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Amen. I’ve read that in America, in excess of 80% of criminal convictions are the result of self incrimination. It is a compelling evidence that criminals are idiots that they subject themselves to police interrogation rather then invoking their civil rights to protect themselves from these techniques.
_Mr. Hughes, I would dearly love to answer your questions-and please believe me, I DO want to answer your questions-however, I'm simply not allowed to do that in the absence of my attorney. With that in mind, do I need to go ahead and contact him?_ (End of interrogation.)
That instance of asking what punishment should be applied to a guilty party is right out of Shakespeare’s “Richard III”. Who said he wasn’t relevant today? 😂
True story. When my daughter was about 5, she cut her name into our coffee table. When I asked her about it, she said our cat id it! I said, that's great! Imagine how much we can get for a cat that can spell and carve wood. She immediately panicked and confessed because she loved our cat.
My sister did something similar. She took a hammer and hit it against the porcelain sink in the bathroom. These were cast-iron covered with porcelain so it just chipped off the porcelain in a few places. Mom and dad ask both myself and my two sisters if they knew anything that had happened. Me and my older sister just said no. My youngest sister was probably about the same age, somewhere around five, and she “Pal do it”. Actually Bal do it.” Pal was our dog.. My parents started saying how that’s too bad because they really like how this looks and I guess they won’t be able to get Pal to do it again. After a little bit of conversation like this, my sister suddenly waddled off over to the cabinet in the bathroom, grabbed a hammer, and came waddling back saying”Bal not do it. I do it. I do more.”
That is "laughing out loud" hysterical. I don't have kids of my own but from 1966 to 1971 I did childcare for millionaire families in Manhattan the night the regular Nanny was off and I can just imagine one of these kids reacting like that.
Just like every interrogation instructor who thinks he's got it figured out, he's biased in interpreting stress as guilt. If the suspect doesn't trust you, or if you're interrogating them very harshly, you're going to see "Desdemona's fear." They know they didn't do it, but they're scared that they can't convince YOU that they didn't do it. They fear that they're going to be punished for something they didn't do. That can produce real terror that's every bit as stressful as guilt, and that will look like guilt if all you're looking for is signs of stress and calling it evasiveness.
Good point. I used to do entrance exam interviews for a college in Europe (23 years, thousands of candidates) as well as did thousands of oral exams for classes. I saw candidates trembling with stress. They were afraid of making mistakes and failing. Sometimes a rumor went around that all the places had been filled and we were just going through the motions of interviews and candidates were angry and defensive and stressed. Once someone started the rumor that a certain number of students had already failed the written part of the college's final leaving exam and taking the oral exams would be pointless for them. This was not true. Nobody had failed the written exam. But as the day went on and more and more students passed, the waiting students thought that they must be in the pool of students who had failed. We had students who were refusing to be interviewed because they were sure they had failed. The stress levels were going through the roof as the day went on and we interviewed more people. We had no idea why the students were increasingly insisting, "I know I've failed; just tell me." They were so anxious that they did much worse on the exam than if they had not heard the false rumor that "seven people failed." It's so true that innocent people can be terrified of a police interview. I've watched enough documentaries about the falsely convicted that I fear falling into the hands of the police and being questioned.
You've missed the point. If someone is afraid immediately that they'll be punished regardless, that fear will be there from the beginning and be their baseline response to the questions. In applying stress, he's looking for changes in behavior. If the person continues to be afraid at the same level, they're probably innocent. If the questions he's asking causes behavior changes, that's when he starts to think they might be guilty. Someone who is innocent and afraid of getting punished regardless won't change their behavior because they're going to have that same fear throughout. Someone who is afraid because they are guilty will get more nervous when stress is applied because they think the other person has evidence. An innocent person isn't going to think they have real evidence because there is none; their fear is irrational and so doesn't change in any observable way.
@@xzonia1 I think you have missed the point. People's reactions don't fit in a neat little box like you describe and can't be accurately read by an outside observer.
@@Alosipher Not sure what the exact law is in your country but I’m in EU Ireland you need to sign the witness statement. If unsigned it’s not a (statement) i judge will prosecute the police for wasting his time. 😂
Working in mental health tells me just some of those questions will make anxious and paranoid people react very differently even when innocent. However, when talking to employees or kids this advice is generally spot on.
Your totally spot on about people with anxiety,a things associated with that ,but me rage can effect a answer from me. Example ,if I'm full of rage but still trying to be polite but then get asked a very serious set of questions from the 1st answer to the 2nd and 3rd can become very diffrent. So if I get asked a serious (or not ) question and I respond ten the person jokingly questions my integrity I'm likely to blow my cool. And it's the same if the person's asking me say they've had money stolen from them ill probably answer (depending on who it is) twice before my temper gets the better ogmf me. Then the money could be fine ,then there's other questions in "this convoy " but I'm still full of rage the same thing will happen. So people don't think for 1 second that this is 100% set in stone the way to look for a liar because if that was true I'd be a liar 75% of the time
@@morgantnelson I think you missed curtisbottoms' point. If people are naturally anxious, the 'bait' question will make them give an anxious answer, even if they are innocent. That's not a way of finding a culprit. There are countless examples of people sentenced for crimes they didn't commit just because they seemed nervous, or didn't respond in an expected way to questioning, and later were proved to be innocent.
😂 No worries. Context and clusters. Trained "professionals" will most likely be able to pick up the "clusters" of indicators that expose you as an anxious type as opposed to a person being intentionally deceptive.
Deadass, a guy pinpoint-attacked my sexual insecurities "as a joke" and when I got upset about it, he them lectured me about how I have unresolved anger issues, which I do, and how he knows this because he knows people and can read the signs of their behavior. So I was like "So you didn't accidentally piss me off--- You were triggering me on purpose." Deadass he was like "Hey, uh, I didn't know like that, that-- that's not the point" Should've punched him.
Of course people will react differently when the questions get harder. Also, being accused of something you didn't do makes you become angry and/or nervous.
People don't like to be accused of something they didn't do..and they get angry..that's expected..it's when you don't get angry when falsely accused that is the tell
This is some bs to say someone is lying when their behavior changes when questions get harder. It’s natural for everyone to get nervous when an absolute stranger and someone who has the power to destroy their life starts asking hard questions.
There was a fella that used to turn up and inspect our sites when I was working years ago. Nice guy, well mannered etc. but he would ask a question and then just watch you. I would always end up babbling to try and fill the empty space he was leaving. When I'd ran out of waffle he would just hold a steady gaze as if waiting for the rest. I'd end up feeling guilty for crimes I'd not even thought of! Guy would make a _brilliant_ interrogator. Once you start getting self conscious and second guessing your behavior it all starts to snowball out of your control - even if you aren't actually being deceptive. So if you are, you really have to be somewhere on the psycho spectrum to hide it effectively.
My dad used these methods on us when we were kids. Since I was there when the crime was committed, I know he was only getting it right 2 out of 3 times. The rest of the time my dad got it wrong and the wrong person got blamed and was pushed into a confession for a lighter sentence. I was always nervous when being questioned because (just like the police) my dad can make a mistake and I will have to pay for that mistake. This guy says there is no reason for the innocent to be nervous but that just isn't true.
"If you are innocent, that won't cause you any stress." I've been falsely accused, hard to recall anything more stressful than having no idea about what you are being accused of. This is abusive tactics, and the stuff police are trained to say to convince juries it isn't coercive. There is no condition where an innocent being interrogated isn't stressful. There is no circumstance one should voluntarily sit for an interrogation or interview with law enforcement, and instead one should rely on rights against self incrimination while refusing to participate without council. The deck is stacked, and his lie about "causing no stress to the innocent" is all the proof necessary to show it.
Lawyer, lawyer, lawyer!! Whether you are guilty or innocent. These investigators are not your friends they are not trying to help you. Your cooperation will not reduce your sentence. Get a lawyer immediately!!
I watched a video probably still on TH-cam now where a lawyer talks about this kind of situation exactly. And he says exactly what you are saying, don’t say anything, get a lawyer immediately. Specially if you’re innocent. He gave one example where an acquaintance of a murdered person was brought into the police station. The man was innocent and talked freely to the police and during that conversation he said just one negative thing, that he didn’t like him sometimes. Eventually this man was arrested for the murder and during the trial the policeman who talked about the interview mentioned that one sentence only that he didn’t like him sometimes. And the rest of the one hour interview where the man was saying good things about this person who was killed was not mentioned at all.
It's a method of manipulation. Works sometimes, too. Especially if you sneak in some actual tricks which cause them to reveal information that they otherwise shouldn't have.
Or they will use ancient war time interrogation tactics... Depravation of sleep. Constant badgering, telling you false facts related to case to get you to tell your side of the story. They're allowed by law and expected to lie to solve the crime . YOU ARE NOT AND IT WILL BE USED AGAINST YOU IN A COURT OF LAW. Simple solution to situation... Say NOTHING. .Your lawyer wil thank you!!! Say NOTHING TO NO ONE Until you see in person a lawyer. Cops are trained to take any one sentence you may say and twist the words around to say the opposite of what was meant. They are not your friend.. And say false promises (ex: plea deals/set people up in exchange for reduced or dropping your charges). You are not paid to do a cops job.
Some cops like to act like you're murderer and trying to make you nervous stressed to the highest lvl to say something they could use it against you to write report that you're murderer to close case and get prizes from it, not like they wanna find real murderer. Us cops ate well known for acting like that. Acting like they wanna destroy you do you will sign papers to not being bullied by them longer.
What? Why malignant? So you can tell by this short clip that he's a narcissist, huh? You must have a large ego yourself to make such a bold claim based on hardly any evidence. Practice what you preach.
They want their job to be streamlined. They want clear answers to take back to their bosses, true or not. After a long enough time, they probably lose sight of what's obvious to us.
Actually, I'm of the opinion that a narcissist could ace the interview. Psychologists say they reinvent themselves and in their mind they didn't do it. They can also pass lie detector tests (not that those are considered dependable).
Exactly why you invoke the 5th and 6th immediately, and don't answer ANY questions.. Maybe you'll blink twice instead of once and this guy decides you're lying.
@@johndrake3472 You commented on a video he was in talking about how he interrogates people, and yet you claim to not care.... yeh maybe you should say nothing online also
If a nosy, rude narc interrogating me, asking intrusive, bs questions, there’s going to be a “ big pile of changes” in my behavior. These days, I just walk away, instead of trying to explain to a narc anything. Smh, I fed up with those experts
This guy is wrong thinking that if you're innocent that you won't be nervous about being questioned, I damn near have a heart attack just seeing police cars/lights or store alarms go off.
This won't work with people who make false confessions as a result of getting an earful of abuse every day of their life since the day they were born. They're just going to take punishment after punishment that they don't deserve because everything was always their fault.
I've been a professional investigator and interviewer for over 30 years. I've never allowed anyone to falsely confess to something they didn't do. One of the best ways to establish that the confession is true-is to have the suspect walk me through what they did, how they did it, when, how many times, dollar amounts, specific items taken, etc. I also don't accept responses like;, 'If you said I did it, then I guess I did it'.
@@ellenritt5564 Those teens were interrogated for 7 hours. The interrogations were not videotaped, only their confessions, so very suspect as to how the detectives were able to elicit these confessions.
no one gets convicted for being nervous. All he's doing is ascertaining if it's worth investigating a person or they can be safely removed from a list of suspects. And if there's overwhelming evidence of guilt that surfaces in the interrogation, they might press for confessions, a slam dunk for them and for the court, or at least know where to focus resources to get material evidence and witnesses.
I’m a retired federal agent and have had extensive training and experience in interrogations. I learned both of those lines of questioning more than 40 years ago. I can assure you they work.
I'll say it again to you two because it was deleted. Which, by the way, supports my point. If your plan to be successful is to manipulate others, I have some really bad news for you.
This guy has confirmation bias of his own abilities. People respond to stress very differently. Some people get enraged when accused of something they didn't do, like murder.
How many times has this expert got it wrong? Probably never in his opinion. Such confidence in his own ability. I am feeling the pain and anguish of the innocent peoples lives he has destroyed. This man feels none of this,or he does,and enjoys it. I'm sure he gets it right occasionally though
When my daughter was small a glass of beer on the kitchen table was mysteriously emptied. My daughter was asked "Did you drink what was in that glass?" "No daddy" lied my daughter. "Oh thank goodness! That was poison!" "WAH! I don't wanna die!" Right.
The fact that you suspect my being guilty of a crime by the manner in which you are questioning me, would make me very nervous and would probably make me start fidgeting or breathing faster although i'm innocent. I once failed a polygraph test because of this, and got blamed for something I would never do.
I had severe social anxiety all through my twenties and into my thirties. I would blush, stammer and some times soak my shirt with sweat if I felt trapped..........the idea of sitting in an interrogation room being asked leading questions would damn near trigger a heart attack! I guess in this guy's eyes, I'd be guilty on all counts......
Due to people I hung around with I have been interrogated more than a few times. Every time I was completely in the dark about what they were asking me about. Not a clue, no idea at all. Regardless the various Interrogators were 100% certain I was guilty, involved or knew something. Ridiculous waste of time. Not impressed!
If a person with coin, connections, crews, clout, corrupt cronies, and other shady jabronies wants to make you seem guilty, brother... there is NOTHING you can do. You'd be goin' down like The Hurricane. No legit evidence required; they'd just cook it up, baby. 😂
If someone asks me a personal question that is attached to distress or emotional pain, I do get uncomfortable and change my behavior. I can't help it. I see this in others, too. The response is due to unexpected discomfort, or just discomfort. It doesn't mean the person is about to lie every time 😕
Every educated and compassionate person of faith would answer the "punishment" question like that..correct behavior, help them change the behavior, to heal
No - what pumps people up is the possibility of being punished no matter what. This guy is just good at selling himself to whoever thinks he has found a sensation.
this is why you never engage or speak a single word to these investigators. They are experts at the highest level and you don't stand a chance. ALWAYS have a lawyer. Period.
Easy way to spot someone who is lying - when they sit and tell you that they can spot people lying. Here especially, imagine being asked where you live and how many brothers and sisters you have, and then later a question you immediately know means the 2 guys in the room suspect you of committing a serious crime. And you think you wouldn't change how you answer that latter question? Of course you'll change, you'll realise the cops suspect you. Whether you did the crime or not you're going to be careful what you say because you know they're filming and recording your answers and if can they can show one tiny aspect of your answer isn't true they'll be claiming that's because you're lying etc etc. That's why the smart person never talks to the police and asks for a lawyer - whether they are guilty or not - because all the police are trying to do is convict you. Whether you are guilty or not. The pressure on them is to secure a conviction for their stats and they don't care at al who that is. And this 'raising the stakes" is what ranges from mild threats to torture - and it's well established that people don't tell the truth under duress - they will confess to crimes they have not done and could not have done. All the US cops do is to have legalised duress to make it sound like it's an 'interrogation technique', sure they're not pulling out fingernails but the whole objective is to get innocent or guilty people to confess. The notion that if you didn't kill someone you'd just nonchalantly sit there while a cop subtly threatens you or implies they have evidence linking you to a murder and only the killer would get stressed is laughable nonsense. This is how you spot a liar - the guy is sitting there waving his hands spouting complete and total horseshit. You should be much more wary of the person who answers the questions the same - because that likely means they either lack emotion, and/or they've rehearsed their answer. People who tell you they know if someone is lying from observing them are lying. That's how you spot a liar. People who claim to be able to do something that you can easily demonstrate in a double-blind experiment they actually have no more ability to do above chance - in the past that used to be psychics and other charletons. Now it's people claiming to use 'body language' to detect lying - they're trying to put a scientific spin on it - but it doesn't work.
If I spilled milk on the carpet, I'd say "lawyer". Don't care if I did it or not. This guy is a monster. Subjective observation to ruin lives is predatory, and his little "cute anecdote" with his own children shows that. Good grief. 1 in 10 of us are psychopaths.
The truth may not be "automatic", but it's not nearly as taxing on one's memory and mental processing as deception tends to be. The questions are rather automatic, pretty standard in format and techniques. Like with anything else, more experience begets proficiency.. They ask questions and listen to answers. A lot. Calculating "right" or "believable" answers, coming up with a litany of excuses, and remembering any number of various medical/mental conditions, can be quite the chore. Yeah, if one is nervous, they may flub a couple three lines of their script. Although, it's typically not the nervous that's an issue, .
I’d be nervous because I don’t know who lied to you about me, and now you’re operating with the cognitive bias that I’m the perp. Investigations are basically garbage in garbage out situations.
You shouldn't have to 'bait' someone. If they're guilty of something, there's evidence of that, if there's not enough evidence, the police aren't doing their job well enough. I've always thought cops baiting suspects was very manipulative.
I read a while back that statistically the people who are best at detecting liars are often the worst at believing people who are telling the truth. Oh well...
Unless you're joking, that might be because liars use skills to appear as truth tellers, while truth tellers are merely genuine. So someone who appears truthful is either truthful or the best liar they've encountered. Detecting liars is spotting failures in the skills they use to appear truthful. It's also a small part of how liars and other broken people turn you into them, by forcing you to deal with their toxicity you end up a kind of toxic yourself.
@@xyaeiounn There's considerable difference between habitual, chronic and pathological liars. Some lie occasionally or strategically. Some lie to manipulate, some are just scared to be honest. Many types of lies and liars.
@@wangobadankas4038 Sure. Then there are those weird types who live in constant certainty, they have all the answers, are never wrong, and can be as lethal to you as any devious person.
This is why you always ask for a lawyer and then invoke your right to remain silent. Or if not under arrest, simply ask, "am I being detained? Am I allowed to leave?" If the answer is yes, simply leave without saying a word. Never talk to the police.
My dad was in the military when I was little and he would try those same tactics on me. When those didn’t work, physical torture was next. I don’t trust this guy and I bet his kids don’t like him either.
2:49 This one really brought me back. I got called in on a Monday after some drunken college mischief. The Dean said what Chase just said pretty much word for word. Then he asked me a funny question about a minor detail of my prank and burst out laughing.
The easiest way to spot if a man is lying is if he answers YOUR question with a question of his own, thereby giving him valuable seconds to formulate an answer he thinks/knows will placate you (ie get you off his back). My ex did this all the time. It would go: ME: “We’ve been dating 4 years - are you still not thinking you ought to divorce your wife? HIM: “What do you mean?” ME: “It’s an easy question.” HIM: “Depends on how you look at it.” And so on. See what he did - he deflected the question so I’d have to repeat it several times (getting angrier), then he’d storm off to the pub knowing that when he returned I’d be in a huff and we’d go to bed angry (and not talking!). He was VERY clever.
"Are you recording this? Please do. I do not consent to any unlawful search or seizures, and I invoke my right to remain silent until I speak with my attorney".
A friend's children denied writing on the living room wall. It carried on and one day she spoke aloud while they were in the room "Mmm, i wonder who wrote this, the letter A is written so perfectly." Her daughter proudly stated "That was me." So my friend shouted "Well dont do it any more! " culprit caught.
Right I agree with this…. there are multiple things to look at to determine lies and half truths etc…. How else can you determine what to ask an individual and up the stakes as stated here. ❤❤❤❤🔥🔥🔥🔥💪🏽
One place the "what do you think should happen to the person who is guilty?" question is answered differently is when you're speaking with someone who is a posturer. Someone who is filled with bravado and fully believes he's gotten away with his crime will often say "throw the book at the person... do your worst... make sure they never see the light of day!" There was a YT vid a while ago where a judge asked that question of a guy who killed a child. The guy started speaking in that manner ("throw away the key", "bury him in jail", etc). So the judge gave him the punishment as the guy said - put him in jail for life.
@@madhuzeeuwen6376 He was found guilty by a jury and by the judge. Look up Chris McNabb. He abused his wife, fed her meth and killed his 2 week old. Then told the judge that there was no evidence that could prove he was the one who did it. After the judge asked what sentence the real killer should get, he gave Chris what he answered: "the max sentence... life... throw away the key." He was sentenced to life without parole, plus 10 years.
The cognitive overload method is excellent because it is a simple concept and once you detect mistakes you can focus on the mistakes. The problem with the skill of detecting deception is it is very easy to detect deception if you know what to look for but if you are not a detective there is not alot you can do with the information unless you want to destroy relationships to get the truth.
Confirmation bias in action. If you expect everything to indicate a lie, everything looks like a lie. What you need is objective evidence that has nothing to do with what the person is saying, or how they are saying it.
I disagree, some people get scared or have been accused of things even when they didn't do it and have a guilt complex. Some people get nervous and may appear to look guilty, even when they are not.
Asking opening " harmless " questions like what's your name where do you live and work etc is to establish a baseline of behaviour and voice-tone and to set it against the real questions about the " crime " when they are not stating facts as they did previously but are now having to lie and state " untruths " about what actually happened.
I have been questioned by the police in an interrogation room, being recorded. Every question they asked I assumed they were studying me to see if I was being deceitful. I was aware of the techniques they were using because I had been trained to evaluate body language in my career. I was formally trained by the US Army, in the art of deception as a member of the ASA and we'll leave it at that. So, during this interrogation I was stoic, unmovable and never took my eyes off the person asking the questions almost a dead stare. Most questions I turned around and restated them to the person questioning me. i.e. If I understand you correctly, you're asking ..........they stopped this about 5 questions in the questioning. The conclusion was that I had been professionally trained & dismissed me from the interrogation with a series of threats. The truth was that I was out of town during the time a crime was committed about 1000 miles from the event unbeknownst to them. Someone told them I was involved in this crime, and they were fishing, it was a family member who actually did the crime not me, but they were told I had directly contributed to the crime that went down. Needless to say, they eventually gave up and realized I was not going to cooperate and lawyered up so that ended that. My technique worked. BTW I beat a lie detector exam, as I was told by the technician as his opinion after the test. After my army career ended, 2 years after I was drafted. I went into sales and was extremely successful selling anything. I gave up on Law enforcement early on as a result of seeing how much money I could earn in professional sales with a major corporation. I eventually became a VP of sales & marketing before I retired with stock options that made me very comfortable in my retirement. BTW I did know who did the crime, but they never knew I knew
I was a nanny for a policeman of 13 years. Of course I had to talk to him. He had a camera in every room and outdoors. I worked for him for 5 years and he trusts me implicitly.
Looking away is a "tell"? If I'm bothered or annoyed at someone, I stare them down... because I'm (in my head) imagining what bad evil things I want to do to you. I'm not a Bad Guy, but thoughts happen. Better to think it, than to do it.
A line I always used on my kids was "is that the story you want to stick with?" Didn't matter if I suspected or didn't know if they did anything. Key was neither did they lol.
Chris Hansen always asks ‘what should happen to you?’ When dealing with predators. Interesting, he was probably coached to say it to help with convictions.
I feel guilty about everything. Indont know if this would work. Plus I'm very literal. If he asked me, "Is there any reason . . ." Ibwould immediately start thimking of reasons someonebwould say sumthin untrue and I know I would look guilty.
If the interrogator is a narc, then you can bet I will be anxious, stressed, nervous, unstable, hypervigilant, confused, easily manipulated, super sensitive. Some of us feel guilt whether it is valid or not. I just hope I'm never questioned for anything! 😮
Sometimes I tell someone something and I feel like I'm suddenly nervous and giving indicators that I'm lying, but I'm actually not. How does that come into play?
That means you'll be questioned longer. And eventually the truth will probably reveal itself and that's when you get to go. Like Japanese Americans in ww2 held in camps then released after the war was over.
It’s even easier than you think. When you sit down in the room with them immediately ask which of them are cops and which are lawyers. From that point forward all of those identified as lawyers are liars. But of all those identified as cops are a-holes . . . . . . AND liars.
“Professionals” know how to lie. They know the “tricks” through experience. Very tough to find out what they know and what they don’t. The skirmish first timers and amateurs who haven’t figured it out yet are the ones that give it away.
On the "Bait Question" - 20 years ago, I'd been a litigator for about 20 years. At home, I had an 87 Supra Turbo in the driveway, and a 2004 vette, too. So I pull in in my sedan, and as I get out, I notice that there is a FOOTPRINT on the hood of my Supra! I look closer, and I see MORE footprints. Someone has clearly run up the front and over my Supra and off the back in a large sneaker size. At the time, my 17 year old daughter was driving it to school. So I go in, and go to her bedroom where she is, and I walk in and ask her, "Do you want to tell me what happened with the car?" And of course she looks at me and lies and claims she doesn't know what I'm talking about. Kids do that, alas. So I tell her that I looked closely at "the car" and I saw the damage. She quickly folds and tells me she DIDN'T MEAN TO BACK INTO THE CORVETTE (it was brand new), BUT HAD LOOKED IT OVER AND HADN'T NOTICED ANY DAMAGE!!! So I learned something THERE, then pointed out to her that I was talking about the Supra, and got a full confession on that too. Then I called the kid who'd run over my car, and asked to speak to his mother who was a crazy Lebanese lady, and they both came over to see the result which did include some body damage. And that woman raged over that kid, her kid, like the Death Star over a rebel planet. It was hilarious! She said she'd make him pay for the bodywork, and I got an estimate, but I never held her/him to it. Kids, Christ.
Untrue. If he is an expert, his expert opinion absolutely matters in court, and is totally admissible. I don't know whether he is, but keep that in mind.
THe context of the question can promote a change. Example, how was your journey that's a nice tie where did you get it I like it. How is the weather in your part of town. What did you eat for breakfast. Then did you do the murder????. well it's obviously not going to be answered in the nonchalant manner as the other questions is it. This does not imply deception. It is going to be a very anxious question irrespective of innocence or guilt. Conclusion the question changes the mood not necessarily a deception
Really handy if you expect to be interrogated by the Spanish Inquisition. As a civilian, my lawyer answers any questions law enforcement might ask…about anything.
This may be true. However talking to a soldier with PTSD (you might not even know this, people dont wear it on a badge) - you will detect changes in how questions are answered depending on how difficult the subject. To this fellow.....any such change is deception.
The reason I do not believe people’s behavior can be assessed, while on Jury Duty there was one juror who seemed not to be listening. It bothered me, a bit but it wasn’t my place. I was the foreperson, once the Jury Room Door closed, this man remembered every word spoken in the Court. You can’t judge people’s reactions and behaviors, he really seemed not to be paying attention.
If there were a legitimate way of telling if someone is lying, it would be admissible in court. The reality is that everyone lies the real art is trying to figure out how much someone is lying. 🤓
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Amen. I’ve read that in America, in excess of 80% of criminal convictions are the result of self incrimination. It is a compelling evidence that criminals are idiots that they subject themselves to police interrogation rather then invoking their civil rights to protect themselves from these techniques.
_Mr. Hughes, I would dearly love to answer your questions-and please believe me, I DO want to answer your questions-however, I'm simply not allowed to do that in the absence of my attorney. With that in mind, do I need to go ahead and contact him?_ (End of interrogation.)
That instance of asking what punishment should be applied to a guilty party is right out of Shakespeare’s “Richard III”. Who said he wasn’t relevant today? 😂
I have social anxiety , the longer I'm questioned the more nervous I become. The longer I'm out in public the more anxiety I feel!
The DUDE JUST LIE FEW TIMES
True story. When my daughter was about 5, she cut her name into our coffee table. When I asked her about it, she said our cat id it! I said, that's great! Imagine how much we can get for a cat that can spell and carve wood. She immediately panicked and confessed because she loved our cat.
You total bastard
! Brilliant !
My sister did something similar. She took a hammer and hit it against the porcelain sink in the bathroom. These were cast-iron covered with porcelain so it just chipped off the porcelain in a few places. Mom and dad ask both myself and my two sisters if they knew anything that had happened. Me and my older sister just said no. My youngest sister was probably about the same age, somewhere around five, and she “Pal do it”. Actually Bal do it.” Pal was our dog..
My parents started saying how that’s too bad because they really like how this looks and I guess they won’t be able to get Pal to do it again. After a little bit of conversation like this, my sister suddenly waddled off over to the cabinet in the bathroom, grabbed a hammer, and came waddling back saying”Bal not do it. I do it. I do more.”
😮😂. Interesting that a mishap here was blamed on a kitty too. Child was about 5 as well. Gotta love ‘em!
That is "laughing out loud" hysterical. I don't have kids of my own but from 1966 to 1971 I did childcare for millionaire families in Manhattan the night the regular Nanny was off and I can just imagine one of these kids reacting like that.
Just like every interrogation instructor who thinks he's got it figured out, he's biased in interpreting stress as guilt. If the suspect doesn't trust you, or if you're interrogating them very harshly, you're going to see "Desdemona's fear." They know they didn't do it, but they're scared that they can't convince YOU that they didn't do it. They fear that they're going to be punished for something they didn't do. That can produce real terror that's every bit as stressful as guilt, and that will look like guilt if all you're looking for is signs of stress and calling it evasiveness.
And this sounds like a very insecure person.
Good point. I used to do entrance exam interviews for a college in Europe (23 years, thousands of candidates) as well as did thousands of oral exams for classes. I saw candidates trembling with stress. They were afraid of making mistakes and failing. Sometimes a rumor went around that all the places had been filled and we were just going through the motions of interviews and candidates were angry and defensive and stressed. Once someone started the rumor that a certain number of students had already failed the written part of the college's final leaving exam and taking the oral exams would be pointless for them. This was not true. Nobody had failed the written exam. But as the day went on and more and more students passed, the waiting students thought that they must be in the pool of students who had failed. We had students who were refusing to be interviewed because they were sure they had failed. The stress levels were going through the roof as the day went on and we interviewed more people. We had no idea why the students were increasingly insisting, "I know I've failed; just tell me." They were so anxious that they did much worse on the exam than if they had not heard the false rumor that "seven people failed." It's so true that innocent people can be terrified of a police interview. I've watched enough documentaries about the falsely convicted that I fear falling into the hands of the police and being questioned.
You've missed the point. If someone is afraid immediately that they'll be punished regardless, that fear will be there from the beginning and be their baseline response to the questions. In applying stress, he's looking for changes in behavior. If the person continues to be afraid at the same level, they're probably innocent. If the questions he's asking causes behavior changes, that's when he starts to think they might be guilty. Someone who is innocent and afraid of getting punished regardless won't change their behavior because they're going to have that same fear throughout. Someone who is afraid because they are guilty will get more nervous when stress is applied because they think the other person has evidence. An innocent person isn't going to think they have real evidence because there is none; their fear is irrational and so doesn't change in any observable way.
@@xzonia1 I think you have missed the point. People's reactions don't fit in a neat little box like you describe and can't be accurately read by an outside observer.
Absolutely true! Someone insecure can behave waaaaay more guilty than the one who did it.
If you're being interrogated , say these simple words , "I want a lawyer" then don't talk
If you’re being interviewed you probably wouldn’t know it. That’s how it works.
Talk way to them all day long👮♂️. 😃
Just make sure you don’t sign anything. ☹️👮♂️
Facts.
@@patrickmorris3721 No, remember "what you say can and will be used against you".
@@Alosipher
Not sure what the exact law is in your country but I’m in EU Ireland you need to sign the witness statement.
If unsigned it’s not a (statement) i
judge will prosecute the police for wasting his time. 😂
Working in mental health tells me just some of those questions will make anxious and paranoid people react very differently even when innocent. However, when talking to employees or kids this advice is generally spot on.
absolutely! Do this bait then you will definitely find the culprit
Your totally spot on about people with anxiety,a things associated with that ,but me rage can effect a answer from me. Example ,if I'm full of rage but still trying to be polite but then get asked a very serious set of questions from the 1st answer to the 2nd and 3rd can become very diffrent. So if I get asked a serious (or not ) question and I respond ten the person jokingly questions my integrity I'm likely to blow my cool. And it's the same if the person's asking me say they've had money stolen from them ill probably answer (depending on who it is) twice before my temper gets the better ogmf me. Then the money could be fine ,then there's other questions in "this convoy " but I'm still full of rage the same thing will happen. So people don't think for 1 second that this is 100% set in stone the way to look for a liar because if that was true I'd be a liar 75% of the time
I agree completely
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@@morgantnelson I think you missed curtisbottoms' point. If people are naturally anxious, the 'bait' question will make them give an anxious answer, even if they are innocent. That's not a way of finding a culprit. There are countless examples of people sentenced for crimes they didn't commit just because they seemed nervous, or didn't respond in an expected way to questioning, and later were proved to be innocent.
I have social anxiety , the longer I'm questioned the more nervous I become. The longer I'm out in public the more anxiety I feel!
😂 No worries. Context and clusters. Trained "professionals" will most likely be able to pick up the "clusters" of indicators that expose you as an anxious type as opposed to a person being intentionally deceptive.
@@VeronicaVeroVero Sure they will, lol. Never underestimate the arrogance of someone who thinks they know what they're doing.
I have the exact same problem
Me , too! I get extremely anxious alot but almost always around strangers and big crowds but i probably look so outta placem it sucks
Well clearly you are lying lol
You'll catch half of the guilty people and all of the mentally unstable. What a system we have.
And 10% of good people who were framed and lied about and the "investigation experts" blindly supported them and added to the mess🙈
It's great that he is dispelling the myths. Anyone who says, " I can spot a liar," is probably a liar themselves.
If someone tells me they're "good at spotting lies" I'm never telling that person the truth ever again. Even about the weather.
However, it's a sure way of getting out of jury duty!
Have you looked into this guys credentials ….. takes one to know one?
Deadass, a guy pinpoint-attacked my sexual insecurities "as a joke" and when I got upset about it, he them lectured me about how I have unresolved anger issues, which I do, and how he knows this because he knows people and can read the signs of their behavior.
So I was like "So you didn't accidentally piss me off--- You were triggering me on purpose."
Deadass he was like "Hey, uh, I didn't know like that, that-- that's not the point"
Should've punched him.
@@annapedersen7371Of course. It takes a liar to spot a liar. The same way the best scammer buster can spot scammers.
Of course people will react differently when the questions get harder. Also, being accused of something you didn't do makes you become angry and/or nervous.
You obviously don’t have to deal with a psychopath like so do all the time.
@@starrystarrynight6281 What? lol
Mmm-hmm... and case law has proven that K-9 hits are 86% Inaccurate. As in "False".
People don't like to be accused of something they didn't do..and they get angry..that's expected..it's when you don't get angry when falsely accused that is the tell
Yeah, guys like the interviewee just want some solid conclusion they can take to their bosses. Hierarchies don't care much about truth.
This is some bs to say someone is lying when their behavior changes when questions get harder. It’s natural for everyone to get nervous when an absolute stranger and someone who has the power to destroy their life starts asking hard questions.
There was a fella that used to turn up and inspect our sites when I was working years ago. Nice guy, well mannered etc. but he would ask a question and then just watch you. I would always end up babbling to try and fill the empty space he was leaving. When I'd ran out of waffle he would just hold a steady gaze as if waiting for the rest. I'd end up feeling guilty for crimes I'd not even thought of! Guy would make a _brilliant_ interrogator.
Once you start getting self conscious and second guessing your behavior it all starts to snowball out of your control - even if you aren't actually being deceptive. So if you are, you really have to be somewhere on the psycho spectrum to hide it effectively.
My dad used these methods on us when we were kids. Since I was there when the crime was committed, I know he was only getting it right 2 out of 3 times. The rest of the time my dad got it wrong and the wrong person got blamed and was pushed into a confession for a lighter sentence. I was always nervous when being questioned because (just like the police) my dad can make a mistake and I will have to pay for that mistake. This guy says there is no reason for the innocent to be nervous but that just isn't true.
Never, ever talk to law enforcement without an attorney. Even then, let the attorney do the talking. Police can lie with no accountability.
Not true esp nowadays. Stop drinking the koolaid
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Or you can avoid the entire interaction by keeping your hands to yourself.
@@christopher7824Sure, or don't be Tom Perez and call the police because you are worried about your father.
Corolary to this.... How can you tell a cop is lying? When he approaches you.
"If you are innocent, that won't cause you any stress."
I've been falsely accused, hard to recall anything more stressful than having no idea about what you are being accused of. This is abusive tactics, and the stuff police are trained to say to convince juries it isn't coercive.
There is no condition where an innocent being interrogated isn't stressful.
There is no circumstance one should voluntarily sit for an interrogation or interview with law enforcement, and instead one should rely on rights against self incrimination while refusing to participate without council. The deck is stacked, and his lie about "causing no stress to the innocent" is all the proof necessary to show it.
when I was falsely accused & questioned I was a nervous wreck the whole time. literally shaking at times.
Lawyer, lawyer, lawyer!! Whether you are guilty or innocent. These investigators are not your friends they are not trying to help you. Your cooperation will not reduce your sentence. Get a lawyer immediately!!
I watched a video probably still on TH-cam now where a lawyer talks about this kind of situation exactly. And he says exactly what you are saying, don’t say anything, get a lawyer immediately. Specially if you’re innocent.
He gave one example where an acquaintance of a murdered person was brought into the police station. The man was innocent and talked freely to the police and during that conversation he said just one negative thing, that he didn’t like him sometimes.
Eventually this man was arrested for the murder and during the trial the policeman who talked about the interview mentioned that one sentence only that he didn’t like him sometimes. And the rest of the one hour interview where the man was saying good things about this person who was killed was not mentioned at all.
Very well said ! I absolutely agree with you!
@@christopherandrews9232 What if you don't have a lawyer?
@ stay quite until one is provided. “You have the right to remain silent,” use it!
One form of lying is telling people you can tell if they are lying.
It's a method of manipulation. Works sometimes, too. Especially if you sneak in some actual tricks which cause them to reveal information that they otherwise shouldn't have.
Or they will use ancient war time interrogation tactics... Depravation of sleep. Constant badgering, telling you false facts related to case to get you to tell your side of the story. They're allowed by law and expected to lie to solve the crime . YOU ARE NOT AND IT WILL BE USED AGAINST YOU IN A COURT OF LAW.
Simple solution to situation... Say NOTHING. .Your lawyer wil thank you!!! Say NOTHING TO NO ONE Until you see in person a lawyer. Cops are trained to take any one sentence you may say and twist the words around to say the opposite of what was meant. They are not your friend.. And say false promises (ex: plea deals/set people up in exchange for reduced or dropping your charges). You are not paid to do a cops job.
That's only amateurs like you.
not as good as lying about how people cant tell if someones lying or not.
@@kirstinline Truth!
Innocent people do get nervous when you question them about murder.
Some cops like to act like you're murderer and trying to make you nervous stressed to the highest lvl to say something they could use it against you to write report that you're murderer to close case and get prizes from it, not like they wanna find real murderer. Us cops ate well known for acting like that. Acting like they wanna destroy you do you will sign papers to not being bullied by them longer.
These guys that think they know how everybody would act or handle being questioned is either a pure egotist or a malignant narcissist.
What? Why malignant? So you can tell by this short clip that he's a narcissist, huh? You must have a large ego yourself to make such a bold claim based on hardly any evidence.
Practice what you preach.
@@RafaelStrangiato Marlow the Malignant projecting and blame shifting right there, surely he's hiding something.
They want their job to be streamlined. They want clear answers to take back to their bosses, true or not. After a long enough time, they probably lose sight of what's obvious to us.
Actually, I'm of the opinion that a narcissist could ace the interview. Psychologists say they reinvent themselves and in their mind they didn't do it. They can also pass lie detector tests (not that those are considered dependable).
@@annham4136you don't have to be a narcissist to believe your own lies (AFAIK) some ordinary liars also believe their own lies
Exactly why you invoke the 5th and 6th immediately, and don't answer ANY questions.. Maybe you'll blink twice instead of once and this guy decides you're lying.
Absolutely. My wife and I made a deal to never speak with authorities for any reason. I guarantee this clown has coached his kids to never talk.
Just use your 2A rights instead.
@@johndrake3472I’m not sure you are aware of who this clown is
@@AttackLineConsultingLLC
I couldn’t care less.
@@johndrake3472 You commented on a video he was in talking about how he interrogates people, and yet you claim to not care.... yeh maybe you should say nothing online also
If a nosy, rude narc interrogating me, asking intrusive, bs questions, there’s going to be a “ big pile of changes” in my behavior. These days, I just walk away, instead of trying to explain to a narc anything.
Smh, I fed up with those experts
This guy is wrong thinking that if you're innocent that you won't be nervous about being questioned, I damn near have a heart attack just seeing police cars/lights or store alarms go off.
True 😂. Same with border control. 😬
I don't think I said that in here.
Mmm-hmm... and case law has proven that K-9 hits are 86% Inaccurate. As in "False".
You misunderstood the context of what he was saying.
@@chasehughesofficial You practice pseudoscience and wishful thinking. What you are good at is finding what you want to find.
This won't work with people who make false confessions as a result of getting an earful of abuse every day of their life since the day they were born. They're just going to take punishment after punishment that they don't deserve because everything was always their fault.
I've been a professional investigator and interviewer for over 30 years. I've never allowed anyone to falsely confess to something they didn't do. One of the best ways to establish that the confession is true-is to have the suspect walk me through what they did, how they did it, when, how many times, dollar amounts, specific items taken, etc. I also don't accept responses like;, 'If you said I did it, then I guess I did it'.
Three words. Central Park Five.
@@ellenritt5564 Those teens were interrogated for 7 hours. The interrogations were not videotaped, only their confessions, so very suspect as to how the detectives were able to elicit these confessions.
@@ellenritt5564 There are at least a million far better examples than that media circus. Don't be such a weak link on this topic.
This is why defense lawyers tell their clients to STFU.
Even if they`re innocent.
@@brianpark8758 Yes, because cops can misjudge people, particularly if they've already made up their minds you are guilty.
Especially if they are innocent!
Kid being questioned by parent.. I want my lawyer! Parent.. That would be me.
What a crock of crap. There are so many holes in these tactics. No wonder we have innocent people sitting in prison and killers roaming free.
no one gets convicted for being nervous. All he's doing is ascertaining if it's worth investigating a person or they can be safely removed from a list of suspects. And if there's overwhelming evidence of guilt that surfaces in the interrogation, they might press for confessions, a slam dunk for them and for the court, or at least know where to focus resources to get material evidence and witnesses.
I’m a retired federal agent and have had extensive training and experience in interrogations. I learned both of those lines of questioning more than 40 years ago. I can assure you they work.
@williammackie6701 Bud, if your plan to succeed is to manipulate people, I have some really bad news for you.
I'll say it again to you two because it was deleted. Which, by the way, supports my point. If your plan to be successful is to manipulate others, I have some really bad news for you.
@@williammackie6701 You always knew when you got it wrong, yes? 100% success rate at self correction?
There are many people who just get nervous around police, immigration or custom officers, though are not hiding anything.
Especially if there’s a language barrier. Have a fabulous morning, afternoon or evening 👋🏻🦘🐨🇦🇺
My husband was police and if I got stopped by an officer. I literally shook …pure panic…😂😂😂
And that is why, guilty or not, you never talk to law enforcement without your lawyer present.
No no, I *want* the guilty people to confess right away!
@@hoi-polloi1863 aaaaaaaah we all would !
This guy has confirmation bias of his own abilities. People respond to stress very differently. Some people get enraged when accused of something they didn't do, like murder.
How many times has this expert got it wrong? Probably never in his opinion.
Such confidence in his own ability.
I am feeling the pain and anguish of the innocent peoples lives he has destroyed. This man feels none of this,or he does,and enjoys it.
I'm sure he gets it right occasionally though
When my daughter was small a glass of beer on the kitchen table was mysteriously emptied.
My daughter was asked "Did you drink what was in that glass?"
"No daddy" lied my daughter.
"Oh thank goodness! That was poison!"
"WAH! I don't wanna die!"
Right.
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They lie to catch a lie.
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Who else is watching this solely for their young children😂. Thank you, this is gold!
The fact that you suspect my being guilty of a crime by the manner in which you are questioning me, would make me very nervous and would probably make me start fidgeting or breathing faster although i'm innocent. I once failed a polygraph test because of this, and got blamed for something I would never do.
“Just remember, it’s not a lie if YOU believe it”
- George Costanza
😂😂exactly
Big Orange🤬
Lying is only one form of false language. It's willful.
He doesn't consider behavior in people with severe social anxiety. These persons often look like they are lying when they are telling the truth.
It doesn't have to be severe, not at all.
I had severe social anxiety all through my twenties and into my thirties. I would blush, stammer and some times soak my shirt with sweat if I felt trapped..........the idea of sitting in an interrogation room being asked leading questions would damn near trigger a heart attack!
I guess in this guy's eyes, I'd be guilty on all counts......
@@Dandroid5000 you say you "had" social anxiety; how is it now with you?
Due to people I hung around with I have been interrogated more than a few times. Every time I was completely in the dark about what they were asking me about. Not a clue, no idea at all. Regardless the various Interrogators were 100% certain I was guilty, involved or knew something. Ridiculous waste of time. Not impressed!
Hopefully you have a lawyer now.
If a person with coin, connections, crews, clout, corrupt cronies, and other shady jabronies wants to make you seem guilty, brother... there is NOTHING you can do. You'd be goin' down like The Hurricane. No legit evidence required; they'd just cook it up, baby. 😂
Chase Hughes' Ellipsis Manual and Behavioral Field Guide have made me a very successful poker player.
If someone asks me a personal question that is attached to distress or emotional pain, I do get uncomfortable and change my behavior. I can't help it. I see this in others, too. The response is due to unexpected discomfort, or just discomfort. It doesn't mean the person is about to lie every time 😕
Every educated and compassionate person of faith would answer the "punishment" question like that..correct behavior, help them change the behavior, to heal
"That's my secret, Cap -- I'm always nervous."
Well talking about observation, what I observed is the time on Chase’s watch doesn’t change the whole way through!
No - what pumps people up is the possibility of being punished no matter what. This guy is just good at selling himself to whoever thinks he has found a sensation.
That's why you don't ever allow people to get a baseline for your "normal" communication.
Thank you so much for this thorough and comprehensive video on how to beat a lie detector test!
I wouldn't feel more comfortable if you told me there were cameras recording me, I would get mad and shout and cry
"and the only time you get nervous is if you where there", also if youre not guilty and get hard attacked by questions that make you guilty? thats BS
this is why you never engage or speak a single word to these investigators. They are experts at the highest level and you don't stand a chance. ALWAYS have a lawyer. Period.
Easy way to spot someone who is lying - when they sit and tell you that they can spot people lying. Here especially, imagine being asked where you live and how many brothers and sisters you have, and then later a question you immediately know means the 2 guys in the room suspect you of committing a serious crime. And you think you wouldn't change how you answer that latter question? Of course you'll change, you'll realise the cops suspect you. Whether you did the crime or not you're going to be careful what you say because you know they're filming and recording your answers and if can they can show one tiny aspect of your answer isn't true they'll be claiming that's because you're lying etc etc. That's why the smart person never talks to the police and asks for a lawyer - whether they are guilty or not - because all the police are trying to do is convict you. Whether you are guilty or not. The pressure on them is to secure a conviction for their stats and they don't care at al who that is.
And this 'raising the stakes" is what ranges from mild threats to torture - and it's well established that people don't tell the truth under duress - they will confess to crimes they have not done and could not have done. All the US cops do is to have legalised duress to make it sound like it's an 'interrogation technique', sure they're not pulling out fingernails but the whole objective is to get innocent or guilty people to confess. The notion that if you didn't kill someone you'd just nonchalantly sit there while a cop subtly threatens you or implies they have evidence linking you to a murder and only the killer would get stressed is laughable nonsense. This is how you spot a liar - the guy is sitting there waving his hands spouting complete and total horseshit.
You should be much more wary of the person who answers the questions the same - because that likely means they either lack emotion, and/or they've rehearsed their answer. People who tell you they know if someone is lying from observing them are lying. That's how you spot a liar. People who claim to be able to do something that you can easily demonstrate in a double-blind experiment they actually have no more ability to do above chance - in the past that used to be psychics and other charletons. Now it's people claiming to use 'body language' to detect lying - they're trying to put a scientific spin on it - but it doesn't work.
If I spilled milk on the carpet, I'd say "lawyer". Don't care if I did it or not. This guy is a monster. Subjective observation to ruin lives is predatory, and his little "cute anecdote" with his own children shows that. Good grief. 1 in 10 of us are psychopaths.
Yeah, your parents will hire a lawyer on the spot. Makes sense!
How are lives being ruined? How are lives not being saved?
Of course one will act differently if you ask them questions that are automatic, vs ones that require memory or thought
The truth may not be "automatic", but it's not nearly as taxing on one's memory and mental processing as deception tends to be.
The questions are rather automatic, pretty standard in format and techniques. Like with anything else, more experience begets proficiency..
They ask questions and listen to answers. A lot.
Calculating "right" or "believable" answers, coming up with a litany of excuses, and remembering any number of various medical/mental conditions, can be quite the chore. Yeah, if one is nervous, they may flub a couple three lines of their script. Although, it's typically not the nervous that's an issue, .
THIS is why you always get a lawyer and don't say anything.. 🙂
His kids need to get a lawyer and fast.
I’d be nervous because I don’t know who lied to you about me, and now you’re operating with the cognitive bias that I’m the perp. Investigations are basically garbage in garbage out situations.
You shouldn't have to 'bait' someone. If they're guilty of something, there's evidence of that, if there's not enough evidence, the police aren't doing their job well enough. I've always thought cops baiting suspects was very manipulative.
I read a while back that statistically the people who are best at detecting liars are often the worst at believing people who are telling the truth. Oh well...
Unless you're joking, that might be because liars use skills to appear as truth tellers, while truth tellers are merely genuine. So someone who appears truthful is either truthful or the best liar they've encountered. Detecting liars is spotting failures in the skills they use to appear truthful.
It's also a small part of how liars and other broken people turn you into them, by forcing you to deal with their toxicity you end up a kind of toxic yourself.
@@xyaeiounn There's considerable difference between habitual, chronic and pathological liars. Some lie occasionally or strategically. Some lie to manipulate, some are just scared to be honest. Many types of lies and liars.
@@wangobadankas4038 Sure. Then there are those weird types who live in constant certainty, they have all the answers, are never wrong, and can be as lethal to you as any devious person.
I don't trust anyone who wears red and white striped socks....
Funny
You made me look at my feet !
This is why you always ask for a lawyer and then invoke your right to remain silent. Or if not under arrest, simply ask, "am I being detained? Am I allowed to leave?" If the answer is yes, simply leave without saying a word. Never talk to the police.
My dad was in the military when I was little and he would try those same tactics on me. When those didn’t work, physical torture was next. I don’t trust this guy and I bet his kids don’t like him either.
2:49 This one really brought me back. I got called in on a Monday after some drunken college mischief. The Dean said what Chase just said pretty much word for word. Then he asked me a funny question about a minor detail of my prank and burst out laughing.
Very nice to be given actual facts of things that help. A lot of similarly titled vids don't give tangible info to use. THANK YOU.
The easiest way to spot if a man is lying is if he answers YOUR question with a question of his own, thereby giving him valuable seconds to formulate an answer he thinks/knows will placate you (ie get you off his back). My ex did this all the time. It would go:
ME: “We’ve been dating 4 years - are you still not thinking you ought to divorce your wife?
HIM: “What do you mean?”
ME: “It’s an easy question.”
HIM: “Depends on how you look at it.”
And so on. See what he did - he deflected the question so I’d have to repeat it several times (getting angrier), then he’d storm off to the pub knowing that when he returned I’d be in a huff and we’d go to bed angry (and not talking!). He was VERY clever.
don't answer questions. That is the job of the Attorney.
"Are you recording this? Please do. I do not consent to any unlawful search or seizures, and I invoke my right to remain silent until I speak with my attorney".
Bad people say what you did
@@garth217So do good people who know about corruption.
A friend's children denied writing on the living room wall. It carried on and one day she spoke aloud while they were in the room "Mmm, i wonder who wrote this, the letter A is written so perfectly." Her daughter proudly stated "That was me." So my friend shouted "Well dont do it any more! " culprit caught.
Right I agree with this…. there are multiple things to look at to determine lies and half truths etc…. How else can you determine what to ask an individual and up the stakes as stated here. ❤❤❤❤🔥🔥🔥🔥💪🏽
One place the "what do you think should happen to the person who is guilty?" question is answered differently is when you're speaking with someone who is a posturer. Someone who is filled with bravado and fully believes he's gotten away with his crime will often say "throw the book at the person... do your worst... make sure they never see the light of day!"
There was a YT vid a while ago where a judge asked that question of a guy who killed a child. The guy started speaking in that manner ("throw away the key", "bury him in jail", etc). So the judge gave him the punishment as the guy said - put him in jail for life.
Was it PROVEN that he was guilty, or was it just ASUMED?
@@madhuzeeuwen6376 He was found guilty by a jury and by the judge. Look up Chris McNabb. He abused his wife, fed her meth and killed his 2 week old. Then told the judge that there was no evidence that could prove he was the one who did it. After the judge asked what sentence the real killer should get, he gave Chris what he answered: "the max sentence... life... throw away the key." He was sentenced to life without parole, plus 10 years.
Criminals and cheats behave that way all the time, that's a very common tactic to try to deflect suspicion.
I'm sure he would've got the same punishment anyway, no matter what he answered to that question? At least that's how it should go
The cognitive overload method is excellent because it is a simple concept and once you detect mistakes you can focus on the mistakes. The problem with the skill of detecting deception is it is very easy to detect deception if you know what to look for but if you are not a detective there is not alot you can do with the information unless you want to destroy relationships to get the truth.
My pop was a cop. He never believed anything I said even if it was true.
How many innocent people are in jail because law enforcement actually believe this garbage? 1 is too many.
Exactly, jail or labeled as whatever disorder the so called “ professional” came up with.
Smh
All well and good, but dealing with psychopaths is another kettle of fish.
Reason number a million you dont speak to law enforcement without a lawyer
when you're a hammer everything looks like a nail
Confirmation bias in action. If you expect everything to indicate a lie, everything looks like a lie. What you need is objective evidence that has nothing to do with what the person is saying, or how they are saying it.
I disagree, some people get scared or have been accused of things even when they didn't do it and have a guilt complex. Some people get nervous and may appear to look guilty, even when they are not.
Asking opening " harmless " questions like what's your name where do you live and work etc is to establish a baseline of behaviour and voice-tone and to set it against the real questions about the " crime " when they are not stating facts as they did previously but are now having to lie and state " untruths " about what actually happened.
I have been questioned by the police in an interrogation room, being recorded. Every question they asked I assumed they were studying me to see if I was being deceitful. I was aware of the techniques they were using because I had been trained to evaluate body language in my career. I was formally trained by the US Army, in the art of deception as a member of the ASA and we'll leave it at that. So, during this interrogation I was stoic, unmovable and never took my eyes off the person asking the questions almost a dead stare. Most questions I turned around and restated them to the person questioning me. i.e. If I understand you correctly, you're asking ..........they stopped this about 5 questions in the questioning. The conclusion was that I had been professionally trained & dismissed me from the interrogation with a series of threats. The truth was that I was out of town during the time a crime was committed about 1000 miles from the event unbeknownst to them. Someone told them I was involved in this crime, and they were fishing, it was a family member who actually did the crime not me, but they were told I had directly contributed to the crime that went down. Needless to say, they eventually gave up and realized I was not going to cooperate and lawyered up so that ended that. My technique worked. BTW I beat a lie detector exam, as I was told by the technician as his opinion after the test. After my army career ended, 2 years after I was drafted. I went into sales and was extremely successful selling anything. I gave up on Law enforcement early on as a result of seeing how much money I could earn in professional sales with a major corporation. I eventually became a VP of sales & marketing before I retired with stock options that made me very comfortable in my retirement. BTW I did know who did the crime, but they never knew I knew
Never talk to cops,not even in a social setting…they’re NEVER off duty.
I was a nanny for a policeman of 13 years. Of course I had to talk to him. He had a camera in every room and outdoors. I worked for him for 5 years and he trusts me implicitly.
Looking away is a "tell"? If I'm bothered or annoyed at someone, I stare them down... because I'm (in my head) imagining what bad evil things I want to do to you. I'm not a Bad Guy, but thoughts happen. Better to think it, than to do it.
Wanna see changes? Ask me my name and age, then interrogate me about either of my parents. 😂
To catch my kids in a lie, is that I ask them a question I already know the answer to.
That is a standard police interviewing technique.
A line I always used on my kids was "is that the story you want to stick with?" Didn't matter if I suspected or didn't know if they did anything. Key was neither did they lol.
Very interesting, thank you.
Chris Hansen always asks ‘what should happen to you?’ When dealing with predators. Interesting, he was probably coached to say it to help with convictions.
I feel guilty about everything. Indont know if this would work. Plus I'm very literal. If he asked me, "Is there any reason . . ." Ibwould immediately start thimking of reasons someonebwould say sumthin untrue and I know I would look guilty.
I'm interviewing the interrogator today, then straight to my prep school 6th grade gym class.
If the interrogator is a narc, then you can bet I will be anxious, stressed, nervous, unstable, hypervigilant, confused, easily manipulated, super sensitive.
Some of us feel guilt whether it is valid or not.
I just hope I'm never questioned for anything! 😮
Sometimes I tell someone something and I feel like I'm suddenly nervous and giving indicators that I'm lying, but I'm actually not. How does that come into play?
That means you'll be questioned longer. And eventually the truth will probably reveal itself and that's when you get to go.
Like Japanese Americans in ww2 held in camps then released after the war was over.
This is a good technique to detect police interrogation lies.
It’s even easier than you think. When you sit down in the room with them immediately ask which of them are cops and which are lawyers. From that point forward all of those identified as lawyers are liars. But of all those identified as cops are a-holes . . . . . . AND liars.
“Professionals” know how to lie. They know the “tricks” through experience. Very tough to find out what they know and what they don’t. The skirmish first timers and amateurs who haven’t figured it out yet are the ones that give it away.
On the "Bait Question" - 20 years ago, I'd been a litigator for about 20 years. At home, I had an 87 Supra Turbo in the driveway, and a 2004 vette, too. So I pull in in my sedan, and as I get out, I notice that there is a FOOTPRINT on the hood of my Supra! I look closer, and I see MORE footprints. Someone has clearly run up the front and over my Supra and off the back in a large sneaker size. At the time, my 17 year old daughter was driving it to school. So I go in, and go to her bedroom where she is, and I walk in and ask her, "Do you want to tell me what happened with the car?" And of course she looks at me and lies and claims she doesn't know what I'm talking about. Kids do that, alas. So I tell her that I looked closely at "the car" and I saw the damage. She quickly folds and tells me she DIDN'T MEAN TO BACK INTO THE CORVETTE (it was brand new), BUT HAD LOOKED IT OVER AND HADN'T NOTICED ANY DAMAGE!!! So I learned something THERE, then pointed out to her that I was talking about the Supra, and got a full confession on that too. Then I called the kid who'd run over my car, and asked to speak to his mother who was a crazy Lebanese lady, and they both came over to see the result which did include some body damage. And that woman raged over that kid, her kid, like the Death Star over a rebel planet. It was hilarious! She said she'd make him pay for the bodywork, and I got an estimate, but I never held her/him to it. Kids, Christ.
Even if he thinks you're lying, this is not ADMISSABLE in court. Unless you confess or have irrefutable evidence his "OPINION" is worthless.
Untrue. If he is an expert, his expert opinion absolutely matters in court, and is totally admissible. I don't know whether he is, but keep that in mind.
@@Mr_Cheng not in UK legal system. Lie detectors and so called truth experts are not admissible in court
A mere suspicion that you are being deceptive won't land you in jail without additional evidence.
Of a person has been set up, lied too, used, damaged or if they suffer from PTSD, paranoia etc, their behavior will change...
Rolling my eyes.
liars have ruined my life but at least i believe in karma
“This wouldn’t work on me” said everyone in in prison who thought they were smarter than people who interview criminals every day.
EXCELLENT. super great.
THe context of the question can promote a change. Example, how was your journey that's a nice tie where did you get it I like it. How is the weather in your part of town. What did you eat for breakfast. Then did you do the murder????. well it's obviously not going to be answered in the nonchalant manner as the other questions is it. This does not imply deception. It is going to be a very anxious question irrespective of innocence or guilt. Conclusion the question changes the mood not necessarily a deception
Regarding children, why the parental gut is crucial.
This is why you always remain silent
That's interesting re looking for changes. That sounds a bit like looking for the things a lie detector would tend to pick up on.
Really handy if you expect to be interrogated by the Spanish Inquisition. As a civilian, my lawyer answers any questions law enforcement might ask…about anything.
This may be true. However talking to a soldier with PTSD (you might not even know this, people dont wear it on a badge) - you will detect changes in how questions are answered depending on how difficult the subject. To this fellow.....any such change is deception.
The reason I do not believe people’s behavior can be assessed, while on Jury Duty there was one juror who seemed not to be listening. It bothered me, a bit but it wasn’t my place. I was the foreperson, once the Jury Room Door closed, this man remembered every word spoken in the Court. You can’t judge people’s reactions and behaviors, he really seemed not to be paying attention.
If there were a legitimate way of telling if someone is lying, it would be admissible in court. The reality is that everyone lies the real art is trying to figure out how much someone is lying. 🤓
Has his ability to detect lies been tested and quantified along with false positives/negatives? If so, how?