@@shraddhamanthani1024 there are many cheating cases now a day on relationship .. rape case.. murder case.. are all these forgivable?? It will affect the life and if we fight back then we will peace otherwise whole life is burnt
Thats the first step of healing. Realising anger ,hurt,resentment etc only and only depletes you physically,emotionally and mentally & is major cause of diseases.
You cannot forgive everyone irrespective of the degree of mistake then people start taking advantage of you.... Yes, your concept works on small anger issues 👍
When you don't forgive, it doesn't hold the other person hostage...it holds you, your mind, hostage. Forgiveness doesn't mean that you don't have boundaries, don't speak your mind (clearly, honestly). Forgiveness clears YOUR path to move forward. Otherwise, you trying to hold on (in order to not get hurt again) is a false illusion of control & leads to your own sickness. You have choice.
Anger is a valid emotion. It exists for a reason. Forgiveness can't be forced, we can't just choose to forgive and let go of anger. We have to understand our anger, and see where our limits were crossed, and take care of the vulnerability underneath the anger. We can't jump to forgiveness without going through that process. Let's not make anger the problem and view it as hot coal that hurts us. It is a protector telling us where our boundaries were crossed.
Yep. But first we have to differentiate if the anger is justified. Is it coming from external sources or internal sources? External meaning, boundaries being crossed after explicitly stating what they are. Or someone disrespecting you. Internal anger comes from past experiences, personal beliefs or biases, past trauma, etc. Ive been trying to practice this as I've found I get angry at every little small, insignificant thing. It's probably coming from within me.
Anger from someone is who's been illtreated is always valid. But it agitates ones nervous system and makes them lose rationality. Try not getting angry and focus on the ways to prevent what happened again and again. For eg. If you're dealing with someone at workplace, who's always getting on your nerves, instead of getting angry think how you can minimise the interactions with them or in the worst case change the job.
Yeah but you can't deny the valid feelings of anger and bury them deep down. That can cause other issues. Best thing is to express yourself calmly to the person you're angry at. That way, you've said what needs to be said and you're also not screaming and you also didn't have to bury anything inside. I struggle with the "calmly" part though. That's work in progress
Here comes the western mindset, please understand this always thinking about yourself can put you at the worst place possible. Letting go is better but you must be wise enough to know where it is needed and where it is just going to destroy. She is not asking to suppress your feelings she is asking you to change if there is no anger then what will you suppress?
@@cauliflowerhead2735 I don't care what people will say everyone can have their opinion on me I'm not bothered by that I do listen and give it a thought if its unnecessary I move one and if its making sense then I work on myself. I don't hold any grudges I used to but now I don't and trust me life is much easier now. Giving too much attention to mental health, too much self esteem and words of others actually put me at the worst place but when I learn about how to ignore sadness and negative thoughts or anger or not caring for being respected by people actually worked.. If you are kind and good then people like you will always respect you.
I tried this and it worked for me... friends relatives so many of them hurted me...first i used to get hyper at most of the times...it lead to lot of health issues like over eating, not concentrating on anything...etc...then started to read bhagavath Geetha...day by day i m getting better...i thought it's all because of my karma whether it's joy or sorrow ...i have to move on..now i m completely fine... spread love..love in peace..if anybody try to hurt you just smile n walk away...don't expect too much from others...the only thing we feel happy is at lords feet...jai sri krishna 🙏
Anger comes from hurt and healing is important. Don't mistake this with taking action in the face of wrongdoing and sit back passively. This will only strengthen the victim mindset. So work on healing but be empowered to make changes within and around.
The more we pretend to be sweet the more we revel that we are struggling to become someone we are not. Pretending can never let us find our true self... Stay true
It's the hardest thing to do, to keep forgiving all the people who have hurt us, used us, walk over us. Sometimes we may not be able to have a cordial relationship with them. But we need to just let them be, keep them aside in our mind, think that they don't know how to behave, and just move on. Also, we may not be able to be their friend anymore. But that's ok. Wish them well and move on.
If our peace and happiness is priority for us, we need to take the step of forgiveness from inside. We can't destroy our peace because of toxic people. Because we are responsible for our happiness. We find many people who are toxic around us, we can't waste our precious time always by being affected internally because of them.
Excellent my dear Forgive .To forgive is not easy ...Need to practice by thinking good for the person who ever had created anger in you . Pray to that person. This process is for our betterment
You know what I do when I get angry ... I just click on your videos and close my eyes. Your sweet, soothing voice just drives away my heat from my system just like the blow of desert-cooler air on us in the heat of scorching summer season. God bless you!❤😅
For someone seeing it superficially they would say that it's easier said than done...nd such things should not be made into a TH-cam shorts or a tik tok video...there is a whole different process behind it u can't understand such deep things without knowing the entire process...not being angry at someone is just like a small part of an entire book.. u need to understand your every emotion as y and what causes them and how it's in ur hand to handle ur faculties be it anger love joy anxiety or anything...but ur effort is appreciated 👍
I love this woman's voice. Very immaculate. She got hate for saying things penetrate when you topically apply skin products and to not use harmful products. Our skin does absorbs stuff ya know. It can definitely affect our inner health. Skin is also an organ and it does have a barrier but constant contact with stuff does eventually do something.
Thank you satvic movement! I have been following you from a lot of time and how drastically my choices have changed cant be explained. Thank you once again for such blissful content that is changing the lives of people! Lots of love and positivity!🤍🌟💫🌼
Yes it is real all the people will think that not forgiving soneone is good but holding emotions like sadness,anger,hateredcan lead to health problemsin long tern.at the of the what matters is just this how happy u are in your life..subah I always find u with lot of positive energy
What a good idea! Thanks for sharing. Actually, for some days I was angry with one of my coworkers. But after getting this quote I threw it and felt good.
Don't forgive just forget 😊 Don't let any person do that thing to you again , don't put yourself in weak position ,but for your own mental health just follow the principal of forgetfulness
Very true, anger is from the devil, it only hurts you and the other person. It's very important to calm yourself down by sitting, drinking water or praying. ❤
Every time forgiveness doesn't work.. people need to be punished and get justice
I think she doesnt meant any crime its about somebody hurting you intentionally or provacating you..healing will be the best solution as she said
@@pavithrarajakumar5215 absolutely!
Yes forgive but do not forget
Forgiveness is for our inner peace.
If their mistake is punishable, they should be punished but we shouldn't be affected internally by their mistake.
@@shraddhamanthani1024 there are many cheating cases now a day on relationship .. rape case.. murder case.. are all these forgivable?? It will affect the life and if we fight back then we will peace otherwise whole life is burnt
Thats the first step of healing. Realising anger ,hurt,resentment etc only and only depletes you physically,emotionally and mentally & is major cause of diseases.
Pls share recepies for dibetic people
Anger helps if it is compassionate anger.
You cannot forgive everyone irrespective of the degree of mistake then people start taking advantage of you.... Yes, your concept works on small anger issues 👍
Forgive but not forget ... please correct if I'm wrong
@@itzmesunita yeah ... Right
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When you don't forgive, it doesn't hold the other person hostage...it holds you, your mind, hostage.
Forgiveness doesn't mean that you don't have boundaries, don't speak your mind (clearly, honestly). Forgiveness clears YOUR path to move forward.
Otherwise, you trying to hold on (in order to not get hurt again) is a false illusion of control & leads to your own sickness.
You have choice.
Anger is a valid emotion. It exists for a reason. Forgiveness can't be forced, we can't just choose to forgive and let go of anger. We have to understand our anger, and see where our limits were crossed, and take care of the vulnerability underneath the anger. We can't jump to forgiveness without going through that process. Let's not make anger the problem and view it as hot coal that hurts us. It is a protector telling us where our boundaries were crossed.
Must agree 💯
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Nicely said, this lady gives cringe tips
Yep. But first we have to differentiate if the anger is justified. Is it coming from external sources or internal sources? External meaning, boundaries being crossed after explicitly stating what they are. Or someone disrespecting you. Internal anger comes from past experiences, personal beliefs or biases, past trauma, etc. Ive been trying to practice this as I've found I get angry at every little small, insignificant thing. It's probably coming from within me.
Anger from someone is who's been illtreated is always valid. But it agitates ones nervous system and makes them lose rationality. Try not getting angry and focus on the ways to prevent what happened again and again. For eg. If you're dealing with someone at workplace, who's always getting on your nerves, instead of getting angry think how you can minimise the interactions with them or in the worst case change the job.
Your smile ☺️ gives me positive and peaceful thoughts ❤
Go to Indian Parliament & Preach this to MPs. Thats a House of Anger.
Always Positive vibe 😊 such! a nice person ❤
Yeah but you can't deny the valid feelings of anger and bury them deep down. That can cause other issues. Best thing is to express yourself calmly to the person you're angry at. That way, you've said what needs to be said and you're also not screaming and you also didn't have to bury anything inside. I struggle with the "calmly" part though. That's work in progress
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Here comes the western mindset, please understand this always thinking about yourself can put you at the worst place possible. Letting go is better but you must be wise enough to know where it is needed and where it is just going to destroy. She is not asking to suppress your feelings she is asking you to change if there is no anger then what will you suppress?
@@koraiemon so thinking about yourself is so bad? how is the log kya kahenge mentality working for you?
@@cauliflowerhead2735 I don't care what people will say everyone can have their opinion on me I'm not bothered by that I do listen and give it a thought if its unnecessary I move one and if its making sense then I work on myself. I don't hold any grudges I used to but now I don't and trust me life is much easier now. Giving too much attention to mental health, too much self esteem and words of others actually put me at the worst place but when I learn about how to ignore sadness and negative thoughts or anger or not caring for being respected by people actually worked..
If you are kind and good then people like you will always respect you.
So true S. Forgiving is divine. It's not everyone's cup of tea. Only the brave can.
You are soooo beautiful... There is something so captivating in your looks and you exuberate such a peaceful and positive vibe.... Thanks.
This quote is so nice 😢 It made me feel calm😊 Thank you so much ❤
I tried this and it worked for me... friends relatives so many of them hurted me...first i used to get hyper at most of the times...it lead to lot of health issues like over eating, not concentrating on anything...etc...then started to read bhagavath Geetha...day by day i m getting better...i thought it's all because of my karma whether it's joy or sorrow ...i have to move on..now i m completely fine... spread love..love in peace..if anybody try to hurt you just smile n walk away...don't expect too much from others...the only thing we feel happy is at lords feet...jai sri krishna 🙏
Anger comes from hurt and healing is important. Don't mistake this with taking action in the face of wrongdoing and sit back passively. This will only strengthen the victim mindset. So work on healing but be empowered to make changes within and around.
Very very beautifully explained. Thank you.
The more we pretend to be sweet the more we revel that we are struggling to become someone we are not.
Pretending can never let us find our true self...
Stay true
After yelling at someone this popped up on my feed, gotta love TH-cam algorithm, thank you to the creator!
anger is negetive
Not everyone is able to forget n forgive
It's the hardest thing to do, to keep forgiving all the people who have hurt us, used us, walk over us. Sometimes we may not be able to have a cordial relationship with them. But we need to just let them be, keep them aside in our mind, think that they don't know how to behave, and just move on. Also, we may not be able to be their friend anymore. But that's ok. Wish them well and move on.
Thank You lovely Soul ❤
God bless You 🙏❤️🙏
How to forgive someone so easily as we know that he did very wrong to us and he is not regretting it?
Right i agree.
Small miatakes can be forgiven but what about big mistakes of others which has affected your life in a very tragic way.
We can't even look at them the way to forgive them 😐
If our peace and happiness is priority for us, we need to take the step of forgiveness from inside.
We can't destroy our peace because of toxic people.
Because we are responsible for our happiness. We find many people who are toxic around us, we can't waste our precious time always by being affected internally because of them.
Then it's the worst why waste your energy on someone who won't even understand? Better is to let go.
So true..God bless you.❤
कितनी आसानी से आपने ये बात कह दी। अच्छी बातें कहनी चाहिए, ठीक है, पर उतार पाना कितना कठिन है ये कोई नही बताता।
Bahut mushkil hai
Why is she so pretty😩..... thanks for the message sis
My mother needs to hear this
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Getting angry is normal...
Expressing emotions is normal.....so please don't suppress any emotion
It's a very good learning part of our live
Thank you very much
Sooo sweet,Shubhas.
You are our ice to comfort us.
Whenever we are burning we turn to you for coolness and comfort
Thank you 💕.
Subah Ma’am ❤️✨ You are so inspiring 🙏🏻 God Bless Youuuu ✨ Radhey Radhey 🙏🏻
Be positive you have been blessed ❤
Love this. I really needed this
They read quotes in insta and say here,real life is different, not all person is same
Dear you are such a good and pure soul
I dont know but I cried listening to this 😊 Thankyou 🙏
Much needed ❤ I was feeling very low due to my anger issues and I randomly found this❤
Excellent my dear Forgive .To forgive is not easy ...Need to practice by thinking good for the person who ever had created anger in you . Pray to that person. This process is for our betterment
very true. thank you for very nice message. jai shree Radhe krishna
Beautifully explained😊 would like to hear more such quotes and lessons
Thank you for your useful health knowledge sharing with us ❤🌱🌺👩👧👧💖😊
You are smile is so real that after watching your reels anyone will smile
Totally agree. Jai Shri Krishna.🙏🙏
If you believe in soul.. every soul is our part..when you realise this you will treat the other person just the way you want to be treated
Thank you mam. Jai Gurudev
Each tiiiime i see your face.. i tell myself.. she's sooooo beautiful inside out.. stay blessed always ma ❤️ 🙏 🙌
I totally agree, that's why I always don't take it seriously that helps me to forgive my anger towards the person.
You know what I do when I get angry
... I just click on your videos and close my eyes. Your sweet, soothing voice just drives away my heat from my system just like the blow of desert-cooler air on us in the heat of scorching summer season. God bless you!❤😅
She must be financially set to be this peaceful
Anger is important to live a healthy life. Anger is not a negative thing.
For someone seeing it superficially they would say that it's easier said than done...nd such things should not be made into a TH-cam shorts or a tik tok video...there is a whole different process behind it u can't understand such deep things without knowing the entire process...not being angry at someone is just like a small part of an entire book.. u need to understand your every emotion as y and what causes them and how it's in ur hand to handle ur faculties be it anger love joy anxiety or anything...but ur effort is appreciated 👍
Ur smile is also motivation
Evn u r saying u were angry at some ppl i dnt believe seeing ur smiling face.. Sch a positive vibe u give
Thank you so much Didi thank you God bless you love love love 😍
How calm seems
Your voice is soothing ❤❤
A great Saint in making🎉
I love this woman's voice. Very immaculate. She got hate for saying things penetrate when you topically apply skin products and to not use harmful products. Our skin does absorbs stuff ya know. It can definitely affect our inner health. Skin is also an organ and it does have a barrier but constant contact with stuff does eventually do something.
Thank you satvic movement! I have been following you from a lot of time and how drastically my choices have changed cant be explained. Thank you once again for such blissful content that is changing the lives of people! Lots of love and positivity!🤍🌟💫🌼
Thank you I like the quote very wise
I totally agree with her❤
Thank you for reminding ❤️
Di you're so beautiful so calm Like an angel 💫 Lots of loves to you
Yes it is real all the people will think that not forgiving soneone is good but holding emotions like sadness,anger,hateredcan lead to health problemsin long tern.at the of the what matters is just this how happy u are in your life..subah I always find u with lot of positive energy
I was literally angry and your video poped up 😊
Thanks didi..radhe radhe 🙏👏
Radhe Radhe Radhe. Bless your heart. 😊❤️❤️❤️
Well said and very true.
Thank you.
You smiled so Good in this video
Your Smile Is so much Beautiful ❤
What a good idea! Thanks for sharing. Actually, for some days I was angry with one of my coworkers. But after getting this quote I threw it and felt good.
I got peace of mind after watching this video
very helpful thanks you 😢
So True.....! 💚
May Triple Gem Bless you !🙏
U R 10001% Right young lady.
Great wise words!!
Allah k zikr say Dillon ko sukoon Milta hay .
❤❤❤Radhe Radhe ....
Thankyou big sister for this beautiful words to share me thankyou so😊😊😊 much
Beautiful and meaningful
I love this this Realy helped me becas I’m Realy mad at someone
Thank you!!
This quote cooled down my anger ❤
Buddhism....a way of life ....blissful
"holding on to anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die".
At the time when one gets angry, none of the words of anyone comes to mind. Mind is blocked - 0, words/actions is on - 100.
I love you ur so so intelligent and kind ....😇❤️
Ma'am smile is most motivat me
Happy to listen it sister I'm also buddist too much things we can learn from that religion.
Its not easy to forgive when your loved ones hurt you but I will try
God bless you shubah ji
Yes
You 're right !
Wonderful ma'am thanks and the way you explain its fantastic 😍😊
Much needed thnku ❤
I like the quote- "Anger is a punishment we give to ourself for someone else mistake. "
Yes
Don't forgive just forget 😊 Don't let any person do that thing to you again , don't put yourself in weak position ,but for your own mental health just follow the principal of forgetfulness
You are very good. Best advice. Bright positivity ☺️☺️☺️
thank you❤🙏
Very true, anger is from the devil, it only hurts you and the other person. It's very important to calm yourself down by sitting, drinking water or praying. ❤
Thank you
Awesome ❤ message ❤
How are u so cool n so much of knowledge at such an young age. You look so pure . Lots of love 😘❤️