Why Are Older Men Staying Single? WOMEN!

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  • @WiseAdvice93
    @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    If You're 55-75 Years Old: Slow Life | Spend Less, Be Happy
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    • @Nottloka
      @Nottloka 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      LoL, I'm 53 and have been on that route since I was 48. Own mine, have mine and single as can be. Like my peace, enjoy my peace. I don't even speak to females these days. Don't hold doors, etc.. simply want nothing to do with the bs. Life is good.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Nottloka Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

  • @brianmcnamara3532
    @brianmcnamara3532 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +280

    Because once you have experienced true peace and serenity there is no going back to drama.

    • @timbo365
      @timbo365 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I’m afraid you’re probably correct.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thanks for your wonderful sharing.

    • @jrosam9569
      @jrosam9569 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Being alone for a while is dangerous, it's addicting. When you see how peaceful it is, you never want to deal with people ever again .Quote from actor Tom Hardy

    • @jenschristensen5202
      @jenschristensen5202 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Spot on 👍

    • @JosephCollins-mk5ro
      @JosephCollins-mk5ro 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@brianmcnamara3532 peace and serenity is the basic need for us all.

  • @russellstephan6844
    @russellstephan6844 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +431

    Men aren't intimidated by bossy women... They're irritated and annoyed by them.

    • @jrtrades2435
      @jrtrades2435 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      Took the words right out of my mouth!

    • @Tom-bm7mm
      @Tom-bm7mm 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      Yes, my friend. I wanted to comment that here, but you beat me too it.

    • @jkw6196
      @jkw6196 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      repulsed is the word

    • @Carguytct
      @Carguytct 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Exactly what I was going to say.

    • @bryanjones8778
      @bryanjones8778 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@Carguytct Same here.

  • @kahvac
    @kahvac 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +364

    Too old for drama..just want peace.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      That's great, thank you.

    • @ericprieto4348
      @ericprieto4348 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      and we want to keep our house and our money

    • @ClovisPoint
      @ClovisPoint 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      like old Bull elephants ,just want peace and quiet

    • @user-ep3ck5re4o
      @user-ep3ck5re4o 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Amen to that 💪👊🏻

    • @TheKCaryer
      @TheKCaryer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Imagine being in a situation where someone who has an attitude of always being right and never ending demands for entertainment has legal power over you....due to the family court. THe numbers don't lie, men are passing on this "opportunity."

  • @akidataylor777
    @akidataylor777 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +269

    I'm 49 and I'm tired of women BS rather be alone and keep my money

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Thank you very much

    • @zrunner240Z
      @zrunner240Z 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Yup

    • @jonathanaldecoa1099
      @jonathanaldecoa1099 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I’m 49 myself. No wife, no kids. 🕺😎

    • @User-2cents
      @User-2cents 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I buy my own things. Happier, too. Good luck.

    • @502Chevy
      @502Chevy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Nailed it!🎯

  • @charlespratt8663
    @charlespratt8663 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +187

    We get smarter as we get older.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Thanks for your wonderful sharing.

    • @crlaw75
      @crlaw75 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      If I could turn back over 25 years ago, I would've been smarter then.

    • @flyingspirit3549
      @flyingspirit3549 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Sadly, only SOME of us do!

    • @gendoruwo6322
      @gendoruwo6322 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      love is only for the young and naive.

  • @Nostrebor59
    @Nostrebor59 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +228

    Better to come home to an empty house than one with someone in it you wish wasn’t there

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Thanks for your wonderful sharing.

    • @Joe-ti7qd
      @Joe-ti7qd 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Or a good dog!

    • @ziruk-king4466
      @ziruk-king4466 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂

    • @Fernando-qs7bl
      @Fernando-qs7bl 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@Joe-ti7qd Remember man was alone on earth with animals. God the creator and all wise, made Adam a mate, a companion. She is woman.

    • @cubiczirconiabeard5366
      @cubiczirconiabeard5366 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      robo, the happiest I ever was as a teenager was when my dad took my family to Texas . No raging alcoholics, no little brats running around ! !

  • @angeloattard2709
    @angeloattard2709 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +97

    I am 61 and single and hear women saying they do not need a man .I am fine giving them what they want.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

    • @zrunner240Z
      @zrunner240Z 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHA LOVE IT!!!

    • @PerryMarshallScott
      @PerryMarshallScott 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      There was a quote or a book published when some iteration of feminism was in play in the dying decades of last century which said.
      " A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle " Kind of encapsulates an attitude, still current, that isn't particularly alluring.

    • @magic2506
      @magic2506 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Love it! Good for you.

  • @jongolsteyn9680
    @jongolsteyn9680 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +186

    Once you understand women's nature, there is no going back, and you will never look at women the same way again. At 64, women can't lure me at all. I don't need anything from them. I have my freedom and my peace, and I will never give that up. I am very indifferent to many women.

    • @user-ep3ck5re4o
      @user-ep3ck5re4o 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      If I had my time again - no way would I marry 👊🏻👊🏻👊🏻

    • @shelleycharlesworth5177
      @shelleycharlesworth5177 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I'm a senior woman who lost my beloved husband of 40 years 10 years ago. 2 years after he died, I tried "dating" and met so many grumpy old men whom I would not be caught dead with! And they thought they were so great-yet they all had health issues and wanted a nurse with a purse! NO WAY! UGH!

    • @fuzzball4918
      @fuzzball4918 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Keep your purse. Lol... Not interested, and don't need a nurse.

    • @shelleycharlesworth5177
      @shelleycharlesworth5177 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@fuzzball4918 GOOD! You are sparing women from a lot of nonsense you old grump!

    • @rcas350pilot8
      @rcas350pilot8 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@shelleycharlesworth5177 I know many men that ended up being caregivers to their old sickly wives. For some strange reason women always assume men become old and sick but not them. Women have health issues once they reach menopause. It works both ways.

  • @michaelanthony1797
    @michaelanthony1797 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +117

    I am 65, single, no kids. Love the peace and freedom. I live in Tucson and the other day
    I drove to Phoenix for lunch because it seemed like a good idea, ended up in Flagstaff
    for dinner and a beer, stayed the night and watched the sunrise while driving home
    the next morning.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

    • @jimp3878
      @jimp3878 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I salute you!

    • @theunlearnedmind7374
      @theunlearnedmind7374 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Right on!

    • @uweporth9337
      @uweporth9337 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      keep living the dream. my roof is leaking. a deer crashed into my car today. always fixing small engines. maintaining 5 acres. 67 years old. I'm just tired.

    • @microtrader540
      @microtrader540 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sounds like a good life! Congrats 👏👏

  • @fredking7419
    @fredking7419 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +111

    I am 71 single and loving it , never been happier , work on yourself enjoy the things you like to do. So good to be stress free.

    • @Chuncy566
      @Chuncy566 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @fredking7419 .I whole heartedly agree only difference is im 81 still happy no one bitching at me , nothing but peace& quiet ,use your marrage licence for toilet paper .thats about all its good for.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thanks for your wonderful sharing.

    • @inden301
      @inden301 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes. Become who you know you are supposed to be and enjoy life, and not molded into a "trophy" husband she wants you to be to show off.

  • @johnnie2638
    @johnnie2638 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +135

    61yr old male here also choosing to stay single. Reasons are simple. I've already had kids and they are grown. I've devoted myself to two long-term relationships including a 10yr marriage & a 23yr cohabitation. Now that both of those relationships are over there is no reason to put myself through that fem-drama ever again. Now in my later years I'm single & free to have a dog, a motorcycle, a place of my own and a bit of land I can call my own. I love my autonomy and my peace.

    • @davidcoppotelli3957
      @davidcoppotelli3957 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Well Earned I'm Sure Johnny Way To Go. Keep It Simple.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thanks for your wonderful sharing.

    • @obrenmasic398
      @obrenmasic398 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      You go, Bro!

    • @keithlowe9037
      @keithlowe9037 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@johnnie2638 Amen brother from another mother

  • @barryj3266
    @barryj3266 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    When i became widowed at age 58 i tried to date again. The women i met were only interested in my income. They were mainly still hurting from their past divorce, which they almost universally filed. Their expectations for men were very high and almost always centered round a very high income. Yet they offered very little in return.
    I miss women, but my peace is more important.

    • @NorthernGuy-v1x
      @NorthernGuy-v1x 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don't need a man!! But, a high-earning one can come around and pay her bills until she grows tired of him!! LOL. Yeah, sign me up for THAT! haha.

  • @alanbarnes3569
    @alanbarnes3569 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +98

    It’s all about peace and quiet. Society paints a happy picture of being blissfully married with a mortgage and two kids. Not true!

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Thank you for sharing your words

    • @Chuncy566
      @Chuncy566 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @alanbarns3569 well said, your so right

  • @AZRealtyVids
    @AZRealtyVids 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

    Past experience has shown me that I am nothing more than a financial conduit for women. I gave up on female companionship in my early 50s. I simply won't allow myself to be used by women anymore. Now 27 tears later and still single, there is nothing a woman can bring to the table that is worth the potential of losing everything again. The law is in their favor since they're an entitled group in this society that can do as they please without consequence. While men are always held to a higher standard and required to give it all. Society has destroyed heterosexual compatability. I don't miss the gaslighting women so graciously offer.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thanks for your wonderful sharing.

    • @SeattlePioneer
      @SeattlePioneer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But you spent DECADES letting women spend your money --- I'm tempted to add YOU FOOL!

    • @carynefuture5778
      @carynefuture5778 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You Can meet a good and attractive Woman, have a beautiful relationship together, a companionship while living apart, and without marriage. You don't need to give up on love. If they have been married once most women don't Care getting married twice, no need for a second marriage. So, your financial stability is not at risk....

    • @SeattlePioneer
      @SeattlePioneer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@carynefuture5778
      No. "relationships" are trial marriages and still all about women being able to spend a man's money.
      I did without marriage and children, and "relationships" too.
      That's what's known as being strong and independent.

    • @edrhinehart9789
      @edrhinehart9789 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I was married for 35 wonderful years. It was not till my beloved partner passed that I realized how lucky I was. Dating since then has been a nightmare they are either broke, angry, crazy ing or drunks. i am so done with dating and relationships. I never thought I would say this but I now find it more rewarding to fulfill any sexual needs I may have by pay to play with a professional. No BS

  • @jasonvandervalk3679
    @jasonvandervalk3679 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +118

    Im 42 only 4 girlfriends and now single 6 years life hasn't been better. I love my peace and quiet life.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Thank you for sharing your words

    • @sammencia7945
      @sammencia7945 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Gets much easier in 3 or 4 years when you pass age 45.

    • @JosephCollins-mk5ro
      @JosephCollins-mk5ro 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jasonvandervalk3679 I am 62 and had only 2 Girlfriends. I grew up with Mental health Problems. My Mental Health is fine now for years but I have a serious Lung Problem for a few years. Had a low income all my life. Money is so important to having a decent life.
      Glad I did not get Married though. Men and Women are not getting along for years now. I find that sad.
      But Peace and Quiet is undervalued I think but not with the Men on this Web Page thankfully! Best of luck.

    • @JosephCollins-mk5ro
      @JosephCollins-mk5ro 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jasonvandervalk3679 At 62 having only 2 Girlfriends. I have a serious Lung Problem. Men and Women not getting along for years which is sad I think. On a low income for my whole life. Glad I did not end up in a toxic Marriage though.

    • @carynefuture5778
      @carynefuture5778 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You are too young to remain single! You Can meet someone special who is compatible with you, you share the same values, life projects, compelling leisure etc, and strong physical attraction. Don't be scared to live. Again, you're only 42! Don't give up your desire for true love, true, deep, meaningful relationsip with an attractive Woman. Go find her in Thailand or South America like the passport Bros if you need to. But don't give up on Real, full happiness. You Can have deep happiness. You deserve deep happiness. I am a Woman. Take care.

  • @DoctorBillTheRadioMan
    @DoctorBillTheRadioMan 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +93

    Been married 3 times now I'm 70. It's just not worth the trouble.

    • @JosephCollins-mk5ro
      @JosephCollins-mk5ro 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I never got married. Was on a low income my whole life. I feel lucky though. Could have landed in a toxic Marriage.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      What a meaningful sharing. Thank you so much.

    • @placidovalente
      @placidovalente 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      looking for a male friend to travel

    • @bwnco
      @bwnco 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Slow Learner!! LOL

    • @placidovalente
      @placidovalente 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@bwnco what are you talking about?

  • @roncrane4597
    @roncrane4597 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    It's the same here in Australia...I'm 65 and can't be bothered any longer dating..it's just too hard ...most women here carry life baggage and can't let go of that...happy having peace and quite..just love it...

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Cảm ơn bạn đã chia sẻ suy nghĩ của mình. Sự bình yên và tĩnh lặng thật sự rất quý giá, và đôi khi việc tìm kiếm hạnh phúc trong sự độc lập cũng rất quan trọng.

    • @jkw6196
      @jkw6196 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@roncrane4597 wise words

    • @SeattlePioneer
      @SeattlePioneer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Took you rather too long to figure that out don't you think?

  • @janericolmstead3679
    @janericolmstead3679 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    I'm 71 and my wife passed after 44 years of marriage and don't feel the need to replace her. I don't think I have the time left to try to navigate another new relationship that would be as rewarding as ours was.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thanks

    • @NEWYORKSTATEOFMIND-e1s
      @NEWYORKSTATEOFMIND-e1s 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I also lost my wife although I'm younger I share your sentiments

    • @jean-marcducommun8185
      @jean-marcducommun8185 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      At our age we just can‘t do a full circle what a happy and fulfilling marriage means. Same here …

    • @inden301
      @inden301 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It is very nice when you do find that right someone and spend the rest of your lives together with respect. until the end. Don't we all wish it.

    • @jeffmeyers2106
      @jeffmeyers2106 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lost my wife 4 months ago and do not think I will ever find someone as wonderful as her. It's hard to win the lottery twice.

  • @daves-selfie-wilderness-raves
    @daves-selfie-wilderness-raves 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    A man's ultimate achievement in his life is to be in control of it.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I agree with you. Thanks

    • @TNTinFL
      @TNTinFL 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Well said. If there is one governing philosophy I have adhered to, it is the desire for personal freedom. It means more to me than anything.

  • @mr.dennis5503
    @mr.dennis5503 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +79

    Why are older men increasingly opting to remain single? Because many older women are no more mature and sane than their younger counterparts! Who voluntarily lives out their days like that?

    • @rcas350pilot8
      @rcas350pilot8 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      You don't like blue and green hair and bat shit crazy?

    • @jimp3878
      @jimp3878 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      On point brother

    • @mr.dennis5503
      @mr.dennis5503 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @rcas350pilot8:
      SURE, I like that! I also like keeping a Nile crocodile as a house pet! 🤣🤣🤣

    • @bwnco
      @bwnco 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      100%

  • @Alan-lv9rw
    @Alan-lv9rw 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    I gave up on women in 2002 when I was 40. Best decision I ever made.

    • @jimkelly4214
      @jimkelly4214 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      1974 when I was 30!

    • @carynefuture5778
      @carynefuture5778 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      you gave up on women too Early,! Don't be afraid to live. Dare to live. You Can Still meet a loving true beautiful Woman. It's your choice.

    • @S1000xrhp
      @S1000xrhp 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@carynefuture5778 but the juice isn't worth the squeeze. They've saved themselves a lot of wasted time, not to say wasting their finances. They gave up because all the women they saw were low quality with high expectations and high maintenance.
      Don't you see that they're saying it was the best decision they ever made!

    • @MegaDavyk
      @MegaDavyk 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      2003 for me:)

  • @danieldillon6436
    @danieldillon6436 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    No one wants to be bossed around in their own house!! It's not hard to understand.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you very much

    • @PerryMarshallScott
      @PerryMarshallScott 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A few times around the track equips you to spot the red flags. The unconscious body language and attitudes only take two or three months to surface.

  • @mudhutproductions
    @mudhutproductions 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    I am not intimidated by pushy, obnoxious women. They can go have it all without me because I replaced them
    all with motorcycles. Have had peace and quiet with no artificial drama ever since.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thanks for your wonderful sharing.

    • @michaelking9818
      @michaelking9818 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Expensive mistress motorcycles

    • @502Chevy
      @502Chevy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Motorcycles, muscle cars, airplanes, boats, gun collection, cottage on a lake…….

    • @keithlowe9037
      @keithlowe9037 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@mudhutproductions Motorbikes like dogs give you unconditional love ,the more you put in the more you get out

    • @mudhutproductions
      @mudhutproductions 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@keithlowe9037 Hell yeah!

  • @sodone466
    @sodone466 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    67 and been single since I divorced my ex(you know why) 20 years ago.
    What can I say? I have peace, quiet and I am financially very well off.
    Aside from 3 holes, fee males have zero to offer.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thanks for your wonderful sharing.

  • @daveoz2445
    @daveoz2445 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    So my friends and l meet regularly. There are five of us, all in our 60s, who are happily single. We don't dislike women, its just that a relationship is out of the question. We can all see the traps and snares that women wield, and won't take the chance again. We're happy, wealthy and productive.

  • @woodmosaics
    @woodmosaics 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    At 80 years old and having been married to the same wonderful woman for a bit over 55 years, where could I find another one as compatible as she was all of those years? She stayed at home and raised our children then took care of both of our parents for a total of another 17 years. She loved to sew and I accommodated her on that on the little that I made. We made a home together and enjoyed each other’s company.

    • @ibrahimabdulrazak6926
      @ibrahimabdulrazak6926 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      You got lucky, way easier to spot a needle in a haystack than finding her type

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

  • @robertvanpelt1564
    @robertvanpelt1564 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    I so enjoy my alone time with my dogs and kids. No need for any older woman in my age range. Too much drama, anger, entitlement and looking for someone to pay their way.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for your wonderful sharing.

  • @jfnuyen
    @jfnuyen 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +68

    Boy you sure put a lot of complexities into this being single in old age deal. At 77 and widowed for 18 years now, I think at least for me, it is simple. I don't want someone (a woman) getting involved in my financial affairs, money, etc., and attempting to steal or negatively affect same in some way via the many legal ways that are available to women these days. That's it in a nutshell. I say no way Jose! 😀 PS: If you think some woman (new wife, girlfriend) is going to step up and take care of you like some nurse, dream on you fool!

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you for sharing your words

    • @Chuncy566
      @Chuncy566 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @fnuyen .you realy did a great job of spelling it out for us,thank you for your help, so true

    • @jfnuyen
      @jfnuyen 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@Chuncy566 Thanks. That is how I see it.

    • @rabick62
      @rabick62 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I'm 75 and widowed, everyone says I will find someone and be with them, married or date. Since my wife of 53 years moved to Heaven I don't have a single wish to be with another woman. I've adjusted to my peace.

    • @jfnuyen
      @jfnuyen 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@rabick62 Yes, that is basically how I feel as well.

  • @Harry-q2q6y
    @Harry-q2q6y 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    I am 64 years old. I am not interested in sexual intimacy with women who are 50 or over. I guess I'm pretty much screwed. Being a recluse isn't so bad. Very peaceful.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

    • @josephbranch2342
      @josephbranch2342 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I'm like you. I travel to Thailand every year. It's a game changer. I also pay to play with 25 year old pretty women.

    • @weltraumaffe4155
      @weltraumaffe4155 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That doesn't sound like a problem. If you ever feel the urge, it's easy to get and women in their 30s-40s give it away if they smell money.

    • @jean-marcducommun8185
      @jean-marcducommun8185 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      One should confound marriage, friendship and relation with intimacy and body action. Better separate it for your piece of mind.

  • @fredbraun5308
    @fredbraun5308 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Going on 62 and have been single for a few years, no way am I giving up the peace and freedom that I have now for some drama queen.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

  • @jimp3878
    @jimp3878 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    This video frames my story almost perfectly. At 63, retired own my house, gym regularly, I can’t deal with women in my age range and I can’t relate to most younger women. I was married in my 20’s for eight (hellish) years and 2 kids. Divorced at 30, and could never face matrimony again

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

    • @keithlowe9037
      @keithlowe9037 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@jimp3878 I wish I’d learned as early as you, I’d be wealthy or dead from having too much fun

    • @jimp3878
      @jimp3878 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@keithlowe9037 thanks for your comment. We all do the best we can with what we have at the time.

  • @terryglobal88
    @terryglobal88 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    At 76, happily divorced for over 20+ years, very financially secure, keep myself in excellent physical shape have no desire for a female of any sort except for a new female dog when my present one passes. I enjoy my male friends, a very few intelligent well spoken female friends, freedom to indulge in global travel on my time schedule, own a Porsche and penthouse on the ocean, etc. Why would I screw that up with a woman, her past, baggage, kids, etc? My relationships last 20-30 minutes or long-term one week depending on the price I am willing to pay. Sorry if this all sounds very shallow and self-serving but I sleep sound, awake with a smile while loving life.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for your wonderful sharing.

    • @ibrahimabdulrazak6926
      @ibrahimabdulrazak6926 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      You are smart and not selfish, please make sure you partake in loads of charitable events and you are good 👍

    • @lindavernon8051
      @lindavernon8051 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So you are very shallow and self serving but you’re sorry about it. LOL

    • @williambeller7574
      @williambeller7574 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The women I meet, are there for a good time… Not a long time!

    • @Tomwhite-gj4dp
      @Tomwhite-gj4dp 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You GO guy-love your post

  • @tyronewalker5764
    @tyronewalker5764 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    Sixty eight years old, never married & childfree .

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thanks for your wonderful sharing.

    • @obrenmasic398
      @obrenmasic398 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Sixty-four & dito.

    • @donpeace894
      @donpeace894 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Sounds lonely

    • @obrenmasic398
      @obrenmasic398 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@donpeace894 Naah. You get used to it. Also solitude is a beautifull thing, though I get it.
      Its not for everyone.

    • @carynefuture5778
      @carynefuture5778 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's Never too late. You Can still find a true love, a wonderful Woman. Don't be scared to live. Dare to live. You Can even have a child, your first child if you Want to, like rock stars ! Enjoy!🥳 ❤

  • @theunlearnedmind7374
    @theunlearnedmind7374 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    I won't be some woman's retirement plan. You're on your own sister.

  • @wdhubb
    @wdhubb 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I've been divorced for almost 13 years and I'm having the time of of my life. I'm at the point in my life that it's "a wrap" for me (dating wise) and I don't want to complicate my life any further with marriage or a relationship. I spend my money on myself as I see fit and I run my household without any bothers or worries of someone coming in and disrupting that. I'm too old for relationship complications. Basically, I'm good.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thanks for your wonderful sharing.

  • @Tom-bm7mm
    @Tom-bm7mm 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I'm 60. Never married. No kids. I have a girlfriend who lives about 20 km. from me. We're both happy with this arrangemetn.
    Might I add I live in Asia. Women here are far easier to deal with than North American women.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for your wonderful sharing.

  • @LenSheppard-sc2vw
    @LenSheppard-sc2vw 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    After 20 years of financial difficulties because of my wife uses credit cards, I can’t stand it. No respect no apologies from her is a divorce decision.

    • @keithlowe9037
      @keithlowe9037 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@LenSheppard-sc2vw don’t forget the gaslighting

  • @OwenKevin-wx7te
    @OwenKevin-wx7te 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    It's not only American men!

    • @TheKCaryer
      @TheKCaryer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      True, all of Western Europe, and the 1st word. ANd not just us older men, but surprising men in their 20's and 30's are obviously checking out. These young men while having many faults of their own such as lack of fathers and corn addition, have to deal with a generation of women that takes the Disney Princess entitlement to 11. "They only deserve the best" and if they are not happy, it is always the man's fault. THrow in social media which no man can keep up with, and the situation becomes a break up waiting to happen. No-fault divorce insures that. As the family goes, so does society and the nation. Demographic collapse is upon us (albeit in slow motion). Change will happen regardless if we reform family laws or not as you can't put the feminist gennie back in the bottle. But be sure, economic collapse will erase feminsim and the nanny state. It is coming.

  • @HenryRios-w9s
    @HenryRios-w9s 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    This captivating video triggers a flood of painful memories from the end of my 6-year relationship just three months ago. The woman I loved with all my heart chose to walk away, leaving me grappling with an insurmountable sense of loss. Despite my relentless efforts to salvage what we had, I'm left feeling disillusioned and unable to imagine a future without her. Despite my attempts to move on, I'm drawn to express my deep-seated longing for her here

    • @MichaelHawthorne-t9s
      @MichaelHawthorne-t9s 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      The struggle to release someone dear to your heart is undeniably arduous. I empathize, having experienced a similar circumstance when my 8 year relationship concluded. Refusing to accept defeat, I pursued every conceivable avenue to reclaim his affection. Eventually, I sought the assistance of a spiritual counselor, whose wisdom and intervention played a pivotal role in reuniting us.

    • @HenryRios-w9s
      @HenryRios-w9s 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Incredible! Where did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with him?

    • @MichaelHawthorne-t9s
      @MichaelHawthorne-t9s 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      dr apala omofulma is the name of an exceptional spiritual counselor renowned for his ability to reunite you with your former partner.

    • @HenryRios-w9s
      @HenryRios-w9s 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

  • @crucifiddle
    @crucifiddle 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Its so nice to come home to the sound of.... Nothing.😋 People say " aren't you lonely?" And I say "nope". 😃😃 Just happy.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

  • @barraabus
    @barraabus 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    As a young, growing , lad, I met and befriended some men who lived in huts they had built out of the bush that was near our home, and in which we played, and enjoyed many great times in.I still recall today how I often mentioned how clean their huts were, as I still say today, " You could eat off the floor," which was dirt. It was amazing how these men lived, and seemed quite happy. Now, at the age of 73, and living solo in a rented house,( as I lost my money through believing people),I often think back, and fully understand how, and why those friendly guys I grew up around, were living as they did.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for your wonderful sharing.

    • @BobbySanders-bf2fr
      @BobbySanders-bf2fr 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hang in there. You sound cool.

  • @bars4fd
    @bars4fd 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I could go on for weeks! Im 63, been through the wringer many times! Married 3 times, one wife died of cancer, the others were just fucked! Im sick of the bullshit women bring to the relationship! I’m sure ill be single till i die at this point. I’m definitely happier and have zero stress!

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My pleasure!

  • @belugabath
    @belugabath 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    Staying single is a real option,I am there

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thanks for your wonderful sharing.

  • @JimJones-gd2jy
    @JimJones-gd2jy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

    Imagine getting divorce grapped In your 60’s ? 😵‍💫 no thanks

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for sharing your words

    • @Onetakelifestyle3323
      @Onetakelifestyle3323 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Happened to a guy I currently work with., 62 years old married 30 years she’s getting everything even his pension. Sad 😢 asf

  • @cahlendavidson2921
    @cahlendavidson2921 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Well because as women's stock value goes down they seem to think it's going up

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I totally agree

    • @keithlowe9037
      @keithlowe9037 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@cahlendavidson2921 only if you value wrinkles and liver spots LOL

  • @QuotesWisdomOfficial
    @QuotesWisdomOfficial 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Really insightful! I never considered how factors like health issues and family dynamics could play such a big role in relationship choices for older men. Thanks for sharing!

  • @stripper4950
    @stripper4950 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    In our younger years, we get together because of sex and ignorance. In our later years sex no longer has the drive and we get smarter

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks

    • @danclark4770
      @danclark4770 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      When were young we think with the wrong head.

  • @GBU61
    @GBU61 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    Women are too much work! They offer very little that would benefit me and at retirement age all I want is peace and quiet. If I want female companionship then she can maintain her own home and I will keep mine. We can see each other when we want. Why should I live with her if i don’t have to?

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you very much

    • @Chuncy566
      @Chuncy566 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @gbu61 you got the right idea about the 2 different houses,that works great.

  • @walterfechter8080
    @walterfechter8080 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    My heavenly-resplendent wife died in November 2010. She was like a gal from my mum and dad's generation - The Great Depression and WWII. Even whilst my wife was dying from an aggressive form of cancer, she still found time for me and even others about her. My wife had unwavering faith in Jesus the Christ - even up to her last heartbeat. She always backed up whatever I attempted in this life. I have yet to find a woman who thinks and believes like my deceased wife. "I'll Never Find Another You" (The Seekers) -- for My Barbra Rose (RIP) Barb, My Darling-of-Darlings, we will be together again (and Forever) -- soon enough.

    • @jeffmeyers2106
      @jeffmeyers2106 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That song by the Seekers says it all. I will never find another you.

    • @walterfechter8080
      @walterfechter8080 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@jeffmeyers2106 For our special gals whom God had sent to us. ❤🎼🎵🎶

  • @rcas350pilot8
    @rcas350pilot8 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    I would like to point out something that seems to always be overlooked. Women age and also have health issues. You always hear that older men are looking for a nurse. Women experience health issues especially after menopause. Many men will become caregivers. I have personally seen these situations many times and can't recall how many men I have known who ended up caring for their wives. At present I know two couples and the husbands are caring for wives that now have dementia. One of the wives is only 62.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thanks for sharing, it's great

    • @snowyowlz5992
      @snowyowlz5992 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      My wife passed away 3 years ago at 62 y/o, I’m done with caregiving, period. I never wish to take that role again since I did it for years.

    • @billarchie5040
      @billarchie5040 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I have only met two women my age (65) that I felt attracted to. They were both married. There is no way I’m going to get involved with someone I’m not even attracted to.

    • @stevebc957
      @stevebc957 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes I hear this nurse with a purse stuff too but most of those purses are filled with maxed out credit cards and I've seen too many stories of men abandoned as soon as they were no longer able to be the plowhorse... Save and invest so you can purchase care in your final days (don't count on medicare).

    • @ADayInTheLifeofLori
      @ADayInTheLifeofLori 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So many of us think this a men vs women issue, but it is really an issue of the difficulty of relationships in general. Most uf us who have walked the coals of bad relationships, realize that PEACE is more valuable than all the gold in the world. I wish I would have found a partner who was rght for me, but the older I get, the more I believe it is just a fairy tale. There was a time I felt broken-hearted about this reality, but now I just feel FREE! May you all enjoy peace and freedom!

  • @M3RL1N62
    @M3RL1N62 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    We are not intimidated… just sick and tired of their bullshit.
    62 with 3 grown kids, happier than ever alone with peace.
    Alone but never lonely.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for your wonderful sharing.

    • @dankimbrough2411
      @dankimbrough2411 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Alone is not bad, but being lonely is a totally different animal for me personally.

    • @v65wings45
      @v65wings45 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are 100% correct!!!!

    • @lemostjoyousrenegade
      @lemostjoyousrenegade 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Watch a few videos of J Krishnamurti speaking about love and relationships or Anthony de Mello speaking about Love. Additionally, there’s a video of Mooji speaking about “Finding a Life Partner” it’s hilarious. He brings the message home quite succinctly in that video.
      Here’s to truly LOVING your own company and appreciating good (well suited) company when it comes and not feeling lonely (especially not desperately lonely) ever again if/when it leaves.
      One more thing that I would recommend: Listen to the song “On the Inside” by Michael Franks. It’s a beautiful song…on a great album.
      Cheers! 💫

  • @Teardehawkee
    @Teardehawkee 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I'm 60 and alone.
    My crime for being a Nice Guy.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

    • @jessegarman7899
      @jessegarman7899 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I hear what you’re saying.

    • @MegaDavyk
      @MegaDavyk 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I would say you are blessed.

    • @keithlowe9037
      @keithlowe9037 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Teardehawkee you’re not alone you are single and enjoying life.Keep that mantra in your head

  • @jazzman9103
    @jazzman9103 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This is spot on for me minus any health issues. It took a while to recover from divorce and other breakups to get where I am now and not just risky but not worth it. Being able to not wake up to new problems and threats that you don't create is peaceful beyond measure, enjoy the fall season of your life gents, Salute To You All!

    • @snowyowlz5992
      @snowyowlz5992 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Even just having my wife die from medical complications and dealing with my own health. I no longer have the wish to deal with their drama no matter how healthy I am. Peace and quiet, yeah.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      My pleasure!

  • @tuleralph6031
    @tuleralph6031 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    "I'd rather be alone than wish I was."
    Big Mike Griffin
    "To Meet the Blues"

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

  • @jamie30701
    @jamie30701 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    40 here was married 14 years 22-36 not dated since I served her papers in 2020 best choice of my life there is nothing like peace and quite. Best part is I don't have to entertain a woman or compromise anything haven't dated or hooked up since 2020 no desire or plans too living my best life alone feels good.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

  • @rayswick4707
    @rayswick4707 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    No one wants to be disrespected by anyone so allowing another person into your world at your most vulnerable age is understandable. It takes time to find someone honest to share your elder years with who isn't trying to take advantage.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

  • @mcgee227
    @mcgee227 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Im 58 and single for 11 years. I have peace and quiet. I know where my money is and how its spent. I know how to cook and keep a house.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for your wonderful sharing.

  • @alexcastillo8892
    @alexcastillo8892 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    "I'd rather spend the rest of my life wanting what I don't have, than having what I don't want. Because what's desirable in marriage is unattainable, and what is attainable is undesirable." - T.S. Mooney, Protestant Irish Minister who when he died had many testimonial letters found in his house from thousands who said their lives would have been a disaster if not for his ministry.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

  • @josedess8823
    @josedess8823 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Better alone in peace than with somebody in hell. 👍👍😜😜👍👍

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for your wonderful sharing

    • @carynefuture5778
      @carynefuture5778 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You Can also be with somebody in Haven ! Let's be positive and resilient ! We Can heal from our past wounds and find true love. We don't have to live together. We Can share wonderful moments, projects, values....

  • @fw1421
    @fw1421 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’m 71 and have been single since my divorce in 1997. I’ve stayed single because meeting available women is difficult. The women I met had been married and had children…too many children,only interested in how much money I made,had unreasonable expectations,had taken poor care of themselves,or had never been in a long term relationship and there were good reasons. I just didn’t want to go through what I had just gone through with my ex wife. I’ve been relatively happy as a single man. I live my life the way I want. I get my companionship with my dogs,they are loyal,always happy to see me and don’t judge me.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

  • @DayTwo-w8n
    @DayTwo-w8n 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    After watching this entire video I found it interesting and helpful. I'm 71. A big "1". Thank you.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's great, thank you.

  • @michaelSer
    @michaelSer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm 63 and single ,Life is very good! I never thought I could be this happy.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

  • @richardburdon3241
    @richardburdon3241 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    at 65 and married briefly 30 years ago. I still don't know what I did so wrong that made her leave. I've had opportunities to re-marry but avoided/evaded it. I still enjoy talking with women, more than men, but I'm not interested in romance. I wouldn't mind having someone to just talk to or do things with. I'd be happier with a kind word and a hug than a roll in the sheets.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

    • @lemostjoyousrenegade
      @lemostjoyousrenegade 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ‼️Book clubs. Many people enjoy them. Pickle ball is another thing that many people enjoy. ONLY do things that you feel INSPIRED to do. Not because you’re going to extract something from those activities.
      HOWEVER, I very strongly encourage you to enjoy your OWN company first, and when you do venture outdoors, don’t go LOOKING for anyone to give you attention or affection. Let things unfold organically…if you’re being your TRUE/natural self and they are being themselves (truly/naturally), then if something WHOLISTIC draws you to share some time together, it’ll be enjoyable for you both…for however long, with no desire to manipulate or play mind games with each other.
      Cheers!
      Cheers.

  • @eduardoquintana6507
    @eduardoquintana6507 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Because solitude means *PEACE* , *GOOD HEALTH* and *MONEY IN THE POCKET* . Nowadays being single is no longer a matter of _"choice"_ , but indeed, *QUALITY OF LIFE*
    No further comments

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

    • @eduardoquintana6507
      @eduardoquintana6507 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@WiseAdvice93
      My pleasure

  • @WestShoreMan
    @WestShoreMan 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Our society turned so litigious. Signing a business contract which is what a marriage is can easily drain a persons life savings and create an enormous amount of unwanted drama.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thanks for your sharing, it's great. Wish you a happy and joyful new day.

    • @Chuncy566
      @Chuncy566 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      So true

  • @dianegrimes3975
    @dianegrimes3975 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm a 7o year old woman and I find that having a football game playing on TV is a lot of company for me while I'm puttering around the house and reading, the noise of the football crowds in the background is very nice. Find things that you like doing, start a new hobby, puzzles,stay outside a lot if you can. Really think about doing something different. 😊😊😊

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

  • @charleshartman730
    @charleshartman730 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Amen, I'm 60 and done with drama

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks so much! If you find the content on my channel valuable or enjoyable, drop a comment with "1." If not, feel free to comment "0."

  • @elultimo102
    @elultimo102 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Never-married, but straight, I lived with Mom until she died at 101. We lived for each other. Now I'm alone for the first time in my life. I have no family within 500 miles, and nobody here cares if I live or die, nor would they even know. I almost married once, but wasn't ready for the four troublesome kids that were part of the deal. I think I'm mourning and missing Mom, rather than being lonely. It will be one year on Oct. 1st.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you for your kind wishes

    • @rcas350pilot8
      @rcas350pilot8 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      almost married once, but wasn't ready for the four troublesome kids that were part of the deal.
      You didn't dodge a bullet there, you just barely got out of the path of a speeding freight train.

    • @keithlowe9037
      @keithlowe9037 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@elultimo102 Death of a stable datum in your life is traumatic but temporary, trust me you will get to the end. Think on this,you haven’t finished you mourning, but when you do you dead mom would want you to move on,DONT hitch your star on the first available person , you are using that person as an emotional crutch. This will end in failure for you. To attract someone who is equivalent to you , you need to be independent and strong.you must work on this.
      Don’t give in to temptation and take the first helping hand, go with your gut it’s never wrong it’s just that we don’t listen
      Good luck on your journey
      Keith

    • @elultimo102
      @elultimo102 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@keithlowe9037 Thanks. I've always been a loner, but never really alone, until now. There is one girl that Mom hoped I might marry, who just got dumped after being strung along for years by a self-serving and duplicitous ex-fiance'. I'm sort of BFF friend zoned, but she recently said, "I could have married you." I once told her that she was one of two in my life whom I might have married, (the other having died) and that she should have gone with the "poor short guy that loves her." (She is a little shorter than I am, and five years older, but the ex was a foot taller) . Mom said that the girl and I made a cute couple, but was glommed onto by the other guy, before I made a move. There is hope---. Life does seem pointless, but I still go to the doctor, accomplish some house maintenance, and try to lose weight.

  • @samuelsanchez4885
    @samuelsanchez4885 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Wow!!!
    This video was made with me in mind!!! It’s amazing how true it is!!

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Your sharing is wonderful, have a blessed day. Thank you very much

  • @shannonriley8299
    @shannonriley8299 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    one of the better more truthful bits of life i have watched regarding how men feel about relationships when we get older....the truth is folks...the juice is no longer worth the squeeze as we get older....women pay attention to the one....if you wanna get and keep a man around.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Your sharing is wonderful, have a blessed day. Thank you very much

  • @pat5882
    @pat5882 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Not opposed to dating. However, had lunch with a woman on July 5, her profile age: 58, nice pics on the bio.
    Compared to her pics, she wasn’t 58. She looked older by about 5-7 years, I’m 59, without confronting her I ended the “date”. Can’t have liars in your life, have had enough of that.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

  • @jeffmcquade1838
    @jeffmcquade1838 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    They have nothing of value to offer

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for your wonderful sharing.

  • @MrLawrence7777
    @MrLawrence7777 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I am 62, been divorced for 25 years and truly enjoy my peace of mind living alone. I purchased a Alto Saxophone 2 months ago and I am about to start my Saxophone lessons this month to learn how to play the music 🎶 I love.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

    • @soarornor
      @soarornor 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That sounds like an amazing, good time. Best of luck! 🎷🎷🎷

    • @MrLawrence7777
      @MrLawrence7777 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @soarornor , Thanks Fam, it was a Real Great Time, Plus I learned a Lot Today on My First Day in Class.

    • @soarornor
      @soarornor 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MrLawrence7777 That’s so great. It’s going to be amazing when you really learn how to wail. Years ago I took flute lessons from a guy who would come to the house. He lived in an apartment so he couldn’t really wail. He was so happy to blow a bit of clarinet as loud as he wanted at my house. It sounded amazing. I imagine the saxophone will be even more incredible hearing it solo in a nice room. All the best to you on this endeavor. 🎷🪇🐸🪇🎷

  • @danielboone72
    @danielboone72 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    We older men don’t want the DRAMA!

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I agree with your opinion. Thank you very much

  • @Muttinchopsforevermore
    @Muttinchopsforevermore 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I'm alone in my 50s because of two reasons I'm a widower and modern women my age are emotionally damaged I may have some loss but I also have peace of mind

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Your sharing is wonderful, have a blessed day. Thank you very much

  • @MrMopar413
    @MrMopar413 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I’m now almost 70 and been a single MGTOW bachelor all my life. I walked away from this 5 decades ago. There is absolutely no upside in dating and marriage. I was able to retire early and now on my 15th year of retirement. I worked in international heavy industry as a union worker, shop steward and contract negotiator . And to think a woman try and boss me around etc GFL on that one. I’ve been to hell and back many times and fought many battles and loosing and retreating isn’t in my playbook. I can smell a shit show coming 25,000 light years away. I have peace n quiet. I do not have to contend with the committee decision making process or justify my decisions to anyone, only to myself. I’m just one phone call away to 911 in loosing everything. All these women are entitled dingbats , period. Also I have my hobbies and my own time schedule. I actually have it really quite well indeed. I’m truly blessed. And I don’t need any woman in my life totally fuck it up.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What a meaningful sharing. Thank you so much.

    • @jimkelly4214
      @jimkelly4214 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      This was the best post I read yet!

    • @MrMopar413
      @MrMopar413 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jimkelly4214 thanks. It’s just me voicing my opinions of 6 decades of real life trying to skate up hill out of the abyss of lies , life and bullshit😂😂😂😂👍

  • @AJJJ-co2vd
    @AJJJ-co2vd 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I'm almost 40 single and loving it. I'll probably watch some adult videos tonight. Play some video games and fall asleep perfectly happy. No stress i do my job go home

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

  • @johnpick8336
    @johnpick8336 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am pleasantly surprised how close you got it. Thanks for posting.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Great sharing, thank you so much

  • @WilliumGreen
    @WilliumGreen 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I am often told that I need a woman in my life. I get tired of hearing that same old thing time and time again. I am happy, my little house is filled with things that I love, my work shop houses a half restored, and much loved 1920s motorcycle. I have no debts, no worries and I do what I want, when I want. I don't feel lonely. I feel at peace with myself.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

  • @cocoa105
    @cocoa105 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This is healthy. People should value their peace above all else.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

  • @wendydaniel1110
    @wendydaniel1110 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Excellent video. As a single 65 year old female, I am quite comfortable spending the rest of my life going solo. I love my independence ,financial freedom, and many choices to have the life I want. Not willing to sacrifice my happiness for " romantic connections" with men who are stuck in old programming with their rigid , controlling, possessive, gender based oppressive mindsets. We come inti this world alone and we will leave alone.
    "My alone feels so good. I'll have you only if you're sweeter than my solitude" ❤

    • @yahiaagamy9640
      @yahiaagamy9640 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      good for you, Men also are enjoying their stress-free lives without entitled, unsatisfied, moody women.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

    • @keithlowe9037
      @keithlowe9037 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@wendydaniel1110 you sound like just the sort of woman that would be mana from heaven to a single mature man.
      Let me explain: You’re independent, self reliant, head strong, I presume you look after your self, that makes you a pretty damn good companion I wish you well

  • @Bufford2024
    @Bufford2024 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Never hug your heyena. They smile out of habit , but bite out of desire. 😂

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Your sharing is wonderful, have a blessed day. Thank you very much

    • @keithlowe9037
      @keithlowe9037 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Bufford2024 love it !

  • @rjakob8073
    @rjakob8073 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is an excellent video for older men. Thank you.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks so much! If you find the content on my channel valuable or enjoyable, drop a comment with "1." If not, feel free to comment "0."

  • @Jeff-n6o
    @Jeff-n6o 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Im a older man been through it all ! Video is excellent! That's why I'm going for an AI woman when they are on the market and if i live that long !😊

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

  • @jessebfly
    @jessebfly 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Single, stoic, peaceful, and loving it.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

  • @aciddiver1978
    @aciddiver1978 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Not just Americans. Anyway, feminism and hedonism did this.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for your wonderful sharing.

    • @lemostjoyousrenegade
      @lemostjoyousrenegade 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯‼️
      Feminism, generational family dysfunction gone unchecked for CENTURIES and now the weird FUBAR, out-of
      -order alphabet with all of its fake “genders”, TicToc, Instagram and the fact that texting has practically replaced phone calls. Even people over 40 tend to text their own family members “HBD” instead of making a call. Communication has gotten so much worse in the last 20 years and is on its way to hell in a hand basket.

  • @Guitarharmonics
    @Guitarharmonics 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i wrote this when i was around 22 and had never been in a relationship or married Poem: a woman is a strange creature: her mind is like the weather...it changes. her love is like the wind......it shifts. those words can even be applied to men, but i feel those words apply more so to women.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

  • @johnbroadway4196
    @johnbroadway4196 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I Don't have to watch this video to express my life as A Man. In why I choose to walk alone.
    Peacefulness.
    No extra over the top drama.
    Having my life being planned out.
    Making my own decisions.
    And most of ALL !
    Being ridiculed and talked behind my back ! As if I'm not worthy enough to be in a relationship.
    I have serenity, unlike women.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

  • @chucke756
    @chucke756 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good video!! Agree with most of it. Took me 7 years of hard work to recover from the divorce. Doing better now. 😊

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you very much

  • @timothycunningham7352
    @timothycunningham7352 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Getting married late in life you become responsible if that person is in need of long term medical care. That can break you.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for your wonderful sharing.

  • @marct7813
    @marct7813 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I'm 63 and semi-retired and still have a high sex drive. Women aren't interested or find the subject out of bounds, make it quite clear that there's nothing for them and aren't interested in my needs at all. Sex becomes taboo.
    On top of which, I'm not a bank to treat them every week to shows and meals out, wine and dine, and then they go home to their own lives. They think I will take them here and there.
    Women think they are doing me a favour, and I should be grateful for their company.
    Then there are those still hung up on their ex's continually asking about mine and then accuse me of not letting go.
    I just gave up, much better with my own company, I do what I please, and it's cheaper.
    I spend the money on what I want and get more pleasure out of it.

    • @happyreaper5562
      @happyreaper5562 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      high sex drive? Pattaya might be for you 😄😄

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

    • @keithlowe9037
      @keithlowe9037 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@marct7813 Think about little Jake TAHM “ all I need is a little action on the side , some one to cook and clean and, I don’t have to give half my shit away” Best line ever

  • @keithlowe9037
    @keithlowe9037 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m 68 and I’ve had a gutz full of forever trying to please my partner She left 2 yrs ago I hurt for 8 months got over the loss and moved on. I HAV NEVER BEEN MORE HAPPY NOW THAT IM FREE . My stress Level is non existent , I can’t be bothered looking let alone dating. I ride my motor bike when ever I want eat what I want, visit friends and go on holidays. Life is good , I’m not rich by any means, you live within it , so what I’m free and no one can judge me and I’m looking forward to the next years.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

  • @Roadieguru
    @Roadieguru 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I’ve got a cat, who doesn’t ask for much? No mind games….No drama….No Bull- shit? Peace…Is Priceless…and Non Negotiable?

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for your wonderful sharing.

    • @randlemcmurphy2672
      @randlemcmurphy2672 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Cats provide entertainment and laughter too.

  • @reginaldgooden3495
    @reginaldgooden3495 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    True Peace is Intoxicating!

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It really is! Finding true peace brings so much happiness and clarity.

  • @frankpierco8826
    @frankpierco8826 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Only 54, so not an older man at all. Yet single for 6 years now. And yes, there have been women showing interest. I simply cannot be bothered. Life is easy and peaceful on my own. And I can fill the dishwasher the way I see fit.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

    • @donpeace894
      @donpeace894 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are older lol

  • @LecramLong
    @LecramLong 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    A lot of truth in this video. Especially the part that many women cause unnecessary drama and stress sounds very familiar to me. Was married twice and divorced and am now 57. This video is about American men and women but you can copy it 1 on 1 on Europe.

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

  • @adriansmith7604
    @adriansmith7604 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Me divorced 35 years best time ever retired 58 age live happy peaceful life

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for your wonderful sharing.

  • @reginaldgooden3495
    @reginaldgooden3495 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Great Video 1!

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Glad you enjoyed it

  • @Onetakelifestyle3323
    @Onetakelifestyle3323 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    It’s not just older men., it’s young men aswell., I’m 33 and got screwed over., never again my peace is too important to me. Single life for me forever ❤

    • @WiseAdvice93
      @WiseAdvice93  3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your sharing is wonderful, thank you very much

    • @eeromattson5116
      @eeromattson5116 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      At 64 and recently divorced wish that prostitution was legai. Divorce was very expensive