@@dmarie1902thats literally how I started “intermittent fasting “ and then it turned into only eating one meal and with the workouts literary to lose weight is 20% working out and 80 dieting
@@gaugea it depends. It does work with Cassie because even tho everyone knows she has an eating disorder she said most of the people around her don't really seem to care about her. And it depends on who is the person you're trying to trick, if it is a random person or someone that really cares about you. if you're not known for not eating you can pretty much succeed with this technic but that's different for people that already are known as people who don't eat anything or people that have an eating disorder, this way people pay more attention and is harder to trick.
These comments are painful. LISTEN this scene isn't about wasting food or her accent. If you want to see a video about world poverty and food waste SEARCH IT. This video is about an eating disorder and a very sick girl. This is a beautifully done scene that shows how she gets away with not eating because no one cares enough to notice or do anything about it. Its supposed to show the extent of her sickness. Other people with the disorder may draw parallels from their own habits and help them see how bad its gotten.
bunny I can only sympathize :(( I really hope you get better and seek help, continuing unhealthy eating habits with only damage you in the future, I’m sure you’re aware.... know that you’re beautiful no matter what society says, lots of love 💗
I used to do this all the time, until my boyfriend started noticing and said he would only eat if I did. So, a year later, he's now my fiance and I'm a healthy weight !! :) (Update: 5yrs later WE ARE NOW MARRIED Y'ALL 🥰)
@@aliciabea1598 Yes, but I've always been skinny so doing this made it worse. If you're trying to lose weight I'd suggest you do it the healthy way! Controlling your food portions, eating healthy, and working out :)
Ok is it just me or i think that its sad that people won't even notice or care if you don't eat because so many girls don't eat anymore, so people just take it as normal
@@princesscaty6251 I'm sorry you feel that way, and I can relate. I felt the same while I was still growing. It got easier for me as I grew older and learned how to firmly stand up to the part of myself that hated my body. Trying to beat my body into submission with unhealthy diets like your friend worked for a while but resulted in so many other complications. When I finally started treating my body like my child, understanding that it has to be loved and gently coaxed into good habits, understanding that it will take time, I finally started to see the results I wanted. :) so all the best, and I hope things turn out well for you eventually!
Yo all my friends like eat so little, I literally know 2 people that have an eating disorder, one of them is in my acting class and the other used to be my best friend
Naomi J. No it’s not trust me. Eating healthy isn’t the only thing you have to do. You have to eat the right portions as-well and excersise. That way is the safest way to get skinnier! Also if you are already skinny don’t try to become underweight.
.....this is depressing Edit: this got recommended to me again, 2 years later after I posted this comment. I watched this at a time where I was struggling with body image. Last year I developed binge eating and I am now slowly getting better. Eating disorders are fucking horrible, it's like you just can't control it. If you are struggling too, I wish you the best, PLEASE get help, you deserve to love yourself and you're beautiful and worth it in every aspect of the words.
That is honestly wonderful, it means she cares for you. Too many mum's now allow their daughters to starve themselves, it's truly horrible. But at least there are still a few that care enough to pay attention to what their children are consuming, and not consuming.
I really don’t like this comment section cus people seem to be encouraging eating disorders when we really shouldn’t and this should be an example of the harms of them
@@lanaaladhami I just saw a comment saying that their parents would notice, and multiple people told them to just “throw up afterwards” as if they were giving them a helpful tip and not encouraging an extremely serious and harmful eating disorder that could have dangerous lasting effects on their bodies, minds, and overall health. 💀💀💀
@@ellietaieb764 Please don’t stop eating. Your body is doing it’s best to keep you healthy. It deserves to be nourished. You deserve to be nourished. Thin doesn’t always mean healthy or better.
If you want it, never undereat. I was on cut for a long time, now I just can't eat normal amounts of food because my metabolism is really slow, and I'm fighting malnourishment.
Downside is when you lose weight, you can barely get it back up without doubling, tripling your usual food and supplement, hydration intake, etc. you get the deal. Getting really sick and losing weight is the worst, especially when you lack appetite and you’re almost underweight at that point.
Not really. At one time it was a fairly common parenting practice to insist that kids "cleaned their plate" regardless of whether they hated one or more foods.
There's this one girl in my class I've never seen eating before. Every time its lunchtime, she'd grab a bag of chips and some salad and juice. She'd open the bag of chips to pretend as she ate it so that no one suspects her but I know exactly what she's doing. She'd also do the same to the juice. She always gives her food to someone else. Then she'll go to the restroom and come back with red eyes. I knew something was wrong with her...
Well I mean one of the major signs of someone having an Ed is them giving their food to someone else or cooking for everyone else. It’s not always the case but it’s quite common. I do hope this girl is okay though. If you can try talking to her (not about the food but just in general) then I think that would help, basically what I mean is either become friends with her or keep an eye on her to see if it get’s worse
@@yangoiting of course she’s popular. everyone who is popular has some kind of disability, usually adhd, rarely autism, or most commonly, anorexia. definitely has to begin with a.
Like Lemon said, get professional help, you’ll feel much better that way. When you’re thinking the way she is, you’re not thinking right, and being malnourished only furthers the damage because without proper nutrition your body and brain don’t work like they should
My mom noticed but she didn't believe it. My parents are Indian growing up she never heard anything of that. She was concerned but didn't question it? idk
Sometimes diet/food restriction culture actually makes me feel guilty for eating normally. I'll be out with a friend who is thinner than me and doesn't eat much and then I'll order food and eat the lot while she pokes hers with a fork and doesn't eat much of it. Then people will be like 'oh nell was hungry then' and then I'll feel like I'm the fat friend at the table.
That sucks. All my close friends except me have ED (from anorexia to binging) and most of the time when I am eating, like a normal person, they will comment on something. They also call people fat, glamorize being slender when we are watching TV and forth. I love them, but it is so damn exhausting..
@@muienanet4818 sorry for the week late reply. One of them in particular says stuff like "I bet you're going to eat that whole thing" when I buy a loaf of bread or something. And i know shes projecting because she has issues but its sooo uncalled for. Its like she's just stepping on my confidence and squishing after its still recovering from the last time she did it. Its painful lol. When I get to go out with a friend who is a fellow foodie its such a relief. We go and get food, eat until we are stuffed and its just wayy better than having to restrict my eating when I'm around my other friends. Another thing that gets to me is the constant bragging that they fit in a size 4(uk xxs) etc like man come on.
@@nellwillis3716 No problem, and yeah, I can feel that. I just hope people notice one day that the normalization of starvation for losing weight, restrictive diets, etc. are the worst path we can go. ED's, especially anorexia and bulimia, are socially induced mental issues. We need to start taking action or we will eventually be in a society that more people have ED's than the ones that do not have them.
People commenting saying ‘nah i could never cause my mom would notice’ don’t realize how lucky they are. I’ve had an eating disorder that started in gr3 and I’m now 25 and even after I’ve told my mom and sister, they still barely notice when my weight goes up and down 20pounds and I’m screaming for help.
You can tell someone who knows about this stuff that you need help. But u can't say that we are lucky, i have parents that force me to eat and i die inside. I wish they wouldn't notice, i don't feel like eating and it's horrible when someone forces you to eat.
being forced to eat isn’t any better at all. it makes me gain weight like crazy, gives me binge eating disorder ( which i’ve had for about four years now ), and it’s only encouraging me to throw up my food. being forced to eat sucks and it doesn’t make us lucky. most of the time parents only care about “not wasting food,” so it’s not even always about parents wanting us to be well-nourished.
I get what you’re trying to say in the beginning but sadly forcing us to eat big amount of foods when im not even hungry makes me feel excessively guilty to the point i workout for hours just to try and burn the calories off, it used to upset me so much that I couldn’t throw up because I had the phobia of vomit. I would slowly lose the weight and this made me so disappointed in myself to a point i became severely depressed so no, there’s all types of negative outcomes to every situation both the ones u think is good and positive.
For years, I've screamed for help, both literally and silently. I've had crippling depression and still have anxiety. I'm labelled a bratty, ungrateful, irresponsible daughter for not being perfect and asking for a little help. Even though I've recovered so much, I still feel like dying at times.
I love skins sm, cassie was the first person that i learned about ED when it came out and some people may disagree but im glad they added her, it taught me so much
i remember watching this for the first time in 5th or 6th grade. i related to her so much. now, i've been recovered for a while with a baby on the way and a husband who's very supportive. life does get better!
what breaks me a little is that I can't tell if she says "oh wow" or "oh well" at the very end. They both have very different implications for how she's feeling.
Not really, I’ve done it for years. I’m not encouraging the behavior, and tbh, I hate how much I related to the video, but honestly? It’s a lot easier than the clip makes it out to be.
@@sof7068 it depends how much attention your parents give to you when you're eating, if my parents wouldnt know about my eating habits it will be way easier
This is exactly what my mom has been doing since I was in elementary school and it's extremely irritating. I don't eat until she eats which usually helps but it's tiring
Last year I overheard this girl at lunch saying she only ate a small meal for dinner and no other food besides that. It actually made me question if I eat too much so I started skipping breakfast and only eating an apple for lunch, then going to work out for 2 hours at the gym after school, causing me to get really dizzy and have bad headaches. When I would get in the car my dad would ask me if I was alright and I told him I was fine. I kept doing the same thing for a few weeks until one day when I told him that I just ate an apple for lunch everyday. He told me that I can ask him anytime for lunch money when I need it but I told him it wasn’t about the money I just wasn’t very hungry. I was average weight for my age but for some reason when I would take a shower or look in the mirror, I felt ‘fat’ And you know, I still think the same thing today. The only thing that has changed from then to now is that now I eat more than an apple everyday now and I’m proud of myself for at least doing that.
You could really mess with ur metabolism as well as growth, if u starve urself at a young age. Depending on how young you are you’ll lose and gain weight naturally due to puberty. But overall your mind tricks you into thinking your weight matters to those around you, like you’re some elephant taking up space in a room of mice, and the only remedy is to eat like how You think mice would eat. Well as long as you’re not obese, it really does not matter to anyone. Just eat healthy and portion your junk food. It’s honestly better to give your body the energy it desires, and not all calories or bad lol, not all food gives u like instant fat. Theres worse things happening in life than you being 10 lbs overweight, and you start to feel stupid eventually that you let something like that stress you.
As you go into adulthood, you don’t have to bother with any of this. You can just say, “I’m too busy,” or “I ate in the car,” or “I totally forgot to eat,” or “The kids ate all the snacks, I need groceries,” or, “I’m too tired,” or “I’m going to have coffee first.” Then get busy doing something (a favor for them, dishes, running an errand, whatever) and you’re untouchable. Nobody really thinks twice, as long as you’re smiling and loading everyone else’s plates.
This is why im excited to be an adult and live alone, if you live alone no one can ask "have you eaten yet" "you barely touched ur food" "you have to eat something"
@@belalalalalal My point is, it’s a bear trap for recovery, concealing and speeding up the dying process that is anorexia. Adults are seldom diagnosed. Get help now before your heart and nervous system fall into collapse. Rocking that zero size is a lot less fun and sexy when you’re disabled.
@@belalalalalal nothing to be afraid of bro. and i know that mindset is hard to change but for me once i could hear my own heartbeat slowing down and pounding in my ears and my skin was dry as fuck and i began to not be able to swallow food without stomach ache, i started to panic and gradually started eating normally again. I really hope you break out of this soon because it will ruin your life, or make you hate yourself, hopefuly not a lot. Youre not dumb and you know how to care for yourself. I believe in you
@@cloudsoflilac9731 thank you for that, really im trying my best but things are still scary for me, im glad things are better for u and u seem like a very sweet person and i appreciate you taking the time to leave that comment❤
@@tatianabaudean1633 How rude of you. You don't know if this person has an ED or if they suffer from body insecurities or even body dysmorphia. You shouldn't assume what someone is struggling with.
Tatiana Baudean Oh hell no, you’re the worst fucking person to be around I don’t even know you but I HATE you and people with your mindset this comment is the only comment that’s ever made me this angry
@Tatiana Baudean you kind of did assume that this person doesn’t have an eating disorder. you called their comment “disrespectful not only towards people who are battling an eating disorder, but also to the ones who have lost their lives because of it” which would imply that the commenter didn’t have an eating disorder, but was wishing for one (and I’m going to note here, that this person could have body image issues, people picking on them because of image, actually have an eating disorder, or be taking medication that gets rid of their appetite). You went on to ask the commenter “would you look into an anorexic on the brink of death’s eyes and go ‘oMg My PaReNtS dOnT lEt Me gEt Up UnTiL mY pLaTe Is EmPtY’ ???” Which is ridiculous to say to somebody who may be dealing with something like an eating disorder, because first of all, most and hopefully all anorexics would never want another person to go through and ED. Second of all, this person might already be skipping breakfast and lunch high would mean that dinner is probably not exactly *fun*.
@Tatiana Baudean also even if this comment makes EDs look “desirable”, it’s also a concerning comment and should be replied to with something more along the lines of “I understand how that feels (only if you actually understand). It really sucks to feel that way, but you can’t hide this. if you constantly skip meals then you will end up malnourished and possibly in the hospital if it gets really serious. Please talk to somebody who can help you out. “ this may not be the complete best response, but full on shaming is definitely not the move.
to all the ppl struggling with body image & disordered thinking in the comments- pls do not go down this path. pls pls pls. do not romanticize or glamorize eating disorders. if you think "oh well I know when to stop. I wont let this take over." you're wrong. it will consume you. Ed's arent all sunshine and rainbows and pictures of pretty, skinny girls. Ed's are standing up and almost passing out. they are feeling so *weak* and *tired* and *hungry* and *cold* all the time. they are sacrificing every hobby, every relationship, every bit of your identity that isnt your weight. they are counting every goddamn calorie and constantly checking yourself in the mirror. and it will *never* be enough. 10lbs will not be enough. 20lbs will not be enough. you'll hit your goal weight and then set a new one bc *its never good enough* . not to mention, you'll eventually gain *all* that weight back, *plus* more, bc of how slow your metabolism is. either that, or it will kill you. maybe not in a year, maybe not in 5, but it will. not to mention all the health complications if you do recover. it will fuck over your entire body and entire mind. it is a miserable way to live and a miserable way to die. *do not do it.* for gods sake, dont sacrifice your entire life for some stupid ass beauty standard that treats our bodies like trends. if you really want to lose weight, do it in a healthy way. workout, cut down on junk food, drink more water. most importantly, work on self love, no matter what weight you are. you are so much more than your body. pls believe that. you deserve to eat. you deserve to be happy and healthy and confident. you deserve to live❤
This is so true. I suffered with an eating disorder and it was literal hell on Earth. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy and to see people in these comments promoting eds... It makes me so sick. Stop glamorizing it !! While people praised my body when I had an ed my mind was fucked over. I was suicidal, I hated everyone, and I was always tired. I wanted to kill myself, and I almost did. EDs are no joke and it hurts seeing people treat it this way
Alright, look. I’m going to be honest: when you work real hard at this, as if it’s some kind of hobby you’re picking up, it’s amazing. The weight flies off and you feel this sick sense of pride. I felt great at the time. Flash forward to adulthood and I’m laying here, stuck in bed (again), just wishing I could participate in my own life. I long so badly to experience real joy again, not the joy I thought I would get out of being small. I know that sometimes it’s easy to idolize things like this. I’m sure nobody asked for this lecture, but please just try to be open to the message. I’m here because I was desperately searching for videos on how to get quick nutrition to try to make it to something very, very important to me in the next two days. It’s not going to happen. This popped up in the suggestions and I couldn’t help but revisit this little scene that I once found inspiration in. It should devastate you, not motivate you. The comments are so unnerving that I just wanted to weigh in, even if I’m screaming into the void. Please just keep yourself safe. This only leads to a lifetime of emotional agony and physical torture. Speaking to a younger version of myself that I see in some of in the comments: I need you to choose yourself. Life is always going to be full of miserable periods. There’s nothing you can do to change that. But you know what it’s also full of? Beautiful, magical, breathtaking moments where you learn about why you’re here and what you’re made of. Those moments are worth it, I promise. But you have to choose to love yourself enough to let yourself live them. If you don’t, they’re gone forever. And to end on a blunt but very real note, some of you will die doing this. I’m sorry that you couldn’t get the help you needed. You deserved so much more.
This is a great statement. I've been 'better' for about 8 years yet I still hate feeling full. I've gained some weight recently and I feel like a failure. It's from medication because I'm working on myself but it's just there in my mind always. A few years ago a mom was shaming her very young daughter behind me in a food line, she actually said "don't you want to be pretty and thin like that lady" she meant me. I almost turned around and told her what I used to do to myself and how I haven't forgotten or forgiven my parents for acting like this. And I went no contact a long time ago. Sorry for trauma dumping I'm under alot of stress and it's been 4 days. Going to force myself to eat today
@@hollywhite3034 You should have told the daughter. I'm so so so sorry you had to go through this and it makes me want to cry that a mom would say that about her own daughter. I'm so pssed.
Lately ppl are encouraging eds and I’m relapsing just a while after I got discharged from my Ed clinic 💀 I feel like my life is going to be tough since I’m so easily influenced
Hey ! how is it going ? You should maybe change your FYP by looking at positive and supportive paged or just quit social media for a while to avoid triggers ;)
idk if it’s just me but when i’ve been restricting for awhile i get rly rly hungry and so i start smelling junk food, watching mukbangs, and ‘what i eat in a day videos’ and then i give in and eat a shit ton of food and in the moment it feels so nice and i’m so happy and then once i’m finished i’ve realized what i did and then i know that it was not worth it to eat.
fact: cassie (hannah murray) actually had ED irl so she playrd an character which technically has the same disorder. she gained weight now and is healty, searh hannah murray skins interview to see :)
i cant believe people WANT and ed.... you can’t want one because if you’re trying to be skinny by WANTING an ed it’ll never happen. you’re gonna get skinny but then not be happy. then you’re going to recover from it (hopefully) then you’re either going to be happy that you’re better or sadder that you’re not skinny
I think wanting an ED is just a sign of people denying there restrictive habits. I want an ED because I don’t think my situation is extreme enough. Which is a self fulfilling prophecy.
Wanting an ed is halfway there. No one healthy (mind and body) wants an ed only some of the people who have a predisposition to eating disorder and harmful behavior when it comes to food.
I didn’t weight myself for a long time and when my mom got me a scale I was totally shocked because of the number. Then I used to starve myself until I lost 10 lbs. I used to go to bed early so I can’t eat anymore and my stomach hurt so much. The thing is before I got the scale I was fine with my body but the number hit. Now I know that this isn’t the best way and it’s not a permanent method, eat healthy and don’t overeat and exercise if you can 💜
For the last year I've been stuck in a binge purge cycle. If you include myself using exercising to purge its been over 4. However, in the last 2 weeks I've kicked vomiting and been using the gym. Thanksgiving rolls around. I lost all my progress. I just hate feeling this stuffed. I just eat like its an addiction. Its all I think about. Its like one part of me is set determinedly on losing weight and the other is just this mindless all consuming creature with teeth. I know once I go back to college and hit the gym again ill be fine. I know I'll have a gym membership for December so the holidays won't be as bad this year either. But I'm watching this video and mentally taking notes, preparing myself for times when I must eat around family or with other people at a time when I don't want to eat. Food is a social interaction. When you get an ED you lose people. You lose yourself too. You isolate yourself because food truly is a social ritual that triggers other social rituals. They build on top of one another and when you cut off food, one day you find that the you curled up in the corner of your mind is now the you on the outside, curled up in the corner of your room. I'm trying to get better. I truly hope that I won't ever feel like I need to use this. For the people just arriving, thinking you can control this? You goddamn can't. You think you'll do it once? Maybe you won't again for 2 weeks. Then you'll try again and again, lying to yourself and thinking you know what you're doing--that you can stop at any time. You can't. Not by yourself. You get sicker and sicker unless you reach out and even then its a long journey. Don't go down it. The best decisions are the ones that don't have immediate rewards. If you want to lose weight, work for it. Go to the gym. Eat healthy. Be around people who want to improve themselves so that they can be happier and stronger, not just to impress others. The people I wanted to impress are gone now. What I did pushed them away or made me realize they were toxic. Find people who want you to flourish. Please. If that doesn't change your mind then know that I'm very close to developing an ulcer after just one year. Eating is painful and yet I continue to do it. My stomach fills with acid and air, burning my esophagus and my intestines. I lay on the floor in pain for hours. I go to bed wishing I could never eat again, not because i want to lose weight but because it hurts. Its agony. My teeth, which used to be one of my favorite things about me, are going. Its been less than one year of this disease and all its done is making everything nightmarish. Please don't go down this path. For those of you already on it with me? I wish you the best of luck. There is happiness coming soon. It lies in our choices. Choices become habits and habits become life styles. Its hard. So fucking hard. Just know that things do add up. Make enough good choices and we'll make it out. Best of luck, all.
i've had anorexia since 6th-7th grade, and it got really bad in 8th-10th grade where i was very underweight. now i'm normal weight, but i'm starting to relapse because i feel comfort in my eating disorder. i guess it's time to rewatch skins
i’ve seen this video, it was so long ago and i think i thought it was instructions. i was tired and sad and wanted nothing to do with myself or my body. now im on the first season of skins and this came up on my page
@@725prime I’m really glad it didn’t affect you in this way. It certainly wasn’t the sole reason for what turned out to be a life threatening illness for me. There is still no need to comment on my lived experience - I wasn’t asking for anyone’s opinion.
Eating disorder are really scary. When you stop eating you first feel very hungry and feel sick, but after a while you loose the feeling of hunger and forget to even care about eating. This has become a habit to me. Someone always has to remind me to eat or I’ll forget. One time when my mom was on a business trip or something I forgot to eat for a whole week.
My girlfriend at the time sent me this and it still occasionally appears. She had an eating disorder and it still hurts when i remember that i couldn't help her
I am so so so grateful for this helpful video. I had to attend a dinner with family members whose idea of food safety is that it doesn't matter. I had to watch one relative (who is being treated for clostridium difficile) slice meat and lick their fingers, placing the meat on a tray to serve others. I knew things would be bad like they've always been, but this year i needed a way to eat NOTHING and still seem "normal." Thanks to this video I had only water for Christmas dinner and nothing else. No one even noticed! I did the food cutting thing, cutting into in normal size pieces, the extra talking, the giving of food off my plate to someone else, all of it! Worked so well! I had zero appetite after all the different unsanitary behaviors of the cooks in the family. And please note, everyone present knew about the c. diff. infected person and watched everything happening and didn't care one bit, even though they all are beginning to be experiencing symptoms as well. I came home to wash all my clothes, clean off the spores, and to just forget about eating anything for a long time. All I can do is pray I dont get it, but with the help from this video at least I avoided one transmission form. Thank you, thank you!!
Ice Qu wow your story is insane! Well at least you used it for a really good reason and not like most of the comments who just want an eating disorder. Hope you are still healthy
@@Panther888 Thanks el gordo. Yup. I didn't catch anything. For Christmas I gave each of the three families books on food safety at home, complete with highlighted paragraphs and my own personal notes to them. At first they were confused, then they started looking at the books and saying, "Oh yeah. Good to know!" So maybe things will be better next visit.
@@Hannah-no8yh Clostridium difficile: A nasty germ that can cause big problems such as severe diarrhea and dehydration, colitis, and long term health issues. It is highly contagious and requires specific protocols for treatment and safeguards against transmission.
I start crying watching this again, I was in a dark place back then, and I am thankful and I wish I would never be there again. I’m still struggling sometimes but not as when I did back then
I did this too my friend noticed eventually and now he’s like a dad to me now and he makes sure I eat and I’m gonna miss him when he goes to college he’s helped me through a lot
I swear to god I should really get off these types of videos... I just wanted to learn more about people who struggle with anorexia. The next second I was reading a comment of someone who was telling you how to throw up your food and that it’s good for you... I hope those with eating disorders really get help, even if it’s really hard to break through the blindness an eating disorder puts you through.
As someone who might possibly have anorexia (I’m not sure but I used to have binge eating disorder for sure and now I have a fear of eating at all) and I can go a LONG time without eating, it scares me how easy it honestly is to get away with it. I haven’t ate lunch in front of my friends like AT ALL not even like pretending to just straight up nothing in front of me sitting and waiting for lunch to end. All I’ve heard a couple of times was “hey are you going to have lunch?” And I always just answer “no I am still really full from breakfast 😅” and literally nothing else was questioned from all the times I didn’t eat. It’s not like I want the attention and concern no not at all it’s just like- how? How do you not see? I mean I’m glad they don’t but it just shows how careless we are to the people around us and to obvious signs such as literally not eating many times during times meant for eating. My mom notices my eating problems and she asks me to eat more but it’s literally so easy to get away with a “oh ye I ate some of the cottage cheese in the fridge while you were gone” and then nothing else is questioned. It frustrates me that people don’t care to pay more attention it honestly does…
literally! if she starts counting stuff, dirty platea and all that you can just go, make something and throw it away on the bathroom, small pieces ofc. Or give it to some stray dog/cat (if you don't have any) or give it to the homeless. People saying that "they would notice" they really don't know how to hide stuff. it's easy.
i watched this in 5th grade i was aware with what she was going through but now recently i’ve developed and eating disorder so i relate on a whole different level:/
notice how she said all that to make him forget about the apple
Holy shit you’re right
that’s so clever i literally watched this show years ago and never noticed
Wow, you’re right!
and she did it to the audience too
like i didnt noticed it until u pointed out
She made me forget about the apple too
Having an eating disorder is tiring. Your body is constantly hungry, constantly hating yourself, and lonely.
LITERA MY LIFE RN ! but idgaf I’d rather starve than be big ,
@@eli-pw8rr That’s how ED’s work
@@dmarie1902thats literally how I started “intermittent fasting “ and then it turned into only eating one meal and with the workouts literary to lose weight is 20% working out and 80 dieting
@@dwdw1658 are you starving yourself?
@@dwdw1658 If you starve yourself you destroy your metabolism and you like actually gain a bunch of weight later on.
this wasn’t teaching people how to have a eating disorder, it was teaching people the signs of a eating disorder.
True, but it's still dangerous to show to people without further warning
@@felissylvestris6557 i mean it doesnt really work as well in real life without a cameraman
It was also teaching you how to hide it
well it helped me (not gonna say which way)
@@gaugea it depends. It does work with Cassie because even tho everyone knows she has an eating disorder she said most of the people around her don't really seem to care about her. And it depends on who is the person you're trying to trick, if it is a random person or someone that really cares about you. if you're not known for not eating you can pretty much succeed with this technic but that's different for people that already are known as people who don't eat anything or people that have an eating disorder, this way people pay more attention and is harder to trick.
"Im better now. Totally better..."
Mantra of denial.
I know it well.
i read that perfectly in her voice lmfao
When i eat i feel good but afterword’s i don’t feel good
@@sotinsim7113fr
How are you now? Hope you fine
Everyone saying it's a Netflix series lol this came out way before Netflix.
skins>>>>>>>>>every netflix series
What its name
Fw Aa skins
You know Netflix has been around for over 20 years right
@@ejiejejehdjdjdjr1223 yeah but that person said that skins came out way before Netflix and that just isn't true
These comments are painful. LISTEN this scene isn't about wasting food or her accent. If you want to see a video about world poverty and food waste SEARCH IT. This video is about an eating disorder and a very sick girl. This is a beautifully done scene that shows how she gets away with not eating because no one cares enough to notice or do anything about it. Its supposed to show the extent of her sickness. Other people with the disorder may draw parallels from their own habits and help them see how bad its gotten.
Theresa C this needs to be the top comment.
I’m so proud of myself I gave this a like and it turned to 100
@@eushandageorge2554 wtf
bunny
I can only sympathize :(( I really hope you get better and seek help, continuing unhealthy eating habits with only damage you in the future, I’m sure you’re aware.... know that you’re beautiful no matter what society says, lots of love 💗
fr
My family: omg ur so fat dont eat too much
Me losing wieght:
Family: Eat eat eat
I can relate.
Literally same
Same.
asian parents am i right fella lmao
@@shafaalya884 No hispanic parents lol but nice try
You know u have problems if you know this scene but never watched the show
guess ive got problems
@@elliekate376 ohh god pls get help
I've watched the show
bruh I watched the entire show and remember this scene, I had some bad problems and also went through that ed shit.
:c
i love her smile, but hate the fact how much i relate to this.
I have the opposite of this problem
literally. i try to not eat. im scared im going to develop an ed. ive only just started.
euphoria i did the same and now i have eating problems and body image problems, like sever.
:D its getting kind of obsessive
:D also im very sorry :( i hope u find the resolution someday
I used to do this all the time, until my boyfriend started noticing and said he would only eat if I did. So, a year later, he's now my fiance and I'm a healthy weight !! :)
(Update: 5yrs later WE ARE NOW MARRIED Y'ALL 🥰)
Nena M Awwee, that's so sweet. Congratulations, you've an incredible fiance:')
Did u lost weight by doing that?
@@aliciabea1598 Yes, but I've always been skinny so doing this made it worse. If you're trying to lose weight I'd suggest you do it the healthy way! Controlling your food portions, eating healthy, and working out :)
Nena M oh my world, this is so cute!! I’m so proud of you girl!!
@@auristea1236 thank you !! :D
Ok is it just me or i think that its sad that people won't even notice or care if you don't eat because so many girls don't eat anymore, so people just take it as normal
Mayra Ramirez lol what girls? most women these days are very overweight
Part of her story on the show is her parents dont even pay attention to her at all.
It’s not that most girls don’t eat, it’s that most people aren’t paying that close attention to someone else’s food.
@@princesscaty6251 I'm sorry you feel that way, and I can relate. I felt the same while I was still growing. It got easier for me as I grew older and learned how to firmly stand up to the part of myself that hated my body. Trying to beat my body into submission with unhealthy diets like your friend worked for a while but resulted in so many other complications. When I finally started treating my body like my child, understanding that it has to be loved and gently coaxed into good habits, understanding that it will take time, I finally started to see the results I wanted. :) so all the best, and I hope things turn out well for you eventually!
Yo all my friends like eat so little, I literally know 2 people that have an eating disorder, one of them is in my acting class and the other used to be my best friend
Is it weird that I always found this scene oddly relaxing ?
Omg ikrrr sameee! maybe it’s the way she talks
she's sweet, her voice is really calming and her demeanour is designed to put you at ease and distract you. yeah i find it weirdly relaxing too
omg yes her voice and the clinking is so nice
yes it is
you find ed “oddly relaxing “??? get help 😨
These days I watch mukbang to avoid eating.
Treiviek 2 same lol I love mukbangs
Me too! I watch mukbang's and chug liters of water when my hunger gets really bad
Samee
If you’re hungry please eat this is dangerous
I do that too it helps with the dieting and drink litters of water.
sometimes i wish that i could look like the people who are sooooo skinny
Naomi J.
Do not do that. That is unhealthy! Instead of starving yourself eat healthier and exercise. Do. Not. Starve. Yourself.
@@paprika8334 that's the only way I can get skinny tho
Naomi J.
No it’s not trust me. Eating healthy isn’t the only thing you have to do. You have to eat the right portions as-well and excersise. That way is the safest way to get skinnier! Also if you are already skinny don’t try to become underweight.
@@naomij5153 You'll end up loosing all your muscle mass, since your body will end up eating away at itself
@@naomij5153 That isn't losing weight, that's loosing your life, please get help
.....this is depressing
Edit: this got recommended to me again, 2 years later after I posted this comment. I watched this at a time where I was struggling with body image. Last year I developed binge eating and I am now slowly getting better. Eating disorders are fucking horrible, it's like you just can't control it. If you are struggling too, I wish you the best, PLEASE get help, you deserve to love yourself and you're beautiful and worth it in every aspect of the words.
So is when I asked myself should I eat today?
Is it
Ueah binge is the worst
@Kat Nestle of course it is there's a lot of type of ed
I understand, the ones who get out of that crap show are happier. I’m definitely better not hating me self
Nah my mom would notice real quick
lucky
Se
Same
That is honestly wonderful, it means she cares for you. Too many mum's now allow their daughters to starve themselves, it's truly horrible. But at least there are still a few that care enough to pay attention to what their children are consuming, and not consuming.
Ur lucky :(
I really don’t like this comment section cus people seem to be encouraging eating disorders when we really shouldn’t and this should be an example of the harms of them
Who's encouraging an eating disorder??
@@lanaaladhami I just saw a comment saying that their parents would notice, and multiple people told them to just “throw up afterwards” as if they were giving them a helpful tip and not encouraging an extremely serious and harmful eating disorder that could have dangerous lasting effects on their bodies, minds, and overall health. 💀💀💀
nah i wanna stop eating so the comments motivate me
@@ellietaieb764 Please don’t stop eating. Your body is doing it’s best to keep you healthy. It deserves to be nourished. You deserve to be nourished. Thin doesn’t always mean healthy or better.
@@Me-ju6gp thin is better
I wish I had a fast metabolism
If you want it, never undereat. I was on cut for a long time, now I just can't eat normal amounts of food because my metabolism is really slow, and I'm fighting malnourishment.
same
Same.
Downside is when you lose weight, you can barely get it back up without doubling, tripling your usual food and supplement, hydration intake, etc. you get the deal.
Getting really sick and losing weight is the worst, especially when you lack appetite and you’re almost underweight at that point.
I used to have one but I lost it
Me: *talking a lot to distract*
My parents: yes yes, shut up and eat.
Good parents❤
You deserve to eat and enjoy your meals. That's what people do. And it's okay. You're beautiful 💜
That plan didn't succeed tho
She is so good at distracting she gets away without eating the able
That was Cassie the entire series. Always distracting, never letting anyone on
ok but my parents don't let me leave the table till my plate is clean 😭
Then get up and fucking wash it
Tatiana Baudean How the hell is that offensive lmao wtf.
Not really. At one time it was a fairly common parenting practice to insist that kids "cleaned their plate" regardless of whether they hated one or more foods.
They love you and want you to be healthy. Be grateful you have parents that care and that you're fortunate enough to even have food to eat.
good. your parents are trying to nourish you. be glad, some parents don’t feed their children at all.
There's this one girl in my class I've never seen eating before. Every time its lunchtime, she'd grab a bag of chips and some salad and juice. She'd open the bag of chips to pretend as she ate it so that no one suspects her but I know exactly what she's doing. She'd also do the same to the juice. She always gives her food to someone else. Then she'll go to the restroom and come back with red eyes. I knew something was wrong with her...
i hope you didn't embarrass her
Please if you can try and help her
theres a girl in my class she throws her food and she used to starve herself and i wonder if she still does but shes some of the popular girls
Well I mean one of the major signs of someone having an Ed is them giving their food to someone else or cooking for everyone else. It’s not always the case but it’s quite common.
I do hope this girl is okay though. If you can try talking to her (not about the food but just in general) then I think that would help, basically what I mean is either become friends with her or keep an eye on her to see if it get’s worse
@@yangoiting of course she’s popular. everyone who is popular has some kind of disability, usually adhd, rarely autism, or most commonly, anorexia. definitely has to begin with a.
Everyone: actually watching the video
Me: who tf wears a watch on their ankle😂
On everything I've never seen that in my life until this video.
I think she does it because it doesn't fit on her wrist because of how things she is.
Joey Essex does
she wore it on her ankle because her wrist was too thin,
Its cuz her wrists are too small I think
My family would still notice it lol
Thats a good thing it means they care about you
Like Lemon said, get professional help, you’ll feel much better that way. When you’re thinking the way she is, you’re not thinking right, and being malnourished only furthers the damage because without proper nutrition your body and brain don’t work like they should
@@ashercanmakeapun4554 I have seemed professional help and it has made things worse for me.
@@sierracollins1383 hows that?
My mom noticed but she didn't believe it. My parents are Indian growing up she never heard anything of that. She was concerned but didn't question it? idk
I wish I could forget this and watch it all over again.
What’s the point?🤔
@@abbyrose547 to experience it for the first time again
What's the show name please 🙏
@@mrskim9981 skins uk
@@mrskim9981skins
Isn’t that the “I love you forever cid” “you will” “yes, that’s the problem” gurl?
many quotes on tiktok came from this show haha
@@vivianolah1966 what’s the show called?
@@ryliemaloney4846 Skins
@@ryliemaloney4846 skins
Yuh
Sometimes diet/food restriction culture actually makes me feel guilty for eating normally. I'll be out with a friend who is thinner than me and doesn't eat much and then I'll order food and eat the lot while she pokes hers with a fork and doesn't eat much of it. Then people will be like 'oh nell was hungry then' and then I'll feel like I'm the fat friend at the table.
Don't feel guilty, you've got a healthy appetite, and I think that is good. And I hope your friends are well, too
@@lydiagalantmotherf thankyou :)
That sucks. All my close friends except me have ED (from anorexia to binging) and most of the time when I am eating, like a normal person, they will comment on something. They also call people fat, glamorize being slender when we are watching TV and forth. I love them, but it is so damn exhausting..
@@muienanet4818 sorry for the week late reply. One of them in particular says stuff like "I bet you're going to eat that whole thing" when I buy a loaf of bread or something. And i know shes projecting because she has issues but its sooo uncalled for. Its like she's just stepping on my confidence and squishing after its still recovering from the last time she did it. Its painful lol. When I get to go out with a friend who is a fellow foodie its such a relief. We go and get food, eat until we are stuffed and its just wayy better than having to restrict my eating when I'm around my other friends. Another thing that gets to me is the constant bragging that they fit in a size 4(uk xxs) etc like man come on.
@@nellwillis3716 No problem, and yeah, I can feel that. I just hope people notice one day that the normalization of starvation for losing weight, restrictive diets, etc. are the worst path we can go. ED's, especially anorexia and bulimia, are socially induced mental issues. We need to start taking action or we will eventually be in a society that more people have ED's than the ones that do not have them.
People commenting saying ‘nah i could never cause my mom would notice’ don’t realize how lucky they are. I’ve had an eating disorder that started in gr3 and I’m now 25 and even after I’ve told my mom and sister, they still barely notice when my weight goes up and down 20pounds and I’m screaming for help.
You can tell someone who knows about this stuff that you need help. But u can't say that we are lucky, i have parents that force me to eat and i die inside. I wish they wouldn't notice, i don't feel like eating and it's horrible when someone forces you to eat.
being forced to eat isn’t any better at all. it makes me gain weight like crazy, gives me binge eating disorder ( which i’ve had for about four years now ), and it’s only encouraging me to throw up my food. being forced to eat sucks and it doesn’t make us lucky. most of the time parents only care about “not wasting food,” so it’s not even always about parents wanting us to be well-nourished.
I get what you’re trying to say in the beginning but sadly forcing us to eat big amount of foods when im not even hungry makes me feel excessively guilty to the point i workout for hours just to try and burn the calories off, it used to upset me so much that I couldn’t throw up because I had the phobia of vomit. I would slowly lose the weight and this made me so disappointed in myself to a point i became severely depressed so no, there’s all types of negative outcomes to every situation both the ones u think is good and positive.
Basically from the replies no one wants either extreme!
For years, I've screamed for help, both literally and silently. I've had crippling depression and still have anxiety. I'm labelled a bratty, ungrateful, irresponsible daughter for not being perfect and asking for a little help. Even though I've recovered so much, I still feel like dying at times.
i wonder if the writers know how much this scene has affected us teens
On what way?
@@toharhand9149 people with eating disorders, starving themselves or throw up after eating to be thin
I m sure they do nothing is accidental in show biz and money
@@leticiagomez4183Then they need to stop starving themselves and just eat veggies and proteins while working out.
@@mrguy3746 it’s not that easy. do research before you say stuff like this, it makes you sound dumb.
I love skins sm, cassie was the first person that i learned about ED when it came out and some people may disagree but im glad they added her, it taught me so much
i remember watching this for the first time in 5th or 6th grade. i related to her so much. now, i've been recovered for a while with a baby on the way and a husband who's very supportive. life does get better!
I watched it when I was a kid unaware just wanting to watch a show, 5 ish years after I’m in her situation lol
@@tttttv678can relate. stay safe xo
what breaks me a little is that I can't tell if she says "oh wow" or "oh well" at the very end. They both have very different implications for how she's feeling.
This looks easy. But I'm sure it's verrryy hard.
Not really, I’ve done it for years.
I’m not encouraging the behavior, and tbh, I hate how much I related to the video, but honestly? It’s a lot easier than the clip makes it out to be.
@@sof7068 it depends how much attention your parents give to you when you're eating, if my parents wouldnt know about my eating habits it will be way easier
@@sof7068 you're just an attention seeker
This is exactly what my mom has been doing since I was in elementary school and it's extremely irritating. I don't eat until she eats which usually helps but it's tiring
Omg, are you okay? Please don't ever get influenced by your mother's behavior, it's rlly awful to have an ED :[
i feel so bad for u
how are u doing now?
@@mel2103 we should care about the mom more
nah i don’t have to do that my parents don’t even look at me i bleached my hair and it took them 3 weeks to notice
Same here. My family would find me maybe 4 days latter dead inside my room
@@cocaine4598 omg im so sorry u deserve sm attention and care
i am so sorry :( thats awful
Same, but I think they just hate me. Especially my dad 🧍♀️
Hello everyone. Are you guys doing okay right now?
she taught us how to not eat and effy taught us how to smoke
Last year I overheard this girl at lunch saying she only ate a small meal for dinner and no other food besides that. It actually made me question if I eat too much so I started skipping breakfast and only eating an apple for lunch, then going to work out for 2 hours at the gym after school, causing me to get really dizzy and have bad headaches. When I would get in the car my dad would ask me if I was alright and I told him I was fine. I kept doing the same thing for a few weeks until one day when I told him that I just ate an apple for lunch everyday. He told me that I can ask him anytime for lunch money when I need it but I told him it wasn’t about the money I just wasn’t very hungry. I was average weight for my age but for some reason when I would take a shower or look in the mirror, I felt ‘fat’ And you know, I still think the same thing today. The only thing that has changed from then to now is that now I eat more than an apple everyday now and I’m proud of myself for at least doing that.
You could really mess with ur metabolism as well as growth, if u starve urself at a young age.
Depending on how young you are you’ll lose and gain weight naturally due to puberty.
But overall your mind tricks you into thinking your weight matters to those around you, like you’re some elephant taking up space in a room of mice, and the only remedy is to eat like how You think mice would eat. Well as long as you’re not obese, it really does not matter to anyone. Just eat healthy and portion your junk food.
It’s honestly better to give your body the energy it desires, and not all calories or bad lol, not all food gives u like instant fat.
Theres worse things happening in life than you being 10 lbs overweight, and you start to feel stupid eventually that you let something like that stress you.
im extremelly proud of you too!! your body image will get better ull feel better if you continue like that. Youre so pretty i know it.
proud of you
As you go into adulthood, you don’t have to bother with any of this. You can just say, “I’m too busy,” or “I ate in the car,” or “I totally forgot to eat,” or “The kids ate all the snacks, I need groceries,” or, “I’m too tired,” or “I’m going to have coffee first.” Then get busy doing something (a favor for them, dishes, running an errand, whatever) and you’re untouchable.
Nobody really thinks twice, as long as you’re smiling and loading everyone else’s plates.
This is why im excited to be an adult and live alone, if you live alone no one can ask "have you eaten yet" "you barely touched ur food" "you have to eat something"
@@belalalalalal My point is, it’s a bear trap for recovery, concealing and speeding up the dying process that is anorexia. Adults are seldom diagnosed. Get help now before your heart and nervous system fall into collapse. Rocking that zero size is a lot less fun and sexy when you’re disabled.
@@crystalpixley7690 im too scared to tell anyone but im trying my hardest to chnage my mindset
@@belalalalalal nothing to be afraid of bro. and i know that mindset is hard to change but for me once i could hear my own heartbeat slowing down and pounding in my ears and my skin was dry as fuck and i began to not be able to swallow food without stomach ache, i started to panic and gradually started eating normally again. I really hope you break out of this soon because it will ruin your life, or make you hate yourself, hopefuly not a lot. Youre not dumb and you know how to care for yourself. I believe in you
@@cloudsoflilac9731 thank you for that, really im trying my best but things are still scary for me, im glad things are better for u and u seem like a very sweet person and i appreciate you taking the time to leave that comment❤
she was in game of thrones
Still is
HOLY SHIT I KNEW SHE WAS FAMILIAR
I knew it from the first sight. OMG. like i didn't even think about it. GOT
OMFG I DIDNT EVEN NOTICE HOLY SHIT
sam tarleys gf
This won't do for me. I have to eat everything on the plate and my family loves talking after eating so no 'I have to go'
@@tatianabaudean1633 How rude of you. You don't know if this person has an ED or if they suffer from body insecurities or even body dysmorphia. You shouldn't assume what someone is struggling with.
Tatiana Baudean Oh hell no, you’re the worst fucking person to be around I don’t even know you but I HATE you and people with your mindset this comment is the only comment that’s ever made me this angry
@@tatianabaudean1633 dumbass. How do eds develop then? Those are early stages of anorexia.
@Tatiana Baudean you kind of did assume that this person doesn’t have an eating disorder. you called their comment “disrespectful not only towards people who are battling an eating disorder, but also to the ones who have lost their lives because of it” which would imply that the commenter didn’t have an eating disorder, but was wishing for one (and I’m going to note here, that this person could have body image issues, people picking on them because of image, actually have an eating disorder, or be taking medication that gets rid of their appetite). You went on to ask the commenter “would you look into an anorexic on the brink of death’s eyes and go ‘oMg My PaReNtS dOnT lEt Me gEt Up UnTiL mY pLaTe Is EmPtY’ ???” Which is ridiculous to say to somebody who may be dealing with something like an eating disorder, because first of all, most and hopefully all anorexics would never want another person to go through and ED. Second of all, this person might already be skipping breakfast and lunch high would mean that dinner is probably not exactly *fun*.
@Tatiana Baudean also even if this comment makes EDs look “desirable”, it’s also a concerning comment and should be replied to with something more along the lines of “I understand how that feels (only if you actually understand). It really sucks to feel that way, but you can’t hide this. if you constantly skip meals then you will end up malnourished and possibly in the hospital if it gets really serious. Please talk to somebody who can help you out. “ this may not be the complete best response, but full on shaming is definitely not the move.
I dont want yo nasty hands on my fries
Ikr
Lmao
That has absolutely nothing to do with this
IKR 😭😭
@@rmhd7550 thank you!!
to all the ppl struggling with body image & disordered thinking in the comments-
pls do not go down this path. pls pls pls. do not romanticize or glamorize eating disorders. if you think "oh well I know when to stop. I wont let this take over." you're wrong. it will consume you. Ed's arent all sunshine and rainbows and pictures of pretty, skinny girls. Ed's are standing up and almost passing out. they are feeling so *weak* and *tired* and *hungry* and *cold* all the time. they are sacrificing every hobby, every relationship, every bit of your identity that isnt your weight. they are counting every goddamn calorie and constantly checking yourself in the mirror. and it will *never* be enough. 10lbs will not be enough. 20lbs will not be enough. you'll hit your goal weight and then set a new one bc *its never good enough* . not to mention, you'll eventually gain *all* that weight back, *plus* more, bc of how slow your metabolism is. either that, or it will kill you. maybe not in a year, maybe not in 5, but it will. not to mention all the health complications if you do recover. it will fuck over your entire body and entire mind.
it is a miserable way to live and a miserable way to die.
*do not do it.*
for gods sake, dont sacrifice your entire life for some stupid ass beauty standard that treats our bodies like trends. if you really want to lose weight, do it in a healthy way. workout, cut down on junk food, drink more water. most importantly, work on self love, no matter what weight you are. you are so much more than your body. pls believe that. you deserve to eat. you deserve to be happy and healthy and confident. you deserve to live❤
this makes me cry
@@phateen me too 🥺
This is so true. I suffered with an eating disorder and it was literal hell on Earth. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy and to see people in these comments promoting eds... It makes me so sick. Stop glamorizing it !! While people praised my body when I had an ed my mind was fucked over. I was suicidal, I hated everyone, and I was always tired. I wanted to kill myself, and I almost did. EDs are no joke and it hurts seeing people treat it this way
thank you
Thank you so much for writing this
Alright, look. I’m going to be honest: when you work real hard at this, as if it’s some kind of hobby you’re picking up, it’s amazing. The weight flies off and you feel this sick sense of pride. I felt great at the time. Flash forward to adulthood and I’m laying here, stuck in bed (again), just wishing I could participate in my own life. I long so badly to experience real joy again, not the joy I thought I would get out of being small. I know that sometimes it’s easy to idolize things like this. I’m sure nobody asked for this lecture, but please just try to be open to the message. I’m here because I was desperately searching for videos on how to get quick nutrition to try to make it to something very, very important to me in the next two days. It’s not going to happen. This popped up in the suggestions and I couldn’t help but revisit this little scene that I once found inspiration in. It should devastate you, not motivate you. The comments are so unnerving that I just wanted to weigh in, even if I’m screaming into the void. Please just keep yourself safe. This only leads to a lifetime of emotional agony and physical torture. Speaking to a younger version of myself that I see in some of in the comments: I need you to choose yourself. Life is always going to be full of miserable periods. There’s nothing you can do to change that. But you know what it’s also full of? Beautiful, magical, breathtaking moments where you learn about why you’re here and what you’re made of. Those moments are worth it, I promise. But you have to choose to love yourself enough to let yourself live them. If you don’t, they’re gone forever.
And to end on a blunt but very real note, some of you will die doing this. I’m sorry that you couldn’t get the help you needed. You deserved so much more.
This is a great statement. I've been 'better' for about 8 years yet I still hate feeling full. I've gained some weight recently and I feel like a failure. It's from medication because I'm working on myself but it's just there in my mind always. A few years ago a mom was shaming her very young daughter behind me in a food line, she actually said "don't you want to be pretty and thin like that lady" she meant me. I almost turned around and told her what I used to do to myself and how I haven't forgotten or forgiven my parents for acting like this. And I went no contact a long time ago. Sorry for trauma dumping I'm under alot of stress and it's been 4 days. Going to force myself to eat today
I really hope you're doing well now
@@hollywhite3034 You should have told the daughter. I'm so so so sorry you had to go through this and it makes me want to cry that a mom would say that about her own daughter. I'm so pssed.
she's a great actress, wow
its so sad she herself was struggling with an ed but at least shes better now
No way! I was waiting for "But you see It's like, nobody's fucking business, and it's not exactly like anybody cares, so I care."
I remember reading somewhere that they can’t show scenes like this on TV anymore because it influences people too much
Lately ppl are encouraging eds and I’m relapsing just a while after I got discharged from my Ed clinic 💀 I feel like my life is going to be tough since I’m so easily influenced
Hey ! how is it going ? You should maybe change your FYP by looking at positive and supportive paged or just quit social media for a while to avoid triggers ;)
I hope you're doing well and managing to block out the negativity in your life 💗
posting it with this title. you know what you did to thousands of kids.
Skins don't give a eff. Their literal motto is *"eff it!"*
idk if it’s just me but when i’ve been restricting for awhile i get rly rly hungry and so i start smelling junk food, watching mukbangs, and ‘what i eat in a day videos’ and then i give in and eat a shit ton of food and in the moment it feels so nice and i’m so happy and then once i’m finished i’ve realized what i did and then i know that it was not worth it to eat.
Relatable, that’s how I then feel too and then get bloated and as I got a slow metabolism I just wanna throw it all up and then fast the next day:(
fact: cassie (hannah murray) actually had ED irl so she playrd an character which technically has the same disorder. she gained weight now and is healty, searh hannah murray skins interview to see :)
I love skins soooo much! I will never stop loving this show. It’s my childhood!
A decade later and I'm back here again
Same, I came back to take notes 🦋
@ Yeah, same here.
You should watch a tutorial on how to get a job instead. jobless ho
i cant believe people WANT and ed.... you can’t want one because if you’re trying to be skinny by WANTING an ed it’ll never happen. you’re gonna get skinny but then not be happy. then you’re going to recover from it (hopefully) then you’re either going to be happy that you’re better or sadder that you’re not skinny
I think wanting an ED is just a sign of people denying there restrictive habits. I want an ED because I don’t think my situation is extreme enough. Which is a self fulfilling prophecy.
Yeah I know I’m messed up and weird I just always think hoping that if I starve myself or just eat a little bit per day I’ll be skinny
Wanting an ed is halfway there. No one healthy (mind and body) wants an ed only some of the people who have a predisposition to eating disorder and harmful behavior when it comes to food.
i'll prove u wrong ig... i am gonna become skinny when I get a ed.. stop saying we can't do it. fuck you
right.. it’s so hard
Lol I love how if this was made in 2020, people would be freaking out because she touched his fries and she kept touching food to give to him😂😂
Haha yeah but hopefully she washed her hands before filing this scene
I didn’t weight myself for a long time and when my mom got me a scale I was totally shocked because of the number. Then I used to starve myself until I lost 10 lbs. I used to go to bed early so I can’t eat anymore and my stomach hurt so much. The thing is before I got the scale I was fine with my body but the number hit. Now I know that this isn’t the best way and it’s not a permanent method, eat healthy and don’t overeat and exercise if you can 💜
This was uploaded on my birthday when I was 5 years old
That's actually pretty cool
it was my birthday too! but i turned 8 at the time
and to think that I watched this in middle school and was like "wow, tutorial. Nice"
watching skins really young may have affected me lmao
Bro i think ive fucked up my soup
I love food but sometimes I get really full after only eating a couple bites :\
YOU'RE HERE TOO????
It’s neurological. It is. There are signals telling your brain that you are satisfied, but metabolically you are not.
Morgan Lemons
Lucky
SAME!!!!
Thats just your brain
For the last year I've been stuck in a binge purge cycle. If you include myself using exercising to purge its been over 4. However, in the last 2 weeks I've kicked vomiting and been using the gym. Thanksgiving rolls around. I lost all my progress. I just hate feeling this stuffed. I just eat like its an addiction. Its all I think about. Its like one part of me is set determinedly on losing weight and the other is just this mindless all consuming creature with teeth. I know once I go back to college and hit the gym again ill be fine. I know I'll have a gym membership for December so the holidays won't be as bad this year either. But I'm watching this video and mentally taking notes, preparing myself for times when I must eat around family or with other people at a time when I don't want to eat. Food is a social interaction. When you get an ED you lose people. You lose yourself too. You isolate yourself because food truly is a social ritual that triggers other social rituals. They build on top of one another and when you cut off food, one day you find that the you curled up in the corner of your mind is now the you on the outside, curled up in the corner of your room.
I'm trying to get better. I truly hope that I won't ever feel like I need to use this.
For the people just arriving, thinking you can control this?
You goddamn can't.
You think you'll do it once? Maybe you won't again for 2 weeks. Then you'll try again and again, lying to yourself and thinking you know what you're doing--that you can stop at any time. You can't. Not by yourself. You get sicker and sicker unless you reach out and even then its a long journey.
Don't go down it.
The best decisions are the ones that don't have immediate rewards. If you want to lose weight, work for it. Go to the gym. Eat healthy. Be around people who want to improve themselves so that they can be happier and stronger, not just to impress others.
The people I wanted to impress are gone now. What I did pushed them away or made me realize they were toxic. Find people who want you to flourish. Please.
If that doesn't change your mind then know that I'm very close to developing an ulcer after just one year. Eating is painful and yet I continue to do it. My stomach fills with acid and air, burning my esophagus and my intestines. I lay on the floor in pain for hours. I go to bed wishing I could never eat again, not because i want to lose weight but because it hurts. Its agony. My teeth, which used to be one of my favorite things about me, are going.
Its been less than one year of this disease and all its done is making everything nightmarish.
Please don't go down this path.
For those of you already on it with me? I wish you the best of luck. There is happiness coming soon. It lies in our choices. Choices become habits and habits become life styles. Its hard. So fucking hard. Just know that things do add up. Make enough good choices and we'll make it out.
Best of luck, all.
Abby A. Sweetie how are you? Hope you got over this horrible shit
U r so strong. I hope u can recover and go trough this successfully. Much love
Notice that her wrists are sooo thin that her watch is on her ankle.
so anyone with an ed still coming back to this?
me
👀
Cassie’s story broke my heart I just loved her.
I’ve been super proud of my weight loss and I felt even prouder when my mom noticed
i've had anorexia since 6th-7th grade, and it got really bad in 8th-10th grade where i was very underweight. now i'm normal weight, but i'm starting to relapse because i feel comfort in my eating disorder. i guess it's time to rewatch skins
i’ve seen this video, it was so long ago and i think i thought it was instructions. i was tired and sad and wanted nothing to do with myself or my body. now im on the first season of skins and this came up on my page
That plate looks absolutely horrendous, wouldn’t be eating it either
Putting another plate on top of ur food to stop you from eating the rest of it is so relatable
You know it’s getting bad again when this pops up in your recommendations :(
I love skins for showing these shocking insecurities that young adults normalize.
Thanks to this scene for fuelling my ED aged 14 🙃
How were the people that were making the show supposed to know that you would do something like that though
You missed the point horrendously then
@@725prime I’m really glad it didn’t affect you in this way. It certainly wasn’t the sole reason for what turned out to be a life threatening illness for me. There is still no need to comment on my lived experience - I wasn’t asking for anyone’s opinion.
You were the one who was looking for tips on how to avoid eating. Go to therapy or something
Thanks for the tutorial
Eating disorder are really scary. When you stop eating you first feel very hungry and feel sick, but after a while you loose the feeling of hunger and forget to even care about eating. This has become a habit to me. Someone always has to remind me to eat or I’ll forget. One time when my mom was on a business trip or something I forgot to eat for a whole week.
Did this for 11 years, regret everything but I’ll always love Cass
I miss this show, most the first season, they was ma family.
Effy
How can anyone do this the food won't just disappear at the end😂😂
hana said she's avoiding it that's the point
And at the end she hides it on another plate. She must be the one getting up and throwing it in the trash can
it gets all messy and it looks like she ate
she’s avoiding it and throws food on the plate so it doesn’t matter
It’s just a show
My girlfriend at the time sent me this and it still occasionally appears. She had an eating disorder and it still hurts when i remember that i couldn't help her
I feel exhausted and can’t even do normal study if I skip lunch
Okay am I the only one that watches videos to stop eating, but then it turns into a game on how long you can last with out eating.
I am so so so grateful for this helpful video. I had to attend a dinner with family members whose idea of food safety is that it doesn't matter.
I had to watch one relative (who is being treated for clostridium difficile) slice meat and lick their fingers, placing the meat on a tray to serve others. I knew things would be bad like they've always been, but this year i needed a way to eat NOTHING and still seem "normal." Thanks to this video I had only water for Christmas dinner and nothing else. No one even noticed! I did the food cutting thing, cutting into in normal size pieces, the extra talking, the giving of food off my plate to someone else, all of it! Worked so well! I had zero appetite after all the different unsanitary behaviors of the cooks in the family.
And please note, everyone present knew about the c. diff. infected person and watched everything happening and didn't care one bit, even though they all are beginning to be experiencing symptoms as well.
I came home to wash all my clothes, clean off the spores, and to just forget about eating anything for a long time. All I can do is pray I dont get it, but with the help from this video at least I avoided one transmission form. Thank you, thank you!!
Ice Qu wow your story is insane! Well at least you used it for a really good reason and not like most of the comments who just want an eating disorder. Hope you are still healthy
@@Panther888 Thanks el gordo. Yup. I didn't catch anything. For Christmas I gave each of the three families books on food safety at home, complete with highlighted paragraphs and my own personal notes to them. At first they were confused, then they started looking at the books and saying, "Oh yeah. Good to know!" So maybe things will be better next visit.
C diff ?
@@Hannah-no8yh Clostridium difficile:
A nasty germ that can cause big problems such as severe diarrhea and dehydration, colitis, and long term health issues. It is highly contagious and requires specific protocols for treatment and safeguards against transmission.
the thing is i literally have nothing to say so it would be complicated to distract people
Rachel.unknow You can catch someone's accent by their way of writting ?
Al Fa yes you can, ahha, like “this thing is” or “heh?”
Ariana's Moonlight Oooh ok ^^ 👌
@@noneckandmuqmuq8975 lol I type like this and I'm from the US xD
Yagirl xoxo ahhahaha true
I love this scene so much
Generation 1
I start crying watching this again, I was in a dark place back then, and I am thankful and I wish I would never be there again. I’m still struggling sometimes but not as when I did back then
nobody cares.
I care, don’t listen to the other person. They wrote 5 separate comments all made to hurt people, I assume they had a bad Christmas
in what universe does this dork have probably the cutest girl in his class fawning over him
Mas ele só fica lá babando ovo pra michelle🥲👍
Thanks for the advice Cass
Love this movie, taught me so much about hiding it from people
YESS
This is not a movie, it's a British series named Skins
I did this too my friend noticed eventually and now he’s like a dad to me now and he makes sure I eat and I’m gonna miss him when he goes to college he’s helped me through a lot
I swear to god I should really get off these types of videos... I just wanted to learn more about people who struggle with anorexia. The next second I was reading a comment of someone who was telling you how to throw up your food and that it’s good for you... I hope those with eating disorders really get help, even if it’s really hard to break through the blindness an eating disorder puts you through.
Pov: you live in Bristol and you know everywhere they go in skins
idk why this is being recommended to me 12 years later but i see that guy everyday
As someone who might possibly have anorexia (I’m not sure but I used to have binge eating disorder for sure and now I have a fear of eating at all) and I can go a LONG time without eating, it scares me how easy it honestly is to get away with it. I haven’t ate lunch in front of my friends like AT ALL not even like pretending to just straight up nothing in front of me sitting and waiting for lunch to end. All I’ve heard a couple of times was “hey are you going to have lunch?” And I always just answer “no I am still really full from breakfast 😅” and literally nothing else was questioned from all the times I didn’t eat. It’s not like I want the attention and concern no not at all it’s just like- how? How do you not see? I mean I’m glad they don’t but it just shows how careless we are to the people around us and to obvious signs such as literally not eating many times during times meant for eating. My mom notices my eating problems and she asks me to eat more but it’s literally so easy to get away with a “oh ye I ate some of the cottage cheese in the fridge while you were gone” and then nothing else is questioned. It frustrates me that people don’t care to pay more attention it honestly does…
literally! if she starts counting stuff, dirty platea and all that you can just go, make something and throw it away on the bathroom, small pieces ofc. Or give it to some stray dog/cat (if you don't have any) or give it to the homeless. People saying that "they would notice" they really don't know how to hide stuff. it's easy.
Man the way she played and messed up the food. The disrespect.
Its a mental illness lol. Nothing to do with respect.
Its a mental illness lol. Nothing to do with respect or disrespect.
IKR!!!
an army !!
@@dilfhunter77 chill thats a joke
This makes me miss this show like crazy.
This could never work with a Greek mum. Cause no matter what you do she will always look at your plate and how much you eat
Thanks for showing me this Cass x
This made me cry after watching it because I finally understood her character
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“I miss you and I’m at this point in my life” ❤❤❤
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this coming up as a recommendation while im having body issues is scary
i watched this in 5th grade i was aware with what she was going through but now recently i’ve developed and eating disorder so i relate on a whole different level:/
Guys remember to always eat and be healthy