Ask Women These 6 Questions (She'll Be Impressed)
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- These 6 questions will help you connect with her and see if there is compatibility for a second date while simultaneously learning more about her (without the interaction feeling like a boring interview). Take what you need and leave what you don’t but I hope this video helps or gives you a little confidence boost for your next conversation or date!
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1. What does a typical day look like for you?
2. What are you most passionate about at the moment?
3. What is your favorite thing about where you grew up?
4. Have you traveled much, or do you want to?
5. What is your favorite way to spend your weekends?
6. What is something you want to learn or wish you were better at?
Sounds like interview questions lol
MVP 👏🏼👏🏼
@@tiphotisted sounds like you never go on dates
@@steelydan146 Or, you've never gone on an interview.
7. Do you have a brief attention-span and like to take shortcuts? 😆
I always like how you're trying to be a positive force in the dating community. Huge respect.
🥹❤️ this means so much to me. Thank you!
Lmao. The dating community cannot be fixed. Males, work hard, avoiding dating in your 20s.
Maybe THINK about dating when you're 33.
@@adamsirin7249 no one said she’s trying to fix it. She’s just trying to expose the bull shit and she does it very well
You’re right about working hard and avoiding dating in the 20s, but don’t be so dismissive about it
@@adamsirin7249 That's very bad advice to give other men. You should be dating when you're younger such as your late teens and into your 20s. Everyone nowadays is waiting until they're in their early to mid 30s at least, before they even think about starting a family and getting married, and that's assuming they do at all, which many don't. Young people need to start families. If young people aren't starting families then your civilization is dying.
@@zombieslayer7759 Very unfortunate, but it is important to live in reality.
The female brain is not competent at withstanding propaganda continuously pushed on them by social media. They are not efficient in critical thinking like males are. Thus, they'll always chase their hypergamous dreams and compete for a _few_ guys, whilst rejecting men who are their ideal suitors. Those men would've wasted their time and mood, courting these women. Better to wait till these women realise that their losing their essual marketplace value.
Asking questions like these are important if you’re talking to somebody because it makes you looks like you care, helps build a connection and makes you look like you’re interested in her/him. But just like Courtney said, you have to be genuine about it.
🙌🏼 spot on
Yes, and it's hopefully because you are actually curious and DO care not just trying to look like you care. 🙂 gravitating toward your natural curiosity with questions feels best.
"looks like, sounds like, feels like"
Turn the "like" into "is, are, am."
@@CourtneyRyan shut up Courtney
The point is you should actually care
Courting is what needs to make a comeback. The point of talking and dating is to determine marriage compatibility. Like it or not, hobbies are not what make or break your relationship, principles are. Our grandparents hardly had any hobbies in common because men were men and women were women, theyre just different. At the end of the day, their principles are what kept them together. Obviously couples should do stuff together, but that isnt the make or break.
I agree. But if courtship is the road to success, social media is clogging up the streets.
I both agree & disagree about "hobbies". Our grandparents did not consider cooking, gardening, auto repair, electrical repair as "hobbies". But, most single adults (i.e late 20s & above) do consider these "hobbies". Nothing wrong with that, it's just where they lie in the conversation.
I noticed that when "hobbies" come up, most immediately leap to things that make us appear exciting. We start talking about the grand & the exotic. I learned to categorize. When someone asks me about my "hobbies" I ask if they want the grand & exciting or the quiet & domestic. The dude usually laughs & asks for the quiet & domestic.
Also, I learned that I wanted a man to have hobbies that can involve a child. I briefly dated a man who had been married before with 2 young boys. When I asked him about "hobbies" he discussed golf. He said that he played a lot of golf while his marriage was dissolving, to stay away from the house. I immediately thought about the 2 young boys. I dwelled on this thought a lot. That's how I decided compatible hobbies for me could involve young children -- hiking, fishing, biking. Even something that requires a hobby garage. While power tools aren't exactly conducive for 5 year old, he is still available & on property.
Here is the thing. 1.The woman could lie about everything which is normal, and they boast about doing. 2. since she sees men as toxic, she could say, quit mansplaining and why are you asking me so many questions? Your making me feel uncomfortable, I'm calling the police. 3. This sounds like an interview and men never speak like this. Courtney is asking a man to talk like a woman and we don't.
Agree, however friendship in marriage is something that can increase your good times together,
Yes it’s storge love which is one of the 4 loves is the most strongest, way stronger then friendship or Eros love
These are common questions a therapist asks a new client. Also it is important to understand , to a woman, everything begins with "you are a toxic straight male."
Literally teaching people how to communicate and have actual conversations. Love it, keep up the great work.
It's kind of pathetic...but thank you for doing this. I have gotten some value out of your videos.
Thank you for this video, Courtney! It's not always easy to know where to begin or what to ask. This definitely helps!
You are wise beyond your years Courtney! I am older and totally agree especially being older as I look for direct and intriguing questions over the more popular “hey”
It's so simple, yet we all just complicate things...
Spot on LOL
@@CourtneyRyan hence why I get so burnt out cause I don't wanna deal with it
Why don’t anyone ever talk about how to attract Men? It seems to me that in our society women are always the prize to be won and it’s the man’s job to do that! To me that’s not equal is it To be equal you must act equal !!
If it comes to average woman, certainly yea. But the most attractive women certainly go for genetically superior men only, since almost every guy wants them and there is incredible competition. An angelina Jolie type lady will accept very few men who are below the status of a Christiano Ronaldo.
Ttrrrruuueeeee if you want equality she should be just as interested In you as you are in her. Like show love and equality
Wow. Spot on, Courtney. Those questions I have been asked by my girlfriend and now my wife on our 1st date. Thank you for sharing.
Courtney's perspective is spot-on. In my work on vulnerability and connection, I often emphasize the importance of approaching interactions with a sense of genuine curiosity and openness. This is especially relevant in the context of a first date, where the goal is to establish a connection that's both authentic and meaningful.
The questions Courtney suggests are not just conversation starters. They are windows into the soul of the person you're engaging with. For instance, asking about a typical day in someone's life offers insight into their daily routines and priorities, which can say a lot about who they are and what they value. It's an invitation to share stories and experiences, rather than just facts.
Similarly, inquiring about passions or what someone is currently excited about goes beyond the surface. It touches on what makes them feel alive, what drives them, and what brings joy to their life. This is where true connection begins - in understanding and relating to each other's passions and joys.
The emphasis on asking about favorite things from childhood, travel aspirations, weekend preferences, and areas for personal growth moves the conversation into deeper territory. It's about understanding their background, dreams, and aspirations. These topics encourage sharing of personal stories and experiences, which fosters a deeper level of intimacy and understanding.
In essence, Courtney's approach aligns with the principles of wholehearted living that I advocate. It's about engaging with others from a place of authenticity, empathy, and vulnerability. This not only enriches the dating experience but also lays the groundwork for meaningful, long-lasting relationships.
Remember, it's not just about the questions you ask, but also about how you listen and respond. Being genuinely interested in the answers, showing empathy, and sharing your own experiences in return can turn a simple date into the beginning of a beautiful connection.
What if she tell lies just like Amber Turd?!
This video is great for anyone looking for advice on how to connect with women and keep conversations going. Courtney Ryan provides helpful questions to ask that can help ease the pressure and ensure the conversation is genuine.
Courtney, Your advice is so helpful because it's all about men presenting themselves honestly in a way that shows their best traits to a woman.
One thing to add, don’t just ask questions like an interrogation. Women love to speak let her guide the conversation, throw a follow up question showing her you’re engaged in the conversation and receptive to what she is telling you. Women love to be heard and a man that remembers particular things such as projects at work, home anything.
Your First part and second part of the comment contradicts with each other....
Courtney, this is such helpful content! Great question to figure out if she just matched/swiped out of boredome or real curiosity about the person behind the profil! As you mentioned , this opens up so many key followup question to fugure out really fast if the other person matches your energie or is likely to be compatible with you! keep this kind of helpful and valuable input for us/men going! English is not my mother tongue, so bare with me in regards to grammar or typos!
Been coming to you for advice and can genuinely apply it. Have been asking these questions to women and they’re asking me out!? Your magic works. Love you content as a man, advice like this is rare.
👏🏼 this made my day! I’m so glad!
I really like asking the question "what was the best compliment somebody ever gave you?" It shows what they value in themselves and how they see themselves. Also it helps predict future actions and may give insight on why they do the things they do.
Love this one!
Simply brilliant. 👏
Seems logical as your user name is
My fav question to ask is "how do you like to be loved, what does love look like to you?"
Helllll na y’all trippin
That's what I ask people at a restaurant, or on the sidewalk around town, or at the tennis club.
It's amazing how nasty people get in their responses, and so I develop an intrusive independent assertive self-confidence as a result. True love means letting everyone scorn you, for caring enough to ask personal questions.
Thanks for the post, Courtney! For some of us, these questions need to be rehearsed.
I tend to be more social depending on what my setting is. If this were to be a date, my mind usually overflows with similar questions to ask. When I first met someone I matched with on Facebook dating this year, I already knew what I wanted to talk about. Best of all, we were able to hold different conversations the entire time we saw each other.
This is a very, very good video. Especially for someone like me was getting back into the dating scene after a 24 year marriage that failed.
A question I REALLY like and has sparked some of the best conversations I’ve had this past year, “If you could travel through time and space, where would you go and what would you want to see?”
You can really get to know someone in how they respond to that, but it’s also just a fun conversation, and can often be a great way to find things in common and get to know each other, rather than just listening to someone talk about themselves.
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Where would u go
Be realistic man. You don't talk those things to any normal person 🤔
In my experience, the word time and space means hippie or druggie lol girls has been taken back by that. Of course unless she's a hippie or a druggie
That's a fun question to ponder this could lead to a multifaceted conversation about different topics and definitely get an idea about the person's interests. Although I would probably leave out space lol. Well done 👍🏻.
Perfect timing, as I have a coffee date tomorrow. We've gone through most of these questions beforehand, but it sure doesn't hurt.
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1. 0:57 What does a typical day look like for you?
2. 1:37 What are you most passionate about at the moment?
3. 2:57 What is your favourite thing about where you grew up?
4. 3:22 Have you travelled much - or do you want to?
5. 3:50 What is your favourite way to spend your weekends?
6. 5:10 What is something you want to learn, or wish you were good at?
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Job interview.
Thanks Courtney, I believe those are the most easiest questions to ask someone but as we go through situations in life, we lose forget about the simplest things in life like interacting with people.
This video is perfectly timed. Got myself a dinner date tommorow directly after work and some of these ideas will help break the ice a lot with her I'm hoping.
Yay! Have so much fun ❤️
Curious to know how it goes! Story time! 😁
Bro, use the Titanic question. Was there enough space on the raft to fit Jack and Rose? Lol.
Yep. Internet wants an update.
Good luck buddy... Enjoy, and stay relaxed and calm. Don't get too flustered.
These are excellent questions Courtney Ryan, you are absolutely right, these questions allow the person to provide some details about themselves and what they do or passionate about .thanks again.
great questions! I really struggle trying to think of good open-ended questions when I'm enchanted with a lady standing next to me. thank you!
Courtney, I found you a week ago & I just love listening to you. You REALLY, understand men! Thank you for offering such good advice, specific examples and not criticizing men for their ignorance & stupid things they do. I feel like you care about men & that you want to help us. Thank you! I ordered my Ice Roller on your first video. I have several things that I will be working on...
Those stupid things you said are not really stupid things. Women don't consider it as stupid things....
Thanks Courtney 😊I'm 33 and feel like i'm clueless about women still. This channel really helps. I'm constantly trying to learn and be better at this stuff 😊
These are very good conversational questions and not intrusive or requiring direct or even precise answers. Thank you for this.
This may be your best video under 10 minutes! Great topic and questions.
I really like this! Thank you for the video. If I were asked most of these, I'd be very happy to answer particularly because it is something "I" as an individual am deliberately involved in and not something that is sociologically imposed on me.
I especially like the 'What is something you wish you were good at?" because it allows for a person to say something and be humble about it so no fragile toes are stepped on
Courtney, you're content is crazy good and extremely helpful! I appreciate so much your focus on self improvement and healthy relationships. I learn so much from you! Keep the greatness coming! 👍
Your straight forward, like entertaining a gate that you'll never escape
These are great questions! Its very easy to get stuck with questions that only has a definite answer
I LOVE the question: “What are you most passionate about at the moment?” It will offer deeper insight about what motivates her currently and as you said Courtney, it will lead me to discovering quite quickly if we are compatible. Excellent content!!
Sounds like a job interview question. Why not just come right out and ask "what do you consider your weaknesses?"
Imagine if she said "keeping church out of government ".
@@jdanon203 If you’re trying to assess compatibility, finding out what the other person is interested in is an important step. Plus it puts them in a positive emotional state.
@@jdanon203all of these kinda sound like job interview questions when you don’t add context. I wouldn’t use these as a list that you go down, checking off each question as you go. Maybe use 1 to start and see where the conversation goes. If you use these as a guideline rather than a tool, it’s going to sound robotic.
really ? and when a woman decides to test you and shrugs her shoulders and looks away from you in silence then what do you do ? they ddont tell you how to pass a womans confidence test, they dont tell you what to do if she is bratty, being compatible doesnt matter in the least when your trying to get a gf or sex, your an idiot if you think so.
I remember being on a date a few months ago and the chick I was with asked me the first question on this list. Great question. The rest of the conversation we had that night pretty much piggy backed off that question and we ended up going on multiple dates afterwards. Courtney dropping bangers, AGAIN
I got you you know I might have been closed on some things but this helped me an awful lot thank you so much I you know I can't be anything less than that I realized that in the chat room all of a sudden I start letting things off my shoulder that we're getting in my way it's so funny but it's important to me and I appreciate the good information that you gave❤
@CourtneyRyan you are kind for offering your wisdom to us. Thank you!
Anything that gets someone to talk about themselves is always a great start. I think it helps to be relaxed and sincere when posing these questions and taking a genuine interest in everything the lady says. That means paying attention, maintaining eye contact and gently interacting. Hopefully, at the end of the date she will think you are a great conversationalist, when you have actually been an attentive listener. Fingers crossed that she is one too!
What if Lady spoke lies?! As lot of women speaks lies....
Genuine indeed, these questions arn´t anything less you wouldn´t ask to anyone around. you, not only women ?
Having some dates coming up makes me very appreciative for these tips. It's been a while since coming from a 15 year old relationship.
It's funny that I just started dating a beautiful lady and most of these questions I've asked and had never seen, but I learned some new ones to ask and better ways to ask them. Asking open-ended questions lets her express herself. Thank you.
These are great questions for improving a conversation! Thanks for the video, Courtney! 😄
As a guy who opens up easy one question I would like to get to connect more with a partner is...
"What is your relationship with your mom?"
Even though is a bit of sadness for me in that question and answer too, the bottom line is that once I talk about this deeply personal subject I can connect much easier with my girl (and vice-versa: if she agrees to open up about her relationship with her father...that would be great - but patience is necessary, for both of us).
I watched half of this on the preview before I watched the whole thing. You actually want the best for men and women and that's very rare.
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You are such a great person and I love your videos . It's getting better and better . Proud of you. Bless you dear
Courtney, one of your very best videos and the timing is perfect for me for as I have a first date this evening. Can't thank you enough
Courtney is an absolute gem on TH-cam. Her content is always useful and she is a delight to watch. There are two types of content producers. Those that give just enough valuable information as a "foot in the door" to sell their products on their websites and content producers, like Courtney who are above all authentic and don't try to sell you anything. A hideous example of the former is Kezia noble who makes the ridiculous claim of being, " The world's leading female dating expert for men" and every video is a marketing tool for her services on her website. Courtney will never end up with an inflated, obnoxious personality like Kenza. www.youtube.com/@Kezianobledatingexpert/about
2 things should be happening on a first dating basis, you should ask generalized questions to measure compatibility( intimate questions come later) , next make your boundaries of what you want from a relationship crystal clear to one another so there is zero confusion moving forward
Or ,here's an idea, just have some fun with her. Make your relationship boundaries clear on a FIRST DATE? Do you get many second dates?
@@jleano609 if I make my boundaries clear and she does the same, and if we decide that were not on the same page for a relationship, we have saved ourselves both lots of time energy and money moving forward, if there is a 2nd date we obviously got a lot of the same values and commonalities which helps us build rapport long term
@J Leano this is for serious dates only not the hookup shit weirdos do
If the intimacy does NOT appear on the first date before ½ hour into it - it will never appear as true love and passion.
@@andersnielsen6044 I guess that depends on what you define as intimacy but for first date I’m not sure I’d put too much emphasis on intimacy at all.
The GOAT Doc Love was fairly clear. Do not initiate intimacy until the second date. However if she initiates reward her good behavior. This gives you a good baseline for her attraction. Many girls are pretty shy and will not initiate until they are comfortable.
Some Dating Coaches have pushed this to a kiss test at the end of the first date. I used a hybrid approach back in the day. Hug when you meet at the start of the first date, hug at the end. Monitor the differences. If you can clearly sense an escalation at the end hug and she turns her face in kiss her, if not, don’t.
If you then like the girl she gets one more date and you’re kissing her at the end, or sooner again if she initiates.
Aloha Ms. Ryan. Mahalo for sharing your knowledge and expertise to these hints.
Thank you Courtney
I'm bringing to the table what is lame and sick, in my mentality.
I really have to work on myself
I love when women ask me if I play Call of duty, at 42 years old, this can start a conversation of over an hour with me
lol these sound like job interview questions. I've actually been asked the travel question on a recent interview
Those are really refreshing questions! Definitly taking notes on those
Wonderful, kind and smart lady! Thanks for the questions to ask... I'll use them! Happiest New Year!
Those are good questions. I would HIGHLY recommend covering these areas in chat or on a call PRIOR to a first date. In addition, I normally ask about their relationship status and how previous relationships ended. Emotionally mature women don't mind discussing this. But sometimes you can sense the anger here. Spirituality and/or religion is a good area. Women who lack spirituality generally struggle with values like honesty, monogamy, and independence. My favorite question is "What is your idea of a good sex life?" In my opinion this is THE most important compatibility question, as what is the purpose of a man/woman relationship if ideas/frequency about sex vastly differ. Again, emotionally mature women don't mind discussing this. Exercise habits and diet is a good area too because women who don't exercise and eat crap food are terrible in bed. It's important to learn about each other as much as possible before the first date because why waste each other's time? This one girl interrogated me for an hour in chat (LOL) before we even talked, and we talked for hours before we met in person. Our first date was spectacular! And that was a year and half ago. We're still together. But I rejected a boatload of women through chat and talking because I just felt we wouldn't be compatible, especially sexually. So, talk to them first before you date them, and both people will have a much better time.
Spirituality and 'sex life', LMAO...Sure bro, good luck.
@@Matasky2010 OK. FYI: Asking probing questions is a common SALES technique. Its called "qualifying the prospect" to see if there is a good fit. It works. But you need to know what you are looking for in a prospect and be able to carry a conversation. I know what I'm looking for so it's easy for me. And I do text, phone or videos calls to determine if there might be a good fit. If they don't want to talk through text or phone, I move on. I don't want a woman who can't talk. So figure out what you want and qualify, qualify, qualify!
Thank you for your shearing ❤
Eventhough I don't I dont agree with some of what your wrote here, I can't leave without admiring your initiation to write this much to help people. bravo.
Nice one, Courtney! All of these are straight up bangers of questions (the best).
For me, one thing I'd like to be asked is "How did you become so passionate about game design?". The reason for this is because it really does define me as a person, as a content creator, and as a hard worker in general.
Love it!
Then your question should be "What's your favorite video game?".
And thats why youre single haha
All of these questions are actually great for guys too. I love answering these types of questions.
I love these broad, open ended questions that can all be great conversation starters 👌
This one is definitely more of a me-thing, but I do find this to be important for my overall ability to engage with a relationship long term:
As a geek turned actor & writer, a big part of my love language is showing each other our favourite (and sometimes not so favourite) TV Shows & Movies, so I think discussing our tastes/overall interest & engagement in media is really important to me.
I'm open-minded to basically any story or genre, so long as it's well-written, so finding someone similar is pretty important to me.
I don't need someone with identical tastes, mind you (how boring!), as I love that magical experience of either showing someone or being shown a movie for the first time (or having them show me), but if it's clear they just wouldn't have any interest in watching Star Trek, for example, that'd probably be a no-go for me as far as long term prospects are concerned.
You have a better chance with an AI woman than a real woman. No women like Star Trek.
Star trek sucks... NERD~~~~~~~~~~~!
indeed, sharing passions/discovering shared passions and such is essential
if someone likes Friends and Harry Potter, we're just not on the same level in so many ways immediately discernable
Asking questions, telling stories, making jokes, key word jumping, association jamming - without a script. Most times it is hours of conversation with a fun girl, 5 minutes of torture with a typical NPC widget. A great girl will connect in moments of silence. For me this has always happened in a foreign language; never in English, never with a Yankee.
I just liked this one. Very informative. Good job, CDog!!!
These questions are much better then how I would ask them, much more open ended. Going to use them on my date on Sunday :)
1. What is your body count
2. Are you responsible with your finances
3. What was your upbringing like
4. Do you have a good relationship with your father
5. Why did your last relationships fail
6. What are your expectations for a healthy LTR
Bonus Questions:
Do you think for yourself, or just parrot leftist talking points
Does your social media look like an ad for girls gone wild
That's great, if you don't want a second date.
@@MikeyP109 well I ask questions to get information, not to try to impress someone.
@@haywood4299 That info will be very clear when there is no 2nd date.
Good Questions but you will never get honest answers to any of them, and only get answers to them after dating her for a long period of time and finding out for yourself!
Answers to your questions:
1) take her body count # and multiply by 4.
2) see if she contributes to the cost of the date.
3) her attitude will answer this.
4)you actually lived with your father & mother wow!
5) Tell me how horrible your last boyfriends treated you.
6) Is there any chance we, or any other American couple, can have a successful LTR nowadays?
This is a VERY good video idea, not just for talking to women, but for developing any relationships. I myself made a list of “genuine” questions to ask friends and women I meet bc I am SO against small talk, and I actually arrived at some of the exact same questions you did! What are you most passionate about, how do you spend your free time, what’s a skill you wish you had are my favorites. This doesn’t just make conversations interesting, it also indicates you actually care about who someone is and that YOU are genuine/authentic. Meeting women and hearing what they’re passionate about is very fulfilling to me bc I actually love people in general, and if you can’t ask good questions to women you’re missing 50% of the excitement that is sharing human passion and interest (yes women have passions too). I also have some friends that I am not around as much anymore and don’t have much to share with them as I did before, so I tried asking them what skills they wish they had and it reignited the conversation and revealed things I never knew about very long time friends.
Edit: I’ll add that people who have trouble giving proper/honest answers to any of these questions are not worth staying around or continuing to talk to. They may be unsure or need to think more about it, but it’s easy to tell when their answers are inauthentic.
Hey thank you for this information it's helped me out.
Sheesh, it's far more important to listen to the answer than it is to ask the question. The questions can be almost anything, but a thoughtful and considerate response to the answer is what REALLY counts.
Chad : get over here now
Her : is there in a blink of an eye
You : ask questions, takes her out, opens doors..
Her : you are boring
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Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser, i wasn't going to let my marriage of 18years crash.
@Rose Allen well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer.
@Rose Allen her name is Shelly Renee White, and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster.
@Rose Allen you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.
Thanks for your content! This is a great help to me.
Great video. I'll be back in the dating market at some point, so these questions were a great start. So I started formulating more questions to ask too! Thanks!
Courtney is right. Take it from someone who knows. I had a girl ask me these same questions at a bar. And it kept us engaged for at least an hour and half, before she had to go. But they were interesting questions that allowed me to tell her about where I was going in life.
Love your content Courtney, I've been hurting because I asked someone and was told they only see me as a friend. I know the "normal" advice is to move on and I've done that before, but I'm struggling here because I've never met someone in my whole life I can relate to so much (guy or girl). We have crazy similarities in personalities, behaviours, thoughts etc I can second guess her most times. Sadly this isn't important to her it seems, she's usually been compassionate but ever since I asked her she's acting indifferent, as if I did some crime. I'm trying to learn from your videos, it's been hard so far.
my answer:
I love you too much to ever start liking you, so don't exect me to be your friend.
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then walk away, and don't go back.. she had her chance.
@@dket2571 Thanks for sharing that. I agree that could be a thing to do. Unfortunately I find myself in a situation where she's the only meaningful friend in my life, for reasons beyond my control. So I want to stay friends with her for atleast a little while until I rebuild my life. The most important thing is for me to find evidence that I can be happy with someone else, which is hard because I could relate to her so much, she made me realise important things about me I'd forgotten for years.
@@wishtrack1087 And staying is preventing you from finding better next time.
I've been there, done that.
There IS a next time, and its ok to mourn the loss.
Don't look for the next relationship, get on with your life. build your strength, emotionally and physically.
Rebuild your life, then someone will find you (women want strong mates).
Try watching better bachelor, he'll help.
Omg this just happened to me last week too, after the first date. When I said I liked her and tried to ask for a second meeting she told me she don't mind seeing me again but maybe on a friendly basis rather than dating. And something along the lines of unsure if she is compatible with me. This is extremely saddening as I've put in so much effort only to get to this stage. I don't think I could stay as friends with her because I view her as something more.
@@everythingalsoYUI And every date with her is a a date wasted.
Don't be nasty, politely tell her you are looking for more, then excuse yourself and leave, and don't look back.
The woman knows who she wants... and it ain't you.
You're just the "fill in".
Loved this question. Don't forget to apply this knowledge 😊.
All very good. On #5, one of my personal favorites is a slight modification of this question. Knowing that adrenaline is nitro for energizing a conversation, I ask her to describe something she saw happen or actually experienced herself, that was exciting, scary, weird, unexplainable. Like a dangerous close call you escaped, a UFO you saw, an auto accident you saw happen or were involved in, anything that was astonishing. Or maybe terrifying. Or hilarious. She may balk at first so have a few examples of your own ready. I have found this avenue very good at generating engaging and energetic conversation, because 'adrenaline' is a man's best friend here (not goodnight moon stories), and everyone has an engaging, exciting experience or 3 to share once prompted.
Also when asking any of the 'get to know you' questions, make sure you LISTEN and REMEMBER her answers. Asking those questions twice is really bad form. (if it's her name, cue the bomb drop sound)
Bla bla bla. Guys nothing of this works if the girl is not interested in you, it’s that simple lol.
Do you go to da gym
This implies women talk to you correct?
If they talk to you in the first place
Thank you for your perspective
Great video! Thank you so much, this was very helpful!😊❤
I become friends with women and then nothing
Hey it is not a job interview!
Thank you for your advices. it really helps me to start knowing one girl in the future. love ya!!
Definitely talk about and ask questions about her. Women love talking about themselves more than money. Maybe? The conversation will go much smoother if your tall, handsome, muscular, with the appearance of wealth and status. Actually if you don't meet her requirements, don't worry about the conversation.
Listen guys, let's forget all the bullshit. The Fat Bat 🦇 is going to give it to you straight! Either you got the magic, or you ain't got the magic. And if you have a long streak of failed attempts, you can pretty much assume you ain't got it. Just try to get as much enjoyment out of life as you can, but things aren't ever going to change for you no matter how many videos of Courtney Ryan (or anyone else) you watch on TH-cam.
I agree. However, people in general refuse to accept they may not be dating material. That said, the money to be made creating these vids keeps them rolling out. As you stated, it's not just Courtney, it's everyone.
If she is not into you ,none of these questions will make sense.
Well duh
These are all great practical questions to get a conversation going smoothly with a young lady.
Keep the conversation going...this is often THE challenge!
lol Ask her? No impress her with knowledge and humor
Do not “try” to impress her! You should naturally be impressive but put the emphasis on her to be impressive
My first question is always how does she view the world. This mostly aligns with political views. If she is hard blue or likes hard blue ways we're done right away. In VA this is 99.8% of all ladies.
Thank you, I have been trying to think of how to begin a conversation.
great open ended questions for everyone, nice way to find common things to connect with.
Do you want children
She'll go to the bathroom never to return.
If a woman asks you that then she wants children, definitely don't ask her that because the majority of women are not even nurturing types anymore and we don't need more of their delinquents running around
want to go to Wendy's?
How about Applebee's? 😄😁
@@marcmays48 only if she's paying.
Going to try some of these tomorrow... Thanks Courtney
You are really sane for a Beauty. This is quite refreshing.
That was very helpful. Thank you..👍
Public comment. Great information Ms Courtney. You are very helpful and knowledgeable about relationship. Thank you so much ❤.
I've never been married. There was an engagement that went went south. After that experience along with another one right a year after where I had of all things a seizure, with a girl, let's call her "Kristie"that I thought to myself, "Maybe I had to go through that heartbreaking stuff with my engagement going south, to find her". I had a health scare, my one and only seizure in my life. It put me in the hospital for 5 days. This woman, walks into my hospital room, where I'm a nervous wreck. When I see her walk in that fear and anxiety disappears. She walks up to my bed, holding a box. I start by telling her, how incredible it is seeing her right now and that this is something we can work through. She looks me dead in the eye and says, " You're talking like we are married. We are not. Here are clothes and other items you left at my place. You are no longer welcome there. I won't put the safety of my children at risk with someone who never told me they had such a condition". I tell her this was a one time event. There is no history in my family of this. Her previous BF had lied about just everything to her and this woman was looking for any flaw I had. In her eyes I was to good to be true. The seizure was the flaw. I really thought I found something and some one special. She added if I do have to show up for anything to call her first. If I didn't do this, she'd get a restraining order. Her mom threw in, because she missed it with her ex as well, that I was a monster and a freak. This scrambled my brain for a very long time. It was the second punch within a year, that crushed me.
My question would be has someone damaged you so much from your previous relationship that you are looking for any flaw in the next person that you missed from your last to project them onto me?
Also when asked why I've never been married, I shoot back, in a joking, but hard jab, "Why did you get divorced?"
Casually date gentlemen, that's my advice. All of the good ones are taken.
But if you must..ask her, "What would she consider her greatest weakness". If they can't answer that... run
Great questions. Seems like these are often questions guys/people want to ask but don't know how to best phrase it. Thanks!
Relevant questions. Thank you Courtney.