My Old Unmarried Aunt Said Am Disrespecting Her By Marrying First, So She Offered My Fiancee Money

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  • @LadyBlueRR
    @LadyBlueRR 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    I can't believe how people don't stand up for themselves... For one as soon as the Aunt went to her school OP SHOULD HAVE WENT BACK TO HER PARENTS IMMEDIATELY!!!! That's not healthy behavior of the Aunt!!!!

    • @claytonmorgan1843
      @claytonmorgan1843 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Facts!!

    • @sharonhaun4014
      @sharonhaun4014 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It didn't say in there if she could have even possibly gone back to her parents? Or if they were deceased or what. It's very very scary being in that type of situation and it makes it hard to stand up for yourself because you're afraid

  • @robingibson6561
    @robingibson6561 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    The Aunt's paranoia about marrying before OP actually saved OP's life. Fiance was a loser scammer who just wanted to marry a woman with money to use her to get out of his illegal debt. What I don't understand is why OP was still living with her Aunt before and after what she did. She was a nurse and making her own money. But in the long run its just as well since the Aunt's husband would have ended her without OP's intervention. OP, please be more careful in any future men you left into your life. Find someone on your level and have something in common with. You work in a hospital full of professionals, like yourself. Maybe start there.

  • @heatheraucoin5832
    @heatheraucoin5832 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    You can’t expect others to hold out marriage bc you want it first. Plus OP is younger and she has a higher chance of getting married before aunt,especially if the aunt doesn’t have a bf.

  • @sherrischweigl6860
    @sherrischweigl6860 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Op, you dodged a bullet by not marrying him. You did a good job saving your aunt and I hope that you two can become friends someday.

  • @timothyweers8054
    @timothyweers8054 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    The only thing I can't grasp is when Raul first went to jail for possession and using drugs, why OP didn't request a toxicology test or request to see when it was performed since of they were holding that as one of the charges, OP should have let him rot in prison. I also wonder if Raul would have had the chance to spike OP'S food or drink like he was able to spike her aunt's drinks.

  • @AutismTakesOn
    @AutismTakesOn 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    For those who criticize OP, I do have some counter-arguments. OP lived with her aunt since her parents didn't take care of her. Was her aunt perfect? Of course not. But seeing how OP said that her parents didn't take care of her, OP's aunt seemed better than her parents. No, that doesn't excuse her behavior, but you get the idea. While OP was a nurse, we don't exactly know how long for, nor which country she was in. Pay varies greatly from country to country.
    In regards to OP not taking her aunt seriously... If someone lied to you many times, would you trust them? OP's aunt was an unreliable source of information about OP's lovers, so OP's only reliable source would've been herself, and she never mentions anything about feeling funny, indicating that Raul never put anything in her food or drink. Why Raul did that to OP's aunt and not her, I'm not sure, though it could've been due to her toxic behavior. Again, Raul's actions weren't justified, but you get the idea.
    With OP not talking straight, Mr. Reddito usually does his style, and stress could've impacted how OP thought. And being with a toxic aunt is VERY stressful.
    Lastly, for OP not knowing what was happening to her aunt, the aunt never took anything, so OP couldn't have known what the problem was. Not to mention that panic makes people not able to think clearly.

  • @kanna231
    @kanna231 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Both of the aunt and Raul done this on their own to me it was that aunt because she was just jealous type and Raul well he needs to be sent away to jail its his problem his own problem he needs to figure iut out of what he have done wrong at least the aunt have reflected on her actions.

  • @amberleeannalee1999
    @amberleeannalee1999 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Narc women often keep their daughters close because of jealousy and competition. Keep your enemies closer kind of deal. Raul was a scumbag but so is the aunt

  • @KcLee677
    @KcLee677 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Honestly, l though it's best to move out and getting place for space for awful lady who'd can't handle to be first..

  • @mariebenovil3540
    @mariebenovil3540 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That is crazy!

  • @ADR-xn6dg
    @ADR-xn6dg 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    As a medical professional I realize that you can’t help who you like but that relationship was against her code of conduct anyway. She dodged a huge problem sure but she wouldn’t have been in the position like this if she never got involved with a former patient so soon after he was discharged.

  • @MCBRUCE76
    @MCBRUCE76 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    OP must be the most shameless human being, to live with someone who stole and married their life partner. What amazes me is that she still continued to live with that woman and her Ex, under the same roof. If OP can't see how much her aunt is controlling her life, then there is nothing anyone can do or say for her.

  • @unicorngj
    @unicorngj 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Enjoyed the story, think this happened on Days of Our Lives or Another World in the 90s..

  • @nimisilverbird1239
    @nimisilverbird1239 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow just wow. They are horrible. It isnt jealousy. It is insane. Op needs to get out and go far away throw the trash away

  • @alicedavis4847
    @alicedavis4847 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She should have moved out as soon as she had trouble in school with the aunt!!!!

  • @purplerosequilts1810
    @purplerosequilts1810 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Op needs to MOVE OUT of her aunts

  • @trachelle35
    @trachelle35 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sooooooo who paid the loan back that OP took out to bail out Raul? And why wasn't his court case discussed further after he dumped OP? Stuff like that just doesn't go away.

  • @AgnesC1111
    @AgnesC1111 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If she already graduated nursing school, how was she summoned to the principal's office

    • @erikamccall6741
      @erikamccall6741 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It happened back in high school, I missed that part the first time I watched it.

  • @JamaicanFujoshi
    @JamaicanFujoshi 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    People really are co dependent and have no spine. OP needs therapy on how to stick up for herself. Her aunt has issues.

  • @yahainHotPink
    @yahainHotPink 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    New video! Thank you!!

  • @claytonmorgan1843
    @claytonmorgan1843 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Why was OP still living with her aunt? After that highschool curfufel I'd have moved back to mom and dad. And then she's still living with her aunt after the aunt steals her boyfriend. Something is seriously wrong with OP.

  • @antoinettebates244
    @antoinettebates244 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    OP...PLEASE find a Damn BACKBONE!!

  • @vetaroberts3333
    @vetaroberts3333 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Get your life together and leave the house. Leave her to herself

  • @laughingoutofdepression8093
    @laughingoutofdepression8093 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Still living with your aunt as a nurse?? Time to move out

  • @lucillepfundt6757
    @lucillepfundt6757 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    OP has every right to have a boyfriend and even a Fiancée! Her Aunt can't dictate Op's life just because she lives with her. I can see that she didn't want Op to be serious with a boy in high school but Op an adult now and wants to get married. Auntie needs to let Op marry this guy

  • @sionmar1695
    @sionmar1695 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can not understand how OP still live with her aunt despite her aunt stealing OP's ex.

  • @Audiogeek-kf2ez
    @Audiogeek-kf2ez 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I will never understand this type of woman. Why is marriage such a big deal with women over marriage

    • @christophercuston
      @christophercuston 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Status. Men are used to competition and know what is worth for for/over.

  • @Carole1207
    @Carole1207 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How is she a nurse but still in school

  • @marcycollinshtd4life
    @marcycollinshtd4life 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I told my two niece's that I wanted to get married before them, one is three months older and one is three months younger then I am😂❤❤

  • @Vakamacool
    @Vakamacool 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Why is it that nobody on reddit seems to be capable of using proper grammar? Op expects me to believe she's a college graduate, when she can't even put a proper sentence together? I call BS on that.

  • @H1Guard
    @H1Guard 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    BS detector alert: Raul wouldn't be arrested and held on bail without actual evidence. Auntie's baseless word would work in school, but not on a criminal matter.
    Second alert: All OP had to do was call her bond. She would get 90% of her money back, and Raul would go back to jail.

  • @lucillepfundt6757
    @lucillepfundt6757 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow, I never thought Op's Aunt was actually a hero in this story. I thought Auntie was a pain but it turned out she was right about Op's ex-fiancee. He was a drug addict and a dealer. Op's Aunt almost died because of Op's ex. So glad she got off the drugs and away from Raul.

  • @tboss6941
    @tboss6941 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    RAUL - Raw-ool! Man, Mr Redditoe please Please PLEASE ask someone when your in doubt. ZOE-ZOE-EE😢 Yer killing us Me Red Toe😅

  • @amberleeannalee1999
    @amberleeannalee1999 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Aunt Is a narc And jealous of op

  • @beebee0417
    @beebee0417 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Make these fake stories make sense, your fiance marries your aunt who you say is like your mom and you continue to live in the house🤔 even though we know they're fake they should at least be believable 😂😂

  • @jamarwhite7191
    @jamarwhite7191 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is wtf

  • @Carole1207
    @Carole1207 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such bull s stories

  • @redepatestodialo
    @redepatestodialo 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I refuse to believe this story is true. I just cannt. I know there are a lot of crazy people out there but I cannt.