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My partner is too hurt for me he said he take care of me but all the time he left me alone and gone with the doggie everytime we argue anywhere he go camping or whatever he go to stay hotel or apart .he dont think or worried bec.he left me alone all the time he want to so what cares he said about to me .days passed and week we see each other and were together again as he says he go bec.i attack him its just an excuse i never do anything to hurt him i respect myself honest to him and dedicated my life only for him coz i love him and im not alone he is the one who provocate all the things that happened ii try to understand he is a disorder personality post traumatic stress disorder agressive and at the same time wants to be kind good and outside with other people he act like a sympatic smart but many times he speak bad with many and infront he act like a good person and in our life private he do the same and helping me the work household but just a temporary how long! only until when he start to provocate me again that this and that today is good another day or next terrible provocation again he has problem from the character its one of our discussions also his past relationship that nothing to do anymore he calls emails that in this time he said not anymore so i fell happy not senting money nothing coz i spent all my money to him for our living he spent too but only if my money is finished. i have my income monthly he too.. in all this situations he left me and then we back togethere again and the next 1,2 months again he do the same things he knows that it hurts me. how many time we talk about this matter whatever excuse he had i said dont go away or dont escape anywhere no matter it is because i honestly dedicated my life only to you and to our doggie i do everything what you need all for his comfort im taking carring water shopping heavy bags cooking cleaning he also help me but not longer im sad its not life and no future this is not the first time happen he go away and left me alone what a partner i have and he said he never lies or betrayed to me and he swear to God as he says he open his hand and swear to all his family that he never lies to me im calm and try to understand of what he is but i lost my trust of him i love him yes and its sad to be alone without him but the discussion and fighting is always every month hes reason is he go away bec. i attack him he is more strong than me i only speak and show him i dont like it because it hurts me to be honest he listen but after that he dont care especially when he left me alone knowing that i have only him hes my everything i dont have family here he doesnt care what am i alone hes reason is because i attack him no one is attacking him we just discuss things that he did that its nothing true . 1,,2 ,mths is always the same his personality affected by drugs marijuana every day as he said its a medicine his character is always changing today is good happy another day is terrible actitude and im the fault i am who take cares of him i give share my everything to him specially my monthly payment is just to spent to our living but if its finished is the only time he spent his own money but for me it doesnt matter i am not an igoist person i give share l to him and to our doggie .i hope i have courage to forget him

Spirituality is part of the equation not to be ignored

I am an 85 year old man. I live with my wife of over 60 years. We were very active socially in our 50's but now we neither have the energy nor the desire to be involved in many activities or socializing. I agree with you that now we prefer living alone than being surrounded by friends. I prefer living alone in solitude. Now I watch You tube, read New York times, watch events on Netflix. The world has changed around us. Technology is threatening . I like my wrting down my thoughts in a journal and do silent meditations, read about new discoveries. But our human interactions are fewer. I like our aloneness.

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Heck I'm 49 hubby 51 neither one of us care to hang out with friends hell matter of fact that all stopped after having first child which is 30 now we are not in our golden years but we both have peace of mind and enjoy our lives together

He says hello friends 😂😂😅😂

Number one....love listening to your videos

I am 69 years young. I think what you say here applies to the relationship with adult children.

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Great advice. Thanks. Forgive them youngsters for they know not what they are doing.

Well done❤👍

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For 70, you have a young sounding voice. More like 35.

So, 1. Don't share what worked for you. 2. Don't brag about your success; someone in the group may be poor and needy. 3. First impressions aren't true or real. We all have masks. 4. Dress up-be pretty/handsome! 6. Old age no longer brings respect of elders. You are no longer relevant. Show respect for the younger, smarter Generation. 7. Forgive everyone anything. It is over. Don't write anything! It can be used against you Years later. 8. The old way/your way has to change! It is not better. Adapt! 10. Ignore it when someone hurts ypur feelings; they don't count anymore. At age 83 this is what was said. Har har :)) You're no longer relevant. 7.

At 71, I finally feel ok to please myself

I've done this most of my life.

shit video

As always, as long as health is good anything beyond 70 is possible.

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At 54 i agree 100pct

62 and love being alone and never lonely

Very good presentation. I have recently evolved into the kind of personality that you described here; S’wonderful!

I have a question: I have family that never talks to me, only when they want to yell at me or accuse me . . . But other than that we never speak, they never call at Christmas or to have a visit or coffee. My question is, if something happens to one of them, do I have to go to the funeral?? I don't feel that I should be obligated to show up in bad times for them when they will have nothing to do with me in good times.

I concur. II’m shocked at how underpopulated my life is. I don’t feel good about it but it’s an improvement on the questionable situationships that have (without exaggeration) destroyed my life.

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Half an hour for just 8 words ? How UN- Dutch ! 😂😂😂

I agree people suck ass especially family members

Thank you🙏

Muslim❤❤❤. 82 God is in charge. ❤❤❤ Let go and let God always. ❤❤❤

Muslim❤❤❤. 82 God is in charge. ❤❤❤ Let go and let God always. ❤❤❤

I married an older woman 10 years older. I was 21, she was 31. I am 72, and she is 82. When you add those years together, it sums up to: 154 years. Now, people say dog years are a ratio of 7:1 So, when you multiply the numbers, it sums up to 1,078 years. Now, if we lived on mercury, years are 5x faster, so now we sum up to about 5,400 years. I now have dementia, so I am told, but I have always loved math. I also love my older wife, if I could remember her name, I would tell her.

Absolutely agree...

Don't get drained ........😮

THAT IS TRUE, WHILE WE GET OLDER, WE MUST HAVE MORE WISDOM TO KNOW WHAT IS RIGHTEOUS AND WHAT IS WICKED.

Now at the age of 62 I am allreddy living this way ! I have had enough of explaining , proving , being downplayed . Respect me or pizzov .