1: no sincere smile 2: don't mirror you 3: avoid looking in the eyes 4: intense eye contact 5: conversations seem fake 6: they're to the point, short & cold 7: things feel awkward 8: there is little or no touch 9: never make plans with you 10: never truly listen 11: respond with just emojis 12: body language is not open 13: feel it in your gut/ intuitively Signs someone else is NOT keen on you!
all 300 of my friends are like this. I never get invited to anything, always the one left out, and always have been. i feel very alone and not sure how to cope.
Here is my humble opinion, don't fear the one who hate you, don't runaway from them, indeed, rise to the occasion and leave them behind FOR GOOD cause they always want to come back but never forget that miserable peoples are not worth your time. When somebody show you who they are, BELIEVE IT.
While this could be true. I believe that a person who hates you does not have to exhibit all of these characteristics. I have seen some , but not all and found out people were hateful. The biggest one that did not make the list was yelling or finding a way to purposely embarrass the person to look bigger. These are also forms of hate. Cutting people speech off and telling them to not talk at all, then walk away. Any guilt shaming. Destruction of property, stealing. ❤❤❤ come on there are more ways to suggest hate. Talking behind gossiping making lies up about the person.
Sometimes the real reason people don’t do eye contact is because they’re shy people. I always been shy. Don’t feel comfortable looking everyone in the eyes. Does that mean I hate the individual? Certainly not!
My brother-in-law Doug has shown me 12 of the 13 signs that he absolutely hates me. He hates me because my sister assisted me financially when I didn’t even ask her to. She did it out of the graciousness of her heart. He also hates me because I stood up to my grandmother who constantly put me down no matter how much I loved her before she died in 2019. The crazy thing is that my grandmother insisted that I be the only person with her in the room when she passed away. My brother-in-law also does not know that I had permission from my father to stand up to my grandmother when I couldn’t take the verbal abuse anymore . I did have good times with her, but for some reason, she just enjoyed putting me down which never made sense to me. This video was very helpful because it just confirmed for me that I know my brother-in-law hates me and it’s not totally a gut feeling anymore.
I could care less how somebody may feel about me!! When I know for a fact people are struggling mentally,, that's more then enough problems for them to even be worried about trying to even hate me 💪👌
Suggestion for the Next Video: 13 Signs the Writer of This Channel Might be a Little Too Paranoid. (In other words, these signs are not guarantees that someone actually hates you. They might be having a bad day. They might be introverts, or even have autism, which makes it difficult to interact with others in a social situation. Or they may just be cautious of you because they don’t know you well enough yet to trust you. We don’t all have the same code. Misunderstandings are rather common. Use caution and don’t make assumptions of others based on a general checklist like this one. Here’s a good series of steps to follow to know if others secretly hate you: just keep being nice to them, and don’t knowingly put pressure on them. Give them some time and space and they might respond. On the other hand, if they are entertaining secret ideas of animosity or hatred towards you, it will boil up until they cannot hold back anymore. And when that happens, you will not be left in any doubt. They will make it clear even if there is a room full of people around. Feeling Hatred for someone is a vicious and unhealthy habit that eats up people who feel it until they either recognize it and stop or else it destroys them.)
Has autism become a new normal? How many people you know are autistic? Here don't consider the situation, if you work in a setup where autistic persons are involved in a huge number. Tomorrow, one may say that everybody is mad just because he works in a mental hospital and he has to deal with those cases. I can give discount in case of madness, but autism? Oh come on dude!
@@mayank64723, it’s what they call a spectrum disorder. And yes, it’s very common, but not everyone on it is afflicted to the same degree. Some are able to function in regular society despite it, and others will need special care their entire life. I can tell by the tone of your previous comment that you probably are skeptical. Certainly you have reason to be. But I can assure you, from both perspectives, that it is real. Painfully real. The mental and emotional struggles that come with this disorder of the brain are so severe, that I personally wouldn’t wish them on my worst enemy. I am not proud of it, I personally do not consider it a “neurodivergence.” It’s a gift and a curse. You’re not the first one who has said these things to me. But maybe you’re the first one that might listen.
Dump them.Find new friends.They don't deserve your company.Find a hobby you like or volunteer somewhere.I find that as I get older I care less about who I leave behind.A few true friends are enough.Those I can call when down and they boost me up.Those who accept me as I am.😮
Most people are afraid of me, but in 30 years of adulthood I never started a fight, never got arrested and consider myself a pacifist. I want to know why, but my point is that people decide who you are and like or hate the person they just invented. You can't change that.
II know that feeling... What does it mean when a person Threatens you for leaving Clothes in the Dryer? - What about of they Fracture your Skull? Is that Love? - If we worry constantly over what others think of us, we'll have no life? Diplomacy is frequently necessary to our dealings with others - It's just a consequence of structured Society...
It may be the case, but then, it 'may not' be the case. Also in both kind of cultures you mentioned, there may be persons who act opposite to their cultural norms. Now find out where do you come from, and how that person(s) is/are behaving. Is their behaviour in line with the culture (s)he/they belong to?
The workplace is full on this type of nonsense and the perpetrator is too pig-headed to appreciate that it is ruinous to the prosperity of the workplace.
Yes she hates me for asking her out, I wanted to ignore the signs because I was and still am infatuated with her, unfortunately for me she doesn't even want me as a friend, I'm going through a tough time trying to forget her but easily said than done, still trying to heal.
That true because once your different they started Whisper back at you how selfish pr!cks always unhappiness on them so don't like that hater get to you. For real? Nope truth whatever they acting cruel or disrespectful.
They makes plans, but to flake out leave me hanging for 3 days. When I said I was fine with they decision of location they wanted, then left no message till 3 days then to get they're not feeling well, Then to say next day when we were meant to meet, to say ooh are you kinda pissed off, like they wanted me to be!! Omg so loud to me and wanted me to have a go, but left a message, oh whybsay that and that I understand hope you feel better this morning, etc left lovely emoji's, before that it'll be subtle insults in my appearances, and scheming ways! Make arrangements but never followed up on them. Now distance myself in my silence. I called them out never worked. That showed me jealous and hate goes together. I know now how they feel about me. Hate when I ignored there insults calmly and they scheming ways. But I know even if they don't know I know!! but it hurts when its family member! 😔 when I was fun, love, kind, and loyal. Give them praise and good compliments. They were completely the opposite. with backhanded compliments.
I think all the of them are not facts some might feel stress or there are alot of people who love you so so much that they prefer to stay away from you cuz they think that they can make you sad or something or may be you dont like them sometimes a person dont even smile at you cuz they are intimidated by you or maybe they have some mental issues .. haters are different thing if someone hates you they would give u a vibe of hatred.. srsly nowadays you cant judge someone on the basis of how they react or on just watching some youtube video iam studying psychology.. up until now i have seen one thing that we all are so positive and yet selfish that we only see that the specific person is behaving differently towards us but if you focus lil bit that person is also behaving with others the same way .. try to focus on possiblities and also look for another side too after all we are human beings.. dont force people to like you if they dont you would call them hater jealous easily .. i have done these things before srsly but thank God that i never did to them on their faces it would came out that the person had severe issues with family or another friend of mine who is continously treating them badly but they cant say anything to avoid fights..
A bit I can't quite tell I'm confused by it even I don't know who are my actual friends or who are not who are not real friends but can tell that I getting mixed feelings on some but can't quite tell to be honest
They give you non sense or bbs. I had this carpenter or handy man who said there were too many cabinet handles I bought… like why does it matter if I have more than enough? Or they come up with lies to cause you trouble.. the handy man says the new appliance I bought does not fit and I need to send it back, yet turns out when I call someone else to verify this , he changes his story. They also roll their eyes and yell out stuff like they are in charge when they are not. I ended up firing this man working on my house.
I've read your comment and it made a knot in my throat 😢 to read this!!! I'm not going to ask you how are because I can imagine the pain you're going through ?. how old was your son?
Mostly when its always you who said good morning they use to squize lips with a fake half smile This is jealousy of something u have and they are unable to have.
ya this one young woman who me and her have been locking eyes for 2 years.... it matches what you say here but then i am getting mixed messages.... so since I'm very attractive that means no one of the opposite sex likes me? i like he too very much... i thing she would had made it obvious a long time ago but again i avoid eye contact with her... Many people do this i can tell when they are insecure, They exhibit behavior that said they don't like you... now I'm thinking every one dislikes me. i very attractive presentable but always alone no friends no dates never sec. i don't know any more as i get older I'm seeing more and more of this..... that grill staares at me... she crosses her arms when shes at a stand still across from me.... she knows much about me and never goes to where she can find me..... i believe she does avoid me if i am in the dinning room and goes to her car..when I'm there.... because i walked in her store she was in the dinning room . When shes forced to walk by me she looks to the side and not pleasant... i believe she is shy and frusr=trated with me as I'm prob the man of her dreams... so with all these mixed messages i really more confused and my life is ups and downs I'm very lonely i ave not been sexually active for 20 years,,,, now they might thinkim to hot? I cant c any reason why they all to this to me.. and when i talk to them they minimixe there response. i am so confused! i feel invisible to every ones... people that i have seen for years to this day don't talk to me.... so those are the facts can some one make sense of all this and tell me what is possible going on?
I've been nominated twice the Nobel Peace prize and there's a David rail day in my state but people don't get along with me because of that they don't know what to say
it's the actions as well. put it this way, just started at a brand-new company, The company literally is only a few months old. General Manager has very little to do with me and you can say almost stand offish. GM has almost zero experience in this industry that I work in. I'm a 10 year Veteran, Well I am putting my Office together He walks in and puts his can of soda in the cardboard box the office desk came in, mind you it's not a trash can and you brought that can with you, take it with you. So i can take it a few ways, but I look at things Differently. If I was the owner would you put that can in my office chances are no! So why would you put it in mine. Respect is a serious thing, the dumbass has been making serious mistakes since day one. The Owner is a 27 year old tech bro that wanted to start a Construction business for some strange reason. So he hired this dumbass because he has some managment experience but wrong field is serious business.
I don't let people inside my home mostly because I have lived alone for so long and my place may be unkempt for outsiders. But I hate absolutely no one . I care deeply for everybody on God's green earth and do not wish to subject them to brand of lifestyle behind closed doors because I'm fairly sure to be honestly criticized, knowing full well I need a change
1: no sincere smile
2: don't mirror you
3: avoid looking in the eyes
4: intense eye contact
5: conversations seem fake
6: they're to the point, short & cold
7: things feel awkward
8: there is little or no touch
9: never make plans with you
10: never truly listen
11: respond with just emojis
12: body language is not open
13: feel it in your gut/ intuitively
Signs someone else is NOT keen on you!
Thank you for the list! 🙏
all 300 of my friends are like this. I never get invited to anything, always the one left out, and always have been. i feel very alone and not sure how to cope.
This is one crappy video.
@@kimb6508 I have 4 friends, total. I've seen evidence of the above list from "people" since forever.
@@datroof2262 Click bait. "Be sure to hang out to the end".
They try an turn others against you, to make you feel as if you don't matter. What's bad is you, aren't able to prove it,
That’s my mum 😩😩
@@fezekaMiya that's sad to hear,
They are ugly inside and outside 😂
Why let them near you, then? Are you a Sadist?
Here is my humble opinion, don't fear the one who hate you, don't runaway from them, indeed, rise to the occasion and leave them behind FOR GOOD cause they always want to come back but never forget that miserable peoples are not worth your time. When somebody show you who they are, BELIEVE IT.
While this could be true. I believe that a person who hates you does not have to exhibit all of these characteristics. I have seen some , but not all and found out people were hateful. The biggest one that did not make the list was yelling or finding a way to purposely embarrass the person to look bigger. These are also forms of hate. Cutting people speech off and telling them to not talk at all, then walk away. Any guilt shaming. Destruction of property, stealing. ❤❤❤ come on there are more ways to suggest hate. Talking behind gossiping making lies up about the person.
Nobody said they have to exhibit all of them.
Sometimes the real reason people don’t do eye contact is because they’re shy people. I always been shy. Don’t feel comfortable looking everyone in the eyes. Does that mean I hate the individual? Certainly not!
My brother-in-law Doug has shown me 12 of the 13 signs that he absolutely hates me. He hates me because my sister assisted me financially when I didn’t even ask her to. She did it out of the graciousness of her heart. He also hates me because I stood up to my grandmother who constantly put me down no matter how much I loved her before she died in 2019. The crazy thing is that my grandmother insisted that I be the only person with her in the room when she passed away. My brother-in-law also does not know that I had permission from my father to stand up to my grandmother when I couldn’t take the verbal abuse anymore . I did have good times with her, but for some reason, she just enjoyed putting me down which never made sense to me. This video was very helpful because it just confirmed for me that I know my brother-in-law hates me and it’s not totally a gut feeling anymore.
I could care less how somebody may feel about me!! When I know for a fact people are struggling mentally,, that's more then enough problems for them to even be worried about trying to even hate me 💪👌
💯 very true about this topic people who hate another person
Very interesting comments. So true!
Leave your haters in the dust,Haters are evil little demons....
Haters are miserable!
@@TinaWright-iq2pd All day and night...
But sometimes if someone doesn't look in your eyes means they r maybe insecure. Because I was like that. I didn't feel confident at all.
Yeah, that is one of those Cop things about which direction you look. It's more pop psych bullshit. People ARE insecure.
Good analysis!
Suggestion for the Next Video: 13 Signs the Writer of This Channel Might be a Little Too Paranoid. (In other words, these signs are not guarantees that someone actually hates you. They might be having a bad day. They might be introverts, or even have autism, which makes it difficult to interact with others in a social situation. Or they may just be cautious of you because they don’t know you well enough yet to trust you. We don’t all have the same code. Misunderstandings are rather common. Use caution and don’t make assumptions of others based on a general checklist like this one. Here’s a good series of steps to follow to know if others secretly hate you: just keep being nice to them, and don’t knowingly put pressure on them. Give them some time and space and they might respond. On the other hand, if they are entertaining secret ideas of animosity or hatred towards you, it will boil up until they cannot hold back anymore. And when that happens, you will not be left in any doubt. They will make it clear even if there is a room full of people around. Feeling Hatred for someone is a vicious and unhealthy habit that eats up people who feel it until they either recognize it and stop or else it destroys them.)
Some people take a while to open up.
LOL. Thanks.
Has autism become a new normal? How many people you know are autistic? Here don't consider the situation, if you work in a setup where autistic persons are involved in a huge number. Tomorrow, one may say that everybody is mad just because he works in a mental hospital and he has to deal with those cases. I can give discount in case of madness, but autism? Oh come on dude!
@@mayank64723, it’s what they call a spectrum disorder. And yes, it’s very common, but not everyone on it is afflicted to the same degree. Some are able to function in regular society despite it, and others will need special care their entire life. I can tell by the tone of your previous comment that you probably are skeptical. Certainly you have reason to be. But I can assure you, from both perspectives, that it is real. Painfully real. The mental and emotional struggles that come with this disorder of the brain are so severe, that I personally wouldn’t wish them on my worst enemy. I am not proud of it, I personally do not consider it a “neurodivergence.” It’s a gift and a curse. You’re not the first one who has said these things to me. But maybe you’re the first one that might listen.
It feel like most of the friends have been avoiding me and making me feeling very lonely
That also happened to me🙁💔
Dump them.Find new friends.They don't deserve your company.Find a hobby you like or volunteer somewhere.I find that as I get older I care less about who I leave behind.A few true friends are enough.Those I can call when down and they boost me up.Those who accept me as I am.😮
Most people are afraid of me, but in 30 years of adulthood I never started a fight, never got arrested and consider myself a pacifist. I want to know why, but my point is that people decide who you are and like or hate the person they just invented. You can't change that.
Dam that's SO True
you probably have a "I don't give a fuck about nothing" attitude.
If it's true, people often are very afraid and do not like these kind of people
So u guess this list doesn't include introverts
I guess introverts don't like anybody well enough to act like they do like them.
I hate people some times
Name someone who does not.
Haha@@keithpodhradsky1314
II know that feeling... What does it mean when a person Threatens you for leaving Clothes in the Dryer? - What about of they Fracture your Skull? Is that Love? - If we worry constantly over what others think of us, we'll have no life? Diplomacy is frequently necessary to our dealings with others - It's just a consequence of structured Society...
In some cultures, eye contact is considered hostile and rude, so if they're a avoiding your eyes, they're being respectful.
It may be the case, but then, it 'may not' be the case. Also in both kind of cultures you mentioned, there may be persons who act opposite to their cultural norms. Now find out where do you come from, and how that person(s) is/are behaving. Is their behaviour in line with the culture (s)he/they belong to?
Sadly I like and respect them so I hope that isn’t true
Hatred is cold and indifferent.....
Everything is true.
The workplace is full on this type of nonsense and the perpetrator is too pig-headed to appreciate that it is ruinous to the prosperity of the workplace.
0:12 DAMN IT I THOGHT THAT WAS ALBERT FROM FLAMINGO LOL
SAME
Yes she hates me for asking her out, I wanted to ignore the signs because I was and still am infatuated with her, unfortunately for me she doesn't even want me as a friend, I'm going through a tough time trying to forget her but easily said than done, still trying to heal.
That true because once your different they started Whisper back at you how selfish pr!cks always unhappiness on them so don't like that hater get to you. For real? Nope truth whatever they acting cruel or disrespectful.
They makes plans, but to flake out leave me hanging for 3 days. When I said I was fine with they decision of location they wanted, then left no message till 3 days then to get they're not feeling well, Then to say next day when we were meant to meet, to say ooh are you kinda pissed off, like they wanted me to be!! Omg so loud to me and wanted me to have a go, but left a message, oh whybsay that and that I understand hope you feel better this morning, etc left lovely emoji's, before that it'll be subtle insults in my appearances, and scheming ways! Make arrangements but never followed up on them. Now distance myself in my silence. I called them out never worked. That showed me jealous and hate goes together. I know now how they feel about me. Hate when I ignored there insults calmly and they scheming ways. But I know even if they don't know I know!! but it hurts when its family member! 😔 when I was fun, love, kind, and loyal. Give them praise and good compliments. They were completely the opposite. with backhanded compliments.
Then leave them the fuck alone and move on.
I think all the of them are not facts some might feel stress or there are alot of people who love you so so much that they prefer to stay away from you cuz they think that they can make you sad or something or may be you dont like them sometimes a person dont even smile at you cuz they are intimidated by you or maybe they have some mental issues .. haters are different thing if someone hates you they would give u a vibe of hatred.. srsly nowadays you cant judge someone on the basis of how they react or on just watching some youtube video iam studying psychology.. up until now i have seen one thing that we all are so positive and yet selfish that we only see that the specific person is behaving differently towards us but if you focus lil bit that person is also behaving with others the same way .. try to focus on possiblities and also look for another side too after all we are human beings.. dont force people to like you if they dont you would call them hater jealous easily .. i have done these things before srsly but thank God that i never did to them on their faces it would came out that the person had severe issues with family or another friend of mine who is continously treating them badly but they cant say anything to avoid fights..
A bit I can't quite tell I'm confused by it even I don't know who are my actual friends or who are not who are not real friends but can tell that I getting mixed feelings on some but can't quite tell to be honest
We have all dealt with this.
They give you non sense or bbs. I had this carpenter or handy man who said there were too many cabinet handles I bought… like why does it matter if I have more than enough? Or they come up with lies to cause you trouble.. the handy man says the new appliance I bought does not fit and I need to send it back, yet turns out when I call someone else to verify this , he changes his story. They also roll their eyes and yell out stuff like they are in charge when they are not. I ended up firing this man working on my house.
It's not a secret when you are an empath.🙏❤
Some people are shy, some have not been taught normal behavior , some don’t understand how to behave bec of abuse .
Sad video ,
My son killed himself because of people like this.
😢
I've read your comment and it made a knot in my throat 😢 to read this!!! I'm not going to ask you how are because I can imagine the pain you're going through ?. how old was your son?
😥🥰🫂
Mostly when its always you who said good morning they use to squize lips with a fake half smile
This is jealousy of something u have and they are unable to have.
Haters watching this knowing we now know. Lmao😮
we wear mask
ya this one young woman who me and her have been locking eyes for 2 years.... it matches what you say here but then i am getting mixed messages.... so since I'm very attractive that means no one of the opposite sex likes me? i like he too very much... i thing she would had made it obvious a long time ago but again i avoid eye contact with her... Many people do this i can tell when they are insecure, They exhibit behavior that said they don't like you... now I'm thinking every one dislikes me. i very attractive presentable but always alone no friends no dates never sec. i don't know any more as i get older I'm seeing more and more of this..... that grill staares at me... she crosses her arms when shes at a stand still across from me.... she knows much about me and never goes to where she can find me..... i believe she does avoid me if i am in the dinning room and goes to her car..when I'm there.... because i walked in her store she was in the dinning room . When shes forced to walk by me she looks to the side and not pleasant... i believe she is shy and frusr=trated with me as I'm prob the man of her dreams... so with all these mixed messages i really more confused and my life is ups and downs I'm very lonely i ave not been sexually active for 20 years,,,, now they might thinkim to hot? I cant c any reason why they all to this to me.. and when i talk to them they minimixe there response. i am so confused! i feel invisible to every ones... people that i have seen for years to this day don't talk to me.... so those are the facts can some one make sense of all this and tell me what is possible going on?
I finally see the truth.
Yes, indeed. MAGA is evil.
According to this list and the first few comments according this it looks like my own mother hates me. And whole lot of other ppl
I'm not worried. GOD loves me. So if someone does not like me, their lose.
Yet you came here to watch this video
Here's 2 signs. Breathing and Smiling!😅💥
I've been nominated twice the Nobel Peace prize and there's a David rail day in my state but people don't get along with me because of that they don't know what to say
You have an axe deeply embedded in your back? 😂
if someone constantly making plan with me hey want something from me
The monkeys have errr disliked me my whole life. The feeling is mutual.
As I age I have more and more difficulty being around them.
it's the actions as well. put it this way, just started at a brand-new company, The company literally is only a few months old. General Manager has very little to do with me and you can say almost stand offish. GM has almost zero experience in this industry that I work in. I'm a 10 year Veteran, Well I am putting my Office together He walks in and puts his can of soda in the cardboard box the office desk came in, mind you it's not a trash can and you brought that can with you, take it with you. So i can take it a few ways, but I look at things Differently.
If I was the owner would you put that can in my office chances are no! So why would you put it in mine. Respect is a serious thing, the dumbass has been making serious mistakes since day one. The Owner is a 27 year old tech bro that wanted to start a Construction business for some strange reason. So he hired this dumbass because he has some managment experience but wrong field is serious business.
Yes
I HATE being touched! It's creepy!
You have to love how they put the black woman in a “jungle” like environments ugh!
Ok…so I hate absolutely everyone apparently 😂
People hate you when they don’t ever let you inside their home.
I don't let people inside my home mostly because I have lived alone for so long and my place may be unkempt for outsiders. But I hate absolutely no one . I care deeply for everybody on God's green earth and do not wish to subject them to brand of lifestyle behind closed doors because I'm fairly sure to be honestly criticized, knowing full well I need a change
Letting others see what you have is not good. People are always judging others.
This video feels like it was made for a perfect world. Why would I be touching people especially women so I can get into trouble?
Hey Aziza! Lover......❤
Not really.
Pretty much everyone hates me
Bro all of my classmates hate me 😂😂😂😂
No chance.
Who cares, do your thing , hate me😂😂😂
No way..
They are not that secret
Jesus, why waste your time with them, then? You need a goddamn video to tell you this?
I hate everybody!
Is all this content &comments created by AI?
HC jgh
It's 😂not someone it's many people,who cares
Who cares?
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