Mom Dumped Me To Be With Her New Family Until They Kicked Her Out & Now She Wants To Reconcile
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Op is a (f17) and she lives with her mom. Her father passed away five years ago in an accident. Her mother meets a new man, Tristan. Tristan is a very rich and handsome man, her mother is the envy of everyone. Unfortunately, Tristan has two spoilt brat kids who are Evan (13) and Lucy (20). Lucy befriends Op but uses her, which leads to her getting grounded. To Op’s disappointment, Tristan and her mother end up getting engaged. After the wedding, her mom leaves her at her grandmother’s house and goes to stay with Tristan and his family. Besides sending some money for op’s essentials every month, she ignores her daughter. One day, she even kicks her out after she tries to visit her. Months later, Tristan leaves Op’s mom for another woman and she comes crawling back. But op refuses to forgive her. She tries to bribe her and even forces her to move back in with her. Even she tries manipulating OP using her grandmother but when it didn't work out she sends OP's grandmother to an old age home took over the house in her hands, so OP will have to solely depend on her. But Op still hates her and will not forgive her. As soon as she turns 18, she moves out and goes to stay with her aunt in another part of the country.
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The mom abandoned her daughter, denied her existence, and slapped her so there is NO forgiveness for that.
OP's birth giver lost the right to be called a mother.
Op did good leaving...mum let her down in the worst possible way!
She sure did. I hope OP is happy with her aunt. 😊
Ops mother is a narracist and only thinks of herself. Op made the right decision to move away from her mother.
The only thing OP failed to do was to record her mother’s actions when confronting her at tristans house while they where married. Then showing that to grandma so that OP’s mother/GM’s daughter is a horrible person and that grandma needs to protect herself and OP from the mother if anything would happen to grandma. They need to go get the evidence and report her for assaulting OP multiple times to CPS (if the slaps didn’t leave a mark then you get someone with your moms sized hands to slap you hard enough to get a bruise to go for evidence. Not the most moral thing to do but when dealing with a psychopath/narcissist you can’t always go the cleanest way to protect yourself from them because they will go to any level to get what they desire.). Always make sure to document this stuff in writing with times, dates, actions, who said what, who did what, and what time it all ended along with any other important information you can think of to protect yourself from your unknown variables that other people will cause from their actions. The most dangerous type of person is someone who is weak (physically, mentally, spiritually, and/or a combination of two or all of them) that has been placed in a position of power because they will go above and beyond to ensure that they don’t lose their power and have to show strength in ignorant ways that always cause destruction all around them eventually. Yeah a really strong person is dangerous but they’re only dangerous when we have to be because posturing only draws attention that will give you a tactical disadvantage if ever confronted because people will see how you move. Bruce Lee said it best to “be like water” being able to flow to fill up any shape that it is within and can be spread to a large area. As I always tell all of the youth around me that you can’t judge any book by it’s cover because I can go and show them really serious guys in all different types of lives that the ones who succeed all have in common is that they all have respect for everyone which means they don’t go around just disrespecting people because it is “cool or funny” because that type of actions can have serious consequences (from the board room to all of the streets and in between).
She didn’t just abandon her. She humiliated her and publicly rejected her as her daughter. Not to mention the slap. Horrible person.
Glad she move, mother was toxic as hell!! Glad she got away from that monster!!
The fact that she abandoned her child then chose to disregard OPs request for time shows her arrogance and disrespect of her feelings. And the fact that she also sits in a position of power (parent/adult) to OP at the time, really left no other choice but to escape.
Mother showed her true colors, when she abandoned daughter and then took the only emotional support OP had by placing grandmother in a care home. So glad OP had the courage to get away, by moving to her aunt's home.
Everytime OP talked to her mom, her mom would just make excuses and gaslight her, for her own unforgivable offenses! Her best choice was to make a clean break!
Op did the right thing
🌹I am so proud of OP!! She made the right decision, big time!! How could a mother do that to her child!! That is so awful!! I'm so happy she had her grandma, and her dad's sister, and they were so nice!! You got right it OP!✝️🕊🌹🛐
Well glad her grandma opened her eyes to see how bad her gta daughters mother is unfortunately it’s to late because her was stolen by her and she got sent to an old folks home against her will.
Well, at least OP still visits her from time to time and guess who's going to get the lion's share of the inheritance when she passes? I'll give you a hint, it's the one who still loves her and visits her whenever she can.
@@PrincessQ-fj9ly, Hopefully OP gets all of her Grandma’s stuff. It’s possible that OP’s mother will have bled her own mother dry by that time. 😢 At this point she’s all about money and material possessions. She obviously doesn’t care about how her mother or daughter feel.
Cant she take back grandma?
@@Matagu1, I was kind of thinking the same thing. I would see if I could move her out to where I was living without my monster knowing. That may be more difficult if her seed donor has power of attorney over the grandma though. 😰
@@laurabenevelli6783 That's made obvious. But maybe after she got dumped into a nursing home by her own daughter who never bothered to visit her, Grandma changed her will and left her daughter aka OP's so called mother the bare minimum so she can't contest the will. And if she hasn't, hopefully she will soon with the help of lawyers and OP.
Geez........poor OP. 😢 I can't imagine being abandoned by someone who was supposed be my own mother. Thank heavens for OP's grandmother and aunt, and poor grandma did not deserve to be dumped into a nursing home. At least she still has OP to visit her. As for the mother, It's clear that she's a narcissist. I can't help but feel giddy about the karma she got when she married Tristan. If she didn't abandon her daughter, she wouldn't have had to deal with spoiled brats and a selfish, cheating husband. She made her choice and she chose her new(albeit temporary)family. And I don't blame Leonora aka OP for not wanting her back OR being extremely bitter. Thank heavens OP was able to get away as soon as she was able and is now no contact with her. Good riddance to bad rubbish. I really hope OP is ok and that she is living her best life. ❤
Now that her mom has all that money she is not going to change
some women doesn't deserve to be a mother at all. why have kids in the first place if you don't want a responsibilities in your life at all I just don't get itsome people have kids they are so irresponsible and sometimes they leave their kids everywhere like in neighbors , or leave them especially babies at all. and yet some childless couples wants children eagerly 😢😢😢 life is so unfair sometimes.😢
I know right? I hate how the world can be cruel sometimes. There are wonderful people out there who would be amazing parents and yet have trouble having children and when they can't, have to resort to adoption and even then they might not be able to adopt children because of how long the process takes, meaning there's a chance they could age out the adoption process(depending on where you live), and then you have these selfish deadbeats who are breeding like rabbits and doing God knows what to their poor children. It's just awful. 😢
Glad she left and she should talk to the ex step dad and vet the other side of the story
She should have left as soon as she put her GMA in a nursing home n went to her aunt's. The mom couldn't make her come back even if she found her.
You know I desperately want to ask parents like OP's mother why? Why did you even bother having a kid you wound up just abandoning? Did you expect the kid to fill a void in you? Did you expect life to be perfect and a garden of roses? Why and most of all was it worth it? This is exactly what confirms my believe that all children deserve loving parents but not all parents deserve children.
You would never get a straight answer from people like her.
It’s simple.
A child is both an investment for old age, a pet whose behavior and achievements you discuss with equally shallow adults and an anchor so that a spouse may be less inclined to leave.
She send you,your Social security from your dad.
OP is very emotional mature. She made all the right decisions.
Her mother made a choice and wants OP to believe she had nothing to do with her actions... OP's mother is just dodging accountability for the poor choices she made that didn't turn out how she thought...
Op mom was manipulative and selfish and greed she doesn't care about her daughter but she just care about manipulation and controlling How could a toxic mother to be such such evil ways. Hopefully Op found happiness in life. Also one more thing never giving them many chances in life if you give them any more chances it's going to hurt you even more even if your family your friends they're just toxic
"I have a new life now and theres no room for you."
Remember those words.
Op should have done more to embarrass her mom in public anytime she was forced to wear something. Her mother was always a parasite even before Tristan. It's just that op was used to it. She thought her mom changed when she came back. No she was just as fake.
Also op forgets how she hit her. I doubt Tristan made that that demand. After all she saw OP as the obstacle in her path to the good life. She sent her mom money so she would look like a good mom. Then gave some bs reason why she wasn't there.
I don't doubt he cheated because how else would she have all of that money. If Tristan and his kids were as cruel as op said they would have exposed OP's mom unless they avoided each others circles.
Op was never a person to her mom but a prop. I almost wonder if her mom was after more money and wanted inheritance and knew op would get it from her mom. Or she has been using ops late dads life insurance for her own gain.
I also don't get why op didn't post anything on social media when seeing her mom with her new family exposing them. I doubt op is really free also I question how bad the tharpist was who didn't report the abuse
Op can go to the police and report her for neglect and leaving her with her grandma. She’s a ROTTEN woman. Op should tell the therapist she’s abusing her
She abandoned her, treated her as a pariah Locked her own mother in a nursing home x.x Nah she's a witch
That's putting it MILDLY.
@@PrincessQ-fj9ly Cruelty is a form of punishment without cause, she's evil.
I thought i would bring this up just in case someone else watching this happens to be in a similar situation to OP and is a minor. There is something you can do, most states in the U.S. have laws in place for just this kind of scenario. there are lawyers and social workers that act as advocates for minors who wish to strip their parents legal guardianship rights over them and remove themselves from their custody legally. It is known as divorcing ones parents. The minimum age for a child to be able to do this do this vary from state to state so your should research this in your own state. Schools are aware of this as are therapists so talk to a councilor at school or a teacher you trust, they can help you with this. It will involve a court case and depending on your age you may be able to be declared a emancipated minor and be able to live on own with support from the Government for your housing needs, necessities and supplies for schooling until you become legal age or be able to have another family member of your choosing gain custody of you if they are willing and are capable of doing so.
Op did the right thing. Someone like this will always do more harm than good. What's worse is the mom would have blamed her for anything that went wrong. A true mother would never let someone else come between them and their children.
You can't pick your family, but sometimes it's easier to get along with them over the phone, when a "weak battery" can end the call, than in person. My overbearing brother is like that. Sometimes,after 6 months, 5 minutes of face time is enough. Keep frosty can raise your blood pressure.
To those who say give mom a second chance because she was going through a lot, what about OP? Was she not going through a lot having lost her father to death and then losing her mom? OP lost both parents after mom willingly chose to be with the new husband and his kids. Its hard enough to have a parent leave you due to death but the that parent did not have a choice. The mom however did and she made the wrong one. Now she needs to live with that decision.
The people defending the mother forgot that this woman slapped her cause she didnt want anyone to know that she had a daughter and disregarded her feelings. In situations like this theres no more chances, she messed up TWICE
This poor girls story make me want to cry. There's a special place in h**l for mama's like this.
Hold your ground. People like her don't change. Stay focused and motor through, you'll have a better life one day and SHE won't be able to do anything about it
How can she stop her from seeing her Grandmother?
I would have take. Half of mommy’s money and moved across the globe. She should go on social media and expose her 💯
Applsutlly not op mom only care about her self so op don't ow her anything she needs to get away for her mom if I was the grandma I would tell her your dead to me and go back to that sorry family my grandparents would
some women doesn't deserve to be a mother at all
@@chariesmith They sure don't. I still can't believe that you have to jump through hoops to drive, but character tests and parental classes aren't mandatory when one wants to have children. I'm sure those might keep narcissists from having them.
if I was OP I'd make sure that no contact is in place. Block everything
She did the right thing by dropping her mother look what she did to her own mother she deserves what she got in return
OP NTA call CPS if you are not old enough she is wrong. Shame on you mom
I think If OP's mother had been sincere about reconciling with OP she would have allowed it to happen on OP's terms not try and force it.
Mother doesn't deserve another chance. She's always going to choose herself over others.
No way her mother doesn't give a crap about her daughter!!!! All she cares about is herself. What her image is, it's me me me, and that's why she got rid of her mother she is just like her ex-husband.
At 17 U don't have to live w/ your mom anymore. You don't have to have formal custody arrangements for your Aunt either. She's not sorry, she's just lonely.
What in the Flowers in the Attic is going on here? 🤔 This mother is horrible!!! I hope that peace and great mental health finds OP and that she realize she did nothing wrong and that her mom should’ve put her first and stood up for her!! OP will most likely be a great mom in the future due to these unfortunate events!! 💕💐💕
That woman does not deserve your forgiveness. She chose her rich husband over OP. She made her choice, now she needs to live with it. Then she pushes her own mother out so her daughter had to live with her. The mother is a monster.
The mother is a horrible self-centered evil person! The daughter did the right thing for her own peace of mind!
How do you go from being overprotective to abandoned in the blink of an eye?
OP...Your Mother is full of it!! She turned her back on you and tried to use your Grandmother to get you back. Mom made a bad move..and she thinks she's done nothing wrong.
Leave your mother and her knew family and don't ever look back Karma coming to your Evil mother......
Not everyone deserves forgiveness. I was abused mentally and physically by my parents so i left as soon as i could. I worked part time jobs and went to university . It was hard but worth it. Both my parents passed awsy yrs ago and even now i still cant forgive them. It was the right choice for me. Hope OP has a good life.
No. This woman did not care for her child. The hell with her.
When OP asked for time to process and the mom could not even respect OP enough to give her that time, was the moment the mom lost her chance and right to regain OP's love and trust. After that I would have not just moved away once graduated I would have ruined her in grand fashion. I would have aired the dirty laundry of what mommy dearest is really like on social media and if possible put an ad in the local newspaper, or post leaflets around town telling everybody the type of person she is. At the end of the media post/article/leaflets would be me publicly disowning her and saying I NEVER want to see or hear from her again. By the time I would have moved the ENTIRE town and some states over would have learned everything about her to the point she would be afraid to leave her house for fear of rotten eggs being thrown at her. She would also never think to bother me ever again for fear of what next I would do to make her life a living hell.
As a mother I could NEVER abandon my child(ren) for a man! How absolutely disgusting! Op has every right to feel the way she does.
Most times an addiction no matter the type will destroy you before you do anything....even then many don't( can't) fix it.
My addiction was toxic relationships and I became estranged from my kids before I was able to begin to deal with it and it still took another 10yrs
You can forgive but know where to place people. Just because you forget doesn’t mean you have to allow people back into your life. Forgiveness is for you never for them. Never hold anger it only impacts you not the person who did the hurt. Let go always for you. But decide where to place people. ❤️🙏
The mother abandoned her daughter, and the only reason the mother came to the grandmother was to make sure she had a place to live. The only thing the mother deserve is to be left alone for the rest of her life..
Op is a lot nicer than I am. I’d text my “mom” everyday on dad’s death anniversary. And tell her how much I miss my dad and how much I wish mom had died instead of him.
My gash for an ex has walked in and out of my youngest son's life. Each time coming back like " oh forget what I did that was so last week" nope the daughter in this story did the right thing by leaving her mother in the dust. People like her mother and my ex-wife don't deserve another chance.
OP's mother clearly has borderline personality disorder also possibly
narcissistic personality disorder and likely codependency.
She did good I remarried abd kept my two kids and would never choses a man over my kids.
OP was dead right. If Tristan hadn't cheated she would never have seen her mother again. Then the way she bulldozed her way back into Op's life cemented the need to get away
She should have took her grandmother with her
Mom is obviously a narcissist. Daughter is better off without her.
OP is right!
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The slap in the close bedroom upstairs when she showed up would have been the nope don't feel bad for you go and lay in the bed you made moment for me
KARMA
I was and still OP. My mom did that to me. I forgave my mom because I don't want to miss my blessing. I am not close to her at all.
She drove there then left in an Uber? Fake crap
My BS alarm was working overtime when OP incubator was trying to excuse what she did and spinning her sob story.
Even if she was telling the truth, OP shouls have asked if she would have been trying to reach out if he new family didnt throw her away.
OP should have kicked the Incubator to the curb the moment she saw her
This reminds me of a VC Andrews book. Who else knows what I’m talking about?
Flowers in the attic??
@@TraceyBoyland well honestly, all of her books had the same general storyline. I tried to read one of her books, but it was so cringey
I thought about Flowers in the attic lol
No loving mother would choose money over her own child! She made her bed now Op is not responsible for her so called mother. If Op takes her back what quarantine does she have that Mommy dearest won't do it again.
Such a sad story. I think that going to live with her Aunt was a great idea. I just wish that she could take her grandma with her.😢
The mom worries more about her Image than her child. I'd spread rumours throughout the town about her to ruin that image before I left.
Better still, OP can wait until she goes to visit her grandma and then let the truth out about her toxic mother who tore apart the happy relationship she had with her beloved grandma.
Huh, at 16 if i had been in that situation i would have told my mother to go pound sand to pretty much everything after the car incident. Probably would not even answer the phone after i ended up at granmas. You don't want me, good, i don't want you either... end of story.
Also, the first moment mother came to granmas house, why did OP not lead her into another room and slap her mother in the face and kick her out?? Seems obvious to me???
Instead OP decides to put on a dog collar and be led around by her mother??? Legal age be dambed, what part of 'go pound sand' does the OP not understand??
I would not have kept the leaving a secret either... i would have told her what i am doing and dared her to try and stop me, and if i needed to give her a smackdown to get out of the house, i would not be too disappointed to have had to do that.... then i give her 20 years or so in the cooler after that. In the end forgiveness is still possible as long as you maintain firm boundaries - that is key.
So, I am wondering why you didn't file with CPS and document the abandonment, it would have helped with getting emancipated? Or is that an USA thing?
I don't believe in 2nd chances. OP waited until she was of age, graduated from high school, then moved out and away. For OP's mom to tell her that she willingly chose a man over her...there's no coming back from that.
Op was gaslighted blame for things she did not do because this other person is older than her and trying to get along with wtf😢
Why should she change? Her mother is still the same egoist and only concerned with herself.
He always did that even after many wifeds
OP 👍👍👍
There 3 things you can forgive, but you can't forget, because the one who do them, will do them again eventually : cheating on you , beating you and abandoning you.
I wished op asked her mom if what she said was true then why did she have to slap her?
I get everyone have they own views and opinions, but how after listening to this story they still suggest op give her mom a second chance?
Op mom didn't want a second chance, she didn't want to be alone to actually face her true self, and take accountability. She forced herself back in op and her own mother life, thought that would be it, not thinking Op would turn 18 and ghost her. The way the mom is, I don't believe this story ends just on that.
She should have moved. Time will take care of the relationship.
Wouldn't want to completely cut mom off but to move on inn I believe was too strong. If a parent is willing to build a relationship with them, don't give into anything you don't feel comfortable with. Goes for both sides. Adult children will not be pushed into anything a distant parent wants them to do. Best thing is to all ways be there and wait...
I would have made the mother's life a living hell. Trashing the home, selling all of the mother's stuff, told everyone what she did, wrote 'betrayer' on every bit of clothing and her car, whatever else till she stopped being a bish.
the mother is a textbook narcissist
"Mom" doesn't deserve any more chances. She had more than enough when she chose her rich husband and his bratty kids over her own child. She can make all the excuses she wants but she has never apologized or actually tried to fix the relationship that she destroyed willingly. She is out of chances. The best thing OP can do is never speak to her again. This is coming from the point of view of someone who lived through an almost identical situation except my mother also stole my identity and if she did attempt contact with me it was to beg for money. As soon as I said no she hung up. Don't bother. Narcissists never change. They may change the game they try to play on you but they don't change deep down.
It's ok to keep the step kids but not her bio kid? Hubby didn't ditch his his kids wtf?
I really enjoy the stories across several of your platforms. However, why have you added so many averts?
I don't blame OP for leaving. Her mother abandoned her once and didn't seem to change after her husband kicked her to the curb. Toxic is toxic even if it's a parent.
WOW dejavu, my son has turned out like this mum choosing his new wife above his son and family, something I NEVER in my wildest dreams would have thought, as he and my grandson have always been so very close to each other. My grandson 15, now lives with me during the week and stays with his mum on weekends. At least he knows nothing will ever take me away from him. So should the mother here be forgiven....I think she should rot in hell, she doesn't deserve to be in anyway involved with her daughters life.
Oh just buck up! Move on. Cut your former parent loose.
Her mother never made mistakes but rather calculated risks that would hurt her in the long run, and seemed to have turned her narcissistic, grandiose narcissist I believe. Maybe she was always like that and hid it well or maybe not. Somehow, allot of women seem to give up the best things in life for toxic a**holes that have no care for them what so ever and I have no idea why that is.
Op op op, triston is hung like a horse 🐎 that explains everything. 😊😅
You can't force ppl to do therapy ...well you CAN but it will be very counterproductive
Women and accountability
What OP did was fine. I have a story that ended up with me not calling my mother ever again at 28. I wanted to see if she would pick up the phone and ever be interested in my life. She wasn't. I have never heard from her, and I'll be 60 this year. The only thing you really miss is the idea of a mother. Not the actual person. OP is better off without a mother that would throw her away so easily for a man. The mother could do this again if given a chance.
My dad treated his second wifes kids better than his own kids