The number 1 danger is running into a filipinas husband. They won't tell you, but its traditional for most filipinas to marry young. Even though they may be separated she still married. Be careful guys.
Stay armed, not that you would need it. Most them guys are 5ft nothing and weigh 100 and nothing. I've never met one I couldn't snap. Sure they may be out there, hence the arm yourself, just doubt you would need.
@@Justfred.440 I suppose so. Nowhere is safe. America, SE Asia, Latin America, Africa all the same. I’m going to try the women of the tribes of the Amazon next, maybe they are different. 😀
Remember that in a relationship with most Filipina they show that they care by making sure that you are taken care of. If it's a LDR then expect to be asked often if you have eaten yet.
This is all well and good...but at the end of the day, I'm the law in my house. If I don't want to go somewhere, I'm not going. And no arguments allowed.
I would have a blast at family gatherings. I've been to some of those gatherings with a Filipino friend over here in the US. The karaoke, tilapia, lumpias, banana sauce, etc. A lot of fun.
I loved this Rubeauti. Thank you. Your channel is fantastic! I have a LDR fiancé currently in PH that I'm going to visit in January. Then the plan is for her to join me in the U.S. as soon as we can make that happen. Your videos have been very helpful to me to understand my Filipina bride and I really look forward to using some of your great tips and following your advice. You have a wonderful sense of humor, are highly intelligent and have a very positive attitude .. a lot like my fiancé (shhhh .. don't tell her I said that, though lol). Those seem to be common traits of Filipinas. In my opinion, there are too many videos out there that really put a negative spin on some of the things you're describing. The way you explain things, however, really makes me look forward to getting to know the culture and her family. Salamat!
I like the idea of entering into a big family. I come from a very small family and never experienced large family get-togethers. They sound like a lot of fun with a lot of good food!
@@rudolfantonmaier755 Well.. I am Filipina with a big extended family. Whenever there are gatherings and special occasions in one house, the hosts are the ones expected to foot the bill. Guest (even if you are a relative) are never expected to shell out money unless it's a potluck party. Sorry if you have experienced that in the Phis. We are mostly hospitable people who will even give you free food if asked.
I'm married to a same age Balinese woman (53) and it's just the same. My biggest dangers are being overfed and over massaged. She has made me such a better husband, because I'm just trying to keep up in the caring and consideration department. ❤ My woman!
the food, the gatherings the curious aunts all 100% true, haven't partaken in the mystery box yet lol as im sure that is coming when my filipina wife comes home. the whitening soap is still perplexing to me, but my wife and her family dont partake in that one lol. i tried to learn tagalog but never got very far
Hi ❤️Rubeauti❤️, Thx for a great, informative blog. You produced a really great blog, where you explained that in the Filipino culture, they have this “whatever will be, will be” mentality. That “oh well, it wasn’t meant to be, passive” mentality. You went on to say, there’s even a popular Filipino “phrase”, for that way of thinking. What was the title for that particular blog? Thx, and keep the great blogs coming, 😎😉❤️.
Thank you Rubeauti for a delightful, entertaining and informative video segment. Your presentation skills are charming and I applaud your command of the english language. Cheers.
You forgot the kids birthday party in the afternoon and the heavy drinking and karaoke starts around 8 pm with the adults until the early mornings. Whatever my ex tells my kids to help with their half siblings they have to do it as she is old school Flipina!
I have been chatting with my trans woman orphan Filipino for 3 months, I saw her profile on the dating app, I was swiping and I saw her profile, I started chatting with her on WhatsApp, We,re in a Relationship. No problems at all, she's beautiful, she's the most beautiful trans woman In the world. She hope to see me in person ❤. I want a long lasting relationship. She's want to move to Manhattan New York soon, in the Phillipines is it hard to get a job?
Maybe I have to ask my wife if she is a Filipina, because I know she came from a big family, but didn't visit them, sometimes I have to push her to visit her family,
Number #1 thing the Tita inquisition is for is how much money you have and can contribute to the family. Not always true but usually true. Will people admit this? Absolutely not.
. Thank you so much! 🤗 It's great to know there are supportive people out there who are willing to share their knowledge and experiences. Much appreciated!
Hello, I'm a Caucasian male from a western country that intends to move to Thailand or the Philippines in the next few months. I reverted to Islam so dating is out but I would like to get married. Where is the best place for Muslims in the Philippines?
All Filipinas are Unique , Also Aunties Titas , When it comes to interpolating you about your intentions ,they are Experts 🤣🤣 And yes 6 am in Shower your Partner Holds the phone to your face Say hello to my Cousin 🤣 YES ALL FILIPINAS ARE UNIQUE 😀😀🇵🇭❤
Thank you for your video! My mom is afraid I can get forced to marry my Filipina gf if the family believes we have become intimate (or they threaten to kill) She is Christian. Is this true? I would be very glad for an answer P.S. I will subscribe if you answer 😊
I've seen many Filipinas in videos say they are OK marrying an atheist. But what happens if the man is Christian but his confession forbids birthday parties?
Hello how are you? I seen a video with your sister I’m just wondering how she’s doing I hope ok I’m just hoping all works out for her just curious I wish you and your sister all the best take care of yourselves Timothy from america bye sweetie
Ohh..i been told I'm dangerous..bakit? I hang around local Philippine grocery store one time..I know the owner for long time..3 Filipinas enter and chasmis with each other about an American man..they say he pogo sa tagalog..I said "talaga?" All 3 Filipinas freeze and look at me with shock..the one Filipina approach me and say "you speak tagalog?" Sabi ako "pwede" she look more shocked and said I'm "dangerous"..now I'm the one shocked..I asked bakit..she reply "because you will understand everything I say"😮🤣🤣🤣
28 hours to get to Ninoy Aquino ..2 hours in a taxi in traffic to get home..16 family and friends waiting to eat..and eat and eat. All i wanted was a Red Horse and a long nap beside my Lady but the party was on and there was no escape :)
In family photos I really stand out. I've always teased that I am like the ghost who just happened to wander thru and accidently photobombed the group.
Been living with my Filipina for the last 5 months (married for the last three). Gained about 5kgs (11lbs) in that time, almost entirely because of the food! It's really becoming a problem....
I like the way you explain this and it helps people to understand and the beautiful Brown skin is one of the reasons I am attracted to the Filipino so no whitening thank you
The right Filipina, when you find her, will far exceed your expectations, if your previous experiences are limited to western ladies. Do your homework, learn a little about the Philippines, her people, and culture. Keep an open mind, a love of discovery, and a sense of humor 😁🤣 ❤️💯%🇵🇭Filipina
"maintaining extensive social networks".. you mean they snoop into every area of a guys life? No thanks. I still love all your videos though, keep up the awesome content.
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Well, once again you managed to offer us another masterpiece. This one is funny and reveals delicate and precious information about dating a Filipino woman. Your research was extensive ; your preparation was thorough and your delivery in front of the camera was outstanding ! Really, Rubeauti, you are evolving fast and getting better with every new video that you are uploading. This is admirable 🤗 !
My girlfriend’s Titas are elderly. Instead of a Tita inquisition, I endured a Nanay and an Ate inquistion. She is the youngest sister and her older sisters wanted to ask me questions.
@@MrBill2U we have all experienced some trauma in our life. In child psychology, it's called " childhood wounding ". In most circumstances, some if can't be helped. My second Filipina wife literally caused me to go to college and study psychology. Why ? Because she was distant controlling and desperate, a habitual liar and thief. I found out that after living with her. So after study in college and researching her background the best I could, found out she had a poor functioning mother, 3 of her babies died because of poor care. Also during 1986, my x wife, because of the trouble during Marcos, witnessed one of her uncles murdered as an example in the barangay not to help the NPA. I could enumerate more, but I think you get the picture.
@@jesse75 My Gf is from Davao but i find it pretty insulting. My GF is a selfmade girl and is a fulltime nurse. Maybe you're the kind of person that strolls the streets in Tondo to find some poor helpless woman but I"M NOT.. OK?
Culinary adventures ? Sorry ma'am , most westerners won't touch what passes for food in the Philippines. Pag pag ? Chicken intestines on a stick ? Balut ? I can go on but no , the food is horrible in the Philippines. 😊
You are fresh meat. What will be her family allowance ? Or have you already paid out plenty ? No one expects you to give an honest answer. Hope they are not treating you like the Susana Blackwell did.
Hello young lady. I have a question about the skin whitening that you spoke about. If lighter skin is the beauty standard does that mean Philipinas wouldn't want anything to do with me since I'm chocolate lol or does the beauty standard only apply to those in the Philippines? Would they prefer someone with way lighter skin over me even though I'm a good person? I have Indian on both sides of my family and my skin isn't real dark but I do get darker or lighter depending on how much I'm in the sun. I'm curious why that is the beauty standard because in the beginning for those who believe in the Bible everyone was black and didn't start to change until people tried to build a tower to reach heaven so God confused everyone's language which caused all those who spoke the same language to come together and move to different parts of the earth which then made people start to look different over a long period of time due to weather, climate, sun, ect. This is something you could talk more about and even interview different Philipinas to see what they prefer more or if it doesn't matter to them as long as they find true love. Enjoyed the content. Take care, be safe, and be blessed. 🙏🏽
Losing everything youve worked for your entire career so your wife can run off.... is definitely not life threatening to a man. This gos for any woman who has the balls to trt it. And wonder later why you live in a piss pot because we will make your life a loving hell
That reminded me so much of growing up in the North if England. At gatherings, older men would try to get you drinking alcohol and the older women in the family wanted every intimate detail of your love life! Anyone who went on holiday had to bring some cheap gift back from their travels for the older ladies in the family. If it had a badly-painted scene and the name of the place you had been to, that was ideal! Thank you Rubeauti for an excellent blog with all the smiles! 😘
One thing I struggle with my filipina is “I “ must always follow her culture norms. I am very fair and accepting of cultural differences. However, what about my cultural norms. I challenge all of you to not submit to what you MUST do, but be fair and even in your relationships.
A great deal of that is handled by where you are living. If you are in another country, it is going to be much more harmonious with all relationships if you adhere to their cultural norms, or at least understand what/why they are. In your home country, those who are coming in then adhere to your cultural norms. My Filipina wife lost about 90% of her Filipino habits over the first decade here. Of course, probably 30% of our meals are Filipino style, but that is because I like them so much myself.
This blog seems to want to show the traits of the Philippines is a big plus . I went through that in good faith. I found it was all Take,take,take from me like I was receiving a high value filipina girl who in which had nothing to bring to the relationship. It was a disaster, and like a fool I got sorta the same done to me another time. I like living in the Philippines and I'm here for me and alone around 19 years now. Never again. Thank you.
You mentioned it is a cultural thing about fair skin vs dark skin. I don't know if is lighting while you are taping your video but actually, you look uniquely beautiful because of your dark skin.. I will have problems with she wanting me to appear on her social media. I'm traditional and old school. No problem with the food. Send a roasted pork. There is a Philipino restaurant less than one hour from where I live. It is one of the best cooked and juiciest whole hog I ever eaten. I also love seafood. Being it as well.
A Filipino girl deceived me. We stayed together for 4 years and married for 2 years. We bought a house. Now she is gone just like that. She had a boy friend outside my life. She just left leaving me alone. I am alone in this world now.
I've been thru 2 divorces, by age 34. with 3 daughters. I've had multuple filipina gf's now, some decieved me. The great thing about 25yr old filipina, is, every year there is a new model. Learn, and get at it again. Thats my adivce.
Many more mature Filipinas fail to mention that they are separated and not single. They have nothing to lose, and the foreign man has everything to lose . Both will see prison time for 18 months or more depending upon how many times they can prove that you were actually intimate. Estafa is usually the first thing that happens, and it isn't always the husband who wants to collect money. A cinamar is important for any relationship to move forward, and if one can't be provided, then you need to move on.
no,,,,once you marry you are in your onw,,,,,,yes is nice to get toguether but im not responable for the all family,.that is the case in usa when you married a centro america gir and you are from another country...they want to suport the family and you have to taking care all the bill.....when you marry you want to be alone,,dedicadet to your wife en children...poty some time enspecial ocation but not all the time....sorry but i wont get marry to a girl from philipina...
Thank you for sharing your opinion. I understand that it is important to take into consideration one's own wellbeing and the wellbeing of their family, and I appreciate that you are considering all angles. However, I am confident that it is possible to
The best way to become accepted in a new culture is to take part and learn about it, at the same time they will learn from you about your culture. As long as we keep things light hearted and respectful it's a good thing, with time and patience all of us will benefit from learning different ways of doing things because where one thing doesn't work another way will, the fact is that the wider your knowledge is the more options you'll have to choose from in order to succeed with different tasks. To build good long lasting relationships we need to be flexible and willing to care for and learn from each other, and that takes time and a little bit of effort.
I’m good with pretty much everything except 2 things I don’t agree with being questioned about our sex life. I tend to shut that down. I am nervous about certain culinary dishes I may not like though
What I found most fascinating is that they do not have the concept of privacy. They are always surrounded by people. I find is fascinating but tiring too.
The number 1 danger is running into a filipinas husband. They won't tell you, but its traditional for most filipinas to marry young. Even though they may be separated she still married. Be careful guys.
Stay armed, not that you would need it. Most them guys are 5ft nothing and weigh 100 and nothing. I've never met one I couldn't snap. Sure they may be out there, hence the arm yourself, just doubt you would need.
No thanks, what's not mentioned, your financial responsibility to her family! So many more women, so many more countries!
The only danger one needs to worry about is being scammed.
To be fair American women do that too
@@Justfred.440 I suppose so. Nowhere is safe. America, SE Asia, Latin America, Africa all the same. I’m going to try the women of the tribes of the Amazon next, maybe they are different. 😀
@@MercurialMann just don’t go to that forbidden island where the natives have the custom of “having you for dinner”🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@MercurialMann they are. When they steal your heart it is a bit more painful. Haha😅
@@nemelendez I’m more worried about the poisonous darts 🎯 😉
Remember that in a relationship with most Filipina they show that they care by making sure that you are taken care of. If it's a LDR then expect to be asked often if you have eaten yet.
so true
@@webrider117 yes they don't ask how do you do but have you eaten 🙂
This is all well and good...but at the end of the day, I'm the law in my house. If I don't want to go somewhere, I'm not going. And no arguments allowed.
Exactly. This is a meeting of cultures. We don't bow down to their culture.
I would have a blast at family gatherings. I've been to some of those gatherings with a Filipino friend over here in the US. The karaoke, tilapia, lumpias, banana sauce, etc. A lot of fun.
I like it just in moderation. When we're busy every weekday and weekends are all about family, I'm exhausted.
This is why we love the Philippines 😄
The family situation sounds like a nightmare. Total turn-off, but to each their own.
I loved this Rubeauti. Thank you. Your channel is fantastic! I have a LDR fiancé currently in PH that I'm going to visit in January. Then the plan is for her to join me in the U.S. as soon as we can make that happen. Your videos have been very helpful to me to understand my Filipina bride and I really look forward to using some of your great tips and following your advice. You have a wonderful sense of humor, are highly intelligent and have a very positive attitude .. a lot like my fiancé (shhhh .. don't tell her I said that, though lol). Those seem to be common traits of Filipinas. In my opinion, there are too many videos out there that really put a negative spin on some of the things you're describing. The way you explain things, however, really makes me look forward to getting to know the culture and her family. Salamat!
I like the idea of entering into a big family. I come from a very small family and never experienced large family get-togethers. They sound like a lot of fun with a lot of good food!
and you are the one paying the most
@@rudolfantonmaier755 Well.. I am Filipina with a big extended family. Whenever there are gatherings and special occasions in one house, the hosts are the ones expected to foot the bill. Guest (even if you are a relative) are never expected to shell out money unless it's a potluck party. Sorry if you have experienced that in the Phis. We are mostly hospitable people who will even give you free food if asked.
I have stomach cancer so hope no one gets offended but I'm NOT eating
Sounds like those family reunions we used to have in my family
The same applies with my family too. To much is given much is required.
I'm married to a same age Balinese woman (53) and it's just the same. My biggest dangers are being overfed and over massaged. She has made me such a better husband, because I'm just trying to keep up in the caring and consideration department. ❤ My woman!
the food, the gatherings the curious aunts all 100% true, haven't partaken in the mystery box yet lol as im sure that is coming when my filipina wife comes home. the whitening soap is still perplexing to me, but my wife and her family dont partake in that one lol. i tried to learn tagalog but never got very far
Yeah try dating as western woman.....as history shows its really successful
Love your channel Rubeauti. You're a sweetheart ❤
@@Rubeauti 😘
Hi ❤️Rubeauti❤️,
Thx for a great, informative blog. You produced a really great blog, where you explained that in the Filipino culture, they have this “whatever will be, will be” mentality. That “oh well, it wasn’t meant to be, passive” mentality. You went on to say, there’s even a popular Filipino “phrase”, for that way of thinking. What was the title for that particular blog? Thx, and keep the great blogs coming, 😎😉❤️.
That food looks so GOOD.
Thank you Rubeauti for a delightful, entertaining and informative video segment. Your presentation skills are charming and I applaud your command of the english language. Cheers.
Disagree on opening your life and business on social media ..don’t care what the culture your married to does ..just not safe and smart nowadays 😮
You forgot the kids birthday party in the afternoon and the heavy drinking and karaoke starts around 8 pm with the adults until the early mornings. Whatever my ex tells my kids to help with their half siblings they have to do it as she is old school Flipina!
Thank you, that is very interesting, I work with a lot of Philippine people, I truly enjoy working with them 🙏😊God bless
I have been chatting with my trans woman orphan Filipino for 3 months, I saw her profile on the dating app, I was swiping and I saw her profile, I started chatting with her on WhatsApp, We,re in a Relationship. No problems at all, she's beautiful, she's the most beautiful trans woman In the world. She hope to see me in person ❤. I want a long lasting relationship. She's want to move to Manhattan New York soon, in the Phillipines is it hard to get a job?
Not all filipina is scam or danger all have different attitude and manners but some have a good heart, kind and godfearing,
I’m taking to a filipino woman and is been very beautiful….
I always enjoy you blogs Rubeauti. Ingat and see you when you post your next vid. :)
Thank you!
That food looks and sounds amazing!❤
Am with my Filipina and she offer me whiting products we are done right there and then.because you hate yourself doesn’t mean I hate myself
Nothing hilarious about skin bleaching. Sounds like some good ole fashioned self hate.
Maybe I have to ask my wife if she is a Filipina, because I know she came from a big family, but didn't visit them, sometimes I have to push her to visit her family,
Great video thank you
So, do I get to ask auntie investigator what is her love life & intentions? 🤔
HELLO! EVERYONE FROM HOUSTON TEXAS USA 🇺🇲❤️🇵🇭🙏👍
Pass.
You are so intelligent my love...so informative and excellent job...by the way you are beautiful...thank you lover
Number #1 thing the Tita inquisition is for is how much money you have and can contribute to the family. Not always true but usually true. Will people admit this? Absolutely not.
This is all good and useful advice
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Thank you so much! 🤗 It's great to know there are supportive people out there who are willing to share their knowledge and experiences. Much appreciated!
Hello, I'm a Caucasian male from a western country that intends to move to Thailand or the Philippines in the next few months. I reverted to Islam so dating is out but I would like to get married. Where is the best place for Muslims in the Philippines?
There are Muslims in every area of the PI, but the largest concentration by far is in Mindanao Island down south.
All Filipinas are Unique , Also Aunties Titas , When it comes to interpolating you about your intentions ,they are Experts 🤣🤣 And yes 6 am in Shower your Partner Holds the phone to your face Say hello to my Cousin 🤣 YES ALL FILIPINAS ARE UNIQUE 😀😀🇵🇭❤
Thank you for your video!
My mom is afraid I can get forced to marry my Filipina gf if the family believes we have become intimate (or they threaten to kill) She is Christian. Is this true? I would be very glad for an answer
P.S. I will subscribe if you answer 😊
I've seen many Filipinas in videos say they are OK marrying an atheist. But what happens if the man is Christian but his confession forbids birthday parties?
@@Rubeauti Thank you! You are one of the few who replies to questions. Much appreciated!
Hello how are you? I seen a video with your sister I’m just wondering how she’s doing I hope ok I’m just hoping all works out for her just curious I wish you and your sister all the best take care of yourselves Timothy from america bye sweetie
In Spanish,
embarrazada doesn’t mean embarrassed… It means “ pregnant”!😳😱🤣
Ohh..i been told I'm dangerous..bakit? I hang around local Philippine grocery store one time..I know the owner for long time..3 Filipinas enter and chasmis with each other about an American man..they say he pogo sa tagalog..I said "talaga?" All 3 Filipinas freeze and look at me with shock..the one Filipina approach me and say "you speak tagalog?" Sabi ako "pwede" she look more shocked and said I'm "dangerous"..now I'm the one shocked..I asked bakit..she reply "because you will understand everything I say"😮🤣🤣🤣
*You are very pretty.*
I can guess one of them. 🤭 I was wrong.😊
28 hours to get to Ninoy Aquino ..2 hours in a taxi in traffic to get home..16 family and friends waiting to eat..and eat and eat. All i wanted was a Red Horse and a long nap beside my Lady but the party was on and there was no escape :)
You are absolutely gorgeous ❤
what if I realy want to meet you in person
Nah my presence is not mandatory. Only a weak man would be controlled like that.
You seem like a good women.🙂
Kumusta Rubeauti!
@@Rubeauti Mabuti! 😘
I'll never have to be concerned with a Filipina wanting me to use any skin-whitening stuff. I'm already whiter than a newly bleached-white bedsheet.
In family photos I really stand out. I've always teased that I am like the ghost who just happened to wander thru and accidently photobombed the group.
Is it possible to get 2 Filipinas in a relationship with me? Just curious if that is possible in the Philippines
@@Rubeauti l😂yeah that’s a good thing 😊
For me, this would be too suffocating.
Constant SM posting is a deal BREAKER for me! I share NOTHING!
man im not ready for a relationship.
Been living with my Filipina for the last 5 months (married for the last three). Gained about 5kgs (11lbs) in that time, almost entirely because of the food!
It's really becoming a problem....
Lack of dokdok, and you gain weight.
Awwwwww.
Lmfao 😂
I feel you...
I gained 12kg after being married for a year.
I had to buy new suits because none of the old ones fit me anymore.
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@@bernardoo7969 first anniversary was on Monday. Situation hasn't improved, mostly because she's discovered baking!
What excuses can get you out of family gatherings?
"Sorry, I'm white."
" I have covid " etc
I would prefer to keep my quieter cultural norms and not date. Thank you for reinforcing what I had already suspected.
bro life your life and do you. Don’t let TH-cam or internet f you over. Be a human and kick ass like we are meant to. GET IT BRUH
I like the way you explain this and it helps people to understand and the beautiful Brown skin is one of the reasons I am attracted to the Filipino so no whitening thank you
In the future, someone will splice the gene that creates that color, and white women will use it to have a permanent tan.
Pass on the family get togethers, they will try to get you to pay for it.
The right Filipina, when you find her, will far exceed your expectations, if your previous experiences are limited to western ladies. Do your homework, learn a little about the Philippines, her people, and culture. Keep an open mind, a love of discovery, and a sense of humor 😁🤣
❤️💯%🇵🇭Filipina
Great comment.
"maintaining extensive social networks".. you mean they snoop into every area of a guys life? No thanks. I still love all your videos though, keep up the awesome content.
Well, once again you managed to offer us another masterpiece.
This one is funny and reveals delicate and precious information about dating a Filipino woman.
Your research was extensive ; your preparation was thorough and your delivery in front of the camera was outstanding !
Really, Rubeauti, you are evolving fast and getting better with every new video that you are uploading.
This is admirable 🤗 !
@@Rubeauti ❤
I've never been all that crazy about filipina food. Here in the Philippines I cook for me.
My girlfriend’s Titas are elderly. Instead of a Tita inquisition, I endured a Nanay and an Ate inquistion. She is the youngest sister and her older sisters wanted to ask me questions.
@@Rubeauti I am older than her ates. I call them by name instead. At least I am still a lot younger than her mother.
Im SO glad i met a cute Filipina orphan so i dont have al this pressure and stress. We can build our future WITHOUT any interference whatsoever.
I've always had that thought in the back of my mind and then I start thinking they may have other trauma?😢
@@MrBill2U She the happiest girl in PH full of live and plans.. A powergirl.
Where did you meet her ? In Tondo ? And I'm not saying that sarcastically..
@@MrBill2U we have all experienced some trauma in our life.
In child psychology, it's called " childhood wounding ".
In most circumstances, some if can't be helped.
My second Filipina wife literally caused me to go to college and study psychology. Why ?
Because she was distant controlling and desperate, a habitual liar and thief.
I found out that after living with her.
So after study in college and researching her background the best I could, found out she had a poor functioning mother, 3 of her babies died because of poor care.
Also during 1986, my x wife, because of the trouble during Marcos, witnessed one of her uncles murdered as an example in the barangay not to help the NPA.
I could enumerate more, but I think you get the picture.
@@jesse75 My Gf is from Davao but i find it pretty insulting. My GF is a selfmade girl and is a fulltime nurse. Maybe you're the kind of person that strolls the streets in Tondo to find some poor helpless woman but I"M NOT.. OK?
Culinary adventures ? Sorry ma'am , most westerners won't touch what passes for food in the Philippines. Pag pag ? Chicken intestines on a stick ? Balut ? I can go on but no , the food is horrible in the Philippines. 😊
More like the dangers of dating any woman nowadays
Sounds like a freaking nightmare
I am marrying there in June. I have never came across a more kind wellcoming family in my life. Soon to be my family in two months.
You are fresh meat. What will be her family allowance ?
Or have you already paid out plenty ?
No one expects you to give an honest answer.
Hope they are not treating you like the Susana Blackwell did.
@Jesse I have been there 6 months ago to meet my inlaws. Never asked for anything. Lovely country nice people 👍
@@spartonhalo83 I guess he was right about the honest answer or the family is playing the long game going for the house.
@@spartonhalo83 how did you meet a wife?
@foxkey3194 4 years ago. Try a dating site like date in Asia it's free mostly philippine there.
Hello young lady. I have a question about the skin whitening that you spoke about. If lighter skin is the beauty standard does that mean Philipinas wouldn't want anything to do with me since I'm chocolate lol or does the beauty standard only apply to those in the Philippines? Would they prefer someone with way lighter skin over me even though I'm a good person? I have Indian on both sides of my family and my skin isn't real dark but I do get darker or lighter depending on how much I'm in the sun. I'm curious why that is the beauty standard because in the beginning for those who believe in the Bible everyone was black and didn't start to change until people tried to build a tower to reach heaven so God confused everyone's language which caused all those who spoke the same language to come together and move to different parts of the earth which then made people start to look different over a long period of time due to weather, climate, sun, ect. This is something you could talk more about and even interview different Philipinas to see what they prefer more or if it doesn't matter to them as long as they find true love. Enjoyed the content. Take care, be safe, and be blessed. 🙏🏽
Skin whitening??? No thanks, brown skin is the most beautiful there is...I was born brown and will stay brown...😊
So......where do I find the over 18 year old female orphans?
Losing everything youve worked for your entire career so your wife can run off.... is definitely not life threatening to a man. This gos for any woman who has the balls to trt it. And wonder later why you live in a piss pot because we will make your life a loving hell
That reminded me so much of growing up in the North if England. At gatherings, older men would try to get you drinking alcohol and the older women in the family wanted every intimate detail of your love life! Anyone who went on holiday had to bring some cheap gift back from their travels for the older ladies in the family. If it had a badly-painted scene and the name of the place you had been to, that was ideal! Thank you Rubeauti for an excellent blog with all the smiles! 😘
Same in Romania
I have hidden behind my chair before watching🤣
One thing I struggle with my filipina is “I “ must always follow her culture norms. I am very fair and accepting of cultural differences. However, what about my cultural norms. I challenge all of you to not submit to what you MUST do, but be fair and even in your relationships.
A great deal of that is handled by where you are living. If you are in another country, it is going to be much more harmonious with all relationships if you adhere to their cultural norms, or at least understand what/why they are. In your home country, those who are coming in then adhere to your cultural norms. My Filipina wife lost about 90% of her Filipino habits over the first decade here. Of course, probably 30% of our meals are Filipino style, but that is because I like them so much myself.
Wait, I have to be willing to get chunky to date a Filipina? Do I need to cancel a flight?
This blog seems to want to show the traits of the Philippines is a big plus . I went through that in good faith. I found it was all Take,take,take from me like I was receiving a high value filipina girl who in which had nothing to bring to the relationship. It was a disaster, and like a fool I got sorta the same done to me another time. I like living in the Philippines and I'm here for me and alone around 19 years now. Never again. Thank you.
You mentioned it is a cultural thing about fair skin vs dark skin. I don't know if is lighting while you are taping your video but actually, you look uniquely beautiful because of your dark skin..
I will have problems with she wanting me to appear on her social media. I'm traditional and old school.
No problem with the food. Send a roasted pork. There is a Philipino restaurant less than one hour from where I live. It is one of the best cooked and juiciest whole hog I ever eaten.
I also love seafood. Being it as well.
I think it’s so adorable how Phillipina’s pronounce the “P’s”.
Sounds like a lot of work
Sad that I am vegetarian. Wish I was a foodie
Family inquisition.
Exactly the point where i gave up..... in Sicily, 30 years ago.
A Filipino girl deceived me. We stayed together for 4 years and married for 2 years. We bought a house. Now she is gone just like that. She had a boy friend outside my life. She just left leaving me alone. I am alone in this world now.
I've been thru 2 divorces, by age 34. with 3 daughters.
I've had multuple filipina gf's now, some decieved me. The great thing about 25yr old filipina, is, every year there is a new model.
Learn, and get at it again. Thats my adivce.
Yea, just study the game. Stop leading with your wallet.
Many more mature Filipinas fail to mention that they are separated and not single. They have nothing to lose, and the foreign man has everything to lose . Both will see prison time for 18 months or more depending upon how many times they can prove that you were actually intimate. Estafa is usually the first thing that happens, and it isn't always the husband who wants to collect money. A cinamar is important for any relationship to move forward, and if one can't be provided, then you need to move on.
So it's best to find a good Filipina from an orphanage? 🤣😂🤣
no,,,,once you marry you are in your onw,,,,,,yes is nice to get toguether but im not responable for the all family,.that is the case in usa when you married a centro america gir and you are from another country...they want to suport the family and you have to taking care all the bill.....when you marry you want to be alone,,dedicadet to your wife en children...poty some time enspecial ocation but not all the time....sorry but i wont get marry to a girl from philipina...
Thank you for sharing your opinion. I understand that it is important to take into consideration one's own wellbeing and the wellbeing of their family, and I appreciate that you are considering all angles. However, I am confident that it is possible to
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The best way to become accepted in a new culture is to take part and learn about it, at the same time they will learn from you about your culture. As long as we keep things light hearted and respectful it's a good thing, with time and patience all of us will benefit from learning different ways of doing things because where one thing doesn't work another way will, the fact is that the wider your knowledge is the more options you'll have to choose from in order to succeed with different tasks. To build good long lasting relationships we need to be flexible and willing to care for and learn from each other, and that takes time and a little bit of effort.
Most Filipino learn about United States by watching movies.
I really embraced my fiancés Filipino culture I fell in love with how her and her family are and their customs
MONEY
Filipina will break your wallet bro so be prepared
Thank you for your advice! 🤗 I'm sure there are a lot of women who appreciate it. 🤝
“Coronary adventures”🤣🤣🤣🤣pun intended(culinary adventures)
When anyone in the family have a birthday they will want you to pay for the party.
I’m good with pretty much everything except 2 things I don’t agree with being questioned about our sex life. I tend to shut that down. I am nervous about certain culinary dishes I may not like though
thank God for you. ok
Just ask if there is fish sauce, patis, in the food.
can confirm. Every point made is 100% true.
What I found most fascinating is that they do not have the concept of privacy. They are always surrounded by people. I find is fascinating but tiring too.