I used them as a stepping stone to Get more relaxed and confident around women. The false sense of abundance and confidence you Get from it allmost automatically made me able to Get girls
I’m struggling to stop hiring escorts at this moment as well. I’m 32, live with family, in debt, and also don’t feel attractive. I was arrested twice for this and was labeled a “sex trafficker” both times on the local news. This obviously cost me my job and has made dating even more difficult because I don’t know how a woman will love me after two such incidents. Quitting escorts is not easy because I crave that love. I don’t believe that I’ll ever find a satisfying partner…
You are quite an inspiration, young man. And wow - you come across as VERY real. Lots of similarities to me my friend (apart from the fighting/boxing part as I am too much of a wuss). I have only watched this particular video of yours thus far but I can tell you that you are a very good speaker and there is a passion inside of you to help other people. This is very evident. Thank you for your upload and may God bless you for your efforts. I shall be having a look at your other efforts too buddy ;)
Courageous video....congratulations!!!!!!!!!! I went back to finish my studies at age 45 because my panic attacks lead to me missing one third of my education. I too had major problems and was hooked on Xanax and visiting prostitues....so what you say in this video really resonates with me. You are putting out a great vibe in this video and we can feel your self confidence.
I feel you 100% I realize it’s my anxiety that makes me “scared” to go up to a girl and talk. I’m really sociable though. I get along with everyone. But as soon as I talk to a woman, I get comfortable and talk about anything. Sometimes they end up liking me but I’m scared ima mess it up. Thats what I don’t like about my self. I been in 2 serious relationships in my 27 years of my life. Both of my relationships messed me up mentally. Which is why I ended up sleeping with hookers. I only slept with one hooker in the states but went to Colombia DR & Mexico to get cheap 🐱 Do I regret it? Not really. The woman are very respectful beautiful and knows how to please a man. The only con about this is it doesn’t prove game. If I continue this life style ima end up single for the rest of my life. By the way I’m Hispanic so I speak fluent English & Spanish. Born and raised in NY
Hugely Inspiring my brother, i have quit that habit for nearly a year now, the urges pop up from time to time and like everyone i get weak, I cant talk to girls because of my insecurity, I dont like getting rejected so I just dont bother, I am only confident when drunk and it pains me to say that I cant talk to girls sober
I can relate a lot to this. Depression, anxiety, and eventually psychosis came from many years of me being worn down. I have autism, which made me a target, and so I became distrustful and hostile. I started seeing prostitues, but it has to stop now. It's just making it all worse.
Im a 40 year-old virgin 😢😢😢 rarely hugged. 😢😢😢 i got my life in order but cant get a date, let alone a gf. The closest source of affection in my life is corn stars. 😢😢😢
I stopped seeing escorts around the age of 23 completely, I am now 35. The only reason I used to see them was because I smoked a lot of weed and it lowered my standards. I know what it’s like to have that addiction, it’s waste. RIP.
I'm confused. I've looked at your videos before and you said you visited one prostitute and paid $ 80 and felt you were raped. How could get addicted to that if you had an initially bad experience? You said you developed confidence after seeing prostitutes? Did that help you? Maybe it's just a low-level, and when you go to a higher level it just dropps off. I'm scared of them, but you are saying you are not afraid and had an addiction?
I'm addicted to this and one thing I'm dealing with is isolation it got so bad to the point where boredom became my new disease the pandemic made it worse not only that I have one question how did you resist the temptation aspect in 23 years old and want help my family knows and I just got arrested for solicitation what's even more scary is when you get urges that start to control your mind and what you think and feel how did you overcome this please respond
Talk to God brother. Try to make new friends by going to college, joining a young adults church group, going to the gym, keep yourself occupied with new hobbies. God will get you through this. Look up prayers against lust and fight it.
Excellent video Jonathan I cant relate to a lot of what you are saying here. I was badly picked on at school and I used to see prostitutes on a regular basis. Kept on getting rejected by so many women over online dating sites.
Same here. I’m not physically attractive at 5’6 half Filipino and Hispanic for women to even take notice. So I said fuk it I’ll just get escorts. It wouldn’t be so bad if I were tall white good looking with masculine features. Then I could attract women and wouldn’t need to see escorts.
The world lost a good, earnest and big-hearted man. A tremendous loss.
RIP Johnny.
This is so deep, You were too scared to go uni through anxiety so you missed out, exactly the same as me. I understand
Missed out on what 🤷exactly smh there is life with or without university.
I used them as a stepping stone to Get more relaxed and confident around women. The false sense of abundance and confidence you Get from it allmost automatically made me able to Get girls
I’m struggling to stop hiring escorts at this moment as well. I’m 32, live with family, in debt, and also don’t feel attractive. I was arrested twice for this and was labeled a “sex trafficker” both times on the local news. This obviously cost me my job and has made dating even more difficult because I don’t know how a woman will love me after two such incidents. Quitting escorts is not easy because I crave that love. I don’t believe that I’ll ever find a satisfying partner…
You are quite an inspiration, young man. And wow - you come across as VERY real. Lots of similarities to me my friend (apart from the fighting/boxing part as I am too much of a wuss). I have only watched this particular video of yours thus far but I can tell you that you are a very good speaker and there is a passion inside of you to help other people. This is very evident. Thank you for your upload and may God bless you for your efforts. I shall be having a look at your other efforts too buddy ;)
Thank you for this video, really inspirational as its a problem ive struggled with.
Anyone can pull off 1 rags to riches story but to do that twice is rare. I think you're doing it!
Courageous video....congratulations!!!!!!!!!! I went back to finish my studies at age 45 because my panic attacks lead to me missing one third of my education. I too had major problems and was hooked on Xanax and visiting prostitues....so what you say in this video really resonates with me. You are putting out a great vibe in this video and we can feel your self confidence.
I feel you 100%
I realize it’s my anxiety that makes me “scared” to go up to a girl and talk. I’m really sociable though. I get along with everyone. But as soon as I talk to a woman, I get comfortable and talk about anything. Sometimes they end up liking me but I’m scared ima mess it up. Thats what I don’t like about my self. I been in 2 serious relationships in my 27 years of my life. Both of my relationships messed me up mentally. Which is why I ended up sleeping with hookers. I only slept with one hooker in the states but went to Colombia DR & Mexico to get cheap 🐱
Do I regret it? Not really. The woman are very respectful beautiful and knows how to please a man. The only con about this is it doesn’t prove game. If I continue this life style ima end up single for the rest of my life. By the way I’m Hispanic so I speak fluent English & Spanish. Born and raised in NY
Unsolved trauma and bad experiences create a shit ton of anxiety
I’ve not even finished the video but this is monumental
Rip man. Life is tough rest easy
Johnny, OUTSTANDING. Thank you for sharing.
Hugely Inspiring my brother, i have quit that habit for nearly a year now, the urges pop up from time to time and like everyone i get weak, I cant talk to girls because of my insecurity, I dont like getting rejected so I just dont bother, I am only confident when drunk and it pains me to say that I cant talk to girls sober
Thank you so much for sharing this.
Thankyou for sharing your story.
Good man Johnny! One day at a time 💪🏻
Just Wow! You've come a long way. Love it.
I am grateful for the time we shared Jerome, always great full for your support .
Awesome video thanks i needed that
Huge gap in the coaching market for this. We need to help the men.
I can relate a lot to this. Depression, anxiety, and eventually psychosis came from many years of me being worn down. I have autism, which made me a target, and so I became distrustful and hostile. I started seeing prostitues, but it has to stop now. It's just making it all worse.
I have been through all this great vid i can really relate.
thats big of u to admi t johnny but I think most people wouldn't give a crap social anxiety just amplifies it
Im a 40 year-old virgin 😢😢😢 rarely hugged. 😢😢😢 i got my life in order but cant get a date, let alone a gf. The closest source of affection in my life is corn stars. 😢😢😢
I stopped seeing escorts around the age of 23 completely, I am now 35. The only reason I used to see them was because I smoked a lot of weed and it lowered my standards. I know what it’s like to have that addiction, it’s waste. RIP.
thank you for this video very inspiring mate
INCREDIBLE! BLESS GOD!
Good video man, keep strong 👍
god bless you bro!
Thank you. Thank you so much
I'm confused. I've looked at your videos before and you said you visited one prostitute and paid $ 80 and felt you were raped. How could get addicted to that if you had an initially bad experience? You said you developed confidence after seeing prostitutes? Did that help you? Maybe it's just a low-level, and when you go to a higher level it just dropps off. I'm scared of them, but you are saying you are not afraid and had an addiction?
It happens. It happened to me.
It’s very similar to doing hard drugs. It feels amazing during the act but the aftermath is fycking brutal
@@basedabdu8653 The aftermath?? You have sex with them and u go home. What’s so difficult about that?
RIP
me too son
Nothing wrong with visiting escorts
I'm addicted to this and one thing I'm dealing with is isolation it got so bad to the point where boredom became my new disease the pandemic made it worse not only that I have one question how did you resist the temptation aspect in 23 years old and want help my family knows and I just got arrested for solicitation what's even more scary is when you get urges that start to control your mind and what you think and feel how did you overcome this please respond
Talk to God brother. Try to make new friends by going to college, joining a young adults church group, going to the gym, keep yourself occupied with new hobbies. God will get you through this. Look up prayers against lust and fight it.
What is bro yappin about
🤝👌
Excellent video Jonathan I cant relate to a lot of what you are saying here. I was badly picked on at school and I used to see prostitutes on a regular basis. Kept on getting rejected by so many women over online dating sites.
Same here. I’m not physically attractive at 5’6 half Filipino and Hispanic for women to even take notice. So I said fuk it I’ll just get escorts. It wouldn’t be so bad if I were tall white good looking with masculine features. Then I could attract women and wouldn’t need to see escorts.