Stop Being EMOTIONALLY DEPENDENT On People: Part 3: BK Shivani: English

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  • @prakashmungekar3119
    @prakashmungekar3119 ปีที่แล้ว +808

    Don't waste energy just for strangers on the road . Bless them that they reach home safely .. that was very powerful . Thanks very much Didi, Om shanti .

    • @yasmineamirodine2073
      @yasmineamirodine2073 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Didi please I am afraid of driving. I cannot handle thé stress. I easly get panicked. What should I do?

    • @wonderwellplayschooldumka777
      @wonderwellplayschooldumka777 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yes

    • @Priyanka_Singh02
      @Priyanka_Singh02 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Not on road in life also sometime its not necessary to make them right. Let it be and don't waste our power on others.

    • @prakashmungekar3119
      @prakashmungekar3119 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Very much agreed madam . Thanks very much .

    • @nishabagri4498
      @nishabagri4498 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@wonderwellplayschooldumka777
      ,

  • @LiveOmkar
    @LiveOmkar 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +311

    This maam saved my life when i was in my worst phase in 2017/18 god bless her

    • @jumisaaswatilahon1585
      @jumisaaswatilahon1585 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      My worst phase is going on. She's helping me so much🙏🏻🙏🏻❤. God Bless Herl❤🙏🏻

    • @LiveOmkar
      @LiveOmkar 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jumisaaswatilahon1585 sending prayer's for you my friend ❤️🫂

    • @ashwinih.y593
      @ashwinih.y593 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@jumisaaswatilahon1585 q

  • @N00PURA
    @N00PURA ปีที่แล้ว +216

    Her voice is so calming ❤ plus she’s speaking facts!

    • @divyapoduval4402
      @divyapoduval4402 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes she is an angel a free therapist

  • @ManiGupta49
    @ManiGupta49 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +87

    I guess this video came in my feed at the right time. I have been emotionally unwell from last week due to an incident which made me feel.. powerless, worthless, and someone who can be shouted at with no valid reason. I spent 2-3 days thinking: did I deserve that? Why it happened? Why is it always me who can be made feel invaluable? Why people don’t empathize with me?
    I knew i was being emotionally dependent and giving control to other people on how to dictate my emotional state. I knew I was being victim.
    Yesterday, I shouted at my brother since he is always engrossed in gaming and mobile, the moment he wakes up till the time he sleeps. In return, I was rebuked. And I slept feeling worthless, powerless again.
    I have decided to behave indifferent as anything I say, is either misunderstood or is invaluable to anyone. I gets lectures for saying little things or suggesting something. I have decided to be a speech minimalist, the least I speak, the least I am judged, rebuked, or lectured. I know it’s difficult doing what is being said by Shivani ji, but I’ll try my best to conserve my mental energy by not reacting to situations and become indifferent to it. That’s how I see it.

    • @javeriashahid8121
      @javeriashahid8121 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same with me

    • @desibhukkadsindubai
      @desibhukkadsindubai 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Our almighty knows when we need his guidance the most🙂

    • @shrii827
      @shrii827 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same will me

    • @g51661
      @g51661 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I had similar incident few months back. I then connected to God through meditation, bhajans etc( like listening bhajan alone in my room/while travelling etc). I started spenidng time alone for positive self talk assuring myself that everything is peaceful and good and God loves me. God has unconditional love for all. My life is peaceful and happy now. I focus on my own peaceful state over others. Those who used to behave with me in a certain way which they shouldn't also now treat me with respect, peace and love. And some unhealthy elements also automatically sided away from life. Good things ( maybe good lessons through incidents which help us grow spiritually) automatically follow up when we connect to Divine. I pray you have a happy and peaceful state. Also each one has their own personal experience so we must have patience😊

    • @bhawanab4653
      @bhawanab4653 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Saw your comment and realized that I've been going through the same kinda pain for the last two days and now I'm trying to get better.

  • @VanshikaMehta_16
    @VanshikaMehta_16 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    " I have to create the right thought in response to their wrong behaviour" ... exactly defined what we needed to listen.

    • @mallikaj3240
      @mallikaj3240 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Your car is been rammed by a stranger out of no where now what is the right thought that you would create please let me know

    • @divyapoduval4402
      @divyapoduval4402 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How to ? Because they hurt us is it so easy to forgive them and subside that anger and still respect them

  • @sarmistharoy-wn7gj
    @sarmistharoy-wn7gj ปีที่แล้ว +116

    Om shanti...10 years ago when I was in class 9 i watched awakening with Brahma kumaris daily..every evening i just waiting for the program...my childhood become so beautiful..and now i am 27..after 5 years of marriage everything is going wrong..i starting to watching again and things going to perfect... I found my peace of life.. thank you shivani di..u r shiv Baba's most beloved child ❤

    • @tpb1006
      @tpb1006 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      did you divorce?

    • @iconprajith3224
      @iconprajith3224 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@tpb1006😂

    • @Nameles305
      @Nameles305 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@tpb1006Possibly 😂🤣
      If want PAECE of mind 😃

    • @kamlesh_kumar707
      @kamlesh_kumar707 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Just like you I also used to see that show but because kiddish nature I am not able implement such knowledge. But now I want control of myself. That's why I m here

    • @Randomyetchaotic
      @Randomyetchaotic 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@kamlesh_kumar707Good luck to you mam. May you succeed.. Om namah shivay
      ☺️🙏

  • @jayageetharoy4127
    @jayageetharoy4127 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    Shivanididi you make us realize how simple life should actually be....but how complicated we ignorant souls have made it! Thank you for your presence in this world! We arw blessed. Om Shanti🙏

  • @papaya6191
    @papaya6191 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I have already watched thousands of videos about emotional intelligence and independency but still have unclear thoughts. And I'm a person who gets irritated and sad easily by people's actions especially people I love. Because of you madam, feels like I think i can also control my mind. Because I am the one who makes me feel sad, angry and depressed, not them. So, I accept that fact and create my power to be stronger and more mature. Thank you so much Madam. Your video saves me and a lot of people.

  • @JunaidKhan-xd7ti
    @JunaidKhan-xd7ti 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    She is very clear and so sorted ....respect you sister ...

  • @healthymotive3651
    @healthymotive3651 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I m just looking her face amazing glowing skin without makeup.... It's all about super natural power..... She is really pure soul.........

  • @mousumibhattacharjee4461
    @mousumibhattacharjee4461 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Good morning Sister Om Shanti stay healthy your teachings make me peaceful soul ❤

  • @chitragodar4367
    @chitragodar4367 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    OM SHANTI BK SHIVANI SISTER 🙏🌹

  • @udayamudari3888
    @udayamudari3888 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Wonderful, inspirational and life changing
    🙏

  • @AnshuSahu-jeeaspirant
    @AnshuSahu-jeeaspirant 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you Shivani di i am dependent on myself i dont need anyone . I protect myself , my future is so bright , God is always with me , i am strong and powerful , loveful . I love myself , i take care myself , My thought my choice my destiny thank you ❤❤❤

  • @tellsudha
    @tellsudha 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Emotional independence & protection from other’s drama is the key to our own peace.. 💜🙏🌹

  • @fatimak6440
    @fatimak6440 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I love the perfect example she used on traffic, it was the best use of the talk and she even suggested how to use your mind to reduce that one irritation. it was wonderful homework. we've all watched hundred of TH-cam videos about inner engineering but I think when you can immediately use a take home example like this one, you can actually start implementing the talk LITERALLY on that same day..

  • @SU9Pakistan
    @SU9Pakistan 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    What a peace in her voice and satisfaction..❤️

  • @shilpanandy8704
    @shilpanandy8704 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Om Shanti didi🙏🏻
    I am a powerful being
    I am a peaceful soul
    I am calm and stable always
    I am always happy
    Thank you thank you thank you Universe

  • @guriya.....7870
    @guriya.....7870 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Om shanti thanku shivani dii ,now i don't depend emotionally anyone... I am strong 😊

  • @gregmcqueen4540
    @gregmcqueen4540 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You are a very enlightened individual! Thanks for your lecture, it’s very valuable to everyone in every society!
    You’re doing much better than any government I’ve seen lately!
    Everything is of mind!

  • @dikshajadhav1122
    @dikshajadhav1122 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I find it randomly because I need this Thank you Universe Thank You Angels 🙏🌼✨ for this love you Hare Krishna 🌼🙏

  • @kadrimustafa8383
    @kadrimustafa8383 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Om Shanti My Sweet Sister Didi 👑 Sukriya BABA 👑 thank you very much for Energy today 👑

  • @yashkapadiya5414
    @yashkapadiya5414 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Thank you sister for guiding us on our daily problems
    Thank you so much for bringing this real and relatable topic in everyone's life.

  • @jhumachattopadhyay6707
    @jhumachattopadhyay6707 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    सबका जो सपना हैं ..
    मेरा वो अपना हैं..
    प्यारा वो कितना हैं...
    मुश्किल हैं बताना...
    उस रब का शुक्राना..
    उस रब का शुक्राना...
    ओम् शान्ति बाबा..
    ओम् शान्ति दीदी ॥

  • @krishnaenterprises8218
    @krishnaenterprises8218 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OM SHANTHI AND HAPPY MORNING DIDI...

  • @ainabrunetginard873
    @ainabrunetginard873 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Om shanti, Sister Shivani ❤️❤️❤️. Always, with love and Gratitude…..
    Thank you, thank you, thank you… ❤️🙏❤️🙌😇😘🌼🌺🌼💐☘️🌎

  • @tapalabdhasen8431
    @tapalabdhasen8431 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Your words give me so much inner peace, I can't express in words... Thank you ❤

  • @laxmipatel6653
    @laxmipatel6653 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Feel blessed to hear ur such powerful words 😇

  • @lavkushgoswami1020
    @lavkushgoswami1020 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Didi you have magical voice.... whenever I Heard you i forget all stress, anxiety and almost all the distraction...om shanti Didi ...

    • @bhanupriya162
      @bhanupriya162 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes I was searching the word
      Magical soothing voice
      🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @perpetuakanyutu2610
    @perpetuakanyutu2610 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Om Shanti.. shukriya Didi..

  • @Itsme__265
    @Itsme__265 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Shivani didi is Divine.🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @mudasirarif1678
    @mudasirarif1678 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    very soft spoken like flaws of river .

  • @subhadrabanerjee1820
    @subhadrabanerjee1820 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Om Shanti sis ji 🙏 Gratitude

  • @manasimotgi5483
    @manasimotgi5483 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Om Shanti Shivani didi 🙏

  • @ZakirShobuj
    @ZakirShobuj ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Definitely this speech will ease my day..my life

  • @bhanuparameswaran
    @bhanuparameswaran 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Shivani di's voice & words are so intense it penetrates throughout the body holistically.Thank you for your unconditional love🙏🙏

  • @Readrevolutionhub
    @Readrevolutionhub 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I am feeling blessed today because of this video 😇, thank you so much

  • @lakshmimeda7732
    @lakshmimeda7732 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Simply superb no words. Will follow from today

  • @user-zd2ti2wz2b
    @user-zd2ti2wz2b 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Now we are ready to give peace and happiness to those who are lacking 😊

  • @manikandanm3876
    @manikandanm3876 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I am listening to this video every morning. Simple to follow yet very influential 🙏

  • @kavyabhaktinayak2936
    @kavyabhaktinayak2936 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Om Shanti 🙏❤❤

  • @riyashahivishen2238
    @riyashahivishen2238 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Om shanti Om shanti 🙏

  • @Psychewithoutsoul
    @Psychewithoutsoul 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Your words make me feel ,yes,I can...
    Even though, I have failed in life situations thousand times, but,You help me to gain confidence in myself...
    I can,I can,I can.

  • @anshu-sahu-18
    @anshu-sahu-18 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Om shanti 🙏😊

  • @user-zi8dl3mp2f
    @user-zi8dl3mp2f 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am speachless ,Gods way of making us understand .

  • @BadalKaushal-yx7kg
    @BadalKaushal-yx7kg 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Absolutely amazing talk 💯

  • @nilimamallick129
    @nilimamallick129 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Om Shanti 🙏🙏

  • @sanchalishaw5412
    @sanchalishaw5412 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you so much Ma'am.
    Your words works like medicine to stable my uncertainty and insecurity.

  • @navikadahiya7670
    @navikadahiya7670 ปีที่แล้ว

    Om shanti didi 💐 thankyou 😊

  • @meenaxibhadauria422
    @meenaxibhadauria422 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Om Shanti Didi 🙏🏻 suprabhat 🌹

  • @shubhadajha3416
    @shubhadajha3416 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you sister Shivani .

  • @preityjaiswal8582
    @preityjaiswal8582 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Om Shanti 🙏♥️

  • @prashantpillai9508
    @prashantpillai9508 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    🙏🏻🌹🌹OM SHANTI 🌹🌹🙏🏻

  • @jchristy8384
    @jchristy8384 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Thank Universe because today The universe allowed me to hear worthy speech. I have always wasted my power while I was driving. Best Quotes I received that you mentioned to pray for them ❤.

  • @yetridey8220
    @yetridey8220 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Much needed session for me ❤️

  • @manishasharma7018
    @manishasharma7018 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you. Om Shanti

  • @kiranmaheshwary0045
    @kiranmaheshwary0045 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lovely.. you gave me peace of mind

  • @gaurikatti4362
    @gaurikatti4362 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Today i was needed those thoughts.thanku madam

  • @premavallipuram4922
    @premavallipuram4922 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m Shanti Sister. You will never know how much this helps me.

  • @hansiagarwal4750
    @hansiagarwal4750 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Om shanti🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @shree4641
    @shree4641 ปีที่แล้ว

    Om Shanti…🙏🏻

  • @mehbubaparvin6869
    @mehbubaparvin6869 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    "From being a victim in the world to becoming a master of your life master of your mind"😌✨

  • @rajpsms
    @rajpsms ปีที่แล้ว

    wow, how nice how right ..i never listened to her before. But i love every word she said

  • @Vibi-cy9xf
    @Vibi-cy9xf 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks with Gratitude Sister, brings me tears, right time watched....God Bless

  • @CuriouslyBrave7
    @CuriouslyBrave7 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is the second podcast I’m listening to, I’m glad your video crossed my path: You’re an amazing speaker, thank you for your knowledge. ❤

  • @tushalnirasoi
    @tushalnirasoi ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I always feel blessed watching Shivani Didi's lectures.

    • @raheraast6556
      @raheraast6556 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes u right i also fel like

    • @bkgirish4155
      @bkgirish4155 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good

    • @rojamardamootoo6871
      @rojamardamootoo6871 ปีที่แล้ว

      So true, i feel same....god on earth to teach us

    • @user-uh5pd2ex5k
      @user-uh5pd2ex5k 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Love is dependent, it cannot be independent. If you are blessed to listen to her, then at least question a little to understand the reality or define better. People are just falling prey to non sense.

    • @suzannebryan1194
      @suzannebryan1194 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Always feel much calmer, feel empowered as she says.

  • @jasminejoseph8715
    @jasminejoseph8715 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bless you...
    God blezz

  • @poornimaswamy2376
    @poornimaswamy2376 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved the way you said. I felt you are saying all these to me only. ❤❤

  • @dhwi
    @dhwi 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    grateful for this🙏🏻

  • @ashok1776
    @ashok1776 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Simply superb msg.... Thank you sister.

  • @shilpadube9522
    @shilpadube9522 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Everything Sister Shivani speaks is gospel truth ❤

  • @TalesandTales
    @TalesandTales ปีที่แล้ว

    I literally needs to hear it

  • @NituKumari-le6hb
    @NituKumari-le6hb ปีที่แล้ว

    Om shanti 🙏❤

  • @nityadevi5141
    @nityadevi5141 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you sister for guiding us

  • @devikakharga5873
    @devikakharga5873 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Om Shanti 🙏🙏❤😇

  • @nadyakhuwaja6842
    @nadyakhuwaja6842 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Very well said👏🏼

  • @jalajamenon8664
    @jalajamenon8664 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you very much Sister🙏🙏🙏

  • @iyouweubuntu
    @iyouweubuntu 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Didi....
    Ultimate solution for everything....🙏🙏🙏

  • @ukgukg9524
    @ukgukg9524 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Beautifully said 🙏 om shanti

  • @roshniludhyani5631
    @roshniludhyani5631 ปีที่แล้ว

    Om shanti🙏

  • @Mischa337
    @Mischa337 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Youre the best ❤ just what I needed to hear! Thank you 😊

  • @deekshagupta953
    @deekshagupta953 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thnku so much Didi for guiding us...

  • @g51661
    @g51661 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Please keep revising these things everyday 😊❤

  • @user-be_authentic85
    @user-be_authentic85 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you sister Shivani

  • @foreverwithparamita
    @foreverwithparamita ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Emotional independence is the key to a happy life .

    • @user-uh5pd2ex5k
      @user-uh5pd2ex5k 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Its wrong. When you try to be emotionally independent, you are just turning off your emotions which is bad. If you want to be emotionally independent, then there is no love.

    • @AbCd-ne1ck
      @AbCd-ne1ck 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@user-uh5pd2ex5kif it only hurts and betrays in the name of love then you must say Bye.

    • @user-uh5pd2ex5k
      @user-uh5pd2ex5k 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@AbCd-ne1ck you are right. The point here is emotionally "Independent" is wrong because you are losing the fundamental "Love".. without love, one is as good as dead

    • @sweetyvlogs4394
      @sweetyvlogs4394 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      True

    • @skincarerainbow4950
      @skincarerainbow4950 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Absolutely

  • @shiwaliverma8942
    @shiwaliverma8942 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Om shanti

  • @kimberlydeeney5652
    @kimberlydeeney5652 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Om Shanti

  • @nisrin653
    @nisrin653 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you so much ❤

  • @Sayantan_Official_
    @Sayantan_Official_ ปีที่แล้ว

    My guide for a healthy mindset.

  • @AmitSingh-oy7gq
    @AmitSingh-oy7gq 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It is much needed.. Thankyou ❤

  • @ratheeshr3772
    @ratheeshr3772 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Om shanti ❤

  • @neeleshwarneeleshwark298
    @neeleshwarneeleshwark298 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for your help with this matter

  • @jyotijena8023
    @jyotijena8023 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Om shanti didi❤

  • @sairashubaily4147
    @sairashubaily4147 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice video. Thanku

  • @priyyyyyaaaaaaa7304
    @priyyyyyaaaaaaa7304 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Just going through a lot at this point of time, but atleast now i know that i was the only reason behind all my sorrows and " I" am the only one who can reduce this.... Can't thank you enough for making it so simple🌸 More power to you ma'am.

  • @farahnaz8885
    @farahnaz8885 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Om shanti didi 🙏💖😊
    Shivani didi you make life so easy and special…. When I listen to you I feel so happy and good 😌

  • @meerarathod270
    @meerarathod270 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks Shivani mam❤

  • @preethysatheesh685
    @preethysatheesh685 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much Sivaniji❤

  • @shaifaligupta8597
    @shaifaligupta8597 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Good morning dii 😊😊
    Om shanti dii❤❤
    Aapki voice itni peaceful h jise sunke man ek dam shant ho jata h☺️☺️tq so much dii

    • @tamimsultana
      @tamimsultana ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Shivani didi you are my inspiration ❤god bless you

  • @m.r.anuradharamaprasad5720
    @m.r.anuradharamaprasad5720 ปีที่แล้ว

    Om Shanthi.