when you read the news in Eastern Canada, you were a handsome confident man back then. But now you are a beautiful soulful man, so authentic. This is my favorite talk ever, thank you.

    • @theothersideofego
      @theothersideofego 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It is still my 2nd home, I may have been raised out west, but a big part of my heart is in the east.

  • @gilbertofallaci179
    @gilbertofallaci179 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    it's videos like this that remind me why I love TEDx talks. real stories, real people, real change.

  • @Iam-ob-liv-ious
    @Iam-ob-liv-ious ปีที่แล้ว +70

    "humility is not thinking less about your self, it's thinking about yourself less“
    🔄🔄🔄

    • @CaydenTaylor-nv3he
      @CaydenTaylor-nv3he 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I couldn't agree more! Humility is about recognizing that we are all interconnected and that our actions and words have an impact on others.

    • @NerriahRose
      @NerriahRose 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well said! Humility is not about thinking less of ourselves but about thinking of ourselves in a broader context. It's about embracing a mindset that values the well-being and happiness of others.

    • @TembiClark
      @TembiClark 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Absolutely! Humility is about recognizing our own worth and capabilities while also acknowledging the worth and capabilities of others. It's about fostering an environment of mutual respect and understanding.

    • @JeimyPatrick
      @JeimyPatrick 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I love this perspective! Humility is about having a balanced view of ourselves and recognizing that our worth is not solely defined by our own accomplishments. It's about valuing others as well.

    • @RonnaBush
      @RonnaBush 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well said! Humility is not about self-deprecation or denying our own potential. It's about recognizing that we are part of something greater and approaching life with a sense of humility and gratitude.

  • @marciareynolds3235
    @marciareynolds3235 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    My favorite quotes, "The best things are said when we don't exchange words, we just exchange space." and "The judgement I had of him blinded me to his intent."

  • @arianaasherton
    @arianaasherton 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    When I saw EGO as the talk I did not expect this, this is much more than I thought I would get. I am still crying.

    • @maryumafzal7353
      @maryumafzal7353 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here! Unable to control my tears.
      I was trying to know about Ego from various sources and undoubtedly, this is a wonderful source.

  • @luisalmeidacarvalho1126
    @luisalmeidacarvalho1126 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’ve seen a lot of TEDx talks, but this one... it's just on another level. The raw honesty and vulnerability of Jonathan’s story is something else.

  • @desmondamponsah6674
    @desmondamponsah6674 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    i have never been this emotional listening to someone's story. i'm humbled

  • @hollytrichards
    @hollytrichards 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +94

    This talk has grabbed me hard, I need to know what happened to the man and his dog, and Jonathan were is he now.

    • @AshleyBianco-mp2dt
      @AshleyBianco-mp2dt 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Emotionally charged talks have the power to inspire, challenge, and transform us in profound ways.

    • @NovaGurrola
      @NovaGurrola 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don't shy away from the emotions that arise after watching a talk. They can be a source of personal empowerment.

    • @ShelleyRamos-nk9qm
      @ShelleyRamos-nk9qm 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Emotionally charged talks have the power to make us feel alive, connected, and inspired.

    • @PatriciaBroom
      @PatriciaBroom 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Being emotionally charged after a talk is a reflection of how deeply it resonated with you and touched your soul.

    • @astridableman
      @astridableman 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thanks for sending me this

  • @vajragem
    @vajragem 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The single most powerful TED ever. A must hear for everyone.

    • @CheakinaCopeland
      @CheakinaCopeland 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for sharing this TEDx talk. It's an inspiring talk.

    • @SteevieMatthews
      @SteevieMatthews 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm thankful you shared this TEDx talk. It's a valuable insight.

    • @RhaelynCharles
      @RhaelynCharles 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for sharing this TEDx talk. It's an enlightening talk.

    • @KalaPope
      @KalaPope 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I appreciate you sharing this TEDx talk. It's a fantastic recommendation.

    • @JeimyPatrick
      @JeimyPatrick 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for sharing this TEDx talk. It's a thought-provoking talk.

  • @rubysmith3947
    @rubysmith3947 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A massive thank you to Jonathan for making such a difference

  • @bencycaitlin
    @bencycaitlin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    So many moments just in one talk, best TEDx ever!

  • @madisongrace9146
    @madisongrace9146 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Someone sent me this, and I had watched it over year ago, and it was just as good today.

    • @SandraWaller-rc9gc
      @SandraWaller-rc9gc 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "I had a similar experience when I rediscovered that TED Talk. It's like finding a piece of yourself that resonates with its message."

    • @PatriciaBroom
      @PatriciaBroom 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "I'm so glad you rediscovered that TED Talk. It's a reminder that great ideas can transcend time."

    • @JaniceBurgess-gf9my
      @JaniceBurgess-gf9my 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "That TED Talk is like a breath of fresh air. Its message has the power to invigorate and inspire."

    • @AnneWilliams-ek7gp
      @AnneWilliams-ek7gp 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "That TED Talk is a masterpiece that has the power to change lives. I'm grateful you had the chance to experience it again."

    • @AshleyBianco-mp2dt
      @AshleyBianco-mp2dt 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "That TED Talk is a masterpiece that captures the essence of the human spirit. I'm glad you rediscovered its brilliance."

  • @granmabecker
    @granmabecker 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    A very good man, telling us something very important. May he live much longer so he can keep telling us what we need to remember, our love and humanity should always be first.

  • @garlandleduc5610
    @garlandleduc5610 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The simple moments of connection Jonathan shared with Doug and the young patient are so heartwarming. It's the little things that count.

  • @suebakernottly
    @suebakernottly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I have watched this so many times, I come to it on days when everything seems bad, and I find hope. Thank you!

  • @givemeshelter788
    @givemeshelter788 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    Saw this again, more powerful this time than the 1st, and it was powerful the 1st time.

    • @JoynishaMoore
      @JoynishaMoore 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I often find that re-watching TED Talks helps me appreciate the speaker's storytelling skills even more. It's a chance to analyze their delivery, body language, and use of visuals. Each viewing unveils new layers of communication excellence.

    • @NerriahRose
      @NerriahRose 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Some TED Talks are so impactful that they become a source of inspiration and motivation. Re-watching these talks helps me stay connected to that initial spark and reinforces my commitment to personal and professional growth.

    • @TembiClark
      @TembiClark 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Re-watching TED Talks gives me a sense of continuity. It's a reminder that personal growth is not a one-time event but an ongoing journey. Each time I watch, I build upon my previous knowledge and continue to expand my understanding.

    • @JeimyPatrick
      @JeimyPatrick 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I often find that re-watching TED Talks helps me apply the ideas to different areas of my life. The first time I watch, I may focus on one aspect, but subsequent viewings allow me to see how the concepts can be relevant in various contexts.

    • @RonnaBush
      @RonnaBush 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm grateful for the ability to re-watch TED Talks online. It's like having access to a vast library of knowledge and inspiration. Each time I watch, I discover something new and find motivation to further explore the topic.

  • @dotheyrock8637
    @dotheyrock8637 2 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    This could be one of the most honest talks I have seen, he stripped himself down and showed his warts and scars and all. he didn't seek redemption, he just looked for truth and meaning. This talk will help change people. But I need to know - where are Doug and his dog and what is Jonathan Gravenor doing now?

    • @kawtarrifi7851
      @kawtarrifi7851 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes it is great ! I like it too

    • @Raul_Godan
      @Raul_Godan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great talk, indeed.

    • @taritiso390
      @taritiso390 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too bro I need to know what is Jonathan Gravenor doing now?😁

    • @bryanahaya3628
      @bryanahaya3628 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very much agree with you this is definitely a great talk

    • @glennajones9365
      @glennajones9365 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice video. I love it. Thanks for uploaded this inspirational TED talk This video is very important for me.

  • @Celebriteaforyou
    @Celebriteaforyou 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    "The best things are said when we don't exchange words, we just exchange space"
    That hit me hard.

    • @refresh6742
      @refresh6742 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I like it

    • @zelmacastricone1228
      @zelmacastricone1228 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I've had such bad anxiety for the last 5 years and these talks have helped so much. yours resonated with me because of recent events in my life

    • @DrishtiRaval17
      @DrishtiRaval17 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just as you need to take care of your body after treatment, you need to take care of your emotions

    • @fortunaterbush8607
      @fortunaterbush8607 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Being open and dealing with your emotions help you feel less worried.

    • @Benjamin-yh9mr
      @Benjamin-yh9mr 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      on’t make light of, judge, or try to change the way the person feels or acts. Let them know that you’re open to talking whenever they feel like it.

  • @samacigrist
    @samacigrist 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I have never cried like this watch a ted talk before...

  • @chetrok1
    @chetrok1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    The first 3 minutes I judged, the next four I had realized once again how wrong I truly realized I am, thank you for the gift of realization and acknowledgement

    • @theothersideofego
      @theothersideofego 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I think awareness is the first step - thank you for your kind words

  • @bettarease
    @bettarease ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is one of those videos, that no matter how many times you have seen it you get something new out of it. Love care and compassion are the answer for everything.

  • @tarasuppleton
    @tarasuppleton 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Someone sent this to me again, and I watched it again, and again I cried for so long. My heart broke and became even bigger at the same time. So beautiful.

  • @natalemodesto
    @natalemodesto ปีที่แล้ว +93

    This video might have just changed my life. Wow.

    • @RoseTaylor-ug8np
      @RoseTaylor-ug8np 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "That's wonderful to hear! TED talks are known for their ability to spark personal growth and transformation. Can you tell me more about the specific ways this talk influenced your life?"

    • @PatriciaBroom
      @PatriciaBroom 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "That's amazing! TED talks have the potential to inspire personal growth and transformation. Can you share what specific aspects of this talk resonated with you and how it impacted your life?"

    • @JaniceBurgess-gf9my
      @JaniceBurgess-gf9my 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "I'm so happy for you! TED talks can be life-altering experiences. What were the key moments or concepts from this talk that made it so transformative for you?"

    • @AlyssaBrown-dj6zz
      @AlyssaBrown-dj6zz 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "That's wonderful news! TED talks are designed to provoke thought and inspire action. What were the key ideas or insights from this talk that had such a transformative impact on you?"

    • @IsabelPereira-qj3vm
      @IsabelPereira-qj3vm 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "That's amazing! TED talks have the potential to inspire and motivate us to make significant changes. What specifically about this talk resonated with you and how did it change your life?"

  • @alberteshoeinfine
    @alberteshoeinfine ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've just literally listened to your speech three times non-stop. I LOVE your language, your tone, your modulation, your topic, your insights, your delivery and your use of vocabulary. I hope to experience you at a speech personally some day! Thank you for this wonderful presentation.

    • @sibleysuet8016
      @sibleysuet8016 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hope to see him live!

    • @TRIGO_ALLINE
      @TRIGO_ALLINE ปีที่แล้ว

      He is the best, no doubt!

    • @zelmacastricone1228
      @zelmacastricone1228 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm blown away by your speech. Your passion and expertise shine through every word.

    • @yaboimike940
      @yaboimike940 ปีที่แล้ว

      Your speech should be a must-watch for everyone. Such valuable insights deserve to be shared widely.

  • @shadyreginald
    @shadyreginald ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This reminds me of a quote I love "It's not your life expectancy it's what you expect of life.." he is such an elegant man, so full of real emotion and care. Bless him and his journey

  • @ringotominto
    @ringotominto 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is the probably the first time I have ever cried listening to a TED talk.
    I started working in the hospital this year, and to protect myself from all the suffering of my patients I had become emotionally numb.
    You helped me realise why I had chosen medicine in the first place.
    Jonathon - I truly hope you are well. Bless you for opening the eyes of many.

    • @theothersideofego
      @theothersideofego 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thanks, you are very kind

    • @misss.7863
      @misss.7863 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@theothersideofego Thank you for accepting the invite to talk, Jonathan. Yours is such a blessing and the most inspiring TED Talk I've watched and listened to so far. I also hope that you and your family are well, the same goes for Doug and Molly.
      "God took the wrong one that day." - This made me recall the many times I told God that He (or She) made a mistake in giving me life, knowing how I'd disappointed my parents and other people many times. It's such a struggle to live, love, and forgive oneself.

  • @ricardom.arnold
    @ricardom.arnold 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I taught myself early in my teen years that my life was solely dependent on how I wanted it to be. Didn't really care much what people thought of me, as long as I knew I wasn't hurting anyone and I respected people.

  • @jamesfelts9300
    @jamesfelts9300 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Thank you for sharing this powerful message with us. This message is exactly what the moment called for.... Thank you again.

    • @CaydenTaylor-nv3he
      @CaydenTaylor-nv3he 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "I just finished watching this TEDx talk, and I'm blown away by the speaker's passion and dedication to . Their message resonates deeply and serves as a powerful catalyst for positive change."

    • @NerriahRose
      @NerriahRose 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "This TEDx talk is a true masterpiece! The speaker's ability to blend personal stories with profound insights on is both captivating and enlightening. It's a talk that lingers in your mind long after it's over."

    • @TembiClark
      @TembiClark 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "Thank you for sharing this TEDx talk! The speaker's authenticity and vulnerability while discussing create a deep emotional connection with the audience. It's a talk that leaves you feeling inspired and moved."

    • @JeimyPatrick
      @JeimyPatrick 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "Wow, this TEDx talk is a game-changer! The speaker's bold ideas and vision for challenge the way we think and inspire us to strive for a better future. Truly eye-opening!"

    • @RonnaBush
      @RonnaBush 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "This TEDx talk is a true testament to the power of resilience and determination. The speaker's journey and insights on are both inspiring and empowering. It's a talk that leaves you feeling motivated."

  • @xanderselester
    @xanderselester ปีที่แล้ว

    A friend sent me this. I'm so glad we have people like this, not ashamed to be open and honest.

  • @sherylraye5539
    @sherylraye5539 6 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    I cried a lot because I realized so much of what you said is exactly what I needed to hear.

    • @theothersideofego
      @theothersideofego 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I have thought - since I was ill and finally reached out for help - that none of us are alone - there is always many people out there who understand exactly what we are going through

  • @ashleydream182
    @ashleydream182 5 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    This has me crying at my desk! I’m grateful for this talk!

    • @theothersideofego
      @theothersideofego 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I have cried many times since then - 7 years ago now - but more joy and softness in the tears these days

  • @blaircailean
    @blaircailean 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Like he said, I wasn't scared of dying, I was sacred of living, that is so true for me too.

  • @futurefactsk3136
    @futurefactsk3136 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    same here, never looked at things this way. it’s a fresh perspective for the new year!

  • @karahzongster5559
    @karahzongster5559 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My sister lost her 5 year old. Listening to this I could see my little niece as being that young girl he met. She was so wise for her age, so giving. This has made me cry so much, tears I don't want to end. Bless you sir bless you for bringing this to the world.

    • @theothersideofego
      @theothersideofego ปีที่แล้ว

      wow, thats just awful, how is she dealing with it now

    • @dylantaylor6200
      @dylantaylor6200 ปีที่แล้ว

      OMG, i am so sorry for you and your family

    • @movemetoexcel
      @movemetoexcel ปีที่แล้ว

      thats tragic.

    • @caroldendy851
      @caroldendy851 ปีที่แล้ว

      wow, this is so sad, I am so sorry for you and your family

  • @WilliamSmithnotthatone
    @WilliamSmithnotthatone 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Unlike any TED I have ever seen, it speaks to a place in us which is much deeper.

  • @luzaguirre2830
    @luzaguirre2830 5 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I learned many years ago that God can speak through literally ANYONE & He does!! Calls us to look at the message, not the man.. over & over again

    • @theothersideofego
      @theothersideofego 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you for your kind words

    • @ddo9712
      @ddo9712 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I learned many years ago that there are incredible people amongst us still and regardless of the tribulations that God rains down upon us, we as people are capable of picking each other up and we ought to try everyday.
      There are good people and we should try every day to be one of them. Don't wait for God to tell you to do amazing things. It's in you. Just do it.

    • @theothersideofego
      @theothersideofego 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ddo9712 very true very cool

  • @brandyocraveiro
    @brandyocraveiro 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh I have cried through this entire talk, so moving so raw

  • @sashapetrovic1678
    @sashapetrovic1678 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amazing speech. This has definitely inspired me to find my true self. I am 27 and to me my past 15 years are like frozen. I was like a walking dead like. But when life wakes you up, the feeling is truly amazing. Shout out to those who do not give up on improving themselves regardless of age!

    • @fallenstar3188
      @fallenstar3188 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      me too man, me too. Powerful!!!!

  • @carlasteadman
    @carlasteadman 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This man is full with pearls of wisdom coming out of his mouth non stop. I'm stunned. This talk will resonate with me for a long time. It really helps you clarify what really is important. Thank you Jonathan.

  • @itsjamillecan
    @itsjamillecan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is the first ted talk that made me cry like a baby. Thank you for your beautiful story.

  • @malachijude
    @malachijude ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is worth everybody’s time and energy. So valuable!!! Spiritual banquet.

  • @LocomateMachine
    @LocomateMachine ปีที่แล้ว +96

    My greatest fear is being misunderstood. And yet, I've never been good at being my vulnerable self. I don't want my life to be a message that is not mine.

    • @miawilliamson1082
      @miawilliamson1082 ปีที่แล้ว

      The vulnerability that arises from discovering one's true purpose is a reminder of the importance of being open to self-discovery and embracing our passions, even if it means exposing our innermost selves.

    • @cameronwoodward2026
      @cameronwoodward2026 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree wholeheartedly. The emotional depth that accompanies the discovery of one's true purpose is a reflection of the profound impact it can have on our lives and well-being.

    • @judygeorge5739
      @judygeorge5739 ปีที่แล้ว

      The emotional impact of discovering one's purpose is a testament to the transformative power of self-exploration and the pursuit of personal fulfillment.

    • @clevelandraney1551
      @clevelandraney1551 ปีที่แล้ว

      The vulnerability that arises from discovering one's true purpose can be seen as a strength, as it signifies our willingness to embrace our passions and live authentically.

    • @johnmatthews8639
      @johnmatthews8639 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm glad you feel the emotional weight of discovering one's purpose. It's a reminder of the richness and depth that can be found when we align our lives with our true calling.

  • @jackrouse1987
    @jackrouse1987 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This brings back my c, prostate at 29, full removal. Thought my life was over, but slowly the fear of what I was losing got replaced about what I was saving. Many you are good, I get this, important talk brother, keep speaking, the world needs you.

  • @demiloster
    @demiloster 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This pulled at every part of me, a most wonderful journey, thank you Jonathan.

    • @carolinechery
      @carolinechery 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thanks for sending this, so moving so perfect.

  • @susannekaiser2901
    @susannekaiser2901 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was one of those profound eye-openers that is literally a gift

  • @TommyFamous
    @TommyFamous 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your Presence is the biggest gift you can ever give someone! It takes Grace, Compassion, & Humility to silently allow another to be witnessed and heard! 💜

    • @theothersideofego
      @theothersideofego 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you - your words are very kind

    • @lotharkaiser5771
      @lotharkaiser5771 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is so true.....but so few people in this world realise what a precious gift that is.