My Self Harm Scars and If You See Them
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 3 ต.ค. 2024
- TRIGGER WARNING, talk of scars. I would say this is a minor trigger video, as I really don't talk too in depth about self harm itself but if it does trigger you, please talk to me or someone you trust about your urges.
I'm sorry for my recent lack of videos, I felt like I should just upload this while I felt able! So this video is just me talking about self harm scars and how I hope you guys can view them if you ever see mine. I just basically talk about scars, how they can trigger people, the difference between seeing them and seeing cuts and my opinion (as always) on it.
Hope you are okay, sorry I haven't been around to support you very much, I'm pretty good at answering people on tumblr, so that link is below, just click ask me anything and you don't need to sign in or leave your name, just ask anonymously and I will post an answer on my page usually within a week, mostly within 2 days.
I love you so much, thank you for all your support, stay strong, okay?!
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"Never be ashamed of a scar. It simply means you were stronger than whatever tried to hurt you." -unknown
So proud of you lot!
Overcoming my fear of showing my self harm scars and going swimming which is something I really enjoy was one of the best decisions I have ever made. What you have said in this video is really true and I hope more people will be able to see it as overcoming their struggles and be able to stop their past ruining their present as you have said :)
Elise Walker I really hope you do, it was so tough at first but even though the anxiety never goes away it gets a little easier. Good luck and I wish you the best :)
I liked the distinction between something you "used to do" and something you've "overcome." Very cool and very proud of you, dear. :) Always love hearing from ya, regardless of how!
I think it's great that your feeling more motivated again :-) don't worry if you're not though, don't feel pressured into making them xxx ps the video's great and I love your top! ;-)
Stay strong beautiful they won't trigger anyone your a warrior fuck all the haters everyone loves you :)
I love this video. It's nice to see someone that thinks the same as me. Stay strong
I love you channel so much it has become my favorite channel on TH-cam. Keep up with the good work!
I looked back at this comment and forgot to say that you are very helpful with my self harm
Jesus Christ Thank you so much!
So happy to see you again. Love what you say in this video. Oh and yes... posting update or more simple videos sounds great.
I just started wearing short sleeves 6 months ago, and it was a very scary thing to do, especially when people stare, I hate that.
Love your videos in general :) these are always nice though, just a little thing that's popped into your head to talk about or a quick update. Keep going. Your videos are so helpful and make people realise were not alone :)
I am proud of my scares. Self-Cutting looks good and feels good. Self-Cutting has the same endorphin response as acupuncture needle strikes. To me and other people self-cutting is a drug free high..
I like carving
You still doing it?
you are sooo SWEET!!! I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!
This was a great video. Thankyou.
love that top :D
Thanking you greatly XX
I am glad that I have discovered you. definitely subbed. well for me I have been triggered by seeing people show their scars off, especially when it's fresh, so I can assume that it's the same for others. btw I make vids too, do you mind checking it out and subscribing?
Hey would you be able to do a video on your childhood? Just to get some background into what it was like. Of course if you are uncomfortable doing that don't worry :-) ps I think you such an amazing person and done soo well with everything you have been through and are going to do wonderful things in your life ahead xox lots of love and God bless
Hey there! I'd like to one day do a draw my life, I've consistently thought I need to be recovered to do that though, so it sort of ends happy, but sometimes I don't know. But either way I'm very open with youtube about (almost) every aspect of my life (except some stuff between 7-8 which was eventful but I can't really remember it, and I don't want people to view me as a victim), in my abuse videos though I do talk about my life in the past like at school, with my dad, his partner, my mum, etc. Kinda wish I could go home and grab some home movies for you haha :) and I'm 18 now, as of the fourth of January :) X
Haha thanks :) I would love to see a draw my life video but only when your ready too xx thanks for answering
I really like your videos, your voice is very sweet :D I can't even begin to tell you how much I want to cut myself on these last weeks. I haven't done it for about six months. But I feel like I need it. To feel pain, to punish me... I don't know, I just really really feel like going back to that :(
but why do you believe you need punishing? And why would punishing yourself help? You can't expect to hate yourself so much and punish yourself so much that eventually you just forgive yourself and love yourself, self punishment=self hate. Xx
UniqueRkw I weight something around 266lbs and I have always been fighting that since as a kid. I have depression since 2003, stop de meds for 2 years and it all came back in 2009. I got diagnosed as bipolar, things got so bad I went back to self-harm. I've tried to kill myself a bunch of times and fortunately or not, as you can see, it didn't work. I dropped out of three colleges, work and I couldn't do nothing but getting drunk and smoking. Last february I started studying photography, which I kinda abandoned, I haven't been to classes for 2-3 weeks. I really really reeeeaaally need to get thin, need to something with my life, do something, anything at all. I am freaking 24 years old and haven't accomplish anything but many failures. I'm on the edge again, I haven't been ouside my room much, only to eat (once a day) and to go to my doctors. Haven't done anything ~fun~. I don't want people to see someone stupid, useless and fat like me and I don't want to see people, because their achievement make me feel worse than I already was. I just wanna cut myself really deep. I want to do it because physical pain hurts waaaay less than mental/heart/whatever pain. And I should feel a bit of pain for being as shitty as I am. I don't know your name or where you are from, but when I read the description of the video I started crying and felt like I had to let it out.
I can relate to Femanda Kraemer!!!
I can relate so much girl, l would love to talk if you would just look me up on TH-cam .."Billy Winans "Let her cry" also on Facebook!!! Have an awesome life!!! you deserve it!!!, you really helped me see the realitys in life l needed to see!!! Thank You so much your Awesome!!!
I'm curious what's considered to be self harm pictures? I have uploaded a few photos on my tumblr of blood and cuts on my body (not self harm), because I just.. thought it was pretty. I never thought about it offending or triggering someone :o
Hey my name is Dan Larcombe and I just watched your video to say goodbye to Clare on my Facebook (I know Frankie) And I would be interested in talking to you because you seem like you can give good advice?
I told my mom that I cut like five minutes ago. I really regret doing so she's making me see a councilor. I don't want to be treated like I'm crazy and troubled. I don't want help anymore I don't deserve help. What do I do how can I convince her I don't need help?
I know what you're talking about...that's the reason I didnt want to tell it to anyone. But when she discovered my scars, she didnt want to send me to a counselor, because I could convince her it wasnt neccesary. I've developed an ED now, and nobody knows it... I scared that if I tell it, I'll get send to some place for teens with mental problems... I'm not crazy, and I'm scared of being treated that way...
Ziggy the cute shih tzu Please tell someone because ive been there too and the earlier you get help the less it will emotionaly effect you for the rest of your life
More updates!
How old are you?
In this video or now? Now 23.