My husband has the most obvious lying signs of anyone I’ve ever known. His voice gets high pitched and he gets angry…most likely because he knows he’s not good at lying and I’ve caught him in the act.
The idea is you talk to them a little bit first and look for changes in body language, if someone is already seeming anxious when you are talking to then about unimportant things, then when you ask them something important they are still equally anxious, it is likely they are telling the truth
I've noticed a friend always starts to yawn when they are lying....regardless of the time of day! Or when he is pretending to be casual or nonchalant about something to throw me off the scent....its blindingly obvious once I spotted the pattern!
Another sign that someone is lying is when they're asked a straight question, but they don't answer straightly. Usually, they begin talking about something else expecting you to believe them, or to lose interest in what you wish to know.
So... a liar can either stare at you or avoid eye contact... talk too much or say absolutely nothing.. Have a high-pitched or low-pitched voice.. well hot damn, this makes it really easy to spot one!🤣
Please be aware that some of these are also consistent with being on the autism spectrum. I've been called a liar about basic biographical information and lacked the social skills to have anyone in my corner.
@@leizylromero I would've commented two years ago but I've been on my private island in the Carribean, away from the internet. I just got on my private 85' yacht that has internet and saw your comment. I will most likely be on my private leer jet by the time you respond, I have an important meeting with the prime minister in the UK. Cheerio!
I had an older woman friend like that and I've caught her many times in a lie. Watch out and stay away from those kinds of people. You can't trust them
You’ve reached the last frontier. Trust me, one day you’ll find we’re very good at telling ourselves lies, too. We’re all, at least to some extent, deluded.
To be honest my friend, you shall trust someone in some part of your life. If you go buy your groceries at the supermarket; you have to trust the cashier had scanned the right prices on each item as well as to trust that he got the right amount of money while he swept your credit card. At the same time, you gotta trust each driver is following the traffic rules while you drive back home as well as you need to trust the police doing their job while leaving your car parked in some spot. In addition, if you go have a meal at some restaurant; you have to trust the server has got your order correctly as well as to trust the cook had prepared your meal deliciously. The same principle applies in business matters; we shall trust our partners are willing to fulfill their part of the contract. We, human beings are interdependent; we need each other to survive and to get prospered. If it would be just like you describe; we would be big fishes swimming in our little pond. In other words, we shall never reach any success.
If it's one thing people hate more than the truth, it's the mirror. So, you shouldn't put too much stock in that group either. Cognitive dissonance is a real thing.
i am a person who always goes into way too much detail, and answers questions in a manner like that, but I am not lying, it is just how my brain is wired. probably why i decided to go for engineering, and probably as an engineering student also reinforcign my bgrain to be overly deatiled as it is anyway
My ex boyfriend marquise youngblood did these around me. I always suspected he didn't like me and now I know I'm right now watching this video. What helps me is empathic and Virgo, who can spot a lier in a heartbeat.
This use to be the case but now people are becoming smarter at lying to the point you can't even know kinda of like sociopaths. With sociopath it's hard to tell if they are manipulating you so Mr. Brainy your video is the old ways of how to tell when someone is lying to you. You might be able to see those signs in children or young teens but as they get older they become more aware of how to lie to people to get what they want.
I'm curious about where they get this information. I don't see any citations or references haahahha. One thing I learned in college is trust only who can give you receipt.
I used to get calls and they would hang up when I answered. (old land line) When my wife at the time answered, she would say hello, hello, who is this? Then hang up. But her reaction seemed like acting and the fact she couldn't look me in the eye gave her away. She always did the bills so one day after she threw the phone bill in the trash, I took it out and saw she had called her X. Later, I asked her why she was talking to her X and she yelled that she didn't talk to her X. I showed her the phone bill and she still claimed she didn't talk to him. She said she talked to his mother, that he wasn't there, and was only charged for 1 minute. I then told her she called talk to him, and not his mother. No explanation as to why, just turned and walked out of the room. Later I found them in bed with each other so that was enough for me. I divorced her and moved to Texas to start living again. Chalked it up to experience.
I can come up with the biggest bullshit, with a straight face, and people will believe it. It's more about people's eagerness to believe than it is on the liars being allowed to lie without impunity.
I am an excellent liar ! I can lie through my teeth! Maybe I'm a psychopath. Lol Although, I have slipped from time to time. I lie to people that try to control my life. My coworker doesn't take no for an answer and tries to totally control me. So until I leave my job, I have to lie to her.
I want to get y'all's opinion about something. I think a manager at my job lied to me about not trying to scold me. The context is a long story, so I'm gonna start with this first. Okay. I made some mistakes, and she and my boss had me in the office, and the first manager lectured me. There was no dignity, respect, or patience; she made me feel like an idiot. She even said to my boss, "Is there anything you want to add." And then the next day, she said "How are you?" Patronizing, I know. Well, I gave her an apology letter for my mistakes, revealing I had ASD and wanted to "redeem" myself, and looking back, I realize that was unnecessary and self-degrading. We talked, and I think she sugarcoated her side. She said she wasn't trying "to give it to you" while wagging her finger and expressing an angry face. I don't know. The evidence in the office contradicts her claim. She also said she was just trying to help me be successful. Oh, so in other words, I'm a failure without her help? She claimed she was trying to make sure I understood...what was right? I can't finish her sentence, because I'm already forgetting her words. All I know is it included helping me understand. She sounded patient and understanding about my challenge in life, but where was this in the office? You can't just talk to someone firmly and without dignity and then act wary the next day. Now, despite not writing the context of my mistakes and the lecture, do you guys see lies and patronization on her side? I'll explain my secret side later, but let me say first, I own my mistakes. I don't want anyone thinking I'm making her the one and only bad guy.
@@Ultamami I suppose you could say that, but it isn’t just about me. I screwed up and take responsibility, but I insist the manager didn’t handle my mistakes right and was being disrespectful and patronizing
My husband is great at deflection. Changing the subject, pointing a finger at someone else, etc. Anything that will buy him time or throw me off track from the questions I’m presently asking. Then there’s anger, defensiveness and stonewalling. Not speaking to me for days until he can construct an answer he thinks I’ll accept. Or he’ll say something to piss me off or hurt my feelings so that I’ll not speak to him for days, again buying him time to come up with an answer. But when he does, then he gets to be magnanimous by apologizing for his behavior first, then coat his lie with good intentions of wanting to “own” his bad behavior! He also does all of the 12 mentioned here.
Tina Gould: It can mean that they’re uncomfortable with the conversation that could expose their lie(s) and they’re looking for a way to escape! It can also mean that they’re looking for the answer that matches the lies they’ve already told, their brain is searching for the memory of their lies.
@@tinagould4942 You’re welcome. Glad I could help. The examples I gave were in reference to identifying lying. However, if you are a visual learner, like me, my eyes will look up as if I’m reading when I’m trying to recall something I’ve read, seen or thought. If I’m looking inside to recall a feeling, my eyes look downward and search inwardly. But that introspection is usually much slower. So, eyes can go back and forth for different scenarios. But if it’s abnormally rapid (not their normal behavior) then it’s probably a discomfort and escape behavior.
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People with bad teeth will cover their mouths when speaking at all. They aren’t lying!! Just ashamed. Some people are so used to lying they will say anything at all and don’t care how you react of perceive them. I have known many many people, men and woman, who spout stuff and when later we try to hold them to what they said (how did the funeral go? Is your son’s cut arm OK?) they will look astonished and deny even telling you that stupid lie. “I said THAT???” They exclaim. “We talked last week???? I don’t remember (our two hour phone conversation). They even have the nerve to shake their heads, laugh and say they can’t believe they told me that, it was bull. These videos aren’t helpful at all. Most chronic liars are indifferent to how they wound.
I'm not trying to say I'm a lier but I know how to hide stuff because I know how like the way I react I usually use my stern voice and that's always how I've used it and usually I'm not relaxed so that would be a sign of something so like I'm not even relaxed usually like I'm always doing something like usually over the edge for some reason it just depends. If I'm trying to hide something no one can tell
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My husband has the most obvious lying signs of anyone I’ve ever known. His voice gets high pitched and he gets angry…most likely because he knows he’s not good at lying and I’ve caught him in the act.
I make a point of not lying to anyone it's been bad in the past but just being honest is so much simpler
I forget who said this, "when you tell the truth, you'll never have to remember what lie you told to who."
A lot of these are signs of anxiety which doesn't mean someone is lying. It's a bit unfair to assume that anxiety necessarily equates to lying.
The idea is you talk to them a little bit first and look for changes in body language, if someone is already seeming anxious when you are talking to then about unimportant things, then when you ask them something important they are still equally anxious, it is likely they are telling the truth
Agreed.
I've noticed a friend always starts to yawn when they are lying....regardless of the time of day! Or when he is pretending to be casual or nonchalant about something to throw me off the scent....its blindingly obvious once I spotted the pattern!
People who yawn in my face when I talk to them it is because they are not interested to what I have to say.
@@punkerz250 not only that they could be tired as well
Another sign that someone is lying is when they're asked a straight question, but they don't answer straightly. Usually, they begin talking about something else expecting you to believe them, or to lose interest in what you wish to know.
So... a liar can either stare at you or avoid eye contact...
talk too much or say absolutely nothing..
Have a high-pitched or low-pitched voice.. well hot damn, this makes it really easy to spot one!🤣
Please be aware that some of these are also consistent with being on the autism spectrum. I've been called a liar about basic biographical information and lacked the social skills to have anyone in my corner.
Me too.
Number one: they avoid eye contact
Neurodivergents: well that's just great!
The meanest liars are the ones who cannot stop looking at you.
Idk if these are signs of lying, I tend to do these things when I’m annoyed or suspicious.
I can tell, you are lying.
@@saxon1177 cool comment bro 👍 two years later 🤣
@@leizylromero I would've commented two years ago but I've been on my private island in the Carribean, away from the internet. I just got on my private 85' yacht that has internet and saw your comment. I will most likely be on my private leer jet by the time you respond, I have an important meeting with the prime minister in the UK. Cheerio!
What’s worse than a lie? Being disbelieved when recounting actual eye witness experiences
Ok noted.. Next time I'll keep these points in mind to be a better liar😂😂
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I had an older woman friend like that and I've caught her many times in a lie. Watch out and stay away from those kinds of people. You can't trust them
My brother is like this but the thing is he’s very bad at it
@@Ace01234k That's even worse
With my experiences in life, I don't trust anyone. The only group I do trust are ME, MYSELF, AND I.
Same here !
You’ve reached the last frontier. Trust me, one day you’ll find we’re very good at telling ourselves lies, too. We’re all, at least to some extent, deluded.
To be honest my friend, you shall trust someone in some part of your life. If you go buy your groceries at the supermarket; you have to trust the cashier had scanned the right prices on each item as well as to trust that he got the right amount of money while he swept your credit card. At the same time, you gotta trust each driver is following the traffic rules while you drive back home as well as you need to trust the police doing their job while leaving your car parked in some spot. In addition, if you go have a meal at some restaurant; you have to trust the server has got your order correctly as well as to trust the cook had prepared your meal deliciously. The same principle applies in business matters; we shall trust our partners are willing to fulfill their part of the contract.
We, human beings are interdependent; we need each other to survive and to get prospered. If it would be just like you describe; we would be big fishes swimming in our little pond. In other words, we shall never reach any success.
If it's one thing people hate more than the truth, it's the mirror. So, you shouldn't put too much stock in that group either. Cognitive dissonance is a real thing.
Welcome in the club!!
My sister's are huge liars. Tell you anything. And when caught, they double down. You listened wrong. One is a cop 😮😮😮
Best one yet
I do all of these things while telling what I know to be true. Does that make me an honest liar?
i am a person who always goes into way too much detail, and answers questions in a manner like that, but I am not lying, it is just how my brain is wired. probably why i decided to go for engineering, and probably as an engineering student also reinforcign my bgrain to be overly deatiled as it is anyway
Some lie without any sign of lying. they are so enthusiastic when lying...
My ex boyfriend marquise youngblood did these around me.
I always suspected he didn't like me and now I know I'm right now watching this video. What helps me is empathic and Virgo, who can spot a lier in a heartbeat.
*liar 😉
I watched the videos and know the covert skills. My fav game? Nice song, Mean song. LOL!
this is great stuff to know :)
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If someone shows 1 of these signs they are lying? Or it is more than 1?
Fake people around us 😡
The voice pitch and speaking faster isn't necessarily a sign. I'm ADHD and those 2 things are normal behavior for me.
This use to be the case but now people are becoming smarter at lying to the point you can't even know kinda of like sociopaths. With sociopath it's hard to tell if they are manipulating you so Mr. Brainy your video is the old ways of how to tell when someone is lying to you. You might be able to see those signs in children or young teens but as they get older they become more aware of how to lie to people to get what they want.
Already experienced 🙄👍
He plays games,he doesnt get angry he gets real sweet and seems to know it all, He hides ,he is a real pain in the ...well, you know what I mean.
I'm curious about where they get this information. I don't see any citations or references haahahha. One thing I learned in college is trust only who can give you receipt.
I used to get calls and they would hang up when I answered. (old land line) When my wife at the time answered, she would say hello, hello, who is this? Then hang up. But her reaction seemed like acting and the fact she couldn't look me in the eye gave her away. She always did the bills so one day after she threw the phone bill in the trash, I took it out and saw she had called her X. Later, I asked her why she was talking to her X and she yelled that she didn't talk to her X. I showed her the phone bill and she still claimed she didn't talk to him. She said she talked to his mother, that he wasn't there, and was only charged for 1 minute. I then told her she called talk to him, and not his mother. No explanation as to why, just turned and walked out of the room. Later I found them in bed with each other so that was enough for me. I divorced her and moved to Texas to start living again. Chalked it up to experience.
ALWAYS OCCUPIED WITH PHONE ETC HEAD DOWN NEVER LOOK YOU IN YOUR FACE
Maybe they don't like your face.
Maybe they don't like your face.
Maybe they don't like your face.
Maybe they don't like your face.
Maybe they don't like your face.
How to tell if someone is lying through text?
Just read the History of Denmark!! Lies from A to Z- all of it!!
No 13 you are talking to a politician.
That is so 👍 true
Yep you're not wrong there
I can come up with the biggest bullshit, with a straight face, and people will believe it. It's more about people's eagerness to believe than it is on the liars being allowed to lie without impunity.
I am an excellent liar ! I can lie through my teeth! Maybe I'm a psychopath. Lol Although, I have slipped from time to time. I lie to people that try to control my life. My coworker doesn't take no for an answer and tries to totally control me. So until I leave my job, I have to lie to her.
I have stage fear fear of talk to strangers
A dodgy character will often ( dodge ) the question.
I want to get y'all's opinion about something. I think a manager at my job lied to me about not trying to scold me. The context is a long story, so I'm gonna start with this first. Okay. I made some mistakes, and she and my boss had me in the office, and the first manager lectured me. There was no dignity, respect, or patience; she made me feel like an idiot. She even said to my boss, "Is there anything you want to add." And then the next day, she said "How are you?" Patronizing, I know. Well, I gave her an apology letter for my mistakes, revealing I had ASD and wanted to "redeem" myself, and looking back, I realize that was unnecessary and self-degrading.
We talked, and I think she sugarcoated her side. She said she wasn't trying "to give it to you" while wagging her finger and expressing an angry face. I don't know. The evidence in the office contradicts her claim. She also said she was just trying to help me be successful. Oh, so in other words, I'm a failure without her help? She claimed she was trying to make sure I understood...what was right? I can't finish her sentence, because I'm already forgetting her words. All I know is it included helping me understand. She sounded patient and understanding about my challenge in life, but where was this in the office? You can't just talk to someone firmly and without dignity and then act wary the next day. Now, despite not writing the context of my mistakes and the lecture, do you guys see lies and patronization on her side? I'll explain my secret side later, but let me say first, I own my mistakes. I don't want anyone thinking I'm making her the one and only bad guy.
*self-deprecating 😉
@@Ultamami I suppose you could say that, but it isn’t just about me. I screwed up and take responsibility, but I insist the manager didn’t handle my mistakes right and was being disrespectful and patronizing
What if the list isn’t intimidated by the victim and shows no emotion whatsoever you can’t assume the liar is intimidated by the victim
Liar*
Or they become extremely hesitant
Great, everyone is a liar.
My husband is great at deflection. Changing the subject, pointing a finger at someone else, etc. Anything that will buy him time or throw me off track from the questions I’m presently asking. Then there’s anger, defensiveness and stonewalling. Not speaking to me for days until he can construct an answer he thinks I’ll accept. Or he’ll say something to piss me off or hurt my feelings so that I’ll not speak to him for days, again buying him time to come up with an answer. But when he does, then he gets to be magnanimous by apologizing for his behavior first, then coat his lie with good intentions of wanting to “own” his bad behavior! He also does all of the 12 mentioned here.
Shout-out to this lady just roasting her marriage.
Do you think it is more easy to lie when people less see other than before ? We "talk"by "text".
What does it mean when the eyes dart back and forth very rapidly???
They could have a medical or a neurological condition call “Nastagmus”
Tina Gould: It can mean that they’re uncomfortable with the conversation that could expose their lie(s) and they’re looking for a way to escape! It can also mean that they’re looking for the answer that matches the lies they’ve already told, their brain is searching for the memory of their lies.
@@terrywade3696 thank you so much. That makes sense.
@@tinagould4942 You’re welcome. Glad I could help. The examples I gave were in reference to identifying lying.
However, if you are a visual learner, like me, my eyes will look up as if I’m reading when I’m trying to recall something I’ve read, seen or thought. If I’m looking inside to recall a feeling, my eyes look downward and search inwardly. But that introspection is usually much slower. So, eyes can go back and forth for different scenarios. But if it’s abnormally rapid (not their normal behavior) then it’s probably a discomfort and escape behavior.
Never be fool on woman don't be to fast to fall in love with them take time to fall in love with them. Know one each other's 🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂trust is the importance in the relationship cuz u have more peace like that .......................................
At the 4 minute mark ( item no. 8 ) the moving of feet shuffling, can be know as ( Shifty ) . .. he is a shifty character..
*known
People with bad teeth will cover their mouths when speaking at all. They aren’t lying!! Just ashamed.
Some people are so used to lying they will say anything at all and don’t care how you react of perceive them. I have known many many people, men and woman, who spout stuff and when later we try to hold them to what they said (how did the funeral go? Is your son’s cut arm OK?) they will look astonished and deny even telling you that stupid lie. “I said THAT???” They exclaim. “We talked last week???? I don’t remember (our two hour phone conversation). They even have the nerve to shake their heads, laugh and say they can’t believe they told me that, it was bull. These videos aren’t helpful at all. Most chronic liars are indifferent to how they wound.
#1 not true for all, I do that because I lack of confidence and also when I look down it is because I look iside myself for telling the right answer.
My friend is always lying to me oh my god
I'm not trying to say I'm a lier but I know how to hide stuff because I know how like the way I react I usually use my stern voice and that's always how I've used it and usually I'm not relaxed so that would be a sign of something so like I'm not even relaxed usually like I'm always doing something like usually over the edge for some reason it just depends. If I'm trying to hide something no one can tell
*liar
My ex - her lips were moving. Dead give away.
Current roommate
Number 13, their last name is Biden or Psaki.
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Biden has all 13
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It's what our brain need eat...! That's why this channel name b.d.
My son is a pretty good lair because when i know he's lieing i dont notice any of this
*lying