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I was in communication with a Filipino women for 3 years and I finally visited her in Davao. A year later we were married and I brought her back to America. We have a great marriage with 2 children. It worked out well. She learned English well at classes here .
Before Covid
You are perfect in every way. Thank you for your show.
I'm doing the opposite. Mine is from Dumaguete and is very close to her family, we have built them a nice home on their farm. Our goal is to stay as close as needed for regular visits. I'm too old to want to be a father again, fortunately, she's scared to have a child with me because the pregnancy would be very difficult for her as she's tiny. (I'm huge). Bringing her to the US was the original plan, but things are weird in the states now. We prefer beach life, and I'm retired. Our choice was easy. Best of luck to you Roy, it sounds like you have a wonderful family.
How did you go about meeting here?
These marriages are so unscrupulous that you only see marriages out of obsession with money. There are no morals in a 70-year-old man with a 20-year-old woman, it's a contract with an elderly caretaker with the right to sex and an actress pretending to live a romance. A profession: "to be a docile woman and submit your true emotions to this media appeal of Philippine tourism.
I can't speak for most men, but I think I feel the same way as most. Not being able to speak perfect English isn't a problem. If you can speak some English, we can work with you to teach you English... at the same time, I try to learn Bisayan and Tagalog. Every day, we can learn something from each other and help the communication. You can't get emotional because you can't communicate what you want to say... we need to be patient with you, and you need to be patient with yourself. My wife is very smart, but she is from the provinces, she didn't go to college because she had to work to help support her family. We don't expect you to be perfect, just try. We know you are all smart and hard working and want to learn to communicate better, so communication won't be a big problem if there is patience on both sides.
Gossip is one of my biggest problems with Filipino culture. My wife lost a lot of friends because of dating, and eventually marrying, me. You have to put yourself ahead of what other people think about you. If you can't, dating a foreigner won't work for you.
Again, I can't speak for others, but I love shorter women with long hair. I love my wife's small boobs, they are perfectly sized for her body. I love her dark skin and that she does not have a 'long nose'. These are all things she is worried about. One suggestion I would make to Filipina's is not to wear such big padded bras. He'll like what you have... but if you have him expecting one thing, and you have another, it is like lying to him. Don't lie to a guy you like.
Murph, wow best comment on here! So I very much agree!
I love your skin tone
Murphy..
You're exactly right,
Many Asian ladies don't realize we love them exactly as they are..
My girl has small but in my view perfect boobs...yet she wears padding...so each day I tell her how much I love the mouth full of boobs, and slowly she's going away from the idea of Wearing padding...
Hello Rubeuti I like to say not to let gossips from your so called friends to ruin your relationship with a foreign boyfriend when you feel something special about him and really like his attitude towards you. I come across some girls do get jealous when they see you have found someone special. Just go with your gut feelings on how you feel for that guy and hope for the best outcome.🙏🏻👍🏻
I have been attempting to learn tagalog as know some common words that is shared between Filipinas and foreigner but struggling to learn / memorize more to learn tagalog language more. Any tips or suggestions? I even looked at babel but they don't offer Filipino language.
For people that are nervous about speaking english, just keep the 7-38-55 rule in mind. Only 7% of communication is actually verbal (the words you use). 38% is based on the Tone you use as opposed to the words, and 55% is body language (non-verbal)
It's good to encourage people, but verbal skills are more important than you think.
And all foreigners are not native English speaker, I learned English at 14 at school, could barely speak until 20. Filipino have a big advantage as English is very present everywhere.
Sounds like those numbers have been plucked from thin air.
Have a lot
of usable money.
And all is okey.
Hello Rubeauti , You speak very well from my observation. I’ve been in a relationship with a filipina for 4 years now … I found at first communication was a little difficult, but I did not let that deter our relationship. If you really care about the person, you should help your partner speak and learn what words mean without disrespecting them . My filipina speaks very well and if she has difficult time explaining something, I help her to say the proper way without being judgmental. I think all Filipinas are beautiful in there skin color. I never knew that Filipinas pay for pills or creams to get white. I told my filipina we foreigners are spending money to get your skin color lol 😝… I told her not to waste her money on such products and she is beautiful no matter what her skin color. 😊😊😊great topics and good video!!!
true, true, true...
When Filipina try to be white and there not when they do that i look at them like a badjao there a stereotype people they don't take what God gave them color to be brown but yet they want to be white skin color it's similar to a man that want's to be a woman their both condeemed by the Bible
no one asked
It amazing how white women in the USA spend money at tanning salons and creams to get darker skin snd Asian women spent their money to get white??? I love Asian complexions, dark skin or light brown is all beautiful.
Never Worry .. I am English, but love how Foreign speakers actually enhance and enrich the Language by not knowing or following certain so-called rules
That’s it really isn’t it, what is “proper English”, many say RP, what the Queen speaks certainly isn’t. Yorkshire, Devon, Glaswegian, English spoken in the arse of Ireland? It’s all very different. It could be argued there are more Indians speaking English than there are Brits, so by volume, is this accent more correct? I hope not. Lol.
No disrespect to Indians, but from all the English accents globally, that is one of the more tiring to listen to 😅
Rubeauti, This is another great video. Spot on about the likes and dislikes. My Filipina is always concerned with "chismis" (gossip) hope I spelled it correctly? She's quite aware that I love the darker skin tones, and that we will be on the water or beach for a large part of our lives, she's ok with it. But she loves my lighter skin. As for the English barrier... When I was getting to know her, she was very shy about her communication skills and how she was pronouncing words, so each day she read books for me 1 hour per day. We began with very simple childrens books, and worked up to adult novels. Her English came along quite well in a very short time. Our biggest hurdle was convincing her that the person teaching English to her when she was a child taught her wrong. The word "river" was "reever". Now, she's doing great. I've never tried to change the cute little things that she says when I'm doing a common chore like cooking or cleaning.. She always says, "I will be the one.." or "I will sleep back". I just love these little things, you too have the same kind of things when you talk. But I wouldn't change a thing. Some of my friends have commented, "can't you find an American woman?" Yes, I can, but have you seen a 62 year old American woman who would treat me as well as a Filipina? Nope, nor are they as sweet. (no offense). Hope I don't get too many harsh comments, thanks again for sharing your knowledge. Don't change.
English is not my first, my native language, so I fully understand these battles of a Filipina. What I experienced is that English speaking people in general like to correct one but I hated that most of the time because it did not stimulate more conversation. We all need to practice it and corrections are valuable but not all of the time 😁
JVDMerwe, I'm American and speak, I've been told slang! I don't have good English skills! I look up to multi- language people cuz I can't speak One! I don't correct anyone speaking, writing English nor do I judge!
Bradley, love to hear that. Thank you. I'm South African and in my work environment speak my native language only 5 percent of a workday😁
English speaking people in general will not correct you, no, unless it absolutely has to come up because of a misunderstanding.
You are really setting TH-cam on fire with your timely and knowledgeable vlogs. I've noticed the up tick recently in your channels subscriptions, and I sincerely encourage you to continue doing exactly what you are. Rubeauti, I find your perspectives very insightful and rewarding regarding your country, people and culture. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Rubeauti, this video made me think about self-esteem in general - It is not just a characteristic of Flipina:foreigner relationships, but most likely all relationships between people. Thanks for making me think!
As far as language barrier that is easily overcome. My wife is Filipina Chinese. Her first language is Tagalog and secondary is mandarin but she is also fluent in English. At first there were a few problems. She learned formal English but we Americans have a lot of slang in our vocabulary. Sometimes she had a hard time with that and occasionally there were misunderstandings and she would get angry and of course sometimes I had a problem understanding her but after awhile you work it out. The barrier is not that serious because most Filipinas are fluent in English. As far as your friend worrying about meeting her online friend. I call friend because you can’t possibly really know someone until you spend time with them in person. I met my wife online and we met in person shortly after but we dated for 6 years before we married. I hope your friend takes the time to go slowly and get to know the guy for awhile. If he doesn’t understand and gets pushy my opinion is he is not the right one.
Today is our 11th Monthsary 😁
I love celebrating every month and can't wait to say anniversary next month ❤️
It took the first three months to get her to talk more, but I knew the more we were together, the better we would get at understanding each other.
After watching this, I sent the video to her and told her everything I felt about these topics and how much she means to me.
I really wish I could be there in person, and one day it will happen and I'm not going to want to leave 😂
She is so amazing and so beautiful in my eyes, and I hope she knows that..
I am an American and was able to meet with my Filipina girl friend for a few weeks after a year long LDR. We are closer now since we spent time together. We were ourselves during the LDR, so there were no big surprises. Her English has always been more than adequate. I am struggling to learn Tagalog and Ilocanos as she is teaching me. The video chats with white LED lighting had usually made her skin appear lighter complexion and she said she was actually brown. When we met in person I realized her skin was darker than I expected, and I love it. We have a 20 year age gap but we don’t notice it. Now, I am in the USA and we are back into the LDR mode again and miss each other very much. I hope to go back the Philippines once every 6 months until we get together permanently.
I don't know how old you are but if you have a 20 year age gap i'd guess you're at least 40 and by that age you should be able to figure out how to see her more than once in 6 months. LDRs generally don't work out well, if you really love her then take her with you or find a way to work remotely and stay in the Philipines otherwise it's not likely to go well in the long term.
@@amazonseller-yf8vv We won’t be rushing into things like many young people do. Things will work out.
no one asked
@@giannilyanicks1718 After a lot of drama, I have come to appreciate a boring life. 😀
@@rolandmueller7218 will you stop harassing me creepy old man!
I always teach my filipina better English, not make fun of her. When we first met she would say things like "my nose has water" I taught her we say "I have a runny nose." Or "my neck hurt when I eat" which I realized she meant "I have a sore throat. It hurts when I swallow." Her English has gotten a lot better. Patience and teaching goes a long way toward communicating. And I learn Tagalog as well. I can only imagine how hilarious my Tagalog must sound to her. We're not offended if we find what the other says funny. We laugh together and teach each other. Filipinas are much better at English than in other countries, so there's at least a much better starting point for communication. ✌️
Tagalog is a tough language. It took me several hours to master one phrase I could use when I met my wife's relatives.
Hi Rebeauti, I would guess that many Filipinas are anxious when they venture into dating a Westerner. There is no better way to put your best foot forward than to be authentic in presenting who you are, and what you represent. Many of the fears about A-Z can be put to rest if the person is honest in presenting a truthful representation of all areas of their life. The superficial areas of concern such as dark Armpits are not a deal breaker nor is where and how they live, be it in the province or the NCR. Most men Westerners are looking for a solid woman that has good moral values, is open to a new life with a person from a different culture and will accept them as they are. Putting on Airs to project someone you are not will confuse and probably turn-off a good man. If the man is looking for a marriage minded Filipina and he himself is authentic all he wants is a good woman. Going beneath the surface to find if a the right person is like a hunting expedition once you have found what you think is a good woman he probably will try to find out who you really are and if you have been honest he will conclude that you will be worth the chase. The bottom line don't lie about anything, don't be ashamed of being a Filipina and all that entails, be proud, and be be real , put on your thinking hat and do your homework by asking many questions to determine if the Foreigner is authentic. Most will be there for a short time 3-4 weeks but its possible to understand his real motivations.
Thanks for your video, Rubeauti. It was instructive, as usual. I met a girl recently, and we watched your video this morning. That will surely help her to start discussing topics she's shy to talk about. 👍
Hi Rubeauti! Another candid video on a great topic and you cover it very well. It's very enjoyable listening to someone who is genuine and honest and revealing about themselves that you are. There's several things here so there's several things to talk about. Foreigners and their bananas, speaking as an American, I would not want to hurt a Filipina and I wouldn't know of anybody who would. Preparation is key, conversations are key, understanding is key. Breast size, every Foreigner who dates a Filipina knows that they are A and B cups and appreciate it because someone who doesn't take care of themselves looks pretty saggy after 40 years old. Most of these fears like dark skin, dark this, dark that, foreigners appreciate. Body size, body type are what foreigners come to the Philippines for. Chismis isn't something that most foreigners would appreciate because we are typically honest and open about how we feel and don't really care whether people judge us. We've learned that judging people is a waste of time and unless you know somebody's story, you certainly can't judge them. Most foreigners understand the economy of the Philippines, majority of people in the Philippines are working class people that don't have much and that should be expected. Coming to the Philippines for sex and then leaving without making any kind of commitments, most importantly because there's a lot of Filipino men who romance of Filipina and enjoy intimacy until she gets pregnant and then they leave. Most foreigners would either take precautions to make sure that doesn't happen or have candid conversations and plan. Plan on having or not having children. So even though the sex might be great it's still the same situation where either you have considerations for family planning or you don't, Filipino women look at sex like it's something that they're giving when westerners foreigners are usually more about pleasing as much as being pleasured. If a foreigner is showing interest in a filipina, it's with the knowledge of how they look, the culture, the economy, the desire to understand fears and passions and dreams and to share them candidly and for both people to have open eyes and open minds. Please contact me for further comments/questions/contact.
You're so honest, open and funny Rubeauti! I like a partner who has another language, I find it really attractive. I always want to learn words in another language too. I think patience and love can sort most communication problems. I also think hair is a matter for the person alone. I've loved girls with hairy parts and also girls who take off body hair. Loved both equally so I support your choice! Gossip is a problem everywhere I think. Need to overcome the insecurity that has you listening to it. I can do a lot to help that. Men tend to exaggerate the size of their bananas so that doesn't help dispel the rumours! I've never met a guy in real life who comes close to a horse 😂 Stay well lovely Rubeauti, love you too pretty lady! ❤️🥰
WTF, 😂😂 Men tend to exagerate the size of their saging 🤣 🤣 okay, not a horse, but how about....."it was like a baby's arm holding an apple".😆😁😁
Hi Rubeauti. Great intercultural communication requires patience, understanding and perhaps a little self deprecation. Or at least the ability to laugh at oneself. I would only correct a Filipina girlfriend if she expressed the desire for me to help her improve her English. However, I would never correct her in public in front of her friends. That would simply be rude. It would always be in private and always in a loving and caring tone. It takes time to develop the trust with each other so you know that any correction is coming from a place of love and not a place of judgement. For most westerners, proper grammar is not an issue at all. As long as you can be understood, it's good. If there is something I don't understand, I will ask questions for clarification. And my lack of understanding is my issue, not hers. She is communicating in a language that is not her own. Chismis is everywhere. I would ignore it. Most westerners would, I believe. One may even find it fun to plant their own rumor seeds and watch them grow. It could be good humor. I don't understand the focus on under arm skin color. I've never met a man who cares about that. We only care about not having hair there. That's too masculine and we expect filipinas to be feminine. Here's an interesting tidbit. Quite a lot of men may enjoy looking at larger breasts but in reality they prefer smaller ones. I think that a Filipina doesn't need to worry about her living conditions when considering a foreigner relationship. As long as she is always honest, he is going to be very understanding and accepting. Most westerners have been lied to enough by women through their lives. They do not want to come to the Pinas just to be lied to again. As far as bananas go, statistically only 3% of the population have more than 6 inches. The statistical average is actually 5.25 inches. So, I think filipinas don't have to worry too much for the most part. And in those other cases, I'm sure he will be gentle if he cares for her. I can certainly understanda Filipina not wanting to be used. But she is likely getting used by her own countrymen as well if she isn't careful about who she selects as a partner. The proof is in the number of single mothers in your country. It's epidemic at best. Guys have the same fear of being used, but for money, not sex. Also statistically, the younger the westerner is the more likely he just wants sex. Obviously that doesn't mean some older guys aren't this way, but generally that likelihood fades as he gets older. Most guys are looking to retire to your country and start a new life with a long term partner and a serious relationship. Because compatibility is extremely important in the success of a relationship, he may have to be with several filipinas before he finds the one that works for him. And filipinas should understand this also. You can never really know if you are compatible unless you live together for a while. But guys, if you have to break up, please try to do it gently because she has likely committed herself to your relationship. There should have been some discussions along the way about what isn't working so if that breakup does come, you both know why. Many times it can be amicable if handled properly. That's my two pesos worth for today.
Great info! Thank you!
Some good points that had to be said. Not surprised she didn't "heart" your reply though, probably took offence.
Very well said.
@Con Descending that is unlikely. Filipinas seem to be very good at just putting you in the past and moving on. That's not to say they wouldn't be heartbroken if they truly cared for you. It simply means they have learned to move forward quickly. If you had somehow developed a very good relationship with the family, it might be possible that they would want to talk to you to find out why you broke up and they may want to try to remedy the situation. But I would presume if you are breaking up with her then you have tried to remedy whatever the issues might be to no avail. Just move on and cut off contact with her and the family unless you really want to fix the problems. It very seldom works out that the family can convince her to change her ways. Even then, she will usually harbor animosity because of it as she would only be with you to appease her family.
I don't want to be mean but you sound like Dr Phil
You have no problems when it comes to speaking,we totally understand what ur saying and as u said u are getting better everyday. And everything about ur skin is beautiful!
I love your content and it is very good to hear a Filipina lady talk about reasons why Filipinas do not date foreigners. You are an excellent teacher for all men.
As an American, I would never try to correct a person when they are speaking English and I think that Filipina women are some of the most beautiful women in the world.
You are so beautiful who need to speak good English.
I’m meeting with my Filipina girlfriend next weekend after over 2 years of LDR. She admitted to me the other day that she was afraid to meet because she’s embarrassed about her limited spoken English. I just told her not to worry about it because her English is much better than my Visayan 🤷🏽♂️ Until she feels more confident she can just use her phone to type what she wants to say, her written English is almost perfect and I’m used to communicating with her like that anyway.
I respect anyone who speaks more than one language, it’s a skill they should be proud of.
@@Rubeauti Thank you 🙏🏼 I hope so too. It’s gonna be a big change from LDR to in person
Good luck for both of you, Matt 🙏
Just to let you know the language is called Bisaya. The central islands of the Philippines is called the Visayas or the Visayan Islands
C'mon! You speak english VERY well...!!! We all understand you and respect the fact you are willing to share so much with us. If a man truly loves his mate, he is patient with her. He's also kind, he does not envy others nor does he boast and is never proud or self seeking. He is humble in his ways. His love does not dishonor her and is not easily angered. He keeps no record of wrongs. His love always protects her, always trusts her, always hopes in her and always perseveres for the best outcome. This is a hard standard for many, but the man with these qualities is a gold mine... and of course, a woman's love should be the same for her mate. We all enjoy your transparency, Rubeauti! I'm already ready for your next video!
I have been talking to Filipina couple of months now and we are growing closer to each other at an extremely fast pace. We noticed it, talked about it and decided to just go all in despite what might feel or rather what other people might think about it, about us. We are making our own rules, we don't care what others say. It requires a lot of trust that's for sure, and you are creating an opening that might potentially hurt in the end, it's always 50\50. There are no guarantees but tbh are there ever in love? That's why I recommend being ready to go as soon as possible and see for yourself. We are planning my trip at the moment and hopefully it will happen this year. It’s not easy, there are a lot of requirements in the post-pandemic world but it's very doable. It might be a bit easier for us because we are very serious about making this work, it's a long term operation from the get go. What I would recommend is to be realistic about this whole thing, come up with a plan but move one step at the time, don't overthink it. Just let the feelings develop. I noticed that Filipinas aren’t like typical girls in Europe or the rest of the world for that matter, definitely not what we are used to. They are caring, loving and devoted. They don't judge, you don't fight any expectations, no prince on white horse with 3 cars and 2 houses is needed in this tale. What they need is to feel loved and safe. I adore the girl I am talking to, she is like my mirror, like my twin. We never get bored with talking to each other, which you might think is weird because we are in constant contact. I mean like we are spending time with each other every minute of every day, to the point where getting to sleep starts to get very annoying. The 6h time difference is a growing problem of ours but we are handling it. She’s tough, very smart and cute to the point where those 17k km feels like not that much anymore.
GL and if my girl sees this, bebe ILU.
My wife and I have been married for 13 yrs now. Our biggest issue we’re miscommunication. I often would say things and she totally misunderstood what I meant. She always seems to think I was talking bad to her. The other issues were culture based. My wife never wants to admit she was wrong about anything. It’s crazy to me. Family is important to both of us but she has a much greater feeling of obligation to them than I do. We live in Florida and because of the Covid restrictions have not been to the Philippines in several years. Personally I have a little difficulty staying at her house there. I do it but my comfort level is compromised more than I would like. If ever make the trip again all the kids (nieces and nephews) will no longer be kids. They are already dating some have started or will soon be starting college or working. My wife has also lost several members of her immediate family.(mother and brother) . Our next visit will be different I think.
Over the years I have not seen hesitation in Filipinas dating foreigners. I sometimes have seen their expectations of what their husbands should be willing to do for them as being way to high or unreasonable. Mostly involved helping her family out. Fortunately for me that’s never been a problem. We of course help her family but not to excess. A friend of mine divorce his Filipino wife because of this. She turned it into a monthly obligation and often did this behind my friends back. I often think Filipinos think our resources are bottomless. They do realize that although we may have more than they do doesn’t mean we are rich.it costs a lot of money to live in the US . Money doesn’t come easy to most of us. Financial I have been fortunate. I’ve tried to explain to my wife most Americans had to work hard to get the things they have. When we were first married my wife thought we had a maid. I told her maids in the US are expensive. Then I took her to a large mirror we have and introduced her to our maid . I also told her to understand I’m the gardener, fix it guy and driver. Most of our adjustments are behind us now thank god.
It's very important to show them the mirror and introduce them to the maid. You have to tell them, hey babe, listen this is how it goes, I work every day, I pay for this house, for the lights and water, fix things that get broken, buy new things for the home protect the family and even help your family, so you don't have to work but the least you could do is spend one hour cooking and one hour cleaning every day, if you want to do more that would be reasonable because i work much more and come home to additional responibilities, but 2 hours a day isn't much to ask consdiering everything you get in return is it???
You just gotta tell em like that and then just watch and see how they react.
I was speaking to a Philippine women who told me about her experience.
She meet a western guy she had been talking with online and they stayed in a nice hotel
in the Philippines, she thought he liked her and he was very sweet so in the end she gave in
and gave herself to him, after one week he told her he was leaving next day because he had another girl
he was meeting in the Philippians... I can truly understand why it's so hard to win the trust of a Philippine women
Omg😢
what a sad story that is
I have a lovely little province girl .. she's a beautiful soul .. my view is marriage .. I don't date more than one woman .. she fills my heart enough .. I love her so much ..
On a universal level, communication is about understanding, honesty, openness, and sincerity. You are a strong communicator, and you speak beautifully. In addition, you have grace and elegance. You are blessed with natural beauty. You’re a star, and everybody knows it, etc etc
Good morning to you Rubeauti. I learned a long time ago you can be anybody you want over the internet. And that works for both sides of the countries. You should never be fearful of your English speaking because you know two languages most Americans only know one.
As for the color of the skin that has never mattered, matter of fact I like the brown bronze color better.
As for the women being small up top, that is no worry for it's how will you get along that counts to me.
As for people talking behind your back that has never bothered me because I know who I am and never care what they say.
When you fall in love it doesn't matter if they're rich or poor. 🙏🏼 Bless you for all your help Rubeauti, (Ricky)===:::
My Filipina worries about her English but I tell her not to worry i understand everything she tells me I tell her just keep talking English the more you speak it the better you will learn it
I understand my Filipina girlfriend maybe 90% of the time. Every once in awhile she says something I don’t understand. But one I just love lol and I do not want to correct her and have not in 18 months, and that is the word “withing”. I wanted to figure it out myself what she means by it, and it meant waiting lol. I am still withing for you honey, or with honey, I will be right back lol. I love it haha.
Rubeauti I never realized how much you edit these vlogs until you said something about it. That says a lot about your integrity and hard work you put into it. I appreciate it 👍 It’s refreshing to see you are proud of your natural given body and not trying to facade it with padding or fake mirage 😊
You speak so well. I always admire people who speak a second (or more) language. It is hard. I know.
It is nice to see you in another good video! It would be helpful to Filipinas that men from the western world would learn a lit Tagalog or Bisaya before entering the Philippines. I am currently learning Tagalog because I am purchasing a condo in Davao City. It would help to get as much education before you leave the western world. Yes, it is harder to learn language if you are a math student. I find it extremely difficult to learn languages but I can do taxes with my eye shut. I really appreciate the content of your culture that you present on this channel. I am looking forward to my move to the Philippines and doing my best to be prepare to live there. Again thank you for your content!!!
@@Rubeauti maybe not as bad as I with language. I sound like I have some kinda sickness with my mouth trying to talk in a different language.
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I've dated a few Filipina. The one I'm with na is teaching me Tagalog and I'm working with her on her English. She has said something about wanting lighter skin. I've told her that I love her skin tone. Besides, her looks attracted me. But wow, that personality is what is keeping me. BTW, most western women don't like extreme large "bananas"
Sometimes that which seems like it's a blessing can be a bit of a curse.
western women do not like old farts dating underage girls .....thats the real issue not your banana//////////
My fiancé is Philipino, she is so lovely and I’m grateful we can communicate so well, she is the wisest and most amazing woman i have ever met. It just takes time.
Another good vlog. I always enjoy your sincerity in your conversations. For the record, you are extremely articulate in speaking English, more so than some of my fellow Americans. More success to you Miss Rubeauti.
The big communication barrier between my wife and I was that we thought..dreamed..planned..calculated and schemed in different languages. And our instinctual and immediate emotional reactions were based on different cultural experiences. My Tagalog was limited to a small memorized vocabulary that was difficult to learn. Her English was simple and there was really no understanding behind it..just words. Often I would be left wide-eyed and totally bewildered at her response to a very innocent and simple attempt at humor. Her younger sister would go totally silent..her mother who spoke no English would glance at me and shake her head. A few days would pass depending on how many coins she had in her pouch...sometimes maybe 4 or 5 until time to go to SM and the wet market and all would be forgiven and forgotten. Salamat again little sister :)
This is so true , because they can say a few words don’t mean they understand what your saying, it can become even more difficult when your in a LDR
Couldn’t help but chuckle a little bit about the “humour” stuff 😅
I sometimes don’t get some of it but an hour or two had passed, it’ll be like an epiphany lol
Anyone with half a brain knows that humour is only graspable to advance speakers of a language. You must have never learned a language before.
She sounds uneducated
no one asked
Communication is always key in any relationship however communication is not just about spoken language. It's a huge advantage for the Philippines that so many there do speak English and I think anyone who is looking to settle there would do well to learn the local language to help them communicate better.
It's interesting to hear your friends reservations but I wonder perhaps you should ask them what they think attracts foreigners to them, usually it is because they are different to the women in their own country. Certainly in the western countries there isn't really the same concept of losing face as there is in Asia, some people seem to enjoy embarrassing themselves actually.
Which local language
Rubeauti I think you do an excellent job of speaking English in your vlogs and I love your vlogs and the way you talk so please don't worry xx
I'm German, 58 and have practiced my English since 5th grade. Your English is pretty good, in fact it's perfect on a communicational level. And that's practically all you need. You're good in a foreign language once you start dreaming in English, use cursewords, codes (like the "D" you mentioned which I didn't know yet), get interested in idioms/sayings and start to use them, write your shopping list in English etc.
What got me really started on my English journey was when one of my teachers lent me all three copies of Lord Of The Rings by John Ronald Reuel Tolkien. I was a Fantasy fan but could understand only 1/3 of the vocabulary but strangely everything I didn't understand added to the dark mystery of it all. I read those 1500 pages in no time, I was bingereading, even with a flashlight under my blanket... From there on I was into English novels (Fantasy, Science Fiction, Adventures, Comics... and started reading Terry Pratchett, Sir Henry Rider Haggard, Isaac Asimov, Daniel Defoe, Eric Van Lustbader, Stephen R. Donaldson, Michael Moorcock, Terry Brooks, Asterix comics and whatnot. I also read magazines like Scientific American or National Geographic... Later I subscribed to Viki Standard Pass (viki.com; US website) where I watch South Korean dramas in Korean with English subs (No, I don't speak Korean). And I watch thousands of YT videos (so no time for TV or radio). I watch everything that's culture clash related 'cause it's so fascinating and funny at the same time.
On the subject of communication and the mistakes a Filipina will make. When I am chatting with someone if they do make a mistake I will sometimes weave what they have said (incorrectly) into my reply back to them but using it correctly of course. That way they can learn and don't feel embarrassed or that they are being corrected.
There is a language barrier to overcome in an intercontinental relationship
In your mother tongue you can say what you think - but in other languages you can only say what you have learned 😉
Your English is very good. I was born in Manila and then my folks wanted my sister and I to move to the US at the age of 7 and 8. We had no choice but to learn English even with tutors my sister and I still struggle so my parents said from now on we will just speak English and not Bicol. Because of this we lost the ability to speak fluently in our dialect and also Tagalog. So when I dated my ex gf Filipina in Manila her English got better because she speaks to me in Tagalog . I told her I understand Tagalog and Bicol just hard to speak. But she wanted to speak English and she said how do I get a American accent I told her to come to the US when your a little kid that’s the only way. My folks came to the US in 1969 and still have an accent . My mother’s English is still bad she can’t pronounce lots of English words. My father English is good.
@@Rubeauti I understand both Bicol and Tagalog but when speaking I combine both and I can’t differentiate from either or. So when I was in Bicol I just tell my younger cousins to speak in Bicol if they feel uncomfortable speaking English and I’ll just reply back in English. If I stayed longer then I’d pick it up since I’ll be force to communicate more. But English is my primary with this American accent…lol. So I’m considered a foreigner in my homeland. I think and act like an American being here since 8 years old. But I will still prefer to eat Filipino food since that’s my comfort food always.
@@Airraidcd wow, this reversed.. I wouldn't say cultural racism, but differentiation is really interesting, also the fact that you forgot to speak your mother tongue(s).
Still, I am happy for that you can still understand the fellow speakers of it :)
Perhaps you could get the grab of it after you have moved back for a while? Since it's not really something you have learnt by the school, but by listening to it as you have grown up.
All the best!
@@bistronauta Had to learn English once coming to the USA unfortunately back in the 70s no ESL classes so my folks made an executive decision to only speak English at home so my sister and I would continuously practice speaking and writing. Unfortunately I can only say phrases can’t do complete sentences. I would have to move back to the Philippines so I can practice but USA is my home for over 50 years. I would visit and see my relatives but that’s about it.
@@Airraidcd Thanks for sharing your story!
Rubeauti your English is excellent! And I can feel your kindness and genuineness through my screen. I hope you find your ideal person, you deserve it
Swede here so English is my second language too, and I have no problem at all understanding you! So worry less and keep up the great work!
I met my wife in Negros Oriental. She was a province girl. After 2 years of dating we got married in Tanjay City. She immigrated to U.S 2019 on spouse visa, and is now Manager of a grocery store just after 12 months. We are happily married 5 years now.
I find my filipina would wouldn't understand the subtext in some of our conversations. For example, " we need to fight for our relationship to succeed " meaning all the hurdles a relationship goes through. She would think we need to actually fight lol
I was born, raised, educated, and still live in a major city of America... but, "we need to fight for our relationship to succeed" left me guessing about what you were trying to say to that clueless filipina . 🤔 And, your "explanation" about jumping hurdles did little to nothing to help the matter.
Think about what it means, in English... to fight, to succeed, and to go through hurdles. I wouldn't lol at that poor girl's attempt to translate such nonsense... nakakainis.
@@woodpeckery wtf is wrong with you? It was an example about misunderstood sayings. Labeling her as clueless says alot about your education, basic.
I’m enjoying your channel. You are delightful and friendly and your English is, I believe, very good.
You are a very good representative of the beautiful Filipinas and the people of the Philippines.
Keep up the good work. You are helping us all learn. ❤️
Great content @Rabeauti, this was the third video of yours I just watched, new viewer here😁 Keep it up🥰
For the Filipina who worries about the Foreigner visiting the Philippines for a short time and then leaving:
This is the Foreigner's view on that.
I'm American. I retired early and I don't have to work anymore for money. I have my complete life established in America. My home, cars and everything is paid for. I have all my investments and bank accounts arranged.
Since I'm single I'm interested in a relationship but I don't like Modern Feminism in my country. I would like to have a Filipina in my life and possibly move to the Philippines if I had a reason to be there.
I'm planning to take at least 4 reasonably long vacations in different areas of the Philippines to see if I like the country, people, culture and climate.
Now to my main point....
While I'm in the Philippines on "vacation" I would like to be able to meet a Filipina and have some kind of a potential relationship because that would be the major reason to go through the trouble of selling everything and reestablishing myself in the Philippines. If a Filipina won't give me any of her time or attention for fear I'm going to leave then I really don't know if the Filipina likes me or not. If I think no Filipinas like me while I'm visiting then there is no reason to go back to the Philippines temporarily or permanently.
I think this is a logical feeling for anyone contemplating moving to another country if they already have deep roots in their home country.
(I would like a Filipina to latch onto me and give me an emotional motivating reason to bring my life to the Philippines.)
I've tried your strategy, been there multiple times, and even did a visa petition (never again). FYI, beware of many scams. As stated in this video, they absolutely don't want foreigners "for fun". It's only about settling and having a family as their retirement plan. The husband ranks about as high as the dog. It's all about family. The Sto Nino (baby Jesus) is everywhere. Women are blessed in processionals for having babies, while the men flog themselves. Actual crucifixions take place in most towns on Easter and the wounds of the penitents are said to heal miraculously. You'll soon realize it's all about marriage and procreation, with children as their 401K plan. So, you are stuck with two options: bar-girls or brides. Some vlogs tell you they can get a hot live-in lover. What they don't mention is they are bankrolling the family and will have one-itis and long dry spells. Vasectomies are imperative unless you want a baby every 9 months. IMHO, the live-in style only works with ladies who have a bunch of kids already, and the passion seems very fake. If you find a solution, please let me know. IRL and online, I never could find true love there. But, I did experience it when younger in the West. You won't find your last sentence in the PH unless you're extremely family oriented and view children as love. Peace.
Scott, you won't have any trouble finding a loving Filipina with good morals. Most of the v-loggers suggest that you do exactly as you've stated. Don't find one online, but wait until you are in the country. I met mine online, and I was lucky. Best wishes, I too am retired, in the process of moving there permanently. Enjoy that adventure.
@@bobbruce4135 Thank you for sharing your hard earned experience.
@@Roadglide59 Thank you. Good luck to you.
@@Roadglide59 Hi Jim, are you living in the PH with her? No kids? No rings? You can read my longer message to understand what I went through. I'm not interested in playing a gender role or bankrolling a family. I could afford it, but I don't see that as love.
Sex is indeed a very big "thing" for most men. It´s for many men as important as verbal communication skills. I wouldn´t classify the language barrier as a "big" problem. The divorce rate in western countries where both are native speakers tells a lot.
I blame sex and money for creating so many unnecessary problems. Take care of each other and make a joint budget so both understand the situation.
No divorce in Philippines or divorce stats would be no different than U.S instead they just split move on with there lives or get a foreigner to pay for annulment
You made me remember a joke as I read the first line........Sex is like oxygen.....there isn't a problem...until you aren't getting any.😂😂😂😂😂😂
Always captivated by your content, keep doing what your doing....🤗🤗
I can see where they are not up on the English, especially the slang we use!! Thank you again my love!! Love u lots!
I'm a weirdo. I think it's so cute how filipinas speak English! You feel like a king, even though when you're home, you speak lots of Slang words which is how everyone speaks 🇬🇧🇺🇸 so what filipinas don't realise is when we speak to you, and you speak in proper English? It's almost as difficult for us trying to talk to you as if I was the Queen 💪😅💙
I'm Scottish, most English and Americans can't understand me Ru 🤭
My Filipina that I fell in love with online told me that I was unique and different and that most men are addicted to sex chatting and that turned her off and blocked them. It's funny because my Filipina has better English than me, I'm French Canadian. I hope to be able to meet her by the end of 2022, I have to take the covid vaccines to go there and it is only the reason I take the vaccines is to find true love.
H-52, I agree and really with vaccines! Now they want "Booster", more BS!
Anything to find true Love!
Vaccines not required now my friend
Thanks for the real info Rubeauti. It's refreshing.
You do a great job!! I admire Filipinas for speaking English which is not their first language. Foreigners need to be understanding.
Isn't learning each other's language and culture part of the fun of dating?
I had a Belarusian friend at university who got annoyed with me for not constantly correcting her. I just didn’t want to frustrate her when trying to communicate.
I love the way Filipinas speak English and their accent. i also never correct anyone when I am there unless they ask me to do so. I know how self-conscious many are and would only correct a word or phrase when asked.
I think you do really well speaking English. One of the biggest hang ups with my ex and I when it came to communication. She spoke really good English nut speaking and understanding are 2 completely different things. More than a language barrier, we had an understanding barrier.
Yes Chismus is detrimental to a foreigner/Filipina relationship.
Personally I prefer darker skin on my partner.
Been watching filipina vids for 9 years and u are 1st to say the big age difference is a big deal there. Almost all the others say it's no big deal. Now you have me doubting it.
Btw, most Americans prefer darker skin.
I currently live in Philippines a few years now. Only a small percentage of women would even consider a foreigner relationship. These are mainly the “leftovers” ie single moms, obese, older……. Also You don’t see age gap here unless it’s with a foreigner. Obviously we foreigners have to pay for relationships here in the Phil’s. So the desperate women that will date us don’t care about your age, handsome or not, fat or fit. Just pay the girl or the family.
Also they date each other for “love” that’s why they don’t do age gap. Also they are much into appearance. They love clean, neat handsome Filipino men.
Anyway the bottom line is you can pay for a relationship here.
@@Imold774 you are only person saying this. Btw a man's financial security is even more important in USA
Miss Rubeati,
Thank you for sharing. Today you brought forth real day to day concerns of Filipinas and Foreigners alike...you covered much, so I will attempt to share my views as I remember you speaking to those topics...my last employment was in a casino in Southern California where many Filipinos are employed..I remember a Filipina coworker telling me that so and so was married to a much older guy..where this statement came from I don't know, she just felt compelled to gossip and this happened in the US, imagined if she was in the Philippines where gossip is a pass time...on the topic of bananas yes is true, Foreigners are much bigger, in your last vlog I told a story where I went to a public bath house in China and confirmed all Asian guys had small bananas...just like small Asian girls have tiny you know what this is all relative to body size..bigger man, bigger hands, bigger banana, that simple...on the topic of foreigners using Filipinas then ghosting them, this is true..recently I read a story about a foreigner empregnating 8 women and running off..When I was in Vietnam visiting some years ago I came across a forum where foreigners would share their escapades how many Asian girls they slept with and ghosted..this made me very angry because I wasn't one of them, I was truly looking for a wife...my suggestion to your friends about where to find serious and honest, foreigners would be a Christian date website..I'm sure not all men claiming to be Christians are, nonetheless risk is reduced vs other places....my suggestion to you: As you know, one of the traits us foreigners chase in the Philippines is femininity. Dresses 👗 make ladies look more feminine, you look truly amazing in that...
My Wife is from Cebu. We have been married since 2019. I have been with her for soon to be Nine Years. When we first met, her English Skills were very good because she is a BEED Major and works for a Japanese Electronics Company in the Philippines.
The mindset of a Foreign Man has to be of understanding that English is not the First Language of the Filipina however the mindset of the Filipina needs to be that Tagalog, Ilocano, or Cebuano/Visayan Language is not the Native Language of the Foreign Man. At times I have to tell my Wife English and Explain so she will stop and realize she is speaking Cebuano to me. My Wife laughs realizing what she did but there is no anger or argument.
My Wife being married to a Reverend Pastor makes our marriage different because we do not argue and there is never "TAMPO". My Wife is my Pastoral Assistant assisting me so helps me with my Outreach Ministry there in Cebu.
With me I was different because I grew up around Filipinos in the US and my very first GF was a Filipina living in the US. I went to the PI with knowledge about Filipino Culture before meeting my Wife. When we went to the Province to meet her Family (There was approx. 130) I brought a Big Size Lechon, Macaroni Salad, Spaghetti, a big bucket we made Punch, a large Sheet Cake from Goldie Locks, and Ice Cream. I brought Ten Giant Size Bags of Chocolates for the Kids which was gone in less that Five Minutes.. I also brought gifts for her Father (Her Mother is in Heaven), and her Siblings. Doing this showed RESPECT. The Gifts were simple things from the USA like T-Shirts and Ball Caps. I brought boxes of Chocolates for my Wife and her Two Sisters. The one gift which SEALED THE DEAL WITH MY WIFE FATHER WAS I GAVE HIM A CASIO WATCH I PURCHASED ON AMAZON FOR LESS THAN $40.00 He was so grateful, he wore it all the time until he died and he was buried wearing it because he TREASURED IT. My Major Regret is I did not buy his a nicer watch before he died. I am sad he did not live to see us get married.
My point to this is the one thing my Wife had was Trust and Faith I was not tricking or deceiving her. She waited Five Years before we got married and I gave her a Dream Wedding which none of her Family or Friends have ever seen before. That was my gift to her for believing and trusting me. The Wedding cost approx. $15,000 US which was php750,000 there was over 250 Guest at a Five Star Hotel with sit down serving and not buffet. Three Minister Colleagues Officiated and the Entourage of Brides Maids, Junior Brides Maids, Groomsman and Junior Groomsman plus Sponsors was over 40 people. I chartered a Ceres Bus plus two Vhar Vans to transport her family to and from the Province. I hired five vihar Vans to shuttle her workmates for work to the venue. The Vans mate several trips back and forth with passengers and several trips back and forth bringing them back. We then tipped the Drivers plus gave them all food and drink. A Wedding like ours in the US would have costed over $100,000. The Wedding Gown, my Barong and Pants were all custom made by the Dressmaker
A Big shout out to Vangails Perfect Union who did an Excellent job for us. I want to hire her again for of Fifth Anniversary Celebration.
One last thing is my Wife never know until after we were married that I was a Minister. She sensed I knew a lot when speaking at a Colleague Church. The Colleague said you read the bible well you know something and gave me a look but I did not say anything until after we were married. Once I revealed is when he said I could tell there was something about you.. I now do what I can to support his Ministry because in the PT there is so much POVERTY.
Good video Rubeati very informative 😎 I appreciate it keep up the good content
Though I’ve watched practically all your vlogs, this is my first time commenting. Firstly, your English is very, very good. Your diction and the use of adverbs, pronouns and such couldn’t be better. Truthfully, you and your friends who even attempt to speak English have more going for yourselves because most Americans only speak one language. Please inform your friends and those who bleach their skin that that’s not what most men are looking for as it denotes insecurity in oneself. Most men who date Filipinas are looking for a “natural” woman; not one who is artificial. Also, most, if not all men, aren’t looking at your underarms; that’s insignificant unless there’s a jungle growing there.
more good info, thanks 🙂 Communication is more than just vocabulary and grammar. A Mexican girlfriend and I had trouble with certain expressions, sayings and colloquialisms. She speaks perfect English, perhaps better than mine, but at times we had no idea what each other was talking about 😏 For example, if I told someone here that I really like big bananas they would understand I prefer bigger longer pieces of yellow 🍌 But, if spoken out of context in PH about big bananas… wow, that could get really embarrassing 🤣
I understand your English perfectly. And don't worry about using the "easy" words. Most people do. I've written two novels and have found that my readers don't appreciate the effort I put into expounding my vocabulary. They want the easy words.
Sometimes I can never understand why many Filipina scared of these issues if they already know that they are dating a foreign man:
1. Worried they are coming for short vacation. (Well, most of them do have jobs in their country, unless you are referring to retirees. And the word "Foreign" is there for a reason, many of them might not even have applied for visa or citizenship. In any case, this is part of a deal of international marriage/dating, not just restricted to PH)
2. Worried about language (I mean the Filipina do understand that English is the typical main language that most foreigners spoke right? Particularly for US. What do they expect out of the foreigner? Wanting them to learn Tagalog in order to date? In that case why not just date a local Filipino, there are tons of good talented guys out there)
3. LDR (Same issue, isn't that expected? This is part of the deal unless 1 party decides to give up their residence and relocate to the other country. If Filipina are worried, please date a local Filipino.)
4. Underarm and body color etc (Why would the foreign guy bother chasing a Filipina and wanting to date her if he despise her looks in the first place? There are tons of whiter girls in other countries. The initiative by foreigner in chasing the Filipina already shows that they are attractive to their personality, color and outlook.)
5. Lying about their living lifestyle (No point tbh, the foreign guy will eventually find out. In fact, most of them knows their currency advantage and that PH is a 3rd world country. If they are looking for rich girls, there are a larger pool of girls in other 1st world countries. Most foreigner guys who date Filipina don't really care about their lifestyle and finances, its more about accepting different cultures)
I have watched several of your videos now and I have to say I am very impressed by your wisdom. Since I was married to a Pinay for 9 years I have experienced most, if not all the things you mention.
I’d be happy to marry another Filipina but since Covid the ratio of scammers to honest girls has changed dramatically to the point that I have ceased attempting to communicate with any Filipina
Another Great Informational Video! Thank You!
Of course communication is important. Both people are trying to get a message across that each can understand. As a westerner , I think most of us know not everybody speaks perfect English. And also are very forgiving to those women that are trying to communicate with us. And we also know how frustrating it must be for them and sometimes for us too, because sometimes we, as foreigners, don’t understand what you are trying to tell us. This is how FRIENDSHIPS start. And if a relationship is to grow, then it starts with patience on both sides and then is allowed to flourish. I don’t know about everyone, but many foreigners understand we are in a 3rd world, developing country and understand not everyone comes from Macati or the BGC area. And we understand you the native Plipina, wants to impress us in thinking if you come from a “similar” background or upbringing we will be accepting of you. Some maybe, some maybe not. But I think it is better to be the real you richer or poorer and let us know who you really are. Relationships are built on trust and to be a “fake you” would be more disappointing than you, the native, can realize to us. Some of us will be happy to help, IF we can. Others will walk away from you thinking you are “below them, or not good enough”. And if they do walk away , let them go..!!! God says “charity starts at home”. Be charitable to yourself knowing that when one door closes, another one ( maybe a better one…. or two ) will open for you. As far as “bananas, “gossip, and bring them back to the province, that is a personal call that is made only after some time passes. But the one thing I can say is don’t be afraid to try to communicate. Fear is one of the biggest reasons why people never achieve their goal. So I say step outside of you zone of comfort and be brave. No one knows what treasures can be had if you really try……. PS thanks for your videos and content. Keep up the GREAT work…..
You are adorable. Please do not be ashamed or embarrassed by your English - it is very good. I want to say "thank you" for making your videos. They are very helpful and bring me peace. ❤
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Thank you so much! I'm so grateful for your kind words and for taking the time to watch my videos. 💛
Hi Rubeauti
Your English is excellent 😊
You speak the language much better than many Australians.
Cheers Al
Rubeauti.... your English is Excellent!!!! Ive sat thru many University Classes in USA, and The Professors... did NOT Communicate at your Level... Not Even Close.... You Connect at So Many Levels... Your Integrity, and your Genuineness... for Starters..... Your Going Places!!!! Deservingly So!!!! and I hesitate to say this, but ....
Your Crazy Natural Beauty(X1000) is just another PLUS!!!!!!!
Not a problem. The fact that you can even communicate in English is awesome. I can work with that .
Rubeauti, you are pretty much what we are all looking for! You seem to be pretty much perfect. Thank you for your fantastic content, it is very informative😁
Don't worry Rubeauti, your english is very good. And it really can be discouraging when you can't find the exact words you want to say. In a relationship I think communication is one of the most important things if not the most important of all, so improving communication skills is a very important thing.
7:57 I love that transition effect.
9:30 funny thing is I do find it oddly satisfying myself too. Sorry for this information
As for your friend, I guess the best she can do is experience him physically. I don't mean s*x, I mean she should observe his actions. Are they compatible with his words. If he stays in the PH for a long time, even better. More opportunities to prove his words with action. If he is too eager for s*x, or asks for it often then better be careful and not give in
Well put together, all points are valid, informative, and interesting. Thank you for sharing your mind.
Virgil said "Experience is the best teacher."
I look forward to learning Tagalog!
i love your shows... your sooooo very very understanding and speak out the truth about whatevers on your mind..theres not to many women out there that will chat about everything like you do.... your great woman and i hope you keep up the great work you do ...i give you 10+
Hello, I’m married to an amazing Filipina for 2 1/2 years now. I think if a man is truly serious about the Filipina he’s talking with, then any problems in communication can be overcome.
Thanks for the great informative videos. I’m new to your channel and I look forward to more!
Your English is good, and your vocabulary is impressive thank you for the video! Great job!
My Filipina was using Google translate when we started talking in 2017. By the end of the year we was having great conversations and video chat.
Your English is great and you're super beautiful!! 😍I subscribed just to see you talk more.
Love your videos. I have a Filipina girl friend. Her English isn’t perfect but we get along fine. I think her accent is so cute. I just love it.
Great video and thanks for educating us western guys about Filipina ladies..
I travel to the Philippines regularly every year doing relief work and love the people and the place.
I appreciate you taking the time to make your videos..
Blessing to you.
Danny
My Pinay speaks very good English. Frankly, I picked her initially over some that may have been considered physically more beautiful for her language skills and personality that fit with mine better. Turns out that once I got some better pictures, my girl turned out to be gorgeous. I never correct her unless she asks: "I can say . . . " and then gives the example. I love her accent and the way she speaks. Rubeauti, your English is precious. Trust me no guy would have any problem with a beautiful girl that has a strong accent or uses English a little differently from what we are used to but in my case, I could hardly communicate with the others and that was a problem that led me to my Pinay and her excellent English.
Your doing so well and we understand. You know 2 languages and most people dont.
Language could be a good tool to learn about each other. I have been married to a Filipina for 25 years. I wish she taught me her language. This could be an activity that a couple to share.
A few years ago I started talking to Filipinas on Facebook. There was only about three or four Ladies that never asked Me for money. I was looking for My Future Wife back then. During Covid times, I actually narrowed it down to a Wonderful Lady from Mindanao. Fast forward to today. I am about to make My third trip to the Philippines to visit my Fiancée. Hopefully by this time next year, We will be Married and living in Ohio USA. Lucy's English speaking is really good because We talk every day. Take care.
Thankyou you explained perfectly love the blog
Your English is better than mine
Sure you have an accent ,yet sound very well educated.
I also love the way you speak with your hands 👐
I am here to stay, and I also love your accent, and the way you pronounce the words and you already know everyone loves your skin tone (Morena) so those things everyone is so concerned over are actually beautiful things just like you are.❤❤
I am from the United States and reside outside of Washington DC. The area is a melting pot of different cultures ranging from Asian, Filipana, Hispanic, African you name it!. All different languages are spoken in my area. That is never an issue once you get used to it. Actually I find your accent attractive, there is nothing wrong with it. Honesty and intelligence will over come any language barrier.
Keep up the good work!
Rubeauti, My first time here what a great video I loved it so much good info in how filipinos feel about certain things very informative
This lady is not only very attractive but talks sense too
Hey Rubeauti, just recently found your channel. Thanks for the honest and informative video.
As many has told, guys doesn't bother much about the underarm stuff, and most probably neither the skin colour (otherwise why would you even have an ongoing conversation with someone you can't stand by look at all?).
English should be not a question, especially not at your level of mastering it, at maximum for some really picky native speakers, you might know by that it's also my second language. Communication is important in a relationship, but perhaps not necessarily, because of the grammar issues, until you can understand what the other wants ;)
And for your friend.. have her some trust, probably there is a reason why this man is investing time and effort to talk and probably to meet up with her. They will only see it in real if they click together, no matter how sweet they are towards the other by talking.
Mmm, and if she is Marynol who is currently residing in Davao, then tell her you are both wonderful and attractive ladies, have some trust and believe in yourself too, all things would work out well 😌
Wish you all the best and all your listeners, this is a nice channel I am about to follow.
Can't wait to visit your beautiful country, have a good one for everyone out there!
Greetings, Adam
Rubeauti, As a native English speaker I can say with great confidence that your English is very fluent and very clear. Forget about your fear about making pronunciation mistakes. That happens sometimes but it's no reason to allow your progress to be stunted. Think of your progress with English as snowballing bigger and bigger, better and better. I am a new subscriber.
YOU ARE A LOVABLE, INTELLIGENT, SWEET ,DECENT LADY. YOU DESERVE THE BEST. I AM A PROFESSOR IN ENGLISH AND GREEK LANGUAGE HAVING GREEK AND AUSTRALIAN CITIZENSHIP. LADIES LIKE YOU ARE A KIND OF OASIS AMONG ALL WESTERN LADIES WHO ARE GETTING LESS AND LESS FAMILY ORIENTED, MORE MATERIALISTIC. THIS IS THE REASON WHY MANY WESTERN GYUS LIKE US WANT TO HAVE PHILIPPINA PARTNER. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR ENLIGHTENING COMMENTS/ADVICE . YOUR ENGLISH IS VERY GOOD.
As an American when I listen to you speaking your English is really good